this is reality.. Many people are disagreeing with her. Maybe because their parents love them unconditionally.. But talking about my experience, yes! Parents in my family ask for reward or whatever you call it. As soon as you tell them something that you like, you are on the track to be disowned and left all alone. believe me, I have been into depression because I refused to marry a certain guy and my parents almost disowned me. there are alot of us suffering from this venomous reality. Not everyone can understand though. :)
Brown Parent love their kids unconditionally upon one condition that they should follow their instructions only...and I think Juile should do a separate program for the delima of ladies for marriage prospective...our society is turning into hell for the girls/ladies/women who are single, never married, divorced or widow.
I agree with Julie As soon as I became a mother i started to realise that I am just a caretaker(not maalik) of my baby, i am responsible for her tarbiyah and rest is with Allah. All her achievements as wrlls as choices are going to be her's and only her's My reward is with Allah not her. We as a new generation should think on these type of lines so that we may not become *selfish*.
Julie is the person who changed my mindset U can't believe how eagerly i wait for her episodes... I jus want to meet such a great personality at any cost. But unfortunately i don't know how 😔 Love from Indian Occupied Kashmir ♥️
This is wat I told my parents once when they ask me about having kids....... n since that day I am the most hatred member of my family .....sometimes it’s hard to make your own parents understand.....
I belong to a middle class family have two siblings both brothers both are abroad but the elder one is still responsible for our extra curricular so called ayashian and ironically he works in middle east ... So thanks Julie for opening my eyes .
In one of the old episodes I was amazed to learn tht she never got taalim ( education) she studied people more and got al tht knowledge. But it's amazing to see when she talks assets liabilities and so many terms which a well educated person also can't explain properly...her experience in life is very huge and when she talks continue having a stong opinions and view ;makes me feel proud of her. You are great and thanks for sharing all those views ...naked truth is a perfect title for this .keep doing good work Julie... God bless u ...
I love to hear that someone spoke about it.. Me and my Siblings have suffered and still suffering from this mindset that elders sibling have to provide for younger Siblings.. My dada and dadi have done irreversible damage to us they manipulated my father and their other elder sons to take care of the expenses of their younger sister and brother while they were keep giving birth to new babies.. My father was back then still a kid yet he worked very hard to get some money to give to her mother(my dadi) not to forget she is keep getting pregnant and giving birth to new children.. My father studied whole night and working in morning till night.. My father gave all his earning in making jehez and marrying off her sisters because of that he can't get married in right age yet he don't have any money left for his wife and children.. We are suffering.. If my dada dadi had done insaaf to their elder sons and make less babies to which they can take care of them by themselves.. We don't have to work like crazy we can have higher education like others.. I will question them in akhirat In sha Allah
She is actually cent percent right.... "Liabilities stuff , elder sibling in middle class, Mother in law" these are the harshest realities of our societies
Julie have accurately exposed our Pakistani extremist society. It's just sad we youth are not allowed to choose our own future. If we do then we are considered a failure. We as nation need to wake up and get ourselves out of this greedy mess. I don't understand why society not even to raise decent human beings and always be obsessive of marriages. The parents don't even bother to address certain private sensitive matters with children.
ghar walay toh hain hi esai par rishdtedaron kai tanay bhi kahtam nahi hote aur hamaray yahan toh esai aurtain gibat karti hain ki pata nahi kahan kahan pohach jati hai baataina ur log tanai marne lagte hain
@@Threading_Along faults comes from people's character but not country and especially religion. Religions has always aimed to spread peace and discipline. If people starts to nitpick points from their own religious context to prove their viewpoints, then it's not the fault of religion. It only shows the thinking of an individual person who is using it for their own agenda. Kindly try to differentiate them.
I am a girl(now 28yrs old) from India and my case is the opposite, my parents never asked me for anything,never excepted anything from me but I go out of my way to do the best for them and give them the best that I can.They are so happy with me and so proud of me.They never wanted me to become a doctor, engineer this or that,they always said do what u want to do and I did.I am so lucky and blessed to have them both as my parents but my husband's case is exactly what Julie is saying,his parents made him dropout of school at such a young age and he is earing since he was 13yrs old.Till date he is paying his siblings bills who are married already and if he wants to convey to his mom that he has a life of his own now then he gets to hear all the crap k mere dood ka hisab Maine paida Kia humne kaise pala and blah blah.The truth is they dint raise him well and never provided anything to him.He is a person who required no investment and gave full returns
It feels like she was silent for whole life and then she decided no more silence ❤ when ever i listen to her i got tears in my eyes i love her heart such a beautiful heart she have.... Lots of love❤
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. Don't stop this series. Isko expand karain. This is very crucial for coming generations aur yeh wisdom ab bohat kam logon ke paas hai. Isko rokna mat!
Most pakistani serials that I watch revolves around the idea of marriage and a desire to get rich.Julie is so wise and narrates the issues so well.She presents the age old thinking of the asian society with regards to daughters ,importance of son, jobs,artificiality in the society, old age dependancy and necessary govt.role to take etc so well.She presents the naked truth of the society. Great thinkers like Julie will make this world a better place. Amazing ! hats off to you.
I love the insight Julie has on the issues and the way she quotes references and facts. Thank you Julie! Please keep posting more of her thoughts and discussions. Much needed to hear!
Finally a very important topic, actually at the base of many ongoing problems. Also good to hear some solutions in the end. Though one more episode is requested on solutions to this problem
Very thoughtful person julie is. How did she showed us very basic things to live life, what we are inside. I think TCM team make these type more series. We ll like to appericiate ur efforts and Julie's too..
@Amandeep Wahi Desh kharab nahi hota log usko kharab kartay hain chahay woh India ke ho ya Pakistan ke aur ya kaheen aur ke. The only way things will get better when we start educating ourselves. I grew up in the US not Pakistan okay. I know the difference between western and eastern culture.
This is our true face. We are all mean at one level or the other. You are exposing us to our cores. Allah bless you. Please don't stop this series. It is both soothing and mind awakening at the same time.
Ma sha ALLAH another informative and inspirational vdo... julie ko MNA post pr hona chahye....ta k yh Public ki behtri k lye best level k kam kr sakein.... julie ka b complete interview dein plz...enki education etc... Ma sha ALLAH she is so nice... Ma shoq sy sunti hu enki bty Aur koshish b krti hn khud pr implement krny ki...enki ankhon ma bht pain nzr ata ha...
How many lives this person has lived. I am stunned. What has she been through! How is she connecting to everyone at every level. And she is only had studies till standard 10. I am shocked. God bless her.
I was so waiting for the season 2 and here that is.... Every word is 100% on the point.... she does inspire me alot because sometimes my loop of life breaks down but her word give me a hope to face the world........ God bless you Julia i have a huge respect for you in my heart.... 😍🕊
This will surely give goosebumps to a sage. Orthodox Islam has been substituted for peaceful Islam. All what she is uttering is the product of a capitalist mindset. Everything we do is to 'keep up the appearences'. Our societal superstructure is surely standing on economic foundation. It's not restricted to parents only, monetary benefit has become the centre for every activity we pursue whether that is parenting, motivating, guiding, caring etc everything is working on 'trade-off' policy. Paradigm shift is what we need at grassroot levels.
Thank you so much Julie you helped me to educate my parents and some Uncle, aunties I do totally agree with this you are doing such a great job really love your mind sets, you are mind changer More power to you 🧡
Thank you Julie for talking on this topic. I’m very impressed on your thought process yet very sorry that you too had to go through all this to be so fond of it. Had literal tears throughout this video, could relate to this bitter reality on a different level. Hope things get better for everyone and God help us becoming better parents so that we can end this chain of toxicity. More power to you. ♥️
I agree.. 80% of parents are same as you are saying because we consider everything which is associated woth us as our property whether it's a human being but we snatch the right of a living being n want to steer it towards the fulfilment of our desires.
It's hard to understand how she has all the spot on experience about the problems of every gender. She's got some big experience about the hardships in our society. Hats off to Julie!
How many of you agree with Julie’s thoughts on parenting in Pakistan?
Spot on!
Agree
I agree with her but there are exceptions.not every parent is like that and I want to say that keep up the good work julie
U are the best
I agree ...
Agree
Why julies talk so technical because she faced all the things in this society. A brave girl more power for you.
this is reality.. Many people are disagreeing with her. Maybe because their parents love them unconditionally.. But talking about my experience, yes! Parents in my family ask for reward or whatever you call it. As soon as you tell them something that you like, you are on the track to be disowned and left all alone. believe me, I have been into depression because I refused to marry a certain guy and my parents almost disowned me. there are alot of us suffering from this venomous reality. Not everyone can understand though. :)
True
no one loves unconditionally here even not parents. we just dont agree with this fact. only Allah loves unconditionally...
@@iqra07ify Allah does not love unconditionally either. Be obedient to Allah. Allah will love you. Disbeliever will be in Hell
I agreed with her
Brown Parent love their kids unconditionally upon one condition that they should follow their instructions only...and I think Juile should do a separate program for the delima of ladies for marriage prospective...our society is turning into hell for the girls/ladies/women who are single, never married, divorced or widow.
Khwajasira society is full of wise and intelligent people ❤️
اللہ تعالی ان کی مدد کرتا ہے جو دوسروں کی مدد کرتے ہیں
Please visit my channel and support me
@@hasrateyaar7834 because wo rang rang ki dunya dekhte hyn jis se inka vision broad hojata hai
@@tiktokcreation5514 u right
These people have seen life much closer and clearer...
Yeah cuz they have experienced more than a common person. They faced more difficulties and hardle in their life.
I am crying right now, because what she is saying is what I am going through
Things will get better.
Hope must never die
Same
Condom company in Pakistan are in loss...
Same here 😥
Same here bro, I pray you'll end up happy!
I agree with Julie
As soon as I became a mother i started to realise that I am just a caretaker(not maalik) of my baby, i am responsible for her tarbiyah and rest is with Allah.
All her achievements as wrlls as choices are going to be her's and only her's
My reward is with Allah not her.
We as a new generation should think on these type of lines so that we may not become *selfish*.
This angle of parenting is never discussed ... baat to sach hai magar hai ruswai ki 😞
Is Julie financially stable? I hope you guys are taking care of her. Let us know if we can contribute
This is exactly what I thought after watching this video. Hopefully, she's doing well!
Julie is the person who changed my mindset
U can't believe how eagerly i wait for her episodes... I jus want to meet such a great personality at any cost.
But unfortunately i don't know how 😔
Love from Indian Occupied Kashmir ♥️
Me neither, I would love to meet her and be in her company 😔
@@Threading_Along for that We need to go pakistan 😊
abhey dhakkan aap kashmiree ho nhi aap india maen kahin kissi chaklay maen pistey ho..
This is wat I told my parents once when they ask me about having kids.......
n since that day I am the most hatred member of my family .....sometimes it’s hard to make your own parents understand.....
She is an epitome of insights and intellect. I truly appreciate her existence!
I belong to a middle class family have two siblings both brothers both are abroad but the elder one is still responsible for our extra curricular so called ayashian and ironically he works in middle east ... So thanks Julie for opening my eyes .
haen are you deaf before while your parents were advising you ..
In one of the old episodes I was amazed to learn tht she never got taalim ( education) she studied people more and got al tht knowledge. But it's amazing to see when she talks assets liabilities and so many terms which a well educated person also can't explain properly...her experience in life is very huge and when she talks continue having a stong opinions and view ;makes me feel proud of her. You are great and thanks for sharing all those views ...naked truth is a perfect title for this .keep doing good work Julie... God bless u ...
Just imagine the day when she becomes the prime minister of pakistan . Just imagine......
اللہ تعالی ان کی مدد کرتا ہے جو دوسروں کی مدد کرتے ہیں
Please visit my channel and support me
She’s never gonna be our PM
Such main she deserve PM seat
Progress of a country is a collective effort, or else imran khan would've made pakistan heaven with in 2 years .....
@@bd-456 I never mentioned that imran khan is not a good pm 🙂
When she said chai pilaado Yaar😭😭😭😭😭😭 u have a gem their plz tc of her🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Agreed
Exactly 😢😢😢💔💔
اللہ تعالی ان کی مدد کرتا ہے جو دوسروں کی مدد کرتے ہیں
Please visit my channel and support me
I love to hear that someone spoke about it.. Me and my Siblings have suffered and still suffering from this mindset that elders sibling have to provide for younger Siblings..
My dada and dadi have done irreversible damage to us they manipulated my father and their other elder sons to take care of the expenses of their younger sister and brother while they were keep giving birth to new babies.. My father was back then still a kid yet he worked very hard to get some money to give to her mother(my dadi) not to forget she is keep getting pregnant and giving birth to new children.. My father studied whole night and working in morning till night..
My father gave all his earning in making jehez and marrying off her sisters because of that he can't get married in right age yet he don't have any money left for his wife and children..
We are suffering..
If my dada dadi had done insaaf to their elder sons and make less babies to which they can take care of them by themselves..
We don't have to work like crazy we can have higher education like others..
I will question them in akhirat In sha Allah
She is actually cent percent right.... "Liabilities stuff , elder sibling in middle class, Mother in law" these are the harshest realities of our societies
Thank you Julie. Thank you for bringing us back to facts.
Julie have accurately exposed our Pakistani extremist society. It's just sad we youth are not allowed to choose our own future. If we do then we are considered a failure. We as nation need to wake up and get ourselves out of this greedy mess. I don't understand why society not even to raise decent human beings and always be obsessive of marriages. The parents don't even bother to address certain private sensitive matters with children.
ghar walay toh hain hi esai par rishdtedaron kai tanay bhi kahtam nahi hote aur hamaray yahan toh esai aurtain gibat karti hain ki pata nahi kahan kahan pohach jati hai baataina ur log tanai marne lagte hain
@@wish1333 true tho
so true.
Not only Pakistani, in most religions and cultures it is like this.
@@Threading_Along faults comes from people's character but not country and especially religion. Religions has always aimed to spread peace and discipline. If people starts to nitpick points from their own religious context to prove their viewpoints, then it's not the fault of religion. It only shows the thinking of an individual person who is using it for their own agenda. Kindly try to differentiate them.
You are the asset of Pakistan , we need such type of people like Julie who genuinely play part in nation building
This is reality . Child facing many mental pressure and if child has no job aur no any income source then childrens are facing insults everyday.
"Ironically, Most of the parents only know وبالوالدین احسانا from the whole Quran!!! "
-Nouman ali khan
Tough tomarrow is my viva exams,,, but when I saw the notification of your vedio me to myself let's fresh my mind by hearing your golden words....
🌹❤😘
Same ☺️
Best of luck for your viva ❤️
@@yourgirlmia627 thanks but I have my urdu exam😅 thanks ☺️
Best of luck
@@yourgirlmia627 💞
I am a girl(now 28yrs old) from India and my case is the opposite, my parents never asked me for anything,never excepted anything from me but I go out of my way to do the best for them and give them the best that I can.They are so happy with me and so proud of me.They never wanted me to become a doctor, engineer this or that,they always said do what u want to do and I did.I am so lucky and blessed to have them both as my parents but my husband's case is exactly what Julie is saying,his parents made him dropout of school at such a young age and he is earing since he was 13yrs old.Till date he is paying his siblings bills who are married already and if he wants to convey to his mom that he has a life of his own now then he gets to hear all the crap k mere dood ka hisab Maine paida Kia humne kaise pala and blah blah.The truth is they dint raise him well and never provided anything to him.He is a person who required no investment and gave full returns
@sadaf wessels what not so?I dint get what u mean....
Such a sad situation for ur husband.
Boys r treated diff in our culture india Pakistan than girls .
I am happy that your parent's never forced their greed on you but it's such a sad thing for your husband :(
I hope things can get better for him.
It feels like she was silent for whole life and then she decided no more silence ❤ when ever i listen to her i got tears in my eyes i love her heart such a beautiful heart she have.... Lots of love❤
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. Don't stop this series. Isko expand karain. This is very crucial for coming generations aur yeh wisdom ab bohat kam logon ke paas hai. Isko rokna mat!
God bless you Julie from India ❤️
Most pakistani serials that I watch revolves around the idea of marriage and a desire to get rich.Julie is so wise and narrates the issues so well.She presents the age old thinking of the asian society with regards to daughters ,importance of son, jobs,artificiality in the society, old age dependancy and necessary govt.role to take etc so well.She presents the naked truth of the society. Great thinkers like Julie will make this world a better place. Amazing ! hats off to you.
Welcome back Julie...this is so amazing and lovely to hear your thoughts....you are a beautiful soul inside outside Allah bless you ♥️
I love the insight Julie has on the issues and the way she quotes references and facts. Thank you Julie! Please keep posting more of her thoughts and discussions. Much needed to hear!
Bohaaat intezaàr rehta hy Julie apka ❤️ Allah apko khoob sehat wali Zindagi de aameen
Finally a very important topic, actually at the base of many ongoing problems. Also good to hear some solutions in the end. Though one more episode is requested on solutions to this problem
Very thoughtful person julie is. How did she showed us very basic things to live life, what we are inside. I think TCM team make these type more series. We ll like to appericiate ur efforts and Julie's too..
every Generation MUST see this.
Thank you for everything Julie! Stay Blessed ❤
This is exactly how it is in our system. Very well said Julie. May Allah bless you for speaking the truth...!!
@Amandeep Wahi Desh kharab nahi hota log usko kharab kartay hain chahay woh India ke ho ya Pakistan ke aur ya kaheen aur ke. The only way things will get better when we start educating ourselves. I grew up in the US not Pakistan okay. I know the difference between western and eastern culture.
amazing !! she has such an amazing point of view she should be given the power to put her views internationally it would change so many lives
Julie's vision, knowledge, wisdom and bravery to speak the truth is better than our so called degree holding parents,,,,
Absolutely true! Anyone disagreeing with this is part of the problem.
This is our true face. We are all mean at one level or the other. You are exposing us to our cores. Allah bless you. Please don't stop this series. It is both soothing and mind awakening at the same time.
Always waiting for your video new topic, new perspective real talk 👍 lots of love ❤️🇮🇳
Thanks nice feelings
Ma sha ALLAH another informative and inspirational vdo... julie ko MNA post pr hona chahye....ta k yh Public ki behtri k lye best level k kam kr sakein.... julie ka b complete interview dein plz...enki education etc... Ma sha ALLAH she is so nice... Ma shoq sy sunti hu enki bty Aur koshish b krti hn khud pr implement krny ki...enki ankhon ma bht pain nzr ata ha...
Wow..i wish everyone had her vision
This is very pain full truth how beatifull word like diamond by you ALLAH BLESS YOU
I dont know how much she is educated.. but her understanding and knowledge is better than most of us..
I wish our nation could think like Julie. Great talk
How many lives this person has lived. I am stunned. What has she been through! How is she connecting to everyone at every level. And she is only had studies till standard 10. I am shocked. God bless her.
I was so waiting for the season 2 and here that is.... Every word is 100% on the point.... she does inspire me alot because sometimes my loop of life breaks down but her word give me a hope to face the world........ God bless you Julia i have a huge respect for you in my heart.... 😍🕊
This will surely give goosebumps to a sage. Orthodox Islam has been substituted for peaceful Islam. All what she is uttering is the product of a capitalist mindset. Everything we do is to 'keep up the appearences'. Our societal superstructure is surely standing on economic foundation. It's not restricted to parents only, monetary benefit has become the centre for every activity we pursue whether that is parenting, motivating, guiding, caring etc everything is working on 'trade-off' policy. Paradigm shift is what we need at grassroot levels.
Heart wrenching, eye opening facts of suffering elder sons in middle class!💔💔💔
Proud of u beta Allah app ku apnai hifzu aman main rakhai
Please talk about the girls who are suffering from middle class and fulfil the needs of their siblings and their parents as well
i love you julie ... you are so honest ! julie ap wo kehti hain jo koi or kehne ki himmat nhi kerti
Julie i m the biggest fan of you....I m wonder about your amazing analysis....you changed my thinking
ranay ho kar bhi itni km smjh ha apko k julie jesey logon se inspiration lete han aap hahahaaa yahan sab chutiyeh hi fake han.
You are far better than so called motivational speakers because you are not a story teller, you are actually realistic....
Kash apki baatein sabko samjh aa jaye.....apka har ek episode kisi na kisi k life ka true point he....
Finally, someone spoke on this topic...
Great thought
May Allah bless you
Besides voicing facts...how beautiful julie looks😍
thank you so much, julie for teaching me something new today. sending you love from india. I'll always remember your words
Thank you so much Julie you helped me to educate my parents and some Uncle, aunties I do totally agree with this you are doing such a great job really love your mind sets, you are mind changer
More power to you 🧡
Julie - what a talk....Mind blowing
Juli is a very confident and brave activist plz give him love and care
Julie keep on this good work we must let go all corruption
Thats a harsh reality , i felt it many years before and i can't imagine but they never accept that (investment type)
She has awsm motivation speaking skill....
So true ... showed the mirror to our society.... a true leader
I love this what a intellectual mind she has a social philosopher!
agreed... i am shock to hear each word and sentence is exactly what we are...
wow....intelligent.....expert ...and natural speaker...soooo real and perfect analysis
Thank you Julie for talking on this topic. I’m very impressed on your thought process yet very sorry that you too had to go through all this to be so fond of it. Had literal tears throughout this video, could relate to this bitter reality on a different level. Hope things get better for everyone and God help us becoming better parents so that we can end this chain of toxicity. More power to you. ♥️
Julie is an amazing speaker👍
Lots of love from India to Julie❤️
Wao julie your words and way of talking outstanding .
.picking the words and saying truth...the real face of our society
I agree.. 80% of parents are same as you are saying because we consider everything which is associated woth us as our property whether it's a human being but we snatch the right of a living being n want to steer it towards the fulfilment of our desires.
Every word is describing the real face of our society. For those who disagree, this is for most of us not for all of us.
Motivational speaker to ya hai...itne deep Batey Karti hai mashallah...salute you.
100%agreed I lost my words. I learnt sooo much from you May Allah bless you Aameen
It's a bitter reality of our society...... 😔😢 She's damn right....! 😞😭
Respect and love 💕 you so much. God bless.
Heart touching golden words.💜
Such a deep and intense observation.
So glad u are back with season 2 !!! Much love Julie stay blessed !!
It's hard to understand how she has all the spot on experience about the problems of every gender. She's got some big experience about the hardships in our society. Hats off to Julie!
She knows all the problems of a son, daughter, mother, father, daughter in law, etc etc etc ....
She knows the problems of each and every person.
Powerful message!....Kafi achhi orator ho aap madam.
Hats off to you Julie 💞
Allah apko hamesha apne Hifz-o-Amaan mein rakay 💝
Oh Julie I realy became inspired by you.
Mere ❤️ Ki bat sun li apne Julie aj main bhi ye hi soch rha tha k ap is topic pe video banaye thank you Julie God bless you 😊 😊
julie my love ,proud of your vision
The 4 terms she explain about profession is absolutely spot on.
Thank you, I love your candid opinion.
Yes that is reality of our society , and julie is one of the great assets of Pakistan ...we should appreciate these types of people
Beshak ye baat bilkul Sahi boli hy k sb se takleef or zehni aziyaton me ghiri Hui Zindagi lower middle class ki hy
Very thoughtful and deep!
I totally agree with this fact. The way she explained this bitter truth is everything . You're a gem. 💜
May Allah bless you Julie!!! You are actually Raw and Real
U r gifted this wisdom.. Spread to the world... God bless u
Each and every word depicts the whole level of sanity and rationale.
Where can I download this video??? I'm 100% Agreed with Julie.
You are so amazing
Your thoughts were out standing
Your every single word is so impactful
Itni sachi baatein, maine aaj tak kisi se nahi suni,
you are too good "Julie"
julie always speaks so well about every topic 🙌so proud of her way to go