This audio came through at a time when I have been thinking of leaving my marriage and starting life as a single mother.Thank you God for this ..and be blessed dear man of God I pray that each word that I have listened to gets fully digested into my brain for the restoration of my marriage.
You are a real human who addresses the reality of life. No sugar coating. I was polishing my nails when listening to this message. I had to stop and go to the kitchen to prepare my husband something delicious before he comes back from work. Thank God for giving the world a man like you.
My husband and I both work away from home so we both cook and clean our house. We both pay our mortgage and bills together in unity and agreement praise God 💕🙏. He's Nigerian and I'm American woman happily married 5 years.
I undersrand but it s not impossible that your husband can decided to do way better to you that the 50/ 50 because i saw my brother doing way better to his second marriage...when there is real love; man will decide to do better for his wife...there is always always room to improve...im from canada ...i saw some men doingbetter to relax their wives when they have kids...you can be surprise what rhe same man can do for another woman( mother, female friend, your sister...and not you) life has surprise
I'm someone who's very emotional and hot temper but from listening to this I changed my mindset today to come down in my relationship..thanks papa for giving me so much wisdom that I never knew
@@preciousitoro947 Amen 🙏 to that as you acknowledge that..that means is God's Spirit in agreement of your own spirit and so he that is able to do more that we ask of him will surely brings it into perfection sweetie
My GOD..... this message never gets old... I love you sir... this message changed my life the first time I listened to it; and now I'm listening to it again I'm just smiling because mehn.... I've seen the evident changes; Now I've been re-polished .. GOD bless you Sir and Satisfy you Early
I pray for my husband to forgive me and make peace with me so that I will show him how I have changed to become a better wife and a mother too. Thank you Apostle for this wonderful teaching tonight that I have received and will practice it from today in Jesus Christ name 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I pray for my husband to forgive me and make peace with me so that I show him how i have changed to become a good wife to him in Jesus's name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’ve been learning from Apostle Joshua Solomon before I got married. Now I’m married I’m still learning a lot🙏I wish everyone could hear his teachings, so profound with so much wisdom. Bless you, Apostle 🙏🌸
I receive grace to be a good wife, a good mother to my children, a good daughter in-law, a good Sister in-law, a good business lady. A role model to daughter's and mother's at large so help me God 🙏🙏🙏
And your husband? This teachings are dangerous because they give the delusion that men have no responsibilities and sin .That's calling God a liar 1 John 1:8 Male Pastors should be very careful how you skew the word to remove yourselves. It won't matter because God standards still stand and you will be held accountable by God's standards not yours.
I've been married 19yrs & counting many many more!! it hasn't been easy but a fulfillment of delight! We have 3 young adults and it hasn't been easy being a mother but well worth it! I am a minister of the Gospel of Jesus the Christ and it hasn't been easy but God has kept me! Hallelujah!! Thank you!🙏🏾🙌🏾..ladies hide yourselves so that you may be found to be a wife!! While waiting & hiding God is preparing you with these characteristics of a wife,as Apostle has stated!! God bless!!
Wow this is my blessing for today 13-11-2022 No school,lecturer,novel,parent or freind could ever say this wise message and advice to me God bless you 🤲
I receive the grace to be the kind of wife that brings out the best in my husband, the grace that brings out the king in him! to be a mother and a woman of Godly value! Thank you Lord!
All u need to know is to be aware when to speak and when to be quiet... a man cherish his peace. Listen when he speaks... and when he is upset, give him time to calm before asking questions
What a Word!! Every time I listen to this Man of God, I either learn something or something is confirmed. More importantly, I always WANT to pray. God indeed be praised!!
I love listening to these types of teachings. Wives are powerful in the Spirit. We don't even know it. We must learn to appreciate these types of messages.
Thank you so much for this word Apostle.I have been married for 31years and have been through so much things in my marriage.I am stuggling to continue to be that wife.I receive the word I pray that God will give me the grace to continue to be a good wife and mother. I pray that you do one for men. Blessings to you
I am really touched by these words, being that i havent been in speaking terms with my husband for 5days now. I try to do all these you mentioned but he doesn't appreciate me, i come last in his placement of value, his brother takes my place as his confidant, atimes i get exhausted trying to be that wife you ve talked about, i apologise to him for his own wrong doings just for peace to reign, i do pray to God to change him, i really pray to God that i dont go for a divorce, please pray for me, I really love my husband but he doesn't love me as much as to hurt when he sees me hurting, he doesn't even take notice. I pray God strengthens me, i am praying for a baby too.
@@Goyeintotheworld Just begin to pray for your man, not for him to change. Read ' the power of a praying wife, and watch War Room, for better understanding. I assure you that you will surely win
Pardon me, but it may be something about the prayer points. But I believe God sees your heart and will help you through. I truly know that it is not easy
Now food is cooking then ironing for my king.. this preacher is turning hearts and minds of women, to prioritise correctly at home and in relationships, thanks for this
This man of God is extremely intelligent. Thank you for this sermon. Whether you are a Christian or not, this is a great message for all couples. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 😊 😊😊😊!!
May God deliver ladies from laziness especially daughters of the rich. Father, I know people may change in life, but please make me a virtuous woman all the days of my life especially when I'm married. Let your grace be more abundant for me in Jesus name.
This message is totally for women who are housewives not working class women. I can't get up go to work together with my wife then still expect her to do all the house chores. That's wickedness on my part. We have to do the job together. There is nothing wrong for me as a man to go to the market and buy things or clean and fix things in my own house. This man is preaching from African men mentality. I have passed that stage. 21st century women work and bring money home as well.
I undestand, even if i have home help,its a nice gesture to put aside time for God first,then the king of the home, I work,but i love to set the table for him,who works longer hours than me, as a gesture of love respect by passing all the love of God to him ,by my actions, in occassions,when he sees i am tired,he happiy serve himself,cleans and cook, He is obviously speaking to women that are wives and mothers ,Great that you recognize in fairness how much you appreciate what your wife does in partnership with you,it takes love,
I understand where you are coming from, but this man is coming from the traditional Christian view. It is difficult in the 21st century to live a financially stable life more easily. However, speaking from a traditional view, a woman and man should make the man's wage work. If the traditional view is your aim, it is the woman's role to work at keeping the home warm, clean and welcoming for her husband who has come home from a hard-working day. She is no less important in the house. A woman's sets the tone in the home. We were created to provide for our home by making it welcoming and loving for our family. Personally, considering this view, I would prefer to have less money, so long as my husband brought in enough money for the bare necessities. The man must provide the basics and the woman must utilise these basics to make the home a loving home. However, if a woman wants to work, go ahead, if the man brings on the bare necessities, you just want extra, which is fine, but traditionally speaking, her work life shouldn't impact the cleanliness of her home, or the warm meals she would normally prepare, or the care she would normally provide.
However, if you are unable to bring in the bare necessities, then the duties should be shared because, understandably in this generation due to the price of things, you would not be fulfilling your role, resulting in the sharing of the roles. But, if you provide the bare necessities, then that is a choice you guys just make together if you are looking for a Christian marriage, one that glories our Lord God. I pray you have a blessed marriage and lots of happiness and I pray these words brought some clarity to you. Lots of love ❤️✝️
I just listened to this as part of my morning meditation before leaving for work this early morning.I pray the spirit of God keeps speaking through you so that you keep teaching just what we need to know.I hide under the grace bestowed upon you and believing my relationship with Flubert is restored right now for the best in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏🙏.Thank you my father J.Selman🙏🙏
*Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, got help from a great man who brought us back together. and if you need any kind of help he can help you*
I have been married for 5yrs now,thank you so much daddy Joshua for giving me more understanding,I pray God give me d grace to b a more better wife and a good mother to our children....
I receive grace to be a good wife and mother and to bring out the king in my husband and to be humble and good home maker in the name of Jesus Chirst Amen
Thank you Lord. Nothing but the truth with words of wisdom. I gave myself 75% out of all the points said. Thank you Jesus. I will work on the 25% with guidance of the holy spirit . Amen. 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
Oooh My God this is so profiund. Thank you so much Apostle for the geeat teaching . I receive the Grace to be a great wife ,a mother and be able to bring out the King in my husband.
I receive Kingdom grace for my husband to be a good man, a good husband, a good father, a good Priest, pastor and minister In the Mighty name of Jesus. AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!
I receive Kingdom grace for my husband to be a good and prudent man, a disciplined man, a keeper of his word, a provider, a good father, a priest and a builder in Jesus name Amenn 🙏
Father , give me the grace to be a good wife to my husband and a wonderful mother to my children. Heal my marriage oh Lord and put love between us. Amen
man of God i don't know why i came across with your masege so late but i believe that God prepared this masege for such times as this Apostle you are a true man of God you teach important things im in a new relationship i will make him a king oooh thank you man of God
Great sermon and evergreen teaching! It's not late for everyone to make amends not just women but men also. Honestly no man wants to be taken for granted by the wife, it causes emotional harm.
In many ways I have fallen and so guilty! I feel disgusted by my past attitudes towards him... and he is such a great guy, please before God and man, I confess my errors and pray for forgiveness and acclaim I will turn a new leave in Jesus mighty name, Amen.
I appreciate this word. It's very true but I also believe the man also has a responsibility to speak to the Queen in a woman. My question is how long will a woman be submissive, sacrificial, prayerful etc. all for a man not to appreciate, love or regard her.........This is a tough one........Bless you Apostle
This is the problem with us ladies. We focus on the other party’s responsibility. Sacrifice, being prayerful and submissive is not conditional. When a woman submits to a husband, it is obedience to God. In this life, we must live for the ‘audience of One’, our Maker. God has given us our role and we must obey. May God give us the grace to focus on our role. Men have their responsibilities as well. May each party focus on their own. Each one of us will stand before our Father and account for our actions.
@@Sonia_Marie I would agree with your sentiments. In Genesis chapter 2 the instructions are clear about man and woman. God’s design is perfect and we should humble ourselves and follow is plan for marriage. When we start pointing fingers at the opposite sex there is a problem with that individual. The word is ACCOUNTABILITY! You have to look inwardly and see that the problem is not with others but with one’s self. May God bless you sister and keep following God’s plan for your life?
This is so pure and great preach 🙌 This is a new chapter for me as a wife for 4 years now. I will apply each tips to my marriage and make him feel like a king regardless of the situation at the moment. 🙌🙌 So much to learn. Thank you for this.
You have said it all, but I think it's vise versa,we are being treated like door mates,how do you expect us to react, you give back what you received,in my own opinion and experience
*Hi my relationship i is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, got help from a great man who brought us back together. and if you need any kind of help he can help you*
Wow! This opened my eyes to the way I treat my husband, like everyone else. Lord, help me to take care of my husband with love, patience & adoration. To treat him like a king. Amen!
Halo everyone....I want to thank God for leading me to this video ☺️🙏, I have been going through a bad depression of heart break after me and my spouse separating....when I watched this I honestly made peace with myself....all the bad character the pastor has said ...my fiancee had(5years)..she did all wierd things and in secret pain I kept my calm and smile but hurting so much inside....this video has relieved my heart so much because I hav been in pain .....thank u thank you thank you 😩😢🙏..... honestly women lately need to think beyond just themselves 😢🤦 please
I must confess that everything that the man of God said here is how I used to behave with the man I love I took him for granted not until he gets tired and told me that we are incompatible only for me to realize that av been a mess using my own hands to spoil what God has kept for me now am regretting everything I did pleading for God to forgive me and bring him back to me. How foolish I was because I thought he could not leave me. This message has really touched my hrt , every single day I pray to God to forgive me and make me to be a virtuous woman, and I also pray for God to forgive and rekindle the love my man use to av for me. I just want to make it right again. I pray the holy spirit will not make me to just hear this wonderful message but also put it into practice for my own good. Thank you sir for this wonderful message God will continue to bless and give more messages like this to impact into women. Av been recalcitrant about my relationship, stubborn don't listen. Father bless help me mend my relationship.
I receive the Grace of a virtues woman the woman talked about in proverb 31: 10-31 And I pray that God will bless me with more Grace to be a good wife, a good mother , a good sister, a good daughter a good friend a good colleague a good neighbor and a good person in the society in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen
This is true unfortunately some men don't know what is a husband. As a woman I will give anything with all my heart. But that doesn't always mean things are appreciated. It can be very hard. Please husbands when you have a good wife don't harm her, don't put your family and friends before. Do not lie and betray her. She is still human. You are two in one harming her will harm you.
My spirit is at Peace listening to you I watch and listen to your true teaching every day may you be blessed with more wisdom,I receive my motherly Grace🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen I'm just 22 but I'm really learning so much from this man I swear I thank the almighty for man like him teaching us so much 😟😓 all the way from Namibia 💜
didn't expect that i know i've done one thing well on my first date with my husband a few years ago . when we went home (to him) we had a great time, watched comedies and then went to bed . we tried to mix it with spanish fly natural drops and we knew that we're the best for each other
Lord, I receive Grace to be a good Wife, Mother, and Priest in Jesus name! I repent for the times I did not uphold these, titles, roles and positions. I walk in the Grace that You give me to bring out the King in my Kingdom Spouse, in Jesus name.
I like it because we are being cautioned by a very powerful man of God hoping its not falling on deaf ears,God doesnt like untideness. THANKS MAN OF GOD
Heavenly Father, pls forgive me for my wrongs, and help me not to take my husband for granted in any form, help me to be a godly wife and mother and to your glory already in Jesus name Amen
lm just 23 just got married.... they are some things that makes me wonder maybe l made a mistake... but from this teaching lm beginning to understand what should be done for my marriage to work 💐 thank you for your teaching
God bless you son of God for this wondering teaching, am blessed that holy spirit led me to this teaching today. I have learnt a lot and willing to learn a lot from you.
Chaii so rich papa alot of lessons gotten from the teaching .This whati tell my sisters but they think am stern thank God they are listening to this today God bless you 🙏
12th September 2022 3.34am. married 12yrs and ready to start over again as a wife and mother.
Thank you sir, may ur cup overflow.
Hallelujah!! Amen sis . Same🙏🏽💅🏾💝
This audio came through at a time when I have been thinking of leaving my marriage and starting life as a single mother.Thank you God for this ..and be blessed dear man of God I pray that each word that I have listened to gets fully digested into my brain for the restoration of my marriage.
May God give you wisdom to be a virtuous wife, woman of noble character Sis 😍
You are a real human who addresses the reality of life. No sugar coating. I was polishing my nails when listening to this message. I had to stop and go to the kitchen to prepare my husband something delicious before he comes back from work. Thank God for giving the world a man like you.
Western modern life is eroding bible values…🤦🏾♂️
Amen!!!
Sounds and feels like boo wrote here I might be wrong but highly unlikely in my spirit I know right by 100%
God bless you Sir. U're a MAN of Truth
@@favourjohn4782 🤨woman of truth ?🤨
My husband and I both work away from home so we both cook and clean our house. We both pay our mortgage and bills together in unity and agreement praise God 💕🙏. He's Nigerian and I'm American woman happily married 5 years.
God bless both of you 🙌🏽
I undersrand but it s not impossible that your husband can decided to do way better to you that the 50/ 50 because i saw my brother doing way better to his second marriage...when there is real love; man will decide to do better for his wife...there is always always room to improve...im from canada ...i saw some men doingbetter to relax their wives when they have kids...you can be surprise what rhe same man can do for another woman( mother, female friend, your sister...and not you) life has surprise
Congratulations 🎉
I'm someone who's very emotional and hot temper but from listening to this I changed my mindset today to come down in my relationship..thanks papa for giving me so much wisdom that I never knew
Dear God will help u real good ,its pays to be cool headed too as a wife
@@justinaagholor_cyril2116 qriy
Welcome...
Same here I pray God works on my temper
@@preciousitoro947 Amen 🙏 to that as you acknowledge that..that means is God's Spirit in agreement of your own spirit and so he that is able to do more that we ask of him will surely brings it into perfection sweetie
My GOD..... this message never gets old... I love you sir... this message changed my life the first time I listened to it; and now I'm listening to it again I'm just smiling because mehn.... I've seen the evident changes; Now I've been re-polished .. GOD bless you Sir and Satisfy you Early
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Am so so blessed to have my wife as my wife. The good Lord specifically prepared her for me. Total peace in my home at all times
Postor you made my day good, good advice
How long is the marriage my brother?
Praise God!
I was impacted by this message,may the Almighty God transform me to be that woman in Jesus Christ name Amen
I receive grace to be a good wife, a mother and to excel in ministry in Jesus Name
Father help me to be a devoted wife and mother to my family, father help me control my words and anger towards my husband
Lord help me,I have failed in my duty as wife and mother.i need grace
Me too and amen🙏
Me too
Me too I receive this grace 🛐🛐🛐 in JESUS MIGHTY NAME, AMEN 🤲
I pray for my husband to forgive me and make peace with me so that I will show him how I have changed to become a better wife and a mother too. Thank you Apostle for this wonderful teaching tonight that I have received and will practice it from today in Jesus Christ name 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen🙏🏽. God is healing and restoring your home.
@@olgaopara5290 Amen 🙏
May your change be permanent ijn🙏 . Amen.
May God strengthening you for the great task ahead
Wooow.. what a teaching.. thanks so much 🙏
No doubt, I have met the mentor I have longed to have. You are indeed God sent man of God.
I pray for my husband to forgive me and make peace with me so that I show him how i have changed to become a good wife to him in Jesus's name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Lord help me to be a good wife and mother
Amen 🙏🏼
I reconciled with my hubby and I feel so good, I pray for a healthy relationship
What did you do to him probably i can relate
Amen
I’ve been learning from Apostle Joshua Solomon before I got married. Now I’m married I’m still learning a lot🙏I wish everyone could hear his teachings, so profound with so much wisdom. Bless you, Apostle 🙏🌸
Correct
SELMAN
I weep 😢so badly listening to this message because it was just as if he was talking to me directly 😢 God have mercy on me please 😭😭
Apostle Joshua you make tears filled my heart. You are really a man of God 🙏. You are a chosen vessel. Hallelujah. Thanks 👍 for your teachings.
I receive grace to be a good wife, a good mother to my children, a good daughter in-law, a good Sister in-law, a good business lady. A role model to daughter's and mother's at large so help me God 🙏🙏🙏
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Dont be too hard on yourself... God will give you grace
Wow thank you Man of God. i receive Grace to be a good wife to my husband
Amen 🙏
AMEN 🙏🥺
Lord, help me to be a great wife to my husband and great mother to my children 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️
what a prayer.
And your husband?
This teachings are dangerous because they give the delusion that men have no responsibilities and sin .That's calling God a liar 1 John 1:8
Male Pastors should be very careful how you skew the word to remove yourselves. It won't matter because God standards still stand and you will be held accountable by God's standards not yours.
Amen
@@user-mt4fw6sh9e a woman is a helper to a man NOT OTHER WAY ROUND
@@user-mt4fw6sh9e Maybe you should try listening to his teaching geared towards men before concluding.
We are newlyweds and I m so fortunate to have him as a husband. I thank God for this message Amen.
I needed this 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭God grace me with wisdom to build my king, to be a wife, mother and everything that makes me his suitable helper. 🙏🙏
I am single and not sure if I want to be married but very convicted. That is how powerful this sermon is. OMG😯....
I've been married 19yrs & counting many many more!! it hasn't been easy but a fulfillment of delight! We have 3 young adults and it hasn't been easy being a mother but well worth it! I am a minister of the Gospel of Jesus the Christ and it hasn't been easy but God has kept me! Hallelujah!! Thank you!🙏🏾🙌🏾..ladies hide yourselves so that you may be found to be a wife!! While waiting & hiding God is preparing you with these characteristics of a wife,as Apostle has stated!! God bless!!
Wow
I heard this and thought of my beautiful mother... thank you for been the best woman and wife to my father..😭❤❤❤
This man has so much wisdom… You are truly a blessing.
Wow Fire From The Throne Room
@@lindareynolds2667 😊
Amen! Yes!
@@lindareynolds2667 4444444444444
Seriously a blessing for this generation Apostle 🙏🏾
Have been listening to this sermon for sometimes, even before I say I do I'm ready to be a good wife.
Thank you Apostle!
Are you married
My mother is indeed a mother and a wife…. I receive the grace to also be a good mother and wife 🙏🏻🙏🏻 in Jesus Name
Amen!
Amen,am asking for that same grace in Jesus name
Wow this is my blessing for today 13-11-2022
No school,lecturer,novel,parent or freind could ever say this wise message and advice to me God bless you 🤲
definitely 👍
In the name of Jesus I receive grace to be a good wife to my future husband and a mother to my unborn kids 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much sir
More grace
Amen and amen
I don't get tired of u apostle Hallelujah
Same with me.... I'm getting married soon and I pray to be the best gift to my loving husband Steve
Amazing message for me. I promise myself 2 years ago to make my husband proud by the help of God my husband will feel the woman I ought to be
I receive the grace to be the kind of wife that brings out the best in my husband, the grace that brings out the king in him! to be a mother and a woman of Godly value! Thank you Lord!
All u need to know is to be aware when to speak and when to be quiet... a man cherish his peace. Listen when he speaks... and when he is upset, give him time to calm before asking questions
What a Word!! Every time I listen to this Man of God, I either learn something or something is confirmed. More importantly, I always WANT to pray. God indeed be praised!!
Hi receive the grace in Jesus Name
Be blessed man of God..we are blessed by your teachings
I love listening to these types of teachings. Wives are powerful in the Spirit. We don't even know it. We must learn to appreciate these types of messages.
I thank you apostle for your massage ,may God give us knowledge to save our husband 🙏 🙌 ❤ ♥
Thank you so much for this word Apostle.I have been married for 31years and have been through so much things in my marriage.I am stuggling to continue to be that wife.I receive the word I pray that God will give me the grace to continue to be a good wife and mother.
I pray that you do one for men.
Blessings to you
I just love this man.. there is no single day that passes by without listening to his teachings...indeed we are blessed♥️♥️♥️
I listen every morning while traveling to work. My husband is Nigerian and I'm American.
@@iolawilkins1030 amazing God bless you more
Me too, I listened to his teachings every morning before going to work
I am really touched by these words, being that i havent been in speaking terms with my husband for 5days now.
I try to do all these you mentioned but he doesn't appreciate me, i come last in his placement of value, his brother takes my place as his confidant, atimes i get exhausted trying to be that wife you ve talked about, i apologise to him for his own wrong doings just for peace to reign, i do pray to God to change him, i really pray to God that i dont go for a divorce, please pray for me, I really love my husband but he doesn't love me as much as to hurt when he sees me hurting, he doesn't even take notice. I pray God strengthens me, i am praying for a baby too.
I cry as i type this, my heart really breaks each time i think about my husband's attitude towards me
AMEN
@@Goyeintotheworld Just begin to pray for your man, not for him to change. Read ' the power of a praying wife, and watch War Room, for better understanding. I assure you that you will surely win
@@talesbyLuchi ::::: I have the same experience.......it's been 27 yrs praying in vain .....am tired of him
Pardon me, but it may be something about the prayer points. But I believe God sees your heart and will help you through. I truly know that it is not easy
Now food is cooking then ironing for my king.. this preacher is turning hearts and minds of women, to prioritise correctly at home and in relationships, thanks for this
Thank you Jesus for this man of God, I know God can still restore my relationship
Thank you Jesus.
Amen
Just believe and it will be possible...
I have failed in some aspects but I am learning something now😭😭 and ready to better things
This man of God is extremely intelligent. Thank you for this sermon. Whether you are a Christian or not, this is a great message for all couples. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 😊 😊😊😊!!
I agree. I’m not Christian but am marrying a Christian man. I find the advice very practical for everyone.
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Do you have a video about what men should do to keep their marriage successful? Thank you
@@Me.3852 asking the same
May God deliver ladies from laziness especially daughters of the rich. Father, I know people may change in life, but please make me a virtuous woman all the days of my life especially when I'm married. Let your grace be more abundant for me in Jesus name.
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This message is totally for women who are housewives not working class women. I can't get up go to work together with my wife then still expect her to do all the house chores. That's wickedness on my part. We have to do the job together. There is nothing wrong for me as a man to go to the market and buy things or clean and fix things in my own house. This man is preaching from African men mentality. I have passed that stage.
21st century women work and bring money home as well.
I undestand, even if i have home help,its a nice gesture to put aside time for God first,then the king of the home, I work,but i love to set the table for him,who works longer hours than me, as a gesture of love respect by passing all the love of God to him ,by my actions, in occassions,when he sees i am tired,he happiy serve himself,cleans and cook, He is obviously speaking to women that are wives and mothers ,Great that you recognize in fairness how much you appreciate what your wife does in partnership with you,it takes love,
I understand where you are coming from, but this man is coming from the traditional Christian view. It is difficult in the 21st century to live a financially stable life more easily. However, speaking from a traditional view, a woman and man should make the man's wage work. If the traditional view is your aim, it is the woman's role to work at keeping the home warm, clean and welcoming for her husband who has come home from a hard-working day. She is no less important in the house. A woman's sets the tone in the home. We were created to provide for our home by making it welcoming and loving for our family.
Personally, considering this view, I would prefer to have less money, so long as my husband brought in enough money for the bare necessities. The man must provide the basics and the woman must utilise these basics to make the home a loving home.
However, if a woman wants to work, go ahead, if the man brings on the bare necessities, you just want extra, which is fine, but traditionally speaking, her work life shouldn't impact the cleanliness of her home, or the warm meals she would normally prepare, or the care she would normally provide.
However, if you are unable to bring in the bare necessities, then the duties should be shared because, understandably in this generation due to the price of things, you would not be fulfilling your role, resulting in the sharing of the roles.
But, if you provide the bare necessities, then that is a choice you guys just make together if you are looking for a Christian marriage, one that glories our Lord God.
I pray you have a blessed marriage and lots of happiness and I pray these words brought some clarity to you.
Lots of love ❤️✝️
Thank you
I just listened to this as part of my morning meditation before leaving for work this early morning.I pray the spirit of God keeps speaking through you so that you keep teaching just what we need to know.I hide under the grace bestowed upon you and believing my relationship with Flubert is restored right now for the best in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏🙏.Thank you my father J.Selman🙏🙏
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Your comment gave me goosebumps.this man is truly annointed
I have been married for 5yrs now,thank you so much daddy Joshua for giving me more understanding,I pray God give me d grace to b a more better wife and a good mother to our children....
In fact, I can't stop listening to this message oo man of god 🙌 🙏 ❤ more grace.
A good woman does not want any glory for herself..her pride is that her husband and children should be lifted..I got this right..thank you Apostle
I receive grace to be a good wife and mother and to bring out the king in my husband and to be humble and good home maker in the name of Jesus Chirst Amen
Thank you Lord. Nothing but the truth with words of wisdom. I gave myself 75% out of all the points said. Thank you Jesus. I will work on the 25% with guidance of the holy spirit . Amen. 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
There is a difference between circular Marriages and Kingdom Marriages..I receive the grace to become a godly wife
secular
Amen
I wish i heard this powerful teaching 2 years ago...God give me grace to make things right🥺🥺🥺
Today I have a whole new approach to marriage as a husband...God grant me the grace to to be a king in accordance with your word. Amen
Oooh My God this is so profiund.
Thank you so much Apostle for the geeat teaching .
I receive the Grace to be a great wife ,a mother and be able to bring out the King in my husband.
I receive Kingdom grace for my husband to be a good man, a good husband, a good father, a good Priest, pastor and minister In the Mighty name of Jesus. AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!
I receive Kingdom grace for my husband to be a good and prudent man, a disciplined man, a keeper of his word, a provider, a good father, a priest and a builder in Jesus name Amenn 🙏
Wow, what a great message for me.
I RECEIVE GOD'S GRACE TO BE A VIRTUOUS WIFE, AND MOTHER TO MY CHILDREN.
Thank you Apostle
Father , give me the grace to be a good wife to my husband and a wonderful mother to my children.
Heal my marriage oh Lord and put love between us. Amen
Amen
Amen
I received grace to be a good wife and a good mother to my kids in Jesus might name 🙏 ❤️
How about the husband?
God please give me the grace I need to be a good wife to my husband and a proud mother to my children. Amen
I receive grace to be a good wife Lord. This man looks like He is talking directly to me.
man of God i don't know why i came across with your masege so late but i believe that God prepared this masege for such times as this Apostle you are a true man of God you teach important things im in a new relationship i will make him a king oooh thank you man of God
I am letting go and starting afresh as a changed woman in JESUS'name.
Great sermon and evergreen teaching! It's not late for everyone to make amends not just women but men also.
Honestly no man wants to be taken for granted by the wife, it causes emotional harm.
Lord help me to be a great wife
Neither does a woman want to be taken granted by her man ....
Thank u Pastor for changing my life, from now on I will do my best and correct all my mistakes. ❤❤❤
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Lord pls help me to be a good wife n a mother to my children n a blessing to our ministry
In many ways I have fallen and so guilty! I feel disgusted by my past attitudes towards him... and he is such a great guy, please before God and man, I confess my errors and pray for forgiveness and acclaim I will turn a new leave in Jesus mighty name, Amen.
May God honour you!
We're in this together. May God help us to be better wives.
power packed sermon, may God give me the grace to be a wife/mother/priest in my home....You are a blessing Man of God, more annointing over your life
Lord bless me nd give me a wisdom to be a wife
The world is blessed having a man of God like you🙏I'm really blessed with this message thank you sir.
I receive the grace to be a good wife to my handsome husband in Jesus name amen.
In the name of Jesus I receive the grace to be a wife and a mother . Wow Thank you apostle for this wisdom
I'll be replaying this again and again. So many wise teachings in this one video!!
Three times now ...for me
Wow, i love this ! Thank you Jesus for bringing me here
May the words you say go round the world. So much wisdom in your words. May God continue to use you.
I appreciate this word. It's very true but I also believe the man also has a responsibility to speak to the Queen in a woman. My question is how long will a woman be submissive, sacrificial, prayerful etc. all for a man not to appreciate, love or regard her.........This is a tough one........Bless you Apostle
The equation is balanced dear. This ministration here by Apostle is for wives. Get his ministration for husbands.
@@iranajufo2636 Please how do we get the His ministration for MEN? Like the link to access it.
This is the problem with us ladies. We focus on the other party’s responsibility. Sacrifice, being prayerful and submissive is not conditional. When a woman submits to a husband, it is obedience to God. In this life, we must live for the ‘audience of One’, our Maker. God has given us our role and we must obey. May God give us the grace to focus on our role. Men have their responsibilities as well. May each party focus on their own. Each one of us will stand before our Father and account for our actions.
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@@Sonia_Marie I would agree with your sentiments. In Genesis chapter 2 the instructions are clear about man and woman. God’s design is perfect and we should humble ourselves and follow is plan for marriage. When we start pointing fingers at the opposite sex there is a problem with that individual. The word is ACCOUNTABILITY! You have to look inwardly and see that the problem is not with others but with one’s self. May God bless you sister and keep following God’s plan for your life?
This is so pure and great preach 🙌 This is a new chapter for me as a wife for 4 years now. I will apply each tips to my marriage and make him feel like a king regardless of the situation at the moment. 🙌🙌 So much to learn.
Thank you for this.
You have said it all, but I think it's vise versa,we are being treated like door mates,how do you expect us to react, you give back what you received,in my own opinion and experience
i want to run away from this brutal truth but am also intrigued 😱😱😱😱😭♥
*Hi my relationship i is fixed back again my ex
is back to me we loving and happily
together, got help from a great man who brought us back together. and if you need any kind of help he can help you*
*Wha'tsapp him for help*
*✛2347046627226(☉｡☉)!!*
Wow! This opened my eyes to the way I treat my husband, like everyone else. Lord, help me to take care of my husband with love, patience & adoration. To treat him like a king. Amen!
I receive such grace to be a wife and a mother. Thank you man of God.
May God bless you Pastor Joshua ,for speaking the raw truth 🙏.
May the almighty God help me to be a good Mother.
May the almighty God help me to be a good Mother.
I qualify All this things pastor talking about being in marriage for almost 25yrs. God help me... and pray for me. Thanks for reminding me pastor.
Halo everyone....I want to thank God for leading me to this video ☺️🙏, I have been going through a bad depression of heart break after me and my spouse separating....when I watched this I honestly made peace with myself....all the bad character the pastor has said ...my fiancee had(5years)..she did all wierd things and in secret pain I kept my calm and smile but hurting so much inside....this video has relieved my heart so much because I hav been in pain .....thank u thank you thank you 😩😢🙏..... honestly women lately need to think beyond just themselves 😢🤦 please
I must confess that everything that the man of God said here is how I used to behave with the man I love I took him for granted not until he gets tired and told me that we are incompatible only for me to realize that av been a mess using my own hands to spoil what God has kept for me now am regretting everything I did pleading for God to forgive me and bring him back to me.
How foolish I was because I thought he could not leave me.
This message has really touched my hrt , every single day I pray to God to forgive me and make me to be a virtuous woman, and I also pray for God to forgive and rekindle the love my man use to av for me. I just want to make it right again. I pray the holy spirit will not make me to just hear this wonderful message but also put it into practice for my own good.
Thank you sir for this wonderful message God will continue to bless and give more messages like this to impact into women. Av been recalcitrant about my relationship, stubborn don't listen.
Father bless help me mend my relationship.
I receive the Grace of a virtues woman the woman talked about in proverb 31: 10-31
And I pray that God will bless me with more Grace to be a good wife, a good mother , a good sister, a good daughter a good friend a good colleague a good neighbor and a good person in the society in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen
Thanks for this wonderful message, I'm so bless and fill with knowledge and wisdom 🙏from u apostle
THE WAY I SUFFERED.... JUST BEING LIKE THAT.... WHENEVER I HEAR THOSE WORDS I BURST INTO TEARS
HAD TO COMMENT I REALLY ENJOY THESE WORDS AS A YOUNG MAN THANKS ITS UPLIFTING 🙏
Thank you Lord for such down to- earth teachings. Be blessed forever servant of God
I wish submission, support, and success was enough but it wasn’t enough for some kingdom men.
This is true unfortunately some men don't know what is a husband. As a woman I will give anything with all my heart. But that doesn't always mean things are appreciated. It can be very hard. Please husbands when you have a good wife don't harm her, don't put your family and friends before. Do not lie and betray her. She is still human. You are two in one harming her will harm you.
My spirit is at Peace listening to you I watch and listen to your true teaching every day may you be blessed with more wisdom,I receive my motherly Grace🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen I'm just 22 but I'm really learning so much from this man I swear I thank the almighty for man like him teaching us so much 😟😓 all the way from Namibia 💜
Lord I thank you for this message 🙏 help me to be the best mother and wife to my family in Jesus name🙏
Blessed be Your name Lord. I receive Grace to be a devoted wife and mother to my family in all areas, amen.
Thank you papa, for this great message,I receive grace to be a good wife, mother to our children before I became one.
I recieve grace to be a wife indeed! Be it unto me according to God's word and promises.
Thank you pastor for the WISDOM.
I receive grace to be a good wife and mother.....
AMEN
Amen
Amen in JESUS Name.
Amen
didn't expect that i know i've done one thing well on my first date with my husband a few years ago . when we went home (to him) we had a great time, watched comedies and then went to bed . we tried to mix it with spanish fly natural drops and we knew that we're the best for each other
slowly changing my life in many aspects - thank you for everything
Woww. I'm a new wife, I play this audio over and over. Thank you😊🙏🏼
Lord,
I receive Grace to be a good Wife, Mother, and Priest in Jesus name! I repent for the times I did not uphold these, titles, roles and positions. I walk in the Grace that You give me to bring out the King in my Kingdom Spouse, in Jesus name.
I like it because we are being cautioned by a very powerful man of God hoping its not falling on deaf ears,God doesnt like untideness. THANKS MAN OF GOD
Heavenly Father, pls forgive me for my wrongs, and help me not to take my husband for granted in any form, help me to be a godly wife and mother and to your glory already in Jesus name Amen
lm just 23 just got married.... they are some things that makes me wonder maybe l made a mistake... but from this teaching lm beginning to understand what should be done for my marriage to work 💐 thank you for your teaching
God bless you son of God for this wondering teaching, am blessed that holy spirit led me to this teaching today. I have learnt a lot and willing to learn a lot from you.
Chaii so rich papa alot of lessons gotten from the teaching .This whati tell my sisters but they think am stern thank God they are listening to this today God bless you 🙏
I receive Grace , Lord on this day i dedicate my self to respect and honor my husband. All i need is your help Lord
Lord give me strength,wisdom,and courage to continue this journey with you 🙏🏽. Thank you for your reality check.
Thank you man of God. You are such an icon to the youths of this generation
I am glad my hears have heard these words of knowledge before marriage