The last thing I will speak on this. I have not been perfect. I definitely have done things I have regretted. But ultimately the things that transpired were done by the years of hurt I've felt. I will not act innocent in any of this. But graham is not either. In this situation WE ARE BOTH THE BAD GUYS. Thanks for the love and support. Taking it day by day.
@UCBnXTGYf1YIbH4HZAAduAHA I am not defending either one, but they were seperated. Call it cheating or not but they were seperated. I understand your posture, they are legally married and I absolutely find it disgusting and disturbing that they do such a thing whether together or seperated.
elleandbabes love you! Youre the fist family vlog i ever found and I will always be watching and supporting you and your lovely kiddos. I admire your strength Elle. ❤️
Just the fact that your taken this situation so maturely and not feeding into his cry for attention says alot. Im glad your able to resist the urge to stoop down to his level. After you get use to the change it will get better. Stay strong! 💙
Yall, THIS IS A WOMAN. period. Blank. At the end of the day no woman should ever have to defend themselves ESPECIALLY to a public crowd. It takes more strength to hold your composure than it is to spill your guts and embarrass yourself, your family and your reputation. A mother is a representation of their children. A rightful mother would never put their own burdens upon their childrens names. I am proud and happy to see elle post this video, respectfully. Best wishes to u and ur babies elle❤ we see you ❤
When a woman looks and sounds like you. The confidence that you are exuting . This is different from the first video you posted when you were pregnant and emotional. I don’t see hurt in your eyes anymore, I see peace, I see that you were checked out and you can definitely tell. Too little too late. I think Graham needs to go to therapy.
Annelyce Yawingu how is that putting someone down? Did I say “Graham’s a psycho he needs therapy?” Lol no I said I think Graham needs to go to therapy....and that’s where it ended.
love_nyc_ graham, did you make a fake RUclips account to comment this on every comment... who cares if he walked in on that? They weren’t together. He should’ve knocked... if that even happened 🙄
You can tell you’re done with the back & forth when you don’t even shed a tear. how’d you do it, I’m trying to get to that point! You’re strong for that. 💪🏼
So sorry you’re going through this but like everyone else said you’re strong and you’ll overcome this with time. In the mean time can we get a tutorial on this bombass glow up look you’re serving us?
people saying she’s wrong for saying “it’s not my day”. im pretty sure she didn’t mean that because it’s not her day, she doesn’t care about her kids or that their not hers while their away. i know when my kids are with their dad, their dad is responsible for them AT THAT MOMENT. just like i would be when their in my care. & i feel like that’s what she meant, because that’s the way i took it.
I give you soooo much credit for being so mature about the situation. I saw his Instagram live and it pissed me off a lot the way he was talking about you and you’re being a bigger person for going about things this way. Head up mama we have little nuggets watching us ❤️ you got this shit
Honestly it’s not my place to say what happened but there are ways for you to find their ig lives if you look for them on RUclips. If you choose to find them I do encourage you to watch elles as well and not just his if they’re still up on here. People screen recorded them and posted them...there’s always those people.
Abbie Storc thank you and I’ll watch. I have mad respect for her because she’s been hurt so many times but she still wants to keep her image good for her well being and her kids. I hope to meet her one day, I used to like Graham but not anymore he seemed fake tbh
@@lauslora6511 Literally get OFF my channel. That is NOT what happened. I could tell the REAL story. But that would make everyone look like the bad guy in this situation. If you ar4e not going to support me. Leave.
i picked up a certain vibe off those tweets. you’re a strong woman & amazing mom and graham is a good active father. as long as you keep your parenting separate from the personal you’ll be fine.
i think, once you’ve been hurt time after time. & theres really no healing, jumping back to being together and things fall out of place. (Whatever the situation may be) Ive been in a place where i just don’t feel the need for crying, sobbing, etc because when you feel like you’re done, you’re done. & realize your value, the self love. everything. Stay strong Elle. You’re one badass mom ❤️
This honestly was a very mature way to talk about it. Your kids will thank you for thinking of them! I applaud you for putting you and your kids first. When my parents divorced it was the best thing for them. They were able to become the best versions of themselves and my brother and I didn’t have to witness the fights anymore. I’m so excited to see what the future brings to you!
Wishing you the best and in the end what matters is your kids! Me and my husband went through something similar last year and we worked through it and I’m glad we did but in order for a marriage to make it both people have to be willing to fight. One sided relationships don’t work! Love you Elle 💕
You handled this so much more Mature then a lot of youtubers break ups. You don’t owe an explanation to anyone what matters is how you grow from all this
When you did that prank on him with the flowers you could see how mad he was (not that I blame him for being mad) but you could tell he has some insecurity and anger issues. I think it’s best to go your separate ways and work on yourselves separately. Wishing your the both the best.
You’ve got this! I was in a very similar situation. And I carried myself in the same manner. He ran to social media and made up a lot of things about me. I was portrayed in a very bad matter.. and I just let myself seem like the bad guy. Mostly because the people that mattered to me new the truth. Everyone else had no idea what was even going on behind the scenes.. and I didn’t need to clarify or justify anything. I did right by my children and my family. I felt a lot of manipulation and things.. but I still kept my head held high.. and tried to move with grace and maturity.. people say things about us to make themselves feel better about how they treated us.
I’m getting out of a long term relationship and other than having kids and being married, I can relate so much. Can’t wait to see your new journey and hope that I can learn how to be strong like you have.
Can we admire how beautiful Elle looks 😍 You handled this so mature. I couldn’t agree with you more. Situations like this should be handled/talked about in private between the two of you. You guys have 3 kids together.
I feel like both of you just need to get past all the hurt feelings and try to be wonderful parents for your children ❤️ I don’t believe in taking “sides”. The mature thing to do is not air out the dirty laundry because the internet is forever. And all your kids have to do is search up y’all names and everything will pop up.
Coming from a wife who is fighting for her husband back, from making mistakes that hurt him. You inspire me tremendously and I commend you on your truth! 💯
elle, it doesn’t matter if it isn’t your turn with the kids. it doesn’t matter if you’ve gone plenty of days without him being there. your priority should always be your children, there is no “I literally couldn’t be there”. Your child was in a whole ass hospital 😬 God bless, love you and your babes!
Katia Vaillancourt yeah I know, that’s exactly what he did. I’m not saying that what she did was wrong cause I wasn’t with her wtf do I know lol I’m js what she said was wrong.
I’m really sorry this is happening right now. I know divorces can be painful. I don’t mean to impose my beliefs on you or anything, but God is there with you through it all. Cling to him with all your heart and find your strength in him. I can’t imagine the pain and I don’t know how to help but he does. God bless you my friend ❤️
Just caught up on your videos and I want to say that it is none of our business as to what is happening behind closed doors but we appreciate you even taking the time to make this video. You all are the parents and it comes down to you guys and your kiddos. On a happier note, you look absolutely beautiful and seems as though you are already glowing up and moving on. Things will get better! You got this!! 🤍🤍
Honestly, his tweets were very childish. It felt like something a teen or middle schooler would tweet when their mad, and his tweets being excited about the US attack on Iran were alarming. How can someone be happy and excited to go to war when innocent people will be killed. Lost all respect for him.
Ash Danaé they honestly just got married and had kids way too early. They are both still way immature - by the tweets that have been sent from both they still have a lot of growing up to do
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I personally have been going through the same stuff this year and taking the private, respectful route can be sooo difficult. But I am so proud of you and I wish you so so much happiness and peace. You are a fantastic mother
kudos to you for not stooping to his level. Taking the high road to protect your children shows how mature you've become. I respect you so much more for that. As a child of divorce, I remember my parents took similar routes and I am so thankful my mom never talked shit about my dad when it happened.
This is the first video of yours I've ever watched. I'm about in the same boat as you except I'm not getting a divorce. I feel stuck. But this gives me hope and I hope that you keep us updated on how you're feeling, this video and future videos could save so many mothers and other women.
I’ve been in this very situation. I’m 39 with four three kids are in y’all age group. I know everyone has their truth. The kids are the most important.❤️❤️❤️❤️
This does not have to be the end of your marriage ! I totally understand where you are coming from as far as you going out and him being more then able to take y’all’s child on his own he was trying to control you in a sense. But it is not ok to speak on this through social media SEEK COUNSELING! some of us don’t know how to work through problems in marriages because our parents are divorced and they weren’t good examples to us ! But this doesn’t mean you guys have to be the same ! This does not have to be the end ! You were BOTH wrong! Forgive and move on don’t look back but make sure you learn from this
You’re very smart and went about this well-respect! You both need to focus on improving yourselves and it’s clear that can’t be done together at this point. Time and introspection will do you both(and the kids!) so much good. Children understand so much more than they are given credit for- even at Forrest age there could be lasting effects and memories from arguments etc. I wish for the best for you guys. Get councillors involved if you can so you guys can learn to co parent your 3 children successfully without using them as pawns to hurt/control each other. It’s okay to not know how to do that without help.
My first marriage was as simply put "get them before they can get me". It was toxic for us for our 3 kids. We divorced and grew up so much a part. We did everything together (birthdays, big or small holidays) we did end up getting married again. Not everything works out but I see the damage we did to the kids when they were little. We still once and a great while have some good old ptsd from the first marriage. We have no right to pick sides. When people talk they talk from a place of hurt. Sometimes our views of a situation isn't the clearest. Just remember in that moment you both might see it as how your saying/feeling.
When she said it’s none of our business I felt that thank you for being the first you tuber to have a personal side of life verse RUclips your a great mom and boss ass bitch thankyou
People shouldn’t have to be up in your business its none of their business you have three beautiful kids that need you and graham I hope you and your kids have a loving,blessed life ☺️ and I hope you and graham can co-parent together ❤️
This is the way you handle these situations 👏🏼 I always tell my friends to NEVER air out their personal issues online for many reasons, so glad you decided to take this route and keep what’s meant to be private private . Best of luck!! I literally stayed on a 30 sec ad so you can get your coin sis lol sending love ❤️
Ok, while I feel for you girl, I do.. I am so so sorry that you’re going through this and I’m glad that you are being strong an being a big person enough to not blast him and everything he’s done... You’ve GOTTA change that smoke alarm battery 😂😇. Love to you girl. Xoxo.
I don’t think it’s right what Graham is doing, seems like that’s his way of letting it out tho. You’re being mature, and thinking of yourself too. It’s going to be really hard from now on and time will tell when it will get better. Wishing you both the peace you both need.
i've been watching your channel for years and all I can say is as someone who's parents went through a very nasty divorce, I think you are taking the high road on keeping things private. Yes you are a public figure and we watch your videos but it's none of our business on the details of your divorce. In the end you have your self respect and dignity and I appreciate you for that. And I'll keep supporting your videos and I can't wait to watch all the good things for you in 2020!
I've been in your shoes momma & you are doing the right thing for you & your kiddos , mine are now older & I'm thankful I took the high road back then because it will come to light & the kiddos will eventually see it all . As bad as it hurts not defending yourself now there will come a day when your kids are old enough to see the truth because not even necessarily told by you , mine got old enough to see their fathers ways & knew for themselves in the end . New Year New Elle ❤️❤️
You seem like a slightly different version of yourself in this video in the best way possible. You’ve carried yourself so maturely in this video! Your business is your business , just because you post videos, doesn’t mean you owe us anything! I’ve watched you from day one and I’m so proud of you! Sending you love from London as always❤️❤️❤️
Wow what an inspiration you are ! Your being so mature about the whole situation , him sharing everything and bad mouthing you on social media only shows lack of maturity . We respect you so much and things can only go up. Now it’s time to focus on yourself and the kids and be happy . Sending my love Youv got this 💗
The confidence you speak with says allot about you. You don’t need to explain anything to the world just your children. I hope Graham makes peace and stops the pettiness because at the end of the day the only ones who become affected are the kids. Love you Elle !
I appreciate what your saying and how your keeping it Private I understand and think Graham shouldn't of posted anything and as U said keep it to Ur selves. I love U keep pushing 😍😍❤️❤️❤️ . Also your stunning 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You go girl. You are a strong women that is raising three awesome children. You are a normal person and you have the right to have emotions just because you are a RUclipsr that doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings. At the end of the day you have to be happy for your kids. Love you and will support you no matter what💕
I have been watching you from the beginning ! I am praying for you ❤️ You are handling this much more maturely than him. Proud of you. Keep going mamas!
I feel you so much on this video! Me and my kids dad broke up bc he cheated when I was pregnant and left me for someone else. That didn’t work out and I’ve spent the last 1.5yr dealing with lies hurt and manipulation! Best of luck to you girl!! ❤️
Yes Elle, so much respect to you for the maturity and respect no matter what you did and what he did. This is what I was trying to tell him on Twitter. I’m so glad you took the highway for your kids! Everything will get better
It takes a lot to be able to explain to anyone regardless of the amount of people about something so .. vulnerable and personal! I went through a similar situation where no I wasn’t perfect in ANY way shape or form but my ex pushed me to fall out of love and when he got mad at me for moving on he proceeded to make false accusations of me on social media and everyone believed him. I never really spoke on it even tho I had evidence proving him wrong bc it just wasn’t worth it. Hoping for happiness & healing for all of you. 🤍
You really are amazing Elle & I really admire the fact that you are not going to drag Graham (as you’re taking into consideration that someday your babies will see this video,) it shows who is the bigger person in the situation.I pray for nothing but the very best for you and your precious babies. I have been through this after 12 years of marriage and 2 children,so I can most definitely relate. Love you and your sweet babies.
Coming from a family with divorced parents, truly it is bery difficult but it is the absolute best thing for your children. Feel better love, 2020 is the year to grow❤️
Ah hun Im so sorry. I got a divorce 3 years ago. The marriage was absolute hell. Abuse and it was always like if I did something that upset him he would seek revenge and hurt me by purpose it was sooo toxic. It’s not love and what you describe isn’t true love. I met the most amazing man a year later and I’m so happy. It was meant to end. Sometimes God shuts a door for a reason. The toxicity is bad for your health mental and physical. You’ll get through this and be happy one day that it ended things will turn around and you’ll be so happy in the end even if you can’t see it now cause I know divorce is excruciating but this too shall pass ❤️
I’m so proud of you Elle. The route you chose to take is incredibly hard, but great because someone is trashing your name and you want so bad to defend yourself but you’re bigger than that. I’ve actually noticed that things weren’t really good and I’m glad you left him instead of staying for the kids or trying to make it work for the wrong reasons. The kids will notice no matter what you do, but I’m sure Lacey will appreciate your mature and classy response and solution. Love ya 💓
Aw Elle keep your head up. You’re a beautiful young woman. I’m not siding with anyone. But I will say it will get better and you will move forward from this tough stage in your life.
The truth is there comes a point that things need to end because there isn’t any fixing it’s more exhausting trying to fix than being happy. It’s your time hun you have to do what’s best for you. You have gave it your all and that’s all you could of done. New year new chapter. You deserve to be happy he deserves to be happy separate ways. All your babies need is love. Best of luck to you and God bless you. Put God first and you will get through. ♥️
I'm definitely here for you hun, do what's best for you and only the people who been through something like that will understand how you can hold onto something and not mentally be there. We love you and still support you!
Oh nooo Elle, I am so so beyond sorry. I know that nothing I say will make it any better. So all I will say is look after yourself. And twitter i think is so toxic. I am on it but iys not a good place. Also this is of top, you look drop dead georgous 💜 Hugs. From a random girl from ireland whos watched you almost 2 years now 🤗 Julie.
i’ve watched both your videos. i hope you both find peace within yourselves and each other. i know you both will do whatever you can to be the best parents possible, as you always have. wishing the best for you elle. much love
Once a women is done she’s done, point blank period. You can’t do anything to get any women to come back after she is DONE. Proud of you girly. Hope everyone the best of luck and hope you guys can become friends and co-parent! ❤️❤️❤️
Sending you gentle hugs, and huge credit for being mature and not having a dig at him because he had one at you, moral high ground goes to the strong amazing mumma xxxxx
The last thing I will speak on this. I have not been perfect. I definitely have done things I have regretted. But ultimately the things that transpired were done by the years of hurt I've felt. I will not act innocent in any of this. But graham is not either. In this situation WE ARE BOTH THE BAD GUYS. Thanks for the love and support. Taking it day by day.
Sometimes you don’t end up together forever and that’s ok.
So much love for you and the kids! 💕
@UCBnXTGYf1YIbH4HZAAduAHA I am not defending either one, but they were seperated. Call it cheating or not but they were seperated. I understand your posture, they are legally married and I absolutely find it disgusting and disturbing that they do such a thing whether together or seperated.
elleandbabes love you! Youre the fist family vlog i ever found and I will always be watching and supporting you and your lovely kiddos. I admire your strength Elle. ❤️
Just the fact that your taken this situation so maturely and not feeding into his cry for attention says alot. Im glad your able to resist the urge to stoop down to his level. After you get use to the change it will get better. Stay strong! 💙
Can we just take a moment that you look absolutely stunning
Diane Garcia she’s gorgeous! 😍
She really does!!
Diane Garcia she really does!! She always does though!
Did she loose weight? Or is it the contour?
facts.
Anyone else find she looks like Demi Lovato!??? You look beautiful ❤️
the life of K&A YESSS, I thought I was the only one who noticed. She even sounds like her.
Same thing I said
Her voice even sounds like her here.
Def just said this 🤣
First time on this channel and I said that
when a woman makes a video like this and doesnt even shed a tear...she's DONE! *ends with a smile on her face* LOVE IT!!!!
Facts
Yall, THIS IS A WOMAN. period. Blank. At the end of the day no woman should ever have to defend themselves ESPECIALLY to a public crowd. It takes more strength to hold your composure than it is to spill your guts and embarrass yourself, your family and your reputation. A mother is a representation of their children. A rightful mother would never put their own burdens upon their childrens names. I am proud and happy to see elle post this video, respectfully. Best wishes to u and ur babies elle❤ we see you ❤
When a woman looks and sounds like you. The confidence that you are exuting . This is different from the first video you posted when you were pregnant and emotional. I don’t see hurt in your eyes anymore, I see peace, I see that you were checked out and you can definitely tell.
Too little too late.
I think Graham needs to go to therapy.
karinchi11 🙌
No need to lift someone and put someone down, therapy? They both need it..
Love them both!
Annelyce Yawingu how is that putting someone down?
Did I say “Graham’s a psycho he needs therapy?”
Lol no I said I think Graham needs to go to therapy....and that’s where it ended.
love_nyc_ graham, did you make a fake RUclips account to comment this on every comment... who cares if he walked in on that? They weren’t together. He should’ve knocked... if that even happened 🙄
karinchi11 so does she. Both do
You can tell you’re done with the back & forth when you don’t even shed a tear. how’d you do it, I’m trying to get to that point! You’re strong for that. 💪🏼
Love you babygirl 💛
So sorry you’re going through this but like everyone else said you’re strong and you’ll overcome this with time. In the mean time can we get a tutorial on this bombass glow up look you’re serving us?
Girl I’m so proud of you! Good for you taking the high road even though I know how hard that road is
You just gained a new subscriber
people saying she’s wrong for saying “it’s not my day”. im pretty sure she didn’t mean that because it’s not her day, she doesn’t care about her kids or that their not hers while their away.
i know when my kids are with their dad, their dad is responsible for them AT THAT MOMENT. just like i would be when their in my care. & i feel like that’s what she meant, because that’s the way i took it.
I give you soooo much credit for being so mature about the situation. I saw his Instagram live and it pissed me off a lot the way he was talking about you and you’re being a bigger person for going about things this way. Head up mama we have little nuggets watching us ❤️ you got this shit
Abbie Storc what happened? I dont Have Twitter and didn’t see his live
Abbie Storc what happened? On the live please tell me
Honestly it’s not my place to say what happened but there are ways for you to find their ig lives if you look for them on RUclips. If you choose to find them I do encourage you to watch elles as well and not just his if they’re still up on here. People screen recorded them and posted them...there’s always those people.
Abbie Storc thank you and I’ll watch. I have mad respect for her because she’s been hurt so many times but she still wants to keep her image good for her well being and her kids. I hope to meet her one day, I used to like Graham but not anymore he seemed fake tbh
@@lauslora6511 Literally get OFF my channel. That is NOT what happened. I could tell the REAL story. But that would make everyone look like the bad guy in this situation. If you ar4e not going to support me. Leave.
I will never choose Sides between ya'll. I hope you can both move forward and find a way to co-parent and do what Is best for your children.
i picked up a certain vibe off those tweets. you’re a strong woman & amazing mom and graham is a good active father. as long as you keep your parenting separate from the personal you’ll be fine.
Has anyone told you that you look like demi Lovato?
i think, once you’ve been hurt time after time. & theres really no healing, jumping back to being together and things fall out of place. (Whatever the situation may be) Ive been in a place where i just don’t feel the need for crying, sobbing, etc because when you feel like you’re done, you’re done. & realize your value, the self love. everything. Stay strong Elle. You’re one badass mom ❤️
i like that youre being mature about the situation!!
This honestly was a very mature way to talk about it. Your kids will thank you for thinking of them! I applaud you for putting you and your kids first. When my parents divorced it was the best thing for them. They were able to become the best versions of themselves and my brother and I didn’t have to witness the fights anymore. I’m so excited to see what the future brings to you!
I was hella distracted the whole time bc you look so stunning sis 😍 okay girl
Wishing you the best and in the end what matters is your kids! Me and my husband went through something similar last year and we worked through it and I’m glad we did but in order for a marriage to make it both people have to be willing to fight. One sided relationships don’t work! Love you Elle 💕
She’s literally GLOWINGGG THO🔥🔥🔥🔥
I respect you even more now. I hope your healing comes quickly and that you’re at peace 💗
You handled this so much more
Mature then a lot of youtubers break ups. You don’t owe an explanation to anyone what matters is how you grow from all this
This is breaking my heart 💔 but anything & everything happens for a reason I wish you & the kids nothing but the best!!
Im so sorry you are going through this.
When you did that prank on him with the flowers you could see how mad he was (not that I blame him for being mad) but you could tell he has some insecurity and anger issues. I think it’s best to go your separate ways and work on yourselves separately. Wishing your the both the best.
I’m sorry to hear ur getting a divorce keep ur head up just focus on your children
You’ve got this! I was in a very similar situation. And I carried myself in the same manner. He ran to social media and made up a lot of things about me. I was portrayed in a very bad matter.. and I just let myself seem like the bad guy. Mostly because the people that mattered to me new the truth. Everyone else had no idea what was even going on behind the scenes.. and I didn’t need to clarify or justify anything. I did right by my children and my family. I felt a lot of manipulation and things.. but I still kept my head held high.. and tried to move with grace and maturity.. people say things about us to make themselves feel better about how they treated us.
I know exactly how you feel girl. I called it quits after an 11 year two kids relationship. This will all get better soon.
You have handled yourself so well throughout this whole thing. I'm proud
I don’t know the story but she seems so composed it is evident that she is tired & done with it.
I’m getting out of a long term relationship and other than having kids and being married, I can relate so much. Can’t wait to see your new journey and hope that I can learn how to be strong like you have.
Can we admire how beautiful Elle looks 😍
You handled this so mature. I couldn’t agree with you more. Situations like this should be handled/talked about in private between the two of you. You guys have 3 kids together.
divorce... yikes.. but your makeup looks bomb 😭😭😭
I feel like both of you just need to get past all the hurt feelings and try to be wonderful parents for your children ❤️ I don’t believe in taking “sides”. The mature thing to do is not air out the dirty laundry because the internet is forever. And all your kids have to do is search up y’all names and everything will pop up.
Coming from a wife who is fighting for her husband back, from making mistakes that hurt him. You inspire me tremendously and I commend you on your truth! 💯
Nope move on. Dont ever fight for a man
elle, it doesn’t matter if it isn’t your turn with the kids. it doesn’t matter if you’ve gone plenty of days without him being there. your priority should always be your children, there is no “I literally couldn’t be there”. Your child was in a whole ass hospital 😬 God bless, love you and your babes!
Keila R and she was drunk. showing up to a hospital drunk or high is not ideal. but go off sis
She had plans to go out with friends, was drinking and graham was with them, he’s the dad he can take care of his children without Elle being there.
Jordyn Gray she never said she was drunk though and even if she did say it or if she was drunk, what she said is still wrong.
Katia Vaillancourt yeah I know, that’s exactly what he did. I’m not saying that what she did was wrong cause I wasn’t with her wtf do I know lol I’m js what she said was wrong.
Keila R she was drunk she said it on instagram and nothing was wrong with this. Absolutely nothing you’re picking side
havent watched yet, just wanna say u look beautiful 😭😭
I’m really sorry this is happening right now. I know divorces can be painful. I don’t mean to impose my beliefs on you or anything, but God is there with you through it all. Cling to him with all your heart and find your strength in him. I can’t imagine the pain and I don’t know how to help but he does. God bless you my friend ❤️
Just caught up on your videos and I want to say that it is none of our business as to what is happening behind closed doors but we appreciate you even taking the time to make this video. You all are the parents and it comes down to you guys and your kiddos. On a happier note, you look absolutely beautiful and seems as though you are already glowing up and moving on. Things will get better! You got this!! 🤍🤍
Honestly, his tweets were very childish. It felt like something a teen or middle schooler would tweet when their mad, and his tweets being excited about the US attack on Iran were alarming. How can someone be happy and excited to go to war when innocent people will be killed. Lost all respect for him.
What's his twitter? I cant find it
not to pick sides bc i think they've both said and done some shitty things but uhhhhh did you read hers? equally if not more childish hahah
Ash Danaé they honestly just got married and had kids way too early. They are both still way immature - by the tweets that have been sent from both they still have a lot of growing up to do
Mayra S Oh yeah absolutely. I think everyone here knows that. lol
Kayla Griffen what were the tweets about ?
Thank you for sharing your side. I know this was hard to film. Thinking of/ praying for you and your family during this time. 💕 🙏🏻
Whatever makes you and those babies happy 💛 peace and blessings 💗
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I personally have been going through the same stuff this year and taking the private, respectful route can be sooo difficult. But I am so proud of you and I wish you so so much happiness and peace. You are a fantastic mother
kudos to you for not stooping to his level. Taking the high road to protect your children shows how mature you've become. I respect you so much more for that. As a child of divorce, I remember my parents took similar routes and I am so thankful my mom never talked shit about my dad when it happened.
I can’t even focus all the way bcus you’re glowing!! You look gorgeous girl! Wishing you the best in your new journey ❤️
This is the first video of yours I've ever watched. I'm about in the same boat as you except I'm not getting a divorce. I feel stuck. But this gives me hope and I hope that you keep us updated on how you're feeling, this video and future videos could save so many mothers and other women.
She’s looks like Demi Lovato 😍
I’ve been in this very situation. I’m 39 with four three kids are in y’all age group. I know everyone has their truth. The kids are the most important.❤️❤️❤️❤️
This does not have to be the end of your marriage ! I totally understand where you are coming from as far as you going out and him being more then able to take y’all’s child on his own he was trying to control you in a sense. But it is not ok to speak on this through social media SEEK COUNSELING! some of us don’t know how to work through problems in marriages because our parents are divorced and they weren’t good examples to us ! But this doesn’t mean you guys have to be the same ! This does not have to be the end ! You were BOTH wrong! Forgive and move on don’t look back but make sure you learn from this
I feel like people should remain neutral bc no one needs to know anything tbh
before we watch this video can we admire how BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE 😭😍😍
Hey Elle I am going through this with 4 babies thank you for sharing and being vulnerable it’s helps me.
You’re very smart and went about this well-respect! You both need to focus on improving yourselves and it’s clear that can’t be done together at this point. Time and introspection will do you both(and the kids!) so much good.
Children understand so much more than they are given credit for- even at Forrest age there could be lasting effects and memories from arguments etc.
I wish for the best for you guys. Get councillors involved if you can so you guys can learn to co parent your 3 children successfully without using them as pawns to hurt/control each other. It’s okay to not know how to do that without help.
My first marriage was as simply put "get them before they can get me". It was toxic for us for our 3 kids. We divorced and grew up so much a part. We did everything together (birthdays, big or small holidays) we did end up getting married again. Not everything works out but I see the damage we did to the kids when they were little. We still once and a great while have some good old ptsd from the first marriage.
We have no right to pick sides. When people talk they talk from a place of hurt. Sometimes our views of a situation isn't the clearest. Just remember in that moment you both might see it as how your saying/feeling.
When she said it’s none of our business I felt that thank you for being the first you tuber to have a personal side of life verse RUclips your a great mom and boss ass bitch thankyou
So genuine and I totally feel you as a single mother 💙 you’re so strong
People shouldn’t have to be up in your business its none of their business you have three beautiful kids that need you and graham I hope you and your kids have a loving,blessed life ☺️ and I hope you and graham can co-parent together ❤️
This is the way you handle these situations 👏🏼 I always tell my friends to NEVER air out their personal issues online for many reasons, so glad you decided to take this route and keep what’s meant to be private private . Best of luck!! I literally stayed on a 30 sec ad so you can get your coin sis lol sending love ❤️
Kudos for you for taking the higher road and admitting that you aren’t innocent either. You are so strong!!!
Ok, while I feel for you girl, I do.. I am so so sorry that you’re going through this and I’m glad that you are being strong an being a big person enough to not blast him and everything he’s done...
You’ve GOTTA change that smoke alarm battery 😂😇.
Love to you girl. Xoxo.
you don’t need to explain anything! You’re such an amazing mom keep being amazing 😃
I feel this 1000000%!!! I went through something similar minus kids in my situation. Proud of ya girl!
I don’t think it’s right what Graham is doing, seems like that’s his way of letting it out tho. You’re being mature, and thinking of yourself too. It’s going to be really hard from now on and time will tell when it will get better. Wishing you both the peace you both need.
Hello Elle im praying for good outcomes for you my love ive missed you
i've been watching your channel for years and all I can say is as someone who's parents went through a very nasty divorce, I think you are taking the high road on keeping things private. Yes you are a public figure and we watch your videos but it's none of our business on the details of your divorce. In the end you have your self respect and dignity and I appreciate you for that. And I'll keep supporting your videos and I can't wait to watch all the good things for you in 2020!
I've been in your shoes momma & you are doing the right thing for you & your kiddos , mine are now older & I'm thankful I took the high road back then because it will come to light & the kiddos will eventually see it all . As bad as it hurts not defending yourself now there will come a day when your kids are old enough to see the truth because not even necessarily told by you , mine got old enough to see their fathers ways & knew for themselves in the end . New Year New Elle ❤️❤️
You seem like a slightly different version of yourself in this video in the best way possible. You’ve carried yourself so maturely in this video! Your business is your business , just because you post videos, doesn’t mean you owe us anything! I’ve watched you from day one and I’m so proud of you! Sending you love from London as always❤️❤️❤️
Wow what an inspiration you are ! Your being so mature about the whole situation , him sharing everything and bad mouthing you on social media only shows lack of maturity . We respect you so much and things can only go up. Now it’s time to focus on yourself and the kids and be happy . Sending my love Youv got this 💗
The confidence you speak with says allot about you. You don’t need to explain anything to the world just your children. I hope Graham makes peace and stops the pettiness because at the end of the day the only ones who become affected are the kids. Love you Elle !
I appreciate what your saying and how your keeping it Private I understand and think Graham shouldn't of posted anything and as U said keep it to Ur selves. I love U keep pushing 😍😍❤️❤️❤️ . Also your stunning 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You go girl. You are a strong women that is raising three awesome children. You are a normal person and you have the right to have emotions just because you are a RUclipsr that doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings. At the end of the day you have to be happy for your kids. Love you and will support you no matter what💕
I admire your strength wow! I hope 2020 brings you healing and happiness! You deserve it ♥️
I have so much respect for you. You respect him for being your kids father and refuse to stoop to his level. It’s not worth it. 💕
Awww you’re so beautiful despite the pain you going through. I hope you feel better soon
I have been watching you from the beginning ! I am praying for you ❤️ You are handling this much more maturely than him. Proud of you. Keep going mamas!
Stay strong! Praying for you and the kids always 💗
Chirp. Just change the battery.
Please don't delete this video I'm at work rn :(
I feel you so much on this video! Me and my kids dad broke up bc he cheated when I was pregnant and left me for someone else. That didn’t work out and I’ve spent the last 1.5yr dealing with lies hurt and manipulation! Best of luck to you girl!! ❤️
Yes Elle, so much respect to you for the maturity and respect no matter what you did and what he did. This is what I was trying to tell him on Twitter. I’m so glad you took the highway for your kids! Everything will get better
Just hoping for you both to be happy and that everything works out the best
It takes a lot to be able to explain to anyone regardless of the amount of people about something so .. vulnerable and personal! I went through a similar situation where no I wasn’t perfect in ANY way shape or form but my ex pushed me to fall out of love and when he got mad at me for moving on he proceeded to make false accusations of me on social media and everyone believed him. I never really spoke on it even tho I had evidence proving him wrong bc it just wasn’t worth it. Hoping for happiness & healing for all of you. 🤍
You really are amazing Elle & I really admire the fact that you are not going to drag Graham (as you’re taking into consideration that someday your babies will see this video,) it shows who is the bigger person in the situation.I pray for nothing but the very best for you and your precious babies. I have been through this after 12 years of marriage and 2 children,so I can most definitely relate. Love you and your sweet babies.
Is there no perfect relationship ?
Is there no strong successful marriage?
Many couples is going through divorce
Coming from a family with divorced parents, truly it is bery difficult but it is the absolute best thing for your children. Feel better love, 2020 is the year to grow❤️
Ah hun Im so sorry. I got a divorce 3 years ago. The marriage was absolute hell. Abuse and it was always like if I did something that upset him he would seek revenge and hurt me by purpose it was sooo toxic. It’s not love and what you describe isn’t true love. I met the most amazing man a year later and I’m so happy. It was meant to end. Sometimes God shuts a door for a reason. The toxicity is bad for your health mental and physical. You’ll get through this and be happy one day that it ended things will turn around and you’ll be so happy in the end even if you can’t see it now cause I know divorce is excruciating but this too shall pass ❤️
You do you girl! Honestly him posting what he posted on Instagram was uncalled for and childish 🤷🏻♀️ sorry not sorry
I never chose sides. I understand both point of views though. Stay strong. Love you both. 💛 I pray the ugly part of this whole situation stops soon.
Keep your head up, girl. You’ll get though this. Praying for you!
I’m so proud of you Elle. The route you chose to take is incredibly hard, but great because someone is trashing your name and you want so bad to defend yourself but you’re bigger than that. I’ve actually noticed that things weren’t really good and I’m glad you left him instead of staying for the kids or trying to make it work for the wrong reasons. The kids will notice no matter what you do, but I’m sure Lacey will appreciate your mature and classy response and solution. Love ya 💓
Anyone still as confused as we were prior to thus video?
Aw Elle keep your head up. You’re a beautiful young woman. I’m not siding with anyone. But I will say it will get better and you will move forward from this tough stage in your life.
The truth is there comes a point that things need to end because there isn’t any fixing it’s more exhausting trying to fix than being happy. It’s your time hun you have to do what’s best for you. You have gave it your all and that’s all you could of done. New year new chapter. You deserve to be happy he deserves to be happy separate ways. All your babies need is love. Best of luck to you and God bless you. Put God first and you will get through. ♥️
I'm definitely here for you hun, do what's best for you and only the people who been through something like that will understand how you can hold onto something and not mentally be there. We love you and still support you!
Oh nooo Elle, I am so so beyond sorry. I know that nothing I say will make it any better. So all I will say is look after yourself. And twitter i think is so toxic. I am on it but iys not a good place. Also this is of top, you look drop dead georgous 💜 Hugs. From a random girl from ireland whos watched you almost 2 years now 🤗 Julie.
Girl you look gorgeous and completely over this situation ..I hope you get through this and can be happy soon you deserve it !!
i’ve watched both your videos. i hope you both find peace within yourselves and each other. i know you both will do whatever you can to be the best parents possible, as you always have. wishing the best for you elle. much love
Once a women is done she’s done, point blank period. You can’t do anything to get any women to come back after she is DONE. Proud of you girly. Hope everyone the best of luck and hope you guys can become friends and co-parent! ❤️❤️❤️
Sending you gentle hugs, and huge credit for being mature and not having a dig at him because he had one at you, moral high ground goes to the strong amazing mumma xxxxx