Shanzi On Her Marriage With Nino, Starting A Family, Being Cheated On & Social Media | Toxic Talk

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  • @natashabell5895
    @natashabell5895 Год назад +486

    Shanzi is a very intelligent lady. Conducted herself well in the interview.

  • @felnluvwithyou505
    @felnluvwithyou505 Год назад +213

    This interview showed how mature and intelligent Shanice is and hence the success in both her relationship and private life.

  • @bb.tinaaa
    @bb.tinaaa Год назад +120

    Shanzi’s parents set the foundation! Which definitely molded her for who she is today 🫰🏽

  • @kmdunruly
    @kmdunruly Год назад +539

    Jaii and him divorce dem ago always be the highlight 😂

  • @dianegreene6952
    @dianegreene6952 Год назад +286

    Shanzi I admire you both, I got married at 22 and still married at 55. Continue to keep God in the center of your marriage and leave people out of your marriage. I love you & Nino and I don’t even know you. Continue ignoring the naysayers❤Enjoy your marriage❤️❤️

    • @Kissmebabetvofficial
      @Kissmebabetvofficial Год назад +22

      I wish alot of people knew how important it is to keep people out your marriage

    • @traebeauco
      @traebeauco Год назад +4

      Admirable ❤

    • @travelwithme589
      @travelwithme589 Год назад

      Same I got married at 22 as well and my husband was 21

  • @renegadeconstantine9490
    @renegadeconstantine9490 Год назад +92

    Shanzi understand what real commitment is and she is well balanced. Traits of a great wife.

  • @reckaewhite1622
    @reckaewhite1622 Год назад +44

    I love Shanzi. She is so on point with relationship advice. I love how she minds her business and is grounded.

  • @Milliondollarperson
    @Milliondollarperson Год назад +122

    Shanzi a the real meaning of HIGH CLASS, HIGH VALUE WOMAN. Top class💯.. Hope they marriage last forever…

    • @sherc186
      @sherc186 Год назад +2

      She wasn't always like that ..remember she had her man he had his woman so in the beginning she was just a F er girl ...she work hard an spent alot on him...now she is a happy wife

    • @Milliondollarperson
      @Milliondollarperson Год назад +3

      @@sherc186 Get like her then.

    • @sherc186
      @sherc186 Год назад +1

      @@Milliondollarperson You the one praising her without knowing their full story..they spoke about it dear ...btw I have my own life..u should try it

    • @Milliondollarperson
      @Milliondollarperson Год назад +1

      @@sherc186 I’m happily married to my American wife love, life is good. Have a good day now

    • @nekovero93
      @nekovero93 10 месяцев назад

      Absolutely!!!

  • @TellyTellsIt
    @TellyTellsIt Год назад +110

    This was a nice healthy convo. I’ve been following Shanzi since she was 16 I’m proud of how grounded and mainly drama free she has been. Evidence of a really firm foundation l

  • @Dani-Dee
    @Dani-Dee Год назад +161

    I love how assertive Shanzi is

  • @nafesacarr
    @nafesacarr Год назад +176

    It's never too young to get married it all about maturity I got married at age 22 and am still married 18years now

    • @chan_eise
      @chan_eise Год назад +5

      Love that for you❤️☘️

    • @DJAddo
      @DJAddo Год назад +3

      Congrats

    • @sebastienmarvonhalen1166
      @sebastienmarvonhalen1166 Год назад +13

      I got married at 23 and we are still happily married July being 23 years.

    • @chan_eise
      @chan_eise Год назад +1

      @@sebastienmarvonhalen1166 with you self😂❤️

    • @sebastienmarvonhalen1166
      @sebastienmarvonhalen1166 Год назад

      @@chan_eise Cheer up Chan....hopefully you will be married happily some time soon....Enjoy your evening.

  • @kaishagooden5866
    @kaishagooden5866 Год назад +213

    Jai using these interviews as therapy I hope he gets the love he deserves.

    • @visianwatson1047
      @visianwatson1047 Год назад +1

      Was just thinking about it

    • @EmpressQueenB
      @EmpressQueenB Год назад

      Very true

    • @recolcummings2833
      @recolcummings2833 Год назад +9

      Talk truth😂😂😂 the toxicity in his words is so potent I can feel my skin burning

    • @petaanndennis3662
      @petaanndennis3662 Год назад

      I agree with you

    • @Whotfiskiara
      @Whotfiskiara 9 месяцев назад

      He needs a real therapist tho cuz it’s actually insane how damaged and toxic he is and from how him talk it sound like it come from childhood problems

  • @nelashafuller3112
    @nelashafuller3112 Год назад +35

    I just love education!! You can tell that Shanzi is educated! Little girls stay in school… she is not only a beauty but she is also brilliant.

  • @ciciloves5053
    @ciciloves5053 Год назад +202

    I do believe jaii when he said he wants to be love …and as a fellow Pisces I think he is getting therapy through these interview not only checks😅❤️

    • @chan_eise
      @chan_eise Год назад +8

      I agree

    • @unbotheredchico
      @unbotheredchico Год назад +3

      This is the best avenue for his therapy. Getting it from different people's perspectives. Money can't buy this one

    • @javarstephenson1101
      @javarstephenson1101 Год назад +3

      😂true me believe so

  • @tameikawint3745
    @tameikawint3745 Год назад +93

    Jai really wants to be loved. Hoping he’ll find someone who will accept him as he is.

  • @torigrant4639
    @torigrant4639 Год назад +73

    These interviews are therapeutic for him. He’s a good guy, I’m a Pisces we are emotional and brutally honest with our feelings. I was like this too; his toxic talks about relationship is just a facade & defense mechanism. He ain’t healed has yet, but in due time he will.

    • @tinasamuels2124
      @tinasamuels2124 Год назад

      I'm too,emotional baddddd,An definitely brutally honest😅

  • @queennessa5427
    @queennessa5427 Год назад +15

    So detailed yet she’s not sharing too much. I love that ❤

  • @daintyann1795
    @daintyann1795 Год назад +23

    Narcissist are magnetic to empaths… careful, everything is all about him this is sad. He doesn’t realize that he has many narcissistic traits

  • @shanieldacres9020
    @shanieldacres9020 Год назад +71

    Beautiful interview I love how she express herself and the look on her face when she mentioned about her husband love that.

  • @stephainejohmson6746
    @stephainejohmson6746 Год назад +19

    “ anybody that’s having sex with him make sure unuh use a birth control” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I died

  • @dakideny87
    @dakideny87 Год назад +83

    Interview starts off wit yuh known mi married twice. I am about to start a go fund jaii for his next marriage

  • @gabbdonn
    @gabbdonn Год назад +37

    I loved this interview. I literally agreed with everything Shanzi said. Even when she was explaining herself I was finishing her sentences because she and I have a similar philosophy. She’s extremely intelligent and knows what she wants. I wish her and her husband the best.

  • @shantalmendez1454
    @shantalmendez1454 Год назад +22

    Shanzi is a sweetheart. Never really heard her talk so much. Really pull him up, hope him reflect

  • @UnknownUnknown-jv6vv
    @UnknownUnknown-jv6vv Год назад +26

    I truly enjoyed watching this segment and I rate Shaniza even more. She's so beautiful and down to earth🙏🏽

  • @phaige_
    @phaige_ Год назад +53

    Shanzi is very intelligent and this interview has taught me so much

  • @toribarrett_
    @toribarrett_ Год назад +40

    I enjoyed this interview so much!🤍 Shanzi conducted herself so maturely & as a woman!🙌🏽

  • @sososhorty6479
    @sososhorty6479 Год назад +34

    I like how Shanice put him on the spot and challenged him 🤣🤣 good fi yuh, yuh meet yuh next match. But all fun and joke aside, I'm glad he considered getting therapy though he really needs it. I believe he has the potential to love again and love the right and proper way once him tek life and relationship more seriously 🙏 big up yuh self Jaii love the work yah put in pon yuh platforms

  • @daniidaley3238
    @daniidaley3238 Год назад +16

    39:51 It’s Shanzi saying that’s why you single and miserable for me🤣🤣🤣🙆🏽‍♀️♏️

  • @staceybrown3068
    @staceybrown3068 Год назад +27

    Jaii wants love he's just really hurt and holding on to that hurt so he puts up a wall..shazi is so beautiful 🙏🙏

  • @ashantinoble4030
    @ashantinoble4030 Год назад +21

    Jaii keeps saying "in reality" as if Shanzii ain't talking REALITY then he takes over, start being petty/childish nd start say baaayy fuckry.... It's the type of women u choose make u feel like that Jaii stop blaming all women nd stop being afraid to love.... U cya waah LOVE and afraid to LOVE, and stop take up the crawsis gal them and come blame and class good women. Realize how Shanzii smiles when she speak about her HUSBAND???? YESSS that's all coming from how he makes her feel and how she feel about him, LOVE to see it. ❤❤

  • @3806danielle
    @3806danielle Год назад +5

    I love that she said you’re the problem because I’ve always listened to you and I’m like wow this man hates women! Who hurt him?! Mighty God u have so much good things coming open your heart to accept it. If you’re negative, positive things can’t find you.

  • @Donniesid
    @Donniesid Год назад +16

    Im new to this channel. For those of us who dont follow the Jamaican gossip blogs and are not up to speed with current affairs, it would be nice to have a detailed intro as to why the guest is relevant. A little background story would help. I am aware of the Sandz events. But not really knowledgeable on who Nino is, or why the relationship initially was controversial enough to be considered for the gossip sites. Love this channel and think you're a great and entertaining interviewer.

  • @kenroypalmer6385
    @kenroypalmer6385 Год назад +20

    Nino and shanzi come raise di standard inna Jamaica 🇯🇲 #happylife #happywife #mArriage 🎊 🎉😂😊 #LOVEANDHAPPYNESS I wish them all the best so others can see marriage still can work many years to come

  • @TotalBodybyT
    @TotalBodybyT Год назад +12

    Great interview. This was not toxic but rather refreshing. I know this space should be toxic but this was nice to watch❤

  • @sherrianhawthorne2155
    @sherrianhawthorne2155 Год назад +26

    i love shanzii reasoning abilities❤

  • @kraziikiim
    @kraziikiim Год назад +21

    “It’s worst in person” Lmaoo …. Jaii will mad any mad person with his “toxic logic”

  • @romaineeasy
    @romaineeasy Год назад +86

    Jaii can talk bout him divorce eeh man🤣

    • @sanjlove4789
      @sanjlove4789 Год назад +18

      He was hurt. Any man who repeatedly talk about a hurtful situation just knw seh it lick dem.

    • @romaineeasy
      @romaineeasy Год назад +5

      @@sanjlove4789 Him chip mash up

    • @chrissy8284
      @chrissy8284 Год назад +3

      He's for sure however at this point, this is jaiis catch phrase for the fan base cause we surely expect him to say it and we laugh cause we get it

    • @damage678
      @damage678 Год назад

      @@sanjlove4789 it’s really not that deep….it’s just a running joke on the podcast among many others.

  • @javie1chop60
    @javie1chop60 Год назад +69

    Shanzi always a smile

  • @daniidaley3238
    @daniidaley3238 Год назад +19

    I do respect and value Shanzi and Nino to how they set their boundaries and understanding their relationship a lot us out here dating don’t know what the hell they want nor they don’t get what they are doing to their partners in relationships!

  • @janicew-j560
    @janicew-j560 Год назад +8

    Me like this girl, she’s a product of her environment, she born and grow in love and it shows. She’s headstrong and has great reasoning ability. Host Toxic bad, who hurt yu breda? Lol

  • @shanaesworld
    @shanaesworld Год назад +6

    He definitely gives off the toxic vibes, run ladies,Shanzi reasoning is very logic and mature.

  • @kimbel4640
    @kimbel4640 Год назад +30

    Shanzii looks more and more like her mom the older she gets. Beautiful chica

  • @stacy2766
    @stacy2766 Год назад +15

    Very intelligent conversation @Shanzi! Like the advise given to Jaii at the end

  • @sashanapowell2658
    @sashanapowell2658 Год назад +18

    I love this interview shanz just pure and straightforward on another note jai always haffi tell the guest you no a 2 time mi did married before 😂😂

  • @mikkibosslady2927
    @mikkibosslady2927 Год назад +16

    😂😂😂 finally somebody told him “Leggo the hurt”. He always sounds so damn bitter.

  • @godsentjesussaves3160
    @godsentjesussaves3160 Год назад +9

    I loved how she articulated everything. Great interview

  • @nalesababooram6676
    @nalesababooram6676 Год назад +18

    Shanzi is so intelligent, great interview

  • @farrelking733
    @farrelking733 Год назад +42

    You are the boss of interviews... jah know.... love how you keep the show lively no matter who is the guest

  • @RenaeAmando24
    @RenaeAmando24 Год назад +47

    Shanzi is so down to earth ❤

  • @racquelrobinson8669
    @racquelrobinson8669 Год назад +52

    shanzi is a sweet soul..

  • @dhatgirldonna
    @dhatgirldonna Год назад +28

    Shanzi on point with the counselling

  • @Diandra_Marcelin
    @Diandra_Marcelin Год назад +20

    Hmm 🤔 I learned something from this. I am the type to hold things in and then bring up everything he did that I didn’t like in that moment maybe that’s how my husband feels when I do that.🤔🤔 oh well! 😂😂

    • @isabelalaudez9413
      @isabelalaudez9413 Год назад +11

      Change it me love because even the best man have a limit.

    • @Diandra_Marcelin
      @Diandra_Marcelin Год назад +1

      @@isabelalaudez9413Very true. I’m working on it.

  • @LaughOutLovePodcast.
    @LaughOutLovePodcast. Год назад +7

    Whyyyy jaiii talk sooo confident and he’s LITERALLY not making sense .

  • @kalayciasimpson2985
    @kalayciasimpson2985 Год назад +66

    Feel like Shanzi helped him self reflect a little 😂😂

  • @rochellejames8118
    @rochellejames8118 Год назад +6

    Not until you change you'll find love..geez!

  • @dearirie
    @dearirie Год назад +38

    This has become my favorite podcast, it keeps me entertained on my Amazon routes #toxictalk

  • @simpsonkemisha4482
    @simpsonkemisha4482 Год назад +5

    When shanzi say a that's y u single and miserable and Jaii say "you come ya fi diss mi tu" 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @patriciabalfour6194
    @patriciabalfour6194 Год назад +5

    Where a person meet you does not matter, it is who the person is inside

  • @lennettbucknet417
    @lennettbucknet417 Год назад +2

    Good interview by Shanzi ...girl no only pretty she can hold conversation eno...love how she counsel Jaii😅😅😅

  • @glenicepottinger1114
    @glenicepottinger1114 9 месяцев назад +1

    Shanzi is just the epitome of class. Well rounded young lady❤

  • @tameikawint3745
    @tameikawint3745 Год назад +17

    It’s not about a rich dad. A child needs time and love.

  • @lh293
    @lh293 Год назад +3

    Shanzi is so right “it’s an online persona but not reality “

  • @salomephillips1876
    @salomephillips1876 Год назад +6

    😅 this man is so exhausting lol oh my. He's definitely hurt but great chat. Hope he finds the "one".

  • @Luvbunnie461
    @Luvbunnie461 Год назад +6

    Shanzi concious doe.. as a dolly.. man!! So refreshing. ❤

  • @darringtonferguson6893
    @darringtonferguson6893 Год назад +12

    B4 we start you know seh me did married 2 time right? 😂😂😂😂 man killing dem with that question dwl yute me neva tiad fi hear it dwl

    • @simplicityseeu
      @simplicityseeu Год назад +1

      I think he now do it for the fun of it. I laugh each time he says it 😊😊😊

  • @zannalinks4827
    @zannalinks4827 Год назад +4

    After watching , Shanzi is so intelligent Straight forward and beautiful keep holding your focus young lady and fuljoy you married life with Nino don't listen to the noise in the market ❤🙏💪

  • @ladysmiley9195
    @ladysmiley9195 Год назад +7

    Well said Shanzi, "If the man can't take the lead then I have to put on my pants." right deh suh.💯
    Jaii, you have to seriously take some time off from women and chill. Give yourself some time before you go back into a relationship. You seem damaged n toxic yow! 😄

  • @dhatgirldonna
    @dhatgirldonna Год назад +14

    He needs to heal a lot. Too much hurt under a cold heart facade.

  • @sherylgreen1
    @sherylgreen1 Год назад +17

    Single mothers raised a lot of good children, and they come out to be good and successful. Love how you reason Shanzi you speaks with wisdom.

    • @tonyjovan1885
      @tonyjovan1885 Год назад +5

      you must be crazy very few single mom raise good children, that's why so much gun man is in Jamaica because of single moms.

    • @nathanaelbell1936
      @nathanaelbell1936 Год назад +4

      You crazy most time when single mothers raise children without the father being present the children normally turn out bad that's why you have so many gun man cause alot of them nuh grow up with no father figure

    • @lasvegas9750
      @lasvegas9750 Год назад +1

      @@nathanaelbell1936 ..not true most time is the environment and the influence they were raise in and the parents have big roll in it too..my mom was a single mother none of my brother come out bad..

    • @lasvegas9750
      @lasvegas9750 Год назад

      @@tonyjovan1885 ..I am a single mother to my son..and he didn't turn out bad

  • @deliahbernal4663
    @deliahbernal4663 Год назад +3

    That’s right ! shanzi right if you can’t take the lead she will always be leary to follow!

  • @dennystapleton6227
    @dennystapleton6227 Год назад +33

    "Go live wid yuh bruk mada" 😂😂😂😂

  • @chineygymnastic
    @chineygymnastic Год назад +58

    Convinced Jaii made this show because he needs healing 😂

  • @brightystar8089
    @brightystar8089 Год назад +18

    Nah lie shanzi laugh contagious love the interview

  • @Shehasgrown
    @Shehasgrown Год назад +5

    Oh God man, me tired a Jaii and this “you know me did married 2 time right?”

  • @DeeandTee_London
    @DeeandTee_London Год назад +5

    Shanzi has this calming presence. ❤

  • @always_wishing28
    @always_wishing28 Год назад +17

    Toxic talk was not the forum for this conversation.. Loved the interview but this is more Let's B Honest interview. Love you both though

    • @traphall
      @traphall Год назад +11

      It's relationship stuff so ofcourse it's gonna be on toxic talk, let's be honest is more a entertainment/music thing

  • @2Hearts1Love
    @2Hearts1Love Год назад +7

    Love is the answer, love this interview!

  • @Gemini_baby540
    @Gemini_baby540 Год назад +8

    I'm addicted to these interviews...... a nuh just now ya do it and ya get better... been a watch u from chevi days. Big up uself. 😊

  • @aliyah.d.c
    @aliyah.d.c Год назад +24

    I think he would be a good husband and dad… just pray more and search yourself because the answer is within as to why the relationships don’t work

  • @danekafran
    @danekafran Год назад +28

    Jaii’s personality is his two divorces 😂😂 that’s it that’s all

  • @childofGod4everr
    @childofGod4everr Год назад +10

    I enjoyed this podcast more than alot shanzi is so sweet ...i can tell u were a wife fron day 1

  • @monalysa326
    @monalysa326 Год назад +5

    I swr this n walk n talk interview was a good watch …. I love how everything Shanzi smile for 😊

  • @aakkeemm8766
    @aakkeemm8766 Год назад +14

    The oxtail rope yuh in muma talk the truth 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @yoloyola1104
    @yoloyola1104 Год назад +5

    The sooner you accept your toxicity Jaii, you could possibly open up to getting therapy...From a place of care, you should really consider it, I believe you would heal so many aspects of your life. DAMAGED PEOPLE ATTRACT OTHER DAMAGED PEOPLE. Heal and attract better.
    Absolutely love how Shanzi brought this conversation across.

    • @yoloyola1104
      @yoloyola1104 Год назад

      I pray you don't damage your current situationship partner. She sounds like she is trying too hard to please you and it's not being returned. That nuh balance. #TroubleDehDeh

  • @stephaniec50
    @stephaniec50 Год назад +7

    Great interview!!! I’m definitely gonna follow Shanzi she is so well spoken and represents herself well.

  • @kadianjohnson2148
    @kadianjohnson2148 Год назад +6

    I love how shanzi reason, great show jaii.

  • @chrissy8284
    @chrissy8284 Год назад +14

    Loved todays counseling session 🎉

  • @SamoyFrancis
    @SamoyFrancis Год назад +6

    Shanzi say “No ex husband material”😂🤣love the lady essi

  • @peterleslie78
    @peterleslie78 Год назад +9

    JAII IS SPEAKING Truth…..
    It may not be what you want to hear but it’s facts….
    Most women do what they want if you allow them….
    You have to CHECK your woman from the get go….
    ALWAYS TREAT YOUR WOMAN HOW SHE TREATS YOU AND STAY IN YOUR LANE‼️
    If the relationship doesn’t benefit you outside of sex consider your options because women in general calculate their moves in relationships

  • @Kadieslifestyle
    @Kadieslifestyle Год назад +9

    This was a better representation Shanzi did well 👏🏾👏🏾😊

  • @ruthrodriques1495
    @ruthrodriques1495 Год назад +6

    He so independent in him self so it go hard fi him love a woman

  • @brianrobinson8005
    @brianrobinson8005 Год назад +2

    Solid interview 1 of the best so far, big up Shanzi and Jaii 👍👌

  • @TenaRebel
    @TenaRebel Год назад +27

    Single fathers make better parents because more often than not they are the sole parent because they want to be there! They want to parent. Single mothers often times are that because someone decided not to be a parent.

    • @TenaRebel
      @TenaRebel Год назад +15

      Also, the “village” will easier rally around the father and expect the mother to have it all caz many women so this all the time. It’s expected. If the baby hair want do someone will volunteer or call a hairdresser for the single dad. But with mom? They’ll chastise and say how yuh can’t comb hair? It’s a lot of double standard

    • @nikkipowell5667
      @nikkipowell5667 Год назад +4

      This comment is utter rubbish kmt

    • @876reality8
      @876reality8 Год назад

      @@nikkipowell5667 a simple research would show you that the statement is factual but you rather state your f***ry opinion.

  • @ToyaWilliams
    @ToyaWilliams Год назад +6

    Shanzi I love how you deal with it. 🎉

  • @Rasigarage
    @Rasigarage Год назад +2

    To all the previous yamhead on the show listen to this amazing young woman

  • @nikkimali
    @nikkimali Год назад +4

    Got married at 27 still going strong 8 yrs later

  • @ronniedweetno891
    @ronniedweetno891 Год назад +1

    Another good interview me boss. Keep it coming with the sensible women. Bless 👏👏

  • @brianrobinson8005
    @brianrobinson8005 Год назад

    Dah talk deh dat jaii said about "the only way you get a woman respect from the jump it depnds pon your pocket". Its one a di realest talk, in this world that we living 💯💯💯🌏

  • @shaqirib
    @shaqirib Год назад +4

    A just di pain fada.. Dem leff mi G heart ina shambles! 😂

  • @msnellenelson6637
    @msnellenelson6637 Год назад +10

    At this point I only watch to if he’s going to mentioned he was married!! 😂 lol nuff luv J

    • @chrisannhenry6277
      @chrisannhenry6277 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂me say

    • @queenb9432
      @queenb9432 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @audriabailey7812
      @audriabailey7812 Год назад

      But honestly ppl saying him always talk about is marriage . But it’s different people every week on the show . And when him talk about the marriage each person weh him a interview will respond to him saying he was married and divorced different . I think he’s trying to heal