Fada Shella Speaks On Being Toxic, Being A Father, Wife VS Baby Mother & Cheating | Toxic Talk

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @paradoxr.n.o8688
    @paradoxr.n.o8688 Месяц назад +109

    This was not toxic talk it was therapy

  • @BlackDoll3G
    @BlackDoll3G Месяц назад +34

    I love this reasoning with fada shella when it comes to parenting

  • @juscrissii
    @juscrissii Месяц назад +35

    This is a safe space nobody is here to judge you Sheldon 😂😂😂 i can’t take jaii serious

  • @ashtrom
    @ashtrom Месяц назад +27

    Big up yourself, Jai Frais. Shella talk him mind. Real parent, respect Shella.

  • @Sjfibonacci
    @Sjfibonacci Месяц назад +26

    Very mature reasoning, Shella talk some real ting today

  • @shaunnah27
    @shaunnah27 Месяц назад +11

    Jaii...mi n my babyfather CAN NEVER DEY BACK!!! NEVER!! A nuh every babyfather and babymother will dey back!

    • @kimbles16
      @kimbles16 Месяц назад

      Dat mi bldclt know!! Coulda give me the world. Dat man can never touch me again

  • @tishrob5012
    @tishrob5012 Месяц назад +9

    Deep down, this was therapy for them, plus many persons watching that have been in the same position or still is. I think alot of persons have a big misconception about jaii. This was a very good talk.

  • @kaydineanderson3107
    @kaydineanderson3107 28 дней назад +1

    I love how Jai promotes taking care of your woman 😊

  • @KarahGreen-k3h
    @KarahGreen-k3h Месяц назад +3

    love this toxic talk

  • @thedews2501
    @thedews2501 Месяц назад +7

    Nuff respect Jai Frais. Good reasoning. Shella, I fully agree with your perspective on parenting. 👍🏾

  • @Prolific_Nation
    @Prolific_Nation Месяц назад +20

    Sometime a circumstances fam , mi nah marry a woman unless mi know mi can provide fi her . Still haffi work harder

  • @kiania1867
    @kiania1867 Месяц назад +7

    Realistically speaking. Jaii yuh win 😅

  • @nicolesvlog4272
    @nicolesvlog4272 Месяц назад +4

    When Sheldon get serious him tek off the shades and sit up straight enuh 😂

  • @Dydot14
    @Dydot14 Месяц назад +3

    1 of fav episode enjoyed this so much yutes dem hold a nice meds keep it up Jaii and Shella 🔥🔥

  • @colliemurray
    @colliemurray Месяц назад +1

    I like this reason. I hope one day I can come on your platform and share the most toxic relationship ever. It will blow people's minds.

  • @tamikennz9946
    @tamikennz9946 29 дней назад

    Jaii you make me laugh this morning, I wish this had live commentary 😂😂

  • @erickachambers9646
    @erickachambers9646 Месяц назад +2

    Shella you preach enuh youth… me love this Jai….

  • @RBKEENZ
    @RBKEENZ Месяц назад +6

    Frame look proper and tranquil!

  • @kiania1867
    @kiania1867 Месяц назад +7

    If my man come pan a interview a chat bout him baby mother suh mi leff him. Point blank 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @Nicole-h2v
    @Nicole-h2v Месяц назад +2

    The way shella business sweet jaii frai him haffi rock back ina the chair like ian boyne😭

  • @tatiana3547
    @tatiana3547 Месяц назад +4

    I like him ❤. I lol his personality and everything

  • @nicolesvlog4272
    @nicolesvlog4272 Месяц назад +2

    If mi laugh one more time 😂. Bring back Sheldon soon

  • @Purujii250
    @Purujii250 10 дней назад

    Shella sounds like a great dad…. Love the coparenting mindset

  • @roxanne7760
    @roxanne7760 29 дней назад

    Jai is right. Boundaries have to in parenting in co parenting

  • @jahmaine4308
    @jahmaine4308 Месяц назад +5

    Shella a real youth jay need a child for him to understand a word shella is saying everything shella is saying I’m 100% agree with him because that’s how I am about my son

  • @samanthawellesley4783
    @samanthawellesley4783 Месяц назад

    Love this one big up Sheldon

  • @GoalChaser97
    @GoalChaser97 Месяц назад +5

    My girl cya go pah no trip with no baby father !

  • @TheDanielle20009
    @TheDanielle20009 Месяц назад +16

    Shella a decent youth... He seems like he treats his women well... If a man is playing his role 100% in his child's life even after a relationship has ended then the mother is not technically a single parnet.. They mom and dad are committed co-parents... The strict definition for single mother is a woman who does it all on her own with no or very minimal support from the father... Shella ya good youth you nuh seem toxic to me.. Jai could learn several good things from you because he is very toxic and frankly immature

    • @JonesAvenue-b9x
      @JonesAvenue-b9x Месяц назад

      Leave the man alone everyone can not be the same

  • @LTAI_Pod
    @LTAI_Pod Месяц назад +5

    If my oman gone pon trip wid har BD a it dat... me mi oman and har kid can go pon we own trip cause a fimi pickney too as a GENERAL

  • @channsamuels4844
    @channsamuels4844 13 дней назад

    Jaii fi reallll

  • @asherleeclarke9785
    @asherleeclarke9785 Месяц назад

    Great episode ❤🎉

  • @nikki101
    @nikki101 Месяц назад +1

    Im a woman and if my partner said he wants to have an RGD type marriage, i would agree but on the terms that when we financially up we have the wedding / renew our vows.

  • @abrafo5272
    @abrafo5272 Месяц назад +2

    Jai is right about the trip situation.Shella a which man want go on a trip with you the baby daddy and them woman

  • @wildroserichie3486
    @wildroserichie3486 Месяц назад +3

    Big up a real fada....anno money alone grow pickney haffi put in the timeeeee.

  • @affeshiamorris1026
    @affeshiamorris1026 Месяц назад

    Good convo

  • @firered504
    @firered504 Месяц назад +3

    Jai wouldn't understand he doesn't have kids ,respect shella I understand everything you say bro

  • @JeffreyMatthews-r1p
    @JeffreyMatthews-r1p Месяц назад +1

    Facts jay!

  • @anthoneynevera8680
    @anthoneynevera8680 Месяц назад +2

    20:26 a who e dawg a talk😂😂

  • @CautionzProd
    @CautionzProd Месяц назад +1

    26:15 Connect With Mi🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂😂

  • @AmandaMills-h5s
    @AmandaMills-h5s 28 дней назад

    Nice reasoning ❤

  • @dwayneholness3081
    @dwayneholness3081 Месяц назад

    J you fully right

  • @gyalissyndrome
    @gyalissyndrome Месяц назад +2

    48:54 same bro..call mi insecure 😂

  • @nyheshamckay7233
    @nyheshamckay7233 14 дней назад

    True him a talk enuh from him a sell chocolate at tg😂😂

  • @papiiimc
    @papiiimc Месяц назад +1

    Welcome to a new episode of the safe space 😆

  • @sasha-leewelds648
    @sasha-leewelds648 Месяц назад +2

    Jai… when you become a LOVING, RESPONSIBLE parent…. Come back to this conversation.

  • @tanyahewitt1745
    @tanyahewitt1745 Месяц назад +1

    She's a single woman, not a single mother. He is correct. Jay.

  • @trumogulmusic5884
    @trumogulmusic5884 Месяц назад +1

    Shella yaafi guh have a serious talk wid u baby mother mi fada....

  • @Summertime-33
    @Summertime-33 Месяц назад +1

    One Jai 🎉

  • @JavaughnBrown-y7s
    @JavaughnBrown-y7s Месяц назад +1

    30:29 jaii just start say sumn

  • @Andimsaph
    @Andimsaph Месяц назад +1

    “A Jacky” a Tivoli shella use to go?😂

  • @janiquehowell9250
    @janiquehowell9250 Месяц назад

    Love this… me wouldn’t wah my dude guh pan noooo rhatid trip wit noooo baby mada.. while him live with me???? Ohhh hell noooo

  • @royalefazeentertainment
    @royalefazeentertainment Месяц назад

    Big up to Therapist talk😂😂mi agree wid Jaii, a woman will test yu no matter the level u at in life...Tit fi tat nuff gyal love it...Mi nuh do woman weh call man out dem name..Co Parenting is tricky..but there's no way you can tel me a woman that live with a man that aint the father for her kids is a Single mother..because nuff yute called dem step father dad..so if a man in that house she cant be single mother...typing this i jus heard Jaii bring it up, so i agree....Jaii nuff gyal yu cant tel dem bout small wedding much less dung a RGD😂😂Jaii mi a wonder which Country yu did live, caz a lie dat, nuff bwoy deh a state weh nah work n woman a mind dem..n di gyal dem always a seh dem si dung a play game n nah work..so mi wan know how yu live deh so long n neva hear dat...Memba jcans americanize😂 so dem a follow wah dem si americans dem a do...n yu have some bwoy weh jus lazy n mek gyal a mind dem...while yu have men weh a work n women a strengthen dem ting same way...depends on di situation...

  • @jasonengland4231
    @jasonengland4231 28 дней назад

    Communication mi wah 😂😂😂😂

  • @dontecampbell4212
    @dontecampbell4212 Месяц назад

    Jaii yk yah seh sumo 🤙

  • @ayanawilson1142
    @ayanawilson1142 Месяц назад +1

    Shella real talk… man fi be man 💯

  • @andrewillis2656
    @andrewillis2656 Месяц назад +2

    lol 😂 shella a real one

  • @kiania1867
    @kiania1867 Месяц назад +3

    A firsttttttttttt mi eva agree with jaiii😅 a swear 😂😂

  • @jonrep6073
    @jonrep6073 Месяц назад +2

    But shella a big yam head over him baby mother same way 😂😂😂😂 u delulu me fren

  • @andrew21ad99
    @andrew21ad99 Месяц назад +1

    Jaii yah puuwwwsy bout why the man muh deh bk wid him mada😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kiania1867
    @kiania1867 Месяц назад +1

    Go which Disney land with which baby mother ? And me nuh deh deh ? Lol mussi mad. I am MATURE ! BUT NOT THAT MATURE MI LOVE 😅

  • @sonjsagittarian2
    @sonjsagittarian2 Месяц назад

    Big up Shella & dat a dat.

  • @86keno
    @86keno Месяц назад

    Look like Jay get kick out him apartment…….Man Dey pan lawn now 🫣🤔🫣

  • @nikki101
    @nikki101 Месяц назад

    I think co-parenting is the same as being a single parent.
    Also, both parents can be in the home, and it's still broken. I've seen that with my own eyes

  • @kiania1867
    @kiania1867 Месяц назад

    Boundaries!!!!!

  • @DiEntertainmentportal
    @DiEntertainmentportal Месяц назад +1

    Mi rate dah yute deh reasoning

  • @akeemmckay7471
    @akeemmckay7471 Месяц назад +1

    Just a pree say Jaii would make a good therapist🤔😅

  • @INTHEECITY
    @INTHEECITY Месяц назад

    No bro a nuh so real man move. It nuh mandatory fi a man have the last say but as a man you need fi knowledgeable enough where yuh girl is not always needed in decision making but also relationship is a team thing and a you a di captain so you listen and make the right decisions not “your decision” once a girl see say she is being heard and you willing fi put your opinion aside because hers makes more sense that’s when you get the real respect. A lot a guys lose respect by not listening and then that’s when it lead to physical and emotional abuse because now the man a try get back him power.

  • @Boldambitionapparel23
    @Boldambitionapparel23 Месяц назад

    😂😂😂😂 dis a lead rn

  • @AmandaMills-h5s
    @AmandaMills-h5s 28 дней назад

    Nice❤

  • @JoeDwq
    @JoeDwq Месяц назад

    Jaii inna him feelings

  • @Nicole-h2v
    @Nicole-h2v Месяц назад

    Single mother is the sole parent taking care of a child. A mother is just single if she's not currently in a relationship

  • @AbbiiBrown
    @AbbiiBrown 26 дней назад

    There’s not one interview where jaii Neva seh him married twice😂😂

  • @thatjamericankidd6637
    @thatjamericankidd6637 Месяц назад

    2:40 is the reason why I just walk away

  • @zanaryman6671
    @zanaryman6671 Месяц назад

    I want to go to a court house n get married, but I want a photo shoot n honeymoon. Reception on our 5th anniversary. I want my marriage to be about my husband and I n when we make it to the 5 yrs we celebrate with close friends and family who support the journey to the 5yrs. That’s just me still.

  • @RajiveRoss
    @RajiveRoss Месяц назад

    Yo da chat deh weh Shella mek at @13:37 me know a me him a talk

  • @msblessalkalinemix7834
    @msblessalkalinemix7834 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @unbotheredchico
    @unbotheredchico Месяц назад +1

    lol @44:20 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tanyahewitt1745
    @tanyahewitt1745 Месяц назад

    I am with Jay. But I rate Shella decision. One do what their head or heart can take.

  • @msblessalkalinemix7834
    @msblessalkalinemix7834 Месяц назад

    Jaii not being realistic- I agree with Shella on inviting his child’s mother to events and trips. I see nothing wrong with that if both parents are no longer having feelings for each other- that’s a grown’s man thought. Love that for you Shella…. REAL MAN. Jaii betta mek sure seh he stays with his wife/babymama when the time comes

  • @jhenelleduhaney8549
    @jhenelleduhaney8549 Месяц назад

    Shella a good man period

  • @winstonthomas884
    @winstonthomas884 Месяц назад

    45:25 🤣🤣☠️

  • @ayanawilson1142
    @ayanawilson1142 Месяц назад +1

    Shella a seh nuff tings ennuh 😂

  • @flexxdamone8878
    @flexxdamone8878 Месяц назад +3

    The more u spend pon these young catties d less respect u get

  • @nicolesvlog4272
    @nicolesvlog4272 Месяц назад

    Jaii yuh toxic enuh 🤣

  • @prolifik_hussle5972
    @prolifik_hussle5972 Месяц назад

    Yea Man U depan the right side 😅

  • @jodeysamms417
    @jodeysamms417 Месяц назад +2

    Jai watch MEET THE MITCHELLS and Gio is better off for having parents and stepparents who put his need first.

  • @JavaughnBrown-y7s
    @JavaughnBrown-y7s Месяц назад

    39:00 shella just start seh sumn

  • @Supremefxacademy
    @Supremefxacademy Месяц назад +3

    Fada shella come like walk n talk tpc😂😂 nave a mind a him own😢

  • @shakeraedwards8113
    @shakeraedwards8113 Месяц назад

    lol twin 😭

  • @AndieMcTV
    @AndieMcTV Месяц назад +6

    Context matters. Single Fathers raise more well-adjusted kids because they generally get more help (their mother, sisters, girlfriends); single moms don't get the same kind of support

    • @houseofwhyte
      @houseofwhyte Месяц назад

      😂

    • @FutureTech-hn9bs
      @FutureTech-hn9bs Месяц назад +1

      Lieesssss flat out. This is reversed. However, research done in England, spoke to facts and reasons why men actually grow more well adjusted kids

    • @AndieMcTV
      @AndieMcTV Месяц назад

      @@FutureTech-hn9bs site the source that you read/watched that gave you the statistics that show single fathers receive less support than single mothers. I couldn't find it and I'd like to read/watch it for myself.

    • @JuniorCampbellinspired
      @JuniorCampbellinspired Месяц назад

      @@AndieMcTV Spend the same energy to do your research as you do to flip the narrative and you will find answers if you truly relax biases

    • @AndieMcTV
      @AndieMcTV Месяц назад +1

      ​@@JuniorCampbellinspired all that to say you also don't have a link to provide. Oh ok. Thought so. How am I gonna use effort to find something that doesn't exist?

  • @DOLLEROFFICIAL
    @DOLLEROFFICIAL Месяц назад

    Jai frai 6:49 😂😂😂😂

  • @GreenGobbler-dp7ux
    @GreenGobbler-dp7ux Месяц назад

    That's why I'll never be a Bobette the Builder!
    Men will leave you when they become successful. Don't let them trick you. They want you to sit down while they cheat, and be loyal. Focus on yourselves ladies!

  • @shaunnah27
    @shaunnah27 Месяц назад +1

    Me n my babyfather 8 9 n 10 each other but we went to Disney together as a "family" with our 6 year old daughter n before the trip done me cuss n mi run him!! It can be done for the child sake...no kissing hun mummy and daddy don't kiss.

  • @KarahGreen-k3h
    @KarahGreen-k3h Месяц назад

    Jai ITS NOT ABOUT YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS OF BEING INSECURE IF YOU BABYMOTHER BRING HER BOYFRIEND IS ALL ABOUT THE CHILD. THE CHILD COMES FIRST GET YOUR MINDSET RIGHT AND HEAL PROPERLY.

  • @ACE-xr2rd
    @ACE-xr2rd Месяц назад

    ✍🏾✍🏾✍🏾

  • @otiscoley
    @otiscoley Месяц назад

    Nuh wah nuh man buy mi yute nth

  • @JonesAvenue-b9x
    @JonesAvenue-b9x Месяц назад

    Girl should spend money on there man ,things an times change

  • @toya5031
    @toya5031 Месяц назад

    Single parents are different from parent that are single.

  • @RabianOfficial
    @RabianOfficial Месяц назад

    Joke this 29:30 facts 30:39

  • @walfrett
    @walfrett Месяц назад

    like di man dem fi get seh a suppose to toxic talk this?