Deep down, this was therapy for them, plus many persons watching that have been in the same position or still is. I think alot of persons have a big misconception about jaii. This was a very good talk.
Jai i was at a wedding recently and one of the couple had both biological parents and both step parents at the wedding! Based on what Jai is saying he is promoting the right thing better to be one family but pple make it work
Shella a decent youth... He seems like he treats his women well... If a man is playing his role 100% in his child's life even after a relationship has ended then the mother is not technically a single parnet.. They mom and dad are committed co-parents... The strict definition for single mother is a woman who does it all on her own with no or very minimal support from the father... Shella ya good youth you nuh seem toxic to me.. Jai could learn several good things from you because he is very toxic and frankly immature
Shella a real youth jay need a child for him to understand a word shella is saying everything shella is saying I’m 100% agree with him because that’s how I am about my son
No bro a nuh so real man move. It nuh mandatory fi a man have the last say but as a man you need fi knowledgeable enough where yuh girl is not always needed in decision making but also relationship is a team thing and a you a di captain so you listen and make the right decisions not “your decision” once a girl see say she is being heard and you willing fi put your opinion aside because hers makes more sense that’s when you get the real respect. A lot a guys lose respect by not listening and then that’s when it lead to physical and emotional abuse because now the man a try get back him power.
Im a woman and if my partner said he wants to have an RGD type marriage, i would agree but on the terms that when we financially up we have the wedding / renew our vows.
Big up to Therapist talk😂😂mi agree wid Jaii, a woman will test yu no matter the level u at in life...Tit fi tat nuff gyal love it...Mi nuh do woman weh call man out dem name..Co Parenting is tricky..but there's no way you can tel me a woman that live with a man that aint the father for her kids is a Single mother..because nuff yute called dem step father dad..so if a man in that house she cant be single mother...typing this i jus heard Jaii bring it up, so i agree....Jaii nuff gyal yu cant tel dem bout small wedding much less dung a RGD😂😂Jaii mi a wonder which Country yu did live, caz a lie dat, nuff bwoy deh a state weh nah work n woman a mind dem..n di gyal dem always a seh dem si dung a play game n nah work..so mi wan know how yu live deh so long n neva hear dat...Memba jcans americanize😂 so dem a follow wah dem si americans dem a do...n yu have some bwoy weh jus lazy n mek gyal a mind dem...while yu have men weh a work n women a strengthen dem ting same way...depends on di situation...
That's why I'll never be a Bobette the Builder! Men will leave you when they become successful. Don't let them trick you. They want you to sit down while they cheat, and be loyal. Focus on yourselves ladies!
I think co-parenting is the same as being a single parent. Also, both parents can be in the home, and it's still broken. I've seen that with my own eyes
I want to go to a court house n get married, but I want a photo shoot n honeymoon. Reception on our 5th anniversary. I want my marriage to be about my husband and I n when we make it to the 5 yrs we celebrate with close friends and family who support the journey to the 5yrs. That’s just me still.
Context matters. Single Fathers raise more well-adjusted kids because they generally get more help (their mother, sisters, girlfriends); single moms don't get the same kind of support
@@FutureTech-hn9bs site the source that you read/watched that gave you the statistics that show single fathers receive less support than single mothers. I couldn't find it and I'd like to read/watch it for myself.
@@JuniorCampbellinspired all that to say you also don't have a link to provide. Oh ok. Thought so. How am I gonna use effort to find something that doesn't exist?
Jaii not being realistic- I agree with Shella on inviting his child’s mother to events and trips. I see nothing wrong with that if both parents are no longer having feelings for each other- that’s a grown’s man thought. Love that for you Shella…. REAL MAN. Jaii betta mek sure seh he stays with his wife/babymama when the time comes
Jai ITS NOT ABOUT YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS OF BEING INSECURE IF YOU BABYMOTHER BRING HER BOYFRIEND IS ALL ABOUT THE CHILD. THE CHILD COMES FIRST GET YOUR MINDSET RIGHT AND HEAL PROPERLY.
So that means if Usain finishes 4th in a race and the goal is to medal did he medal??? No so what do you mean the marriage isn’t a failure if you left a better person you can leave a better person from something that failed, how is that different from people who think they’re animals just because you feel like that doesn’t make it true Marriages aren’t supposed to end in divorce so if it ends in divorce, it failed.
This was not toxic talk it was therapy
Facts
@@whitmore9640 true
Facts
@@Rgent1 true
Let be honest Till toxic talk bro ! So the show name d real propose.
This is a safe space nobody is here to judge you Sheldon 😂😂😂 i can’t take jaii serious
I love this reasoning with fada shella when it comes to parenting
Big up yourself, Jai Frais. Shella talk him mind. Real parent, respect Shella.
Very mature reasoning, Shella talk some real ting today
Jaii...mi n my babyfather CAN NEVER DEY BACK!!! NEVER!! A nuh every babyfather and babymother will dey back!
Dat mi bldclt know!! Coulda give me the world. Dat man can never touch me again
Shella sounds like a great dad…. Love the coparenting mindset
Deep down, this was therapy for them, plus many persons watching that have been in the same position or still is. I think alot of persons have a big misconception about jaii. This was a very good talk.
Nuff respect Jai Frais. Good reasoning. Shella, I fully agree with your perspective on parenting. 👍🏾
Sometime a circumstances fam , mi nah marry a woman unless mi know mi can provide fi her . Still haffi work harder
1 of fav episode enjoyed this so much yutes dem hold a nice meds keep it up Jaii and Shella 🔥🔥
I like this reason. I hope one day I can come on your platform and share the most toxic relationship ever. It will blow people's minds.
I love how Jai promotes taking care of your woman 😊
love this toxic talk
Jaii you make me laugh this morning, I wish this had live commentary 😂😂
Shella you preach enuh youth… me love this Jai….
When Sheldon get serious him tek off the shades and sit up straight enuh 😂
Realistically speaking. Jaii yuh win 😅
Frame look proper and tranquil!
Jai i was at a wedding recently and one of the couple had both biological parents and both step parents at the wedding! Based on what Jai is saying he is promoting the right thing better to be one family but pple make it work
The way shella business sweet jaii frai him haffi rock back ina the chair like ian boyne😭
Love this one big up Sheldon
Shella a decent youth... He seems like he treats his women well... If a man is playing his role 100% in his child's life even after a relationship has ended then the mother is not technically a single parnet.. They mom and dad are committed co-parents... The strict definition for single mother is a woman who does it all on her own with no or very minimal support from the father... Shella ya good youth you nuh seem toxic to me.. Jai could learn several good things from you because he is very toxic and frankly immature
Leave the man alone everyone can not be the same
Shella a real youth jay need a child for him to understand a word shella is saying everything shella is saying I’m 100% agree with him because that’s how I am about my son
Great episode ❤🎉
Jai is right. Boundaries have to in parenting in co parenting
The Disney trip question have mi 😅
If mi laugh one more time 😂. Bring back Sheldon soon
Jaii spitting facts
I like him ❤. I lol his personality and everything
I agree with Shella a parent should be parents for life! Not until the child turn 18
If my man come pan a interview a chat bout him baby mother suh mi leff him. Point blank 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
No bro a nuh so real man move. It nuh mandatory fi a man have the last say but as a man you need fi knowledgeable enough where yuh girl is not always needed in decision making but also relationship is a team thing and a you a di captain so you listen and make the right decisions not “your decision” once a girl see say she is being heard and you willing fi put your opinion aside because hers makes more sense that’s when you get the real respect. A lot a guys lose respect by not listening and then that’s when it lead to physical and emotional abuse because now the man a try get back him power.
20:26 a who e dawg a talk😂😂
My girl cya go pah no trip with no baby father !
Jaii fi reallll
26:15 Connect With Mi🤦🏾♂️😂😂😂
If my oman gone pon trip wid har BD a it dat... me mi oman and har kid can go pon we own trip cause a fimi pickney too as a GENERAL
Im a woman and if my partner said he wants to have an RGD type marriage, i would agree but on the terms that when we financially up we have the wedding / renew our vows.
Welcome to a new episode of the safe space 😆
48:54 same bro..call mi insecure 😂
True him a talk enuh from him a sell chocolate at tg😂😂
There’s not one interview where jaii Neva seh him married twice😂😂
Big up a real fada....anno money alone grow pickney haffi put in the timeeeee.
Good convo
Jai is right about the trip situation.Shella a which man want go on a trip with you the baby daddy and them woman
Jai wouldn't understand he doesn't have kids ,respect shella I understand everything you say bro
Facts jay!
“A Jacky” a Tivoli shella use to go?😂
Love this… me wouldn’t wah my dude guh pan noooo rhatid trip wit noooo baby mada.. while him live with me???? Ohhh hell noooo
lol 😂 shella a real one
Communication mi wah 😂😂😂😂
Jai… when you become a LOVING, RESPONSIBLE parent…. Come back to this conversation.
Shella yaafi guh have a serious talk wid u baby mother mi fada....
J you fully right
She's a single woman, not a single mother. He is correct. Jay.
Go which Disney land with which baby mother ? And me nuh deh deh ? Lol mussi mad. I am MATURE ! BUT NOT THAT MATURE MI LOVE 😅
Jaii yah puuwwwsy bout why the man muh deh bk wid him mada😂😂😂😂😂
Big up to Therapist talk😂😂mi agree wid Jaii, a woman will test yu no matter the level u at in life...Tit fi tat nuff gyal love it...Mi nuh do woman weh call man out dem name..Co Parenting is tricky..but there's no way you can tel me a woman that live with a man that aint the father for her kids is a Single mother..because nuff yute called dem step father dad..so if a man in that house she cant be single mother...typing this i jus heard Jaii bring it up, so i agree....Jaii nuff gyal yu cant tel dem bout small wedding much less dung a RGD😂😂Jaii mi a wonder which Country yu did live, caz a lie dat, nuff bwoy deh a state weh nah work n woman a mind dem..n di gyal dem always a seh dem si dung a play game n nah work..so mi wan know how yu live deh so long n neva hear dat...Memba jcans americanize😂 so dem a follow wah dem si americans dem a do...n yu have some bwoy weh jus lazy n mek gyal a mind dem...while yu have men weh a work n women a strengthen dem ting same way...depends on di situation...
That's why I'll never be a Bobette the Builder!
Men will leave you when they become successful. Don't let them trick you. They want you to sit down while they cheat, and be loyal. Focus on yourselves ladies!
Nice reasoning ❤
Yo da chat deh weh Shella mek at @13:37 me know a me him a talk
But shella a big yam head over him baby mother same way 😂😂😂😂 u delulu me fren
Single mother is the sole parent taking care of a child. A mother is just single if she's not currently in a relationship
Jaii yk yah seh sumo 🤙
Shella real talk… man fi be man 💯
I think co-parenting is the same as being a single parent.
Also, both parents can be in the home, and it's still broken. I've seen that with my own eyes
One Jai 🎉
A firsttttttttttt mi eva agree with jaiii😅 a swear 😂😂
Just a pree say Jaii would make a good therapist🤔😅
Real talk
30:29 jaii just start say sumn
Look like Jay get kick out him apartment…….Man Dey pan lawn now 🫣🤔🫣
You must be new here
I am with Jay. But I rate Shella decision. One do what their head or heart can take.
Big up Shella & dat a dat.
I want to go to a court house n get married, but I want a photo shoot n honeymoon. Reception on our 5th anniversary. I want my marriage to be about my husband and I n when we make it to the 5 yrs we celebrate with close friends and family who support the journey to the 5yrs. That’s just me still.
Nice❤
Boundaries!!!!!
😂😂😂😂 dis a lead rn
lol @44:20 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Context matters. Single Fathers raise more well-adjusted kids because they generally get more help (their mother, sisters, girlfriends); single moms don't get the same kind of support
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Lieesssss flat out. This is reversed. However, research done in England, spoke to facts and reasons why men actually grow more well adjusted kids
@@FutureTech-hn9bs site the source that you read/watched that gave you the statistics that show single fathers receive less support than single mothers. I couldn't find it and I'd like to read/watch it for myself.
@@AndieMcTV Spend the same energy to do your research as you do to flip the narrative and you will find answers if you truly relax biases
@@JuniorCampbellinspired all that to say you also don't have a link to provide. Oh ok. Thought so. How am I gonna use effort to find something that doesn't exist?
2:40 is the reason why I just walk away
Jaii not being realistic- I agree with Shella on inviting his child’s mother to events and trips. I see nothing wrong with that if both parents are no longer having feelings for each other- that’s a grown’s man thought. Love that for you Shella…. REAL MAN. Jaii betta mek sure seh he stays with his wife/babymama when the time comes
2:30 shella is a yes or no question
Jai ITS NOT ABOUT YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS OF BEING INSECURE IF YOU BABYMOTHER BRING HER BOYFRIEND IS ALL ABOUT THE CHILD. THE CHILD COMES FIRST GET YOUR MINDSET RIGHT AND HEAL PROPERLY.
Jaii inna him feelings
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Shella a good man period
Jaii yuh toxic enuh 🤣
Yea Man U depan the right side 😅
So that means if Usain finishes 4th in a race and the goal is to medal did he medal??? No so what do you mean the marriage isn’t a failure if you left a better person you can leave a better person from something that failed, how is that different from people who think they’re animals just because you feel like that doesn’t make it true Marriages aren’t supposed to end in divorce so if it ends in divorce, it failed.
Shella a seh nuff tings ennuh 😂
like di man dem fi get seh a suppose to toxic talk this?
Mi rate dah yute deh reasoning
Jail no kid asking parents to kiss lol
45:25 🤣🤣☠️
lol twin 😭
Shella is doing this for the camera like Noah powa
39:00 shella just start seh sumn
Jai watch MEET THE MITCHELLS and Gio is better off for having parents and stepparents who put his need first.
Jai frai 6:49 😂😂😂😂