ok for the second story, its 50/50 for me. because I always fold the pages, BUT I always ask the person owning the book if I can, and if they say no, I just use a bookmark, I didn't know that people got really pisse.d at that.
First story : Yes you are she literally can’t help it like- Second story: Yes it’s common sense if she wants to keep it nice then respect her choices JUST DONT BENT CORNERS- Third story : No , your being honest and it’s best for her to know
@@yourlocalmaterielgirl7797 I think a lot of people have a kind of warped idea of what trauma is. It's not just big stuff like being physically abused or being in a car crash (though those are absolutely valid forms of trauma), but it can also be smaller things, like not fitting in at school, or having a father who is unsympathetic to the fact that you're having terrible nightmares. I can go more in depth if you're curious, but the bottom line is trauma is a lot more complex than a lot of people think, and just because it may not seem like someone doesn't have trauma, doesn’t necessarily mean they don't.
Story 2 me and my cousin do that all the time with our books its pretty normally we don't get mad at each other because we both do it so it's pretty fine it's not that big of a deal barely even matter you know it would be better if you did the bottom
Doesn’t mean OP isn’t in the wrong, that’s you and your cousin. That’s OP and their friend (I think?) OP knew that she liked her books in good condition so there was no reason for OP to be fold the the top corner of it. It also wouldn’t have been better to fold the bottom corner of the book because that wouldn’t make a difference besides it being on another end.
@@shakiyalisane6788 I feel like the friend is less likely to notice it at the bottom and if you don't agree with me don't show it by commenting just click the dislike button and screw off 🙄😒
@@some_random_bs8248 No reason to get mad, you clearly have never had someone disagree with you. Just stating stuff, but the same thing goes for you if you don’t like what I said dislike 🤷🏽♀️ You didn’t have to comment but you choose too basically doing what you told me not to do.
@@some_random_bs8248 Also no I will not just dislike your comment, this is RUclips if your mad if someone replies to a comment you made then get off the internet. Your obviously being aggressive because you dislike when people disagree with you.
Well crap I’ve been bending the tips of my pages in books (don’t worry I only do it to the books I bought) as a child I saw my teacher doing it to her books and I thought it was fine Also I don’t have a book mark and I’m too lazy/forgetful to get one I swear I’ll stop doing this though
about the vacation one, yta. Getting a broken leg is not "nothing" you should have gone on your trip AFTER you asked your daughter if she would be fine when you were gone. 2, your daughter has a broken leg and you turn off your phone when your being spammed by your family????!!!! You didn't read the texts or answer the phone ONCE to figure out what had happened???????!?!?? You weren't concerned in the slightest that your family was calling you?!?!?!? WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU
first story;yta second;yta third story;not ta last story;your daughter had a brocken leg that's not that much of a deal but people are calling you and you ignore it if that many people are calling you then you should answer like something could've happened
I really need your help on this. AITA? So basically I’ve had this friend for a long time, let’s call her Z. Z was my friend, but she wasn’t a good one imo. She would invite me over to her house, and we would have fun, but when someone else were there she would completely ignore me and be rude to me ig. I never once vented to her, or told her I was going through something, but she would always vent to me. Her mom would vent to my mom, but she would also vent to manyyyy other people about whatever she wanted to. Anyways, I would call her my best friend. But at the same time, I hated her. I went through the worst time ever when I was “best friends” with her. I never understood how I was supposed to be treated by a best friend, so I let her embarrass me, tell lies about me, even in front of me. Every time I would try to vent to her, the conversation would always turn into something about her. I would cry sm because I thought there was something wrong with me. Why wasn’t I good enough to find a friend that cared about me? Fast forward a few months, I became close with this other girl. Let’s call her Mi. Mi was so nice, she would literally listen to everything I had to say, and vise versa. Mi and Z also used to be best friends, but she also didn’t like being friends with her. She was like the total opposite of Z. At first me and Mi weren’t BEST friends, in fact, we didn’t even like each other, but I grew to adore her. So because I had found a friend that taught me that I was finally distancing myself from Z. I was so happy. I forgot how sad and frustrated I used to be. Eventually, me and Z stayed distant friends, but me and Mi became best friends. A few months later, me and Mi were talking, and Mi said that Z messaged her saying that she wanted to mend their friendship and just be friends again. We called for a while, and Mi said that she didn’t want to be friends with her because while Mi and Z were best friends, Z LITERALLY BECAME BESTFRIENDS WITH MI’S EX. Fast forward to now, I have two best friends, Mi and Ma (fake names) and I’m so happy with them, I love them sososososso much. But Z is complaining to one of Mi’s guy friends saying that “(my name) is such a bixch, she left our nine year friendship for Mi, and Mi is such an over reactor for hating me because I’m friends with her ex, etc.” mind you one of my friends (let’s call her S) told Z all of our vents, like about how Mi is upset that her ex bsf is now bsf with Mi’s ex, and so on. I honestly don’t feel like I did anything wrong, and the fact that Z has told all my secrets to her other friends and the fact that I vented to S, yet she backstabbed me and my bestfriend is messed up. I feel bad thatZ doesn’t have and girl friends now, but she made me feel horrible about myself. AITA?
For the second story, it’s half and half. I think the friend shouldn’t have not let them use the books after they bent down the corners of the pages HOWEVER I that they shouldn’t have bent them down regardless of what she did to the books. I don’t mind it when people do that to personal books, but not borrowed ones. Again, I understand the girl’s reaction, but I just think it’s an annoying yet normal case of miscommunication. So, technically I’m split with this one.
First story: YES You're the Ahole, first and foremost, she doesn't have any trauma THAT YOU KNOW OF, there may be some situation that she didn't talk about that caused a minor bit of trauma, OR the nightmares could purely be caused by fears which is the "normal" cause of nightmares, so it could be caused by a fear of death or other.
This is extremely messed up to make your child get up just because she has night terrors and has to scream to wake up, that’s totally normal and I would do that to yeah your the 🍑 that’s messed up and she is scared from the night terrors.
The second story: it can be both because they didn’t know and it was an honest mistake. The friend could have just told them that they did not appreciate it instead of freaking out. He may not use books as much so he may not know. He apologized. He didn’t ruin the book. You can still read them. She overreacted.
First story: BRO- YTA if she's having night terrors, you shouldn't blame the kid and instead try talking to someone Second story: even as someone who as bent pages, I wouldn't do it to my friend's book. Unless it yours, don't do it
1:14 "i can't wake up but I can make myself scream to wake up" - "That tells me this is intentional" 💀
First story is a major YTA
first story: MAJOR AHOLE
Second story: yta, that’s normal book sharing etiquette
third story: nta, it’s the best for your cousin to know
ok for the second story, its 50/50 for me. because I always fold the pages, BUT I always ask the person owning the book if I can, and if they say no, I just use a bookmark, I didn't know that people got really pisse.d at that.
First story :
Yes you are she literally can’t help it like-
Second story:
Yes it’s common sense if she wants to keep it nice then respect her choices JUST DONT BENT CORNERS-
Third story :
No , your being honest and it’s best for her to know
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First story, YTA big time just because it doesn’t loook like she has trauma and may have some!
It’s her dad he knows if she has trauma but ya he is very much
@@yourlocalmaterielgirl7797 I have trauma that my mom and dad don’t know about so- they are still the asshole.
@@yourlocalmaterielgirl7797 I think a lot of people have a kind of warped idea of what trauma is. It's not just big stuff like being physically abused or being in a car crash (though those are absolutely valid forms of trauma), but it can also be smaller things, like not fitting in at school, or having a father who is unsympathetic to the fact that you're having terrible nightmares. I can go more in depth if you're curious, but the bottom line is trauma is a lot more complex than a lot of people think, and just because it may not seem like someone doesn't have trauma, doesn’t necessarily mean they don't.
Story 2 me and my cousin do that all the time with our books its pretty normally we don't get mad at each other because we both do it so it's pretty fine it's not that big of a deal barely even matter you know it would be better if you did the bottom
Doesn’t mean OP isn’t in the wrong, that’s you and your cousin. That’s OP and their friend (I think?) OP knew that she liked her books in good condition so there was no reason for OP to be fold the the top corner of it. It also wouldn’t have been better to fold the bottom corner of the book because that wouldn’t make a difference besides it being on another end.
@@shakiyalisane6788 I feel like the friend is less likely to notice it at the bottom and if you don't agree with me don't show it by commenting just click the dislike button and screw off 🙄😒
@@some_random_bs8248 No reason to get mad, you clearly have never had someone disagree with you. Just stating stuff, but the same thing goes for you if you don’t like what I said dislike 🤷🏽♀️ You didn’t have to comment but you choose too basically doing what you told me not to do.
@@some_random_bs8248 Also no I will not just dislike your comment, this is RUclips if your mad if someone replies to a comment you made then get off the internet. Your obviously being aggressive because you dislike when people disagree with you.
@@tee6703 dude screw off this comment is 5 months old
1-yta nightmares are normal
2-Yta not your book don't mess it up
3-nta it's ur siduation
Well crap
I’ve been bending the tips of my pages in books (don’t worry I only do it to the books I bought) as a child I saw my teacher doing it to her books and I thought it was fine
Also I don’t have a book mark and I’m too lazy/forgetful to get one
I swear I’ll stop doing this though
it's not about folding the pages of a book, its about doing it to a book someone else owns
@@decentlysmartforanidiot8284 oh ok!
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First story : what is wrong with you?!?! That is favoritism on another level and overall just bad parenting
The last one yes like stay home ur poor child
about the vacation one, yta. Getting a broken leg is not "nothing" you should have gone on your trip AFTER you asked your daughter if she would be fine when you were gone. 2, your daughter has a broken leg and you turn off your phone when your being spammed by your family????!!!! You didn't read the texts or answer the phone ONCE to figure out what had happened???????!?!?? You weren't concerned in the slightest that your family was calling you?!?!?!? WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU
first story;yta
second;yta
third story;not ta
last story;your daughter had a brocken leg that's not that much of a deal but people are calling you and you ignore it if that many people are calling you then you should answer like something could've happened
I really need your help on this.
AITA?
So basically I’ve had this friend for a long time, let’s call her Z. Z was my friend, but she wasn’t a good one imo. She would invite me over to her house, and we would have fun, but when someone else were there she would completely ignore me and be rude to me ig. I never once vented to her, or told her I was going through something, but she would always vent to me. Her mom would vent to my mom, but she would also vent to manyyyy other people about whatever she wanted to. Anyways, I would call her my best friend. But at the same time, I hated her. I went through the worst time ever when I was “best friends” with her. I never understood how I was supposed to be treated by a best friend, so I let her embarrass me, tell lies about me, even in front of me. Every time I would try to vent to her, the conversation would always turn into something about her. I would cry sm because I thought there was something wrong with me. Why wasn’t I good enough to find a friend that cared about me? Fast forward a few months, I became close with this other girl. Let’s call her Mi. Mi was so nice, she would literally listen to everything I had to say, and vise versa. Mi and Z also used to be best friends, but she also didn’t like being friends with her. She was like the total opposite of Z. At first me and Mi weren’t BEST friends, in fact, we didn’t even like each other, but I grew to adore her.
So because I had found a friend that taught me that I was finally distancing myself from Z. I was so happy. I forgot how sad and frustrated I used to be. Eventually, me and Z stayed distant friends, but me and Mi became best friends. A few months later, me and Mi were talking, and Mi said that Z messaged her saying that she wanted to mend their friendship and just be friends again. We called for a while, and Mi said that she didn’t want to be friends with her because while Mi and Z were best friends, Z LITERALLY BECAME BESTFRIENDS WITH MI’S EX.
Fast forward to now, I have two best friends, Mi and Ma (fake names) and I’m so happy with them, I love them sososososso much. But Z is complaining to one of Mi’s guy friends saying that “(my name) is such a bixch, she left our nine year friendship for Mi, and Mi is such an over reactor for hating me because I’m friends with her ex, etc.” mind you one of my friends (let’s call her S) told Z all of our vents, like about how Mi is upset that her ex bsf is now bsf with Mi’s ex, and so on.
I honestly don’t feel like I did anything wrong, and the fact that Z has told all my secrets to her other friends and the fact that I vented to S, yet she backstabbed me and my bestfriend is messed up. I feel bad thatZ doesn’t have and girl friends now, but she made me feel horrible about myself. AITA?
P.S if you have any questions lmk I’ll answer!
No you did nothing wrong I get it this used to happen to me a lot
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For the second story, it’s half and half. I think the friend shouldn’t have not let them use the books after they bent down the corners of the pages HOWEVER I that they shouldn’t have bent them down regardless of what she did to the books. I don’t mind it when people do that to personal books, but not borrowed ones. Again, I understand the girl’s reaction, but I just think it’s an annoying yet normal case of miscommunication. So, technically I’m split with this one.
Um.. for the first and second one boy you are the aita no joke.
First story: YES You're the Ahole, first and foremost, she doesn't have any trauma THAT YOU KNOW OF, there may be some situation that she didn't talk about that caused a minor bit of trauma, OR the nightmares could purely be caused by fears which is the "normal" cause of nightmares, so it could be caused by a fear of death or other.
This is extremely messed up to make your child get up just because she has night terrors and has to scream to wake up, that’s totally normal and I would do that to yeah your the 🍑 that’s messed up and she is scared from the night terrors.
ok first story WTF BRUH IF YOUR KID IS HAVING NIGHT TERRORS YOU SHOULD TRY TO HELP THEM NOT BE RUDE ABOUT IT
I'm guilty of dog earring to
It’s not a big deal to bend book pages a bit but you should of asked
And it’s not common sense
Second story: nta my friends do that when I give them books but I don't get mad
Just cause you don’t get mad doesn’t mean it’s not (minor) property damage 💀
That doesn’t mean it’s a good idea to damage an item someone lent to you
Depends on the person, if i give a friend my book and they do this, well I'll be pissed off.
Story three I say somewhat
Bro my name is Kara lol
First story
I bend pages in the book!!! I dont care bc its not like its even mine
First!!☺️
it’s just a book..
First 1: terrible father
The second story: it can be both because they didn’t know and it was an honest mistake. The friend could have just told them that they did not appreciate it instead of freaking out. He may not use books as much so he may not know. He apologized. He didn’t ruin the book. You can still read them. She overreacted.
1:Slayy you ashole
2:hell yeah
First story
Yata
First story: BRO- YTA if she's having night terrors, you shouldn't blame the kid and instead try talking to someone
Second story: even as someone who as bent pages, I wouldn't do it to my friend's book. Unless it yours, don't do it
What does mf mean????????