@Anon Idk if you're a boy, because with boys it really depends on the environment they are in, I'm arab and from what I saw arab guys who go to indian schools prefer indian girls over arab girls. same thing with arab guys who travel abroad they come back they dont refuse to marry an arab girl they'd only go for white or asian depending on where they studied
Thank you! It's sport to them, to make Black Women second guess their beauty (outside and in) And their worth. Everyone likes to be understood, cherished, and Valued to be told they still got it. Who better to remind you of that, than the Men who look just like you. So when you see those same men saying the opposite. It'll obviously make you doubt yourself. Black Women are the bomb.com always has been and will continue to be. Stay away from any race of Man who can't see that.
Tbh these people get very specific w their questions. Maybe they specifically asked him if he’s attracted to Black women. And tbh, ask, and you shall receive. No need to get sensitive about it. It’s also another American government tactic to divide ourselves.
I wanna hear em say it. Let yo internalized sexual racism, prejudice, and colorism fly. Let me see it so I CAN SEE YOU FOR YOU. Like Nene leakes said I SEE YOU
@@Apexbarbie98 It's not us getting "sensitive" It's BW having a valid reaction to his statement. Black Women have always been ridiculed. Even by our own men. We don't need to constantly hear that.
Its not self hate to have a preference. I see sooo many white guys chasing after asian girls, but i NEVER hear anyone accuse them of having self hate. Also, a black woman can date a white man, and she will not be accused of self hate. Why does the self hate label only apply to black males who are attracted to white women? 🤷♀️🤷♀️
@@ezra5788 different race, different way of thinking and different gender, different way of thinking. Everyone dates differently for different reasons. Usually, not always, when a black man does it, it's for negative reasons. Ask one. I did.
@@dawnhalley2205 Many white guys date asian girls because they fetishize them. Is that not a negative reason? I would think it is. But yeah, i agree that some black men get with white women for negative reasons.
@@ezra5788 that's because even if a white guy chases an asian woman, they will still date and have love for their own. You wouldn't hear a white man talk disparagingly about women from his own race (unlike many black men). The sad thing (when it comes to many black men) is that they came from a black woman, have relatives & siblings who are black, and were ok dating/being with a black woman before their glow up.
Black women need to STOP chasing, uplifting, and protecting a race of men who scream through the roof top that they hate us! When will Black women wake tf up? This breaks my heart
@Lord Honesty I feel decent as a black woman. I love myself enough too not to invest in hair extensions are anything that makes me fit in with any other ethnic groups.
Plenty of heterosexual men, desire black women. Just because this guy does not, doesn’t mean that’s everybody’s mindset. He has his preferences, why shame somebody for it?
@@renny6151 you are gaslighting and making excuses. If this is the case it means you are ok with black girls saying the same thing about not liking black boys. Otherwise you are a hypocrite
@@renny6151 He can have his "preference" its just doesnt need to be stated. Not even contemplating that you can possibly fall in love with someone that looks like you is not right. Dismissing your entire race of women is not a "preference" its a choice
Beyond freaking sad!!!! This is just some whitewash bullshit...Clearly he's been so beyond process..I wonder what his black mother & grandmother has to say about his ignorant statement. Also, he needs to look in the mirror like WTH & WTF!!!
@@momonie4 right like why would that type of language leave your mouth. It’s like not okay to be racist to black guys but okay to be racist to black women? I don’t get nor understand that.
The topic regarding Rickey Smiley's son is years old. He's not the first nor the last who has a preference for women outside his race (look at many of your fav celebrities). It becomes an issue when that person is disrespectful to their own race in the midst of it.
A preference of ppl based on the color of their skin is a form of discrimination. Lets stop putting the “preference” band aid on it to make it sound ok. Its discrimination. We all do it. Short ppl. Overweight ppl. Black ppl. White ppl. Tall ppl. We all discriminate then wanna say “Oh its just a preference”. No. Its called discrimination. If someone doesnt hire you because you’re fat is that a preference?? No. Its discrimination.
I have never agreed with loni more. Never publicly annouce what u like or don't like. U never know who or what u will end up with and it will be very embarrassing if u end up with the one u so happily announce to thw world u didn't like at all.
@@samanthayates8812 u can say that but it is still embarrassing when u went out of ur way to annouce u hate one community and the end up with that community
@@kanikagaral7637 No one in the video said they hate anyone. In your initial comment even you didnt say the word "hate" you said "what you like or dont like" and last time I checked everyone is entitled to like or dislike whatever they want and have preferences. And preferences can change.
@@samanthayates8812 so u think it's ok if u say today I don't like black women. Put them down and the get on with one. It will be I voting some looks from people. And when these people says they don't like some type of girls they really mean hate them.they just don't put it so harshly. U won't get it so just leave it.
@@kanikagaral7637 He didnt put them down. He said he views them as sisters and there is more white girls in his school. And dislike doesnt mean hate. You are putting words in peoples mouths to fit YOUR narrative. Are you a liberal?
Ladies - keep your options open. People like this are purposely trying to damage black women's self esteem. This is nothing new. Consider the source, and keep it moving
You women are some of the biggest hypocrites that's ever walked the planet for the last 50 years we heard all this down talk over black men now that black men have a voice the same talk you stupid is now toxic you made the bed now you sleep in it hating the fact that black man has options ❗
Why did she name all those extra grown, married, or biracial women when she went over her list. She couldn’t pull a list of young ladies in his age group who were pretty and black? And why did Lonnie not just agree with the issue of minimizing dark skin black women’s beauty but felt it necessary to make it a fat issue? We get it, you’re big, but we are discussing race at the moment. Ugh 🤦🏽♀️ these women
I’m a light skin black and I live in Florida..I tried to interact with black women but they would sometimes say oh your light skin …your not my type… but when I go out with a Hispanic woman I get cussed out and I told people I tried to date with black women
Lmfaooo if that’s you in your pfp, you ARE NOT LIGHTSKINNED. Light skinned is Steph Curry, Drake, Ben Simmons, Chris Brown, PRINCE. You are in a fantasy land 😂😂😂
@@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736 light skinned is light brown, you just named people who are bi racial, drake is damn near fair skinned or pale and so is Chris brown
The reality is most BW don’t want most BM, but they still have the audacity to get mad when the men they ignored date outside the race. 😂 It’s as if BW think they own BW. Here’s a news flash, ladies: You don’t.
In order for his him to say he doesn’t like black women what he’s really saying is I don’t like my mother. He forgot that he was housed in a black womb. Sounds like a personal problem to me . Every time he’s says I don’t like black women he’s disrespecting every black woman in his family
That's exactly what he's saying and don't let Ricky fool you; he knew this child felt this way long before some so-called reality show. The kid goes to a military school. Is it all male? If so, how much interaction does he really have with ANY girls? If it isn't much or at all, where did the self-hate and hate for his own race come from? Ricky has grandchildren, who I believe are half white. That should tell you lot.
I’m sure this is old however I really like Kandi with the ladies. ❤️ And as a dark skinned Black woman, it’s not (and has never been) a compliment to be cute for a dark skinned girl.
Black is beautiful in all shades ❤. Lupito Nyongo (I probably didn't spell that correctly) is absolutely flawless! Naomi Campbell, Michelle Rowland. Don't ever let anyone ever say to you "you are cute for a dark skinned girl". You are beautiful regardless. Let's celebrate one another and our differences. ❤
I like how Jeannie Mia is talking. When she said that Black men are only good enough to be a side piece n a White man to hold her down. Do we need to pull that video up. But now. Ooh it's different Hmmmmm.
Semantics... my understanding is that they, producers, are manipulative. In this case, they, likely saw his pattern of thinking and thought they struck gold.
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People just don't get it... The boy's father married and had children with a black woman. The son grows up with his mother, yet the father is somehow responsible and accountable for his son NOT wanting to date black women. Did anyone ever consider that the boy's mother is a poor example of womanhood and a bad mother? Her influence alone is enough to drive a young man to look elsewhere.
#Lies. He was just saying that to escape the backlash he received. It was proven on his social media with the comments he (and his friends) made about white as well as the groups he's in, i.e. White Women Wednesday. His father was one of the executive producers on the show. Plus, even if the producers wanted him to say otherwise, he doesn't have a mind of his own? Those were his real feelings, stop trying to excuse it. To each their own in preference, but don't disrespect the race you come from in the midst of it.
I went to a predominantly white school and grew up in white neighborhoods and I (a black woman) still like black men... so his reasoning makes no sense.
I wonder why.i feel like if black women where adored in a big way like the waY Asian women were, I dont think black women would make black men their only option.i just feel like black women think they can only get black men due to the beautify standard not being them.so I am not suprised when black women make black men their preference even though they could be around white people most of the time.black men are also placed on a platform where they are desired by a lot of women from different race.so they are not going to make black women their only option.
@@purplelove3666 Yeah I'm not saying I only like black men or I'm putting them on a pedestal. I was just saying that I like them regardless of growing up around white people. So I don't understand that kid's logic. With that being said if black women wish to date outside their race then they should go for it. Have a blessed day 😁
I appreciate the conversation...I want people to come "clean" with WHY? Why is it that Ricky Smiley's son made that statement regarding black women. We as black parent's NEED TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN THE IMPORTANCE OF OUR BLACK SKIN!!!
He is only 15 but this is where his mother and father guides him towards manhood where he won't generalize and how dating and relationships actually work...true or definitely true?
@Fleur Floral no most bm don't. Unless you're talking about the bm you personally know and seen with your own two eyes and heard with your own two ears
@@TheAlkebulanTrust Have you watch any of the videos on RUclips? It’s filled with bm saying this stuff. One bm on a radio show asked 2 non black women who do usually date. One started talking and the bm radio host got upset that she said she doesn’t date black men because she’s not attractive to them. He asked her again and she said the same thing and he threw a cup of water in her face.
@@twoplustwo07 have you ever watched RUclips videos and on other platforms BM showcasing their adoration for BW. We as in The Alkebulan Trust see that more often especially offline too.
@Fleur Floral in mainstream media it is often seen and heard how Black women are mistreated often by WM and WW. There are many levels to it but ultimately. Only the son can say where he learnt this mindset from. And to prevent these types of mindsets the mother and father have to teach children how to treat Black women right...now go enjoy the rest of your 2021.
I told my daughter to say “I’m cute because I’m dark not cute to be so dark!!!” Black People. He’s 15 and that’s his option right now. If he decides to limit himself when he grows up then he doesn’t deserve to dine with a Queen 👑
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I don't like that she felt the need to list beautiful black women as if there's a short list. If the show had been about white women, would they have called out a few Hollywood white women? Left a bad taste in my mouth.
She didn't even list people in this child's age category and why the hell do we care what a snotty nose kid thinks about dating, when he should stay in his place and do his homework?
Why are all of you mad about his preference? It’s his choice and frankly there has to be a reason so many black men are not wanting to date black women.
BW need to ACCEPT the fact that BM prefer women who do not look like their moms, aunties, and sisters. He should NOT have to apologize for his preference. Begging men that do not prefer you and asking why is RIDICULOUS. BM only want BW to do one thing and that is to: "LEAVE THEM ALONE"
Non-Black girls are obsessed with Black boys, and make themselves readily available to them...the boys don't really have to chase them or work to win most of them over🤷🏾♀️
@@briggie28 No they aren't. Most prefer their own men. A WW made a video saying it's not a badge of honor to get attention from BM. She said getting attention from WM gives them a higher status
Can I add to Adrienne's list, Amber Riley Lupita Nyong'o Tika Sumpter Lizzo Ryan Destiny Kandi Burruss Queen Latifah Danai Gurira Letitia Wright Gabby Sidibe Angela Bassett Just to name a few more
This mess is his father's fault. That young man has a Black mother, and grandmother. Im not surprised by his statement. We are the most disrespected. Period!!!😡😡😡😡
Ya having that list just made no sense. That list was unnecessary because what you’re really saying is all the others don’t matter. you could’ve said “there are many black women out there that are gorgeous for most men” or something
Exactly !! I’m saying . That was a waste of time . Plus her mentioning a mixed woman was stupid . Guys aren’t saying they don’t like mixed women they’re saying they don’t like BLACK WOMEN !! theirs a big difference . Then she mentioned Beyoncé like girl stfu , men have been in love with Beyoncé since the 90”s.
@@ASprinkleofAnime I’m saying . They always think that we have to be diluted in order to be deemed beautiful. Adrienne is airheaded . She couldn’t just said “theirs gorgeous black women out there “ or just said nothing at all . Any of those options would have been better than what she said
@@ASprinkleofAnime Because they fell for that typical European standard of beauty. They didn't say Serena, Venus, Gaberaye, India, or even Viola, All of which, are beautiful.
It happens! I went to a predominantly white high school in a small town in So Cali and dated white boys but when I moved to the Midwest I saw brothers errrrrwhere lol and dated black men 🤷🏽♀️
that makes perfect sense - you date who you're exposed to but you didn't limit yourself based on something so arbitrary - with such a long and deep history for anyone to make a DECISION that they aren't attracted to all the ppl in a specific race, is a problem - an even bigger problem, if it's their own race - self hatred is a HUGE issue in the Black community (but it def exists in every race - and too much of it is based on ytness, or proximity) I love my own ppl, but I don't limit myself to one group - or exclude any group based on their race - I exclude ppl based on their character, their treatment of me, their world view, and attitudes - their intelligence, and kindness etc. but not race do you know how many gorgeous ppl there are on the planet? and how many not so attractive ppl there are? and how many of them all fit into one race? 😆 I don't have that kinda time - nor am I ignorant and arrogant enough to think that I know enough ppl of any one race to determine they're all in the same level of attractiveness lol smh this thought process is so warped to me - I have yet to find any race, or cultural group where I cannot find at least one person physically attractive this is a LEARNED and conditioned mindset - and it needs to be talked about in context of the history that causes it - as well as how it's perpetuated in media, and social situations it's a sickness - and exposure is the cure #StopHate
The young man said he don't find blk girls attractive AT ALL. Not that he is exclusively dating non-blks, because they represent a much higher percentage of students at his school. Big difference there.
@@showmercytoothers4059 I see. I feel they just did it to show he can have a preference but he doesn’t know every black woman to exclude a group a better list would be Skai Jackson, Rielle downs and China McLain who are teens and young women
I haven’t really dated outside of my race! I’m not attracted to nobody else like I am with BW BUT, What am I supposed to do!?! I’ve never had a fulfilling relationship with a black woman… Every relationship I’ve had with dark skin girls was a power struggle, competition against everything past and present! The only time I was treated like a decent human being was when I was making a decent paycheck! My son is used against me. I’ve never been good enough and I hate it. I don’t feel accepted or respected so I’m gonna date who tf I want to date. I’m going to be loyal to whoever is loyal to me. I’m going to protect whoever I’m with (black or not ) I don’t hear NOBODY talking about the BW who HATE BM? use us for child support and free dinner or money??! Or look down on the dude making a living working a job lol I don’t hear nobody talking about what they could be doing wrong and taking accountability for their actions Nobody is born biased ,racist, or discriminative. Oh I get it I’m supposed to suffer in silence until I’m super successful and be happy about the years of trauma, rejections and be treated like a second class citizen 💪🏾👍🏾
I felt this and I’m sorry….and I hear this from a lot of black men that I meet. I love black men although they disrespect me all the time for some reason. I could just be sitting somewhere reading a book or listening to my music and get disrespected if I don’t give a black guy what he wants. I was even assaulted. I know this is not all black men. The black guys that wanted to date me, although they had issues, like being married or multiple children by other women and trauma and mental issue… they felt I was the type of women they wanted to date and they were vulnerable to me by talking….. but wanted to be with me because I made them feel seen and I was quiet or domestic or whatever they were looking for. They felt they could get close to me… some of them even confessing that they were taken… at first they lied. Red flags went off so I felt something… But they wanted to be seen and treated like a human being, like a man.. but I wasn’t the woman to give them that and since I didn’t…they got mad and said mean things because I didn’t want to sleep with them or be a side piece. This one guy pretty much said what you said, he’s paying child support, etc from several women and his wife he was separated from, started seeing someone else…. and they just had a baby and he wanted to date and sleep with me and I said no. Only knew him for 2 hours and it was over before it even started. But he was hurting and made bad choices and wanted solace. The system doesn’t protect men the way they do women and they know this. You have good men out here but they treat them like the bad ones.
Kind of funny how people who are always complaining about slaverilyy...in reality essentially practice the same things they complain about. If that is not a sign to run, then I don;t know what is.
First of all what does a woman being dark skinned have to with how she treats , you and your entitled to your own opinion and I'm sorry you had a bad reaction with those women , but that is in no way shape or form a representation of all black women , not to be funny or mean but it's sounds like you've been hurt and now casting a bad light on your own women ,from the experiences you had with a few women ( but the tings your saying is the stereotype that's put on black women by other races) plus black women are not the only ones , I hope you heal tho and find some one who cherishes what they have
@@lifeisbeautiful9455 "but they treat them like the bad ones " who is they supposed to be " and did u read what u said hes got multiple baby mothers and a ex wife , so I doubt he was a little angel/victim , just like any other women black,white, asian, etc a woman rarely treats a man wrong unless he did them dirty first , and trust and believe that it's absolute bullshit If you think most black women treat their men like crap, but women of other races treat theirs like kings
@@AdultSupervision. so people shouldn't dat black women, do you have any idea how ignorant, offensive, and racist that is , and before you go speaking on black women which is not your place , you should get a more reliable source , of course someone who's been hurt and had bad relationships is gonna feel that way, the same for any man of any race would, you may not care but u should think before you type gives the wrong perception
His views are definitely a reflection of his upbringing. I went to a predominantly white school from 5-12. I didn't meet a black boy until I was 13 😐 And I know Jeannie Mae or however you spell her name ain't talking about someone not being attracted to black people😐
This 15 yr.old stated that he "didn't find black women attractive because he thinks of them as his 'sister' " and he'd grown accustomed to being around white girls, going to an all/majority white school, I don't think that's meant to be derogatory at all. At his age once he gets older and be around them more, I'm sure his attraction will change. He's just at an awkward stage where he's still trying to discover himself.
But the thing is it is a preference. Just because they don’t want you doesn’t mean they hate you. When you date someone you want someone who you like. Whether you like his personality character or looks ( and you can’t say you never date on look) you still like something in him and that’s why your dating him.
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Light skin or dark skin he is a black child that needs to be real with yourself as a child of God pay attention to what you do and say to people no matter who they are linda j.☮️☮️☮️☮️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I agree with Jeannie. You have to raise your kids with a strong value system. So that when someone, regardless of who they are, does not sway them away from that. So someone tells you do drugs you just do? Go to your parents and discuss it.
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That young man probably goes to school around a few BWs and has formed his OWN opinion. These people should not chastise this young man for analyzing what he sees and making a decision.
People want to push the agenda that a person has to experience attraction to all races, genders and cultures. That's a fallacy. Real life is people have a type. Or you enjoy a look but don't culturally vibe. Let's normalize the freedom of dating who you like.
Do you think it's her place?
I’m sorry but the list at the end are all women of European standard of beauty. She doesn’t get it. It’s featurism not just the skin color
teenagers will do the opposite of what you tell them when it comes to dating
REAL
@@yasseressa1696 💯!
@Anon Idk if you're a boy, because with boys it really depends on the environment they are in, I'm arab and from what I saw arab guys who go to indian schools prefer indian girls over arab girls. same thing with arab guys who travel abroad they come back they dont refuse to marry an arab girl they'd only go for white or asian depending on where they studied
If you don’t like black women, just don’t date them. Idk why they have to announce it.
Thank you! It's sport to them, to make Black Women second guess their beauty (outside and in) And their worth. Everyone likes to be understood, cherished, and Valued to be told they still got it. Who better to remind you of that, than the Men who look just like you. So when you see those same men saying the opposite. It'll obviously make you doubt yourself. Black Women are the bomb.com always has been and will continue to be. Stay away from any race of Man who can't see that.
@@kairelvictoria2148 Yesss!!🙌🏾 Thank you!! 👑❤
Tbh these people get very specific w their questions. Maybe they specifically asked him if he’s attracted to Black women. And tbh, ask, and you shall receive. No need to get sensitive about it. It’s also another American government tactic to divide ourselves.
I wanna hear em say it. Let yo internalized sexual racism, prejudice, and colorism fly. Let me see it so I CAN SEE YOU FOR YOU. Like Nene leakes said I SEE YOU
@@Apexbarbie98 It's not us getting "sensitive" It's BW having a valid reaction to his statement. Black Women have always been ridiculed. Even by our own men. We don't need to constantly hear that.
Self hatred is real in the black community.
Its not self hate to have a preference. I see sooo many white guys chasing after asian girls, but i NEVER hear anyone accuse them of having self hate. Also, a black woman can date a white man, and she will not be accused of self hate. Why does the self hate label only apply to black males who are attracted to white women? 🤷♀️🤷♀️
@@ezra5788 different race, different way of thinking and different gender, different way of thinking. Everyone dates differently for different reasons. Usually, not always, when a black man does it, it's for negative reasons. Ask one. I did.
@Wise4Sure facts. Date outside ur race. But don't put me down. When the white woman starts showing her true colors, you'll be back. Ask OJ.
@@dawnhalley2205 Many white guys date asian girls because they fetishize them. Is that not a negative reason? I would think it is. But yeah, i agree that some black men get with white women for negative reasons.
@@ezra5788 that's because even if a white guy chases an asian woman, they will still date and have love for their own. You wouldn't hear a white man talk disparagingly about women from his own race (unlike many black men). The sad thing (when it comes to many black men) is that they came from a black woman, have relatives & siblings who are black, and were ok dating/being with a black woman before their glow up.
Black women need to STOP chasing, uplifting, and protecting a race of men who scream through the roof top that they hate us! When will Black women wake tf up? This breaks my heart
Not being attracted to somebody, does not mean you “hate them.” I don’t desire a fat man, does not mean I hate fat people.
@@renny6151 Oh boy, here comes the excuses! 🙄🙄🙄
86% of married black men have black wives..
So no question brothers date our sisters.
It’s obvious
They don't hate us they hate themselves.
@Lord Honesty I feel decent as a black woman. I love myself enough too not to invest in hair extensions are anything that makes me fit in with any other ethnic groups.
YES, I hate it when men use to approach me and say "You are beautiful to be a dark skin woman." Go on with that.
My sister that is their loss and your gain no real man is that superficial.....you are better off without a man that is that ignorant.
Funny thing is I've seen a few examples of older white guys saying that to blk women
Debra Dunham you sure they wasn't just saying you are too ugly?😵
I heard this too many times..its irritating and a turn off like dark women can't be pretty... There's pretty and ugly in every shade.
They still do it I check them quick
That boy said exactly what he meant period
wdym by that miss gurl... are u saying ''he said what he said''......
Didn't he say that the producers told him to say this?
@@mopheousredpill7462 Producers r messed up!
People say they hate ugly all the time.
@@jeremiahtray5621 huh?
I don't care what they say, that message does not need to be put out there. Someone should have drawn the line. Black women already hear that enough.
That's what those people behind the curtain think.
Ricky is guilty. It's his show and that boy cannot make executive decisions.
Plenty of heterosexual men, desire black women. Just because this guy does not, doesn’t mean that’s everybody’s mindset. He has his preferences, why shame somebody for it?
@@renny6151 you are gaslighting and making excuses. If this is the case it means you are ok with black girls saying the same thing about not liking black boys. Otherwise you are a hypocrite
@@renny6151 He can have his "preference" its just doesnt need to be stated. Not even contemplating that you can possibly fall in love with someone that looks like you is not right. Dismissing your entire race of women is not a "preference" its a choice
I don’t give him a pass for being 15yrs old because most people never grow up, they just get older!!!
No pass ,but as life happens he may or may not change his views.
@Travis Brown 💯
Facts. That's why a 15 yr old can do life in prison.
@@dawnhalley2205 good point
Oh yeah, definitely not a pass. Hell 15 is the new 18 now! These kids are weaker but wiser! He knows.
The fact that you’re having this conversation is sad.
Beyond freaking sad!!!! This is just some whitewash bullshit...Clearly he's been so beyond process..I wonder what his black mother & grandmother has to say about his ignorant statement. Also, he needs to look in the mirror like WTH & WTF!!!
@@momonie4 right like why would that type of language leave your mouth. It’s like not okay to be racist to black guys but okay to be racist to black women? I don’t get nor understand that.
Thank you
This is why I stopped watching certain networks.
The producer...Maybe Rickey should teach his son integrity. No person should have that much power to make u turn on your own.
Facts its disgusting...
And, Rickey himself is a producer on the show, so he's still also to blame.
Right
I agree!
Great point!!
The topic regarding Rickey Smiley's son is years old. He's not the first nor the last who has a preference for women outside his race (look at many of your fav celebrities). It becomes an issue when that person is disrespectful to their own race in the midst of it.
Discriminating against a group of people based off of their looks is deeper than a “preference”
A preference of ppl based on the color of their skin is a form of discrimination. Lets stop putting the “preference” band aid on it to make it sound ok. Its discrimination. We all do it. Short ppl. Overweight ppl. Black ppl. White ppl. Tall ppl. We all discriminate then wanna say “Oh its just a preference”. No. Its called discrimination. If someone doesnt hire you because you’re fat is that a preference?? No. Its discrimination.
@@DaughterEarth8 that is why people date outside their race, attracted to and experiences.
@@QueensFirst Interesting!
He really embarrassed the girl
Kandy is so pretty ....and loni look bomb
Pretty ladies.😍
It's the wig
For those who don’t know, this is an old episode. Tamera ain’t on the show anymore.
*isn't
@@jenbk2bk275 I use ebonics on purpose, so there’s no need to correct my grammar thank you very much 😁
@@shashavengesayi6055 Not them correcting the ebonics lolol
@@bsbgirl85 I guess being clueless is trendy
Why did tamera leave
I have never agreed with loni more. Never publicly annouce what u like or don't like. U never know who or what u will end up with and it will be very embarrassing if u end up with the one u so happily announce to thw world u didn't like at all.
I wont be embarrassed. I will just say my mind changed. And I'm allowed to change my mind. I dont care what people think
@@samanthayates8812 u can say that but it is still embarrassing when u went out of ur way to annouce u hate one community and the end up with that community
@@kanikagaral7637 No one in the video said they hate anyone. In your initial comment even you didnt say the word "hate" you said "what you like or dont like" and last time I checked everyone is entitled to like or dislike whatever they want and have preferences. And preferences can change.
@@samanthayates8812 so u think it's ok if u say today I don't like black women. Put them down and the get on with one. It will be I voting some looks from people. And when these people says they don't like some type of girls they really mean hate them.they just don't put it so harshly. U won't get it so just leave it.
@@kanikagaral7637 He didnt put them down. He said he views them as sisters and there is more white girls in his school. And dislike doesnt mean hate. You are putting words in peoples mouths to fit YOUR narrative. Are you a liberal?
Ladies - keep your options open. People like this are purposely trying to damage black women's self esteem. This is nothing new. Consider the source, and keep it moving
No other races of men want black women yall have been saying keep your options open for decades lmao
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Any black women with class and self love and high self esteem and self care will not be affected by this.
Amen. I'm one of them
Or a Mexican husband 🤷🏽♀️ lol
@@revekat2053 HAHA 😂😂😂
You women are some of the biggest hypocrites that's ever walked the planet for the last 50 years we heard all this down talk over black men now that black men have a voice the same talk you stupid is now toxic you made the bed now you sleep in it hating the fact that black man has options ❗
@@TheKrista5 stop lying yourself
I agree with Loni...say that... they should not have shown the girl’s face❤️👍🏾
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Who Kandi think she foolin’?! She NEVER took 💩 from ANYBODY 😎
💗her
Tameras eyes lit up saying talking about white boys 😂😂 -- ‘really?! 🤩 really !!!! 🤩’
LMAOOOO
She did tho lol she was excited
Her DADDY a whole yt man lol
@@Chessica450-m3d and her HUSBAND 😇😅😂
@@Tina-us1tr okay !!😂
Why did she name all those extra grown, married, or biracial women when she went over her list. She couldn’t pull a list of young ladies in his age group who were pretty and black? And why did Lonnie not just agree with the issue of minimizing dark skin black women’s beauty but felt it necessary to make it a fat issue? We get it, you’re big, but we are discussing race at the moment. Ugh 🤦🏽♀️ these women
If you notice we don't have a a lot of young black brown skin girls with two black parents who are famous I think we have Ryan Destiny, Keke Palmer
Excellent comment, I thought exactly the same, she came up with a list made up of older black women or younger mixed race women 🙄
@@jasminepearls1047 Normani, CoCo from the Disney Channel, Rico Nasty
I didn't hear her say Lupita N'yongo, jazmine sullivan, Naturi Naughton and Brandi. And yes! Coco!
really 🤣🤣🤣🤣 sounded so stupid, naming women old enough to be his mama, Beyonce. Halle, Gabrielle 🙄
They worried about this 15 yr old and yet two of the host are with white men...please GTFOH
I've heard many of young black boys/men say they don't like and won't date black women. Frankly I don't really care anymore .
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Real talk! I have never heard any other Race say that they do not like the women of their race.
Never ever...it's ridiculous
Not publicly
But they get mad when women their race date men of different races.
It’s like announcing to the world that you hate yourself.
And I'm sure you've never any other race say that they don't need or want the men of their race...now chew on that...
I’m a light skin black and I live in Florida..I tried to interact with black women but they would sometimes say oh your light skin …your not my type… but when I go out with a Hispanic woman I get cussed out and I told people I tried to date with black women
Lmfaooo if that’s you in your pfp, you ARE NOT LIGHTSKINNED.
Light skinned is Steph Curry, Drake, Ben Simmons, Chris Brown, PRINCE. You are in a fantasy land 😂😂😂
@@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736 light skinned is light brown, you just named people who are bi racial, drake is damn near fair skinned or pale and so is Chris brown
The reality is most BW don’t want most BM, but they still have the audacity to get mad when the men they ignored date outside the race. 😂 It’s as if BW think they own BW. Here’s a news flash, ladies: You don’t.
A lot of black men have these views. There isn’t anything wrong with black women as a whole. They just value non-blackness/whiteness More
We value women who know how to treat men
@@YungSavage203 Liar, because you cheat on them, as well. Now what?
@@pvssology Exactly - those apples!
Lol 86.% of brothers have black wives
@@pvssology black demographics dot com and its obvious
In order for his him to say he doesn’t like black women what he’s really saying is I don’t like my mother. He forgot that he was housed in a black womb. Sounds like a personal problem to me . Every time he’s says I don’t like black women he’s disrespecting every black woman in his family
That's exactly what he's saying and don't let Ricky fool you; he knew this child felt this way long before some so-called reality show. The kid goes to a military school. Is it all male? If so, how much interaction does he really have with ANY girls? If it isn't much or at all, where did the self-hate and hate for his own race come from? Ricky has grandchildren, who I believe are half white. That should tell you lot.
He a kid.
I’m sure he don’t plan to date his mom
Arlene Curry, he never said he like Black woman he said he didn't want to date one at that particular time because he sees them like sisters.
@@craigsims1189 Whatever that means.
@@sherrisolomon2843 Color it anywhere you want; the end result is still the same.
I come from a portuguese family and they always said no matter what race you are we are all God's children.
I’m sure this is old however I really like Kandi with the ladies. ❤️
And as a dark skinned Black woman, it’s not (and has never been) a compliment to be cute for a dark skinned girl.
Compliment yourself and the right person(s) will be drawn to you. The other haters don't matter.
Black is beautiful in all shades ❤. Lupito Nyongo (I probably didn't spell that correctly) is absolutely flawless! Naomi Campbell, Michelle Rowland. Don't ever let anyone ever say to you "you are cute for a dark skinned girl". You are beautiful regardless. Let's celebrate one another and our differences. ❤
I like how Jeannie Mia is talking. When she said that Black men are only good enough to be a side piece n a White man to hold her down. Do we need to pull that video up. But now. Ooh it's different Hmmmmm.
Also, her saying, let a sister know about no good men... is she (currently) hearing/ listening to what sisters are saying?!?
😂😂
Jeannie Mai was correct. You cannot force those words into his mouth. Period.
Semantics... my understanding is that they, producers, are manipulative. In this case, they, likely saw his pattern of thinking and thought they struck gold.
@@causeeffect7624 I fully agree 💯💯👏🏼👏🏼
Only reason this show is still afloat is that we watch old episodes.
speak for yourself boo, i love me some Garcelle
What's your point?
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@@rickeysmiley8158 Silly person.
Loves how Kandi keeps it real! ❣💯
She definitely danced around this whole subject , but I guess !
People just don't get it... The boy's father married and had children with a black woman. The son grows up with his mother, yet the father is somehow responsible and accountable for his son NOT wanting to date black women. Did anyone ever consider that the boy's mother is a poor example of womanhood and a bad mother? Her influence alone is enough to drive a young man to look elsewhere.
HIS BODY... HIS CHOICE
Kandi's speaking voice is so melodic I can't stand myself
He's a kid. The producers of that show shouldn't have aired something like that.
Agreed, I feel like this should have been the main focus on the conversation.
Really
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The producer told him to say this which points to a larger agenda...
#Lies. He was just saying that to escape the backlash he received. It was proven on his social media with the comments he (and his friends) made about white as well as the groups he's in, i.e. White Women Wednesday.
His father was one of the executive producers on the show. Plus, even if the producers wanted him to say otherwise, he doesn't have a mind of his own? Those were his real feelings, stop trying to excuse it. To each their own in preference, but don't disrespect the race you come from in the midst of it.
@@TheCutiepie2004 It's still a larger issue that a producer would tell him to say that.
@@DH-uw3us if that was the case, yes I can agree. I feel that those comments were his own tho
This is an old clip but Rickey Smiley’s son hasn’t changed
So, does that mean he hates his mother, grandmother, aunts, sisters, etc...?
No he feels respect for us just isnt attracted
He didn't say he hated his race. He said he wasn't attracted to black females.
@@nikkinoos82 Ok...well that's quite different then.
Or perhaps he had a bad experience with the BW in his home or community...
Hate your self and your mama and Grandmother 😢
*And she's A PRETTY GIRL..DATS WHAT PISSED ME OFF*
Looks is not the reason those brothers have issues with the sisters.. No one is finer than our women
And he's ugly..I mean .
Being ugly with money
Is different
We see
@@debbieferguson7906 😄
Do we really care about most of the men who say they don’t like black women it’s not a strong prominent or respected list of candidates to be honest 😂
Facts 😂
He’s a kid
I went to a predominantly white school and grew up in white neighborhoods and I (a black woman) still like black men... so his reasoning makes no sense.
I wonder why.i feel like if black women where adored in a big way like the waY Asian women were, I dont think black women would make black men their only option.i just feel like black women think they can only get black men due to the beautify standard not being them.so I am not suprised when black women make black men their preference even though they could be around white people most of the time.black men are also placed on a platform where they are desired by a lot of women from different race.so they are not going to make black women their only option.
@@purplelove3666 Yeah I'm not saying I only like black men or I'm putting them on a pedestal. I was just saying that I like them regardless of growing up around white people. So I don't understand that kid's logic. With that being said if black women wish to date outside their race then they should go for it. Have a blessed day 😁
@@safiya1754 oh Okey so.you know you have options.ok girly have a wonderful day😊
He's 15...
@@ninahndz5880 At 15 I never had that outlook was the point I was trying to make. His parents should probably find out why he feels that way.
This is sad and ignorant.
Rickey, get yo boy!👉
He learned it from his Dad.
How the man loves sisters
Kandi said so
@@staciamj1 I agree!
I have 3 black sons and I can say my sons love all women as long as they are happy I won't complain.
Yeah who cares if they don’t like black women lol
@@mike7204 as long as they don't bring a man home I'm good. Lol! Love all the women they want.
Other races don’t feel the same
@@pamgater9011 oh lol
Amen
I appreciate the conversation...I want people to come "clean" with WHY? Why is it that Ricky Smiley's son made that statement regarding black women. We as black parent's NEED TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN THE IMPORTANCE OF OUR BLACK SKIN!!!
Teach your daughters how to stay in shape and feminine
@@Jedilord882. Teach your boys to stop killing and stealing.
*KANDI IS A BOSS...!!!*
He is only 15 but this is where his mother and father guides him towards manhood where he won't generalize and how dating and relationships actually work...true or definitely true?
@Anon wont change who you are attracted to.
@Fleur Floral no most bm don't. Unless you're talking about the bm you personally know and seen with your own two eyes and heard with your own two ears
@@TheAlkebulanTrust Have you watch any of the videos on RUclips? It’s filled with bm saying this stuff. One bm on a radio show asked 2 non black women who do usually date. One started talking and the bm radio host got upset that she said she doesn’t date black men because she’s not attractive to them. He asked her again and she said the same thing and he threw a cup of water in her face.
@@twoplustwo07 have you ever watched RUclips videos and on other platforms BM showcasing their adoration for BW. We as in The Alkebulan Trust see that more often especially offline too.
@Fleur Floral in mainstream media it is often seen and heard how Black women are mistreated often by WM and WW. There are many levels to it but ultimately. Only the son can say where he learnt this mindset from. And to prevent these types of mindsets the mother and father have to teach children how to treat Black women right...now go enjoy the rest of your 2021.
I told my daughter to say “I’m cute because I’m dark not cute to be so dark!!!” Black People.
He’s 15 and that’s his option right now. If he decides to limit himself when he grows up then he doesn’t deserve to dine with a Queen 👑
Where I come from I have heard many white men say they only date black women....just not lately. But I have heard it straight from them many times.
Me too, And white men don't get bashed like black men do when they say it...why is that
But when white men say they prefer black women, they don’t even mention white women. That’s the difference
Kandi is beautiful!
Dnt be surprise if his son start wearin lipstick i love black women
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Ricky u a comedian n a legend in yo own right 🎅 role up ti club car keys im santa Claus wtf milk n cookies lol
“Wearing lipstick”? Why?
😂 Because he’s not attracted to Black girls?
Thanks for attacking a bm for his preference.You sound just like the group of people that usually wear lipstick.
I’m not plus size I’m sturdy I love that😂💕
And she got a white dude that loves her!!!!👏👏👏
Obese according to medical charts.
@@pimpmyride7278 lmao
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No you're obese ask any doctor
THIS IS FROM AN OLD EPISODE. WHAT OTHER REASON DO YOU HAVE FOR POSTING THIS EXCEPT TO DEGRADE BLACK WOMEN AND BLACK PEOPLE IN GENERAL?
Get attention to boost views on their dying show.
I don't like that she felt the need to list beautiful black women as if there's a short list. If the show had been about white women, would they have called out a few Hollywood white women? Left a bad taste in my mouth.
She didn't even list people in this child's age category and why the hell do we care what a snotty nose kid thinks about dating, when he should stay in his place and do his homework?
Why are all of you mad about his preference? It’s his choice and frankly there has to be a reason so many black men are not wanting to date black women.
you better love Melanine more than anything else
He need to shut the hell up
why is Tamera asking Adrienne about reality shows when she used to be in one too
No she’s talking about if the producers let them watch the interviews back
@@victoriagalexis8106 she was asking as if she didn’t know that too tho
@@meggriffin5382 ehh idk
Is that too LMAOO then I figured out what she meant
She was comparing experiences. You didn't hear her?
BW need to ACCEPT the fact that BM prefer women who do not look like their moms, aunties, and sisters. He should NOT have to apologize for his preference. Begging men that do not prefer you and asking why is RIDICULOUS. BM only want BW to do one thing and that is to: "LEAVE THEM ALONE"
Lies on lies
Exactly & we must leave them alone.
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My son feels the same way and no way did I instill that in him. In fact we're the opposite. It's social media that does it sometimes.
He will learn through experience....perhaps a reality check will have him on the same page as you
Non-Black girls are obsessed with Black boys, and make themselves readily available to them...the boys don't really have to chase them or work to win most of them over🤷🏾♀️
@@briggie28
No they aren't. Most prefer their own men. A WW made a video saying it's not a badge of honor to get attention from BM. She said getting attention from WM gives them a higher status
@@briggie28
And sleeping with someone isn't the same as marriage and sharing a life together.
What was experience with the sisters?
Can I add to Adrienne's list,
Amber Riley
Lupita Nyong'o
Tika Sumpter
Lizzo
Ryan Destiny
Kandi Burruss
Queen Latifah
Danai Gurira
Letitia Wright
Gabby Sidibe
Angela Bassett
Just to name a few more
Ryan Destiny is one of the most beautiful woman I've ever seen..omg😍👀
Many on Adrienne's list are light-skinned women which I say do not have much of a challenge snatching men.
This mess is his father's fault. That young man has a Black mother, and grandmother. Im not surprised by his statement. We are the most disrespected. Period!!!😡😡😡😡
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Tru dat 👍🏾👍🏾
Ya having that list just made no sense. That list was unnecessary because what you’re really saying is all the others don’t matter. you could’ve said “there are many black women out there that are gorgeous for most men” or something
Could've also listed Tamera, Kandi, and Loni!
Exactly !! I’m saying . That was a waste of time . Plus her mentioning a mixed woman was stupid . Guys aren’t saying they don’t like mixed women they’re saying they don’t like BLACK WOMEN !! theirs a big difference . Then she mentioned Beyoncé like girl stfu , men have been in love with Beyoncé since the 90”s.
@@immerbeach5477 she did that on purpose. Why even bring up mixed women? I'm sick of then trying to gaslight black women
@@ASprinkleofAnime I’m saying . They always think that we have to be diluted in order to be deemed beautiful. Adrienne is airheaded . She couldn’t just said “theirs gorgeous black women out there “ or just said nothing at all . Any of those options would have been better than what she said
@@ASprinkleofAnime Because they fell for that typical European standard of beauty. They didn't say Serena, Venus, Gaberaye, India, or even Viola, All of which, are beautiful.
His Choice! He's 15. Black Women Triggered 😂
It happens! I went to a predominantly white high school in a small town in So Cali and dated white boys but when I moved to the Midwest I saw brothers errrrrwhere lol and dated black men 🤷🏽♀️
Proximity
They live in Atlanta girl bye
that makes perfect sense - you date who you're exposed to
but you didn't limit yourself based on something so arbitrary - with such a long and deep history
for anyone to make a DECISION that they aren't attracted to all the ppl in a specific race, is a problem - an even bigger problem, if it's their own race - self hatred is a HUGE issue in the Black community
(but it def exists in every race - and too much of it is based on ytness, or proximity)
I love my own ppl, but I don't limit myself to one group - or exclude any group based on their race - I exclude ppl based on their character, their treatment of me, their world view, and attitudes - their intelligence, and kindness etc.
but not race
do you know how many gorgeous ppl there are on the planet? and how many not so attractive ppl there are? and how many of them all fit into one race? 😆
I don't have that kinda time - nor am I ignorant and arrogant enough to think that I know enough ppl of any one race to determine they're all in the same level of attractiveness lol smh
this thought process is so warped to me - I have yet to find any race, or cultural group where I cannot find at least one person physically attractive
this is a LEARNED and conditioned mindset - and it needs to be talked about in context of the history that causes it - as well as how it's perpetuated in media, and social situations
it's a sickness - and exposure is the cure
#StopHate
@@ummeiguess spot on. Yes to all of this.
I can understand that
Let me just say I love black women
This. Show needs. JESUS. ASAP
This boy 15yrs old. needs. Jesus and his
Father. needs him. Also. This is. Disgraceful for him to say.
@@deeward729 Jesus freaks
They can edit, it hits too many young girls ear and they need to be conscious of stuff like that.
They did it intentionally to have that effect.
Exactly.
@@DH-uw3us🎯 I'm sure the producers are whyte😒
Exactly
Someday, he may find a white or nonblack woman who will reject him. Or his marriage(s) won't last. Karma.
Or they can have him..no love, no loss
@@shysmoov Right! Why would we want him. Their gain, their pain. 🥱😷
It happens regardless of the race of woman lol this is America
True bcos self hate ain't right.
This is why I stay home instead of protest. #Burn the cape.
The young man said he don't find blk girls attractive AT ALL. Not that he is exclusively dating non-blks, because they represent a much higher percentage of students at his school.
Big difference there.
Lonnie was preaching on this topic so true!!
I'm feeling the unity at this table among the ladies. I feel like I don't see it often, but this one right here was good.
Her so called list....🙄🙄🙄
@@showmercytoothers4059 What was wrong with it?
@@Sarah-kv3qs 9:30 her list is not real regular teenage girls.
@@showmercytoothers4059 I see. I feel they just did it to show he can have a preference but he doesn’t know every black woman to exclude a group a better list would be Skai Jackson, Rielle downs and China McLain who are teens and young women
It's all bullshit
Loni looks great! Her makeup is flawless.
She weighs more than. A man that’s very unhealthy
Still looking like a linebacker
He shouldn't apologize. He saw how other women move, compared it to what he's seen from BW, and made an executive decision.
That is exactly what happened.
Uhm, so what. He doesn't have to like Black Women. Many Black Women don't like Black Men. What's the problem. Everyone has to find their happiness.
True. Love has no color.
Umm but aren’t those women WAY too old for Rickey’s son?? 😂
Yep lol
To be honest I think Ricky Smiley has demonstrated this behavior. Just look at how he be acting
I haven’t really dated outside of my race! I’m not attracted to nobody else like I am with BW BUT,
What am I supposed to do!?! I’ve never had a fulfilling relationship with a black woman… Every relationship I’ve had with dark skin girls was a power struggle, competition against everything past and present! The only time I was treated like a decent human being was when I was making a decent paycheck! My son is used against me. I’ve never been good enough and I hate it. I don’t feel accepted or respected so I’m gonna date who tf I want to date. I’m going to be loyal to whoever is loyal to me. I’m going to protect whoever I’m with (black or not )
I don’t hear NOBODY talking about the BW who HATE BM? use us for child support and free dinner or money??! Or look down on the dude making a living working a job lol
I don’t hear nobody talking about what they could be doing wrong and taking accountability for their actions
Nobody is born biased ,racist, or discriminative.
Oh I get it I’m supposed to suffer in silence until I’m super successful and be happy about the years of trauma, rejections and be treated like a second class citizen 💪🏾👍🏾
I felt this and I’m sorry….and I hear this from a lot of black men that I meet. I love black men although they disrespect me all the time for some reason. I could just be sitting somewhere reading a book or listening to my music and get disrespected if I don’t give a black guy what he wants. I was even assaulted. I know this is not all black men.
The black guys that wanted to date me, although they had issues, like being married or multiple children by other women and trauma and mental issue… they felt I was the type of women they wanted to date and they were vulnerable to me by talking….. but wanted to be with me because I made them feel seen and I was quiet or domestic or whatever they were looking for.
They felt they could get close to me… some of them even confessing that they were taken… at first they lied. Red flags went off so I felt something… But they wanted to be seen and treated like a human being, like a man.. but I wasn’t the woman to give them that and since I didn’t…they got mad and said mean things because I didn’t want to sleep with them or be a side piece.
This one guy pretty much said what you said, he’s paying child support, etc from several women and his wife he was separated from, started seeing someone else…. and they just had a baby and he wanted to date and sleep with me and I said no. Only knew him for 2 hours and it was over before it even started. But he was hurting and made bad choices and wanted solace. The system doesn’t protect men the way they do women and they know this. You have good men out here but they treat them like the bad ones.
Kind of funny how people who are always complaining about slaverilyy...in reality essentially practice the same things they complain about. If that is not a sign to run, then I don;t know what is.
First of all what does a woman being dark skinned have to with how she treats , you and your entitled to your own opinion and I'm sorry you had a bad reaction with those women , but that is in no way shape or form a representation of all black women , not to be funny or mean but it's sounds like you've been hurt and now casting a bad light on your own women ,from the experiences you had with a few women ( but the tings your saying is the stereotype that's put on black women by other races) plus black women are not the only ones , I hope you heal tho and find some one who cherishes what they have
@@lifeisbeautiful9455 "but they treat them like the bad ones " who is they supposed to be " and did u read what u said hes got multiple baby mothers and a ex wife , so I doubt he was a little angel/victim , just like any other women black,white, asian, etc a woman rarely treats a man wrong unless he did them dirty first , and trust and believe that it's absolute bullshit If you think most black women treat their men like crap, but women of other races treat theirs like kings
@@AdultSupervision. so people shouldn't dat black women, do you have any idea how ignorant, offensive, and racist that is , and before you go speaking on black women which is not your place , you should get a more reliable source , of course someone who's been hurt and had bad relationships is gonna feel that way, the same for any man of any race would, you may not care but u should think before you type gives the wrong perception
"Free & available" Kandy, just say it, locked up in jail.
Yea, she was dancing around that a little too hard.
Because it's a lie anyway. As if most eligible bm are in prison,ridiculous.
Damn. Lol. I laughed out hard at that part because I know what she was trying to imply. Haha. 😂😂
His views are definitely a reflection of his upbringing. I went to a predominantly white school from 5-12. I didn't meet a black boy until I was 13 😐 And I know Jeannie Mae or however you spell her name ain't talking about someone not being attracted to black people😐
Jeezy is finessing her and I'm not mad about it
This 15 yr.old stated that he "didn't find black women attractive because he thinks of them as his 'sister' " and he'd grown accustomed to being around white girls, going to an all/majority white school, I don't think that's meant to be derogatory at all. At his age once he gets older and be around them more, I'm sure his attraction will change. He's just at an awkward stage where he's still trying to discover himself.
Agreed 💯💯👏🏼👏🏼
Or he just does not find black women attractive.
Who cares if he don’t like black women wtf
I’m sturdy 😂
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So is an ox.
Yes miss loni
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People love to condone ignorance like this by saying it’s a preference.
But the thing is it is a preference. Just because they don’t want you doesn’t mean they hate you. When you date someone you want someone who you like. Whether you like his personality character or looks ( and you can’t say you never date on look) you still like something in him and that’s why your dating him.
I love Kandi. She is my favorite housewife.
When black women say they don't date black men they get praised girlfriends be like go head girl
What do you expect if you put your kid in a majority white schools? They date who they are around. It happens all the time.
He’s a child…. Yall sick.
"You come for it, you gettin it". DAT'S RIGHT!!
I think its okay, the child is just stating his preference but the father needs to teach him to still show respect to them dispite his preference.
I think the question becomes why is it his preference.?
Nobody wants to talk about how some women don't want to date men from their own race (Jeannie) or one of their parents race (Tamera). I wonder why.
@@bsbgirl85 I don't think it's fear. Women like this are just very uppity.
@Anon How old are you? What's your dress size?
@@bsbgirl85 her husband ugly to you not her that’s how it supposed to be y’all mad about interracial relationships give it a break
@Anon FACTS!!!
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Wait, he said it again?!!!! I thought we already addressed this a couple of years ago
This is an old clip.
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Sisters been saying bros aint sht for years, so whats the problem??
Light skin or dark skin he is a black child that needs to be real with yourself as a child of God pay attention to what you do and say to people no matter who they are linda j.☮️☮️☮️☮️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Right. Rather he with a white girl or not police still will see him as a black man
I agree with Jeannie. You have to raise your kids with a strong value system. So that when someone, regardless of who they are, does not sway them away from that. So someone tells you do drugs you just do? Go to your parents and discuss it.
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Don’t have to tell them, just don’t give them attention or eye contact. A woman will know u don’t like them if you ignore them.
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6:18 crazy that she says this while on the panel Loni is in an interracial relationship with a white man and Tamera has a white father. 😮
Candy is gorgeous, beautiful all the way.
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She really is , taken good care of herself, may she continue to age gracefully
That young man probably goes to school around a few BWs and has formed his OWN opinion. These people should not chastise this young man for analyzing what he sees and making a decision.
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People want to push the agenda that a person has to experience attraction to all races, genders and cultures. That's a fallacy. Real life is people have a type. Or you enjoy a look but don't culturally vibe. Let's normalize the freedom of dating who you like.
Yeah I agree
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I pretty much date everyone and rarely look at dating as terms of group think. I live in Dallas I will date whom ever I click with.