I grew up the only girl with seven brothers. In school I had a teacher who taught that one in every6 children is born gay. I went home from school thinking , I wonder who in my family is gay and saying to myself is it me? I then realized it was my younger brother, who I was closest to. I see him in Darius
As a member of the queer community, I feel like Darius would’ve THRIVED at Howard University. Black people aren’t a monolith and it was the first time I EVER saw all different types of black people. That’s from sexuality, religious backgrounds, tax brackets, celebrity children, etc, all across the African diaspora! Darius would’ve EATEN THAT CAMPUS UP! In the black collegiate space, it’s about your brain, tenacity, talent and personality. He has it all! 💙
@@BusyBluso glad to see you here! I’ve been along time subscriber of you & Joleen. I sit quietly in the back of every BBAMM trying to not get told to “log out sweetie” lol 💙
I foresee an award winning podcast, Darius. I watched this entire hour and a half long video and you both touched on soooo many different important topics and made so many points. These conversations are very important to have to help open the minds of those which are closed. You guys’ relationship and dynamic are just 🤌🏾 ❤
This video was very emotional. I love to black families beat the negative generational curses. To hear Blove tell her son she’s proud of him, some of us don’t get that. It was beautiful.
Woooh this was deep, very heavy…great conversation. Tear jerker. I commend you both, very admirable! Darius is definitely a leader. Shoutout to Blove for that powerful speech to her son. 😢🎉
The background colors mixed with the different shades of red , pink & blk + the dark wine is giving " valentine's day in late august vibes / aesthetic & im here for ALL OF IT ! " now let me grab my wine glass .. 🥰🧚🏾♀️🍷
I’m so Proud of how you articulated your experience . This was such an important conversation. Most importantly this was a HEALTHY conversation! Well done y’all !
Omg you both are still hysterical together z whether your mukbanging or just chatting, Blove cranks up the conversation up into a different realm .. Just a different language Love it!!
When she started saying all the things she loved about Darius I teared up! That was so sweet and a very special moment I feel blessed to have watched🙌🏾🫶🏾‼️
This video brought tears to my eyes. I absolutely love you Darius keep educating us, I am here for it all. Love the mother and son relationship, priceless. 🙏🏽
I love the open conversation that you, Darius, and Blove are having. My mom and I had a relationship pretty similar to you and your mom. The difference is we didn't openly start talking about my gay lifestyle until I graduated from Cosmetology school. Basically, later in life. Kudos 👏🏾 to the 2 of you. 🙏🏾❤️😊
I was seated for this whole video. I really love you twos convos nowadays 🥹❤ So healing for me personally. The closing words from blove about Darius has me like Darius like ok what’s in this wine 😂🥹🥹🩵
I really enjoyed this… I have a sister who is part of your community and this opened up a lot of things that I’d never thought of. Hats off to you Blove, I could see the sincerity in your face. This was a GREAT discussion! Thanks for sharing, love you Darius!!! Keep moving forward…💙🩷
Have been watching you guys for 7 years, I love you guys dynamic always and Darius has ALWAYS been that GURLLLLALALALA. And Blove has always been that supportive mother💚
CRYING 😭😭😭 this was beautiful! and yess blove said we love you cause your light!! shines!! you use your platform the right way, you are a leader we need in this world for sure!!… i leave every video educated on something and thinking about the things that matter about me as a black person and the world
Aww Darius I just finished the video. So informative and ended so sweetly. You and Blove are my favorite mother and son duo in the whole earth!!! I’m so happy she gave you your flowers 💕💕
OMG !! This was awesome!!! 👏 I really really this dialogue. Darius I’ve watched on Your moms show since you were little Darius ‘ man this conversation has really touched me and because I go through the exact same thing and I’m well over your age, this has touched me especially as a gay black Indian American man living with HIV this conversation was meant for me so I thank Darius for this vlog you have really wan I inspired me also thank to both of your amazing parents for raising two amazing well mannerd young men . Keep on growing grinding and being Demure .. God bless your family…
I love the bond you have with your mom Darius! Bless both of your hearts ❤️ And the love and life you spoke into your son momma B, is so precious and I’m happy God chose you to be his Mom 🥺❤️ thank you for sharing this with us
I appreciate your conversation, it is so true about the black community, sadly being marginalized in society you would think that there would be more unity in both communities. Love is love lets live life in peace with love.
I love this I love when Blove and Darius get together and have these conversations I love these long vids. I also love how Blove gave Darius his flowers 🌷🌹🌷🌹 while he is still alive. Some people wait until their loved ones are dead and gone to realize how much they love and appreciate them and give them their flowers
I've really enjoyed this video, it's so touching I just love to hear Darius speak of his life experiences bur sometimes it touches my heart of some things he goes thru. ❤️❤️ you Darius continue. ijs
Being against homosexuality doesnt make one homophobic. There is no fear, its just naturally and universally wrong in all cultures and religions, just like murder and stealing.
Being hydrophobic doesn’t mean something has a fear of water. It means it has a rejection to water. Apply that same logic to homophobia. You cannot consistently spew harmful rhetoric and blatant homophobia but then try and distance yourself from the label because you don’t like the way it makes you sound. Hope this helps ❤️
@@dariusgaskin -phobia by definition is irrational fear. I think it's thrown at ppl who don't agree with the lifestyle, when fear is really not true. I just don't think it is God's intent. Nevertheless, I don't hate individuals who choose the lifestyle because they don't have to answer me. I still enjoy your content!
@@Shushyby Do you think lipids have an irrational fear of water? Context matters. Definitions change based on context. Webster definition: “adjective. Definition of phobic. as in afraid. of, relating to, or having an extremely strong fear or dislike of someone or something” See how it says “or dislike of someone or something”. Because context matters. So if you have a dislike of homosexuality for whatever reason, you are homo-phobic. Period. My purpose isn’t to change your mind. It’s to state a fact. Again, I hope this helps and thank you for watching❤️
People like you are so weird. What exactly is he supposed to do? Go pretend to like women to seem righteous in the eyes of hypocritical Christians?? Attraction is biological.
As a mom I could see Blove’s genuine love, concern, and fear for her baby boy when Darius was describing his reality. Darius you are truly a leader and a natural educator. Your internet Auntie is so proud of you, your strength, and your ability to break down common themes in the Black community! I truly wish you the best🙏🏽🙌🏽💪🏽
Darius is so patient with people, more specifically Blove because if someone was constantly cutting me off while I’m talking, I would not want to talk anymore. 😩
I’m a 27 yr old black gay woman, & I SO appreciate this refreshing, intellectual, open conversation. Wow Darius you are so blessed for the mother you have, and B you are blessed with the son you have raised/the man he naturally is. This is a beautiful video. Thank you ❤
Blove honoring Darius was/is a beautiful thing. Everything she said will forever stick with him for the rest of his life. Your words will forever bring peace to his heart and a smile to his face even when you're no longer here. ❤ These are the moments that truly matter that will live on forever. 🙏🏻
I am 62, and I still tear up because of the way I was treated. It was awful, and so much abuse. The name-calling, calling you in front of crowds and being punched spit, and having to fight for doing nothing but walking to the store. The scars are still with me after all these years.
Awww this made me cry! I love that your mom said so many kind things about you. All of it is true! I love you darius ❤ I always wish I would of ran into you in Tucson.
being disappointed that your child doesn’t have sex with the opposite gender is so weird to me. like your child could be so much worse, but all they are is gay?!! BFFR. maybe if we stopped worrying about who our children are attracted to and just love the actual person they are, we all would be fine.
I dont really tune in to darius and blove too often but for some reason but i do like how comfortable they are having this conversation this let people know they can & should have these conversations around the world , this video just goes to show music is life changing thats the beautiful thing about music
Thank Darius so much for all of your thoughts and and experiences of lgbtq community! I was a little depressed today and now I feel so much better! I never miss any of your videos. It’s kinda funny I have a few videos and pictures of my grandkids and didn’t realize you were in the pictures on my TV in the background and didn’t even know till later on looking at the pictures. 🤣🤣🤣. Love all of you so much! Oh by the way my daughter is Trans. I’m proud of her as well and we are very close. I never a knew much about navigating as a black person and being viewed in a “box” in the lgbtq community. Thanks again Darius.
Blove’s monologue about what she admires, appreciates and loves about Darius was incredibly thoughtful and beautiful.
I grew up the only girl with seven brothers. In school I had a teacher who taught that one in every6 children is born gay. I went home from school thinking , I wonder who in my family is gay and saying to myself is it me? I then realized it was my younger brother, who I was closest to. I see him in Darius
As a member of the queer community, I feel like Darius would’ve THRIVED at Howard University. Black people aren’t a monolith and it was the first time I EVER saw all different types of black people. That’s from sexuality, religious backgrounds, tax brackets, celebrity children, etc, all across the African diaspora! Darius would’ve EATEN THAT CAMPUS UP! In the black collegiate space, it’s about your brain, tenacity, talent and personality. He has it all! 💙
Heyyy Busy!! 🐝🐝
@@CoCoBwaire wassup love?! Not me finding a BusyBee Darius’ chat! lol Luv You 💙🐝💙
@@BusyBluso glad to see you here! I’ve been along time subscriber of you & Joleen. I sit quietly in the back of every BBAMM trying to not get told to “log out sweetie” lol 💙
I 100% agree and I’m a senior at Howard!
Red..is a bit much. Stick to clear.
Not me crying when B started giving you your flowers!!
Yes! I started crying as well.
Same😩
I love that you are speaking life into your son. That’s so beautiful to see how accepting you are of your son. 💛🥹
I'm driving the bus over to TikTok to hear Darius cuss. Who wants a ride?
I call front seat 🚌
Meeeeee😂😂😂😂😂
I'll take an inside seat💺. I want to check the scenery 😂
✋🏽
😂😂😂
He’s so mature to have this conversation in the way he is 😅 4:57
Team Blove and Darius , i love them together
My fav duo ❤️ I know I’m in for a good video when I see you guys together x
What a conversation. It made me so emotional to see and hear the love between the two of you…Continued blessings❤
I almost cried at the end 1:26:29 I’ve never heard words like this from my mother and it’s sweet to hear it between you guys!💕
This is the best mother son conversation so much love ❤️ thank you for sharing with us❤
bloveeee your hair has gotten so thick and long, I love it 🥰
I foresee an award winning podcast, Darius. I watched this entire hour and a half long video and you both touched on soooo many different important topics and made so many points. These conversations are very important to have to help open the minds of those which are closed. You guys’ relationship and dynamic are just 🤌🏾 ❤
These videos help me cook, clean and do what I need to. Never stop them or my family is doomed lol
😂😂😂😂
😂😂 actually
I love "DANGER"...I love saying that!
This conversation was very good and needed!!!
This video was very emotional. I love to black families beat the negative generational curses. To hear Blove tell her son she’s proud of him, some of us don’t get that. It was beautiful.
Not Darius “DROP IT LIKE ITS 🔥” 😂
Omg Darius !!! This is such an important conversation!!! I loveee this !!
Woooh this was deep, very heavy…great conversation. Tear jerker. I commend you both, very admirable! Darius is definitely a leader. Shoutout to Blove for that powerful speech to her son. 😢🎉
When Blove said “you need lessons” I cried😂😂😂
I fell out the clouds when she said that 🤣🤣💀💀
When she “it’s so lame “I fell out Darius be cussing in video let me find out lol😂 it’s be own people too 😂😂.
The background colors mixed with the different shades of red , pink & blk + the dark wine is giving " valentine's day in late august vibes / aesthetic & im here for ALL OF IT ! " now let me grab my wine glass .. 🥰🧚🏾♀️🍷
I’m so Proud of how you articulated your experience . This was such an important conversation. Most importantly this was a HEALTHY conversation! Well done y’all !
You are amazing and let no one dim your light. Your parental support is phenomenal. ❤
Being a social influencer takes a lot of grit and tolerance amongst everything else 🙂
Omg you both are still hysterical together z whether your mukbanging or just chatting, Blove cranks up the conversation up into a different realm .. Just a different language
Love it!!
When she started saying all the things she loved about Darius I teared up! That was so sweet and a very special moment I feel blessed to have watched🙌🏾🫶🏾‼️
I hope Darius heart my comment ❤❤. He is the best RUclipsr ever
Thank you! 😭❤️
@@dariusgaskin you're welcome
Darius is so blessed to have this relationship with his mom!! i love this so much and wished i had this
Say what you want Blove. It's your languo
That’s right 😂
lol I love it, cracks me up
😂😂😂 Darius, your mom is like a billionaire….she can say whatever she wants! 😂😂😂
Videos with the two of you automatically lift my mood. Thank you for sharing your bond with us!!
Darius you need a podcast or to go live so we can interact with you and have conversations! I love these talks!
HEY DARIUS & MRS. BLOVE AND EVERYONE HAPPY FRIDAY GOD IS LOVE HAVE A BLESSED WEEKEND ❤❤❤
Thanks you too 🥰
Yes He is!! Be Blessed as well Ms Joni. 🙏🏼💕🙏🏼💕🙏🏼💕
This video brought tears to my eyes. I absolutely love you Darius keep educating us, I am here for it all. Love the mother and son relationship, priceless. 🙏🏽
My first time watching this has bless me so proud of you Darius.
Aww you made my eyes watery time I felt those amazing words about Darius. That's why we support his channel
Yasss i am here for this and so grateful for the conversation and education ❤
Get your flowers 🌹🌹🌹 Darius! You are a light ✨✨✨
Hey I love watching you and your mom together!!!❤
I love their combos their hilarious but I love that she's so loving towards her kids so open
I loved this.! We need more of this frfr.! Love you both
Dauris has always been smart and truthful i love you for breaking it down. He teaches mom a lot that's real love ❤❤❤
I love the open conversation that you, Darius, and Blove are having. My mom and I had a relationship pretty similar to you and your mom. The difference is we didn't openly start talking about my gay lifestyle until I graduated from Cosmetology school. Basically, later in life.
Kudos 👏🏾 to the 2 of you. 🙏🏾❤️😊
I was seated for this whole video. I really love you twos convos nowadays 🥹❤ So healing for me personally. The closing words from blove about Darius has me like Darius like ok what’s in this wine 😂🥹🥹🩵
Darius you stress me out and satisfy ALL my conversational needs at the same time🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.....I love yall relationship....KEEP BEING YOU LOVE😍😍😍
This was such a good conversation honestly!
I really enjoyed this… I have a sister who is part of your community and this opened up a lot of things that I’d never thought of. Hats off to you Blove, I could see the sincerity in your face. This was a GREAT discussion! Thanks for sharing, love you Darius!!! Keep moving forward…💙🩷
Thank you for including us Darius, we love you, God bless you.
I love how you and your mom can sit and enjoy each other’s energy ❤❤
I love this deep conversation!Continue succeeding and being a leader Darius!
Your leadership shines the most because you live in your truth.
Have been watching you guys for 7 years, I love you guys dynamic always and Darius has ALWAYS been that GURLLLLALALALA. And Blove has always been that supportive mother💚
CRYING 😭😭😭 this was beautiful! and yess blove said we love you cause your light!! shines!! you use your platform the right way, you are a leader we need in this world for sure!!… i leave every video educated on something and thinking about the things that matter about me as a black person and the world
Aww Darius I just finished the video. So informative and ended so sweetly. You and Blove are my favorite mother and son duo in the whole earth!!! I’m so happy she gave you your flowers 💕💕
OMG !! This was awesome!!! 👏 I really really this dialogue. Darius I’ve watched on Your moms show since you were little Darius ‘ man this conversation has really touched me and because I go through the exact same thing and I’m well over your age, this has touched me especially as a gay black Indian American man living with HIV this conversation was meant for me so I thank Darius for this vlog you have really wan I inspired me also thank to both of your amazing parents for raising two amazing well mannerd young men . Keep on growing grinding and being Demure .. God bless your family…
I love the bond you have with your mom Darius! Bless both of your hearts ❤️ And the love and life you spoke into your son momma B, is so precious and I’m happy God chose you to be his Mom 🥺❤️ thank you for sharing this with us
Terrific Conversation!!! Your mother is right you are a leader Darius!!!
I appreciate your conversation, it is so true about the black community, sadly being marginalized in society you would think that there would be more unity in both communities. Love is love lets live life in peace with love.
I love this I love when Blove and Darius get together and have these conversations I love these long vids. I also love how Blove gave Darius his flowers 🌷🌹🌷🌹 while he is still alive. Some people wait until their loved ones are dead and gone to realize how much they love and appreciate them and give them their flowers
Darius you are so awesome! Thank you for being brave, bold and willing to educate us! Keep being you! ❤
I love when Darius uses the word danger, it cracks me up. Also this is a great video
Wow Blove that was so sweet. Got me over here crying and messing up my makeup 🥹 It feels good to hear things like this from your parents 💕
I've really enjoyed this video, it's so touching I just love to hear Darius speak of his life experiences bur sometimes it touches my heart of some things he goes thru. ❤️❤️ you Darius continue. ijs
everytime blove says " Lets clock it" 😂😂😂
I love them 😂❤
Being against homosexuality doesnt make one homophobic. There is no fear, its just naturally and universally wrong in all cultures and religions, just like murder and stealing.
Being hydrophobic doesn’t mean something has a fear of water. It means it has a rejection to water. Apply that same logic to homophobia. You cannot consistently spew harmful rhetoric and blatant homophobia but then try and distance yourself from the label because you don’t like the way it makes you sound. Hope this helps ❤️
@@dariusgaskin -phobia by definition is irrational fear. I think it's thrown at ppl who don't agree with the lifestyle, when fear is really not true. I just don't think it is God's intent. Nevertheless, I don't hate individuals who choose the lifestyle because they don't have to answer me. I still enjoy your content!
@@Shushyby Do you think lipids have an irrational fear of water? Context matters. Definitions change based on context.
Webster definition:
“adjective. Definition of phobic. as in afraid. of, relating to, or having an extremely strong fear or dislike of someone or something”
See how it says “or dislike of someone or something”. Because context matters.
So if you have a dislike of homosexuality for whatever reason, you are homo-phobic. Period.
My purpose isn’t to change your mind. It’s to state a fact. Again, I hope this helps and thank you for watching❤️
People like you are so weird. What exactly is he supposed to do? Go pretend to like women to seem righteous in the eyes of hypocritical Christians?? Attraction is biological.
Darius and mom great conversation
I soooo love y'all together. I laugh so hard 😂😂!! Darius is a whole vibe and Blove you are so in tuned with his life and it's commendable 🤗🤗.
As a mom I could see Blove’s genuine love, concern, and fear for her baby boy when Darius was describing his reality. Darius you are truly a leader and a natural educator. Your internet Auntie is so proud of you, your strength, and your ability to break down common themes in the Black community! I truly wish you the best🙏🏽🙌🏽💪🏽
The dialogue in this video is amazing!
Just what I needed for my birthday these 2😂😂😂😂 I love y’all ❤❤❤❤
.I needed this!🥹😁
This is one of the best videos. Good conversation!!
God bless you both🙏🏽 I’m so glad that Darius is able to talk openly with his mother ❤
Darius is HILARIOUS. ❤ very necessary video. Loved this from beginning to end. Kudos to you both. 🙏🏾
Not me crying 😢❤ I love you guys❤
Hey Darius. I love that you’re opening up more to us.
Darius is so patient with people, more specifically Blove because if someone was constantly cutting me off while I’m talking, I would not want to talk anymore. 😩
I’m a 27 yr old black gay woman, & I SO appreciate this refreshing, intellectual, open conversation. Wow Darius you are so blessed for the mother you have, and B you are blessed with the son you have raised/the man he naturally is.
This is a beautiful video.
Thank you ❤
Awww, Blove made me cry at the end when she was gushing over her son!!! ❤❤❤
Great conversation & insight. You are such an old soul. I feel your energy & irs amazing ❤ Keep being YOU. Regardless of anything else!
Blove honoring Darius was/is a beautiful thing. Everything she said will forever stick with him for the rest of his life. Your words will forever bring peace to his heart and a smile to his face even when you're no longer here. ❤ These are the moments that truly matter that will live on forever. 🙏🏻
I am 62, and I still tear up because of the way I was treated. It was awful, and so much abuse. The name-calling, calling you in front of crowds and being punched spit, and having to fight for doing nothing but walking to the store. The scars are still with me after all these years.
Such a beautiful relationship you have with your mom, I come here for the convos between ya'll ❤
Love this conversation! Darius has the best personality and talks about topics that others won't 💜
Awww this made me cry! I love that your mom said so many kind things about you. All of it is true! I love you darius ❤ I always wish I would of ran into you in Tucson.
I love you guys i love yalls videos together
being disappointed that your child doesn’t have sex with the opposite gender is so weird to me. like your child could be so much worse, but all they are is gay?!! BFFR. maybe if we stopped worrying about who our children are attracted to and just love the actual person they are, we all would be fine.
yea well there goes the future generation of the family 🤷♂️ and in the bible its wrong, now if u dont agree with the bible then thats on u 🏳️🌈❌
@@10millyon I’m pretty sure judging people is wrong in the Bible too. but y’all like to leave that part out.
@@deniseharris1684 whats worse being gay or telling someone u dont support it and its wrong
The tears when she was pouring into Darius 😭 I loved that!!!
I love the way your mom talks about you ❤
That’s so awesome! I love Darius so much and I want the best for him!
This is such a good conversation. ❤
Hey Darius you are so strong and very gifted people can be cruel it’s not you it’s them stay creative ❤
This conversation was needed 💯‼️
Great job B Love and MOST IMPORTANTLY HE'S AN AMAZING PERSON! I can tell-- spirit and soul :)
I don't judge anyone. I, total, believe the Holy Bible and what it says about men sleeping with men. PERIOTT
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I dont really tune in to darius and blove too often but for some reason but i do like how comfortable they are having this conversation this let people know they can & should have these conversations around the world , this video just goes to show music is life changing thats the beautiful thing about music
I love you being genuine Darius
Loved this video, i smiled the whole time watching ❤️ i love you both! My favorite RUclips family
Wow just wow. This conversation was amazing. The myriad of emotions this conversation evolked. 😍😍😍
Thank Darius so much for all of your thoughts and and experiences of lgbtq community! I was a little depressed today and now I feel so much better! I never miss any of your videos. It’s kinda funny I have a few videos and pictures of my grandkids and didn’t realize you were in the pictures on my TV in the background and didn’t even know till later on looking at the pictures. 🤣🤣🤣. Love all of you so much! Oh by the way my daughter is Trans. I’m proud of her as well and we are very close. I never a knew much about navigating as a black person and being viewed in a “box” in the lgbtq community. Thanks again Darius.
I really enjoyed this. Darius, you are wise beyond your years! You are going to excel in your career! ❤