@@QueenKayKay47 No .. in the 1st case, he even knew she was sleeping around. He was never sure and he was enlisted. Chances that he got served by court are slim. Military mail is the worst. You literally have to expect a month or two for your mail to arrive.
@@QueenKayKay47this is military and 30+ years ago 😳 he was there for a couple of weeks and not supposed to be there for long and you go only when and where you told. Secondly, DNA wasn't easily available back then. 20 years ago DNA testing was blood only, cost roughly $4,000 upfront and took months to get results and everyone had to be together and present at the same location and only available in a few locations nationwide.
Even after finding out he's not the father she's still blaming him. Blame your mother for telling lies. She was in love and tried to trick him thinking he'd marry her.
Tbh her bad actions don’t excuse his bad actions. He could have easily been the father. The fact that he wasn’t doesn’t change the way he ran off or signed her birth certificate so he could get more money. They are both as bad as each other :(
She really was A LIAR. There was no one else we were together the whole time, I couldn't have been with anyone else... Poor daughter but she needs to be mad at her LIAR mother.
I think that the daughter knows her mom and what she is capable of. I am sure she has seen her be dishonest all of her life. The fact that he did not consent but instead confirm her paternity made her believe he was her father. If he had contested it in the beginning she would have had the opportunity to find her biological father. The daughter did not argue how much she looked like him or how she has a lot in common with him. Trust me, as soon as he contested her paternity, the daughter had doubt also. Again…She knows her mom’s capabilities.
If you noticed... She did not even apologize to her daughter. She did not even turn to comfort her until the she realized the man was holding her. I feel so sorry for the daughter because being betrayed by your own mother has to be the worst feeling imaginable.
Ya I agree, but I think about if that was my mom ..I don't believe I would say anything in court either. I'd wait until we left and then let her have it. I look at it like regardless that's my mother and I'm not going to shame her in front of other ppl. That doesn't mean we wouldn't have an issue behind closed doors. I think they really convince themselves after all those years it is the man they say. 35 years of saying he is ur daddy has to start to stick. CRAZY.
Right! All of her anger should have been directed at her mother. It would be one thing if the mom said that they guy was a potential father, but she lied the whole time…right up to the end! She knows she slept with someone else and was only focused on getting that money from the military man. Shame on her!
Had he shown up to court and petitioned them for a dna test it would’ve been put to bed years ago. They both are to blame but he dragged it by running from it.
The young lady doesn't look like the man (Military Guy) He felt bad that he was not the father. the mother is a LIAR! She knew that man wasn't the father. Smh! Poor choices of the parents makes the children suffer and dwell in confusion.
First case: It upsets me so much when the adult children still blame the fathers even after they find out that the men weren't their father. Keep the energy where it belongs. Your mother lied, period. That's who messed up your life, she wasn't honest.
She believed he was the dad, he ran. So they never got that closure. She’s upset with him for staying away & leading her on. The mother most definitely needs to figure out who she was with tho.
It actually is partially his fault. If there is a possibility (time within conception) then that person has a hand in it whether if its theirs or not. If he never slept with her, he wouldn't have had to deal with this.
Yep. If he knew, the mom definitely knew as well. Over the years she convinced herself that he was the father. She wasn´t in love with him like she said.
Well, he failed to show up for the DNA test and he signed an affidavit of paternity. If he sued he´d lose in two minutes. There are cases where fraud is committed and the men get whatever they paid and the woman gets punished with possible jail time.
@jasonito23 also some states see it as a child being taken care of and the false father should be happy with contributing to the raising. In Florida, do not sign a birth certificate without a DNA test because you are still held liable for child support if your name is on the paper, but they are proven to not being yours. The only sure way out is to find the bio father and get them to agree to take over. The state doesn't care about the parents, they care that the child has legal recognized parents and is being taken care of. It happened to my cousin. He got lucky because a medical test proved the false paternity and they were able to find the birth father and have him take over. He dumped his cheating ex and found someone actually faithful.
@@doombrush He lay with her, so he is at least partially at fault. If he had not done that she couldn't claim, he was the father. Too many men are more interested in getting laid than the consequences.
But the mother was like,he was the love of my life ,I wanted to marry him , there was nobody else, he was there a week, really in a week all these feelings were set in stone, and the girl still played that the dad should not have paid child support, that’s what caused her all the problems 😂😂😂 not her mother over romancing the details, and telling lies.
The frustrating thing about this society is that no one held the mother accountable, and she will remain the victim for opening her legs to multiple men and lying to her daughter. Pathetic...
I can't stand it either. These females need to be held accountable and pay back the government. Give them time too. Maybe it'll make them aware that the law isn't for just women.
Reform is needed because it’s out of hand. DNA test needs to be mandatory and man should have the right to sue women for paternity fraud. Especially if they were arrested, wages garnished, and child support. They should be reimbursed and compensated.
I understand their anger. He acknowledged her as daughter and so they thought that he accepted her which wasn't the case. But mom needs to stop having shame in her game
The issue is when the court calls and you don’t answer, you’re admitting to everything. As soon as that child support came in he should have taken the paternity test
Instead of blaming the mom for lying to her all these years, which was the cause of her misplaced anger, she's still blaming the dad for what she thought he should've done from the very start. All she had to do was turn to her mom and say " because you lied to me, you could've saved me all of this heartache from the beginning". Unbelievable!!
The Paternity court judge has the biggest ❤ heart ever. She is so articulate. She knows exactly what to say and when to say it. She is a beautiful Black woman that’s so educated that I wish I could compare myself to. I do work for the District Attorneys Office and have since I was 26 years old. I am now 49. I just want to thank her paving the way for Our community ❤
The judge kills me when she says “I can see it in your eyes” and not to mention she’s ALWAYS telling these men to take care of the baby until you know the truth when the mother is sitting there saying they’ve had multiple partners. And she still doesn’t give the men Credit after they’re found NOT to be the father. She’s said multiple times in this court that they only award a paternity test is when the doubt is reasonable. So why continue to beat up on the man about what he didn’t do after the test determines the child isn’t his?
Wow, it’s great to see people working through their issues and receiving some closure. Even if the truth hurts. There’s always lessons to be learned. I love this judge.
She started out with a big performance of tears and such deep sadness. Then she starts to back pedal, saying that she had no reason to think it was anyone else. She got awfully defensive when pinned down with the direct question, "were there any other men". At this point she's acting like she's lying.
Working on a relationship for the kids will NEVER work because you’re NOT working on a relationship! Sleeping with cousins is unspeakable! Just nasty! Must be the cousin’s daughter
The first case. That mother was ridiculous. At the beginning she said they were together for 1 week!! I week! How could she be “ in love” and think they were creating a life together? I’m shocked the daughter isn’t furious with the Mom not the man.
respectfully i think she just had a 1 night stand and its easier to tell people you had a 'relationship' before getting pregnant instead of saying 'i opened my legs, let a man nut inside me and now im pregnant'
ALL THAT SPICE FOR THE FIRST MAN. SMH 18 YEARS TAKE FROM THIS MANS CHECK AND THE MOMS LOSE WITHOUT CONSEQUENCES. SMH EVERY GLOSSED OVER HER AT THE END. SMH INCREDIBLE
The first case, I knew he wasn’t a father when he walked through the door. She knew she was lying when she said there wasn’t another man. You could tell.
I really do think women who lie to try to get a man to help them should have a felony because it's fraud to sit there and have a man pay child support all those years for a child that's not his. He can't get that back. Smh
When folks want to judge him remember this man was 19 years old at the time! Child Support could care less who the father is as long they get a portion of the support! The system is full of crooks !!
Both me and my husband were 19 when we had our first child if he had any doubt he was smart enough then to take a test before accepting responsibility.
I am glad the first man wasn’t that father that would have made him look like a monster but the mom needs a reality check after so long she still lying to herself
No offense but back in the day, if u told someone u were in the military, no one said that. If u told someone u were in the military, u would say “oh, that’s cool” and that was it. Today, EVERYONE says “thank u for your service”.
1st case: YES!!!🙈🙉🙊 If there was ever a case where I wanted the defendant to win, this was it! I totally agreed with the alleged dad, that she was just efing around to get knocked up by a military man for that child support. She is a disgusting manipulator, who has put her daughter in the middle of 38 years of lies. But now, the truth is out and she's going to have to live with her lies.👍👍👍
First case: I feel bad for some of the mothers like her, because they make a fool of themselves saying it was nobody else and then "You are NOT the father" 🥴
Whoa whoa, even she wasnt his child, he could have given her the chance to know the real Father? Seriously? Girl, Talk to your Mother!!! Ugggg these women
Back then, it cost $$$$ for a DNA test, and being in the service, having child support taken from him, he had zero money for the test. Women lie, too. Don't blame the man all the time. After the test results, apologize to the man if the child isn't his. The judge has to apologize to the man too.
13:51 The daughter instead of being angry with the Man she should looked at her mother and said WHO IS MY FATHER!!!! and how are we going to pay this man back his money!!!!
I’m listening to her and like wait he’s not the one you need to be angry with as he said all along he was not the father. She wanted closure but it’s really not because she now have to get her mother to say who her father could possibly be. It’s sad because for 35 years she thought this man was her father. Praying for the daughter as she search for the truth.
90% of these problems would be solved if ppl kept their pants on and fully vetted the person in a committed relationship. It's better to abstain if you think you can't use protection every time
Even with a committed relationship, you can find out your vetting didn't work. Best to abstain before marriage, although marriage still doesn't solve everything, because you can never know what another human being is capable of 💯
I seen these types over and over around the military. He is right. Alot young military men were being played by girls because they were in the military. There were women sleep with multiple soldiers on bases trying to hook a military man for the money. Oftentimes it was just a once night stand. My brother got caught up in situation like this. It's sad for the daughter. I hope she finds healing and her real father.
I’m the youngest of 5. My parents had a terrible marriage and after 30+ years they finally got divorced. I had wanted it since I was in middle school. It’s so much better having a separate family than a broken family. Kids don’t wanna watch their parents argue all the time and grow up in a toxic hlisehold walking on eggshells. My dad finally got nice when they separated. Some people just shouldn’t be together.
Happy Sunday/Monday to you lady/gentleman & hopefully having a joyful / average day with yourself or your family member/homie or girlfriend or loving , protective and loyal partner. 🌍💚
I swear women are extremely allergic to accountability in the first case the man isn’t your father and yet you still trying to find a way to blame him. For what? He doesn’t owe you any explanation. Ask your mother. She’s the one who put you in that position. Any man out there married or not if you don’t do paternity test you’re a fool
Maybe if men who stop insisting on chasing around hoes and trying to turn them into housewives, this would not be happening, but men love the bad women. You are addicted to that addictive bad girl kitties
I disagree with the judge in the last case. He's not biological or legal father to her daughter. He has no obligation to have anything to do with her. Its his choice and his choice only. They made mistakes but she the one that had a kid with someone else, not him. For the judge to tell that man to b a daddy to a baby that isn't his is just wrong. Let that man make that decision on his own.
Agree. They should be totally honest and allow her bio father the opportunity to be involved. Besides, one is bio dad, and the other is 2nd cousin. Both can be in her life. Win, win.
She represents the best interest of the child. It would be so hurtful if all her 4 siblings had their dad in the picture. Same man she has known to be her dad. Thats why she said that.
@nairobae I don't knock what u said but isn't it any child's best interest to have the same parents. Too many baby daddies and baby mama's out here. I understand circumstances happen but come on. Baby mama's and baby daddies are some of the main reasons y shows like this exist along with Maury.
People who “revenge cheat” need to understand that doing so is tantamount to drinking something poisonous and expecting the OTHER person to die! That behavior is immature and toxic on ALL levels.
Judge made the military father look bad like he was using the child for the meal ticket. In reality, the mother was using him for the meal ticket...his check was being docked. So, I think it was perfectly fine for him to take the dependent money that he had to fork over.
In that first case, the judge should have let that woman have it but she just doesn’t have it in her to do so after these women are caught up in lie after lie🤷🏾♂️
These youngsters jump from bed to bed never thinking on the consequences. It’s very sad the lack of respect towards their bodies and the suffering their kids endure when they’re forced to hear this in their quest to find their father.
The daughters behavior can be excused. She is experiencing cognitive dissonance. When you believe something 100% and there is no other option, but learn new information that proves you wrong…. you can experience cognitive dissonance. Her reality just shattered. How you cope is by trying to rationalize and hold up the illusions you thought were real. You can’t so you look like her frantically trying to hold on to the only thing you know and the lie you lived. Her mom knew about the other guy. She is in denial. She lived this lie so long it became real. She decided to chose her father.
well that last one just blew my mind ! 🤯 "when he does something on me I so something to him " What a great example to your children ! It shocks me that both of them have trouble keeping their underwear on ! 5 children and counting. Some role models thise two are.I feel for the children and that is all.The "parents" deserve one another, the children deserve a whole lot better !
They're both selfish and self-centered cheaters, but the woman gets a special Delusional Award for chasing a man who clearly will never commit to her or anyone else. And he had the nerve to get upset that he got "embarrassed" with the results on television when he embarrassed himself just by opening his mouth.
SMH now this is real a woman will lie and everyone will believe the woman always the father is a bad guy the judge the mom and the whole court room owes him a apology
Men will also lie. I see the woman getting blamed in these episodes far more often than the father. If the potential father shows up at the hospital with a bag of diapers everybody cheers and talk about how wonderful he is. Most men don't contribute hardly anything to taking care of the kids that are theirs.
That 1st case was WILD. I wish judge would not leave us hanging like that. I need closure. I need for mom to be held accountable for LYING. And I need for the search to CONTINUE…. Maybe he never got a paternity test because he wanted to at least provide financial assistance…
People will come on here looking for their fathers and blame everyone and everything...men, cats, dogs, ants, coffee tables but their mothers who kept their legs wide open.
How can u put somebody on child support when they never signed the birth certificate.. and the daughter STILL tried to blame the man after the results.. said nothing to trifling mama.
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WHY DO THEY KEEP SAYING IT LIKE HE JUST UP AND LEFT? HE WAS ONLY THERE FOR A WEEK AND HAD TO GO BACK AND SERVE HIS COUNTRY.
Because he knew that he may have been the father of a child, but he never returned or followed up to check on them!
@@QueenKayKay47 No .. in the 1st case, he even knew she was sleeping around. He was never sure and he was enlisted. Chances that he got served by court are slim. Military mail is the worst. You literally have to expect a month or two for your mail to arrive.
@@ABirdOnTheMoon Why not check on the child when he comes home to visit? Why not a DNA test when he came home?
@@QueenKayKay47that wasn't his home town. He was stationed there and then got moved. That's how military work. You can constantly get orders to move.
@@QueenKayKay47this is military and 30+ years ago 😳 he was there for a couple of weeks and not supposed to be there for long and you go only when and where you told. Secondly, DNA wasn't easily available back then. 20 years ago DNA testing was blood only, cost roughly $4,000 upfront and took months to get results and everyone had to be together and present at the same location and only available in a few locations nationwide.
1st mom telling all those lies and crying! 😂😂😂
She deserves an award for that performance.
Playing Madea next.
The daughter says nothing about her mother lying about not sleeping with another man! 😢
No accountability and she still was trying to lie
@@Jacob5044 Exactly
Her face said it all
Women never hold their mothers or other women accountable.
Exactly. I was looking at this thing like wow no apologies.
Even after finding out he's not the father she's still blaming him. Blame your mother for telling lies. She was in love and tried to trick him thinking he'd marry her.
Facts
Tbh her bad actions don’t excuse his bad actions.
He could have easily been the father.
The fact that he wasn’t doesn’t change the way he ran off or signed her birth certificate so he could get more money.
They are both as bad as each other :(
She's just saying that to make out it was a serious relationship and she's not a 403
@@DipsyMum29 Time to move on. He is not the father. Go find the daddy
@@rickybrown2446 it’s not me lol
Enough internet for you for one day.
I hate that the man still gets blamed even after finding out he wasn't the father after she lied
Omg me too
She really was A LIAR. There was no one else we were together the whole time, I couldn't have been with anyone else... Poor daughter but she needs to be mad at her LIAR mother.
I think that the daughter knows her mom and what she is capable of. I am sure she has seen her be dishonest all of her life. The fact that he did not consent but instead confirm her paternity made her believe he was her father. If he had contested it in the beginning she would have had the opportunity to find her biological father. The daughter did not argue how much she looked like him or how she has a lot in common with him. Trust me, as soon as he contested her paternity, the daughter had doubt also. Again…She knows her mom’s capabilities.
Watch the video again and see how fast the mother starts blinking when she lies. It's a huge tell.
If you noticed... She did not even apologize to her daughter. She did not even turn to comfort her until the she realized the man was holding her. I feel so sorry for the daughter because being betrayed by your own mother has to be the worst feeling imaginable.
Can’t believe the daughter still mad over the results. Said nothing to her mama. Wow
Agree
Ya I agree, but I think about if that was my mom ..I don't believe I would say anything in court either. I'd wait until we left and then let her have it. I look at it like regardless that's my mother and I'm not going to shame her in front of other ppl. That doesn't mean we wouldn't have an issue behind closed doors. I think they really convince themselves after all those years it is the man they say. 35 years of saying he is ur daddy has to start to stick. CRAZY.
Right! All of her anger should have been directed at her mother. It would be one thing if the mom said that they guy was a potential father, but she lied the whole time…right up to the end! She knows she slept with someone else and was only focused on getting that money from the military man. Shame on her!
Had he shown up to court and petitioned them for a dna test it would’ve been put to bed years ago. They both are to blame but he dragged it by running from it.
DNA paternity test wasn't around 35 years ago
That woman did not even apologize to that man. He was owed an apology!!
He never showed up to court to confirm he was not the father.
@@MissyOILээ
He just got lucky because he still easily COULD HAVE been her dad after what he chose to do! Why do we shame women but let men act like this?
Both parents should apologise to the child. They are both to blame.
How you know he didn’t get an apology? Everything isn’t recorded
As harsh as the first man was, I knew he wasn't the father and that he was telling the truth 🤷🏽♀️
She is just evil omg
He’s cold hearted to only sign the acknowledgment papers for extra pay
The young lady doesn't look like the man (Military Guy) He felt bad that he was not the father. the mother is a LIAR! She knew that man wasn't the father. Smh! Poor choices of the parents makes the children suffer and dwell in confusion.
@@saltnpeppanatural1931but if he’s paying for a kid that’s not his, is it really that bad?
Is he gonna get reimbursed for all the cs he paid?
First case: It upsets me so much when the adult children still blame the fathers even after they find out that the men weren't their father. Keep the energy where it belongs. Your mother lied, period. That's who messed up your life, she wasn't honest.
She believed he was the dad, he ran. So they never got that closure. She’s upset with him for staying away & leading her on. The mother most definitely needs to figure out who she was with tho.
So true!
Children yng and old blame the dad because they feel like they should come looking for them no matter. what because the mom is already there
YES her Mother knew she slept with more than just him! Over time she started believing in her own lies
totally agree
Lady, he's NOT your Dad. It's not his fault! You know whose fault it is.
It actually is partially his fault. If there is a possibility (time within conception) then that person has a hand in it whether if its theirs or not. If he never slept with her, he wouldn't have had to deal with this.
to build all that hatred and anger up in your daughter and not confess that there was other possibilities and no apology at the end? wow
13:51 she’s still blaming him even when it’s proven that the mom is the one at fault.
Girl THAT AINT YOUR DADDY!! Stop trying to still blame him and blame your mama, you’re not his like he’s always said!
Yep. If he knew, the mom definitely knew as well. Over the years she convinced herself that he was the father. She wasn´t in love with him like she said.
Exactly, she should have been getting on her mom arse cause she lying her arse off👈
W. 😒 🥲 zz f🥰 @@jasonito23
Facts
@@jasonito23judge cross the line😮 Be man enough, like he was wrong!
Men should be able to sue women for ALL child support given in a situation where the woman lied and the man is not the father.
Well, he failed to show up for the DNA test and he signed an affidavit of paternity. If he sued he´d lose in two minutes. There are cases where fraud is committed and the men get whatever they paid and the woman gets punished with possible jail time.
@jasonito23 also some states see it as a child being taken care of and the false father should be happy with contributing to the raising. In Florida, do not sign a birth certificate without a DNA test because you are still held liable for child support if your name is on the paper, but they are proven to not being yours. The only sure way out is to find the bio father and get them to agree to take over. The state doesn't care about the parents, they care that the child has legal recognized parents and is being taken care of. It happened to my cousin. He got lucky because a medical test proved the false paternity and they were able to find the birth father and have him take over. He dumped his cheating ex and found someone actually faithful.
Paternity laws truly need to change!!
Yep. And she's telling him to raise his cousin's daughter. Those other kids should be tested also.
@@jasonito23😅
The last case: i can't believe people really live their lives this way. Those poor kids....got fools for parents.
second man seemed disappointed and in shock that he was the father of his first son. He was looking for a way out of his marriage.
Definitely.
Absolutely, his face said it all
Great observation 👏🏾. I would have to agree💯
He almost swallowed his adam's apple for real 😂😂 *GULP*
😂
1st case..she has carried all that anger for a man who is NOT her father. Turn around and look at your mother...sad!
The lady in the first case embarrassed her daughter so bad😮
Jerome, you're doing a great job❤
Was Jerome before or after Ron?
My man Jerome! 😀
That first Momma, so dramatic and overdoing it all. These cases, it's always the man's fault, right? You women own up to your wrongdoings!
They never do it's just easier to blame the man.
@@doombrush He lay with her, so he is at least partially at fault. If he had not done that she couldn't claim, he was the father. Too many men are more interested in getting laid than the consequences.
The daughter learned the overdramatic act from her mom.
But the mother was like,he was the love of my life ,I wanted to marry him , there was nobody else, he was there a week, really in a week all these feelings were set in stone, and the girl still played that the dad should not have paid child support, that’s what caused her all the problems 😂😂😂 not her mother over romancing the details, and telling lies.
The frustrating thing about this society is that no one held the mother accountable, and she will remain the victim for opening her legs to multiple men and lying to her daughter. Pathetic...
I can't stand it either. These females need to be held accountable and pay back the government. Give them time too. Maybe it'll make them aware that the law isn't for just women.
@@jacklynferro4336exactly!
THIS COMMENT IS ACCURATE 👍🏼
Reform is needed because it’s out of hand. DNA test needs to be mandatory and man should have the right to sue women for paternity fraud. Especially if they were arrested, wages garnished, and child support. They should be reimbursed and compensated.
I understand their anger. He acknowledged her as daughter and so they thought that he accepted her which wasn't the case. But mom needs to stop having shame in her game
Give that man his
Money back
The issue is when the court calls and you don’t answer, you’re admitting to everything. As soon as that child support came in he should have taken the paternity test
@@Chocolover5652exactly, and then she would have had a chance to find the real dad
That was one expensive lay, hope he learned his lesson to wrap it up !!
He needs to give the money he took from the government back also.
Girl Bye That's Not Yo Pappy So Go Find Him!!! The Audacity 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Monique you made my day!😊
Instead of blaming the mom for lying to her all these years, which was the cause of her misplaced anger, she's still blaming the dad for what she thought he should've done from the very start. All she had to do was turn to her mom and say " because you lied to me, you could've saved me all of this heartache from the beginning". Unbelievable!!
She learned it from her own mother. Like mother like daughter.
It's the judge face for me when she started blaming him after the results🤣🤣
The Paternity court judge has the biggest ❤ heart ever. She is so articulate. She knows exactly what to say and when to say it. She is a beautiful Black woman that’s so educated that I wish I could compare myself to. I do work for the District Attorneys Office and have since I was 26 years old. I am now 49. I just want to thank her paving the way for Our community ❤
Love your comment. You're awesome, too.
@@YACKYSNACKY Thank you that is so sweet 🥲
Amen. ❤
I miss Paternity Court soooooo much until I watch the re-runs, over, and over
💯🤣
me too!
The judge kills me when she says “I can see it in your eyes” and not to mention she’s ALWAYS telling these men to take care of the baby until you know the truth when the mother is sitting there saying they’ve had multiple partners. And she still doesn’t give the men Credit after they’re found NOT to be the father. She’s said multiple times in this court that they only award a paternity test is when the doubt is reasonable. So why continue to beat up on the man about what he didn’t do after the test determines the child isn’t his?
Stop sleeping around with each other's cousins and raise those five children omg
Saying she didn't want to get played... Man check mated her... She NOW has 5 children. Should have stopped at 1
Wow, it’s great to see people working through their issues and receiving some closure. Even if the truth hurts. There’s always lessons to be learned. I love this judge.
Addicted to
Judge Lake on Paternity Court.
It's a constant roller coaster 😢😮😅💔
She started out with a big performance of tears and such deep sadness. Then she starts to back pedal, saying that she had no reason to think it was anyone else. She got awfully defensive when pinned down with the direct question, "were there any other men". At this point she's acting like she's lying.
Working on a relationship for the kids will NEVER work because you’re NOT working on a relationship! Sleeping with cousins is unspeakable! Just nasty! Must be the cousin’s daughter
"Don't you go co-signing because you're next" 😂
1st case: wait, hold on! Did the mom try to get in that hug? Did she? I am speechless 😅
And she whispered something as she hug the daughter back, not sure what she said.
Mom said she still was in love with him...😊
The first case. That mother was ridiculous. At the beginning she said they were together for 1 week!! I week! How could she be “ in love” and think they were creating a life together? I’m shocked the daughter isn’t furious with the Mom not the man.
Sad but she raised her that way
Kids never blame the mother
respectfully i think she just had a 1 night stand and its easier to tell people you had a 'relationship' before getting pregnant instead of saying 'i opened my legs, let a man nut inside me and now im pregnant'
@@shermanscott2818not Antoine Fisher
Daddy issues. She was looking for a family. He was stable & nice.
ALL THAT SPICE FOR THE FIRST MAN. SMH 18 YEARS TAKE FROM THIS MANS CHECK AND THE MOMS LOSE WITHOUT CONSEQUENCES. SMH EVERY GLOSSED OVER HER AT THE END. SMH INCREDIBLE
Society don’t hold women accountable. That’s why they get away With things like this
@@stevelumumbashabazzz5087 and thats also why bad things happen to them. They get confident being trash
@@KOVIDGOON they couldn’t even apologise for dragging his name during all these years. Smh
@@stevelumumbashabazzz5087 that part! And the judge didn't insist on it. Yet she will demand men be step fathers to reward females bad choices.
He got money from the government that he wasn't entitled to. He isn't that innocent either.
The first case, I knew he wasn’t a father when he walked through the door. She knew she was lying when she said there wasn’t another man. You could tell.
I really do think women who lie to try to get a man to help them should have a felony because it's fraud to sit there and have a man pay child support all those years for a child that's not his. He can't get that back. Smh
When folks want to judge him remember this man was 19 years old at the time! Child Support could care less who the father is as long they get a portion of the support! The system is full of crooks !!
Both me and my husband were 19 when we had our first child if he had any doubt he was smart enough then to take a test before accepting responsibility.
Like I tell my son, don't play adult games cuz u gonna win adult prizes. Can't claim to be a child then
These people don't believe in being faithful 😢
Dirty and sad being normalize.
I am glad the first man wasn’t that father that would have made him look like a monster but the mom needs a reality check after so long she still lying to herself
No it wouldnt..He only knew her for one week before he had to go away..Total BS
This man was 18 yrs old had to pay child support this Judge the audience and those 2 women owe him a public apology
Last case that girl was delusional about being a cheater and a mother knows trust me and he needs to get a DNA for the other 4 kids
We know who we’ve slept with but if it’s close then you find out you’re pregnant nah you can’t be certain.😊
@@JackieBrownSBC Like I said a mother knows
"And We Thank You For Your Service"
That is a loaded statement.
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No offense but back in the day, if u told someone u were in the military, no one said that. If u told someone u were in the military, u would say “oh, that’s cool” and that was it. Today, EVERYONE says “thank u for your service”.
1st case: YES!!!🙈🙉🙊
If there was ever a case where I wanted the defendant to win, this was it!
I totally agreed with the alleged dad, that she was just efing around to get knocked up by a military man for that child support.
She is a disgusting manipulator, who has put her daughter in the middle of 38 years of lies. But now, the truth is out and she's going to have to live with her lies.👍👍👍
1st mom is shameful and she willing to lie to the grave yard !!!
First case: I feel bad for some of the mothers like her, because they make a fool of themselves saying it was nobody else and then "You are NOT the father" 🥴
yes so sad I really thought she was telling the truth
@@leslie3566 right! They sound so convincing. As I'm watching, I'm like, "please be right" 😂
I think that she believed that there was no one else that it was someone else.
Don't feel bad for the moms who lie. They knew they slept with someone else.
After the result they are still lying!!
Whoa whoa, even she wasnt his child, he could have given her the chance to know the real Father? Seriously? Girl, Talk to your Mother!!! Ugggg these women
She's saying if he had completed the DNA previously she could have eliminated him and made other moves to find her father.
Back then, it cost $$$$ for a DNA test, and being in the service, having child support taken from him, he had zero money for the test. Women lie, too. Don't blame the man all the time. After the test results, apologize to the man if the child isn't his. The judge has to apologize to the man too.
Case #1…the mom is a trip. She said “really” when judge read the results. She didn’t think she would get caught
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I saw straight through that first woman’s bull INSTANTLY!
YAS GIRL!!!!!!!!
13:51 The daughter instead of being angry with the Man she should looked at her mother and said WHO IS MY FATHER!!!! and how are we going to pay this man back his money!!!!
I’m listening to her and like wait he’s not the one you need to be angry with as he said all along he was not the father. She wanted closure but it’s really not because she now have to get her mother to say who her father could possibly be. It’s sad because for 35 years she thought this man was her father. Praying for the daughter as she search for the truth.
I respect the second girl because at least she was honest about it all! Then he turned out to be the dad ALL ALONG!!!!
I thought the baby looked like him when they showed their baby pictures next to each other I don’t know how they didn’t see it😂
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It's surprising that she didn't blame her mother for lying to her for all of these years!! The mom needs to come clean!’:
The fact that they blaming that man. For the mama being a ho³ is crazy.
90% of these problems would be solved if ppl kept their pants on and fully vetted the person in a committed relationship. It's better to abstain if you think you can't use protection every time
Abstinence before marriage and faithfulness after, is the way.
If human beings always did the right things... we would be robots.
@@kimkemp3876 What a joke! lol
BS! The women must get some integrity and values!
Even with a committed relationship, you can find out your vetting didn't work. Best to abstain before marriage, although marriage still doesn't solve everything, because you can never know what another human being is capable of 💯
I feel so so sad for the child, please god listen to what the judge said, and how much you do love her
I can't get over the fact that the judge can declare the man not to be the father, and the mamas still swear they didn't sleep with anybody else.
First case when the mama go to blinking she lying
My heart hurts for the heartache Melanie feels and then the disillusionment she must feel towards her mother now.
Melanie was trained to hate man by her liar mother
How can she look at her daughter after everything she put her through. She has no shame.
I seen these types over and over around the military. He is right. Alot young military men were being played by girls because they were in the military. There were women sleep with multiple soldiers on bases trying to hook a military man for the money. Oftentimes it was just a once night stand. My brother got caught up in situation like this. It's sad for the daughter. I hope she finds healing and her real father.
Yep!
i spit out coffee all over my laptop when she said "really?' ....imagine forgetting or lying about that for 35 years
In case 3 to be honest their relationship is just simply gonna be Rocky rocky rocky
It's the mamas job to know who the father is
Case 4:
WHAT A MESS.
If a man's cheating don't get even GET out!
WHY ARE PEOPLE SO DISGUSTING? 😢😢😢
I’m the youngest of 5. My parents had a terrible marriage and after 30+ years they finally got divorced. I had wanted it since I was in middle school. It’s so much better having a separate family than a broken family. Kids don’t wanna watch their parents argue all the time and grow up in a toxic hlisehold walking on eggshells. My dad finally got nice when they separated. Some people just shouldn’t be together.
Happy Sunday/Monday to you lady/gentleman & hopefully having a joyful / average day with yourself or your family member/homie or girlfriend or loving , protective and loyal partner. 🌍💚
I swear women are extremely allergic to accountability in the first case the man isn’t your father and yet you still trying to find a way to blame him. For what? He doesn’t owe you any explanation. Ask your mother. She’s the one who put you in that position. Any man out there married or not if you don’t do paternity test you’re a fool
Facts
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While I agree that the mom was wrong, he should've shown up to court and he wouldn't have has any money coming out of his check.
Maybe if men who stop insisting on chasing around hoes and trying to turn them into housewives, this would not be happening, but men love the bad women. You are addicted to that addictive bad girl kitties
There are just as many men allergic to accountability as there are women that are.
The last case. I would get 4 more DNA tests if i were him
In the first case the daughter made at the wrong person the daughter is so angry with the man who is not her father that it pitiful
I disagree with the judge in the last case. He's not biological or legal father to her daughter. He has no obligation to have anything to do with her. Its his choice and his choice only. They made mistakes but she the one that had a kid with someone else, not him. For the judge to tell that man to b a daddy to a baby that isn't his is just wrong. Let that man make that decision on his own.
They expect men to pay for women bad decisions. I will never ever do that
Agree. They should be totally honest and allow her bio father the opportunity to be involved.
Besides, one is bio dad, and the other is 2nd cousin. Both can be in her life. Win, win.
That baby is his 2nd cousin 😢
She represents the best interest of the child. It would be so hurtful if all her 4 siblings had their dad in the picture. Same man she has known to be her dad. Thats why she said that.
@nairobae I don't knock what u said but isn't it any child's best interest to have the same parents. Too many baby daddies and baby mama's out here. I understand circumstances happen but come on. Baby mama's and baby daddies are some of the main reasons y shows like this exist along with Maury.
Second case : Bentleys dad looked shocked at results 😂
More like disappointed
People who “revenge cheat” need to understand that doing so is tantamount to drinking something poisonous and expecting the OTHER person to die!
That behavior is immature and toxic on ALL levels.
That last case was nasty. Sleeping with each other's cousin, smh
Judge made the military father look bad like he was using the child for the meal ticket. In reality, the mother was using him for the meal ticket...his check was being docked. So, I think it was perfectly fine for him to take the dependent money that he had to fork over.
Case 4 is giving me a darn headache 🤕
In that first case, the judge should have let that woman have it but she just doesn’t have it in her to do so after these women are caught up in lie after lie🤷🏾♂️
These youngsters jump from bed to bed never thinking on the consequences. It’s very sad the lack of respect towards their bodies and the suffering their kids endure when they’re forced to hear this in their quest to find their father.
It's the hook up culture in America and Europe nasty
Older people do it to.. You must be new to Paternity Court.
So be man enough to take care of a child that’s not yours? Judge takes it real light on these females
The daughters behavior can be excused. She is experiencing cognitive dissonance. When you believe something 100% and there is no other option, but learn new information that proves you wrong…. you can experience cognitive dissonance. Her reality just shattered. How you cope is by trying to rationalize and hold up the illusions you thought were real. You can’t so you look like her frantically trying to hold on to the only thing you know and the lie you lived. Her mom knew about the other guy. She is in denial. She lived this lie so long it became real. She decided to chose her father.
well that last one just blew my mind ! 🤯 "when he does something on me I so something to him " What a great example to your children ! It shocks me that both of them have trouble keeping their underwear on ! 5 children and counting. Some role models thise two are.I feel for the children and that is all.The "parents" deserve one another, the children deserve a whole lot better !
They're both selfish and self-centered cheaters, but the woman gets a special Delusional Award for chasing a man who clearly will never commit to her or anyone else. And he had the nerve to get upset that he got "embarrassed" with the results on television when he embarrassed himself just by opening his mouth.
SMH now this is real a woman will lie and everyone will believe the woman always the father is a bad guy the judge the mom and the whole court room owes him a apology
Facts!!!
Men will also lie. I see the woman getting blamed in these episodes far more often than the father. If the potential father shows up at the hospital with a bag of diapers everybody cheers and talk about how wonderful he is. Most men don't contribute hardly anything to taking care of the kids that are theirs.
Crocodile tears with the first mom
The last case..they can say it don’t matter and all that right now..but when ish get real & the cameras off….gonna be a hard pill to swallow
Wow the daughter looked like she was literally stabbed in the heart. 💔
That 1st case was WILD. I wish judge would not leave us hanging like that. I need closure. I need for mom to be held accountable for LYING. And I need for the search to CONTINUE….
Maybe he never got a paternity test because he wanted to at least provide financial assistance…
The judge tends to always blame the man.
i just know she had her hair done just for this
I love paternity court
I don't cheat either baby! But i might cheat back 😂😂 leave me be
How would date of conception be first week of June if the baby came in April. That baby was made in July. I have a 4/20 baby 😭😂
How on earth do these women have the time, working, 5 kids & sleeping with 2 men
Did any mention working?? I missed that part
@@sandrasharp2934 Yeah the one with 5 kids
"Look at me, you can't blame them." 😆 I've noticed a lot of the guys on this show seem to feel this way
The first case, he paid 18 years of child support and she won't have to pay that back
When the court calls you answer 18 years at least to take a paternity
Flat out irresponsible on his part. And to claim dependent pay instead of fighting the child support order.
“Don’t you go co-signing… Don’t you go co-signing because you are next! “😂❤
People will come on here looking for their fathers and blame everyone and everything...men, cats, dogs, ants, coffee tables but their mothers who kept their legs wide open.
She needs to apologize to not only him but she personally should be honest with her daughter
How can u put somebody on child support when they never signed the birth certificate.. and the daughter STILL tried to blame the man after the results.. said nothing to trifling mama.