Ladies, I'm 55 years old. Let me tell you, most of what people say and do is a reflection of them and has nothing to do with you. Just love yourselves really hard because honestly, no one should ever love us more than we love ourselves.
If a man ghost me or fall back I Dont take it personal, it has nothing to do with me or my worth, it has everything to do with them! And they are showing me who they are
Perfect timing I was in relationship for 12 years December he ghosted me then 3 weeks ago he messaged me begging me to take him back no way man's rejection is God protection I strongly believe this Thank you God
Stay strong. Whatever choice you make as yours to make. I'm a year out of a 10 year long relationship with a very selfish person. It takes a while to heal. I'm not there yet. You are probably worth more than any kind of negative way that you have felt. Right? That's what I tell myself. I say it that way so I can laugh when I say it.
Excellent topic. Narcissistic mothers groom their daughters for narcissistic lovers. If you don’t catch it, you end up in the hands an abuser. Thank God for rejection which later saved my life. 😮
Narcissistic father's also groom their daughters for narcissistic partners. You think this is how men are. You think this is how love looks because it's modeled that way to you. I'm living proof. I thought this was normal until I was forty, and I got into theraphy because I had been cheated on by yet another guy in a particularily cruel way. Guess what, I was choosing narcs. Healthy men were seen as "boring." Being actually loved was so foreign it freaked me out and I couldn't accept that love.
I have never heard anyone speak publicly or candidly about their toxic upbringing with their mothers sharing their story not to spite their mom but because it’s what happened to them. I really appreciate you for voicing this!
Heavenly Father guide me as a single mother. Both of my sons have special needs. I pray that you bless me with your love, grace, and strength, as I tirelessly care for my sons. I ask that You provide for my every need and sustain me in my daily struggles. Because Lord I’m overwhelmed struggling to pay rent each and every month struggling to buy groceries. Lord hear my prayers.
Sending you my love & prayers momma I can relate. I have one child with special needs and 3 other babes. Working tirelessly spoke to me. You will be compensated by the Lord I truly believe that 🙏
This resonates with me so much. I met my partner almost a year ago but before we met I had started therapy. If he wasn’t on his own journey we wouldn’t be together.
I can’t stop crying. This episode is so powerful. I went through years of trauma, abuse and rejection. I was filled with anger, depression, anxiety and deep sadness. It took years of therapy and I was looking for apology for my pain which never came . But I finally had to forgive myself and learn how to love myself to experience true healing. Very grateful that God continue to work on my heart. Rejection hurts but it made me into a stronger person. ❤
This is healing so many versions of me. The younger me, the NOW older me, me in relationships, romantic, WITH MY MOTHER, with my KIDS, and to the world out there..... This is so awakening
Lisa Bilyeu… I cannot thank you enough for having Nona Jones on your program. I literally poured myself a cup of coffee grabbed my notebook and started taking notes. This has helped me more than the counseling or life coach sessions that I have been investing in. No disrespect to my life coach and counselor as they are fantastic but this truly spoke directly to my issue. Thank you so so much. As this will now be life-changing for me.
Jesus!! 😭😭She said a mouth full when she said,the people that say no.. they are not the one . I love people and with a pure heart..Lord . This lady has Blessed my soul.🙌🙌🙌
One of the best interviews I've even watched!!! Thank you soooo much! I heard so many horrible words about myself from my caregivers, teachers and ex boyfriend, that..... yeah... it all works exactly as the lady described. I believed I should take whatever crumbs were available from people, because I believed it was the best I could hope for. :-( Never again!
This really helped me, because I was just praying and crying to God about the "church hurt" I experience. Now I'm listening and crying watching this.. I'm healing and Trusting God. Bless you 🙏🥰
I had a Narcissistic mother, who abused my dad and us three daughters… I ended up marrying a Narcissist and my second husband was a Sociopath, so my doctor told me… Then I keep a eye on my mother plus help her with shopping, until I had to put her in a nursing home at the age of 98 years old, that was a great relief to me thankfully.. My mother did died last November 2023 after three years in the nursing home.. She was 101 years old… Narcissist are very hard to get on with, so much drama…😢
What I have come to realize and tell myself about men, or relationships in general, is there are literally millions of "them's". Their individual ego tells them they are better than they are. Don't let anyone convince you that they are special enough to treat you badly.
I work hard, I am nice looking. I take care of myself, I walk and work out. I have a good sense of humour, I am an IFNP, highly intuitive. I am sole caretaker of my mother who has Alzheimers. I run the house, the finances, alone. I did some major work on the garden (man’s work, really). This summer I had the house painted, had sprinklers fixed and I took my 89 year old Mother home to Sweden for vacation to visit family. (That included a short haul flight, a long haul flight followed bu a four hour train ride. I carried all the baggage and helped my Mother through the travel process. Now we are moving abroad. Selling the house. My first experience with this. I will make it happen. I always “try” new things and when I do, I usually succeed. So here we go! He can’t handle the goodness I possess. He has to push me away. That’s not on me. That’s on him. I have to go. God bless all here. Thanks Lisa.🌸
I just have to add, when a child is rejected by the mother that birthed them, that level of rejection is diabolical. You can try and try and give explanations that are psychological, emotional, and logical, etc etc.. but you will always have pain in your heart.
Thank you for this podcast. I also share the same sentiments with your guest. I have experienced rejection, silent treatment and ghosting. And I realised that God has been protecting me from the unknown. And the way I managed to overcome pain was through acceptance and surrendering all to God.
Wow her life mirrors mine in so many ways. Listening to her is healing for me. She shows me I’m on the right track and that I will fully heal and what that looks like when I eventually arrive there. Thank you for sharing your life Nona and thank you for providing the space Lisa ❤
This episode really helped me shift some mum shame. When my abusive relationship broke down, we left with no belongings and thankfully rehoused in a refuge. We had little money and spent most our days outdoors to fill our time whilst other children were buying things, going to dance schools etc. I’ve felt so guilty for not having the money to buy things for them even now when they are adults. I thought it would give them a scarcity mindset. My daughter said they were amazing times😅.. I now see this as a gift. They understand different classes without judgement.. we fed the homeless even when we didn’t have the most money at weekend… they had outdoors where other kids had mobiles and computers.. it wasn’t perfect, I wasn’t always emotionally available because I was healing. But this episode helped me unwrap the gifts, and see what we did have 🎁 I really needed this. Thank you 🙏
Interesting. I have been rejected by past husbands, a religion, family, bosses and coworkers. I could be overly sensitive BUT actions speak louder than words. I finally learn to stay away from these toxic people, this is the best method to survive for me. I am empathy type and too nice but STRONG to survive
Ladies!!! Upgrade and if you think you’re at the top and he stops treating you bad dump and date again! !! Too many really good ones to play with these men!
This, without a doubt has been the most dynamic interview that I have ever seen on this show. I have ordered preordered her book. Her traumatizing openly spoken of life experiences has made me be bold enough to speak of my own now. The demonic spirit of silence in so many people’s lives HAS to end! Thank You for this. Thank God! I am forever Covered By God.
I was with a woman I suffered the same pain that you had suffered. She was a serial cheated like you said I was looking for intention from her, but she wasn’t ever there for me. It’s all about her immediate me degrading me put me down in front of everybodyput me down any chance that she’s got I finally broken free from her because she wasn’t the person that God had given to me. I went and looked for her, but now I am feeling good. I’m rebuilding myself not to suffer under any woman like that again.
I also understand where she’s coming from my mom alway talked about how smart my sister and brother were and she never said I wasn’t but I filled in the lines for her . Today I’m the only one out of us 3 with a degree and it made me feel so good when my dad said “I knew u could do it because your mom always bragged on your siblings and not u and the underdog always finish “ and being an over achiever to feel loved and accepted from my family I over success and in here to tell u it doesn’t nothing of your doing it for the wrong reasons and I had never had a one night stand and when I did I HAD MY FIRST AND ONLY KID !! So I felt after the walk of shame from always being held to an higher Standard . I disappointed my family , and myself I was so depressed and disgusted with myself and fast forward God condemn the ones he’s love early and I thank him for it ❤
So true Nona!! After 21 years married to a narcissist I had to be the one to say, we are not getting along in anyway shape or form. Of course he didn’t take it well. What I found out was that he had 10 bank accounts?! Got kicked out with my son of the house, my belongings were put into a truck and no food… Put God my church help us out!!
I needed this so much i had a similar experience where my mother said she wanted a different daughter as a child and my father abandoning me i just now realized at 31 years old how much i internalized that and how ive settled for less with the hidden limiting belief that im not enough
I went through the exact same thing with my mother. She told me she wished she had never adopted me and constantly put me down....and it affected my life much in the same way....hugs
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
❤ WOW, YOU'RE STORY IS AMAZING, I STARTED CRYING, I FELT YOUR PAIN......... YOUR PAIN IS MY PAIN. THANK YOU FOR SHARING, YOUR STORY IS SOOOOOOOOOOO HEALING!!!!!!❤
Man..........I genuinely love this woman @NonaJones. Her authenticity and transparency exudes out of her. I cried and smiled throughout this interview. So many powerful gifts of wisdom, I have to go back and re-listen to absorb it all. Thanks @LisaBilyeu for introducing me to this wise and Godly woman.
i can relate, stepfather abused us, found out and all moved from md to florida. He got caught doing it to another girl and went to prison and mother planned to get back with him b/c poor him b/c he only did it b/c he was abused as a child. it was b/c of the way we dressed as 12 and 13 year olds in the early 80s when went to bed with layers of pajamas on. The fear of knowing your mother is going back to him, obviously even the police is ok with what he is doing....he might even kill me now. I know the fear.
So powerful!! Nona I could talk with you more about "mom". Such a difficult place but I have forgiven my mom too, because I could no longer stay in that mind space.. Freedom feels good..loving myself is my strength and being positive no matter what negative crosses my path is my must mindset
And l love it❤❤❤ For me,it's women like her that l appreciate and aspire to be like because of the level of self-awareness! You can't be where you are not treasured or valued! Self-worth...self-esteem!
18 years and two kids. I was committed. I didn't do drugs or drink. He had it so easy, to stay home and be a father. I worked because he did not want to. Little did I know he was doing drugs and cheating. Now I’m a single mom and working on my self. He and his new gf are homeless and addicts.
You have endured so much! We have a Great Father who loves us more than we love ourselves. Regarding men, there is nothing else that is said to be worse than an unbeliever. 2 Corinthians 6:14 “Do not be yoked with those who are different, with unbelievers.”. And it was written. “whoever does not provide for relatives and especially family members has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” -1 Tim. 5:8
Same story here. Married 12 years to a covert narc. He refused to work, so he became a “stay at home Dad”, while I supported the family. Discovered his double life, affairs, drugs, gambling, escorts, etc. The best revenge is letting the other woman keep him. So grateful to be at peace as a single mom. Wishing you the best.
Thank you Lisa Your work is so helpful What a beautiful purpose, of helping us grow and heal as women Many women struggle with unworthiness and it is truly a major shift to start going back to the true cause of our suffering. Rejection is indeed a gift . It can be a beautiful call to awaken from the trance. Very painful . I wish anyone feeling this kind of pain healing. I am feeling it right now and I send loving compassion to anyone dealing with it .
This entire video was wonderful. The first 30 minutes included so many nuggets that resonate with my personal journey and past relationships. It's great to know that I'm not the only one who has been through similar things. Life goes on and I am in control of my life.
I wasn't going to watch this. It just started playing after another video ended. I'm glad it did. It helped me work through some things that I've been struggling with for months. Truly eye opening and healing. Thank you Lisa for your dedication to helping women. And thank you to this gorgeous lady pastor.
This was so empowering. What an incredible woman, so much respect for her❤ so proud of this woman's resilience & self love. Amazing host & conversation too👏 thank you Lisa 🫶
Omg! I love her. I'm so happy I clicked on this video, because it was just what I needed to hear. I definitely have to get her book, it sounds like there are some serious gems in there.❤
I definitely learned from this last breakup. I still love him but I’m healing and learning myself all over again. I thank him for showing me a flaw that I am now working on💯
This makes so many people uncomfortable the reality that not all mothers love their children. We can accept that not all fathers love their child or even their wife and family because of narcissistic personality but we can’t believe mothers put men first.
Rejection is not a gift and we have to stop saying that. Rejection is what it is, rejection and we need to stop the toxic positivity. How many people out here are being "accepted" into horrible relationships with a narcissist? There is no correlation between rejection with projection and acceptance with positivity. Autonomy and thinking for one's self is key. Do not accept someone just because the accept you. The two of you need to be good for each other.
This is exactly what I needed today. Just been through 6 months of a discard with a narcissistic man, and final discard. After years of me trying to make it work and begging to be heard and understood when I was hurt (when he would disappea on benders) or he would silent treat me or be cold or say nasty things… and it was all for nothing and finally ended. But I guess I should be happy
Thank you for reframing the perspective of rejection. I needed the practical explanation and examples to help me clarify what I have been experiencing. My perspective was truly warped. This is interview is phenomenal and freeing. Go get the book. Thank for sharing Mrs. Nona.
Wowwwwwww!!! This was super amazing and heartfelt. Thank God for both of u ladies. Thank u soooooooo much, Nona, for sharing ur story and for sharing healthy ways to include God in recognizing that traumatic events do not define us, but instead cause us to identify our beauty and grab ahold of our insurmountable future that God has planned for us. 💛💛💛
I feel the same way about my mom I run and I run after her and I just don’t understand and when it comes to dating everyone has their mom and mine is so weird and I just get lost in it some much and this year I made up my mind and I said I’ll love from a distance and I’m so hurt about it . She hurts me so much and I’m sooooooooooooooooooooo good to her especially out of my siblings 😢
@@cliffthecoolcat Well, if you base your self-worth on those things, you only attract people who value you for those things. Like I said that mindset is warped.
Thank you so much for this video, such an enlightenment , learning to accept not having my mother in my life and heal from that, after struggling with that most part of my life
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This lady has it sooo right!!!❤
Ladies, I'm 55 years old. Let me tell you, most of what people say and do is a reflection of them and has nothing to do with you. Just love yourselves really hard because honestly, no one should ever love us more than we love ourselves.
100%
Amen 💝🙏🏽
Right. Try not to take it personally.
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❤@@calibermotivation
If a man ghost me or fall back I Dont take it personal, it has nothing to do with me or my worth, it has everything to do with them! And they are showing me who they are
Love this super healthy attitude 🙌💪
Period
Truths
I need to have this type of attitude
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Perfect timing I was in relationship for 12 years December he ghosted me then 3 weeks ago he messaged me begging me to take him back no way man's rejection is God protection I strongly believe this Thank you God
Man’s rejection is God’s protection. Well said 🔥
Stay strong. Whatever choice you make as yours to make. I'm a year out of a 10 year long relationship with a very selfish person. It takes a while to heal. I'm not there yet. You are probably worth more than any kind of negative way that you have felt. Right? That's what I tell myself. I say it that way so I can laugh when I say it.
Truths!! Smart!!❤😂. Live it!! You will level up!
You maybe saving your Health too!
So right! Amen ❤
The scapegoat of the family ends up being the GOAT!🐐
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❤🙏🙏🙏❤ working on it!
Hard truth
Period
Period
"If a person will take your offenders side without even asking about your experience, they don't love you anyways".. WOW! ❤
Excellent topic. Narcissistic mothers groom their daughters for narcissistic lovers. If you don’t catch it, you end up in the hands an abuser. Thank God for rejection which later saved my life. 😮
Ouuuuu this is TRUTH 😢
Absolutely. Totally been my experience
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Narcissistic father's also groom their daughters for narcissistic partners. You think this is how men are. You think this is how love looks because it's modeled that way to you. I'm living proof. I thought this was normal until I was forty, and I got into theraphy because I had been cheated on by yet another guy in a particularily cruel way. Guess what, I was choosing narcs. Healthy men were seen as "boring." Being actually loved was so foreign it freaked me out and I couldn't accept that love.
@@LaPinturaBellaso true. Parents really can set their children up for devastation and it’s tragic.
I have never heard anyone speak publicly or candidly about their toxic upbringing with their mothers sharing their story not to spite their mom but because it’s what happened to them. I really appreciate you for voicing this!
"Forgiveness releases our future from the pain of our past" - Nona Jones
There's so much power in forgiveness.
Heavenly Father guide me as a single mother. Both of my sons have special needs. I pray that you bless me with your love, grace, and strength, as I tirelessly care for my sons. I ask that You provide for my every need and sustain me in my daily struggles. Because Lord I’m overwhelmed struggling to pay rent each and every month struggling to buy groceries. Lord hear my prayers.
I know God will give you absolute abundance ❤❤❤❤❤
Sending you love xxx
I know God will give you the strength.
Sending you my love & prayers momma I can relate. I have one child with special needs and 3 other babes. Working tirelessly spoke to me. You will be compensated by the Lord I truly believe that 🙏
This resonates with me so much. I met my partner almost a year ago but before we met I had started therapy. If he wasn’t on his own journey we wouldn’t be together.
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I can’t stop crying. This episode is so powerful. I went through years of trauma, abuse and rejection. I was filled with anger, depression, anxiety and deep sadness. It took years of therapy and I was looking for apology for my pain which never came . But I finally had to forgive myself and learn how to love myself to experience true healing.
Very grateful that God continue to work on my heart. Rejection hurts but it made me into a stronger person. ❤
Rejection was the fuel that got to where I am now.
Rejection is God’s protection✨
This is healing so many versions of me. The younger me, the NOW older me, me in relationships, romantic, WITH MY MOTHER, with my KIDS, and to the world out there..... This is so awakening
Lisa Bilyeu… I cannot thank you enough for having Nona Jones on your program. I literally poured myself a cup of coffee grabbed my notebook and started taking notes. This has helped me more than the counseling or life coach sessions that I have been investing in. No disrespect to my life coach and counselor as they are fantastic but this truly spoke directly to my issue. Thank you so so much. As this will now be life-changing for me.
Rejection is protection and redirection wow so powerful !
The day you find courage to stand up to your abusers no matter if they are family members or parents, your true journey to freedom begins
Absolutely! 💯
"Your love is never contingent on the support of people who abandon you" hit home so hard.
This is so beautiful. Sisterhood, honesty, transparency, power... makes me feel so proud of being a woman.
This makes me cry because it is me and so many women feel this way. Thank you for bringing this to light ❤
God will teach you self love.
I was led to watch this. Thank you, Holy Spirit. This was powerful.
Jesus!! 😭😭She said a mouth full when she said,the people that say no.. they are not the one . I love people and with a pure heart..Lord . This lady has Blessed my soul.🙌🙌🙌
One of the best interviews I've even watched!!! Thank you soooo much! I heard so many horrible words about myself from my caregivers, teachers and ex boyfriend, that..... yeah... it all works exactly as the lady described. I believed I should take whatever crumbs were available from people, because I believed it was the best I could hope for. :-( Never again!
This really helped me, because I was just praying and crying to God about the "church hurt" I experience. Now I'm listening and crying watching this.. I'm healing and Trusting God. Bless you 🙏🥰
I had a Narcissistic mother, who abused my dad and us three daughters… I ended up marrying a Narcissist and my second husband was a Sociopath, so my doctor told me… Then I keep a eye on my mother plus help her with shopping, until I had to put her in a nursing home at the age of 98 years old, that was a great relief to me thankfully.. My mother did died last November 2023 after three years in the nursing home.. She was 101 years old… Narcissist are very hard to get on with, so much drama…😢
What I have come to realize and tell myself about men, or relationships in general, is there are literally millions of "them's". Their individual ego tells them they are better than they are. Don't let anyone convince you that they are special enough to treat you badly.
Awesome sorry❤
I had no idea how hard this would rock me!!! This is my story and I’m so grateful she was bold enough to share hers. May we all heal.
This woman. Couldn't stop listening to her story. What an incredible strong and beautiful soul. In awe.
Nona is a beacon of light, as you say Lisa. Thank you so much for this interview. I feel deeply her love, wisdom, sincerity, and courage! 💕
I work hard, I am nice looking. I take care of myself, I walk and work out. I have a good sense of humour, I am an IFNP, highly intuitive. I am sole caretaker of my mother who has Alzheimers.
I run the house, the finances, alone. I did some major work on the garden (man’s work, really). This summer I had the house painted, had sprinklers fixed and I took my 89 year old Mother home to Sweden for vacation to visit family. (That included a short haul flight, a long haul flight followed bu a four hour train ride. I carried all the baggage and helped my Mother through the travel process. Now we are moving abroad. Selling the house. My first experience with this. I will make it happen. I always “try” new things and when I do, I usually succeed. So here we go!
He can’t handle the goodness I possess. He has to push me away. That’s not on me. That’s on him. I have to go. God bless all here. Thanks Lisa.🌸
High five.....you are awesome!!!
Yes sis
I am Worthy. I KNOW Who I am. I Deserve better. -Nona Jones
This made me cry because it was so real and heartfelt, thank you both for sharing and doing this work.
Your purpose will happen whether they like it or not !!! I just love that ! Seed and harvest never cease! God bless this women ❤
I just have to add, when a child is rejected by the mother that birthed them, that level of rejection is diabolical. You can try and try and give explanations that are psychological, emotional, and logical, etc etc.. but you will always have pain in your heart.
Jesus us the healer...
"Rejection is a gift "!I take this with me happy to be here❤❤❤❤ watching you from Dubai
Wr are grateful to God for using incredible women like you. You don't know how much you help so many of us out here . Bless you
Thank you for this podcast. I also share the same sentiments with your guest. I have experienced rejection, silent treatment and ghosting. And I realised that God has been protecting me from the unknown. And the way I managed to overcome pain was through acceptance and surrendering all to God.
I agree with Lisa we do not talk enough about narcissistic parents and we need to
Wow her life mirrors mine in so many ways. Listening to her is healing for me. She shows me I’m on the right track and that I will fully heal and what that looks like when I eventually arrive there. Thank you for sharing your life Nona and thank you for providing the space Lisa ❤
This episode really helped me shift some mum shame. When my abusive relationship broke down, we left with no belongings and thankfully rehoused in a refuge. We had little money and spent most our days outdoors to fill our time whilst other children were buying things, going to dance schools etc. I’ve felt so guilty for not having the money to buy things for them even now when they are adults. I thought it would give them a scarcity mindset. My daughter said they were amazing times😅.. I now see this as a gift. They understand different classes without judgement.. we fed the homeless even when we didn’t have the most money at weekend… they had outdoors where other kids had mobiles and computers.. it wasn’t perfect, I wasn’t always emotionally available because I was healing. But this episode helped me unwrap the gifts, and see what we did have 🎁 I really needed this. Thank you 🙏
My sister Nona I’m so glad that you’re alive today!!! Thank you for sharing 😢
Interesting. I have been rejected by past husbands, a religion, family, bosses and coworkers. I could be overly sensitive BUT actions speak louder than words. I finally learn to stay away from these toxic people, this is the best method to survive for me. I am empathy type and too nice but STRONG to survive
5 mins in and I'm already in and I know she's talking DIRECTLY to me. You all are listening to her talk to me 😮
Im sooo amazed that she speaks to smoothly about her life
Ladies!!! Upgrade and if you think you’re at the top and he stops treating you bad dump and date again! !! Too many really good ones to play with these men!
This, without a doubt has been the most dynamic interview that I have ever seen on this show. I have ordered preordered her book. Her traumatizing openly spoken of life experiences has made me be bold enough to speak of my own now. The demonic spirit of silence in so many people’s lives HAS to end! Thank You for this. Thank God! I am forever Covered By God.
This interview was a godsend. So much of what you said heavily resonated with me. Thank you for sharing! 😊
I was with a woman I suffered the same pain that you had suffered. She was a serial cheated like you said I was looking for intention from her, but she wasn’t ever there for me. It’s all about her immediate me degrading me put me down in front of everybodyput me down any chance that she’s got I finally broken free from her because she wasn’t the person that God had given to me. I went and looked for her, but now I am feeling good. I’m rebuilding myself not to suffer under any woman like that again.
Good for you ❤❤❤
I also understand where she’s coming from my mom alway talked about how smart my sister and brother were and she never said I wasn’t but I filled in the lines for her . Today I’m the only one out of us 3 with a degree and it made me feel so good when my dad said “I knew u could do it because your mom always bragged on your siblings and not u and the underdog always finish “ and being an over achiever to feel loved and accepted from my family I over success and in here to tell u it doesn’t nothing of your doing it for the wrong reasons and I had never had a one night stand and when I did I HAD MY FIRST AND ONLY KID !! So I felt after the walk of shame from always being held to an higher Standard . I disappointed my family , and myself I was so depressed and disgusted with myself and fast forward God condemn the ones he’s love early and I thank him for it ❤
This woman is on the mark!!! Well done and thank you!
This was an amazing podcast, thank you Nona for sharing your story.
So true Nona!! After 21 years married to a narcissist I had to be the one to say, we are not getting along in anyway shape or form. Of course he didn’t take it well. What I found out was that he had 10 bank accounts?! Got kicked out with my son of the house, my belongings were put into a truck and no food… Put God my church help us out!!
I needed this so much i had a similar experience where my mother said she wanted a different daughter as a child and my father abandoning me i just now realized at 31 years old how much i internalized that and how ive settled for less with the hidden limiting belief that im not enough
I went through the exact same thing with my mother. She told me she wished she had never adopted me and constantly put me down....and it affected my life much in the same way....hugs
Oh wow, what cruel words 2 say to any 1. Aw😢 .
God Loves us, always wants us and never rejects us , leave or forsake us
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Really enjoyed this guest .. so much insight … let’s break the generational trauma , it’s not fair to our children …❤
❤ WOW, YOU'RE STORY IS AMAZING, I STARTED CRYING, I FELT YOUR PAIN......... YOUR PAIN IS MY PAIN. THANK YOU FOR SHARING, YOUR STORY IS SOOOOOOOOOOO HEALING!!!!!!❤
Man..........I genuinely love this woman @NonaJones. Her authenticity and transparency exudes out of her. I cried and smiled throughout this interview. So many powerful gifts of wisdom, I have to go back and re-listen to absorb it all. Thanks @LisaBilyeu for introducing me to this wise and Godly woman.
i can relate, stepfather abused us, found out and all moved from md to florida. He got caught doing it to another girl and went to prison and mother planned to get back with him b/c poor him b/c he only did it b/c he was abused as a child. it was b/c of the way we dressed as 12 and 13 year olds in the early 80s when went to bed with layers of pajamas on. The fear of knowing your mother is going back to him, obviously even the police is ok with what he is doing....he might even kill me now. I know the fear.
One of the BEST interviews ever, hands down. She shared so much wisdom, thank you Lisa for finding these women with stories so close to our own ❤
That's good, people don't do what they do because of you they do what they do because of them.
Congratulations for healing you are a beautiful survivor. Thank you for sharing overcoming triblations
So powerful!! Nona I could talk with you more about "mom". Such a difficult place but I have forgiven my mom too, because I could no longer stay in that mind space..
Freedom feels good..loving myself is my strength and being positive no matter what negative crosses my path is my must mindset
And l love it❤❤❤
For me,it's women like her that l appreciate and aspire to be like because of the level of self-awareness!
You can't be where you are not treasured or valued!
Self-worth...self-esteem!
This is such a wonderful interview! So many words of wisdom shared. Replacing “wish” with “will”, wow doing this from now on.
Thank You Both!!
My understanding of Religion has changed a lot. No Hate. Believe in whatever you need to, to get you through your day.☮️💟
49:00 SO sad....I am so sorry your Mom treated you that way.💔
52:27 The sigh Lisa let out, was exactly what I did. We HAVE TO REMEMBER....EVERYONE DOES NOT have a good mother (or father).
Wow I hate that your mom was so horrible to you, IM SO SORRY!!!
18 years and two kids. I was committed. I didn't do drugs or drink. He had it so easy, to stay home and be a father. I worked because he did not want to. Little did I know he was doing drugs and cheating. Now I’m a single mom and working on my self. He and his new gf are homeless and addicts.
Karma is real.
You have endured so much! We have a Great Father who loves us more than we love ourselves. Regarding men, there is nothing else that is said to be worse than an unbeliever.
2 Corinthians 6:14 “Do not be yoked with those who are different, with unbelievers.”. And it was written. “whoever does not provide for relatives and especially family members has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” -1 Tim. 5:8
Same story here. Married 12 years to a covert narc. He refused to work, so he became a “stay at home Dad”, while I supported the family. Discovered his double life, affairs, drugs, gambling, escorts, etc. The best revenge is letting the other woman keep him. So grateful to be at peace as a single mom. Wishing you the best.
Ladies, a man who refuses to work is not a man, he's a walking red flag, but now you know.
I totally agree, that YOU ARE A BEACON OF LIGHT!!!
Absolutely. Rejection is a blessing! The garbage took itself out.
Thank you Lisa
Your work is so helpful
What a beautiful purpose, of helping us grow and heal as women
Many women struggle with unworthiness and it is truly a major shift to start going back to the true cause of our suffering.
Rejection is indeed a gift . It can be a beautiful call to awaken from the trance. Very painful . I wish anyone feeling this kind of pain healing. I am feeling it right now and I send loving compassion to anyone dealing with it .
This entire video was wonderful. The first 30 minutes included so many nuggets that resonate with my personal journey and past relationships. It's great to know that I'm not the only one who has been through similar things. Life goes on and I am in control of my life.
So many jams in this inspiring conversation. Thank you Nona and Lisa for sharing your insightful thoughts with us 🙏🏻🥰
I wasn't going to watch this. It just started playing after another video ended. I'm glad it did. It helped me work through some things that I've been struggling with for months. Truly eye opening and healing. Thank you Lisa for your dedication to helping women. And thank you to this gorgeous lady pastor.
This was so empowering. What an incredible woman, so much respect for her❤ so proud of this woman's resilience & self love. Amazing host & conversation too👏 thank you Lisa 🫶
Ahhhh thanks homie! So so glad you liked it! ❤️
@@LisaBilyeu omg so cool that you responded! I appreciate you 🫶🫶🫶
Omg! I love her. I'm so happy I clicked on this video, because it was just what I needed to hear. I definitely have to get her book, it sounds like there are some serious gems in there.❤
Lord bless this woamshe is true testimony of God's good and gracious work. Amen
This is one of the best ladies you have had on the show!!!!! ❤❤❤
I LOVE seeing you two together. Two powerhouse women. 🔥💕🙌
I definitely learned from this last breakup. I still love him but I’m healing and learning myself all over again. I thank him for showing me a flaw that I am now working on💯
What a powerful testimony!! Thank you so much for your transparency! I believe God will continue do amazing work in you!!❤❤
This makes so many people uncomfortable the reality that not all mothers love their children. We can accept that not all fathers love their child or even their wife and family because of narcissistic personality but we can’t believe mothers put men first.
Absolutely loved this interview! There's this great synergy between Lisa and Nona...you can see the Lisa did her research.
Rejection is not a gift and we have to stop saying that. Rejection is what it is, rejection and we need to stop the toxic positivity. How many people out here are being "accepted" into horrible relationships with a narcissist? There is no correlation between rejection with projection and acceptance with positivity. Autonomy and thinking for one's self is key. Do not accept someone just because the accept you. The two of you need to be good for each other.
This is exactly what I needed today. Just been through 6 months of a discard with a narcissistic man, and final discard. After years of me trying to make it work and begging to be heard and understood when I was hurt (when he would disappea on benders) or he would silent treat me or be cold or say nasty things… and it was all for nothing and finally ended. But I guess I should be happy
Thank you for reframing the perspective of rejection. I needed the practical explanation and examples to help me clarify what I have been experiencing. My perspective was truly warped. This is interview is phenomenal and freeing. Go get the book. Thank for sharing Mrs. Nona.
This was an on time message of motivation encouragement and confirmation 🙌🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
Thank you so much for sharing yourself Nona, this is life changing.
The quote
I wanted so badly to be wanted
Very close to home
Wowwwwwww!!! This was super amazing and heartfelt. Thank God for both of u ladies. Thank u soooooooo much, Nona, for sharing ur story and for sharing healthy ways to include God in recognizing that traumatic events do not define us, but instead cause us to identify our beauty and grab ahold of our insurmountable future that God has planned for us. 💛💛💛
I needed this video today ,thank you so much :Rejection is a gift❤.
So did I omg!! 🙌🏾😢😘 life changing episode.
Thank you for this episode Lisa, Nona is such an inspiration. I needed this, I really needed this convo. 🤲🏾🫶🏾
I feel the same way about my mom I run and I run after her and I just don’t understand and when it comes to dating everyone has their mom and mine is so weird and I just get lost in it some much and this year I made up my mind and I said I’ll love from a distance and I’m so hurt about it . She hurts me so much and I’m sooooooooooooooooooooo good to her especially out of my siblings 😢
This is a God send. Thank you 🙏
Thank you Nona , this helped me gain a new perspective on the rejection I experienced.
Nobody is going to "treasure you" unless you are a treasure.
That's the hard reality men always had. Women get to learn it later in life.
this is such an unhealthy mindset that will just make you miserable.
@@esther3396 men live hard realities.
It's easier to be a woman.
@@cliffthecoolcat Everyone has their own struggles, and if you keep applying this victim mindset then of course things are going to be hard for you.
@@esther3396 I'm not a victim. I'm a white man: several college degrees, business owner.
That's the point. You have to make yourself a treasure.
@@cliffthecoolcat Well, if you base your self-worth on those things, you only attract people who value you for those things. Like I said that mindset is warped.
Good morning,
Wow… so powerful and so much healing in what was shared. I will never be the same after receiving this message.
Thank you. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this video, such an enlightenment , learning to accept not having my mother in my life and heal from that, after struggling with that most part of my life
Nona, I am so happy for you! And you have truly inspired me! Ty to both of you Ladies!