Traditional Thai Wedding Ceremony 2023 | Costs & Traditions 🇹🇭

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @lifeinruralthailand
    @lifeinruralthailand  Год назад +4

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    • @Traumacid
      @Traumacid 5 месяцев назад

      Bro please tell me how much does a wedding cost? I need to know 😊

  • @danielmelendrez1616
    @danielmelendrez1616 Год назад +29

    I can only say that my Thai wedding has been one of the most exotic, magical and happiest days of my life. As a Western guy, I was fortunate to have both my parents and my brother attending my wedding which made it a much more special day given that everyone had to travel from different parts of the world. Thai people are the most humble and charismatic humans on earth.

  • @PracticerOfMetta
    @PracticerOfMetta Год назад +23

    We had a similar ceremony in Northwest Thailand. I feel a part of the community and I love my family in Thailand and the people in the village so much! I was 60 and my wife was 59 and it’s interesting to see how many people were surprised that us old folks can fall in love!
    Thank you so much for your videos! I know it takes time from your personal life to create such high-quality well narrated videos.
    For you, your family, your village, and all people from Thailand I pray:
    ขอให้ปราศจากศัตรู ภยันตราย ทุกข์ทางใจ ทางกาย และทางใจ ขอให้สรรพสัตว์ทั้งที่มองเห็นและมองไม่เห็นในทุกมิติและทุกภพทุกชาติอำนวยพรแก่ท่าน ขอให้สรรพสัตว์ทั้งหลายสัมผัสได้ถึงความสงบและความสุขภายใน สาธุ สาธุ สาธุ

  • @williamhartz8707
    @williamhartz8707 Год назад +18

    I also live in rural Thailand near a village. “Community family” is truly the theme with this type of life in the countryside. They seem to accept one another despite each other’s faults or ( for some) craziness. Your narrative is excellent about this wedding ceremony. Thanks for posting.

  • @boxcartwilly
    @boxcartwilly Год назад +20

    A lovely ceremony I hope these traditions last for a long time to come, it's traditions like this that keeps families close and happiness and hope alive.

    • @sebastianroman5294
      @sebastianroman5294 Год назад

      One important thing that you should keep in mind when discussing Thai dowry is that its amount is based on your Thai fiancee’s status, education, occupation and other related social background information (such as her virginity). An average middle-class, university-educated Thai lady deserves a dowry of 100,000- 300,000 baht. A dowry of a million baht for an uneducated lady of modest means is just ridiculous. Thai dowry prices fall drastically if your bride-to-be has been previously married, already has children, or is not a virgin anymore. In fact in most of these instances, no dowry deserves to be paid.
      Thai dowry, however, is usually symbolic in nature and will normally be returned to the married couple after the wedding, so as to help them start on their new life.

  • @seekhearts
    @seekhearts Год назад +10

    Congratulations to the new couple. Its always fun to take part in such a celebration. I think everyone everywhere can appreciate such a vibrant and rice-laden wedding.

  • @rosswoolley2854
    @rosswoolley2854 Год назад +11

    I got married 13 years ago and my knees are still aching from kneeling for about one and a half hours during our ceremony.
    So happy i met my lovely wife. From Surin.

  • @craigstrike3023
    @craigstrike3023 Год назад +8

    The sense of community and family is to be admired. Weddings cost money in every culture. I very much respect and enjoy the Thai tradition

  • @mattalford389
    @mattalford389 Год назад +7

    Always fascinating to see a Marriage Ceremony in Thailand. Like all of their Ceremonies actually! So different to what we're used to.

  • @AnuchaFarm
    @AnuchaFarm Год назад +6

    Thank you for such an insight into the Thai wedding ceremonies.
    I now understand much more of our wedding in Nakhon Pathon I for 120 fam and friends.
    3 of the best days in my life…

  • @markslupe7197
    @markslupe7197 Год назад +6

    Thank you for the informative video. I will be getting married in 2 weeks, also in a rural village in Buriram Province where we make our home. In the short time I've lived here I have seen the communal bond of the people. For instance, this weekend is a Monk ordination ceremony for a young man living close by. Many of the village women have been preparing enough food for entire village of about 600 people.

  • @graemeaylward8313
    @graemeaylward8313 Год назад +7

    Thanks Ryan, it reminds me of the 3 similar marriages that I have been to in the villages around Khon Kaen and Chum Phae. At one I went to there was a part of the ceremony where the families of the bride and groom ceremonially barter over the amount of Sin Sod, which was done with much good humour and alcohol! Alcohol seems to be the fuel that keeps most village ceremonies going 🤣😂 As a non drinker I find it all very amusing. God bless you, Damo, and the boys 😀❤🙏

  • @donnaleecriss8692
    @donnaleecriss8692 Год назад +4

    We could all learn alot for a simpler happier life from rural Thailand. From a Canadian

    • @TommyDD99
      @TommyDD99 Год назад

      Buy a plane ticket and go there

  • @heihot
    @heihot Год назад +3

    Great video!
    I (and some other farangs) got invited by our hotel/resort owner and attended a wedding party on Koh Tao in 2004-ish. Location behind a petrol station😃. Father of the bride was singing on a stage. And some dancers that had not so many clothes on🤔. The food was 👌. Donation 500 bath.
    Great experience... Thank you for reminding me of that😁
    Have a great day 🖖

  • @RockFPV
    @RockFPV Год назад +8

    In Europe we had something similar around 50 years ago called "Mitgift" which goes in the same direction. When I was about to marry my Thai wife, I was quite scared of that topic. The family actually wanted quite a bit of money but my wife did not agree on the amount and in the end I played around 700$ just to keep face. There are cases where the sin sod is quite high but no need to support the family. In my case, I support them since 15 years and that's ok. Regardless where your partner comes from, a relationship will always cost money :-) Nothing is for free really in this world.

  • @randycarroll4235
    @randycarroll4235 Год назад +3

    I got married to my beautiful Isaan wife in January of this year such a special place in my heart and special ceremony ❤️

  • @golfinginthailand
    @golfinginthailand Год назад +2

    Great video on Thai life. I was married in Pattaya in a Muslim ceremony. Same community atmosphere. In any serious event, the community pulls together and it's so refreshing to be a part of that. We had nephew that died in an accident and the community response was amazing. Nobody in the family was alone for days as people came from all around and supported the family. The Thai way to manage dying is also worth exploring more on your channel. I know you went through some with Uncle Monk not long ago. It's just interesting the concept of death in Thailand. The Buddhist thinking changes their perceptions on the topic. Even in out Muslim community, it's very different.

  • @maryryan
    @maryryan Год назад +3

    Thank you Ryan for sharing this exceptional wedding in Thailand ❤
    Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @shareonrivas1458
    @shareonrivas1458 Год назад +5

    This was precious God Bless their Holy Union.

  • @KingRealEstate
    @KingRealEstate Год назад +5

    It bought back memories of my own marriage in the province..nice one Ryan. 🙂

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  Год назад

      Glad you enjoyed it

    • @andyhoyle511
      @andyhoyle511 Год назад

      Same thoughts . I got married after three months of knowing my wife which looking back was crazy but we are still together six years later and this video brought back all my special memories of the day . I got my Sinod back bar 20,000 bhat without even asking . I built my wife a home which was something I wanted to do and was not press ganged into doing. It’s the best decision I ever made and I love every minute of being together . My wife was married before and I think it taught her to appreciate the love of a good man.

  • @izamarina
    @izamarina Год назад +5

    Lovely ceremony ❤ many congratulations to the couple. The tradition is very similar to the malay weddings in Brunei, minus the monk, replaced with an Imam 😅.. however I do love the bridesmaid 'barrier' session..same as in malay weddings, we have that too! I once in my life participated in that tradition and I got $300 for 'blocking' the groom from the groom to let him enter the bride's home. So much fun! Peace and love to all ❤

  • @dont9098
    @dont9098 Год назад +1

    Awesome Community and Spirit among Thai people

  • @andyroid7339
    @andyroid7339 Год назад +4

    Wonderful! You say that rural Thai people may not have much but in real terms they have much more than us in the West. We could learn a lot in the West from ceremonies like this, rather than a wedding which may include drunkenness and noise, envy, materialism.

  • @peterward9755
    @peterward9755 Год назад +2

    I'm from the UK and I married my wife recently in Trat completely different from a wedding in the UK but enjoyable

  • @RuralVlogs-FishinglVlogs
    @RuralVlogs-FishinglVlogs 2 дня назад

    Nice sharing ❤❤🎉

  • @Yasmininthailand
    @Yasmininthailand 5 месяцев назад +1

    Such a beautiful ceremony ❤

  • @wildlifegardenssydney7492
    @wildlifegardenssydney7492 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful couple’s wedding ceremony. So very interesting and heart warming. Congratulations!

  • @michaelj2528
    @michaelj2528 Год назад +2

    Congratulations to the young couple.wishing them a happy life together,. A very interesting video . Great job

  • @marcmcmillan3376
    @marcmcmillan3376 Год назад +2

    Ryan, When they have these weddings, does anyone have to sign any official paper work to make it official ?

  • @MrEye4get
    @MrEye4get Год назад +1

    Gold and money paid at our wedding were returned after the ceremony. We used the money for a down payment on a new home in Bangkok. Many times if you see gold displayed at a wedding, it isn't real gold. It's mostly for a show!

  • @slitsmyster
    @slitsmyster Год назад +1

    Been to 2 issan weddings they are great occasions and I loved every minute of them.

  • @WanderlustReports
    @WanderlustReports Год назад +1

    Another great video that made me learn more about Thai life. Thanks, Ryan!

  • @trueman2542
    @trueman2542 Год назад +2

    Thanks, Bryan. Brilliantly described. 😊

  • @fredrickthorntonsr.6297
    @fredrickthorntonsr.6297 Год назад +1

    Ryan, just want to pass onto you and Damo and Tis and Hugo that I enjoy your channel and for you to be easy. All is well.

  • @Patricksstealthvanlife
    @Patricksstealthvanlife Год назад +1

    I recently returned from Thailand and while there was a guest of the inner circle of the brides family for her wedding. Started at 7am and finished at mid night. If it was a movie it would have been a blockbuster from Bollywood. Was full of human spirit and joy. As an observer I couldn't help but think about the ' spare no expense ' attitude in certain communities where ' expense ' can be the difference between misery and joy. I think there would be some potential marriages out there that could generate more terror than joy for one side of the family because of this . 🤪🤣
    Great video Ryan. 🙏🙏

  • @dhdhfhfj3066
    @dhdhfhfj3066 7 месяцев назад +1

    มันยอดเยี่ยมมากเลย..งานแต่งงานแบบไทยๆ

  • @ONELIFEONEKITCHEN
    @ONELIFEONEKITCHEN Год назад +2

    Ryan. So creative please keep bringing your interesting content ❤️ it

  • @lifeinruralthailand
    @lifeinruralthailand  Год назад +6

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    • @sebastianroman5294
      @sebastianroman5294 Год назад

      One important thing that you should keep in mind when discussing Thai dowry is that its amount is based on your Thai fiancee’s status, education, occupation and other related social background information (such as her virginity). An average middle-class, university-educated Thai lady deserves a dowry of 100,000- 300,000 baht. A dowry of a million baht for an uneducated lady of modest means is just ridiculous. Thai dowry prices fall drastically if your bride-to-be has been previously married, already has children, or is not a virgin anymore. In fact in most of these instances, no dowry deserves to be paid.
      Thai dowry, however, is usually symbolic in nature and will normally be returned to the married couple after the wedding, so as to help them start on their new life.

  • @dorothyrubyredmunchkin
    @dorothyrubyredmunchkin Год назад +3

    Your videos always put a smile on my face ❤😊 Congratulations to the newlyweds ❤

  • @KarmaCal57
    @KarmaCal57 Год назад +1

    WOW! Thanks for that Ryan. It brought our day back to me, when we got wed in Phayao 🙏

  • @masapan7699
    @masapan7699 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for making this VDO. It is very well explained. Well done!

  • @vijaythakur4652
    @vijaythakur4652 15 дней назад

    Thanks!

  • @peggyclarke8993
    @peggyclarke8993 Год назад +2

    Beautiful ceremony❤

  • @user-bv9uo2dj7i
    @user-bv9uo2dj7i 9 месяцев назад

    Good explanation for thai culture

  • @nigelmullen9546
    @nigelmullen9546 Год назад +1

    Pretty much same as mine 10 years ago, great day lots of fun. Thank you for that, whilst it was explained to me at the time what would happen it was never explained why it was happening, why were we parading round at 7 in the morning, why were her sisters standing there with a string blockade and why were my feet getting a wash.

  • @mariannescalise6658
    @mariannescalise6658 Год назад

    I love seeing them throwing rice they stopped it mostly in some USA churches etc because the mess they blow bubbles ! Beautiful and I love the community help that's heartwarming the Thai culture thanks for sharing this with us Damo looks beautiful!

  • @ThailandTom
    @ThailandTom Год назад +1

    I find it peculiar that there's such an enormous emphasis on money within a society that are generally too poor to actually live up to it.
    I mean just 1,000 baht is very much for many of them, but to not lose face they have to show off that they have money (even if they don't).
    I've seen celebrations where families that normally have a hard time to even buy food, have to give money not to be looked down upon.
    Same thing with making merit at the temple, where it to many is about showing what a good person you are, which is of course shown by how much you give.
    I know a person who gave away all the land, animals and money the family had and now they live in total poverty, only to show the rest of the village what good persons they are...
    The ceremonies part from the focus on money are very nice and beautiful though.

  • @nettadebeer9936
    @nettadebeer9936 Год назад

    So different from normal weddings Where the parents pay for everything…to treat the guests
    On their costs…the guests just came and enjoy…it’s a tradition treat ..

  • @user-qt2qj9gn7p
    @user-qt2qj9gn7p 4 месяца назад

    Like my village marriage (love from india❤)

  • @WalkingmanPattaya
    @WalkingmanPattaya Год назад +3

    We never received the "life lessons on a happy marriage" Acceptance and understanding you learn when living together. Beautiful wedding ceremony! Thanks Ryan. All the best to you, Damo, Otis, and Hugo PS. It always seems the women are more happy than the men at the weddings.... 5555 or is it just my biased mind 5555

  • @Janjironin
    @Janjironin Год назад +1

    ยินดีกับคู่บ่าวสาวด้วยนะครับ🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @paulhumphreys9615
    @paulhumphreys9615 Год назад

    Mo's grandmother is still quite a dish for the senior in the family Lol.......... 😊😋☺

  • @matvguru
    @matvguru 7 месяцев назад

    This is Equal to Indian culture. From India 🙏🙏

  • @DiscoDrew
    @DiscoDrew Год назад

    Congratulations to the happy couple!
    I love these type of Thai traditional ceremonies.

  • @njord47
    @njord47 Год назад +1

    That was my first trip to thailand, i was invited to a thai marriage, was long 7 days ...omg^^

  • @petrusvaneeden2492
    @petrusvaneeden2492 Год назад

    Thanks for explaining the different stages of the wedding ceremony.

  • @hamimahatan6307
    @hamimahatan6307 Год назад

    Wow! Tqvm for sharing …. So special … Sending love from Malaysia❤❤❤❤

  • @AD-ym7cj
    @AD-ym7cj 9 месяцев назад

    great video - thank you

  • @mikaelandpond9093
    @mikaelandpond9093 Год назад +1

    No one ever told me that there was a maximum of 1500b 😅😅😅

  • @Joel-we2gg
    @Joel-we2gg Месяц назад

    My Wife and I had a traditional Thai wedding , i don't drink alcohol , so She had to toast each table, I had to hold her up about half way through.

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Год назад

    Very different but also very beautiful thanks Ryan for sharing

  • @VeerendraJilla
    @VeerendraJilla 3 месяца назад

    12:03 😂

  • @simonwood3360
    @simonwood3360 Год назад

    That was so cool
    I love the communal living, sharing 😊

  • @americaninthailand8760
    @americaninthailand8760 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing! That was great!

  • @scattkiwiman
    @scattkiwiman Год назад

    nice thx ! Good luck to the happy couple !

  • @robward3974
    @robward3974 Год назад

    Very interesting, Thanks Ryan.

  • @tonymcdonald6482
    @tonymcdonald6482 Год назад

    Well done Ryan you have produced a valuable reference video here. Perhaps it should be viewed for anyone who is planning marriage here in Isaan to help understanding the full significance of this commitment.

  • @ThunumaDas
    @ThunumaDas День назад

    It is little bit similar with North East India's wedding

  • @joelkoonce8559
    @joelkoonce8559 3 месяца назад

    My Wife and I had a traditional Thai wedding, after the ceremony ,Everyone had to congratulate Us with a toast, I don't drink, so My Darling new bride had the responsibility, afterwards I had to carry Her around. 🤣

  • @thomasmckenney3518
    @thomasmckenney3518 Год назад

    I remember doing all of this!!!! 20 January 2018!!

  • @wendy-0101
    @wendy-0101 Год назад

    ❤️🙏🏻Very interesting and I understand even more now why they are call the "Smiling people."💞💞💞💞

  • @garynoone672
    @garynoone672 Год назад +1

    We're off in 3 weeks to Buriram from Australia to marry my Thai partner. Its good to watch the parades and cermonies to see what I'm in for 👍

  • @genokemp2433
    @genokemp2433 Год назад +1

    What a Palava 🤦‍♂But i enjoyed every single min of it ,Lovely 😁Best of Health and Happiness to the Happy couple xx🙏

  • @bluesky-kb1bu
    @bluesky-kb1bu Год назад

    I was very surprised some of their traditions are the same as in Azerbaijan.. I think all asians are similar

  • @pepper5218
    @pepper5218 Месяц назад

    Thai and Indian Weddings are so similar

  • @Mooncat6
    @Mooncat6 Год назад

    It's great that many people in the village are invited, but are there also people in the village who will have not been invited? If so, why would that be?

  • @markwest9658
    @markwest9658 Год назад

    Ryan not sure if you know that all the envelopes and cash strapped to the bride and groom after entering the bedroom is removed and recorded in a book. All funds received are normally returned to the giver should there be a wedding in their family. Been there, regards . Oh and still happily there😆

  • @deeplorable8988
    @deeplorable8988 Год назад

    Im Catholic in the U.S. We too throw rice at the bride and groom as they exit the church. I remember when I was a little boy throwing rice at my uncles wedding. It hit his bride in the eye and I felt terrible.

  • @MyBelch
    @MyBelch Год назад

    Nice vid. cheers.

  • @paulbytheriver4976
    @paulbytheriver4976 4 месяца назад

    i had a similar ceremony 2018. paid 1 million bht sin-sod, clearly overpaid but i was told it would be returned to me. it was not. my ex-wife quit the marriage after just 9 months here in the US, in part, i believe, to receive a portion of the sin-sod (they tell their family the farang abandoned them). true story. Isaan weddings are beautiful, exceptional affairs, but i would recommend to all farang to ensure the sin-sod is returned after the wedding via legal agreement, or witnesses, etc.

  • @user-ex2wy6te5k
    @user-ex2wy6te5k Год назад

    Wonderful wonderful video. Thank you

  • @geostruth9115
    @geostruth9115 Год назад

    Wow! A lot of fun.

  • @Dutch-Buddha
    @Dutch-Buddha Год назад

    Thanks for creating and sharing bless the Coppell

  • @randomworld4662
    @randomworld4662 Год назад +1

    This is alot of sinsud specially for thai couples

  • @derekcarney3816
    @derekcarney3816 Год назад

    Beautiful respect..a beautiful life

  • @MrMaxeemum
    @MrMaxeemum Год назад

    This is the Thailand I like.

  • @helendymock8265
    @helendymock8265 Год назад

    Really interesting thankyou ❤

  • @southpaw1755
    @southpaw1755 Год назад

    You live in a magical world.

  • @malin5468
    @malin5468 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @mikereid7580
    @mikereid7580 Год назад

    Just remember, if she has been married before, the price goes down. Or her age has a factor. Glad they got married, but just keep your wits about you for getting married. I was once offered a young women for 1 million baht, I declined. Later she married a Thai man for 10,000 baht. Plus, if any of my boys want to marry. I will always check the other’s cellphone, in this day and age.

  • @PloyandJayinThailand
    @PloyandJayinThailand Год назад

    Nice wedding ceremony ❤

  • @markwilliams4362
    @markwilliams4362 Год назад

    Beautiful ❤🇹🇭🇦🇺

  • @rickfreunde5957
    @rickfreunde5957 Год назад

    People don't throw rice in my region.

  • @truckerfromreno
    @truckerfromreno Год назад

    Beautifully done.

  • @user-uw3vc1vh9r
    @user-uw3vc1vh9r 10 месяцев назад

    This mixes pure Khmer-Thai culture, how to get married

  • @HalimWander
    @HalimWander Год назад

    its not shocking for most south asian people

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  Год назад +1

      You’re right 😁🙏

    • @HalimWander
      @HalimWander Год назад

      hope to see more video like this from you..a tradition or anything about real life in thailand..

  • @canonind1909
    @canonind1909 Год назад

    Interesting video to watch. 👍🙏

  • @andrewshinegold6988
    @andrewshinegold6988 Год назад

    I remembered quite a few of the customs, the parade and baring, but I noticed in this case, no monks. Is this usual ?

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  Год назад

      apparently they stay private at the wedding but the parents and bride and groom see them in private! :)

    • @andrewshinegold6988
      @andrewshinegold6988 Год назад

      Odd that, we had 9 monks at our wedding on 9 September 1999 which was supposed to be lucky 🤣

  • @kumarsudhash3563
    @kumarsudhash3563 8 дней назад

    Tamil wedding also same

  • @farahlarki3454
    @farahlarki3454 Год назад

    Lovely ❤I really want to visit