4 UPDATES: I Had Been Helping My Sister Financially By Sending Her Big Paychecks Every Month For My
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- Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024
- 4 UPDATES: I Had Been Helping My Sister Financially By Sending Her Big Paychecks Every Month For My Nephew, But While Babysitting Him One Day, He Told Me That He Had Been Kicked Out Of School For Unpaid Fees So I Decided To Dig Deeper...My Parents Are Now Calling Me A "Selfish & Pathetic Human" Bcoz CPS Gave Me Custody Of My Nephew After My Sister’s Unbelievable Actions?!
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I'm in a very confusing situation right now, so please bear with me if I end up being a little all over the place, I really can’t help it. So, this is mostly about me (38f) and my sister. Jennifer, my sister, is four years younger than me, and we have always had a good relationship. Growing up, we were pretty close.
The safety and well being is the ONLY thing that matters here. The rest of the people can go take a long walk off a short pier. You did right.
You did the right thing, if your parents are trying to say “give her a break” respond with “have I taken her to court for the money she spent on drugs rather than her kids education? No? Then consider that her “break””.
I wish I had someone to look out for me when I was a kid...YOU are a good person OP. Muff the rest of your family. I know it's hard, but family does not mean you have to put up with abuse or ignore the abuse of others.
Amazing Grandparents were so absorbed in justifying their daughter, they totally ignored the fact that this same daughter was financially & emotionally abusing him!? How can they make peace with their ignorance, Oh right just ignore that part too.
Please just go on and justify the vacancy of her presence as a mother in his life, & also the financial abuse towards your grandson. Absolutely justify her quitting her job & getting involved with a drug selling addict & making him a priority over you innocent grandson!
Pathetic grandparents, horrible Mother!
Well done OP, it seems you are the only family member with true family values!
That is what sister is more upset about her boyfriend and not her son. So those three are all crazy.
The sister is lucky. The dealer would have sold her and her child to the traffickers when he'd milked her dry of money.
It was the absolute right thing to report her. I made the mistake of talking to my sister. She immediately skipped town with her creep boyfriend and her son. She ended up losing custody because she and her dealer boyfriend were selling him for sex. The school discovered the issue and she still lost custody. I so wanted to protect my nephew. I regret talking to her.
You focus on whats good for the nephew. Sister is an adult. She has her parents. Yeah, she didnt want help before you found out. So this crap she feels bad. No she didn't. Not really. Why abandon him with babysitters? Because SHE was selfish.
Op did the right thing by calling cps on her sister.
A shame that her parents hate her now but still feel so much compassion for the sister. Nothing unfair about that at all.
God bless you for being with your nephew
How do you reason with someone that’s on drugs!
I hope you have long since cut her off her monthly "paycheck".
You did the right thing for the child you should ignore your parents they are trying to save face she putting a drug dealer before her son she wants him back for the money to fund her life style she lost survivors benefit and you giving her money
What about your grandson!!??!? No one else was stepping in! And she was handing over big checks to support her nephew. Not supporting a drug dealer! So as her parents you should have got her into therapy! So you are the bad guy for taking a stand for your nephew since your sister didnt care! She dodged her sister for visit?!! That poor kid had no parents taking care of him!! Stay strong sugar! You shouldnt be paying for your sister's bad choices when you were trying to take care of your nephew. Who cares what your family says. They seem to care more about their ADULT daughter than a minor grandson. You are a good person!!
nothing so called "M's" do surprise me anymore. just look at the youtube channels devoted to girls like this creature.
They could tell with her hair. They can tested.
You exposed the evil. The very thing the Bible says to do.
Throw away the guilt.
"I should have spoken to her first". Translation: "So she could feed me a load of bullshit about how she's not REALLY neglecting her child for her drug dealing boyfriend".
Rugs do that to u. U will lose ur self n many don’t go back.
Yeah... Especially cheap rugs. They hurt my feet 😊
Why are the grandparents ignoring Anthony in this equation? Do they think their daughter's neglect is acceptable just because she's is in a dark place right now? Sure, they think that OP could have handled things differently, but that does not mean OP is to blame for prioritising the well being of their grandson. I think that the sister is being manipulated by a con man, but it doesn't excuse the disregard and manipulation of her son. Imagine how hard it is to go against your mother to get help, at such a young age, or how hard it is to go against your sister to safe guard your nephew. OP and young Anthony are courageous and should be commended for their actions not criticised.
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Maybe you and nephew need therapy.
OP did the right thing. But I do agree with the parents initially. I would've spoken to her about it. Create some story to protect Anthony about how she found out Anthony wasn't at school anymore. Since OP was paying for it, she just wants to know what's happening. If it goes no where, go the route you did.
OP is the YTA for blindly enabling her sister with handouts of big fat, hefty paycheck for more than two years. _(“Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day; teach him how to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime”)_
If OP and everyone stood by her sister's side, then shouldn't they have realized or even noticed the discrepancies of not having a job, abusing finances, and the neglect towards the child in the last two years. _(Just handing out monthly big fat check and not following up with their lives, is pure BS and irresponsible thing to do. If only OP and her parents kept a trail on her personal and professional life, they wouldn't have seen this day.)_
Also, it has been less than two years, and she has already moved on from her late "love of her life" and neglecting her own child, is kind of very strange to me. _(I am sure she is a user, and she has been enjoying her life right from when her husband passed away)_
As usual. Money more important than family. Women ☕☕☕
We’re women. We can just make more family.
Because there’s never been a man who cared more about money than family… nope, never.
If it’s not clear, that was sarcasm.
This isn't a gender thing. Sadly, this happens to males and females. I'm sorry that you may have been on the receiving end of someones awful behaviour - not everyone is like that though.
Yes, I bet both off her grandparents (who supported the sister) were female /s