Coping Skills for Anxiety or Depression 13/30 How to Process Emotions
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Coping skills can be really important for anxiety. They often soothe or comfort us, and they help us calm down and make better choices. However, coping skills do nothing to solve our problems in the long term, and some of them, if used exclusively, can be harmful. Coping skills help us take a break from our discomfort, but also from our life purpose. So that’s why I get a little bugged when I hear that the only skill someone is learning in therapy is how to cope.
Using coping skills to get through a crisis and get calm and then coming back and resolving the problem is the best long-term practice. This ability to pause before choosing an action is an essential skill of emotionally resilient people.
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@@latrecelockett4930 $49
@@havardhenriksen8890 thank you
Love the warning to not be addicted to coping skills and stay in the 'feel good' zone but once soothed, to return to the cause/problem and seek ways to deal/solve it. ❤️👍🏽
Yes that happened to me too. That might be why I hated the meditation stuff 🤔
What if your in a situation where you can't solve it
Basically, don't get hooked on Copium.
This is very important.
@@magicslave3066 Then get out of the situation! Why stay in problems that you cant solve? You got into it somehow, so you can get out of it. Ofcourse im not referring to situations that you are physically forced into and have no way of getting out, like jail or torture camp.
To those who don't have time : she begins to talk about coping skills at 6:38
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Thank you
I thought I was the only one 🤣
Thank you so much 😂
Init fucking hell would have already been dead!
Summary/ Overview:
0:00 Intro - 25 coping skills/ techniques
1:30 Sponsor Ad - Blinkist
2:56 Story - Argentina, helping out ppl in need, leader where rude, sleept, came back and confronted the situation.
4:12 HALT - Hungry Angry Lonely Tired - Pause, Slow down, use Coping skills to avoid the crisis/ calm down, then come back to resolve the problem in its entiery or part by part. Emotional resiliens.
6:41 Sensory coping skills
1 go outside breathing fresh air
2 take a walk
3 listen to music
4 feeling a comfortable texture
5 smell something pleasant
6 getting a massage
7 exercise
8 hot shower / cold face wash
9 knitting/ sewing/ build something
7:14 Cognitive coping skills
10 write it down - ex brain dump
11 journaling
12 meditation
13 mindfulness
14 prayer
15 coloring
16 guided imagery
17 progressive muscle relaxation
7:28 Active coping skills
18 playing an instrument
19 making some music
20 humor
21 watching a funny clip on youtube
22 watching TV (watch out though, turns off much of brain and can hinder resolving issue)
23 reading a book
24 doing crosswords
25 getting out in nature
26 planting something/ seeds
27 give yourself a facial
28 express yourself thru art or music
8:13 Connection coping skills
29 hug someone
30 pet an animal
31 talk it out with a friend
32 write a letter to someone or write email before talking with them.
8:36 Coping skill addictions
-Which 3 coping skills will you use in a crisis? - in which environment?
-Which 3 people can you call in a crisis?
-If your currently in crisis, some tips.
10:02 Summary: Develop coping skills, make better choices, get thru crises.
10:15 Outro
Thank you!
The Now is safe 99,999% of the time.
Everything you imagine can go wrong is by definition not the Now, but your imagination of a hypothetical (near or distant) future.
The immediate present moment is you safe haven, your sanctuary and your anchor if you want more peace and calm in your life. The Now is the actuality of your life, everything else is thought - either memory (past) or fantasy (future). And thought is almost always a heavier burden than your actual life.
The human imagination is the biggest creator of our worries, but the upside is that a vivid imagination - if tamed and controlled - can be an instrument of constructive creativitity and be an assett in ones life. Many people I know who suffers from anxiety are also very intelligent and creative.
Unless you being abused and now is NOT safe
@@user-zv4on3zp3t And my point is that most people most of the time are not in a physically threatening situation, but our threat systems are active - chronically - for those people anyways. And the way to acknowledge and understand the difference between an actual threat and a perceived threat is to wake up to the actuality of the present moment.
If you - however - find yourself in an abusive situation it is of vital importance to remove yourself from the situation.
@@MindVersusMisery Reduce negative thoughts to reprogramme the mind. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be still and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Be as still as possible as it reduces negative thoughts. Make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@@user-zv4on3zp3t that's why he didn't say 100% of the time
I used to find sanctuary in sleep, but even that has become permeated by despair and negativity. One crisis evolves into the next. It almost feels deliberate. Like there is an external force trying to break me.
Same here, something wants me gone
I lost one morning when I remembered my dream and it was me just waiting in a room. My freaking dream was BORING in the dream! I know what you mean. You are doing n the right place for sure. Please consider fasting of some if not already and magnesium potassium gut health. Blessings
I feel the same
It could be an external force trying to break you. Or it could be an external force trying to guide you. Maybe you needed to rest, but now that time is over and you need to try exercise or art or reading. What if pain wasn’t punishment but just the natural experience of bumping against guard rails?
Sounds like anxiety, Take long walks or go to the park etc (especially before sleep) , get out of the house. Anyways, hope you are well and get past this soon!
Ask for support from a friend or a professional.
Create a to-do list.
Engage in problem-solving.
Establish healthy boundaries (tell your friend you aren't going to spend time with her if she makes fun of you).
Walk away (leave a situation that is causing you stress).👍
Everyone is busy
I don’t have any friends..
What if it’s afraid that she is lying to you
Anxiety and Depression often goes hand in hand with ADHD. Thank you for such a helpful video!
I have this problem
Same
and people are like oh well your just being dramatic
what do you mean ?
Jesus Christ I'm screwed
I have 3 Dachshunds, they give me especially joy, but also nature, as physical movement and they give me structure. It works in both ways, I’m happy and the dogs are too
I have always gone for food as my coping skill. Not a good one but it does give my brain something to do. Thank you for this
This video change the way I perceive being well. Coping is no longer enough for me and somehow I knew it but I didn't have the words for it. It really helps to hear it from someone else. To me, coping is like deciding to stay in a war without winning the war. It helps by providing a timeout, to prolong survival but it does not resolve. What I want is for the war to be over, with the least amount of sustained damages.
You are right. It gives us time out during crisis and prevents our brain's response for a bit. But it isn't the solution. Now I am not saying people shouldn't practice these or these are useless. The point is to see coping skills as a way to stop overstimulating your nervous system and to avoid further physiological and emotional damage in crisis. And once we get a healthy control not to give in everytime we are depressed and anxious, we can start focusing on skills and habits that actually helps us heal, overcome these situations.
We have to survive and fight this scary brain anxiety. Happy Friday
Hey you dont have to fight it alone, Jesus loves, come to him he will help you if you truly believe he will and seek him whole heartedly. But you healing and restoration will be a process just like anything else in life. 😁
@@roboticrachel3331 love it
I love that we are all in this together. it's very hard. I pray the best for you Bobby, beyond any joy you could ever imagine
Hey dude - I reckon it’s key that we don’t see anxiety as a threat or even a bad thing... something that we have to survive or fight - this turns our fight / flight response up more, producing more.... anxiety! The key I believe is utter utter acceptance (in the words of Claire Weekes - check her out, she’s amazing) of our anxiety... it’s as we accept and experience our anxiety fully without fighting it or running away, our brain experiences it calming down naturally, and we learn that anxiety is actually quite safe and normal - nothing to fear or fight or run away from 👍👍
Robotic Rachel So true
Many of the things you speak of helps reinforce what I learned in therapy. I helps me think through what I can do better the next time my symptoms kick in.
Coping skills may not be great mechanisms in the long term but in the short term they are magnificent, especially for those of us who have none, never learnt there were other ways, and always react (usually badly). Thank you for listing them and not glossing over them as irrelevent or saying 'that everyone knows this stuff'. Some of us don't know this stuff.
HALT
HUNGRY ANGRY LONELY TIRED
Use coping skills through the crisis and then go back and solve the problem
Sensory coping skills-going outside walk music texture smell massage hot shower exercise building something
Cognitive-brain dump praying journaling pmr
Acting coping skills-playin instrument watching tv making music reading crosswalk
connection coping skills--write an email letter
Write down 3 coping skills you can use in a crisis
home - music outside praying
social-perfume/gum running
3 people you can contact in a crisis
no one lol
I like the HALT. I'm in AA and that comes up a good bit. I've been sober a long time and I am still struggling a lot with anger and depression. I do see a counselor and I am at my wits end with the trouble my mishandling of anger still causes. I decided to get into anger management. The so called free online courses ain't free. I decided to do my own research. There's a wealth of information and certainly I will delve more into your videos. Sounds like your channel alone is a goldmine so thank you for freely putting so much information out there to help people like me!
*Coping for Anxiety and Depression :*
HALT - Hungry Angry Lonely Tired
Sensory - walk, music, textured, crystal, smell, massage, exercise, warm shower, any activity.
Cognitive - writing, gratitude, journaling, meditation, praying, reiki, imagery, progressive muscle relaxation etc.
Activity- music, tv, humour, games
Connection - talk to a friend, hug, pet and animal, write a letter
Thank you!
Thank you!
Thanks 😊👍🏻
Please don't do new age thinks like reiki. They are dangerous and you can get much worse then before. There 8s a spiritual word and reiki is dangerous!
Same with crystals and meditation. Stop doing this. These examples are also not from the video!
This is Awesome!!! I sent it to everyone I know who needs this & others who don’t understand my anxiety!!!!❤️
Moma MOE, Reduce negative thoughts to reprogramme the mind. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be still and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Be as still as possible as it reduces negative thoughts. Like me make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
thank you, ma'am, you are saving lives here. god bless you and your family
You are such a clear, effective communicator. Thank you for these videos! I wish I could find a real world therapist as well spoken and well trained as you.
Yes Precisely my dearest. I truly appreciate your videos, you are a blessing to the world.
I love how you grouped these!!
Thank you so much for this video!
I'm having a final exam on the subject crisis and trauma, and this helps a lot to understand and be able to explain and use later in praxis.
May God bless you
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Thanks for your access to this help! You provide excellent service for people!
I’m so glad you are always there for me ☺️
I like all your videos. Being a senior counsellor I spread the message of breath observing meditation which I have been practicing for years. Best wishes. .
ASD ADHD PTSD, I knew a lot about this, breathing etc, but had a hard time releasing this muscles tension. You are amazing thank you!
There is a meditation that I use that is awesome. It is called Trigram’s Pain Relief Meditation which is misleading. It really helps you relax. From the beginning of it I take a deep breath in through my nose and hold fir 7 seconds while thinking “I release all my tension and stress“ then exhale slowly while releasing the tension. Then I repeat the same breathe and hold twice more saying the second time “I release all fear and confusion.“
The third time I say “I release all anger, resentment, and frustration.“ Priceless!
Mindfulness- counting my breaths, walking barefoot & music ❤
I’m just so , so , so happy you make videos
God I love you
You got me through so much , thank you . Thank you so much
6:39 coping skills list starts
I love your videos. But I wonder have you thought about doing a video on anger and how to cope with anger/ frustration?
You should never settle with coping with anxiety!
End it don't live with it
face your deepest fears and you will be free from anxiety
how? like a detailed how to
Wow this is very helpful and when things went sideways i used at least 3 of each and didnt think twice after watching this video im like holy cow thank you so much and still use those skills to this day.
Thank you so much. This was so helpful!
Madam you are the best therapist ever 😊😊
Aweeee i love this and I love your insight on your mission in Argentina, I found myself in similar situations in Mexico
My friend is really depressed, thank you for this video as it has really helped me help my friend.
Your friend is blessed to have you . some people like myself just gotta deal with it myself. 😊
Thank you Emma- take care and God bless!😀
Great tips. Love the HALT acronym
Thank you Emma.
Thank you, have a great day!
Congratulations 🎉🎉👏👏 I like this video. Thank you so much.
Thank you so much for all you do!
Awesome vids! sad some people are so toxic to you and your "free" information. Thank you! 🙏
Can’t believe how many people are complaining about this video. It’s an easy fix, guys. Fast forward. Not that hard. Don’t be a jerk.
I’m trying to move away from coping methods and focus more on mindfulness. I never realized how counterproductive certain coping skills are. However journaling is one that aids in mindfulness.
Thank you Emma😊
Really helpul stuff - keep up the good work!
Thank you ❤
THANK YOU
Thank you for stressing that coping skills could help in short-term, but once they are used to calm down and refresh my mind, I need to work on solving the issue itself long-term. Otherwise, the coping skill can turn into an addiction and introduce another problem in addition to the root cause.
I have in mind 2 people, who I can contact in case of severe mental crisis. I already did once in the past and they helped me. I don't have a 3rd one, though...
The skills, which I could use in future, are:
doing some puzzle (I've been doing such in the past, but more rarely lately - I can use this activity as a coping skill);
doing some coloring (I have such a book and some color pens and never finished it, so I can use it for such cases);
listening to calming music (I have such a playlist and used it before - it worked well).
I can put the puzzles and the coloring tools in one "emergency" box for handling emotional crisis in future. :)
Regarding a skill, which I can do when I am not at home - the washing of the face with cold water, or taking a walk outside seem good. Also hugging somebody, although it won't work in professional environment (maybe). :D
Thank you
Thank you for these wonderful videos and free content...it is very much appreciated x
Love Brené Brown’s work!
Loved it! So interesting 🙏✨
This is great❤
Thank you 🙏🏼
This was helpful, thanks
I use a pin or thorn to prick me continuously when I'm really anxious.....I press objects and try to numb my anxiety with the physical pain coming. Once I was on a call with some random apprentice person and the anxiety caused me fever. I'm really much more anxious about that that I developed such severe conditions cause I thought I was healing....I need to work on this now..the best way out could be gaining the self esteem and and a still mind with meditation and books....
Thanks Emma~
Thanks
Thanks!🎉
Thank you for this video! 😀🌸
THANK GOD FOR YOU 🙏🏿🖤
You are a godsend
wow this channel is lifesaver general mentally healthy 😄
So helpful!
wow this person is amazing lol thanks for posting!
Good and informative video.. really helped..
Emma your videos are amazing. I love the 🧠 brain food.
I have literally soaking up these videos. My wife has severe anxiety, depression, and ptsd. How can I help my wife heal from all her past? Please consider a video for me or spouses to help those that suffer. Please! Thank you!!
Can you do a video on derealization?
Ooh I'm excited to see that you've got merch for sale here. Very cool! I'm looking forward to my free gift from Patreon. 😊
Mushrooms containing psilocybin saved my life. The aided my benzodiazepine withdrawal allowing me to quit illicit pill addiction after three years of heavy daily use before it would had became medically dangerous to quit. It has also helped me survive depression.
Psychedelics definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it's just so hard to source out here
@clintonRodriguez-zi7vx I feel the same way too. I put too much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels. I am also glad to be a part of this community.
@patrickjames-vu7hw Does Dr_noels ship?
@patrickjames-vu7hw Thanks. I’ll get in touch with him right away
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Wow, this is the first time I've seen a warning or disclaimer on coping strategies, but I don't disagree at all. I tend to avoid my problems and have acquired some coping behaviors that border on addictions!
You are the best
tnx very nice
Connecting the self with God is the super method to empowering your life to cope with all situations.
Amen! 1 Corinthians 10:13
The mindfulness book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels has good meditation exercises to practice.
I need a very quick core toolkit of practical actions for anxiety because nothing worked so far. It always overpowers me to the extent that I get sick and non functional. No meds or slow breathing works. I also struggle with intensity of emotions (negative emotions only). They are so strong there is nothing I can do.
Thank you :-)♥️
Thank you, i also find chewing garlic helps too
I've also had good results with EFT. Especially when my body and mind are running away with me and i really need a tactile way to calm down.
So interesting 👏👏
A minor note in the bigger scheme of things, but the word “Hungry” is misspelled in the opening HALT graphic. The graphic provides the name of a country, rather than describing an empty stomach. :-) Regardless, your content has helped me a lot in relearning how to process and calm body signals in times of stress and anxiety. Thank you. Though now I need to figure out how to navigate in the absence of these sensations which have been with me, and been my primary “navigating beacon” for more than 50 years.
My coping skill is watching informative videos on RUclips to help me resolve a problem
Yes i am Hungary a little bit too
Please correct me if I'm wrong but, can some of these coping skills be used to process your emotions? For instance, writing down how you feel or talking it out with a friend? Can coping mechanisms like those 2 also be used to process emotions? Thank you!
For those who already need the help and are in an acute crisis, the video starts at 6:38.
Only important thing you're skipping is the acronym "HALT", which stands for "Hungry, Anxious, Lonely, Tired", and means when you feel any of those, or anxiety or depression, you need to just take a break and reach out for help.
If you are in a crisis, a RUclips video is not the answer. Reach out to a crisis line.
Last night I went to dinner with my parents, brother and sister in law. The moment we got there one of my daughters sat next to my brothers wife and she goes “are they sick” “they always make me sick” (we never see them this isn’t true). It caught me off guard and made me really upset. I wanted to snap but I didn’t I just let it go but I couldn’t eat. This morning I woke up with intense anxiety and depression. I feel like there’s no escape to feeling this way. For context I have Asperger’s which for me leads to intense anxiety and panic attacks. I feel like I’m in crisis a lot of the time but no doctor seems to take it seriously
To everyone who's struggling right now, please know that JESUS LOVES YOU. HE DIED FOR YOU. He wants to help you and give you peace. Please surrender your burdens to Him and allow Him to move in your life.
"Because he loves Me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges My Name. He will call on Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him." (Psalm 91:14-15)
Please hold on to this bible verse because WHATEVER GOD SAYS, HE FULFILLS. ✝️
Hi, thanks for your work. I have a question ¿the how to process your emotions course is finished? I am really interested. I saw the curriculum and I want to know if its the final one. Thanks (and sorry for my english!)
I think the 13/30 in the video title is referring to the number in the course series. So i think this is the 13th video in the processing emotions course and there must still be many more to come.
I have been deeply reading and studying Accessing the Healing Power of the Vagus Nerve. You should add that to your list, it fits your style of approaching anxiety! Much favor and gratitude to you💚🙏🏻💫
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She already has videos on it
Can you please share atleast 2 most important links on vagus Nerve. Thank you.
Nice Video Madam.. Great Info here.. Great Insights discussed by you here.. Does the _Problem Fear Issue_ get solved in the LONG TERM? That's the question that we need to ask ourselves here & regularly always .. .. Thank You Soo Much .. I can write my comments here wrt your above video in detail but I want to keep it short concise & precise.. Thank You Once More.. ..
I understand what you're saying. But i reaaaaaalllllly love playing PS5 it's so beautiful 🥺🥺🥺 i wanna focus on a college career but idk why it's proven so diffcult. I already dropped 3 courses this year alone...
So I'm confused. Can journaling become avoidance? My old therapist really pushed journaling. She said it helps the mind process. (I have PTSD) I don't see how it could be avoidance when your writing out the feelings and thoughts. But I would love to know if so, at what point, or how you could be avoiding with journaling.
... @6:39 Coping skills STARTS!!!!
Fast forward. It’s not hard
She came to me in the sleeping hours
And she sang to me in the moonlight:
"Where did you dance when you baffled our chance,
And when did the motley bells chime?"
I summoned a verse from a chorus of blame,
But it drowned in the ghost of her song.
He came to me in the sleeping hours
And he called to me in the moonlight:
"Why does the fold now weep to behold,
And how does it feel to be free?"
I tendered the words from the tears of the same,
But they dried as the dawn came upon.
They came to me in the sleeping hours
And they whispered to me in the moonlight:
"What did you reap when you floated the keep,
And whom did you trust with the key?"
I buried my head in a cushion of shame -
And I woke to find them all gone.
We are all siblings on this planet.
People all around the world prayed for indians 🙏🙏🙏
India need supports to fight Covid-19 & its complications such as : mental trauma, PTSD, melancholic depression, griefs etc.
WHO & WPA may you please help indians as soon as possible.
Be strong ! Never give up !
Love from Cambodia ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks from an Indian 😌
@@spanditanandi8560 The depression, anxiety and stress is worse in western countries. India is a tough nation . Reduce negative thoughts to reprogramme the mind. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be still and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Be as still as possible as it reduces negative thoughts. Like me make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
Friend, India is a tough nation and surviving well. Maximum consumption of anti-depressants, anxiety, suicide, divorce is in the rich western countries. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be still and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Be as still as possible as it reduces negative thoughts. Like me make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
At the 7:50 mark I realized I had been using Movies and screen time as a coping mechanism to avoid resolving my problems... I wish I had know this 3 years earlier... 😥