MY FIRST VLOG BACK🥺 | SPEND THE WEEK WITH ME | MOLLYMAE
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- Hey guys💘
Wow it feels good to post a vlog... I really hope you all enjoy it !
Thank you for all of your incredible support as always, you truly are the best.
see you all soon!
Molly-Mae xxx
Congratulations on the baby! If she’s still waking for feeds, feed her. 10 weeks is still very very very small. She will still cluster feed until she’s about 4 months.
The way Bambi looks so lovingly at you and just from her eyes you can tell she feels so loved and comforted and that makes my heart so so warm 🥹
Me and my partner couldn’t help but laugh at how relatable you guys are! We certainly wouldn’t of paid £17 for parking.. it is ridiculous! But it’s even funnier cause you guys are in a G wagon and Tommy was wearing a dior coat 😂
And just won millions in his last fight 😂
I believe it’s free parking if you don’t have a National Trust membership. However I do agree with your point in the view that they flaunt luxurious items that yet won’t pay towards a UK charity organisation.
I'd recommend you guys spend the £150/year to support the National Trust, all the maintenance costs associated with keeping parks looking so lovely all year round and with the added bonus of easier access 🙂👍
@@montyharrison-stirling1457 you want them to spend their money so badd. It’s their money not yours mate. Simply because they’re rich enough doesn’t mean they have to. 17 pounds for a parking spot is ass
It’s a charity
From Molly and Tommy meeting on love island to watching them have there own house and a child honestly gives me so much joy. Mollys voice is so soothing and make me feel less anxious coming from someone who dealing with such bad anxiety it’s like a god send🥹laying in bed at 2am struggling to sleep and catching up on mollys video is the best feeling❤️keep doing you Molly! You’re both doing so amazing and I can’t wait to see your little family grow and see Bambi grow up to be as caring and career driven as yourselves!
I relate to everything you’ve said here hun, her voice and videos help my anxiety so much too, especially at night when I really struggle with sleep issues, she’s just amazing 🥺🥰
Aww , hope u defeat and get healed from anxiety soon ❤️
@@shanx4170 thank you hun😊
For any mums breastfeeding out there, please be reassured that your period coming back, fussy behaviour, long feeds and sucking hard is not an indication of low supply, but completely normal behaviour for a 6 week old baby. Saying that however it is absolutely your choice whether you with to carry on at that point (or any point) and 6 weeks is Still an amazing amount of time to BF, as is 6 hour or 6 months :) just please don't worry about low supply because of these things xx
Totally agreed!! I went through all of that. It’s definitely not an indication of low supply. Just kept going and it got so much better. We are 19 months still breastfeeding. I think us mums need more help and support with breastfeeding, it’s actually more rare for a low supply to happen apparently? It just seems like we have low supply, especially if you try pump and barley get anything. That’s what happened to me but my boobs never reacted the same with the pump as my baby that’s why I wasn’t able to pump a lot I think! Truly hope these comments help other BF mums to push through if they feel like they want to. It is stressful thinking you have low supply but most of the time we don’t ❤️ the newborn stage is hard for BF but it gets so much easier x
Yep, pumping is no indication of supply - babe is better as getting milk than a pump is ❤
Totally agree. My periods came back after about three months but i breastfed until my baby was a year old with no problems. Not an indicator that your supply is running out.
Thank god someone said it! Breastfeeding can be such a hard journey - I'm so envious of everyone who finds it easy as I haven't! But I'm persevering. Insinuating that you have to stop breastfeeding because you've started menstruating can be really damaging to someone who might not have support or information.
She’s getting low supply because she’s restricting the night feeds to her newborn baby! It’s so sad and harmful to baby not just developmentally but also for bonding too 😢
For all the new breastfeeding mums out there worrying about your supply or the length of your feeds. At 6 weeks old 2 hours is normal. It's called cluster feeding. And you can absolutely get your periods back when breastfeeding and this is not an indication of low supply. I got my period back at 6 weeks post partum and I'm still breastfeeding 8 months on. Molly I'm proud you breastfed for 6 weeks but please be careful of spreading misinformation! Also 6 months is the norm and what is adviced by medical professionals for starting to drop night feeds for formula fed babies, not 10 weeks. So all you mummas out there who's babies are still waking for feeds... It's normal ❤
Yes cluster feeding is totally normal, the baby is going through big growth spurts and developmental milestones at that age. Go with your baby, the more you feed them the more milk you'll produce. It does get easier, sleep when baby sleeps😊
I’m so glad someone put this out there, not going to lie it made me mad that she put this out there, not being horrible but other mums are going to think this it true facts, should def look things like this up before putting it out there
Omg molly if she’s waking up wanting a feed, please give it to her, she could be going through a growth spurt and your denying her food to help her with that 🙈 if a baby wakes crying, it’s because she’s either hungry, has wind, needs a nappy changing or she’s teething (a bit early for that though) I feel like your really need speak to a health visitor for advice 😬
Yes, you need to offer milk every 3hours until 8 weeks and night feedings should be offered until 6 months.
Definitely speak with a neonatologist before cutting the night feeding at such young age!!!!!
This is so sad. Getting a period is not an indicator of supply! Im still feeding my 4th child hes 11month he still feeds every few hours in the night iv NEVER stop that and tell him he wasnt having it wtf 😢 a 10 week old baby doesnt know routine. Babies wake for a reason
I find so much comfort in your videos Molly, especially when Tommy is in them also, and now Bambi too of course. 🥀❤️
You saw my sisters friend today 😊xx
agreed
Do you even care that Bambi was left on her own????
@@Ilovetaylorswift744 when was she left on her own 😂😂
@@Ilovetaylorswift744 when was she?
welcome back Molly! missed you ❤
Missed the dollar 💰
Wow you know you made it big when RUclips comments on your videos!! Can’t imagine my 68 subscriber channel ever being that big but you are such an inspiration ❤️
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@@livingwiththelundys you have 1k subs
Honestly you bring such a calmness when you upload! Can just relax with a cup of tea and enjoy 30 mins watching the most genuine beautiful family, you should be so proud of what you’ve achieved girly! ✨
I love how normal you make pregnancy and newborn life seen, it’s easy to make it seem so scary nowadays but you’ve made it seem like it can be okay and not terrifying 😊
As a newborn mother you are looking incredible molly, your glowing and I’m so excited to see more of Bambi ❤❤
I can't believe how good she looks!
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She’s incredible. But don’t aspire to standards of those you don’t know how much help others get. I did and it drove me to depression because I didn’t realise people got more help with their babies than I did and I struggled massively ❤
It’s biologically normal for babies to continue to wake through the night.
You shouldn’t drop their night feeds. 10 weeks is too little to stop night feeds.
They are growing.. they need food!
It’s actually recommended to slowly drop their night feeds at 6 months.. but even then they still wake up hungry.
My baby didn’t start sleeping through the night until 10 months and stopped night feeds at 8 months.
Ahhh i feel so relieved that we’ve got our Molly back 🥹 missed you so much ❤️
agreed
Yeah it’s so good to get Molly back 🎊🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉
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Loved this as always! For everyone commenting on the breastfeeding and night feeds, every baby is SO different. And every mum knows their baby. Both of my babies were sleeping through by 6 weeks and all health visitors and midwife’s said it was fine as my girls were getting enough milk through the day. Your doing amazing Molly ❤❤❤
True, always people to criticise so sad x
So true! people love to jump on other Mums like every baby is the same and they know it all.
We have a 7 month old and she also has been sleeping through the night since 4-5 weeks old. She was born a tiny baby but since then a perfectly healthy weight and we don’t feed her for 11ish hours at night as she’s asleep.
So lovely to see you looking so well! You are doing so amazing as a new mum! ❤
Molly so lovely seeing you in your mommy era 💫🫶🏽welcome back 💗
Her “mommy era”, for christ sake 😂 it’s not some kind of a life trend she has picked up.
Absolutely ridiculous.
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@@BellaWoods-jb6ck literally and the facts she’s starving her babby at night, some mummy era that is 😂
@@Relaxingnature113🤣🤣🤣 so true. Feed that poor baby lmao
agreed
So great to see you doing so well ! It's a huge adjustment becoming a mum and your doing amazing, wishing you and your family all the happiness in the world ❤
“Everyone should go for free, it’s a field” had me laughing so hard hahaha so happy to have your videos back to look forward to!! Bambi is so stinking cute and your little family is just beautiful 🥰 much love to you guys! 💜
I was looking for this comment I was dying when he said that 🤣 too bloody right too, £17 is a shambles! Yes it may be for a charity but with the amount of people they could have there everyday the cost should be lowered a little for people like me who struggle more and don’t have £17 for a walk around the field, love you molly and tommy! both doing amazing with little bam bam ❤
What an amazing family , bambi is so lucky to have parents that are so In love with each other as Well as with her 😍😍😍😍
Hey Molly, just some advice about the suit in the car seat. The risk isn't as much Bambi overheating, the reason babies shouldn't wear coats or car suits in a car seat is because the seatbelts are going to be sat on top of a layer of padding, rather than against the babies body, causing the harness to fit incorrectly, so if there was a collision or crash, bambi wouldn't be safe. A collision can happen 2 minutes away from home, and even if you're a safe driver. An unsafe driver could crash into you. Please research why coats/snow suits shouldn't be used in car seats for Bambi xx
2 year old daughter in bed, husband watching tv downstairs and I’m in bed with an easter egg, checked your channel just in case of a new video and you have no idea how happy I was to see this! 🥹 you’re doing absolutely incredible Molly, both you and Tommy should be so proud of yourselves. Bambi is beautiful ❤️
2hr feeds are normal, cluster feeding in the early days are a thing and definitely normal when it comes to breastfeeding. Well done on feeding her all that goodness in the first 6 weeks!
I think it’s totally normal that at 10 weeks she’s still waking up through the night for milk I wouldnt deprive her of it 😢❤
So glad people are saying this. Iv breastfed 2 of my 4 kids. Im still feeding my 11 month old now.. he still feeds alot during the night. Iv never dream of denying him that! Its just not normal to think that to say your not having milk until morning like 😢 a ten week old baby cant be forced into a routine wtf
@@simplyytips i'm glad you and some others picked up on this and commented. I don't know who is advising her to deny her 10 week old milk for 7 hours but its terrible advice. Because we live in a time now where more mums than ever are working, things like sleep training and schedules for newborns is being normalised when its infact so damaging to babies and will affect their development in many ways as they grow. Before women have children, they need to be very aware that they have to adapt their lives around the baby, not the other way around.
Thank god someones mentioned it honestly she shouldnt deprive the baby of milk i know its hard waking up through the night my baba is almost 6 months and its gone from 6 times waking up to now once which is really good
Well said!!!!! @@Baloobear5501
@@simplyytipsshe has no knowledge whatsoever, not giving milk to a baby
i love how relatable you are with bambi, singing all the time to her is so lovely😭🤍
As other people have said its way too early to be dropping feeds in the night. My son is 18 months & he still has night feeds & this completely normal. Please don't make her go 8 hours without a feed if she's clearly hungry. I'm not mom shaming here I just think you need to be educated.
If you a new mum watching this and you baby is feeding for two hours, it’s not because there is no milk there. It’s completely normal they are cluster feeding to up your supply and breastfeeding is so much more than just getting milk and just because you have your period doesn’t meant to say you have a low supply. Also at 3 not even 3 months old a baby shouldn’t have night feeds dropped if they are waking. I hate to be negative but it can be detrimental to a breastfeeding journey to hear information like this.
For a 10 week old baby they should be feed a few times in the night! It's helps they development! She shouldn't be going that long without a feed. 'From a developmental perspective, babies are able to sleep through the night - defined as a six- to eight-hour stretch - without eating when they're between 4 and 6 months old. In this age range, most babies reach the 12- to 13-pound mark, the weight where they no longer metabolically need nighttime feedings.' Xx
I completely agree, I have a 6 month old she sleep from 7 til 7 but I still dream feed her at 12oclock I know I don't "need" to but if not then she is absolutely STARVING when she wakes so it just suits us better 🥰
Yes and to leave her unattented on the changing table what is she doing this is so dangerous
I’m not sure where she’s getting the info that around 10 weeks is when they drop a feed! It’s fine if they drop it naturally but you shouldn’t deprive your 10 week old through the night for 8 hours 😢
My baby is the same age as mollys and I mentioned to the health visitor that one morning I woke up in a panic because he didn’t wake for a feed (I hadn’t set a timer as previously I had been and he always wakes before the timer anyway and he was always really on point at waking himself) and she told me that I don’t need to worry too much through out the night if he wants to sleep through he will wake when his hungry?x
@Georgia R thank you for this! I went into a right panic that I’d been dehydrating him! Thank you xx
As a mother of 3 small children I can say. They will tell you when they don’t need feeding. She’s waking up because she is hungry… looking for milk.
Just feed your child in the night.. simple as that. I know it’s hard being up and being tired. But it goes so fast and before you know it and they are sleeping through..
Just letting you know you did have enough milk, it sounds like Bambi was cluster feeding and it takes a full week to up your supply for your child’s next developmental stage
I got my period back at 2 months postpartum. I was exclusively breastfeeding and have now for 14 months & counting! Your period is not an indication of how much milk you produce. Mummas please don’t think this!! Go to a lactation consultant if you’re concerned.
Bless her, if she’s waking then she’s hungry, her tummy is so small. She’d sleep better if you gave her a bottle, especially around growth spurts she’ll wake even more for milk
Why would giving her a bottle make her sleep better?
Because she’s continuously waking up crying because she’s hungry. Waking in the night for feeds is normal for babies.
@@lucyclark4881 cause you sleep better when you’re not hungry? What a dumb question
@@vivianne6161I think she may have meant why would giving her a bottle make her sleep more as opposed to breastfeeding.
@@lucyclark4881if she has a bottle at 11 but refuses to give her another till 7, she’s waking because she’s hungry…. So she’ll obviously sleep better if she isn’t hungry?
It’s because it’s a national trust property. So the payment goes to preserving the grounds and cafe etc. Should get a membership so it’s cheaper. We love ours 👍🏻
I just want to put it out there for anyone watching this. Two hours latching is normal. It’s cluster feeding. It doesn’t mean you don’t have enough milk. It also doesn’t mean your supply is going and your baby doesn’t get enough milk. It’s so normal. Only 5-10% of women who actually breastfeed have a reduced supply.
Chances are baby is getting plenty, but they are just going through a developmental phase key to their growth. Anyone reading this if you aren’t sure - wonder weeks app is amazing at explaining the different changes they are going through and reiterates how they’ll react when going through them.
Simple signs are cluster feeding, clingy, not settling etc. Completely normal baby behaviour 😊
I was going to say I literally had my baby on my boob throughout the day hour apin hour and trusted my midwife who said she was getting enough i breastfed until she was 3 ☺️🥰
Thank you for your honesty Molly ❤ my baby is 3 months old and it’s definitely been the hardest 3 months of my life and it’s nice to know that it’s not all sunshine and aesthetic pictures for everyone ❤
Honestly I don’t even think I left the house for the first month!! I was like a zombie! I don’t even remember the first 2 months of my daughters life due to sleep deprivation! But things really DO get easier and you’ll find your own way of doing things and your own routine and rhythm and you’ll start to adjust to your new life. No one tells you this stuff before you have a child. Or if they do it is glossed over! All the photos on social media of my daughters first month show her all beautiful and clean and snuggled up asleep where as If I’d taken a picture of myself I was in stained pyjamas with greasy Un-brushed hair and huge bags under my eyes! But we don’t show the world that side of being a new mum! Things will get easier for you and I’m sure you are doing a great job!!! Good luck lovely! Xx
I’m a mum and my baby was a snacker for the first 3 months. He would snack by the ounce for 8 weeks straight which meant I had no sleep for 2 months. Slowly that increased to hour and half and so on. Please do t drop feeds in the 4th trimester. If she’s waking up for a feed please feed her. My baby is 1 now and has a good diet during the day yet still wants 2 bottle feeds during the night. Each baby is different. But don’t deny feeds as they have growth spurts and some days will increase their intake.
Hi Molly, well done for getting to 6 weeks of breastfeeding ❤ If Bambi is hard to settle back to sleep during the night, it may be that she still needs those feeds. I think the recommendation is to try and wean the night feeds around 6 months for formula fed babies 🙂 Of course every baby is different, my daughter started sleeping through the night on her own around 12 weeks. I’m sure your health care provider will tell you what’s best and will keep an eye on her weight
I really enjoyed this video! But being a new mommy myself if your baby is waking up multiple times in the night then please feed her, my baby is nearly 6 months and still wakes up once in the night for a feed so its totally normal 💗💗
It’s biologically normal for a baby to wake , it’s a protector against SIDS. Please don’t drop feeds this early the babies need to wake this young 🥺
Absolutley! Really sadly the pressure to make babies sleep through is societal and honestly just adds stress for mum and dad! It is so normal for babies to wake be it for comfort or hunger or just because they have immature circadian rhythm. All babies will sleep through when they are ready. 😊❤️You’re doing just great! Xx
Are all the RUclips doctors in full force today?
@@morganwilliamson2915 RUclips midwife actually 😂
@@victoriarose310 fair enough.. it’s also aimed at the rest of the comments, not everyone in these comments are nurses 😊
@Morgan williamson many of them have received their information from nurses or midwives though, if they are parents, or through research. Plenty of reliable NHS backed resources out there - la leche, etc.
Please feed her if she’s hungry. There is so much info out there and it’s overwhelming for first time mums but 10 weeks is tiny! Some babies still need a night feed up to a year old! If she’s sleeping through on her own without a feed then fine but if she’s waking hungry please don’t deprive her 😢
The hug and twirl with Bambi at 24 mins touched my heart. I do that with my baby all the time and it’s the best feeling holding them so close 🥹
☆ Cluster feeds and night feeds should be baby led on demand. Till they start newborn/infant solids so 4mths to 6mos depending on Pediatrician Doctor, baby, and parents.
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Also the thick suit in car seat is not so much for overheating as it is for safety in the straps. The thicker outfit means straps are not as snug to her. If she wore that to bed at night then yes overheating could be an issue depending on weather.
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Getting a period is not an indication of low breastmilk supply. Everybodys hormones are different so everyone gets monthly cycle back at diff times. How much she was getting while nursing is usually different to how much comes out whilst pumping. That doesnt mean she was not getting enough milk. That means that is how long feeds take her.
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My 2nd baby was same always attached to me. My sanity went bezerk but it was what baby needed for emotional affectionate bonding. My firstborn wasnt much easier. They are 7 and 3. Night wakes dont always get much better depending on ec kids personalities. What we want as parents goes out the window unfortunetly and we tend to our children how they Each Individually Require it ALL. 🥰😇😍🤩
You look fantastic and Bambi is adorable!! I just wanted to say for other mums maybe on here who have listened to your story re breastfeeding that it is common for babies to feed up to an hour or more at 2 weeks, 6 weeks and 3 months. They are cluster feeding to build up your supply as they transition through a growth spurt. There is the same amount of milk but they will cluster for days/weeks to get your milk supply right. Just an FYI for those who may think they have no supply and might give up without wanting to. You smashed it by doing it for 6 full weeks, it's so hard but creates such a lovely bond. ❤❤
congratulations molly! ur daughter is adorable 💞 i had my daughter at 20 and she’s 8 months now. i never really like people telling me what to do with my baby but i do want to quickly say what made things a lot easier for me and what i wish i knew sooner.
if baby is still waking up at night feed her, at 10 weeks they’re only drinking few ounces (just assuming for you) so they most likely will get hungry again soon. if baby is getting all the milk she wants during the day it could lead to her being satisfied throughout the night
for me having baby sitting up right for her to wind worked wonders for me. best position for winding. gripe water helps with the discomfort from gas
last thing, to get baby to sleep through the night have the same night time routine every night ( i used to hate being told this because newborns do what they want, how can you put a routine in place when they wake up when they want 😭) but keep bedtime roughly around the same time every night, bedtime is always in a dark room with a dimmed lamp if you want so you can see, white noise helps babies sleep and before you know it they’ll get used to it all and start to understand that this is the time to sleep. my daughter sleeps amazingly after having a bath. bath time, fresh nappy/clothes, warm bottle dark/ dimmed room… perfect 💞 also in the mornings draw the curtains, let light in so it can be nice and bright, then bedtime close up for a darker room. babies don’t have the same circadian rhythm as us when they’re born but being in brightness during the day and darkness at night helps regulate that for them. keep daytime naps in a bright room and only make the room dark for bedtime. this will help them understand the difference in daytime and bedtime.
i hope this helps xx i’m never judging i want motherhood to easily on all of us so i love to share what’s helped me especially after having a baby so young. love you molly keep doing u, you’re honestly amazing and so inspiring xx
These are great tips! My baby is 10 months and these are all things I wish I'd known sooner!
Another little thing I found worked great before bath time was taking 5 to 10 minutes walk outside in a baby sling, the fresh air just knocked mine right out for bed 😝
Night feeds are so hard especially when baby doesn't fit the norm.. my little guy woke up every 2 hours until he was nearly 8 months! I was told once he started solids around 6 months he would sleep better but mine also teethed quiet early, first tooth at 3.5 months and had 6 teeth by 7 months (now had 8 at 10 months🙈)! Then one day randomly he slept through the night at 8 months, when I woke up naturally at 5 am and realised he hadn't woke since midnight I never jumped out of that bed so fast to go check on him 😂
Just for anybody watching this that may also be on a breastfeeding journey. Your period can return at any point whilst breastfeeding, it doesn't indicate low milk supply. You can still continue to breastfeed even after your period returns
Glad someone commented this! Still so many myths about breastfeeding 😅😅
unless of course your milk supply dries up, like Molly's has
@@sfrancies87 It is common to have a drop in supply at certain points in your cycle, often from mid-cycle to around the time of your period. But these changes are temporary and things return to normal pretty quickly for most women. Every woman is different, it could be likely her milk supply dropped for another reason or multiple reasons etc.
Yes I had a periods while breastfeeding and I did it for the first year
I have been breastfeeding for nearly 9 months now, and my period came back after 8 weeks, I now have a period every month now they’re very regular and I notice my supply drops slightly when I’m on, but for any new mums don’t panic! If you are happy to continue breastfeeding don’t worry, your supply should go back to normal once your period has finished xx
You definitely need to feed Bambi during the night. From 11pm - 7am is a really really long time for a 10 week old baby. Also 2 hours is super normal for a breastfeeding session. If you’ve decided that you want to use a bottle that’s completely fine but you need to make sure you’re feeding her properly. It’s like not feeding you all day she’ll be starving and not get the right nutrients or development without milk for 8 hours. Please please talk to your midwife / care team about this.
I thought the same baby’s change their sleep routine all the time , mine sure did and he slept through some nights and some he wanted a bottle and I wouldn’t never stop him from having one and he’s 6 month I think for a 10 week old baby that is ridiculous x
@@elliemarie3786 100% agree. The fact Bambi is waking for milk and she’s not giving it to her is awful and upsetting. People make mistakes but you can’t afford to with a new born baby!
@@livvyoj4509 thing is too she’s giving out some wrong advice to new mothers who look for this sort of information especially the part wear this is the time they start going off their bottles in a night , when it really isn’t at all and saying baby’s can’t wear a pram suit in the car seat cause they will over heat but it’s because if there’s an accident the seat belt of the car seat with not support her properly due to the extra room from the thick clothing xx
@@elliemarie3786 Yeah it is worrying. I hope someone will educate her. If I was in her position I wouldn’t mention anything online unless I have got the information from my GP/midwife as like you said new mums might think they’re doing something wrong because of the advice she’s giving out
Literally thought the same , baby is not settling because she's hungry x
I was so happy to see this notification you’re videos are so real and relatable 🦋 Bambi is very lucky you’re such an amazing family and we’re all glad you’re back 🩷
A ten week old BABY shouldn't be denied food. Stop being lazy because you want sleep..
This is disgusting and horrible.
You can't tell a ten week old baby no milk.
Your basically saying that it's ok to have a baby crying starving hungry because you can't be arsed to feed at night.
Hearing you talk about your youtube followers, and how much you appreciate them, made me feel part of it ... We are here to support you and send good vibes only! 💕
@Constanza Guerinoni why she does not care she just likes the money she gets from all you sad people who watch get a life
Molly please please do not ignore night feeds. I have a maximum of 2 hours sleep a night my baby is my 4th and she's almost 15montjs old. You did 6weeks which is incredible. But please still give her feeds at night you may find she only wants 1 feed if she's waking up through the night especially a great deal please understand she's hungry she's in pain. It's not just something she fancies she's needs the feeds. Hunger is pain. That needs to be acknowledged. I feel like you really need some decent support. She's your first baby it's so hard and you are doing great but mum's aren't perfect. We all need help whether it's our first of fifteenth nothing is easy. Please get some accurate support. And Give her night feeds to avoid her pain
Hey Molly (and any other new mums), the advice not to wear the pram suit in the car seat isn't because bub can overheat. It's because in an accident the seatbelt will compress the pram suit and bub can slip out of the car seat because of the extra room in the seat belt. Always take off the pram suit (or thick jumper), then just lay it over bub once they're properly buckled in.
I don’t usually comment on these but as a new mum myself (6 weeks old) I will not be weaning him off milk at night at 10 weeks old! If the baby is waking for milk which she clearly is feed her.
The way you described drying up as she was constantly on the boob, this is actually very normal and is called cluster feeding where she goes through growth spurts and ups your supply and it can sometimes mean baby is constantly on the boob. You would’ve still had a supply ❤
I didn’t think baby’s are supposed to drop night feeds until 6 months when they start to have solids, she’s seems so young to not feed in the night x
They’re not supposed to drop night feeds until baby stops waking for night feeds! That’s usually long after 6 months and honestly, long after a year!
This girl needs help and i hope she gets it fast. Kids having kids same old story
Actually your baby drops a feed by 6 weeks from 6 feeds to 5 feeds. Also after 3months it’s very normal to start sleep training which sounds like what she’s trying to do. Nothing wrong with what she’s doing
@@courtneyanderson4921 they really don’t. A breastfed baby should be feeding as and when they need it, wether that’s every hour or every few hours. But if a baby that young is waking at night, it’s usually because they’re hungry. Sleep training is a whole different thing, not giving your baby milk isn’t how sleep training works. Sleep training is also not an ideal method as babies and children need comfort. Waking at night massively reduces the risk of SIDS x
@@DipIlusion While she’s definitely been misinformed when it comes to breastfeeding, it actually has nothing to do with her age. I had mine at 19 and chose to learn the correct information!
I’m glad I’ve come onto the comments and seen people giving advice and knowledge in a kind way. Every new mum needs help and everyone gets stuff wrong!
Babies at 10 weeks shouldn’t be going through the night without a feed, and if a baby is waking for a feed you shouldn’t deprive them of that at such a young age.
Also, the 2 hour feeds would be cluster feeding. Which is SO normal and not a sign of low supply. Not all babies do it but it is so common and a way of upping supply and/or because they’re having a growth spurt.
Really hope Molly reads these comments and takes the advice with night feeds! Xx
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You look glowing Molly, so glad you’re back 🥰
Completely agree with you there ❤🎉
i love your little family so much, your vlogs make me so happy, and is the best part of my day getting to watch you and bambam
Welcome back- we’ve missed you -what a loving gorgeous little family ❤
I’m just loving this baby content. I also have a new born and its so nice seeing you go through it! Feels so connected. Bambi is JUST GORG! You all must be so proud.
Night feeds are needed if baby wakes for one - there is also a huge benefit from frequent night waking - a reduction in the risk of SID’s. Babies have sleep cycles of around 45 minutes, they are not biologically designed to link sleep cycles and frequent waking can stop them becoming in distress and being unable to rouse. When breastfeeding a mums sleep cycle starts to sync with her babies to alert Mum if there are any issues with baby too. Cool right?
If your baby naturally sleeps longer that is okay too, but only if its natural and not induced by sleep training or refusing night feeds.
Molly Mae reported feeling like she didn’t have enough milk in the night - when Bambi is more likely to be cluster feeding - we know this is a common misconception.
Bambi was EBF for 6 weeks and then Molly Mae felt her supply was getting too low. There is a huge growth spurt around this age which causes an increase in cluster feeding activity.
As breastfeeding professionals, we are often faced with Mums who feel they must not have enough milk when babies are cluster feeding and this common misconception is why a lot of mums stop breastfeeding before they wanted to so it’s important we address these misconceptions.
Molly Mae also stated babies should not be needing a feed between 11pm and 7am - were not sure where she has gotten this information from as its highly inaccurate. This is again a common issue with how popular the sleep training industry has become and it’s not fair to new mums, it gives them unrealistic ideals of baby feeding and baby sleep. Mums are being let down by being fed inaccurate information.
Molly Mae also talks about her period returning as a signal she doesn’t have enough milk and again this is completely inaccurate.
Periods can come back at any time, some women get their periods back 8 weeks postpartum, some 6 months, some 12 months and some not until they’ve stopped breastfeeding.
As trained professionals we wouldn’t advise actively night weaning until bare minimum 12 months but ideally 18 months plus. Milk is a child’s main source of nutrition until 12 months and then at 18 months it still makes up around 1/3 of a child’s nutritional needs. There is evidence showing breast milk tailors to a child’s needs until minimum 4 (but most likely for as long as a child feeds).
Cutting out night feeds prematurely can negatively affect supply, going for long periods of time in-between emptying the breast signals you don’t need as much milk and your supply drops. Frequent emptying of the breast promotes more milk.
Night waking is completely normal, and we know breastfeeding doesn’t only help with hunger but also helps with comfort, pain relief and much more, so not feeding may not necessarily change how often baby wakes either.
Molly Mae also talks about how Bambi would fall asleep attached to the breast and stay there which her friends told her wasn’t normal - but it is very normal!! Babies love to be close to their mums, their smell, heartbeat, sound etc is all babies has known for the last 9 months and its very common for babies in the 4thtrimester to want to be close and latched on to mum, they have a strong suckling reflex too this all aids a good supply and is all biologically normal and natural.
It seems Molly Mae is yet another victim to unrealistic sleep and feeding goals fed in to by the sleep training community and formula industry, as a population we have been pushed so far away from biological norms and it’s not okay! Molly Mae has been given inaccurate, misleading, and false information that has been detrimental to her breastfeeding journey, and she deserves better. As she’s spoken openly about her struggles on a public platform those myths are also now going viral which people are blaming her for, but she can’t know what she doesn’t know. She’s a new mum on her first ever breastfeeding journey and has been severely let down!
At BFLS we strive to support all parents on their feeding journey, provide up to date, evidence based and accurate information to allow people an informed choice around feeding their babies. This post isn’t to shame or generate hate towards Molly Mae, but to address the inaccurate information she has been given.
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hi molly, just to let you know, overheating isnt the only reason you shouldnt put a baby in a all in one or a coat. If you got in a car accident your baby would unfortunately come out of the seat, due to the straps not being tight to her body, it creates a gap which in impact would not protect her. It doesnt matter the distance of your journey, please always put her coat on when you have got out of the car.
Also, in regards to breastfeeding, baby constantly wanting to feed is called cluster feeding, it is perfectly normal, all breastfed babies do it. I know you thought your supply was low, but it is possible to create a larger supply, if you would still like to carry on your breastfeeding journey reach out to a specialist and ask for help, it doesnt matter that you haven’t fed in the last few weeks - you should still get your supply back. hope this helps x
sorry forgot to mention that your period wont stop your milk supply. if your supply is low you may be having a bit of difficulty for another reason, but it can be worked on with help from a specialist x
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Both you and Zoe posting in the Sam day what a treat 🥰
6 weeks or 6 days you did amazingly angel! Love watching these vlogs and love YOU! You’re such a natural mumma xxxx
She was cluster feeding to establish your supply. It is exhausting at the start and feels like they aren’t off there. But it does get better once supply is established. It is extremely rare to have low supply. Studies show even women in poor nations have good quality breastmilk.
If you weren’t an influencer social would have been called and would have checked on that baby. It’s not okay to refuse feeds when the baby is waking frequently. Your poor baby is waking to be fed and you’re telling her no. It’s cruel.
Starting your period is in no way a sign that your breastmilk isn’t where it should be. You can still have periods while breastfeeding olease done post misinformation.
I was so sad and sick today and you posted and really made my day. You’re so sweet and authentic, and a great mum. Love you Molly ❤
Hope you feel better x
Feel better soon 🩷
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A 10 week old baby SHOULD be fed through the night.
Also - pram suit in a car seat isn’t just about overheating. It’s about the safety in a crash, whether it’s a a 2 minute trip or 2 hour trip you can still be crashed into or crash. The suit adds space between straps & baby causing serious preventable damage by taking off the suit.
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This is so hard to listen to, because of the misinformation in this video which is being spread to millions. I don’t blame Molly for a moment, because she doesn’t know what she doesn’t know, but a few facts for anyone who wants to breastfeed:
• Sometimes a feed will last 5 minutes, other times (when your baby is trying to increase your milk supply), it will last for hours. This is normal & essential for increasing your supply. It’s like your baby sending a signal to your brain which says, “More milk please!” Your milk production will respond within a few days. I didn’t know this either as a new mama, because lactation education is so poor.
• Some mamas, me included - do get their period back within weeks & it has nothing to do with your milk. It is not a sign that you are not producing enough. It could be a symptom of not feeding on demand 24/7 of you have put your baby into a routine at such an early age. Responsive, on demand feeding is recommended for the first 6 months of a babies life. If you are away from babe for more than a few hours in the early months, you are more likely to see your period return quickly.
• It really is risky to leave a 10 month old baby without a feed for 8 hours at a time. Please, please speak to a medical professional about these choices 🙏🏽
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By the way, the way you talk to Bambi is just lovely. She will be such a great communicator when she is older
I absolutely adore you 3 as a family. Molly you are an incredible mother. Thankyou for being so open & honest about your journey. Literally so proud
Having your period is NOT an indication of low supply. This is false information. Babies SHOULD still be feeding during the night - this can happen until they are 1+ years old.
She was possibly cluster feeding and babies wake up at night are possibly hungry. My 3rd baby is currently 10 months and wakes every 2/3 hours for a breasfeed. But well done on 6 weeks. Its amazing x
Guys there is so much misinformation regarding breastfeeding in this video. I would urge everyone to educate themselves. 😓
This is so lovely and wholesome! Thank you for letting us come on this journey with you and you’re family
P.s the whole car seat thing, so it’s not just that she could over heat it’s also that she is not actually secure in the seat because of how thick the body suit is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Welcome back Molly!! We have all missed you so so much. Every single comment is love and kindness just like you deserve ❤️ you and Tommy make the best team and parents to little Bambi!! Would love for you to post more regularly as we love you endless amounts🫶🏼🤍
You’re actually such a beautiful down to earth person and you’re so humble you deserve everythingg!❤️
Love that you are keeping things real - Bambi is one day older than my little one. Slowly starting to feel myself again as well, it’s a long journey.
You got this mumma! 😊❤
I’m a trained breastfeeding support peer. The most important feeds are between midnight and 5am because this is when your prolactin levels are at their highest. Prolactin is the milk making chef and our babies know this, so it’s natural for them to feed at night.
Nope, breastfeeding does not deny a period returning, especially when you don’t breastfeed for hours at night. Gosh this girl has lots of followers to be giving this incorrect medical advice.
If you’re in the first 4-6 weeks, then baby needs to be producing 2x£1 coin sized poos per day and six heavy wet nappies. If you’re in doubt as to what’s going in, watch what is coming out.
Feeding for hours is called cluster feeding and it’s normal - unless it’s not normal. So if feeding is pain free and there’s lots of nappy output then yep, normal. Very tiring but happens during growth spurts and when they’re adjusting to the fourth trimester. Optimising latch and adding in breast compressions can support with how long feeds take.
Please follow IBCLCs for breastfeeding information. Not influencers who don’t have qualifications on the subject.
If you’re denying milk overnight, I’d suspect the baby will make up for it at some point so two hour feeds seem reasonable from the babies POV.
Just watched further on. 🤦🏻♀️ we don’t put puffy coats in car seats because they fly out their seats in a crash. Not because of overheating - although that is another good reason.
Still waking here to feed (breast still) my 1 year old. Not “necessary” but I’m responding to his needs and when he’s ready, he will sleep though. 10 weeks is WILD. Motherhood is tough but they’re the priority, not our sleep needs.
Your sleep needs are important though as you Dont want to fall asleep with them in your arms because your sleep deprived
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I love seeing your videos/posts but I must say I’m actually nervous knowing that you’re only feeding your baby to suit your night time routine at this early stage. It’s critical you feed through the night regardless of how much sleep you’re getting or not getting. The baby’s development is paramount. I hope you get to speak with a professional about this and they direct you properly. Much love ❤
At 10 weeks if she wakes in the night you need to feed her thats super ealy shes still a baby baby....she's hungry you can't just say no wer not feeding you😳 you need to feed her ... she will slow down feeding when she's ready you can't just make that decision for her .. she must be so hungry thru the night bless her🥴
Love it when you upload but It wasn’t funny finding out things about Molly since I read certain things and I didn’t like what I saw, in my own "about" tab is better explained, anyway. Thank you so much for sharing everything with us 💞
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Just so you know, no pramsuit should be on in the carseat not just because of the risk of overheating but because the straps aren’t at all effective at holding baby in the seat in the case of a crash. Not worth the risk. ❤
Molly you look like you’ve taken so well to motherhood but please don’t deprive Bambi of those night time feeds, she needs them! 10 weeks is far to early to be dropping those, whoever has given you this information you really need to go back to them and confirm because this is not correct medical information and could really hinder Bambi’s key growth. She’s still so little and needs those nutrients form her milk. If she’s waking and you’re having to settle her, she will be waking for a feed not just a cuddle 😭💔
Encouraging longer stretches of sleep at this age, especially as a formula fed baby, increases SIDS risk. Night waking and night feeds are developmentally normal for 6-12 months, to ‘train’ her is completely wrong.
me (not a mom) enjoying you and tommy’s dream to become parents. i love this so much for y’all 🫶🏻💓✨🌈
Your Sleep should not be the priority, they need to feed, shouldn’t drop till atleast 12 months as milk is what they need till 1 years old!! And cluster feeding is why she’s drinking loads🤦🏼♀️ go see a breastfeeding professional
Become a mum is hard hard work!!! Every mum in the world deserves a medal!!! Your doing amazing!!! I did 6 weeks of breastfeeding and got a virus and was really poorly so I had to stop and I was still proud of myself!! My fiancé works 12 hour shifts 6 days a week so don’t get anytime to do to the gym which upsets me but it is what it is and this body created a human being I am in-bracing it 😁💙
You are doing amazing! Honestly the days are long but the years are fast. Please feed little Bambi in the night, I know it is so incredibly hard being sleep deprived but baby girl is waking up due to hunger.
Before you know it she’ll be naturally sleeping through and you’ll miss those night time cuddles. You could look into “dream feeding” and wake windows/sleep routine for each baby stage, that really worked for me. Just know you’re doing great and the full night sleeps are on their way
Your baby is only 10 weeks and should obviously be fed if she wakes up at night crying. You are not supposed to «teach» such little baby to sleep through the night without milk, babies are supposed to be fed on demand, including at night time.
My daughter is 9 months and usually sleeps through the night, but if she wakes up at night crying I always feed her. She ultimately settles and goes right back to sleep; meaning she needed it. Please feed your litte baby at night, she is still so little and needs it.
Not being mean, just wanted to let you know ❤
Of course I always feed her if she’s hungry. I know the difference between her hungry cry and her needing a comfort cry. I would never deny her of milk if she was actually hungry 🙂
I understand, but 11 PM to 7 AM is too long for a 2 month old baby to not feed. At that age, she can’t possibly not be hungry if she keeps waking up at night. Between 11 and 7 she should at least have one feed. You said yourself that she wakes up expecting miIk, so why don’t you offer her milk? I think it is important for us as mothers to not rush or expect our babies to be able to go through the night without feeding when they’re only a few weeks old. Dropping nighttime feeds CAN be encouraged when she starts solids (at 4 months), but not earlier, according to the guidelines here in my country. Most babies will need feeding a night up until at least 6 months. I would really advise you to speak with your public health nurse about this ❤
@@mollymae9879 A formula fed baby at 2 months old needs feeding every 3-4 hours regardless if it is day or night time. Babies this young are not yet biologically able to go a whole night without milk. You can’t refuse your baby milk for 8 hours because you want to «force» a routine. That is very wrong. You should not follow the clock, but the babys sign for hunger ♥️
Every baby is different. At two months old my baby wasn’t waking for a night feed and I was told it was fine
@@Nicola-ul6bt if your baby does not wake up, that is totally fine. But I am talking about when baby is waking up, crying and unsettled.
Molly is literally my favourite new RUclipsr as a young first time mum I find your honesty so refreshing❤, Molly and Tommy make me crease🤣
Please feed bambi in the night. If she is waking up for it then she needs it, you can’t put off feeding her when she’s this little. Some babies do sleep though at this age without milk which is fine, but it’s very normal for them not to and still be waking up for milk. My first was sleeping through by 3 months, my second is not close at all but I still feed him through the night cause it’s what he needs and wants
Completely agree with this.
Completely agree, no wonder Bambi was feeding for hours in the day, obviously starving at night and trying to fill up!
@@Kerry677 she always gets fed when she's hungry. Molly was trying to explain that Bambi typically wakes up in the night for comfort, so she tries not to feed her when this is the reason she's awake. However, if she does wake up for a feed, she gets fed.
@@alicevictoriaball no. She quite clearly said she’s going 11pm to 7am with no milk, but is waking throughout the night wanting milk. She is 10 weeks, so if she’s waking in the night wanting milk, you give her milk ( whether that’s milk for comfort or hunger etc). Though considering is 11pm-7am with no milk, I can promise it’s not just comfort she wants but hunger too
@@alicevictoriaball that’s not what she said. She said the baby is looking for milk. A baby is born with a marble sized stomach, it grows obviously but it’s not usually a big stomach, not enough to keep them satiated all through the night usually. For some obviously it will be but pretty infrequently.
please please please respond to her in the night for feeds at 10 weeks old. usually 6 months is the age where they are safe to drop night feeds xx
This is a very inaccurate information that if you have your period you need to stop breastfeeding.
I had my period and I’m still breastfeeding. The same happened to my first son. I did that for 2 years actually. I don’t know where she got this information from but it is totally wrong.
I can understand to say that it was too overwhelming to exclusively breastfeeding and decided to do bottle feed because it’s normal.
I’m cluster feeding my second and it is great because I’m not too tired if I would have exclusively breastfeeding because it is quite tiring and difficult at times.
But please don’t spread misinformation for new mums or mums to be.
Also a baby needs feeding , especially at 10 weeks. They don’t understand that you are tired as a parent but they do need food.
My second son still wanted milk but he would not wake up 4-5 times at night but just at 5 am or 8 am from 10 weeks . However, whenever he would wake up I would feed him. Xx
I’ve been breastfeeding for 2 years and I got a period at 6 weeks after birth, it doesn’t affect your supply or indicate anything 💖x
Omg can’t wait to watch this ❤ I’m in hospital with my baby girl and we have had a long 7 weeks but she’s now stable enough to have a bath 🛁 so after she’s had her bath I’m going to really enjoy watching this well done getting you 1st vlog done I’m still all over the place your doing amazing.. Beautiful little family x x
Completely your choice that you decided to stop breastfeeding but complete misinformation that because you came on your period it meant you had no milk. I have been exclusively breastfeeding now for a year this month and had a period 6 weeks after giving birth and regularly every single month since. Yes, it’s uncommon and most people don’t get a period but in no way shape or form is it an indication of your supply.
Love you show how it really is as a full time mum and still trying to get everything done really show how real you are
Loved this so much, it’s adorable watching you with your little family. Welcome back, we missed you ❤
Watching molly mae be a mum is so wholesome
I breastfed for 18 months n got a period throughout. Baby has always been healthy so it's no indication of milk supply x
The baby is 10 weeks old ffs, it's 100% normal for a 10 week old baby to feed through the night. Babies that young feed every 2-3 hours! Im concerned 😟
Yeah it's hard, you want you're old life back, you're desperate for rest, but your baby comes first now!