I felt bad for her too until I found out she got back together with her ex (who she's still married to) almost immediately after Jason dumped her. So she really wasn't that heartbroken she was just embarrassed for getting dumped on national television by her fiance for his ex Molly. (who wouldn't be though?) In the end, it ended up working out for all of them.
I'm so happy it worked out in the end and that both jason and melissa got their happy ending even though it wasnt them being together.I love Molly she seems like such a genuine person.
In 25 seasons of the Bachelor, only one (Sean Lowe) has picked to get engaged at the end to the woman they would marry. All of the other Bachelors either dump their winner and get with the 2nd or 3rd place, or they pick someone and break up, or they just don’t pick anyone at all. The Bachelorette is way more successful, which is why I prefer it.
Melissa was in a rebound relationship so I didn't see why she was so upset, Jason made a mistake by picking her, but he did the right thing and chose Molly, Melissa went right back to her Ex, that means she never got over him, never taught she was the right one anyhow, she should've came on the show anyhow, she with who she should be with anyhow in the first place, I pick Molly and I'm glad he did too, I'm sure she's happy and their are happy.
You have to remember that any relationship or marriage works because both parties fight to make it better. He didn’t want to put effort in Melissa, and he’s obviously still with Holly because he has.
I still remember this season and being so hurt for Melissa and thinking Jason was a douche, but I was also a kid myself and didnt understand how manipulative reality tv can be. The truth is the show portrayed Molly like a mean girl (I remember NEVER liking or understanding what Jason saw in her or kept her around for) and Melissa was of course the good girl and the "fan favourtie" but its sooo obvious now that he clearly chose Melissa from the pressure of the public (the producers too probably) and instead of going with his gut feeling....and now look at them!
First of all, Melissa didn't deserve that. He should have tried harder for their relationship. Second of all, if I were Molly and Jason told me he made a mistake and wants me back, I would be so pissed. I would not give him the satisfaction of getting back together with him. He had his chance to choose Molly and he didn't. How pathetic that he's was there begging for her back now.
Somebody already commented about Molly's reaction but isn't there truth behind that? Wasn't there some controversy about this at the time if I remember? Because Molly looked shocked when Jason told her he'd rather be with her but they were basically together already by then? So Molly was obviously pretending to be surprised, or no?
The piece of music at the opening - that's the music used for the rose ceremony in the older Bachelor/Bachelorette seasons. 2-3 years ago they stopped using this piece of music. Why?? Pls bring back this piece of music!!!
Listen to Kate Casey 's podcast. Melissa tells her side of this. Melissa is the example for the term "Class Act" ! She truly is ! Please listen to Reality Life with Kate Casey podcast!! Loved hearing that Melissa has ZERO ill will towards Jason & molly!
Molly should change her name to Plan B. Jason picked Melissa but things didn't work out so he had Plan B to fall back on. IDK about you guys but fuck that shit, I aint no plan b.
Let’s all just take a moment to see that Lauren said almost exact same thing Molly did about “dreaming it’d happen but never thought it would” hmmmmm staged??? Maybe?
no he isn't, he did the right thing, it would have been worse in the long run, you trying going on a show with that same setup you literally have to be in love with 2 women at the end, it would most definitely be a hard choice. Sorry men are not built like woman.
I still think Molly knew this was going to happen before it did. She has almost a smirk on her face- and why would she show up all chipper? The guy supposedly broke her heart and was in love with and engaged to another woman. That’s not how any woman in the history of this show has approached the bachelor on ATFR. Ever. They had to have been talking- or spoke before this meeting and she knew what he was gonna do. And I’m not saying they did anything wrong- clearly he made the wrong choice he’s been w Molly for quite some time now and Melissa is happy as well in her life. I’m just stating the obvious
To this day I still believe Jason proposed to Melissa on impulse. She was fun and exciting, his son seemed to like her a lot, and she was the obvious choice so he settled. But the woman he really wanted to be with was Molly. Do you remember how devastated he was breaking up with Molly and having to send her home? The man was bawling his eyes out. You don't do that over a woman you aren't in love with. He clearly didn't want to let her go. That's why he quickly realized he made a mistake and ended things before they got any further with Melissa. It was actually good of him to do that rather than realize it after they were already married for a few years or something. It actually ended up working out for all of them because Jason and Molly are still happily married and have a few kids and Melissa ended up getting back together with her ex boyfriend who she ended things with before she went on the show. She's now still married to him as well and they also have kids.
whatever jason follow your heart, but I think it's really arrogant of him to act all tearful and helpless to it. I don't understand people being so sympathetic, congratulatory even , towards such a disrespectful act. like be a grown up and just take responsibility for your shitty behavior.
What a horrible and humiliating thing to do to a human being...WOW!!! why didn't you just end things with her in private, such a beautiful girl, she did not deserve that, and I'm sure you will regret it one day.. like she said.. your a bastard!! and abc.. you guys are so horrible, for doing this so you can get rating... sad... Melissa, you will find your true love, Thank God that this happened, because your true love is searching for you beautiful lady
Orquidea Del Norte she’s been married for years. She went on The Bachelor to make her ex jealous and she got back together with him right after she and Jason broke up.
How interesting & Awkward would it be if Ava (Melissa & Tye's Daughter) & Riley (Jason & Molly's Daughter) met and became BFFL's or if Riley met and dates either of Melissa & Tye's Sons Beckett or Cayson when they're older. That would be like a Forbidden Friendship or a Romeo & Juliet Situation if that happened !!!
I really feel for Melissa. She’s so sweet and doesn’t deserve what he did to her.
Intellivision Master Melissa’s amazingly beautiful, and she deserves the world
Facts he did he wrong
She's happily married with 3 kids
And ten + years later, Jason made the right decision.
I felt bad for her too until I found out she got back together with her ex (who she's still married to) almost immediately after Jason dumped her. So she really wasn't that heartbroken she was just embarrassed for getting dumped on national television by her fiance for his ex Molly. (who wouldn't be though?) In the end, it ended up working out for all of them.
...Molly and Jason are still together; with a kid. It all kinda turned out right.
And Melissa as well. She is married with kids.
rnaefaletui still was a "bush league" move
And Melissa has a few kids with her Mr. Right. It was heartbreaking on the Bachelor but it turned out good in the end
@@IWantToMature85 no it wasn't, he did the right thing or it would have been worse in the long run, you trying going on a show with that same setup.
@@alonsiuemanagerie747 so fuck melissa feelings 😅 is what ur trying to say
Ben Higgins acting skills pretending to read the poster at the start though
+TheElainelainelaine lol!
TheElainelainelaine I hate that shit hahahah
Lmbo
The way Molly said HI, damn you can tell she already knew what was coming
Ria Dextre if you listen to Kaitlyn Bristoes podcast, all of this was preplanned by producers and all parties knew what was going to happen.
I would be so pissed if I was Melissa
Molly should be pissed too! This guy is such a joke
I'm so happy it worked out in the end and that both jason and melissa got their happy ending even though it wasnt them being together.I love Molly she seems like such a genuine person.
Any of this watching because the drama that was revealed about Arie and Becca and Lauren B today???
Been waiting all these years for someone to pull a “Mesnick” and it sounds like it may finally be happening again.
Jayne Karinova I hope Becca becomes the next bachelorette
beccakufrinforbachelorette
I think they said that she will be they mentioned it just today
I love my Noodle She is. Its confirmed.
Alexa Petterson
Thanks👍
In 25 seasons of the Bachelor, only one (Sean Lowe) has picked to get engaged at the end to the woman they would marry. All of the other Bachelors either dump their winner and get with the 2nd or 3rd place, or they pick someone and break up, or they just don’t pick anyone at all. The Bachelorette is way more successful, which is why I prefer it.
every time i watch these videos i cant help but smile in the beginning with ben holding the signs all cute lol
He was an ass for doing that to her on tv tho.
It is supposed to be on TV
rnaefaletui once you sign that contract theirs no going back, everything has to be on tv.
Right like that’s so messed up and he was with Melissa for months after the engagement....smh
Melissa said in some interview that they had already broken up at that point. Idk
Yeah it’s the risk you take on these shows when you sign those contracts
And they are still together in 2022! Good for you guys!
Did she just refer to herself in the third person? “ you put a ring on Melissa’s finger....” now that’s crazy talk
Jimmy didn't get to know Elaine Benes, but maybe Jimmy can get to know Melissa.
Brandon Piegari 😂😂😂
He and Molly are perfect for each other.
Melissa was in a rebound relationship so I didn't see why she was so upset, Jason made a mistake by picking her, but he did the right thing and chose Molly, Melissa went right back to her Ex, that means she never got over him, never taught she was the right one anyhow, she should've came on the show anyhow, she with who she should be with anyhow in the first place, I pick Molly and I'm glad he did too, I'm sure she's happy and their are happy.
Watching this to prepare myself for the drama that's about to go down lol.
Hahahaha same
Me too 😄
Well she ended up rich and with her ex boyfriend so she turned out just fine
They eventually have two children with the third one to be expected in a couple of weeks.
You have to remember that any relationship or marriage works because both parties fight to make it better. He didn’t want to put effort in Melissa, and he’s obviously still with Holly because he has.
I still remember this season and being so hurt for Melissa and thinking Jason was a douche, but I was also a kid myself and didnt understand how manipulative reality tv can be. The truth is the show portrayed Molly like a mean girl (I remember NEVER liking or understanding what Jason saw in her or kept her around for) and Melissa was of course the good girl and the "fan favourtie" but its sooo obvious now that he clearly chose Melissa from the pressure of the public (the producers too probably) and instead of going with his gut feeling....and now look at them!
First of all, Melissa didn't deserve that. He should have tried harder for their relationship. Second of all, if I were Molly and Jason told me he made a mistake and wants me back, I would be so pissed. I would not give him the satisfaction of getting back together with him. He had his chance to choose Molly and he didn't. How pathetic that he's was there begging for her back now.
They weren’t right. Melissa is nice but comes across as an airhead. Why waste your time if you know the person isn’t t right?
i was very happy when he changed his mind, i knew molly was the one for him
THIS WAS ICONIC LMAOOOOO
Melissa is too pretty for him anyway
Yes she is
@edy Puentes still above his league 🤷♂️
It’s not about looks
Who's here 2018?!
Just a reminder that what Arie isn't all that new. Case in point...
That damn head band.... I cannot 😅
I'm here after Arie pulled a Jason last night.....
I would choose Molly from the beginning!!
Somebody already commented about Molly's reaction but isn't there truth behind that? Wasn't there some controversy about this at the time if I remember? Because Molly looked shocked when Jason told her he'd rather be with her but they were basically together already by then? So Molly was obviously pretending to be surprised, or no?
SoldiersGonePsycho yep. they talked before hand
Melissa and jason broke up prior to shooting this. They all knew what was going on.
He should have done this off camera.
no wonder they put this season on netflix... it’s just like peters season with hannah ann and madi
That was horrible what he did to Melissa!
There are worse things and I think she already knew
Not so horrible. She was always seeing her now husband back then. SHE was the cheater.
The piece of music at the opening - that's the music used for the rose ceremony in the older Bachelor/Bachelorette seasons. 2-3 years ago they stopped using this piece of music. Why?? Pls bring back this piece of music!!!
Listen to Kate Casey 's podcast. Melissa tells her side of this. Melissa is the example for the term "Class Act" ! She truly is ! Please listen to Reality Life with Kate Casey podcast!! Loved hearing that Melissa has ZERO ill will towards Jason & molly!
Aunt Tete why would she be mad, they broke up mutually.
This is what the Arie/Becca/Lauren situation reminded me of
Is it just me or do Arie’s conversations with Lauren and Becca sound almost exactly the same lmao
Ain’t that something arie and Lauren are married and expecting a girl in June
Molly should change her name to Plan B. Jason picked Melissa but things didn't work out so he had Plan B to fall back on. IDK about you guys but fuck that shit, I aint no plan b.
For real🙄
Let’s all just take a moment to see that Lauren said almost exact same thing Molly did about “dreaming it’d happen but never thought it would” hmmmmm staged??? Maybe?
He's a weird looking guy. And dumps a cheerleader. It's a man's world lol.
No, "reality" tv is a hotbed of attention hungry fucks.
** watching this because I lowkey hope Jojo pulls this on Jordan and says she wants Luke back **
Luke deserved so much better.
madi edits sorry this is weird but did you hear about the Luke Pell situation?
A. J. LMAO 😆 😂😂😂😂
What happened???
It's a good thing Jason changed his mind so he can be with Molly. If he didn't do that, their child would never have been born.
Now: Arie dumps Becca K after being engaged for two months; goes back to Lauren B. Season 22.
Becca should've gotten her man Russ back tbh.
All contestants on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette will eventually break up, including Trista and Ryan; so it was written in the sealed prophecies.
Yah , Melissa wasn't the right one there was no chemistry . Molly was and still the right women
no he isn't, he did the right thing, it would have been worse in the long run, you trying going on a show with that same setup you literally have to be in love with 2 women at the end, it would most definitely be a hard choice. Sorry men are not built like woman.
Melissa was right on
Jason`s, Arie`s & this season 2020 with Peter`s, DejaVu! If he marries Mady, then the similarities are even more obvious.
i didnt watch the video: i just rewatched ben's part he's so adorably cute holding the card and pretending to read it💋💋💋💋💋💋
I still think Molly knew this was going to happen before it did. She has almost a smirk on her face- and why would she show up all chipper? The guy supposedly broke her heart and was in love with and engaged to another woman. That’s not how any woman in the history of this show has approached the bachelor on ATFR. Ever. They had to have been talking- or spoke before this meeting and she knew what he was gonna do. And I’m not saying they did anything wrong- clearly he made the wrong choice he’s been w Molly for quite some time now and Melissa is happy as well in her life. I’m just stating the obvious
I love this moment .. mollys dreams came true lol
Now we can add peter weber this list
It is kind of gross that he kissed a lot of these women. Talking about spreading germs and diseases.
Chồng Tây Vợ Việt- USV & The World you need to if your going to marry the person
What she should have said wasn't hi but bye
hehe this was shown in bachelor spoof "burning love"
Molly is very forgiving ! Alot of woman would understanding be very insulted
I wonder how Molly feels about being the second choice? Yikes. Couldn’t be me!
To this day I still believe Jason proposed to Melissa on impulse. She was fun and exciting, his son seemed to like her a lot, and she was the obvious choice so he settled. But the woman he really wanted to be with was Molly. Do you remember how devastated he was breaking up with Molly and having to send her home? The man was bawling his eyes out. You don't do that over a woman you aren't in love with. He clearly didn't want to let her go. That's why he quickly realized he made a mistake and ended things before they got any further with Melissa. It was actually good of him to do that rather than realize it after they were already married for a few years or something. It actually ended up working out for all of them because Jason and Molly are still happily married and have a few kids and Melissa ended up getting back together with her ex boyfriend who she ended things with before she went on the show. She's now still married to him as well and they also have kids.
and this is why we don’t date j names😂
Hannah Ann copied Melissa - shook- it happened so long ago that people forgot or didn't want to bring it up
He looks a lot like Ted bundy
whatever jason follow your heart, but I think it's really arrogant of him to act all tearful and helpless to it. I don't understand people being so sympathetic, congratulatory even , towards such a disrespectful act. like be a grown up and just take responsibility for your shitty behavior.
Jason did the same thing to Mellisa that the girl who broke his heart did to him...
The whole premise is fake and contrived. Not surprising this happened. Only two contestants got married in 20 seasons which isn't saying much.
smart is not smart it is taxing
Arie dumped becca who became the next bachelorette but she couldn't find love in her show.
This is minor. What Arie did to Becca was way worst than this. He brutally humiliated her!
Tyre Smith well they cant do it like this anymore. Jason and melissa actually broke up in private prior to this finale.
Wanting rachel to do this to bryan and get back peter!
lmao what if Peter refused and she left with none lmao
Rosa low-key she'd deserve peter doing that to her. She's totally denying the extent of the relationship in recent interviews
marie because she'seen Peter's true colors (wanting to be the next bachelor)coming out shortly after the show. so you cannot blame her
why didn't he propose to Molly to begin with?
rachel lindsay should do that to Bryan
Too late for that now.
Let’s put Arie in this mix lol
My favorite bachelor moment! Never liked Melissa
On TV, man....
I don't feel bad for Melissa haha never liked her
What a horrible and humiliating thing to do to a human being...WOW!!! why didn't you just end things with her in private, such a beautiful girl, she did not deserve that, and I'm sure you will regret it one day.. like she said.. your a bastard!! and abc.. you guys are so horrible, for doing this so you can get rating... sad... Melissa, you will find your true love, Thank God that this happened, because your true love is searching for you beautiful lady
Orquidea Del Norte she’s been married for years. She went on The Bachelor to make her ex jealous and she got back together with him right after she and Jason broke up.
This was wrong what he did to Melissa.
I lost all respect for both Jason and Molly.
They’re happily married 12 years later, bye
Jason is not so good-looking ( besides being a jerk), but Ben is a cutie, and not to mention, a much better man.
I bet he's bald now.
he’s not 😮
This is some really bad acting especially by Melissa
How interesting & Awkward would it be if Ava (Melissa & Tye's Daughter) & Riley (Jason & Molly's Daughter) met and became BFFL's or if Riley met and dates either of Melissa & Tye's Sons Beckett or Cayson when they're older. That would be like a Forbidden Friendship or a Romeo & Juliet Situation if that happened !!!