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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @jajajimmyify
    @jajajimmyify Год назад +243

    Now we need the story of how you met your new beau, when and if you're ready to share it! ❤

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +97

      it's a funny meet cute. I'm happy I met him in real life and not on a dating app aahahah

    • @wmhfv992
      @wmhfv992 Год назад +4

      @@JuliaAdamsMUA I cannot wait to hear this story!!! Every time I hear stories about couples meeting, it takes me back to when my boyfriend and I met and getting all the new relationship butterflies. 🥰

    • @lisapoe888
      @lisapoe888 Месяц назад +1

      @@wmhfv992 please stop🤢

  • @simplify2751
    @simplify2751 Год назад +93

    Listening to your date story, I'm reminded of why it's a good thing to put our own comfort and safety first, even if that means leaving in the middle of a date. It's hard and uncomfortable to do, but so is sitting there with someone who doesn't respect boundaries or act grown up.

  • @idalarsson4729
    @idalarsson4729 Год назад +179

    Stories like this tells me that it’s so okay to stay single😂! I would have been hella mad if my date even touched my drink that I planned to drink later. To then opening it at the café - no no no. The chewing gum thing - what was wrong with him?!
    I’m happy to hear that you have a mature boyfriend now❣️

  • @phallonfelicia8111
    @phallonfelicia8111 Год назад +107

    i have to say i’ve noticed while dating around that a lot of guys just get comfortable WAY too fast! mostly making inappropriate jokes or feeling entitled to be able to touch me like the guy you talked about. it’s so weird! glad you have someone now who’s really great!

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +39

      yea SOO true. like even though we texted for a long time it's still the first time were meeting face to face where is the respect!!!

    • @kojolo_21
      @kojolo_21 Год назад +16

      Actually it's a good thing that they reveal their red flags or true form early😂it's helps u not waste time or coming to a conclusion. I also don't wanna waste 2 years in someone then realise they are not what they portrayed to you or what I thought they were. Those years would have passed me growing & being single peacefully instead of wasting it on someone incompatible (based on true events😂)

  • @Alohaalondra
    @Alohaalondra Год назад +88

    The smile you had when you said “going on a fun date with my boyfriend” you’re the cutest !! thanks for the video julia 💗

  • @StarSnuffles
    @StarSnuffles Год назад +202

    "I was only attracted to unattainable men like Pedro Pascal and Adam Driver" truer words have never been spoken! Sorry about your dates, they sound awful 🙁

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +41

      we love our star wars daddies ❤️😂

  • @nanjimarina
    @nanjimarina Год назад +40

    I am sorry for you and for every woman out there because we have been socially educated to be polite even if that means not listening to our gut. I know sometimes we miss the feeling of liking someone and to have someone liking you, but it's just not worth overlooking the signs... I'm very happy you've found someone that makes you happy!

    • @gailjacobson7088
      @gailjacobson7088 Год назад +5

      YES as a woman in her 60s, I will tell you that this never changes. Many men just never grow up and never get it. If we don’t protect ourselves and put ourselves first nobody does.

  • @Allysthriveera
    @Allysthriveera Год назад +1

    Huge lesson I learned as an empath that if I fill physically and emotionally draining after being around someone that is a huge sign to create boundaries with them. You should feel vibrant after being around someone.

  • @iluvpickles420
    @iluvpickles420 Год назад +47

    girl u r so kind because i would’ve thrown a drink at him 😭 sounds like a nightmare. i’m sorry that he touched you like that… woman to woman i understand the shock you must’ve felt. bullet dodged. so happy that you found someone amazing

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +13

      Honestly i'm happy for it. it was for the plot and oh boy does it ever make a funny story

  • @elisamullis7263
    @elisamullis7263 Год назад +100

    Finally Julia spills the tea🍹

    • @MyRonttu
      @MyRonttu Год назад +5

      She spilled the coco palm! 😂

  • @AnAdultKpopFan
    @AnAdultKpopFan Год назад +91

    "Bad date" is definitely an understatement... That had to be one of the most bizarre dates stories I have ever heard? The red flags were overflowing from the beginning, all the way to the end where he sent you a nasty text message. Good riddance!

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +16

      honestly didn't feel like real life ahaha feels like a fever dream

  • @daylasimeone336
    @daylasimeone336 Год назад +24

    Oh Juila, no. No no no no. Thank goodness you ended that! As someone much older than you (you are my son's age), my mom instincts were screaming during this whole story lol. You did the right thing for sure

  • @ChicSabrina
    @ChicSabrina Год назад +3

    BOYFRIEND!!!! So happy to hear it's official, official. ily and am so happy for you!💗

  • @nataliebaer13
    @nataliebaer13 Год назад +25

    There was a couple moments in your story where my jaw dropped and I thought my eyes were going to pop out of my head! 😳 So glad you survived (or should I say, he survived 😂) those bad dates! 😂😂

  • @wplants9793
    @wplants9793 Год назад +25

    OMG I want to save this for when my son gets old enough to date. To have him listen to what NOT to do and how NOT to act 🙈

  • @jadespilka3291
    @jadespilka3291 Год назад +5

    These date stories are so entertaining. But I'm sorry you had to go through those!!

  • @laurahollohan1388
    @laurahollohan1388 Год назад +14

    Finally we get the bad date story! The visual you created of him with all your gum in his mouth …lol. I once had a movie data where a guy showed up to our date with two of his friends and then proceeded to throw popcorn at an elderly couple in front of us. I “went to the bathroom” and walked home in the rain. Good times.

  • @karenlouie4170
    @karenlouie4170 Год назад +3

    Your soft glam look is giving late summer--early autumn vibes! 😍

  • @Melanie-po1wk
    @Melanie-po1wk Год назад +19

    I’m at work but I’m going to watch this instead 🤭

    • @mirny1509
      @mirny1509 Год назад +3

      Lol, me too! I’m listening while I work 😂

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +2

      naughty naughty heheheh ❤️

  • @MK-bp3im
    @MK-bp3im Год назад +3

    I find it the absolute worst that he literally started with physically harassing you, ignored your NO about that and kept trying... No words. It's so hard when you're already in a weird place to listen to your inner gut. Please make a check list in advance with red flags you can detect even when your not thinking straight (like "not accepting my no = need to go now", "dirty finger nails = need to go now").... Like for real and then just do it!
    And also, I'm sooo happy for you that you finally found someone worthy of both your time! Enjoy every much deserved second ❤️🌼

  • @isadorasmiles9339
    @isadorasmiles9339 Год назад +1

    I think listening to your inner intuition is so important. Even when you don’t know why, it’s there for a reason and I’ve learned that it’s always right. It just sounds like that guys didn’t respect you which is annoying because you seem like the nicest person. I would also say I’m a very nice person too but people will take advantage of our kindness. As I get older I’m getting better at digging my heels in and to say no with confidence, not as a suggestion. You’ll get better at it too😊💕

  • @heatherhayes4776
    @heatherhayes4776 Год назад +1

    I love your story times! U tell them so eloquently! Quickly have become my fave “comfort” RUclipsr to listen to ❤️

  • @loiskennedy6393
    @loiskennedy6393 Год назад +2

    This story was definitely worth the wait and did not disappoint!

  • @lost_in_the_forrest
    @lost_in_the_forrest Год назад +1

    I really enjoy your story time videos, it’s like I’m hearing it from a friend. Glad to hear you’re in a better place with someone who cares and respects you. 💕

  • @annehughes1841
    @annehughes1841 Год назад +5

    I am SO happy you’ve found a nice guy, very excited for you. No more bad dates, yay!

  • @justbrandiee7998
    @justbrandiee7998 Год назад

    I LOVEDDDD seeing your makeup collection and how organized it is and just all of it 😍😍😍

  • @Joy_Aqis
    @Joy_Aqis Год назад +1

    I really love this look on you and i'm very happy to see how happy you are with your SO right now 🥺🥺❤

  • @julieme7927
    @julieme7927 Год назад +28

    Finally! Ive been waiting for this story lol
    Edit - the tiny fingers would have sent me running in the opposite direction 😂😂. So happy for you that youve got someone nice now

  • @mindfulsnidee
    @mindfulsnidee Год назад +5

    "That's how I joke with my sisters" WHAAAT ☠️😂

  • @earthaforester3141
    @earthaforester3141 Год назад +1

    Men need to learn (/care) when a woman is uncomfortable. Even if we are doing our best to be polite and pleasing (as we've been conditioned to do), there are still obvious tells when we are uncomfortable or uncertain in a situation - body language, tone, eye contact, trying to laugh it off, etc. Those signs should be listened to and respected. Im glad you ended contact with him.
    Dating tip: dont go on a date with an open-ended time frame; have somewhere to be afterward, so you can get out of there if you need to. Having an excuse to leave makes it easier to not feel guilty or get stuck making something up on the spot. If you're getting on really well together, you can always cancel / adapt your other plans.

  • @hannahbrown5995
    @hannahbrown5995 Год назад +1

    That guy got really familiar really fast and then showed his true self, bullet dodged Julia!

  • @chel_hamelin
    @chel_hamelin Год назад

    Love listening to your dating stories. I’ve been with my husband for 10 years now so it’s been a long time since dating. He sounds young for sure. I’ve been on some hella bad dates and they always don’t understand why you aren’t interested

  • @jenniferasif9883
    @jenniferasif9883 Год назад

    Your makeup is gorgeous and that date story is amazing! 😂😂😂 I love when you turn them down in a nice way and then they start insulting you. It really is confirmation of making the right decision like you said.

  • @isthatjackson
    @isthatjackson Год назад +6

    I’ve been anxiously waiting for this story haha!

  • @baltmv
    @baltmv Год назад +6

    Yay! Love shop my stash and bad date stories 😂

  • @lhun3952
    @lhun3952 Год назад +1

    Beautiful makeup! So glad you’re happy!

  • @taylorcheung0226
    @taylorcheung0226 Год назад +1

    Woah! My gossip self was so excited but when the story finished my palm was sweating a bit...! Ew to that guy, and happy for your current happy relationship! Love your work!

  • @pappyone6062
    @pappyone6062 Год назад +22

    Sounds like he has serious boundary issues! I’ve been married for 20 years and my hubby’s never gone thru my stuff. Definitely surprised that you went on a second date. You’re kind to give him a chance.

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +5

      I hated my life on the second one but i was happy to get the confirmation i needed ahaha

  • @emilyweir1931
    @emilyweir1931 Год назад

    You look so happy!!! You deserve it 🥰🩵

  • @gio.aprile
    @gio.aprile Год назад +1

    JULIAAA lol why do we all have these types of stories. My last few have also been like impossible to comprehend because of how insane they were lol. But also happy to say I’ve been with someone for a few months now and it’s been so different than any other relationship and I am also so incredibly happy..we’re such a good match 🥲
    Sometimes I think we gotta stand up for ourselves and really know what we deserve and want and the universe is like IGHT HERE U GOOOO 😂😭
    This video had me dying though. The eating the gum part. Wtf lol. Happy you’re okay and so happy you’re happy!!!

  • @lynnie_routt
    @lynnie_routt Год назад

    Oooh I’m gonna definitely try this eye look…stunning!

  • @sunnyrayavarapu3068
    @sunnyrayavarapu3068 Год назад

    can you give a link for for the lipstick organizers in your vanity? the ones that leave a space for each individual lip product?

  • @betmenen5146
    @betmenen5146 Год назад

    definitely glad you found someone a lot better. hearing stories like this makes me scared to date lol❤

  • @sayantaniist
    @sayantaniist Год назад

    Looking gorgeous and tysm for the tutorial 😊

  • @kristenclark82
    @kristenclark82 Год назад

    So happy for you and your new relationship. You’re so sweet and deserve all the happiness in the world! 💜

  • @donnamelissa7341
    @donnamelissa7341 Год назад +1

    You are INCREDIBLY patient...!!! God bless your heart lol

  • @itsreallyLINCOLN
    @itsreallyLINCOLN Год назад +1

    Best 21 minutes and 12 seconds of my day so far. Hilarious and with a happy ending with the new guy. ❤

  • @becomingsophiesceliaclife
    @becomingsophiesceliaclife Год назад +2

    As a boy mom, I always wonder who raised guys like that? I raised my son to be respectful of people in general but also to be very respectful around women who he might want to date. I taught him how scary it can be as a woman to meet someone and have them be inappropriate, too handsy, etc. I made sure to stress the point of consent as well because I have been the victim of a couple SA's so consent to any type of touch (sexual or otherwise) is really important. My son knows everything I've been through in terms of my traumas from childhood through to adulthood (he learned them at age appropriate points in his life) and I think that has also shaped how he treats women. I've had some scary dates too, on top of the very traumatic SA's which is why I've been celibate and single for 12 years now. The last guy I met asked me to be his mistress 😒 which just reaffirmed my decision to stop looking for a relationship.
    Still, I just always wonder who raised these creeps and jerks, clearly they didn't talk to them about boundaries, consent, respect, etc. Even if he was nervous there's no excuse for touching you when you didn't want him to or going through your purse, those are definitely DV red flags, I know because I survived a DV relationship in my early 20s and he did both of those a lot.
    So glad you found a better guy and are happy 🙂

  • @wendybrown500
    @wendybrown500 Год назад

    I am so glad you have found someone. I hope we get to meet him sometime, but I understand if we won’t. So happy for you!!

  • @sallycain3716
    @sallycain3716 Год назад +1

    Love a shop my stash!

  • @Justbu462
    @Justbu462 Год назад +1

    Great spill!! Such a weirdo… going through your purse🥴and then the gum 😂😂

  • @NasiaGeorgakopoulou
    @NasiaGeorgakopoulou Год назад

    How difficult is dating those days!!!!! I understand you and i am so happy for you now!!!!

  • @isabellaflores9358
    @isabellaflores9358 Год назад +1

    The fact that your nude eyeliner has been sharpened to the point it says "Ick" is really satisfying in combination with this story 🤣 this man sounds terrible! So happy you've met someone you click with though ❤️

  • @jessicaromerobeauty3942
    @jessicaromerobeauty3942 Год назад +3

    Dear Julia I was on the floor with your story😂😂😂 The whole time I was yelling "What a freaking wierdooooo!!!""

  • @daikonbiss6357
    @daikonbiss6357 Год назад +1

    Does the milk or lys concealer expire fast like kosas 💀 cuz i regret buying the kosas so bad

  • @livp2462
    @livp2462 Год назад +2

    My facial expressions during this story!!! Omg 😂

  • @Ali-me8dw
    @Ali-me8dw Год назад +1

    “That’s how I joke with my sisters” I was fully not expecting that plot twist omfg

  • @baltmv
    @baltmv Год назад +2

    Julia, would love to know which make up RUclipsrs you've been enjoying lately!

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +1

      I actually haven't been watching many besides Jamie Paige! I'm watching a lot of claire saffitz and baking videos ahaha they really relax me

  • @ericad3397
    @ericad3397 Год назад

    I love this type of video💕

  • @Neenerella333
    @Neenerella333 Год назад +1

    That "He was already not listening..." part. That was not going to get better. Bullet dodged. The rude text was the clincher. Happy that the new fella is working out. Gonna try that outer corner detail on Friday! Hugs from New Mexico.

  • @missdella4990
    @missdella4990 Год назад +8

    I’m really glad it only lasted two dates, it was actually pretty upsetting to hear you’ve been treated like this. Sounds like he had absolutely no care or respect for boundaries and consent and assumed consent in all situations, which shouldn’t be the case especially when it’s literally SA to touch someone’s private parts like that without consent. Indecent assault. And if this is what he is willing to do on a date, this early on it’s very telling for how much worse things could get when it’s no longer putting on your best behaviour front. 💜 literally had a guy grab me by the jaw/throat and scold me the first time I met him because I looked down when he was intending to kiss me (like I’d know he was intending to) so gross. Also a side note for if you’re ever dating again, maybe worth setting a limit for yourself to specifically leave a few days in between dates so you’ve had time to process them one by one. 💜

  • @jlkitz1775
    @jlkitz1775 Год назад +3

    Women continue to listen & learn about safety, behavior & social norms. WHY are there still SO MANY guys out here NOT improving their behavior?! 🤬...and they wonder why they're single 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @__shasha
    @__shasha Год назад

    you are so cute, i watch this vid in my way to work and you made me smile

  • @jupiterrising97
    @jupiterrising97 Год назад

    YESSS finally!!

  • @irisbrown7267
    @irisbrown7267 Год назад

    " That's how I joke with my sisters" 😂😂😂😂

  • @summerhernandez6049
    @summerhernandez6049 Год назад +4

    even my longtime boyfriend I live with, doesn't go through my purse! He brings it to me to retrieve the contents myself if I ask him to grab something outta my bag. Wild!

  • @stacydelmore
    @stacydelmore Год назад

    So happy you found someone so you can get past the terrible date. Did make for a very entertaining story though. Thanks for sharing. He probably was younger than he said. Sounds really immature. Good that you met him only in public. Definitely shows signs that he can be aggressive. But you never know. Probably just immature. Sometimes the ones that are you can’t always tell.

  • @CapMIam
    @CapMIam Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing, definitely the 'ick' but disrespect for personal space is a huge red flag. I hope you reported him to the dating app b/c his behavior during and rudeness after a non-match should warrant suspension of his account at the very least.

  • @lucindab
    @lucindab Год назад +1

    nail hygiene is such a big tell on someones vibe omg.. so happy you survived that and found someone who fits !!!💗💗💗

  • @MaggieMeyersMakeup
    @MaggieMeyersMakeup Год назад +1

    That boy omg 😂😂😂 Ive had bad dates like that ugh! Thankfully im happily married now. Glad to hear you found someone nice ❤

  • @egemen491
    @egemen491 Год назад

    15:34 BOREDD GAME AHAHAHHA I CANTTTT 😂💛

  • @samanthaleigh805
    @samanthaleigh805 Год назад +7

    He seems so immature! I love these makeup and story videos!

  • @bri-aunnarau8303
    @bri-aunnarau8303 Год назад

    This was truly worth the wait 😂

  • @jemstar7592
    @jemstar7592 Год назад +5

    oh dear Julia, I can't tell if this guy was just immature, super nervous, has no social skills or has some serious issues. As a very nervous date-r... Im glad to be happily married now lol. Wishing you the best with your new man. I'm also buying that melt eyebrow pen :)

  • @courtneynicolesolem9712
    @courtneynicolesolem9712 Год назад +1

    This reminds me of the episode of friends where Monica’s boyfriend tell her he’s a senior in college. But he’s a senior in high school 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @madridiriss
    @madridiriss Год назад

    where is your dresser for ur maieup storage from? i’ve been looking for something similar 😭

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад

      Ikea Malm dressers! I have two and a custom laminate countertop on top

  • @natybixcoito01
    @natybixcoito01 Год назад

    this is youtube perfection

  • @blackdiamond5507
    @blackdiamond5507 Год назад +1

    😍🌻VERY PRETTY EYE LOOK !!☺😃😄😀

  • @ChouxXa-ug7ng
    @ChouxXa-ug7ng Год назад

    the thrifting + hmart/kbbq/hotpot combo, NOOO 😭😭 that’s what my bf and i do together + a couple friends LMAO

  • @chelsearose7655
    @chelsearose7655 Год назад +1

    I am sooooo glad I’m married. I don’t miss dating AT ALL. 😂😂

  • @99le.
    @99le. Год назад

    Favori ❤❤

  • @SarahTones85
    @SarahTones85 Год назад +2

    Yes! We got the date story we’ve been waiting for. I, too, am attracted to unattainable men and this is exactly why I don’t have any interest in dating… the audacity of EVERYTHING 😳 I just can’t. Like, where is his mama?!?

  • @itsjess1203
    @itsjess1203 Год назад +1

    Omg girl, whaaat, boyfriend??? I’m gonna need the story time about thaaat! Congrats! ❤

  • @shelbyanumandla7499
    @shelbyanumandla7499 Год назад

    “Bored” games 😂 Thanks for sharing with us!

  • @minsooha2816
    @minsooha2816 Год назад

    Pedro Pascal and Adam Driver 😂 I feel so called out

  • @m.c.8680
    @m.c.8680 Год назад +1

    You are soo funny 😅 thanks for the laughs!! yeah, see ya never mister..

  • @samlab2935
    @samlab2935 Год назад +3

    8:50 in … the sister part 💀

    • @samlab2935
      @samlab2935 Год назад

      that boy was WEiiiiiiiiiRD 🥲

  • @cristinag3507
    @cristinag3507 Год назад

    I totally feel you on the dirty nails! A guy I met off Tinder oh so many years ago had the grossest teeth. He smiled and it looked like moss was growing out from his gums. You're not my dentist so I'm not gonna lie and say that I floss everyday, but my mouth is not a bio-hazard situation. No kiss for him.

  • @SantoshSharma-vj2rx
    @SantoshSharma-vj2rx Год назад

    12.00 maybe he was realllllly hungry😂😂

  • @jackandlill
    @jackandlill Год назад +1

    I am over here cracking up as you are describing the first date with this apparently very young guy!! LOL! You just described him putting all of the gum in his mouth....lololol!! Eeeew!! ok back to hear the rest....

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +2

      I'm convinced he lied about his age. there is NO WAY

  • @joylee2182
    @joylee2182 Год назад

    Have you even tried rem beauty? :)

  • @superjules21
    @superjules21 Год назад +6

    I am in a relationship for over 5 years and my boyfriend still ask me If he is allowed to get the keys out of my purse :D
    That Date was really weird and i guess he really was younger then he said :D but you have to go on weird dates to find the right one in the end ;)

    • @JuliaAdamsMUA
      @JuliaAdamsMUA  Год назад +1

      Yes i appreciate my kind and respectful bf 1000% more now ahahaha

  • @meaganevoy
    @meaganevoy Год назад

    OMG you said BOYFRIEND?!?! So it's official with the new guy?!?! Aw, I'm so happy for you!! Yaaay!!! I hope you will let us meet him in the future! ❤

  • @bethanybez
    @bethanybez Год назад

    Years ago I went on a date with a guy who got really touchy and wouldn’t stop when I asked him. We went to an outdoor concert and during intermission I told him I was going to the bathroom and just left him there. I don’t feel guilty about it at all. No means no!

  • @oliviacarter7193
    @oliviacarter7193 Год назад +1

    I totally feel you on weird dates. I remember I had to use the “my dog is sick” excuse on a bunch of “yellow fever” men, like, who were obvious that they had yellow fever. They weren’t even trying to hide it. It was straight up “HOly shit you’re so hotttttt for an Asian girl”.
    To this day I don’t know how I didn’t punch them in the face at the time

  • @Sneakylass
    @Sneakylass Год назад

    Oh my God, just when I thought that first date couldn't get worse, it kept going 😂😂

  • @Tiorg-g1u
    @Tiorg-g1u Год назад +1

    Girl I audibly screamed when you said he ate all your gum; wtf is that😭

  • @maloojisloves6586
    @maloojisloves6586 Год назад +5

    I am MARRIED and my husband has never gone through my purse or my things without asking!!! OMG. Between you & Kelly Gooch’s bad dates I’m going to remain single if I outlive my husband! 😫 Straight men are a nightmare! ❤M

  • @LittleChortle
    @LittleChortle Год назад +3

    Idk if you have said this before or if it's even true, but it sounds like you're demisexual based on that horror story, LOL. It is so hard to date men who are not demi and just giving all the signs that they wanna do the tango right away when you're not ready. Glad you found someone better, and wishing the best for you two!

  • @cindicleee
    @cindicleee Год назад

    💗💗💗💗