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- [00:00] 🧠 Recognize your tendency to focus more on failures than successes, a common default for many. - [01:59] 🏆 Implement a daily practice of acknowledging and celebrating your successes, no matter how small. - [04:39] 🎉 Celebrate your wins like you would for a child, showering yourself with praise and encouragement. - [07:46] 🧘♂ Reparent yourself by treating yourself with the love and approval you would give to your own child. - [13:38] 🎮 View life as a video game: your character can improve, but your essence remains unchanged; you're already good enough. - [20:30] 🕊 True confidence comes from knowing that your worth is not dependent on external validation or achievements.
Sometimes getting out of bed brush my teeth take a shower and getting dressed feels like it's running sometimes getting out of bed brush my teeth take a shower and getting dressed feels like it's running right sometimes getting out of bed brush my teeth take a shower and getting dressed feels like climbing Mount Kilimanjaro!! So good job!!
I had prayed for something to come into my path to help me evolve. THE NEXT MORNING, LITERALLY! …one of your videos popped up. I cannot thank you enough for what you do. I rebuke anyone for saying anything negative about you. Obviously, anyone who might, is trying to tear you down to their not good enough level! You are so AWESOME!!!
Its so sad to me to see so many people struggling with how they feel about themselves. We compare to the point of destroying our own self esteem off. Modern living, social media and comparison is making people think they aren't enough.
This video opened my eyes. I compare myself too much to other people instead of being proud for small archievements. My brain will automatically only notices losses which drains my energy and leads to identifiying myself as a loser and my conscious is not even aware of this 😡😡
another great video Julien. i recently noticed a shift in my mindset of im gonna do what i like because i want to, and it's okay for people to disagree with that butt im still doing it regardless. im good enough as i am and improve if i want to. for years i have a saying/motto which i try to implent as much which is ' Live your Life, Don't Just Follow it around 'and your video reminded me of that again. so thanx for that and have a good day
this video literally summed up my thought process in the last month and it's unbelievable. Especially when he said u don't need a reason to be good enough I remember spending hours everyday thinking about what I should place my self-worth on & I concluded that I should have self-worth just cause. I'm so smart fr😆
I messed up at work and faked sick for a week but tomorrow I need to go back to work and don't know how to... Need Juliens courage, advice and everything.
Your videos have a beautiful message. Ressonates a lot with me. I’ve been trying to arrive at the “happy ever after”, but now I wonder if it’s just an illusion. It brought more awareness and calmness to the present moment. I’m still going to strive for my goals in life, but with a different perspective. Thanks!
Heyy, Julien! Can't thank u enough for your work. Keep it up, man. Your videos have helped people who face similar problems like me but can't go to your events due to circumstances. 😢❤
I've actually been doing this without realizing, but both negatively and positively. So I'll notice my flaws, but also my wins and that kinda made me neutral. I'm optimistic, but I'm also realistic, which could leave me negative for a short bit. It's all interesting, but thanks for this video. This made me realize that I have to consciously shower myself with approval and appreciate the wins I build up. Write it down and all. It's ironic that I love writing, but can't even write out 3 wins. I can bring up 3, or 10 or even 20, but I can't put it into words.
I am actually learning the same thing from my teacher named as rahul raghuwanshi he also said collect small wins daily❤👌 Thank you julian sir I always love your videos and I am working on myself to be myself ❤✨
my biggest realization was that I don't allow compliments to land when some person appreciates me, just couldn't believe it probably due to some child stuff
Hey, great job man! I'll see you at the event soon, I can't wait :D I just wanted to ask, how many hours do events usually last? I have to think about accommodation and transport, and I don't want to do it at the last minute. Thank you in advance for your answer!
In hinduism, there is the concept of bhakti yoga. Which is a loving, devotional type of practice to the god inside us aka the inner child/subconscious. They call it krishna. Krishna appears in stories as a child who everyones loves and is perfect is every way.
Good video. Would like to have seen more interaction with the guest. And while the message is definitely a positive one, it's not a simple case of just telling yourself you're good enough but healing the roots of your own lack of self-worth. Only delving into the soul will bring this transformation.
@@coleyod B*llocks. Healing comes in many ways and is very very personal. Just like grief. Everyone griefs different. Everyone heals different. So you're wrong.
Exactly what I needed to hear. Been feeling very insecure lately, and only after this vid I realized why. Showering myself with intrusive thoughts and not good enough’s
We are the players of ourselves, but at the same time the characters who are being played. I love the video game analogy, but I'm still wondering how you can take the wins if you always saying to yourself 'im just good enough'. Or is it matter of zooming in when someone praises you and zooming out when they say something less positive?
I wish I could meet you . I have this big problem where I like to dedicate myself to for example a community , take hours of my effort for it and then they treat me like ass . Is it because mentally I seem like a “servant” or something? Do I have to act less generous ? I try to be kind to others like they have never been to me , but every time it ends up wrong
Good enough for what? Being alive? Living? What is failure? An expectation that wasn't met? Welcome to life pal - what you want and what you get are 2 different things! - God LOVES US!!! HALLELUJAH!!! 👍🙏🏴💕 XX
I wish I knew that every kids around me did not write down what I thought or said and upload it on the internet. It ruined my mind just after I knew upload happend. And 10 more years from now, now I want to change my life better like 6 months........I don't know what happens really right now.....Yeah I know "You are okay in here" and I made change of my life as a result managing.
Julien, so whenever you catch yourself worrying about what other people are thinking, do you just keep reminding yourself every time “ well, what do I think and feel?” Cause I notice I’m wired to worry a lot about what other people think
They graded us with numbers at school and college. So I always had this issue with it. Cuz there is only 20 points to get on an essay but you could have made 100 or even 1000 mistakes so there was no dead end for falling backward i guess.
@Juilanhimself I did the 3 wins and I felt really great after. I will even share it with u. 1. Worked on my story that I am writing. 2. Left the house. 3. Got dressed.
Julien's children might grown up understanding such freedom... I will not question having children until I achieve total freedom from conditioning and society... We might pass so many dirty unconscious stuff to them... And the ball goes on.
I have this fear of god deeprooted in me, I see it everywhere in my vision, like pictures of angels in the glass, wood, materials, walls etc. I want help please!!
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Comment your biggest takeaway below! (I personally read through EVERY single comment)
🚨 WATCH ME NEXT
- I studied social anxiety in thousands of clients: ruclips.net/video/jCTgb-pxssE/видео.html
- If I had low self esteem, I'd do this first: ruclips.net/video/s9yrMPIJHC8/видео.html
- Stop chasing a specific person and instead do this: ruclips.net/video/DDmqrbSdzPo/видео.html
- What I did to improve my social skills: ruclips.net/video/pCZdJiGSk8g/видео.html
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The blend of spirituality with modern self-help. Exactly what we need. You are an inspiration dude, thank you!
- [00:00] 🧠 Recognize your tendency to focus more on failures than successes, a common default for many.
- [01:59] 🏆 Implement a daily practice of acknowledging and celebrating your successes, no matter how small.
- [04:39] 🎉 Celebrate your wins like you would for a child, showering yourself with praise and encouragement.
- [07:46] 🧘♂ Reparent yourself by treating yourself with the love and approval you would give to your own child.
- [13:38] 🎮 View life as a video game: your character can improve, but your essence remains unchanged; you're already good enough.
- [20:30] 🕊 True confidence comes from knowing that your worth is not dependent on external validation or achievements.
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Sometimes getting out of bed brush my teeth take a shower and getting dressed feels like it's running sometimes getting out of bed brush my teeth take a shower and getting dressed feels like it's running right sometimes getting out of bed brush my teeth take a shower and getting dressed feels like climbing Mount Kilimanjaro!! So good job!!
I had prayed for something to come into my path to help me evolve. THE NEXT MORNING, LITERALLY! …one of your videos popped up. I cannot thank you enough for what you do. I rebuke anyone for saying anything negative about you. Obviously, anyone who might, is trying to tear you down to their not good enough level! You are so AWESOME!!!
Your videos help sooo much... best content so far!
Its so sad to me to see so many people struggling with how they feel about themselves. We compare to the point of destroying our own self esteem off. Modern living, social media and comparison is making people think they aren't enough.
I think it's always been there, just we are becoming more aware of it within us as people.
It's crazy to see how many people do think like this. I never knew tbh
only Julien can make every video so relatable everytime and so helpful at the same time 😂🤝
This video opened my eyes. I compare myself too much to other people instead of being proud for small archievements. My brain will automatically only notices losses which drains my energy and leads to identifiying myself as a loser and my conscious is not even aware of this 😡😡
another great video Julien. i recently noticed a shift in my mindset of im gonna do what i like because i want to, and it's okay for people to disagree with that butt im still doing it regardless. im good enough as i am and improve if i want to. for years i have a saying/motto which i try to implent as much which is ' Live your Life, Don't Just Follow it around 'and your video reminded me of that again. so thanx for that and have a good day
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this video literally summed up my thought process in the last month and it's unbelievable. Especially when he said u don't need a reason to be good enough I remember spending hours everyday thinking about what I should place my self-worth on
& I concluded that I should have self-worth just cause. I'm so smart fr😆
I messed up at work and faked sick for a week but tomorrow I need to go back to work and don't know how to... Need Juliens courage, advice and everything.
Own what you did, face the problems and everything head on. The only way. Apologize if you need to, be honest!
How did it work out going back?
Julien, your videos are most helpful. I am glad it popped up in my feed.
Julien's drip is always on point
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he a drippy dude.
FINALLY someone who preaches the TRUTH 😎
It’s point for him and him alone lol. Crackhead Dr suess type shit
Crackhead Dr suess style
Your speech hit me hard like a truck. Your perspectives about life are so awesome too. Thanks for your amazing work man.
Your videos have a beautiful message. Ressonates a lot with me. I’ve been trying to arrive at the “happy ever after”, but now I wonder if it’s just an illusion. It brought more awareness and calmness to the present moment. I’m still going to strive for my goals in life, but with a different perspective. Thanks!
You're helping me so much, Julien! Thank you!
Heyy, Julien! Can't thank u enough for your work. Keep it up, man.
Your videos have helped people who face similar problems like me but can't go to your events due to circumstances. 😢❤
Sorry to hear you can't make it out to an event... But congrats on your progress! 🙌
I've actually been doing this without realizing, but both negatively and positively. So I'll notice my flaws, but also my wins and that kinda made me neutral. I'm optimistic, but I'm also realistic, which could leave me negative for a short bit.
It's all interesting, but thanks for this video. This made me realize that I have to consciously shower myself with approval and appreciate the wins I build up. Write it down and all. It's ironic that I love writing, but can't even write out 3 wins. I can bring up 3, or 10 or even 20, but I can't put it into words.
I want to be like Julien when I grow up 😂
This made me smile, you're already enough! You can't become one. ❤
Great video! Thanks Julien!
those small wins you mentioned didn't even occur to me till you mentioned it, thank you! Just knowing that is a small win :D
I am actually learning the same thing from my teacher named as rahul raghuwanshi he also said collect small wins daily❤👌
Thank you julian sir I always love your videos and I am working on myself to be myself ❤✨
my biggest realization was that I don't allow compliments to land when some person appreciates me, just couldn't believe it probably due to some child stuff
just because you didn't get it when you were younger doesn't mean you can never get it🌟
Hey, great job man! I'll see you at the event soon, I can't wait :D I just wanted to ask, how many hours do events usually last? I have to think about accommodation and transport, and I don't want to do it at the last minute. Thank you in advance for your answer!
I m feeling the energy and then second one what he says.Radiating energy.
Wauw, that is some really good advice! Thanks :)
Everytime I see this guy I think: If he can wear this without being self-conscious he really must be confident 🤪
Notification squad Have a great weekend!🔥🔥🔥
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In hinduism, there is the concept of bhakti yoga. Which is a loving, devotional type of practice to the god inside us aka the inner child/subconscious. They call it krishna. Krishna appears in stories as a child who everyones loves and is perfect is every way.
I had watched your everyone single video and its effect alot my life i am thankful of urs sir ❤, may god bless u
Glad my content has been helpful for you! 🙏
Good video. Would like to have seen more interaction with the guest. And while the message is definitely a positive one, it's not a simple case of just telling yourself you're good enough but healing the roots of your own lack of self-worth. Only delving into the soul will bring this transformation.
No. I'm good enough without delving into the soul. Stop talkin like I'm not good enough without delving into my soul.
@@robbertag808 True healing will only come that way. The fact you are good enough is true.
@@coleyod B*llocks. Healing comes in many ways and is very very personal. Just like grief. Everyone griefs different. Everyone heals different. So you're wrong.
Didnt know Julien could write in Chinese! Very cool!
Momentum is powerfull 👏
Exactly what I needed to hear. Been feeling very insecure lately, and only after this vid I realized why. Showering myself with intrusive thoughts and not good enough’s
You are good,,,,
Favorite vid in a minute
We are the players of ourselves, but at the same time the characters who are being played. I love the video game analogy, but I'm still wondering how you can take the wins if you always saying to yourself 'im just good enough'. Or is it matter of zooming in when someone praises you and zooming out when they say something less positive?
I wish I could meet you . I have this big problem where I like to dedicate myself to for example a community , take hours of my effort for it and then they treat me like ass . Is it because mentally I seem like a “servant” or something? Do I have to act less generous ? I try to be kind to others like they have never been to me , but every time it ends up wrong
It's called people pleasing
Shes Dutch 1000% but good for her to stand there, every step counts, 🎉
I thought letting go was all it takes should I do this aswell?
Good vibes
Im not gonong to lie, this man us very entertaining and easy to comprehend from. And very very cool, i like it
u are real , insane u are the power and it hard
Good enough for what? Being alive? Living? What is failure? An expectation that wasn't met? Welcome to life pal - what you want and what you get are 2 different things! - God LOVES US!!! HALLELUJAH!!!
👍🙏🏴💕 XX
❤ love your content
Thank you! I'm glad it resonates! 🙏
Cool guy!
Although I listened this in the event, when I listened again from this video I experienced a few clicks again haha
I wish I knew that every kids around me did not write down what I thought or said and upload it on the internet. It ruined my mind just after I knew upload happend. And 10 more years from now, now I want to change my life better like 6 months........I don't know what happens really right now.....Yeah I know "You are okay in here" and I made change of my life as a result managing.
Julien, so whenever you catch yourself worrying about what other people are thinking, do you just keep reminding yourself every time “ well, what do I think and feel?” Cause I notice I’m wired to worry a lot about what other people think
can anyone tell me about his journey and his results after letting go?
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They graded us with numbers at school and college. So I always had this issue with it. Cuz there is only 20 points to get on an essay but you could have made 100 or even 1000 mistakes so there was no dead end for falling backward i guess.
3:35 he’s talking about Alex social from 4 week natural
remember your Carol Dweck growth mindsets. praise the effort that led to the results, not the results themselves.
@Juilanhimself I did the 3 wins and I felt really great after. I will even share it with u. 1. Worked on my story that I am writing. 2. Left the house. 3. Got dressed.
I feel the same way always negative. With that when people come to talk to me I have nothing to say because how negative I am
That was fucken awesome what a massive epiphany i just experienced!!
Same
the part about the video game sounded a lot like Zen buddhism. :-)
dont worry y have power
Julien's children might grown up understanding such freedom... I will not question having children until I achieve total freedom from conditioning and society... We might pass so many dirty unconscious stuff to them... And the ball goes on.
My worst thing is that i let my parents help me with my studies.It literally killed my confidence until now 38 years old.
When ever i watch ur videos i remind mr hands whom get Fu**ed by his horse 😂😂😂
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Is it actually Julien replying back to the comments?
Yep! 👌
I have this fear of god deeprooted in me, I see it everywhere in my vision, like pictures of angels in the glass, wood, materials, walls etc. I want help please!!
Goddam! 🤯
This is Shame wound, the thing she explains at the beginning
You remind me 'why so serious ' joker quote
3 success that day...then 40 then50
I live u
idiot knows what he is saying , I know powers is close u dont worry
power is ----------
Monkey Safari - Safe (Joris Voorn Remix)
We are good enough. Who cares about how many likes your facebook post got. How many times did you like it?
Epigenetics
u dont know the poer u are doing better then (hitler jokea and be raady)
are u around
So profound. 🫡