It's True. You need a minimum of 8 dates before you start to understand the other person. There's also a book, "Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love"
Initially I thought it must be a popular channel until I saw the number of subscribers...I was amazed to see such a good research and such high production quality at this early stage... keep going bro... your channel will surely grow very fast... by looking at thumbnails, video quality, thumbnails and especially the content, aisa lagta bhi nahi ki channel new hai... it just seems like koi 1 lakh+ subscribers wala channel ho.... all the best! keep doing the good work!
Good point but i disagree with not enquiring about person. Generally a family project their value and ways of living around when they meet people and form that you can get good sense of understanding about the family n person when you enquire about them to family n friends. Same goes with social media. Obviously social media is lie but again you get understand of that person. What kind of post they do? Is it all about party or travelling or some ngo etc etc
When I ask someone such questions, most of the girls look at me like , I am an idiot. Most of the tier 2 India, doesn't like to talk all these or dnt know how to answer such questions. They don't even ask such questions. It feels either dumb or , I am ahead of time to ask such things to girls. Everyone jst want to show best version of themselves.
Commenting as I am currently based out of US and have experienced this even with decent girls from tier 1 cities in India. Usually, Indian girls here in US would be open to this kinda discussion but perpetually looking for a better partner lol. I would say you need to circumvent the topic to even get them thinking about these. Sometimes the prospect that you're talking to really has no clue about the future or current standing in life (majority of them) even though these videos will ask you to trigger to know it, sometimes you've to make a choice with what you've got. Good luck :)
I was basically rejected by almost 10 girls on mere phone even before meeting them in person. Looks matter the most than character these i am not good looking and handsome so all girls are rejecting me
@@juileeshinde8933 height 4 feet hai toh work on yourself ka kya mtlb 6 feet ho jaunga ..kala hu toh work on yourself ka kya mtlb Roz fair and lovely lgake baith jau gora ho jaunga 🤷 Yeh sb bkwas hai work on yourself..mota Banda patla ho skta hai baaki kala chota whi ka whi rhega gym jaake bhi aur bona hi dikhega Only solution for these problems is to accept the fact that you are different and forget about opposite gender just focus on yourself for your well being not for impressing any woman
Hi, my family has allowed me to meet a guy for 2 times and 2 times on call, i met him for 2 hours in first meet and then i was hanging out with him for 5 hours..and 3 hours on call....but the guy didn't said yes neither no. His parents said yes but he didnt said anything. He just wanted to keep meeting me till july. And his questions was when will i buy a scooty ? Do i love driving car ? When is my planning to change job? Like can i change in 3 month's? I mentioned i was just working its a new job ..not for now atleast 6 months. So he said why dont u switch for sales ? Like basically for higher salary ? I said am not interested in sales role. Also i told him to take responsibility of my parents in old age in future as am single daughter ...on which he asked me does your dad gets pension if not then source.... Please guide me, also he did asked me other questions like hobbies and other things.
Don’t you think you need to give us even better picture so we can judge. Just based of the information u provided looks like he is insecure about his financial status and his image.
Hi! I feel I need more details about this so that I can give you a better solution. If you are interested, I provide relationship coaching through 1:1 sessions. Let me know if you are interested and I will share all the details.
"A Guide to Meeting People for Arranged Marriage" Summary: The podcast discusses the complexities and challenges of meeting potential partners for arranged marriages, particularly in the context of Indian culture. The speaker, who has observed friends navigating the arranged marriage process, aims to provide insights and guidance to help individuals make informed decisions. Here are the key points discussed: 1. **Challenge of Limited Time:** In India, the pressure to choose a life partner quickly is emphasized, limiting the time for couples to truly get to know each other. The speaker highlights the consequences of rushed decisions leading to marriages based on the wrong reasons. 2. **Importance of Personal Meetings:** The speaker emphasizes the inadequacy of relying on information gathered through friends and relatives. They stress the importance of meeting the person in question as the only reliable way to understand them. 3. **Preparing Meaningful Questions:** To go beyond surface-level conversations, the podcast suggests preparing thoughtful questions that delve into a person's beliefs, values, and mindset. Questions about future aspirations, current struggles, sources of happiness, and fulfillment can facilitate a more meaningful connection. 4. **Handling Rejections Positively:** Rejections are seen as an inevitable part of the process and are framed as a matter of compatibility rather than personal worth. The advice is not to doubt oneself or the process, as it takes time to truly know someone. 5. **Avoiding Social Media Judgments:** The speaker cautions against forming opinions based on social media profiles, as these platforms often present a curated and idealized version of individuals. Meeting in person is considered the only way to accurately gauge someone's character. 6. **Diverse Experiences Before Commitment:** Encouragement is given to engage in various activities and experiences with potential partners to witness different facets of their personalities. Meeting each other's friends is also suggested to gain a more authentic understanding. 7. **Patient Commitment:** The speaker advises against making decisions based on just one or two dates. Instead, they recommend giving the process time, suggesting 8 to 10 dates to explore compatibility and ensure a strong foundation for a committed relationship. 8. **Enjoying the Process:** Lastly, the importance of enjoying the process is emphasized. The speaker encourages individuals not to feel pressured but to have fun getting to know the other person. In conclusion, the podcast provides valuable insights into navigating the arranged marriage process, advocating for personal meetings, thoughtful questioning, and diverse experiences before making a commitment. The summary encapsulates the video's main points; however, for detailed understanding, watching the entire video is recommended.
It's True. You need a minimum of 8 dates before you start to understand the other person.
There's also a book,
"Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love"
People are connect more when they are vulnerable or insecure
What a point man👌✌️
Initially I thought it must be a popular channel until I saw the number of subscribers...I was amazed to see such a good research and such high production quality at this early stage... keep going bro... your channel will surely grow very fast... by looking at thumbnails, video quality, thumbnails and especially the content, aisa lagta bhi nahi ki channel new hai... it just seems like koi 1 lakh+ subscribers wala channel ho.... all the best! keep doing the good work!
I agree, Great Content 🎉. I wish you all the best Bro.
Thank you so much guys!
Means a lot🙏
Please keep giving me honest feedback so that I can do better.
Very true, helpful important content
Thanks for interesting deep questions
These made me think by myself on how would I answer them 😅
Good point but i disagree with not enquiring about person. Generally a family project their value and ways of living around when they meet people and form that you can get good sense of understanding about the family n person when you enquire about them to family n friends. Same goes with social media. Obviously social media is lie but again you get understand of that person. What kind of post they do? Is it all about party or travelling or some ngo etc etc
Great vedio I liked the vedio, i do very rarely.❤
Great content. Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom with us. It's a timely advice for me. ❤❤
@@manpreet0784 Means a lot🙏
Just when I needed it, very insightful content
Wait, where was the arranged marriage part? This seemed to be mostly about dates 🤔
When I ask someone such questions, most of the girls look at me like , I am an idiot. Most of the tier 2 India, doesn't like to talk all these or dnt know how to answer such questions. They don't even ask such questions. It feels either dumb or , I am ahead of time to ask such things to girls. Everyone jst want to show best version of themselves.
Commenting as I am currently based out of US and have experienced this even with decent girls from tier 1 cities in India. Usually, Indian girls here in US would be open to this kinda discussion but perpetually looking for a better partner lol. I would say you need to circumvent the topic to even get them thinking about these. Sometimes the prospect that you're talking to really has no clue about the future or current standing in life (majority of them) even though these videos will ask you to trigger to know it, sometimes you've to make a choice with what you've got. Good luck :)
Buddy good work. I leaned a lot. Both about meeting and how to make a better video.
Lovely bro
Superb 🙌🏻
4:05.... Human Beings connect more when they are being vulnerable, when they being insecure. Becauz
Not so desperate want cal by
I was basically rejected by almost 10 girls on mere phone even before meeting them in person. Looks matter the most than character these i am not good looking and handsome so all girls are rejecting me
Work on yourself bro. not just look but overall your mindset towards life.
@@juileeshinde8933 height 4 feet hai toh work on yourself ka kya mtlb 6 feet ho jaunga ..kala hu toh work on yourself ka kya mtlb Roz fair and lovely lgake baith jau gora ho jaunga 🤷
Yeh sb bkwas hai work on yourself..mota Banda patla ho skta hai baaki kala chota whi ka whi rhega gym jaake bhi aur bona hi dikhega
Only solution for these problems is to accept the fact that you are different and forget about opposite gender just focus on yourself for your well being not for impressing any woman
@@Shubham-et8qk exactly 💯
Hi,
my family has allowed me to meet a guy for 2 times and 2 times on call, i met him for 2 hours in first meet and then i was hanging out with him for 5 hours..and 3 hours on call....but the guy didn't said yes neither no.
His parents said yes but he didnt said anything. He just wanted to keep meeting me till july. And his questions was when will i buy a scooty ? Do i love driving car ? When is my planning to change job? Like can i change in 3 month's? I mentioned i was just working its a new job ..not for now atleast 6 months. So he said why dont u switch for sales ? Like basically for higher salary ? I said am not interested in sales role.
Also i told him to take responsibility of my parents in old age in future as am single daughter ...on which he asked me does your dad gets pension if not then source....
Please guide me, also he did asked me other questions like hobbies and other things.
Don’t you think you need to give us even better picture so we can judge.
Just based of the information u provided looks like he is insecure about his financial status and his image.
Hi! I feel I need more details about this so that I can give you a better solution. If you are interested, I provide relationship coaching through 1:1 sessions. Let me know if you are interested and I will share all the details.
"A Guide to Meeting People for Arranged Marriage"
Summary:
The podcast discusses the complexities and challenges of meeting potential partners for arranged marriages, particularly in the context of Indian culture. The speaker, who has observed friends navigating the arranged marriage process, aims to provide insights and guidance to help individuals make informed decisions. Here are the key points discussed:
1. **Challenge of Limited Time:** In India, the pressure to choose a life partner quickly is emphasized, limiting the time for couples to truly get to know each other. The speaker highlights the consequences of rushed decisions leading to marriages based on the wrong reasons.
2. **Importance of Personal Meetings:** The speaker emphasizes the inadequacy of relying on information gathered through friends and relatives. They stress the importance of meeting the person in question as the only reliable way to understand them.
3. **Preparing Meaningful Questions:** To go beyond surface-level conversations, the podcast suggests preparing thoughtful questions that delve into a person's beliefs, values, and mindset. Questions about future aspirations, current struggles, sources of happiness, and fulfillment can facilitate a more meaningful connection.
4. **Handling Rejections Positively:** Rejections are seen as an inevitable part of the process and are framed as a matter of compatibility rather than personal worth. The advice is not to doubt oneself or the process, as it takes time to truly know someone.
5. **Avoiding Social Media Judgments:** The speaker cautions against forming opinions based on social media profiles, as these platforms often present a curated and idealized version of individuals. Meeting in person is considered the only way to accurately gauge someone's character.
6. **Diverse Experiences Before Commitment:** Encouragement is given to engage in various activities and experiences with potential partners to witness different facets of their personalities. Meeting each other's friends is also suggested to gain a more authentic understanding.
7. **Patient Commitment:** The speaker advises against making decisions based on just one or two dates. Instead, they recommend giving the process time, suggesting 8 to 10 dates to explore compatibility and ensure a strong foundation for a committed relationship.
8. **Enjoying the Process:** Lastly, the importance of enjoying the process is emphasized. The speaker encourages individuals not to feel pressured but to have fun getting to know the other person.
In conclusion, the podcast provides valuable insights into navigating the arranged marriage process, advocating for personal meetings, thoughtful questioning, and diverse experiences before making a commitment. The summary encapsulates the video's main points; however, for detailed understanding, watching the entire video is recommended.
Bhai mene tumko krishnaraj rao ke cmnts mai bhi dkha hai😅
Btw, your English writing skills are top-notch😉