You can tell A lot of people in the comments are not artistically sound lol she never once said she condoned his behavior…This is like a monologue almost, to the other woman…she’s not gloating about being the main chick, she’s basically telling the side chick: you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes…y’all gotta learn how to think outside the box and not so literal 🤦🏽♀️ I loooooooved this❤️
You missed bro! "Cause you...put up with that shit that I just won't deal with". She's fighting another victim of a playa...and acting like she's all her man wants and needs. He don't give a shit about her...but she boasts and gloats anyway.
This poem is not “pick me” vibes, it’s “you’re happy to be the side chick? here’s the reality”. “You put up with that shit that I just won’t deal with”. “He can’t stand the reality that he doesn’t deserve a woman like me”. “You thought you could call me and tell me the color of his underwear, I bought em”. The poem is addressing the side chick that came to her under the disguise of “woman to woman” but really she wanted to one up her. Thanks for reading my TedTalk.
+natalia hampton : I agree. I dont think she was saying that his infedelity wasnt a problem, but just checking the other broad to let her know that she is basically a jump off, and basically playing herself thinking she doing something great.
"your still young at heart..so u think this is funny..telling your girls that he's cheating on me cus he really wants to be with you? When in fact we are nothing alike" *priceless:it be so true lol
The def jam poetry healed me,speech who is now in the arrested development band is one of me favourite and the poem 'ManChild' by Keith Murray deed me hard...
It's amazing how people listen to a poem... and not really LISTEN to the words. She never said she's staying with the man, in fact she doesn't state the present status of the relationship. She's letting her emotions known with this other woman (Which if you listen to THE BEGINNING) is calling her to gloat that she's sleeping with her man. She's not even completely blaming her, she's making it clear that they're both at fault, but when it's down to it, that man ain't leaving her, the side chick is just a notch on his belt, and if she's cheating on his girlfriend, then history is gonna repeat itself
Ppl are saying she’s not actually strong in who she is bc she stayed, but I have never gotten the sense that she does. Talking about comparing notes with the other woman and how she “loved” him and that she knows they’ll be together later that night, to me that all signals that she only just learned about him cheating and an end of her relationship with him. She speaks in the present tense in the middle and calls him “my man” to describe to the other woman what was actually happening these times when he was cheating on her, not that it means it will still be that way in the future. And the end is basically her saying, you think you won bc now he’s with you but you’ll always remember it was because he couldn’t handle me
Please let every Love & Hip Hop participant, enthusiasts fan, and/or current cultural phenomenal please listen to this... FYI she is the WIFE in this poem not the girlfriend not the side chick...
After watching this back at age 30….I disagree to the fullest. She kept absolving her man shit and placed her disgruntled feelings on the woman he cheating with…. Now she sounds like a bird. Saying she’s strong and won’t leave the Nigga … interesting
It doesn’t matter how much justification y’all give in these comments, cuz at the end of the day she still with him… “she’s telling the side chick what the deal really is” and she still looks like a clown cuz she still ain’t left the cheating nigga! UNLESS that is what she plans to do after that call w/ the piece…
I think Thea is an amazing poet, but it sounds to me like she's blaming this other woman for her partner's infidelity instead of blaming her man. I'm not sure I understand the logic behind that.
if a female calls you up rubing in you face about how she's fucking your significant other i bet you'd bash her to or any other logical female she was not defending him or letting him off she was just telling it like it is
years ago, two parents went out for dinner. A few hours later, the babysitter was calling to ask if she could cover up the clown statue in the kids' room, the father said,"Take the kids and get out of the house. We'll call the police, we don't have a clown statue." The "clown statue" is really a killer that escaped from jail. If you don't post this letter on to 10 videos tonight, the clown will be in your bed at 3:00 am with a chainsaw in his hand;sorry i didnt want that happening to me
What a load of crap! If you’re strong in who you are, LEAVE! He’s Cheating, but the problem is most women have a problem with the woman instead of their cheating husband/ boyfriend. This don’t make noooooo dam sense to me at all.
Fuck, bring back Def Jam. I wish there was new content but the old content is so good that I can't get over it and it's been years
Rob Baez agreeee
Been 5 hrs since 5yrs comment I’m still here lol
You can tell A lot of people in the comments are not artistically sound lol she never once said she condoned his behavior…This is like a monologue almost, to the other woman…she’s not gloating about being the main chick, she’s basically telling the side chick: you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes…y’all gotta learn how to think outside the box and not so literal 🤦🏽♀️ I loooooooved this❤️
She stayed that is condoning it.
You missed bro! "Cause you...put up with that shit that I just won't deal with". She's fighting another victim of a playa...and acting like she's all her man wants and needs. He don't give a shit about her...but she boasts and gloats anyway.
this "other victim" called phone. she did not seek this woman out.@@Kevin-n1t7j
This poem is not “pick me” vibes, it’s “you’re happy to be the side chick? here’s the reality”.
“You put up with that shit that I just won’t deal with”.
“He can’t stand the reality that he doesn’t deserve a woman like me”.
“You thought you could call me and tell me the color of his underwear, I bought em”.
The poem is addressing the side chick that came to her under the disguise of “woman to woman” but really she wanted to one up her.
Thanks for reading my TedTalk.
She doesn't condone his actions but she's letting her know. She said we can figure his lies out together. But most here what they want to hear
+natalia hampton : I agree. I dont think she was saying that his infedelity wasnt a problem, but just checking the other broad to let her know that she is basically a jump off, and basically playing herself thinking she doing something great.
SHE WENT ALL THE WAY IN!
"your still young at heart..so u think this is funny..telling your girls that he's cheating on me cus he really wants to be with you? When in fact we are nothing alike" *priceless:it be so true lol
This is one of the poems that made me fall in love with poetry, I had to be about 13 years old. I’m 30 next year 😂
I love this and the heart she gives this performance and the truth she is brave enough to speak!!! She is truly a beautiful queen 👑
she is so beautiful and a talented poet..of course!
I love how the guys in the audience are like DAYUM.
I have a love hate relationship with this poem.
It gives pick me vibes, but very relatable too
"After all......... He is not fucking you for your mind!" LOL
Still my favorite poem
Thea ate down on this one!!! Classic!
The def jam poetry healed me,speech who is now in the arrested development band is one of me favourite and the poem 'ManChild' by Keith Murray deed me hard...
My fav poem eva
Mine too because baaaabbbyyy Thea went awf and I love it.
This is talent...
OMGGGGG I ALMOST FORGOT ABOUTTTTTT THIS POEM :) I loveeee it
this is very good.....! She went hard
Wow this was a bombshell. Wow amazing.
Preach!!!! Real Lady Talk....
this is beautiful.
she went innnn!
i think she blames them both- but this poem is her reaction to the other woman is all
LOVE IT!
I saw this a long time ago and could not find it for a long time XD but im finally here!
aaaaaaaaah she's sennin!
that was heavy
I like it but .. I love it at the same time.
Damn, this is so good
“ bitch .. I taught him”
😭😭
Love it!!!
One of my favoritessssss lmfaoo
this is da shyte.......#speechless
Go girl!!!!
Watched this at least 20 times
It's amazing how people listen to a poem... and not really LISTEN to the words. She never said she's staying with the man, in fact she doesn't state the present status of the relationship. She's letting her emotions known with this other woman (Which if you listen to THE BEGINNING) is calling her to gloat that she's sleeping with her man. She's not even completely blaming her, she's making it clear that they're both at fault, but when it's down to it, that man ain't leaving her, the side chick is just a notch on his belt, and if she's cheating on his girlfriend, then history is gonna repeat itself
👏🏽👏🏽 perfectly stated , I don’t understand how so many ppl miss this.
Ppl are saying she’s not actually strong in who she is bc she stayed, but I have never gotten the sense that she does. Talking about comparing notes with the other woman and how she “loved” him and that she knows they’ll be together later that night, to me that all signals that she only just learned about him cheating and an end of her relationship with him. She speaks in the present tense in the middle and calls him “my man” to describe to the other woman what was actually happening these times when he was cheating on her, not that it means it will still be that way in the future. And the end is basically her saying, you think you won bc now he’s with you but you’ll always remember it was because he couldn’t handle me
Don’t compete where you don’t compare.
She still making it seem like she is staying
She took the stage and blasted off her 12 gauge shotgun talking about woman to woman lol holla.....that was dope
Whewwwww 😭👏🏾 wow
Please let every Love & Hip Hop participant, enthusiasts fan, and/or current cultural phenomenal please listen to this... FYI she is the WIFE in this poem not the girlfriend not the side chick...
I am a FAN!
Love this not better said
right I know
I like it but I don't at the same time.
Porchia are the young at heart? Lol
Same i love the poem cause its so good but at the same time if she's so strong in who she is why tolerate being cheated on?
@@ThejamericanChick that's not what she meant
Old women love saying he know where home at.. y'all all hotels to that nigga 😂
Facts! It’s like I feel you but nah type of poem. Check this poem out ruclips.net/video/LidP_bUnLGI/видео.html
I love this!
amen
love this
THATS WASSSSSSSUP
2021?
2024
This a legend - MH
Yes!
She went IINNNNNNN!
because the girl called her.. listen to the words again lol
All facts
Funny and true as hell
“You tell me like I don’t already know hell I bought em trynna tell me bout how my man fucks bitch I taught em” WHEW CHILEEEE 😭‼️
That's great !!!
people saying that she put up with his cheating or that she's stupid did she say they were still together?
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ooooooh!! Yasss.
she did this shit
Mann....
She shot that !!!
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥fye
❤️💯🍵
🔥🔥🔥🔥
damn
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
💯💯💯💯💯👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
#real'
Mood ..
Cause tf why Niggas and hoes play so much ewww
this my bitchh. lol.
I think this is a great poem, but i didnt understand why she was goin in on the girl ?
Adanna Earl because the girl called her. She shouldn't have called.
Great poem but any woman that goes through this should dump the man 😂
Try to tell her how her man fuck i taught him shit too funny
Wait to the the ones that didn’t like it was because? Never mind self explanatory
She's cute.
@1:45 thats the shit! :)
Not yall trying to overanalyze the poem in the recent comments. Jesus what has the world become.
I use watch all of these when pre-teens 🙌🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾💯
After watching this back at age 30….I disagree to the fullest. She kept absolving her man shit and placed her disgruntled feelings on the woman he cheating with…. Now she sounds like a bird. Saying she’s strong and won’t leave the Nigga … interesting
It doesn’t matter how much justification y’all give in these comments, cuz at the end of the day she still with him… “she’s telling the side chick what the deal really is” and she still looks like a clown cuz she still ain’t left the cheating nigga! UNLESS that is what she plans to do after that call w/ the piece…
INGLEWOOD! HOLLER!
Lol
The man is the problem in all this. Check the liar and the cheater
I think Thea is an amazing poet, but it sounds to me like she's blaming this other woman for her partner's infidelity instead of blaming her man. I'm not sure I understand the logic behind that.
rebeccakathleenmusic she's talkin bout both of them. How women think its cute to date a man who's already in a relationship and why men cheat.
if a female calls you up rubing in you face about how she's fucking your significant other i bet you'd bash her to or any other logical female she was not defending him or letting him off she was just telling it like it is
Oh she really bad
Ummmm... she's bragging on one-upping a chick by keeping an unfaithful man who clearly loves neither of them?
i'll pass...
years ago, two parents went out for dinner. A few hours later, the babysitter was calling to ask if she could cover up the clown statue in the kids' room, the father said,"Take the kids and get out of the house. We'll call the police, we don't have a clown statue." The "clown statue" is really a killer that escaped from jail. If you don't post this letter on to 10 videos tonight, the clown will be in your bed at 3:00 am with a chainsaw in his hand;sorry i didnt want that happening to me
It's great writing and very witty but I feel like she is still degrading herself by not walking away even when aware of the situation...
Nice piece but why is she bombing the chick when her so-called man is the culprit?
What a load of crap! If you’re strong in who you are, LEAVE!
He’s Cheating, but the problem is most women have a problem with the woman instead of their cheating husband/ boyfriend.
This don’t make noooooo dam sense to me at all.
Pick me poetry at it’s finest
Snaps excessively.