James Acaster Gives the Public His Relationship Advice | Celebrity Call Centre

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  • Опубликовано: 26 янв 2025

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  • @ViscountAlexOfTheHorsePeople
    @ViscountAlexOfTheHorsePeople 5 лет назад +3362

    This guy is fast becoming a national treasure.

    • @MichaelM28
      @MichaelM28 5 лет назад +3

      LMFAO. NEVER!

    • @TennysonPesco
      @TennysonPesco 5 лет назад +3

      Why, because of that one thing he said on Bake Off which went viral?
      He was relatively not as well known before that, and now he's suddenly a 'national treasure' candidate...

    • @alexp4303
      @alexp4303 5 лет назад +83

      @@TennysonPesco Maybe if you were completely unaware of him before that... He's been making regular panel show appearances for years now, increasingly so in the past 2-3. In the past couple of years his profile has grew immensely, he's got a special on Netflix, a book & his TV appearances have ramped up some. I get you're saying he was "relatively not as well known" but I'd argue again against that, there's been a lot of his work out there the past couple of years. Anyone that's followed him knows that

    • @TennysonPesco
      @TennysonPesco 5 лет назад +19

      @@alexp4303 I don't follow him, so I was being a little naive in my comment and completely going off what I've seen on Facebook etc, so I apologise.
      But anyway, thanks for giving me a heads up about him, I've seen him on Mock the Week where he's been quite funny so I'll have to watch some of his other stuff.

    • @D3niz3n
      @D3niz3n 5 лет назад +4

      @@TennysonPesco thats the point. Anyway, even before that he had netflix shows and was on shows a lot-the bake off bit just put him out into the general public.

  • @salmahlizerd
    @salmahlizerd 5 лет назад +1000

    "The policy is always that it's their loss," is actually pretty darn good advice.

    • @MrTrexMcgee
      @MrTrexMcgee 5 лет назад +20

      I feel like this throw away line has kinda changed my life.

  • @adelaide3409
    @adelaide3409 5 лет назад +1616

    "First of all...there's nothing wrong with you" :)

  • @JoelSeniorMusic
    @JoelSeniorMusic 5 лет назад +1457

    "I would avoid roasts in general around your dad" - Genius

    • @joshstanton267
      @joshstanton267 5 лет назад +2

      haha brutal!

    • @tomtom21194
      @tomtom21194 5 лет назад +43

      And then she rings back "I made a huge mistake james, i went round to my dads house to talk to him about everything and get past the embarrassment, a few things happended, long story short my dad found me being spit roasted in his livingroom"
      James: "wow that is pretty much the exact opposite of my advice to you. I no longer believe in you"

    • @jackjude
      @jackjude 5 лет назад +1

      The fact that incident involved a hotel room made the joke even more darkly... appropriately inappropriate

    • @KalvinistKyle
      @KalvinistKyle 5 лет назад +1

      I guess I don’t get the particular joke here? I love James humor for its intelligence and quick wit Brit lines and I get most his jokes but this one just goes on by

    • @JoelSeniorMusic
      @JoelSeniorMusic 5 лет назад +13

      @@KalvinistKyle Roast has a double meaning here, both a roast dinner and a spit roast. The context of the conversation was about sex and "talking about it over a roast" means chatting over dinner. James' line "I would avoid roasts around your dad" implies avoiding a spit roast with your dad. Which I think we can all agree, is hilariously messed up.

  • @aquietgirlcalledsoph739
    @aquietgirlcalledsoph739 5 лет назад +1176

    This guy isn’t just a funny guy but he’s also very caring clearly in situations like this. How do people have the heart to dislike him?

    • @Summinkcool
      @Summinkcool 5 лет назад +56

      His gf left him for Mr. Bean btw

    • @saitamatrash2527
      @saitamatrash2527 5 лет назад +1

      A 02 wildd! 😭

    • @jala1081
      @jala1081 4 года назад +2

      @@Summinkcool seriously?

    • @Summinkcool
      @Summinkcool 4 года назад +5

      @@jala1081 Wow I posted this a year ago! Yes seriously, i believe they have a kid together now!

    • @smilesfordays
      @smilesfordays 4 года назад +11

      @@Summinkcool she had a ✨type✨

  • @taylo3655
    @taylo3655 5 лет назад +494

    I love how funny but genuine James is. He loves to come across so harsh, he's a big softie and I, for one, adore it. What a doll.

  • @lacroixdujezu7174
    @lacroixdujezu7174 5 лет назад +2171

    I see James Acaster, I click

    • @MichaelM28
      @MichaelM28 5 лет назад +1

      Why? He's shit

    • @MichaelM28
      @MichaelM28 5 лет назад +1

      desiree martinez make me

    • @samrose3205
      @samrose3205 3 года назад +1

      @@MichaelM28 James Acaster is the beeessssst

  • @GreenRazzles
    @GreenRazzles 2 года назад +68

    "first of all, there's nothing wrong with you"
    Crying 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @putrii4450
    @putrii4450 5 лет назад +773

    I will call just to hear James say "I believe in you"

  • @laylaaa444
    @laylaaa444 4 года назад +309

    the way he plays with that slinky does something to my soul bro

    • @lisasimpson8895
      @lisasimpson8895 4 года назад +26

      ah shit, i hadn't paid much attention to it, but now you've mentioned... not a day will pass without me thinking about it!

  • @lordcrunk4790
    @lordcrunk4790 5 лет назад +213

    The world needs a James Acaster advice & motivational app.

  • @Bighawkeye46
    @Bighawkeye46 5 лет назад +236

    “Policy is always ‘their loss’” - brilliant

  • @03kempc86
    @03kempc86 4 года назад +160

    James, you’re a great guy. I wouldn’t leave you for Mr. Bean any day of the week.

    • @MrGuyWhatAGuy
      @MrGuyWhatAGuy 3 года назад +13

      Mr bean is worth 150 million. I can see how it happened... 😭🤦
      🪙⛏️

    • @Erinba
      @Erinba 3 года назад

      😂

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 10 месяцев назад

      @@MrGuyWhatAGuy Yeah, right cause it's all about the money...🙄

  • @glasschopsticks7029
    @glasschopsticks7029 5 лет назад +103

    0:09 James just casually offering a shag is out of his character but it's so funny oml

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 10 месяцев назад +2

      Why is it out of his character though? He didn't exactly ''offer'' it but suggested it to someone else, presumably the topic was romance/sex...

  • @quietastronaut
    @quietastronaut 4 года назад +99

    This should be an hour long and air weekly.

  • @emmah6418
    @emmah6418 4 года назад +160

    His advice about just talking to girls about your interests is bang on though, we ain't aliens

    • @mylkme
      @mylkme 3 года назад +12

      Sounds like something an alien would say 🤔

    • @edwardsimpson119
      @edwardsimpson119 2 года назад +3

      But what if your interest IS aliens?

    • @emmah6418
      @emmah6418 2 года назад +2

      @@edwardsimpson119 i want to hear about aliens so much

    • @chronic.dementia
      @chronic.dementia 2 года назад +3

      True!! If someone's first interaction with me is about my appearance, i get creeped out

  • @ensommeille5315
    @ensommeille5315 5 лет назад +99

    okay but why is this genuinely good advice

  • @Fortunalux
    @Fortunalux 5 лет назад +48

    James is hilarious, but what a sweetheart as well.

  • @TheSwamper
    @TheSwamper 5 лет назад +661

    I'd love to see Greg Davies giving out advice.

    • @renjadex
      @renjadex 5 лет назад +28

      TheSwamper He’d probably tell people to quite literally fuck off and get over it!!

    • @Brewnette
      @Brewnette 5 лет назад +20

      He'd probably have a whack story for every single caller

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 5 лет назад +18

      @@renjadex
      Well, more like; 'Well..you're fucked then mate...right? Do you disagree? No? Well good, because you really are. Good luck with that! Next!"

    • @richardpaxford5792
      @richardpaxford5792 4 года назад

      "Where do I take her on a date Gregg?"
      "Space Mission!"

    • @smilesfordays
      @smilesfordays 4 года назад +15

      @@renjadex maybe... but he was a school teacher as well so I feel like the real Greg is much more warm-hearted and compassionate than his stage persona, much like how James came off so much more confident and intuitive than his stage face.

  • @OfficialFingazMC
    @OfficialFingazMC 5 лет назад +355

    Anything Acaster says I take as gospel!

  • @leahb8772
    @leahb8772 5 лет назад +126

    The concentration on his face lmaooo

  • @vloggetts
    @vloggetts 5 лет назад +57

    I expected this to just be comedy but he was actually giving out some decent advice too

  • @ksanetmehari7202
    @ksanetmehari7202 3 года назад +3

    "So basically it's a bit of a dilemma I got" is a phrase I WILL be using indefinitely forever THANK YOU.

  • @mattiekatharine
    @mattiekatharine 5 лет назад +354

    He’s single. me and my boyfriend may have to fight over him

  • @summer-oo8mo
    @summer-oo8mo 5 лет назад +26

    I love James acaster so much it’s crazy

  • @TheScopophobia
    @TheScopophobia 4 года назад +9

    I love Acaster so much, he provides me with endless entertainment

  • @parkviewmo
    @parkviewmo 5 лет назад +9

    James Acaster is funny and has a kind heart! I hope he does some more U.S. tours.

  • @Miniredfoxette
    @Miniredfoxette 5 лет назад +21

    We need a part two of this I would love to find out how that woman's call went I hope it went well!

  • @nithyasris7276
    @nithyasris7276 5 лет назад +161

    He’s super cute

  • @lacklustreplough
    @lacklustreplough 5 лет назад +35

    Awww, James is tender here; Me likey!

  • @capricornkd7177
    @capricornkd7177 3 года назад +13

    An absolute star, he is my number one choice of man (soul mate) his looks, sense of humour and now his sweet heart. If I can't have james I'll have an exact copy.

  • @nyxbi809
    @nyxbi809 4 года назад +9

    Omg he's waaaaaay better at this than I thought he would be x.x

  • @harrietw3728
    @harrietw3728 5 лет назад +13

    his movements are incredible

  • @annabass4957
    @annabass4957 4 года назад +14

    whats crazy is he has my whole heart

  • @RIXRADvidz
    @RIXRADvidz 5 лет назад +207

    good at relationship advice because he's been in so many bad ones. yeah, that could qualify

    • @motttta
      @motttta 5 лет назад +36

      A person who fails and learns from their mistakes is wiser than a person who never failed.

  • @seb5542
    @seb5542 5 лет назад +382

    Why are they looking at him funny?

    • @rossshepherd9836
      @rossshepherd9836 5 лет назад +71

      Probably editing.

    • @kills26
      @kills26 5 лет назад +19

      roast is slang for sex, well at least in my mind, but I have a dirty mind 🙃

    • @AKAMustang
      @AKAMustang 5 лет назад +7

      Close enough, this should explain it clearly enough: www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=spit%20roast

    • @thehallofvalhalla
      @thehallofvalhalla 5 лет назад +52

      It's all editing. Some of the people shown weren't even in the room with him

    • @DK_Son
      @DK_Son 5 лет назад +17

      Usually any camera angle cuts are bringing completely unrelated bits together. That lady probably made that face (about the avoiding roasts bit) at another time and they just thought it'd be good to snip in there.

  • @ivorharden
    @ivorharden 5 лет назад +37

    3:38 He puts his thumb up for someone he cant see.

  • @RisaNoelRomano
    @RisaNoelRomano 5 лет назад +34

    What this cliffhanger you've left us with?! Did she call back?!

  • @nefwaenre
    @nefwaenre 5 лет назад +35

    i'm about to start my job at a call centre tomorrow SO THIS VIDEO IS A BLESSING!! OHH JAMES!!! i truly wish and pray that James would get someone who loves him for who he is and be happy.
    James: *I believe in ya.*
    Me: i believe in you, too. ♥ (goes out and fights whatever shit that life throws)

    • @kylef952
      @kylef952 5 лет назад +6

      I believe in you too Neferi, Good Luck!!!!

    • @nefwaenre
      @nefwaenre 5 лет назад +3

      @steve gale why don't YOU go get a life instead of reply on some random stranger's comment, you bloody wanker? Whatever this is, and however i react to this, is none of your fucking business.

    • @nefwaenre
      @nefwaenre 5 лет назад +1

      @@kylef952 Thanks mate! :)

    • @josedavidarellanoroman5107
      @josedavidarellanoroman5107 4 года назад +1

      i start working on a call center tomorrowwwww and this popped in in my recommended today

  • @avakelly7008
    @avakelly7008 4 года назад +11

    Channel 4 know what they're doing with these acaster compilations

  • @mikegalway2023
    @mikegalway2023 5 лет назад +52

    That roast joke went over everyones head..brilliant.😂

    • @gtenhave
      @gtenhave 5 лет назад +1

      I don't get it! Please explain.

    • @zak2600
      @zak2600 5 лет назад +4

      Original G I think he’s talking about a spit roast.

  • @ALphaMach1ne
    @ALphaMach1ne 5 лет назад +5

    Gold.
    More of this please

  • @Bcsmith333
    @Bcsmith333 4 года назад +9

    I want to watch him do this for a full hour

  • @Lumibear.
    @Lumibear. 5 лет назад +168

    Bit late in the day to be releasing clips of Celebrity Call Centre At Christmas, innit? Oh well...

    • @RIXRADvidz
      @RIXRADvidz 5 лет назад +6

      funny's funny any time of year, Christmas funny is just a bit tired because we all had a bit too much and don't want to see anymore Christmas until at least November.

    • @Lumibear.
      @Lumibear. 5 лет назад

      RIXRADvidz Oh hey, it’s my fave bad Santa bear! Hello bad Santa bear! *WAVES* hope you’re having fun in Lap-Land! ;)

    • @8ightBitKid
      @8ightBitKid 5 лет назад

      @@Lumibear. moron

  • @cerimellor4912
    @cerimellor4912 5 лет назад +18

    Just feeling a slinky for 2 minutes

  • @neonharri2666
    @neonharri2666 5 лет назад +16

    james could thrive in any position

  • @RGY33
    @RGY33 5 лет назад +12

    You're killing it brooo

  • @georgehardy3308
    @georgehardy3308 5 лет назад +18

    that woman in the hotel room 100% sounds like Kerry Godliman

  • @TRIPPLEJAY00
    @TRIPPLEJAY00 5 лет назад +5

    James Acaster is brilliant.

  • @CalLadyQED
    @CalLadyQED 3 года назад +3

    LOL. That last caller. I feel like James did NOT want her to call back.

  • @yeehaw8835
    @yeehaw8835 5 лет назад +4

    do you see why I stan this man

  • @LaurenOrion
    @LaurenOrion 5 лет назад +16

    God I love this man

  • @Janeswhitfield
    @Janeswhitfield 4 месяца назад

    🌹🇬🇧🌹James Acaster the best stand up comedian and a lovely man I’m sure,he’s my favourite

  • @squanus2866
    @squanus2866 4 года назад +5

    What a treasure. I'm in love with James

  • @oliviarule5679
    @oliviarule5679 4 года назад +3

    I will watch anything with james acaster

  • @Tommy.Foolery
    @Tommy.Foolery 5 лет назад +6

    Came here for comedy got actually good advice

  • @LuluNzama
    @LuluNzama Год назад

    The actual care of it all. I love him a tad bit more.

  • @theTommyWaters_
    @theTommyWaters_ 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you, Shane!

  • @GloomKloud
    @GloomKloud 5 лет назад +44

    Did she call back?

  • @foggrace587
    @foggrace587 4 года назад +1

    Anyone know where I can watch this? I'm American, so I can't watch it through their website.

  • @ameliajones4641
    @ameliajones4641 3 года назад

    Is it just me or was the first caller Wheeler Dealer from the Ranganation?

  • @sandwich2473
    @sandwich2473 2 года назад

    James Acaster is a goodie

  • @Bcsmith333
    @Bcsmith333 4 года назад +1

    Does anyone know where I can watch James's Cold Lasagne Hate Myself 1999 show?

    • @Red-zp2ni
      @Red-zp2ni 4 года назад

      Try netflix if not then search it up on RUclips ☺️😘☺️

    • @jane9250-h5v
      @jane9250-h5v 4 года назад +1

      rumour has it they recorded it for netflix, hopefully that's true and it comes out soon!!

  • @unoriginaluser575
    @unoriginaluser575 5 лет назад +6

    What did he say at 2:38?

    • @euan9330
      @euan9330 5 лет назад +3

      Unoriginal User just repeatng that her dad didn’t watch

    • @unoriginaluser575
      @unoriginaluser575 5 лет назад +1

      @@euan9330 Oh ok thanks lmao

  • @eyescreamcake
    @eyescreamcake 5 лет назад

    Can anyone provide English subtitles?

  • @annab9143
    @annab9143 4 года назад

    Does anyone know what the infinity symbols they're wearing are for?

  • @kierancreighton96
    @kierancreighton96 Год назад

    Did this show die or something, yhe channel 4 link goes nowhere

  • @BenStockdale
    @BenStockdale 4 года назад +4

    I hate all the fake reaction shots from the other celebrities that clearly are them reacting to their own calls and not James

    • @BenStockdale
      @BenStockdale 4 года назад +1

      Although respect to the editor, it's not your fault. They should have given you more coverage. No drama, preach.

  • @persephoneastrology7115
    @persephoneastrology7115 3 года назад

    Did he get back!?

  • @temporaryaccount3386
    @temporaryaccount3386 5 лет назад +24

    Didn't his missus leave him for Mr Bean

  • @s_singh_
    @s_singh_ 4 года назад +3

    HOW COULD LOUISE FORD LEAVE HIM FOR MR. BEAN?

  • @kneazle3603
    @kneazle3603 5 лет назад +4

    You can totally tell a girl she looks cute in bunny ears, that’s objectively fine, it expresses interest and it’s non threatening

  • @theJ3ZA
    @theJ3ZA 4 года назад +8

    This editing is driving me insane. Why are you flashing reaction shots of people in post that clearly weren't listening at the time. It's stupid and distracting.
    James is a hero though

  • @celic190
    @celic190 5 лет назад

    Soooo did she end up calling back James?

  • @parislane43
    @parislane43 5 лет назад +29

    i wish i was that slinky

  • @rozturner8110
    @rozturner8110 5 лет назад +1

    can he be my life coach

  • @wesbroome2411
    @wesbroome2411 3 года назад +2

    id avoid roasts all together

  • @Account1746
    @Account1746 5 лет назад

    Did she call back tho

  • @ZoeThomson00
    @ZoeThomson00 5 лет назад

    Fuck he is lovely

  • @codyhannahmary83
    @codyhannahmary83 5 лет назад +21

    Agony 'scrape' Aunt

  • @elizaheathen
    @elizaheathen 5 лет назад +2

    ummmm I could watch him do this for 24 hours

  • @clarityphillips2147
    @clarityphillips2147 2 года назад +1

    i miss when he and rose were together

  • @dananabread6632
    @dananabread6632 3 года назад

    vv wholesome

  • @priesty07
    @priesty07 5 лет назад +169

    He lost his partner to Mr Bean, aint taking any advice from him 🤪🤪🤪

    • @nefwaenre
      @nefwaenre 5 лет назад +61

      That's his ex's loss, mate and a good thing too! She saw nothing but money. Someone waay better, honest and loyal is gonna be his partner now, who'll treat him right. :)

    • @Maialeen
      @Maialeen 5 лет назад +37

      But honestly I can't imagine as a young woman leaving someone smart, cute, funny and clearly going places...for some old fart. Even worse, cheating. I don't want my husband to be nearly dying when I'm 45. Maybe she has a raging desire to change mr Beans adult diapers in the future. Uh, no thanks. Money isn't worth that. Creepy relationship.

    • @ePai9e
      @ePai9e 5 лет назад +82

      Woah guys, lets not drag Rowan Atkinson down, none of it is his fault.

    • @BlueBadBerry
      @BlueBadBerry 5 лет назад +3

      What?! Who is this chick? I don’t know the gossip

    • @itsnotworthit7178
      @itsnotworthit7178 5 лет назад

      @@nefwaenre i still can't believe that this is true

  • @jpquinn91
    @jpquinn91 5 лет назад

    She never called back.

  • @k43mc73
    @k43mc73 5 лет назад +3

    Is he a real person

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 5 лет назад +2

      I'd argue he's closer to an angel, on good days.

  • @MsLaylamausi
    @MsLaylamausi 4 года назад +12

    relationship advice from a guy who was left for mr bean

  • @elephantstone7556
    @elephantstone7556 5 лет назад

    Never seen this programme but It’s celebrities phoning in as well right? The yoga guy was clearly Adam Buxton and the wedding girl was Kerry Godliman

  • @sofiaguerrero0969
    @sofiaguerrero0969 2 года назад +2

    I don’t know why women keep leaving him. James is tall, he has this indie/brooding poker faced attractive thing going on, he’s obviously funny, he has the wit and the charm, so what is it? I really wonder. Maybe he’s controlling or clingy? I don’t even know. It’s weird because he seems like the complete total package.

  • @randomuploadsism
    @randomuploadsism 4 года назад +1

    OK seriously, is he single now? I need to know.

  • @rodchamp7510
    @rodchamp7510 5 лет назад

    Is that Paul Daniels wife? Why is she there ?

  • @RachyRooM
    @RachyRooM Год назад +1

    Unexpectedly jealous of a slinky today, hmm do we sense a new crush forming 😅

  • @duckysprouts
    @duckysprouts 3 года назад +6

    relationship advice from the guy whose gf left him for mr bean

  • @NishatEqbal
    @NishatEqbal 5 лет назад +10

    He was left for mr bean. Last person to get advice from

  • @teabarjaktarevic2918
    @teabarjaktarevic2918 4 года назад +2

    I think this guy should get treatment, years and years of treatment, before getting into a relationship (a propos his giving love advice). Just my impression. I worry for the girls. Be that as it may, still love his work.

    • @sometime.somewhere
      @sometime.somewhere 4 года назад +2

      What do you mean, what is your impression? /curious

    • @sofiaguerrero0969
      @sofiaguerrero0969 2 года назад

      I don’t think there’s anytime wrong with James. I think many people go through breakups like he does. He just chooses to talk about it a lot so it may seem like he is the problem. He currently has a girlfriend and I think they have a child together.

    • @daediaz186
      @daediaz186 Год назад

      ​@@sofiaguerrero0969What, what makes you think they have a child?

  • @zoeconnor4906
    @zoeconnor4906 5 лет назад +1

    Can i have him please

  • @oliverokeeffe6379
    @oliverokeeffe6379 4 года назад +1

    God help you if you need relationship advice from the guy who got dumped for mr bean

  • @kingofgoogle7715
    @kingofgoogle7715 4 года назад

    I usually like acaster but this is too weird

  • @MichaelM28
    @MichaelM28 5 лет назад

    James Acaster's about as funny as HIV

    • @rossshepherd9836
      @rossshepherd9836 5 лет назад +56

      Well, you're in the minority.

    • @RIXRADvidz
      @RIXRADvidz 5 лет назад +12

      having AIDS is a Laugh Fest mate, incontinence, all those jokes are shit, the insomnia, night sweats, constant nausea and fatigue from AIDS meds, oh YEAH!!! but it's only funny if you have it, if you don't then FUCK OFF with the references.

    • @tomhiggart
      @tomhiggart 5 лет назад +1

      Your'e about as funny as terminal cancer. You 2 would get along both being as funny as life threatening conditions.

    • @ViscountAlexOfTheHorsePeople
      @ViscountAlexOfTheHorsePeople 5 лет назад +2

      The episode of South Park where Kyle and Cartman get aids is fricking hilarious

    • @rossshepherd9836
      @rossshepherd9836 5 лет назад

      Guys, hug it out and go twos on a black baby, aye?

  • @MichaelM28
    @MichaelM28 5 лет назад

    He's not funny

    • @unoriginaluser575
      @unoriginaluser575 5 лет назад +102

      Well a lot of people do find him funny so that's the main thing. Frankly, no one cares about you, so move on.

    • @dukimcquack
      @dukimcquack 5 лет назад +23

      Neither are you

    • @thesimpsons17
      @thesimpsons17 5 лет назад +30

      I'm sure he'd be heartbroken to find out a random on RUclips doesn't like him. Hes doing very well for himself without your approval.

    • @stephengilmore2741
      @stephengilmore2741 5 лет назад +20

      So says the guy who literally spends his miserable life watching and criticising videos of things he doesn't even enjoy. I see you still haven't seen a psychiatrist yet then.

    • @A96Z86
      @A96Z86 5 лет назад +4

      lmaooooo why are all the replies so aggressive 😂 each to their own man