Permanently Escape Narcissistic Abuse Through the Self-Love Recovery Technique
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
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In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, discusses the only effective strategy to permanently escape narcissistic abuse and any potential for repeating it with the next romantic partner. The answer is simple; the explanation makes a whole lot of sense, but the process takes a bit of time. It can be accomplished through Rosenberg's Self-Love Recovery Treatment Method (Program).
In the video, Ross announces the publication of his latest book "Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken" It will be available on Amazon on or before May 13,
ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.
Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and are responsible for the development of his Self-Love Recovery Treatment Program. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest.
In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his RUclips channel with 28 million views and 285,000 subscribers and the sale of 185,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.
Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com.
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May everyone who finds themselves here be deeply blessed and find the love and safety they deserve. ❤ xo.
I really worry for our younger people and generations. It was already hard enough for those of us who grew up in a different era. Now I feel like the conditions are set up against them with the prevalence of technology and social media use. This phenomenon, to me, looks like a total breeding ground for dysfunction, core shame, loneliness, and lack of impulse control.
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I sometimes find myself ruminating in fear about these concerns myself, and then I remind myself that there are people like Ross Rosenberg and you and I and many other people who are adding to a ripple effect of spreading direct authenticity, compassion and a deep desire towards sharing (win win) information and personally gained wisdom with others ❤
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Absolutely. Social media is massively enabling for people of the dark triad. They use it for: validation, for recruiting enablers, for recruiting supplies, for stalking them, for manipulation, for deception, triangulations, to mock and to bully and many more...
It is the perfect tool for those spirits. It amplifies all the dark traits within them and enables their execution effortlessly. The game has never been this easy before. And it'll turn into a serious and destructive problem a few years or decades from now.
I've already seen and experienced such disturbing things. I'm eager to think about solutions. But even if I'd find some; who would actually care? This machinery doesn't just enable, it profits from reckless people and behaviour. It profits from obsession and destruction. The machinery breeds and fosters dark personalities and facilitates and downplays abuse. It's horrifying. But fortunately this is just one side of the coin, at least currently. The other side is education and having the chance to get informed by people with genuine and good and pure intentions. And to connect with a few who are like-minded. 💖
(To end it on a more positive note. But yes; this is a thing to seriously worry about.)
You’re compassion is both admirable and shared ❤
Self-love is fundamental and has to come first!
Oh boy, can't wait to get home and look into this more. This is my core issue and fixing my current narcissistic situation revolves around me healing this issue in me. It is a DEVIL.
This is like a breath of fresh air in a smoggy land ❤ thanks again for your straightforwardness and compassionate approach Ross ! I am really Looking forward to hearing about all of the success of your new book!! 📖 😘👌
You are so welcome! The book is out. Here is a direct link on Amazon: a.co/d/2j6Jt6y
@@RossRosenbergDoes the book solely describe what the problem is or does it actually go into practical ways of helping ourselves?
Hello Ross, I have your books . I have bought almost all of your recovery programs from your website. I just got your new book on Amazon kindle and I just ordered the paper back copy from your site. I just want to say that I drive a lot for work. And I really hope that you bring your new book out as an audible version, Please !!! Thank you…
Thank you for your support. Here is the link to the audible: a.co/d/aQ8bLo9.
Hello Ross, I want to say that you sure did pick the right person to write the forward to your new book, Robert Jackman,. It was one of the best things I have ever read. Still reading your new book, Love it !! Thank You.
Wow, thank you
I am exhausted with the treatment received. I fight with some and give up with others. I hate that I am to blame when all these folks need to do is get help as well.
No you are not to blame. It's natural that whenever something terrible happens to you, you ruminate about it (because it happened to YOU) to possibly figure out what did you do wrong, what could you have done better. Do or not do. Could have you been more supportive to one of your partners or parents (or even all three of them)? Which itself is not absurdly false, because if they were a subject of proper therapy they might have had some betterment. But being caught up in it there is one person who was getting starved of emotional support and love, it's yourself. And you deserve love and help not less than anyone else. You will not make up a decision for anyone else. They have a choice to look deeper into themselves and they refuse to do it. It's their OBLIGATION to do so and they refused to do it.
Coodepndancy is like a Matryoshka doll, there is allways problem within a problem. If you learn how to be not seduced by ANYTHING that narcissist do, and to not reframe what they do then it's your great victory. Having a good caring honest person (who at least is ABLE to understands your problems) or people around you is also good for your recovery so that you don't feel lonely, misunderstood and rejected. If you get to feel isolated it can go slippery slope downwards quickly. Whoever that was or is your narcissist in your life, he or she never cared for you in no sense. If it was your parents then only the parentification made you feel the sense to be somehow valuable. And this problem (I believe) can be broken with the help of someone who is actually compassionate and care for you. Every literature you read or therapy you take may be useful to make sense and point. Don't stop if it doesn't itch for a while. You are good person not only for caring for others but also for caring for yourself. 🙂Never settle to compromise with a narcissist, you will allways loose, and they know it, and it is one of the reasons they are so self-proud. They prey on your insecurities and they are one of the major destructive forces for many good people out there. Parentification is also selfish in it's roots (on the narcissists side). No compassion in it. You help them, and soon after it's done they stop noticing you. Because deeply inside narcissist has stopped in development at level of an egoistic (around) 5 years old . "You give me, you give me, you help me, you do things for me, you nourish me, give me" - ahhh fuck off narcissist ! - This is what you have to think to them.
They are unable to see you. And any "caring about you" stuff is just smoke and mirrors. They are absolutely immersed in their own delusion. Healing your insecurities is the key. They are a spoiled brats who are unable to make a distinction beetween them and other people. Indeed they are not the strong ones, you are the strong one with your hobbies, authentic self, knowledge, true life experience, sense of humor, goals and your achievements in the past. And they are angry like they were punished not having those and it is would somehow be your fault. Like an infant who can't get his toy or get fed. They are only physically adult people, just deeply disturbed. And you should tell them to fuck off once and for all. You wanna feel good saving someone? Save yourself. You are able to forward that empathy and care into yourself.
Your problem is not that you did anything wrong actually, the problem is that you did not recieved enough love, neither from others (which WAS THEIR duty), neither from yourself. I wish for you that it is the last time you need to do their chore - by giving love to yourself 🙂and keeping healthy and happy 🙂
Don't count on it, fixing ourselves is key, I attract so something has to change so the angels of death pass over
I feel broken. I grew up with abuse and was left for dead overseas with a rare hypoxic-iscemic brain injury which resulted in Parkinsonism and dystonia. I ordered the book, but I can't afford therapy that actually works .I'm 43, and just had a threshold explosion at my now ex. I'm completely alone and my health is suffering.
🎯🙏🏼 thank you for explaining this to people. Your work is appreciated and important.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for your life’s work. 🙏 im making it. No matter what.
Congratulations on new book
Mr. Rosenberg,
Pivotal for this era of global mental illness crises!!! What's the process for book review (major periodicals and ...)?
Am so tired. Left my ex after 27 years. Nearly 1and half year but so much trauma.
Respect sir❤
Finally!
this explains my life long suffering. . While my hug family wont even speak to me for years n years. . my dad left me and a few bros to make another huge family. .i was left to rot at the hands of my self absorbed mom sending me every summer to go with piverty stricken relatives😢
Hello Ross - I look forward to being one of the first to order your new book, and I am deeply appreciative of your compassion for those of us suffering with SLDD. Just a thought - I remember you said once that the difference between someone who experienced childhood trauma going on to develop either SLDD or further to malignant narcissism is that the narcissist suffered much more severe abuse, and thus the core shame is much deeper so that the narcissist cannot grasp it. If the narcissist was so much more severely damaged, why do we hold them in such revulsion? Because their injuries were so much more severe, shouldn't we have even more compassion for them?
Thank you for your support. If you haven't already here is a direct link on Amazon: a.co/d/2j6Jt6y
yes. . .yes. .yes. ..
the more would figure the more i realized i was in a bottomless pit
Something about him , creeps me the f out lol
Not sure what it is, but I continue watching to figure it out 🤔
What was the answer, I didn’t get it. Is it self love ?
Buy his course or books seems to be the answer or you do not love yourself enough maybe or you wouldn't put up with it ?
is his new book already out?
June 2024
Yes, the book is out. Here is a direct link on Amazon: a.co/d/2j6Jt6y
but life has been spiraling down non stop. . I would struggle to pay the $125
I know how u feel
"Full-proof" ???
ikr? Shouldn't that be "foolproof "?
This video should be called "how to buy my book, take my courses, or get coaching to solve your problems ... because if you wanted even an outline of the ideas, well ... buy the book!"
Perhaps... I follow about three dozen or more Narcissist channels and find it helps to think and compare and contrast the different words approaches, etc ....maybe it's just me but it helps me make sense of things and get a grasp on something that I probably wish would just go away or that just didn't exist... So I am very appreciative of all the different perspectives..some are indeed VERY limited, but everybody starts at different places...then if you are ready. You look deeper ... And the narcissist is only HALF THE PROBLEM..and ONLY the Codependent is CAPABLE OF A SOLUTION...so it's ALL on you (the Codependent) ...blaming the narcissist gets you nowhere... Take the first step. Because ONLY YOU CAN.
So?! The vast majority of RUclipsrs make revenue from advertisers, and that's why many do it. He's a professional and up front about what he is offering. If you don't want it, don't buy it.
He lays out the pyramid and talks about the levels. That in itself is useful info if one has never come across this before. Especially because the vast majority of therapists and such only know of the codependency model, not to mention they have little to no concept of this, much less an actionable plan of treatment. The videos and website have lots of free info too.
If you went to a therapist you found via a friend or insurance, you'd pay them!
Your objection is like the last three people who asked me for professional advice pertaining to three careers I've had. They thought they could just get me to do it or pump me for free!
These included professional editing, professional training and legal consultation. There are going rates for all three!
It worked, I bought his book, and it is Amazing.
I appreciate Rosenberg's work. But I find that he's invented a term, SLDD, for a condition that's already been named and explored with nuance. It's called Complex PTSD.