Everytime you guys talk about “the people that found us through tiktok “ I get a big goofy grin cause I saw your fire crotch one and binged thru ur tiktoks then saved a video so next time I was on looking for a podcast I could search the name and now you’re my favourite podcast even more (sorry em and Christine you’re a massive second) than and that’s why we drink and I love them, I’ve introduced your podcast to my mum as well, you guys remind me of her a lot
It's always so weird for the first few minutes seeing you guys head-on! Jeri, I hope you get to feeling better soon, and Ciara- THANK YOU for being so open about postpartum struggles! I'm 4 months postpartum and the struggle is reallllll, and it's not a topic that's talked about enough!
hi ok i’m literally turning 18 in a month and 2 days and i just realized something during that whole thing about family, i realized that i don’t associate anyone with that word like at all, and if i did, it would be my friends. now it makes so much sense as to why i have had to grow up / have grown up so quickly and early in my life. that was a really hard realization to make, especially since i’ll be in college in a few months and probably feel so alone. i don’t mean to trauma-dump in the comments but i really have no idea who i would share that with. i just needed to get that out there, so, sorry. and i’m especially sorry if someone reading this can relate. but really, thank you Ciera and Jeri for being so comforting and supportive to us all. we love you and wish you the best
I'm SO glad I'm not the only one who realized that I have no idea what is an abnormal level of panic/anxiety!! My doc gave me an "as needed" anti-anxiety and I haven't taken them very often because I've realized that I have no baseline for "not anxious" and I can't tell when I'm "more anxious than usual" until I've had an anxiety attack
Something that helped my fiancee was I was just super candid with her about "hey babe, this isn't something people aren't typically this anxious about" and we would have conversations when she would calm down and re-center about what I was noticing as someone who doesn't have anxiety. She even told her psychiatrist that she had no idea how much anxiety she felt on a regular basis until we started dating lmao. Idk if you have anyone in your life that you trust with that, I hope you do, and I hope they're willing to gently point out the things that can help you identify that baseline.
This was my first year as a single mother of two. I felt like shit and had to struggle to give him most of what he wanted. My 8 year old son made me feel so proud of myself because he said “Oh now I know Santa is real now because my mom is poor. She can’t afford all this” damn straight baby Santa took care of you ❤️
Yes yes please talk about family systems sometime! I'm 30 and still live in my childhood bedroom, am sure I'm neurodivergent, have a hard time with friendships and I've never dated--I want friends, a relationship and children someday (esp seeing others my age grow this way) but can't see how to make it happen. People try to reassure me that I do have a family/support system ("your parents are your family"🙄) and that I shouldn't feel lonely but I do. I'm just so weird with people, they don't want to connect and it makes me feel like I won't have my own family or friends. I feel selfish for wanting my own life away from my home but I feel unwanted. I feel left behind and excluded. Im sure there's a psychological phenomenon going on that could explain it--I did get that book "What Happened to You?" in hopes to find resolve. This podcast has kept me company and I appreciate you two for sharing so much.
So I was talking to my sister the other day and she told me that when she first saw you guys she thought your name was "ladies and tan gents" (like tan gentlemen). I thought you would find that funny. Love you guys, this year I am thankful for you guys❤
I still remember the podcast that you mentioned a fear of being in a bathtub and falling through floors and I could not believe anyone else had such a similar specific vision as I did. I feel like I have one of these moments at least once per episode. Thank you for being so willing to share the weird parts of life with us. And for being hilarious too.
Me realizing that I talk to much in my head😳😳😳 I’ve been off my anxiety and depression meds for like 4 months not bcuz my doctor said I could be but I haven’t gone back to get re-evaluated for my dosage
Finding you guys was one of the highlights of my year. This has been a really rough one filled with so many emotions but every week I could count on you two to make me laugh through the tears 🥲 love you
I wanted to offer an additional piece to think about because Jeri felt bad about saying the "doing your best" thing to Ciera about her schooling. You were being a great friend and being protective but saying that doing your best can look different depending on the day and how you feel, so don't beat yourself up about the different "bests" that you can give yourself. I love you both tremendously and am so happy to go into another year with you. Take care. 🥰🥰
Santa gets one modestly priced gift and your stocking , parents get the rest . Keeps the talk down at school and it gives parents credit cause sometimes it’s hard and we can’t afford much. Every year I cry cause I’m afraid I haven’t gotten enough. This year my husband left me on Halloween weekend and I haven’t gotten a holiday with my son. He don’t like to send him with me now that he’s in a new relationship. I was left with nothing , I spent about $100 on him and am grateful I had that but I still wish I could do more . We do the best we can and they will be happy. Y’all are doing great!
You guys are absolutely beautiful! Seeing you guys head on for the first time is a really cool experience. I’ve been through so much in the past year and find this podcast made me less alone. Listening from Oklahoma. Love you guys
Omg plsss do RUclips videos those would be the most entertaining thing ever! This whole episode felt like I was in a conversation with you, more than other episodes. Congrats on everything you guys have accomplished this year and feel better jeri!!
Jeri and Ciara... There's no way to easily sum up just how much enrichment, goodness, laughter, refreshment and love you have both poured into mine and so many lives... You are both incredible and beautiful humans and I hope life returns you every bit of enrichment, goodness, laughter, refreshment and love! Your podcast has been a lighthouse in my life and there will never be enough words to express my gratitude for finding you both on my journey x Thank you Jeri and Ciara x Cheers to another year and gosh I can't wait to see what 2022 brings for you and yours equally! Love yas x
My parents have been divorced since I was 5 (im 27 now) and Ciara, you are SPOT ON about having to split the holidays and unfortunately my daughter is in the same position as i was & still am so thank you 🥲😭Couldn't have said it better myself!
I’m on my spiritual journey right now and I read tarot cards, when I heard you guys talking about it I got so excited! It’s amazing how much the universe is in control and your mind controls how you feel, think and how you take action! You both should learn some more on spiritual things, it’s amazing! It changed my life and it changed how I felt about myself!
I started listening to y’all March of 2021 and started therapy because of y’all… y’all talked about it so much and how eye opening it was and The more I heard y’all discuss it the less weird it seemed and y’all…. My life has changed so much. I suffered a miscarriage 2 weeks before my birthday (after trying to conceive for 10+yrs) and before therapy that would have been my “13th reason” i was so broken before that this kind of lose would have just destroyed me and I WOULD HAVE LET IT. but now I have the tools to deal with the pain AND i have someone who i have no strings attached to can help me navigate it. Before I didn’t have those tools to dig myself out and now I do and the miscarriage didn’t break me, and I have hope I can get pregnant again and maybe one day be a mom. But you guys did that for me. You made something I was terrified of less scary and it ended up saving my life. Thank you. I’m a different person now. The people I choose to have in my life see it and they are proud of me and I am proud of me. Thank you thank you.
Omg Ciara you got me good today. I was a single mom for a long time and absolutely understand the struggle and the excitement of finally getting to a good place 😭
Found the laddies on TikTok like 2months ago and finally went hey, these are podcast clips, I'm sure they have a YT! Y'all, I am SO GLAD you two are here and mean so much to so many people. Back to binging ❤️
My sister and I found y’all this year and we constantly share clips and comments about the shows back and forth! You two are so relatable, inspiring, hilarious, just GOOD! I hope 2022 is kind to you and the show continues to grow and touch lives 😍 can’t wait for the next one!
15 minutes in and I was taking a drink of water just as you said that woman's poor children would be eating...pants. Thank you for the coughing fit, that line was amazing 😅
Can confirm as a man, I have nonstop thoughts. I'm undiagnosed ND, but show a lot of the signs. As for the crying, I have one medicine that if I'm not diligent on, will trigger unpredictable bouts of crying without any trigger. It's unsettling and made me feel like I was losing my mind. Luckily I experienced it before my wife started hers bc she went on the same meds and had the same symptom.
I do that thing where you come up with a whole story and then empathize with it and cry- sometimes it happens for good things. There's a section on Chewy called gifts for cats and just thinking about someone ordering a gift for a cat makes me happy cry. I was a wreck when I ordered Christmas gifts for my cat 😄 they're not always happy by any means, just a funny/cute example
I recently got diagnosed with ADHD and started medication, Jeri I know EXACTLY what you mean. My brain gets quiet and at first I was like mmm me no likes this but now it’s like wow I can just be not thinking
Omg ladies and tangents in the wild would be amazing Drunk cooking, painting and boys v girls stuff. The boys doing yoga would be so funny Love you both 💗
YES ! My mum did the same thing with Santa and Stockings and i thought that made so much more sense - I’m 26 and she still does a “Santa stocking” for me and my 22yo brother and its more of a funny tradition that Santa is a bit Pervy and buys me underwear and childlike stuff that’s guilty pleasures 😂 this year i got a sticker book, HazzaP PJs, fluffy slippers and some socks with my dogs face on - its such a good tradition!
i noticed the “a Stitcher podcast” on the website but didn’t want to say anything in case i was just dumb and missed it previously but congrats!! that’s a big recognition for a podcast and i love that for you 💖💖
At like 9:15 in the video, you say that random stuff makes you cry , and let me tell you!!! I was listening to a podcast about crypto and stocks, and I started bawling 🤣 I feel you on a spiritual level on that front
I know so many people who either left college before graduating and came back, or started later (30s, 40s, even older!) who I became friends with. My close friend who I met in my major was 38 when we became friends, and he's now in his career! Everyone is at their own pace, has their own obstacles, and finishes in their own time. Even someone like me who graduated high school a year early is now a semester "behind" in college because I should have graduated this semester but I'm graduating in May (behind is used loosely because no one HAS to graduate in exactly 4 years). I'm glad that Jeri brought up that working your "hardest" looks different throughout your life, because it does! I had to learn that the hard way, and I wish I had someone to tell me that years ago.
I know you like video research Jeri so if you guys do the family structures topic I highly recommend Patrick Teahan LCISW, he has a video on 7 toxic family structures that I had to pause like seventy times while watching cuz it was too friggen accurate. Love you guys, you've made my year ❤️
Not me watching this episode right after you guys just announced your tour dates I can’t believe I get to come see you live!!! You two have helped me more than you’ll ever know . love ya. see ya soon besties!!!!!
I'm a new listener/subscriber. Started following you ladies on TikTok and have been hooked ever since. You don't know me or anything about me yet when I watch y'all I feel like I can be myself which is hard to do on a regular basis. Thank you for being so candid and raw, means the world. Also side note, I generally hate people lol but I love you both ❤.
Absolutely yes to the RUclips videos with your guys! Love you and your minds, you girls always express how I feel when I can’t seem to verbalize my thoughts! ❤️❤️
I would LOVE to watch you guys do random things!! I love listening to your podcast, and doing those things would add such a nice refreshing twist to what you already do!
I love you ladies so so much! I shared your podcast with my cousin who is a survivor of the Oxford School shooting and for the first time in weeks I saw her start to smile and act like her self again! I also love listening to you ladies as an escape from everything that is going on in our town. THANK YOU for all that you do!! I cant wait to see what 2022 brings you!
Me ex husband and I do the every other year holidays and I was homeless last year and didn't have them and it was my year. So I thought this year he would be understanding and let me have them but that didn't happen. So my holidays is postponed again. 😓 Hope you feel better soon Jeri. So proud of you Ciara.
Speaking of family, if you turn to people who aren't blood related for the most important things. If you call your friends when you need support. They are your family, blood has nothing to do with it
Letting you ladies know in the comments below I could watch you do anything! I’ve only been watching/listening since July, but already feel like I’ve known you two for forever. You ladies have created such a safe place for not just me, but for thousands of people and I can wholeheartedly say on behalf of everyone, thank you♥️♥️
You ARE absolutely a safe space. You’ve helped me understand myself and my struggles including adhd diagnosis as an adult and understanding that I experienced trauma bonding but it wasn’t just my own stupidity or poor judgment. You make me feel less alone and even if the topic of episode isn’t immediately relevant to me, you help me through bad days. Also, reusable cups and discs are life changing and I know women who use discs and IUD’s so definitely look into that
I love listening to you two talk I find it so therapeutic. Also you both look so beautiful and you have gorgeous hearts and souls. Jerri even when sick with covid, you are glowing, and Ciara your smile is so beautiful, and I love your makeup ❤️. This podcast has really helped me learn so much so thank you again, and please keep doing this for as long as you want to. Lots of love, and Happy New Year 🥳
I love y’all’s podcast so much and the way you navigate life experiences! I don’t know it’s possible but I would love to hear y’all talk about marriage and how you knew that was the step you wanted to take. I’m especially interested in Ciara’s perspective given that she grew up with divorced parents. I’m finding it really difficult to tear down those walls and believe in marriage working but i think hearing y’all talk about your own journey may help! Trying to break the cycle of unhealthy relationships lol!
I love you guys sm you’ve helped me open up about my health to others. You guys helped me see that it was okay to feel these things and that I’m not weird and I have people like me that can help me understand all of it
I’ve been dying for your Merch - just ordered some ☺️✨ I just want to say thank you for ever even thinking about doing this podcast. I don’t know if you can comprehend how many women love watching and listening to you and feel like we’re friends. (Which is what you guys wanted, I know 🤣). I am watching/listening from the very start to now and always put it on when I need company cause my anxious introverted ass just doesn’t like many people haha Jeri, you are seriously so flipping funny. I’m cry laughing in the car ALL. THE. TIME. Ciara - don’t stop being yourself, it seems like you’ve got to know yourself extremely well over the years and it’s refreshing seeing someone “normal” become who they are meant to be. Love you guys terribly. Always a fan (and a friend). 💕
i'm so grateful for you, ladies :) i don't know how, but you always manage to hit the nail on the head with exactly what i need to hear each week. i've had a lot of friends move away this year + some pretty major friendship breakups, and i cannot overstate how meaningful you guys being a consistent friendly energy each week was to me. thanks for the laughs, knowledge, and hard-hitting but necessary conversations this year. i hope anyone who reads this has a great new year's and wonderful 2022 💕 also i bought a new oracle deck today and y'all reminded me to do my first reading with it so thanks for that as well lol
One of my friends from Ohio told me about y’all’s podcast in July of last year. She’d heard from another friend about it and she listened and told me I’d love y’all. She was right of course, but I’m so happy for y’all and love seeing how far y’all have come in the last year. It really is a safe space❤️ I can’t wait to see what 2022 has in store for y’all!
Happy new year to you both and the whole community!! I hope you feel better soon J 💕. I would LOVE to hear a podcast about family and extended family dynamics. I'm having my first baby in February and have been married almost 5 years and yet I'm having such a hard time disconnecting from my parents and sister but have been feeling the need to every since I got pregnant.
I would love to see you guys do drunk crafts! Or not drunk crafts. I would love to watch you guys bake bread or do watercolor! So excited to watch what is to come!
I’m so glad for this podcast! I found you guys in July when I was in self isolation 5 days after my work opened back up. I listened to you guys all day everyday while taking care of my daughter. I was a newly single mum and really needed to feel like someone else cared. Since then I’ll listen to you everyday, mostly to fall asleep. You are both so funny, relatable and calming for me. I am now going to get tested for dyspraxia/adhd ☺️ I love you guys! Thank you so much for keeping me sane!
When I started my adhd meds I was very scared that I would have a quiet brain. I’m thankful that my brain isn’t quiet, it’s more like the tv is on and I have the volume on low and I can turn it up whenever I like. Before, the sound was on blast and the channels were changing constantly
I just want to tell you ladies, I absolutely love what y’all do on here and other platforms. I look forward to your videos every week. You bring me such peace, and joy❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Also in 2021 cierra became a PHYSICAL safe space like she started to mention in that episode, for sawyer during her pregnancy that she didnt know about yet!
enjoyed this so much, i really truly enjoy listening to you guys open about your lives side note:i’m a new listener of about a month and i spent that time starting at the very beginning so this is my first time seeing jeri’s eyebrows up close
So glad you both kept making these! I've been listening for over a year now and I'm literally so grateful for you both and the beautiful community you have created for us all! 💕
I take Zoloft for a while now and recently found out if you take NyQuil or DayQuil it will counteract the Zoloft effects and make it feel like you’re not taking it! Mucinex DM also apparently. Not sure if you’ve taken anything to feel better but it might be worth asking your doctor!
Being a child of divorce has also affected the way I view the holidays! And why I refuse to do it to my children. We have co-parent holidays and stay home on Christmas Day no matter what! I hated having to bee-bop all over creation!
Jeri said Ciara looks like she could fly a plane. It’s giving me Mrs incredible (I can’t figure out how to spell it elastigirl) but like her in the Plane but specifically her lol
Everytime you guys talk about “the people that found us through tiktok “ I get a big goofy grin cause I saw your fire crotch one and binged thru ur tiktoks then saved a video so next time I was on looking for a podcast I could search the name and now you’re my favourite podcast even more (sorry em and Christine you’re a massive second) than and that’s why we drink and I love them, I’ve introduced your podcast to my mum as well, you guys remind me of her a lot
“We’re talking for so long”... yes jeri this is a podcast 😂
this episode shouldve been titled "share our podcast, save a life"
thats probably my new fav quote
“If I’m the only one that has hairy nipples, at least I know I need to go to the doctor” - Jeri for President 2022
I wanted to like this comment but it's at 69 like and I'm a 13yr old boy apparently so heres a comment instead.
It's always so weird for the first few minutes seeing you guys head-on! Jeri, I hope you get to feeling better soon, and Ciara- THANK YOU for being so open about postpartum struggles! I'm 4 months postpartum and the struggle is reallllll, and it's not a topic that's talked about enough!
hi ok i’m literally turning 18 in a month and 2 days and i just realized something
during that whole thing about family, i realized that i don’t associate anyone with that word like at all, and if i did, it would be my friends. now it makes so much sense as to why i have had to grow up / have grown up so quickly and early in my life. that was a really hard realization to make, especially since i’ll be in college in a few months and probably feel so alone.
i don’t mean to trauma-dump in the comments but i really have no idea who i would share that with. i just needed to get that out there, so, sorry. and i’m especially sorry if someone reading this can relate.
but really, thank you Ciera and Jeri for being so comforting and supportive to us all. we love you and wish you the best
I'm SO glad I'm not the only one who realized that I have no idea what is an abnormal level of panic/anxiety!! My doc gave me an "as needed" anti-anxiety and I haven't taken them very often because I've realized that I have no baseline for "not anxious" and I can't tell when I'm "more anxious than usual" until I've had an anxiety attack
Something that helped my fiancee was I was just super candid with her about "hey babe, this isn't something people aren't typically this anxious about" and we would have conversations when she would calm down and re-center about what I was noticing as someone who doesn't have anxiety. She even told her psychiatrist that she had no idea how much anxiety she felt on a regular basis until we started dating lmao. Idk if you have anyone in your life that you trust with that, I hope you do, and I hope they're willing to gently point out the things that can help you identify that baseline.
This was my first year as a single mother of two. I felt like shit and had to struggle to give him most of what he wanted. My 8 year old son made me feel so proud of myself because he said “Oh now I know Santa is real now because my mom is poor. She can’t afford all this” damn straight baby Santa took care of you ❤️
Aww that made me tear up. So sweet
when she said "we were caring about you before we knew you existed" I started CRYINGGGG
Yes yes please talk about family systems sometime! I'm 30 and still live in my childhood bedroom, am sure I'm neurodivergent, have a hard time with friendships and I've never dated--I want friends, a relationship and children someday (esp seeing others my age grow this way) but can't see how to make it happen. People try to reassure me that I do have a family/support system ("your parents are your family"🙄) and that I shouldn't feel lonely but I do. I'm just so weird with people, they don't want to connect and it makes me feel like I won't have my own family or friends. I feel selfish for wanting my own life away from my home but I feel unwanted. I feel left behind and excluded. Im sure there's a psychological phenomenon going on that could explain it--I did get that book "What Happened to You?" in hopes to find resolve. This podcast has kept me company and I appreciate you two for sharing so much.
So I was talking to my sister the other day and she told me that when she first saw you guys she thought your name was "ladies and tan gents" (like tan gentlemen). I thought you would find that funny. Love you guys, this year I am thankful for you guys❤
I still remember the podcast that you mentioned a fear of being in a bathtub and falling through floors and I could not believe anyone else had such a similar specific vision as I did. I feel like I have one of these moments at least once per episode. Thank you for being so willing to share the weird parts of life with us. And for being hilarious too.
Me realizing that I talk to much in my head😳😳😳 I’ve been off my anxiety and depression meds for like 4 months not bcuz my doctor said I could be but I haven’t gone back to get re-evaluated for my dosage
Finding you guys was one of the highlights of my year. This has been a really rough one filled with so many emotions but every week I could count on you two to make me laugh through the tears 🥲 love you
I wanted to offer an additional piece to think about because Jeri felt bad about saying the "doing your best" thing to Ciera about her schooling. You were being a great friend and being protective but saying that doing your best can look different depending on the day and how you feel, so don't beat yourself up about the different "bests" that you can give yourself. I love you both tremendously and am so happy to go into another year with you. Take care. 🥰🥰
Santa gets one modestly priced gift and your stocking , parents get the rest . Keeps the talk down at school and it gives parents credit cause sometimes it’s hard and we can’t afford much. Every year I cry cause I’m afraid I haven’t gotten enough. This year my husband left me on Halloween weekend and I haven’t gotten a holiday with my son. He don’t like to send him with me now that he’s in a new relationship. I was left with nothing , I spent about $100 on him and am grateful I had that but I still wish I could do more . We do the best we can and they will be happy. Y’all are doing great!
Oh my gosh thank you both for giving us an episode with Jeri being quarantined. Also, are the exclusive episodes on sticher too?
Not on stitcher- they’ll be on patreon when it is up and running!
You guys are absolutely beautiful! Seeing you guys head on for the first time is a really cool experience. I’ve been through so much in the past year and find this podcast made me less alone.
Listening from Oklahoma. Love you guys
Omg plsss do RUclips videos those would be the most entertaining thing ever! This whole episode felt like I was in a conversation with you, more than other episodes. Congrats on everything you guys have accomplished this year and feel better jeri!!
Jeri and Ciara... There's no way to easily sum up just how much enrichment, goodness, laughter, refreshment and love you have both poured into mine and so many lives... You are both incredible and beautiful humans and I hope life returns you every bit of enrichment, goodness, laughter, refreshment and love! Your podcast has been a lighthouse in my life and there will never be enough words to express my gratitude for finding you both on my journey x Thank you Jeri and Ciara x Cheers to another year and gosh I can't wait to see what 2022 brings for you and yours equally! Love yas x
My parents have been divorced since I was 5 (im 27 now) and Ciara, you are SPOT ON about having to split the holidays and unfortunately my daughter is in the same position as i was & still am so thank you 🥲😭Couldn't have said it better myself!
I’m on my spiritual journey right now and I read tarot cards, when I heard you guys talking about it I got so excited! It’s amazing how much the universe is in control and your mind controls how you feel, think and how you take action! You both should learn some more on spiritual things, it’s amazing! It changed my life and it changed how I felt about myself!
Okay so now yall are making me question everything...do other people not have a constant monologue going wtfffff my brain does not stop 😭😂
I started listening to y’all March of 2021 and started therapy because of y’all… y’all talked about it so much and how eye opening it was and The more I heard y’all discuss it the less weird it seemed and y’all…. My life has changed so much. I suffered a miscarriage 2 weeks before my birthday (after trying to conceive for 10+yrs) and before therapy that would have been my “13th reason” i was so broken before that this kind of lose would have just destroyed me and I WOULD HAVE LET IT. but now I have the tools to deal with the pain AND i have someone who i have no strings attached to can help me navigate it. Before I didn’t have those tools to dig myself out and now I do and the miscarriage didn’t break me, and I have hope I can get pregnant again and maybe one day be a mom. But you guys did that for me. You made something I was terrified of less scary and it ended up saving my life. Thank you. I’m a different person now. The people I choose to have in my life see it and they are proud of me and I am proud of me. Thank you thank you.
Omg Ciara you got me good today. I was a single mom for a long time and absolutely understand the struggle and the excitement of finally getting to a good place 😭
Found the laddies on TikTok like 2months ago and finally went hey, these are podcast clips, I'm sure they have a YT! Y'all, I am SO GLAD you two are here and mean so much to so many people. Back to binging ❤️
I’ve been here for a year! I love you guys and thank you for being a warm safe place for us antisocial neurodivergents!
My sister and I found y’all this year and we constantly share clips and comments about the shows back and forth! You two are so relatable, inspiring, hilarious, just GOOD! I hope 2022 is kind to you and the show continues to grow and touch lives 😍 can’t wait for the next one!
15 minutes in and I was taking a drink of water just as you said that woman's poor children would be eating...pants. Thank you for the coughing fit, that line was amazing 😅
One of your tiktoks popped up on my for you page and I was instantly hooked. I could not stop laughing.
Can confirm as a man, I have nonstop thoughts. I'm undiagnosed ND, but show a lot of the signs. As for the crying, I have one medicine that if I'm not diligent on, will trigger unpredictable bouts of crying without any trigger. It's unsettling and made me feel like I was losing my mind. Luckily I experienced it before my wife started hers bc she went on the same meds and had the same symptom.
I too got the vid over Christmas. I'm so mad. Hadn't gotten it since this whole thing started till now.
I do that thing where you come up with a whole story and then empathize with it and cry- sometimes it happens for good things. There's a section on Chewy called gifts for cats and just thinking about someone ordering a gift for a cat makes me happy cry. I was a wreck when I ordered Christmas gifts for my cat 😄 they're not always happy by any means, just a funny/cute example
I recently got diagnosed with ADHD and started medication, Jeri I know EXACTLY what you mean. My brain gets quiet and at first I was like mmm me no likes this but now it’s like wow I can just be not thinking
Omg ladies and tangents in the wild would be amazing
Drunk cooking, painting and boys v girls stuff. The boys doing yoga would be so funny
Love you both 💗
YES ! My mum did the same thing with Santa and Stockings and i thought that made so much more sense - I’m 26 and she still does a “Santa stocking” for me and my 22yo brother and its more of a funny tradition that Santa is a bit Pervy and buys me underwear and childlike stuff that’s guilty pleasures 😂 this year i got a sticker book, HazzaP PJs, fluffy slippers and some socks with my dogs face on - its such a good tradition!
i noticed the “a Stitcher podcast” on the website but didn’t want to say anything in case i was just dumb and missed it previously but congrats!! that’s a big recognition for a podcast and i love that for you 💖💖
At like 9:15 in the video, you say that random stuff makes you cry , and let me tell you!!! I was listening to a podcast about crypto and stocks, and I started bawling 🤣 I feel you on a spiritual level on that front
I know so many people who either left college before graduating and came back, or started later (30s, 40s, even older!) who I became friends with. My close friend who I met in my major was 38 when we became friends, and he's now in his career! Everyone is at their own pace, has their own obstacles, and finishes in their own time. Even someone like me who graduated high school a year early is now a semester "behind" in college because I should have graduated this semester but I'm graduating in May (behind is used loosely because no one HAS to graduate in exactly 4 years). I'm glad that Jeri brought up that working your "hardest" looks different throughout your life, because it does! I had to learn that the hard way, and I wish I had someone to tell me that years ago.
I found y'all when me girlfriend sent me a TikTok off of your page and it's helped me so much. I'm constantly trying to get her to listen in too
I know you like video research Jeri so if you guys do the family structures topic I highly recommend Patrick Teahan LCISW, he has a video on 7 toxic family structures that I had to pause like seventy times while watching cuz it was too friggen accurate. Love you guys, you've made my year ❤️
Not me watching this episode right after you guys just announced your tour dates I can’t believe I get to come see you live!!! You two have helped me more than you’ll ever know . love ya. see ya soon besties!!!!!
I'm a new listener/subscriber. Started following you ladies on TikTok and have been hooked ever since. You don't know me or anything about me yet when I watch y'all I feel like I can be myself which is hard to do on a regular basis. Thank you for being so candid and raw, means the world. Also side note, I generally hate people lol but I love you both ❤.
Absolutely yes to the RUclips videos with your guys! Love you and your minds, you girls always express how I feel when I can’t seem to verbalize my thoughts! ❤️❤️
I would LOVE to watch you guys do random things!! I love listening to your podcast, and doing those things would add such a nice refreshing twist to what you already do!
I love you ladies so so much! I shared your podcast with my cousin who is a survivor of the Oxford School shooting and for the first time in weeks I saw her start to smile and act like her self again! I also love listening to you ladies as an escape from everything that is going on in our town. THANK YOU for all that you do!! I cant wait to see what 2022 brings you!
Me ex husband and I do the every other year holidays and I was homeless last year and didn't have them and it was my year. So I thought this year he would be understanding and let me have them but that didn't happen. So my holidays is postponed again. 😓 Hope you feel better soon Jeri. So proud of you Ciara.
Girl you aren't the only one!!! I shave or pluck my nipple hair! I used to think I was the only one and I was so weird and didn't dare tell anyone!!
Speaking of family, if you turn to people who aren't blood related for the most important things. If you call your friends when you need support. They are your family, blood has nothing to do with it
I cannot express enough what comfort and joy this podcast and the two of you have brought to me this year! Thank you a million times over 💜
Totally digging the idea of a family dynamic episode
Letting you ladies know in the comments below I could watch you do anything! I’ve only been watching/listening since July, but already feel like I’ve known you two for forever. You ladies have created such a safe place for not just me, but for thousands of people and I can wholeheartedly say on behalf of everyone, thank you♥️♥️
You ARE absolutely a safe space. You’ve helped me understand myself and my struggles including adhd diagnosis as an adult and understanding that I experienced trauma bonding but it wasn’t just my own stupidity or poor judgment. You make me feel less alone and even if the topic of episode isn’t immediately relevant to me, you help me through bad days. Also, reusable cups and discs are life changing and I know women who use discs and IUD’s so definitely look into that
I would love to see all of your ideas in the coming year(s)! I love y’all so much and the advice and bits of wisdom you give! 🥳💛
I love listening to you two talk I find it so therapeutic. Also you both look so beautiful and you have gorgeous hearts and souls. Jerri even when sick with covid, you are glowing, and Ciara your smile is so beautiful, and I love your makeup ❤️. This podcast has really helped me learn so much so thank you again, and please keep doing this for as long as you want to. Lots of love, and Happy New Year 🥳
would 100% watch all the extra videos! Bless Y'all's amazing and beautiful souls! (:
I love y’all’s podcast so much and the way you navigate life experiences! I don’t know it’s possible but I would love to hear y’all talk about marriage and how you knew that was the step you wanted to take. I’m especially interested in Ciara’s perspective given that she grew up with divorced parents. I’m finding it really difficult to tear down those walls and believe in marriage working but i think hearing y’all talk about your own journey may help! Trying to break the cycle of unhealthy relationships lol!
I love you guys sm you’ve helped me open up about my health to others. You guys helped me see that it was okay to feel these things and that I’m not weird and I have people like me that can help me understand all of it
I’ve been dying for your Merch - just ordered some ☺️✨
I just want to say thank you for ever even thinking about doing this podcast. I don’t know if you can comprehend how many women love watching and listening to you and feel like we’re friends. (Which is what you guys wanted, I know 🤣).
I am watching/listening from the very start to now and always put it on when I need company cause my anxious introverted ass just doesn’t like many people haha
Jeri, you are seriously so flipping funny. I’m cry laughing in the car ALL. THE. TIME.
Ciara - don’t stop being yourself, it seems like you’ve got to know yourself extremely well over the years and it’s refreshing seeing someone “normal” become who they are meant to be.
Love you guys terribly. Always a fan (and a friend). 💕
Hell yeah brother!!! Happy 2022
Flex disk is fine !! I have an IUD and use flex and love it !
i'm so grateful for you, ladies :) i don't know how, but you always manage to hit the nail on the head with exactly what i need to hear each week. i've had a lot of friends move away this year + some pretty major friendship breakups, and i cannot overstate how meaningful you guys being a consistent friendly energy each week was to me. thanks for the laughs, knowledge, and hard-hitting but necessary conversations this year. i hope anyone who reads this has a great new year's and wonderful 2022 💕
also i bought a new oracle deck today and y'all reminded me to do my first reading with it so thanks for that as well lol
One of my friends from Ohio told me about y’all’s podcast in July of last year. She’d heard from another friend about it and she listened and told me I’d love y’all. She was right of course, but I’m so happy for y’all and love seeing how far y’all have come in the last year. It really is a safe space❤️ I can’t wait to see what 2022 has in store for y’all!
Happy new year to you both and the whole community!! I hope you feel better soon J 💕. I would LOVE to hear a podcast about family and extended family dynamics. I'm having my first baby in February and have been married almost 5 years and yet I'm having such a hard time disconnecting from my parents and sister but have been feeling the need to every since I got pregnant.
I definitely have some ptsd from all the covid stuff the past 2 years 😩 speaking as a nurse who worked on a covid floor for a whole year and a half
You guys are definitely a "warm" safe place for me! I love you guys so much keep being your awesome selves happy new year❤🥰
You guys can manifest ANYTHING you want in life 🙏 ❤❤❤
I would love to see you guys do drunk crafts! Or not drunk crafts. I would love to watch you guys bake bread or do watercolor! So excited to watch what is to come!
Would also totally watch you bake or paint or whatever.. just like the live show!
I would LOVE to see the drunken cooking/baking video 😂❤
I’m so glad for this podcast! I found you guys in July when I was in self isolation 5 days after my work opened back up. I listened to you guys all day everyday while taking care of my daughter. I was a newly single mum and really needed to feel like someone else cared. Since then I’ll listen to you everyday, mostly to fall asleep. You are both so funny, relatable and calming for me. I am now going to get tested for dyspraxia/adhd ☺️ I love you guys! Thank you so much for keeping me sane!
I'm so proud of you guys, Crying along with you.
When I started my adhd meds I was very scared that I would have a quiet brain. I’m thankful that my brain isn’t quiet, it’s more like the tv is on and I have the volume on low and I can turn it up whenever I like. Before, the sound was on blast and the channels were changing constantly
I think we definitely need a second channel doing drunk cooking and drink painting 😂😂
I just want to tell you ladies, I absolutely love what y’all do on here and other platforms. I look forward to your videos every week. You bring me such peace, and joy❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for all of the giggles in 2021! Congratulations you two 💛
Also in 2021 cierra became a PHYSICAL safe space like she started to mention in that episode, for sawyer during her pregnancy that she didnt know about yet!
watching this whilst learning about tarot, because everything you do is rooted in witchcraft obviously !!! lots of love to you ladies
enjoyed this so much, i really truly enjoy listening to you guys open about your lives
side note:i’m a new listener of about a month and i spent that time starting at the very beginning so this is my first time seeing jeri’s eyebrows up close
Currently sitting at home waiting for my covid and strep results...thank you guys for distracting me!
So glad you both kept making these! I've been listening for over a year now and I'm literally so grateful for you both and the beautiful community you have created for us all! 💕
Just Subscribed! You all are awesome!
omg plssss id love to watch you two cooking or doing art, it would be so good!
I would LOVE RUclips videos from you guys omg please do it!
Would love to see y'all paint and do random things :)
I would watch the shit out of drunk cooking/baking lol love you guys. I'll do it with you lol, I'll video it and send it to you and everything lol
I would totally watch more RUclips vids. You could call it Ladies & Tutorials
So sorry you have covid! My family just had it the week before Christmas. ❤
i’m one of ur scottish listeners and i swear down if u do not come to Glasgow i’m gonna have a breakdown !
just what I needed to start my day off 💗
Love you ladies!! Have a wonderful end of year, wish you guys the best always! Stay safe ❤️❤️❤️
I take Zoloft for a while now and recently found out if you take NyQuil or DayQuil it will counteract the Zoloft effects and make it feel like you’re not taking it! Mucinex DM also apparently. Not sure if you’ve taken anything to feel better but it might be worth asking your doctor!
I WOULD LOVE TO SEE A LIFE CRAFT AND CRY SHOW
The cancer manifestation hit me hard
I had Covid too- the coughing is the worst. I ended up whizzing at the end.
Being a child of divorce has also affected the way I view the holidays! And why I refuse to do it to my children. We have co-parent holidays and stay home on Christmas Day no matter what! I hated having to bee-bop all over creation!
Jeri said Ciara looks like she could fly a plane. It’s giving me Mrs incredible (I can’t figure out how to spell it elastigirl) but like her in the Plane but specifically her lol
My husband is ADHD and I'm more ADD, but that's not a thing anymore. Both our brains are different kinds of fast. It's crazy
It's so weird to see Ciara on the right and Jeri on the left😂
Good morning ladies!!!!
Good morning, ladies 🥰