My dad is literally just like this, he holds ever conversation and every word said from childhood. I chose personally to not communicate with him for my own mental wellness. And honestly I do not regret it.
Adriana Bernabel I was just thinking the same thing! You can’t have a relationship with someone like that 😲 how is he going to yell to his daughter that called him after he left ?!? WHAT??
Mines was the same. So aggressive and nasty. Mines ended up passing and i never got the chance to tell him how i felt with him being absence. Stay strong ❤️🙏🏾
Same. Toxic deadbeat that wants to be cool now that I’m 27 and don’t need child support. I told myself “if you didn’t take care of me when I’m young, don’t expect me to take care of you when you’re old.” His other 2 daughters can do that 😇. He’s the same type to desert you then apologize on his deathbed!
My heart goes out to Dennie, maybe that’s why her mother protected her from her father... all that rage and disrespect is unfair to throw at Dennie. Sometimes it’s better to be alone with one parent but living in peace.
🤦🏽♀️Yes she’s innocent no one asks to be born why can’t they get that an no wonder we’re stronger then most 😓Then we pick men that break our bones or more end up dead because to think love exists an it always hurted 💔I feel so much for her😪parent’s seem familiar🤞🏽
@@MultiSexykeisha not really just most of the times the manipulative person in the relationship is the women, not always but most of the time.. no logic in ppl taking conclusions while only knowing one side of the story, im not saying shes wrong im saying based on the information of the daughter and father in this video we can tell her mother manipulated her child aginst her father (call at 2008 wich explains why hes angry since he did nothing to deserve it acording to their stories in the video, unless her mother said he ran away etc) but we dont know for sure, but i dont think the man would openly talk about the restainning order just by excuse
dennie’s phone call with her father literally brought me to tears. i’ve had the same conversation with my dad and everything from his temperament to mannerisms mirror her father’s. in tears. telling her to “hold on” and that he’s “still her father” so she should respect him... my heart goes out to her.
Yeah he acts like that was so much better. "Hey that's a lie the last time I talked to you wasn't when you were a toddler. You were at least ten. How old are you now 22 or something? That's not that long. Yeah totally the restraining order with your mom kept me from calling the 12 years after that. "
@@tonerc.8191 he also acts like the problem with society these days is these darn unappreciative kids talking about how they were abandoned at 7 when in reality he stuck around well after her 10th birthday, and for that he deserves a father of the year award and Dennie has no credibility in this conversation. For all the criticism Billy O'Toole took in other videos, this guy made Billy look like a mensch.
@@Proh3dsh0t doesnt anyone understand how that works? Obviously there is much more to the story. Why would a judge grant a reatraining order against the children. Even if it was only against the mother the court could have arranged interaction without the mom. As a parent there is always a way instead of just walking away forever. I said what I said!
Dennie needs to grow up, claims herself as a THOT and “that bitch”. If she would shut up and listen sometimes- people could get what they need to say. Her dad was angry and came off angry but 3 sides to each story and she needs to hear his version whether she agrees or not, then decide to pop offf on him. I think she does shit for attention, big mouth. I like everyone else on the show but she rubs me wrong way. Talks to her mom a bit disrespectful sometimes- just my opinion I will add, her dad was bogus for saying she shouldn’t of gone to his friend before him or to get a hold of him- but she went to family first. And I believe her mom knew along what was up, where he was at and his number but didn’t want her to find out how toxic they both (mom &dad) were to each other
Aleasha Latrease oh I agree with u 100%. I think her mom just isn’t saying how things really went down and why he just up and left. It’s just a tough situation all around, and everyone’s attitude seems to be on 100 when it comes to the fathers relationship w his kids. I’d love to hear what her brother thinks of everything. And now knowing Billy passed unexpectedly- and this virus going around- life is too short to hold onto old grudges.
When your kid lashes out and says they hate you, etc. That’s not when you fall back, you should do the exact opposite. She’s clearly hurt, maybe she doesn’t know both sides but it doesn’t change the fact that she’s an adult now. You can tell her all of these things without bashing her mom and yelling at her. Also it’s sad to hear about Billy, those kids lost their dad so soon.
Merranda You’re absolutely correct father should, my father did the same thing to me and it’s almost the same thing my dad tries to tell me how to be a parent when he was never there but the thing is is I know how my dad really felt about me, when I was 12 went to see him for the first time in Florida since I was six and he was boarding another flight to Puerto Rico the most hurtful thing and hard to process as a child
If she doesn’t know both sides she should sit n be quiet whilst trying to figure out cause if her mom really manipulated her she gonna feel mad shitty for chewing him out all this time bc her mom supposedly put a restraining order on him to keep him away along with child support
lol you obviously don't know how to maneuver through different temperaments. Everyone does not dictate emotions or their perspectives the same way. That's naive. People like you might not know how to receive others without absorbing that energy. You prolly suck at JUST listening.
At least Billy O'Toole seemed like more of father to his kids then all the other dead beat Dad's on the show. He had his flaws but he really did love his children and care for them alot. May you rest in peace Billy and my deepest thoughts and prayers go out to his family and all his kids who have lost a father ❤️🙏
couldn't agree more. He took a lot of criticism for the way he treated Taylor's bf, and while it wasn't one of his finer moments he made more of an effort to be there for his kids than the other three dads combined.
Billy O'Toole may he rest in peace, as for my thoughts on billy as just a watcher of the family, billy was one of they guys ,you could see he had been through a hard life as billy says to his kids in the last episode i saw billy in ,outside his old street he was brought up in, when talking about his young days growing up and then telling his kids about his father there grandpa, but billy admitted his wrongs and stood up straight when wanting his life to be together with his family, and that i absolutely respect him 110% for that, because when he talked about his past to his kids about things he didnt tell some of the things they didnt know till then, like there grandpa being a maniac as billy put it, even killing his own brother ,just things such as that has a effect on a kid as billy would have been, and to see him just wanting to be a family and to just move on in life that was so emotional to watch, as you knew if he wanted he could easily do someone serious damage etc, but he never wanted that ,it was just all family, i thought when his son got arrested for drunken mischief or something say like that, and he tells his dad and i laughed when billy replied drunken mischief, WHAT THE FUCK EVEN IS THAT, like are you dumb ,if you get caught which he didnt want for any his family ,make it worth it, it seemed he was meaning, as far now for the tv episodes,i hope the just try to sort things out, they know there past is a mess like most people in this world that has a crazy up bringing , but for billy O'toole ,it wont be the same, im sad hes passed away and i dont even know the family, but i hope and my thoughts go out to all his family as life is to short, tomorow is never promised and we should all try put the past in the past and enjoy what life we have left, ( were here for a good time, not a long time, enjoy life as if each day is your last ) sine metu....
Her father has a lot more to learn from life. She doesn’t owe you anything you left her. Now you want to have authority over someone who doesn’t even know you. Sadly that’s not how it works she’s an adult now and she has the right to feel how she does. You don’t just get order of protection that easy you have to pose a serious threat to get one so that answers that. You could’ve done more to get in her life but you didn’t so it’s your loss. Now she’s on tv now you want to talk? Just seems sneaky idk. I hope she finds peace with that part of her life and keeps moving forward.
A black man in America? I guarantee you he doesn't have to do a whole lot at all to be served an order of protection. Not making excuses for his efforts (or lack thereof) in building a relationship with his daughter, but anyone ever think that the reason he answered so aggressively could be because his daughter and ex wife or whatever who he hasn't spoken to in over a decade has been berating him on a nationally televised program for the last 3 weeks...and now that she finally has his contact info, thinks it's a good idea to come to him as a woman on said program for millions of viewers to see and hear? No no, I'm sorry hun. Black parents don't do public embarrassment. She's lucky the black half of her family is American cause if they were Caribbean, she woulda got her ass buss long time.
@@roshambo2846 Due to the fact that his family wont even claim her, she doesn't owe them respect. Part of why she has issues with her father is he told his family not to claim them when he walked away, and that's not cool. She also has no idea on what "black parents" deem disrespectful because they didnt claim her.
Ro Shambo you definitely made excuses for his behavior. None of that has to do with anything. I don’t see race here I see a human being being hurt by her father who didn’t want shit to do with her. He didn’t try to fight for her or anything he just wiped his hands and was living life while having a child out there. He told his whole family to not claim her. What type of father does that? No matter what happens thats still your daughter your family. So I mean I wouldn’t say the nicest things of him either. He did that to himself not anyone else.you would do the same if you were in that situation. He’s just trying to come up off the show. You can see right through him.
As someone who has first hand knowledge, it looked to me that he was loaded on H when he was filming. Some people just can't kick it. Its really sad, prayers for his family
@@reneeotoole910 i do apologize for assuming. I lived that life and from what i saw in his eyes, that was my opinion of what it was. They never said what it was on the show bc an autopsy hadn't been done yet. it was too soon, but what the family find out that killed him?
Bob Black the problem with the world today is that they feel entitled to everything and that is no one business. At this point it’s on principle for me. This experience has taught me how insanely selfish the world is. Good luck to you on your journey 🙏🏻. www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/sc-fam-social-graces-social-media-death-post-0409-story.html
I’m crying!! What the hell man. I had a very strange feeling when Billy was having dinner with Taylor and her boyfriend... and now were told he was found deceased... I’m heartbroken.
BBY BEE me too for some reason. He just was sweating bad (face and head) every time we seen him. Maybe his heard was overworking, had a lot to carry on his shoulders. Just so sad. I was rooting for them once Taylor said I hold no grudges, we got years to make this right (something along lines of that)
Dennie’s father has a THICKKKK skull! Men like him will never learn. She’s better off without him. No matter what, in his head he will ALWAYS be right! If he really wanted to be in her life he would have! All he has are excuses. No matter what, as a parent, you will do anything in your power to be with your child or give up. HE gave up but wants to twist it so it’s as if it was out of his hands.
My heart goes out to the Billy family. I know how much it hurts to lose a parent. I lose my Dad many years a ago. But I still miss him. I'm so glad Billy had amends with you all before he pass. You know he will be you all's guardian angel now look out for. My deepest condolences to Billy's family . My he rest in peace.
@@samanthab1923 if you watch the clip, they said they don't know. He was just found dead in the morning. I guess they had to do an autopsy to find out. And the autopsy could always come back inconclusive. Soooo sad because that might be preventing them from finding closure
I think she was like 9 or 10 cause I think she's 21 either way you got a valid point her dad seems like he just wants an excuse for being a shitty parent smh
I SAID THE SAME THING! Let’s let’s play devils advocate and say she did say that to him in 2008... she’s still a fucking (baby) child are you really gunna hold this against a child! Give me a fucking break! He’s using that as a cop out and an excuse to be an absent father.
@@jada7323 No you're right either way 7 or 9 she was still a kid and he's throwing whatever she said back in her face like she was grown when she said it. Like bro you were a deadbeat just own it
I feel the pain. Parents don’t understand that their action makes us suffer. Adults tend to forget that we’re not the blame and using the respect card doesn’t always mean it’s correct.
My heart sank for the O'Toole kids. Billy wasn't a saint by any means but through his run on the show he had more good moments than bad with his kids. When you consider: -Karina's dad was like "uh yeah I'd love to be in your life " and we never saw him again. -Dennie's dad......it's for the better that he chose not to be around. -CP's dad was out of jail for all of the last 15 minutes of the season so time will tell with him, if there even is another season. Billy really lived up to his promise to their mother in the premiere that he would do his best. Look no further than Taylor's devastation for proof of that. Update: CP's father also deceased as of 2022.
Look at how he carries himself and look at his body language it screams insecure little boy inside a mans body. I’m sorry he could be a Dad for her. 😔💔
I remember in a scene billy had a conversation with his daughter he was crying and told her “ what if tomorrow never comes “ I believe something was wrong & he hid his sickness from his family
What’s so sad about billy is that he was found dead... that’s just the saddest thing... dying alone man.... he couldn’t stop being the man who he was and he tried redemption with his family but it was sad... he tried and they kept pushing back. They’re reasons are understandable but man when you really realize that any given moment that person can be taken away from you, the feelings really set in.
I wonder if he was sick or had that feeling (I've heard people can feel they don't have a lot of time left to live) I only say that, because of how hard he was going to try and right his wrongs and repair the relationships with his children. From there accounts up until now he has been absent and hasn't made an effort and then it seems he was going super hard. It's just so sad.
DENNIE girl, I can feel your pain BUT it was my great Aunt with BASE in her voice. Lets just say, I do not talk to my mom father family anymore.. So sad about Peter
Daaam the Dad is F'n selfish!!! Man up and talk to your Daughter and stop with the sarcasm, if you ask me she is better without him!! Daaaauuuummmm!! That guy doesn't deserve to have children, he lacks compassion, parenting skills, emotions, stay away from him, he sounds Totally TOXIC!!
Katherine Garza dennie also goes from 0 to 100 in matter of seconds cause she is “that bitch”- he seems bitter, she’s bitter (as she should be) and mom seems to be hiding some info. Maybe mediator would help them each get their sides, points, feelings and all that out without screaming back and forth I didn’t think I would get into this show as much as I did, so sad it seems like a short season
I know how Denni feels. Exactly how her father talks to her is how my biological father does. Mind you, my mother never kept my father away. He kept himself away. Listening to her father infuriated me.
Ann __ I am so sorry you went through that anxiety is HORRIBLE I live with it. It really sucks. But your daddy is looking down on you and taking care of you every step of the way love ! I’m really happy to hear you are doing a lot better ! ❤️
My 2 sons lost their father of a massive heart attack..we r so lost without him. Be 2 years may 2and. Our lives will be be whole again. Prayers for healing.
What little time he had with his kids on the show, I liked him and he made the show interesting. I just had the feeling though, as if he were saying goodbye to them, in a sense. He was sweating a lot, but did not look like he was on drugs. I think that he may have had a heart problem? It's a possibility.
They are both hurting and it’s sad. He don’t know how to just say “I am sorry”. I know how she feels not having your dad there. I hope they can get to the point of having a civil conversation. I am also sad to hear of Billy passing, my heart goes out to the family.
Dennie deserves so much better. He was so aggressive from the jump it was disgusting like listen to her. You've been a absentee parent she's an adult he's a jerk. I wish Dennie the best shes beautiful smart and outspoken I love that shes outspoken. Seeing that Billy and his children reconciled just days before he passed was so sad at least they got to make amends and share their love for one another before his passing.
My father and I were repairing our relationship when he passed away from cancer, I was 15 years old. It’s been 10 years, and I’ve been through so much, I wanna say it made me stronger but sometimes I’m so weak. It doesn’t even feel like it’s been 10 years when I think it about it, it’s like it happened last year.
This show has actually helped me healed. One my dad is just like denies but except my mom chose to stay with him.. for reasons idk. He’s never told me “I’m beautiful, or I’m proud of you” always looking to fight and it breaks me. As soon as i move out I will cut contact with him, for my mental well being. this show has taught me so far, no matter what, everyday is a new day but if a person continues to put the past as an excuse to treat someone poorly, then it’s best for me to let It go. #mentalawareness month
Never in my life been so shook by a finale before. Didn't see any of this coming.. so sad. They did a great job with this show though.. it needs to come back... with more episodes!
Seeing that woman break down in her fathers arms like that was very heart wrenching for me to see. I hope she and the rest of the family find some peace.
This last episode should have been the first episode, so much drama was left unsaid..like wtf?!?! Nothing was resolved. I need a longer next season. ‼️
I don't even care about next season anymore, if it even happens. The one father who was trying to be a father to his kids is now dead, and Dennie's season-long search for her father turned out to be a flop. Did you catch the last 5 minutes of this episode? It looked very closure-esque.
You know, it’s different when your father was never there for you and there are so many others who have loving fathers. It’s a different type of hurt, like a hole in your heart. A lot of men need to understand that if they are going to have a child, especially speaking on a women’s POV; to be there for your little girl.
Awww Baby I went through the same thing with my Dad. His guilt ate him up. Ate my father up AND we never recovered. My father didn't even answer my calls the whole year of 2017. He had a friend to reach out during his last days. He passed 5-18-18. Guilt ate him up. I stopped being angry and mad around 28. At that time I was disappointed and sadden about the time wasted on the past.
Sending my love prayers condolences everything to the O’Toole family. I lost my father last year ...definitely know that pain. Sending everything your way ❤️🙏🏽
Damn, I just watching this show but it's so hard to see him to lose his life when he was trying to for his family when he knowing that he did a lot wrong in his lifelong but he always thought his family first no matter what he had did to protect his family. RIP DADDY O'TOOLE which you didn't die enveil
I know exactly how she feels because I personally went through the same thing with my biological dad its hurtful and painful and its the worst feeling when they blame it on something else other then themselves 😔
As someone who has a father similar to hers I never had hatred for him simply because I don’t know the man and he doesn’t know me. I do however have hatred for his actions and I’ve noticed almost all deadbeat fathers have no accountability for their actions and the affects it has on their child’s trajectory in life in terms of relationships regardless of if their platonic or romantic. She doesn’t owe him anything and has every right to have her reaction she did because like when I talk to my biological father (which is rare) it’s like I’m taken back in time to when the trauma happened. He doesn’t deserve forgiveness if he isn’t accountable for anything regardless of if she doesn’t know the full story because he still abandoned her. Even if he owns up to his actions it’s that girls right to decide whether to forgive him or not as well
I have mutual feelings to everyday life to the o toole family because what they were going through an still going through is so real an close to the heart everybody goes through struggles I just hope they come out stronger now
I pray for the o toole family every family has there issues but they were a good close nit family and I couldn’t imagine losing my father, I pray they come out of this stronger and all do well for themselves❤️🙏
How embarrassing it must be for the people that live in the forgotten borough . To say these are there neighbors. He really made a good impression of himself with his 15 minutes of fame .MTV needs to go back to playing Videos.
I had a dead beat person as well he had 2 other families along with a side chick and didn’t want me told me straight to my face that my mother can keep me that he don’t want me and since then I’ve never seen him and nor do I ever plan on seeking him 😪✌🏼
i feel like at one point my dad was like dennies dad when my sister yelled at him. he was extra sensitive and mad for a couple months and i kind of hated him. i never told him, but he could tell, and he changed back to his usually happy self. my sister and my dad made up and all is right with me and my family. i wish that could happen for dennie.
Sending heaps of love light & prayers to the O'Toole family i thought Billy was a great a guy a person who was trying to make things right with kids ... Rest Easy Billy
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Oh nooo Dennis father is a piece of shit. You don’t speak to your daughter for years and
That’s the type of energy and vibes you bring towards her.
This is so sad no Matter what happen you shouldn't treated you parents like ahit.
My dad is literally just like this, he holds ever conversation and every word said from childhood. I chose personally to not communicate with him for my own mental wellness. And honestly I do not regret it.
Adriana Bernabel I was just thinking the same thing! You can’t have a relationship with someone like that 😲 how is he going to yell to his daughter that called him after he left ?!? WHAT??
Mines was the same. So aggressive and nasty. Mines ended up passing and i never got the chance to tell him how i felt with him being absence. Stay strong ❤️🙏🏾
Same. Toxic deadbeat that wants to be cool now that I’m 27 and don’t need child support. I told myself “if you didn’t take care of me when I’m young, don’t expect me to take care of you when you’re old.” His other 2 daughters can do that 😇. He’s the same type to desert you then apologize on his deathbed!
It's very complicated. You love this person, you just don't like them. Hold on to whatever good memory and let the rest go. Find peace for yourself💕
I dont talk to my family either. Were estranged. A big part of my family is a problem towards me.
the way billy hugged his kids and held their heads, so beautiful
I was thinking the same, the way he holds their heads...it's special, it's reminiscent of what he must have done when they were babies
It’s magical the love he gave off spoke for itself
My heart goes out to Dennie, maybe that’s why her mother protected her from her father... all that rage and disrespect is unfair to throw at Dennie. Sometimes it’s better to be alone with one parent but living in peace.
🤦🏽♀️Yes she’s innocent no one asks to be born why can’t they get that an no wonder we’re stronger then most 😓Then we pick men that break our bones or more end up dead because to think love exists an it always hurted 💔I feel so much for her😪parent’s seem familiar🤞🏽
U may be right but i went through the same thing and it killed both of my relationships with my parents
daniel lopez y’all always got an excuse for a deadbeat
@@MultiSexykeisha not really just most of the times the manipulative person in the relationship is the women, not always but most of the time.. no logic in ppl taking conclusions while only knowing one side of the story, im not saying shes wrong im saying based on the information of the daughter and father in this video we can tell her mother manipulated her child aginst her father (call at 2008 wich explains why hes angry since he did nothing to deserve it acording to their stories in the video, unless her mother said he ran away etc) but we dont know for sure, but i dont think the man would openly talk about the restainning order just by excuse
@daniel lopez Always a mans fault, Now reverse the roles...
dennie’s phone call with her father literally brought me to tears. i’ve had the same conversation with my dad and everything from his temperament to mannerisms mirror her father’s. in tears. telling her to “hold on” and that he’s “still her father” so she should respect him... my heart goes out to her.
"Fall of 2008"
*Check Google*
..she was 10, my guy.
Yeah he acts like that was so much better. "Hey that's a lie the last time I talked to you wasn't when you were a toddler. You were at least ten. How old are you now 22 or something? That's not that long. Yeah totally the restraining order with your mom kept me from calling the 12 years after that. "
@@tonerc.8191 he also acts like the problem with society these days is these darn unappreciative kids talking about how they were abandoned at 7 when in reality he stuck around well after her 10th birthday, and for that he deserves a father of the year award and Dennie has no credibility in this conversation. For all the criticism Billy O'Toole took in other videos, this guy made Billy look like a mensch.
one day she will wake up and not care anymore... i did...
@@stephaniehall5095 You're absolutely right!
@@artvandelay7687 what's a mensch?
No, he left his child behind. He was not there, nor did he even try. He is angry and trying to overcompensate for his guilt by yelling.
Str8 Gaslighting
There are crazy baby mamas out there it's not always the father's fault.
do you have any idea how a restraining order works? How did he left his children behind if he couldn't go near them...
@@Proh3dsh0t doesnt anyone understand how that works? Obviously there is much more to the story. Why would a judge grant a reatraining order against the children. Even if it was only against the mother the court could have arranged interaction without the mom. As a parent there is always a way instead of just walking away forever. I said what I said!
my dads the same way. i told him what she said to hers too
Dennie’s father seems awful and lacks accountability.
dahtcrazychiik reminds me of my father. Piece of shit
dahtcrazychiik nah that’s what the system was designed to do
Dennie needs to grow up, claims herself as a THOT and “that bitch”. If she would shut up and listen sometimes- people could get what they need to say. Her dad was angry and came off angry but 3 sides to each story and she needs to hear his version whether she agrees or not, then decide to pop offf on him. I think she does shit for attention, big mouth. I like everyone else on the show but she rubs me wrong way. Talks to her mom a bit disrespectful sometimes- just my opinion
I will add, her dad was bogus for saying she shouldn’t of gone to his friend before him or to get a hold of him- but she went to family first. And I believe her mom knew along what was up, where he was at and his number but didn’t want her to find out how toxic they both (mom &dad) were to each other
dahtcrazychiik totally agree. Doesn't matter what's the last thing she said to you when she was a kid. Smh.
Aleasha Latrease oh I agree with u 100%. I think her mom just isn’t saying how things really went down and why he just up and left. It’s just a tough situation all around, and everyone’s attitude seems to be on 100 when it comes to the fathers relationship w his kids. I’d love to hear what her brother thinks of everything. And now knowing Billy passed unexpectedly- and this virus going around- life is too short to hold onto old grudges.
When your kid lashes out and says they hate you, etc. That’s not when you fall back, you should do the exact opposite. She’s clearly hurt, maybe she doesn’t know both sides but it doesn’t change the fact that she’s an adult now. You can tell her all of these things without bashing her mom and yelling at her. Also it’s sad to hear about Billy, those kids lost their dad so soon.
Merranda You’re absolutely correct father should, my father did the same thing to me and it’s almost the same thing my dad tries to tell me how to be a parent when he was never there but the thing is is I know how my dad really felt about me, when I was 12 went to see him for the first time in Florida since I was six and he was boarding another flight to Puerto Rico the most hurtful thing and hard to process as a child
Merranda her father is a piece of shit.
She's clearly a smart ass
This show sucks. You can clearly see they trying to polish up these bums. You can tell the dad definitely is a crack head from back in the days.
If she doesn’t know both sides she should sit n be quiet whilst trying to figure out cause if her mom really manipulated her she gonna feel mad shitty for chewing him out all this time bc her mom supposedly put a restraining order on him to keep him away along with child support
Smh. Dennie’s father is aggressive for no reason. 🤦🏽♀️ I would’ve hung up on him with the quickness.
Mmmhmmmmm. With no hesitation either 💅🏾
La Original exactly! Annoying ass you old head
Ikr. That "conversation" would've been 5 seconds long 🤬
lol you obviously don't know how to maneuver through different temperaments. Everyone does not dictate emotions or their perspectives the same way. That's naive. People like you might not know how to receive others without absorbing that energy. You prolly suck at JUST listening.
Sheldon Conk and who asked?
My condolences to the o toole family it’s hard losing a parent. I lost both
sorry for ur loss, they r in a better place now
theresa dirocco sorry for you lose. They in a better place now xx
Sad being an orphan 🥺
Me too
Sorry for your loss
He got some nerve with all that extra hostility!! It’s like he has resentment towards the momma and mad at the child 🥴
At least Billy O'Toole seemed like more of father to his kids then all the other dead beat Dad's on the show. He had his flaws but he really did love his children and care for them alot. May you rest in peace Billy and my deepest thoughts and prayers go out to his family and all his kids who have lost a father ❤️🙏
Yes, you could see the love in his eyes he had for his kids.
couldn't agree more. He took a lot of criticism for the way he treated Taylor's bf, and while it wasn't one of his finer moments he made more of an effort to be there for his kids than the other three dads combined.
Billy O'Toole may he rest in peace, as for my thoughts on billy as just a watcher of the family, billy was one of they guys ,you could see he had been through a hard life as billy says to his kids in the last episode i saw billy in ,outside his old street he was brought up in, when talking about his young days growing up and then telling his kids about his father there grandpa, but billy admitted his wrongs and stood up straight when wanting his life to be together with his family, and that i absolutely respect him 110% for that, because when he talked about his past to his kids about things he didnt tell some of the things they didnt know till then, like there grandpa being a maniac as billy put it, even killing his own brother ,just things such as that has a effect on a kid as billy would have been, and to see him just wanting to be a family and to just move on in life that was so emotional to watch, as you knew if he wanted he could easily do someone serious damage etc, but he never wanted that ,it was just all family, i thought when his son got arrested for drunken mischief or something say like that, and he tells his dad and i laughed when billy replied drunken mischief, WHAT THE FUCK EVEN IS THAT, like are you dumb ,if you get caught which he didnt want for any his family ,make it worth it, it seemed he was meaning, as far now for the tv episodes,i hope the just try to sort things out, they know there past is a mess like most people in this world that has a crazy up bringing , but for billy O'toole ,it wont be the same, im sad hes passed away and i dont even know the family, but i hope and my thoughts go out to all his family as life is to short, tomorow is never promised and we should all try put the past in the past and enjoy what life we have left, ( were here for a good time, not a long time, enjoy life as if each day is your last ) sine metu....
Billy was a neighborhood dirt bag junkie.
@@christophergeorge4380 you ain't even say that to his face 👀
His aunt really loves him she knows her brother is bad news poor kid
They need to change the title to "3 Totally Unrelated Topics Randomly Thrown together To Pad This Out To a 10 Minute Long, Monetized Video".
Exactly
Title said one thing but the content was just all over the place 🤦🏽♀️
“I definitely did lose my best friend, role model, my super man”💔
My Dad is this same way, he expresses himself inappropriately and acts very rude. Dennie doesn't need him
@Chinese chicken You're too busy shutting your eyes, CHINESE chicken. I don't know how you could read this comment.
GNTRY...........
Mine was way worse then Dennie's dad. Let me tell yah that she doesnt need her dad.
Her father has a lot more to learn from life. She doesn’t owe you anything you left her. Now you want to have authority over someone who doesn’t even know you. Sadly that’s not how it works she’s an adult now and she has the right to feel how she does. You don’t just get order of protection that easy you have to pose a serious threat to get one so that answers that. You could’ve done more to get in her life but you didn’t so it’s your loss. Now she’s on tv now you want to talk? Just seems sneaky idk. I hope she finds peace with that part of her life and keeps moving forward.
Jesus Gutierrez thank you! He answered that phone with anger I understand your mad at her mom, not your kids fault period
A black man in America? I guarantee you he doesn't have to do a whole lot at all to be served an order of protection. Not making excuses for his efforts (or lack thereof) in building a relationship with his daughter, but anyone ever think that the reason he answered so aggressively could be because his daughter and ex wife or whatever who he hasn't spoken to in over a decade has been berating him on a nationally televised program for the last 3 weeks...and now that she finally has his contact info, thinks it's a good idea to come to him as a woman on said program for millions of viewers to see and hear? No no, I'm sorry hun. Black parents don't do public embarrassment. She's lucky the black half of her family is American cause if they were Caribbean, she woulda got her ass buss long time.
@@roshambo2846 Due to the fact that his family wont even claim her, she doesn't owe them respect. Part of why she has issues with her father is he told his family not to claim them when he walked away, and that's not cool. She also has no idea on what "black parents" deem disrespectful because they didnt claim her.
Ro Shambo you definitely made excuses for his behavior. None of that has to do with anything. I don’t see race here I see a human being being hurt by her father who didn’t want shit to do with her. He didn’t try to fight for her or anything he just wiped his hands and was living life while having a child out there. He told his whole family to not claim her. What type of father does that? No matter what happens thats still your daughter your family. So I mean I wouldn’t say the nicest things of him either. He did that to himself not anyone else.you would do the same if you were in that situation. He’s just trying to come up off the show. You can see right through him.
Jesus Gutierrez wow you have a nice face.
Seriously this was horrible. I sat up from my bed when they said Billy had passed. So sad. RIP.
As someone who has first hand knowledge, it looked to me that he was loaded on H when he was filming. Some people just can't kick it. Its really sad, prayers for his family
As someone with personal knowledge as in family that’s is in fact False.
@@reneeotoole910 i do apologize for assuming. I lived that life and from what i saw in his eyes, that was my opinion of what it was. They never said what it was on the show bc an autopsy hadn't been done yet. it was too soon, but what the family find out that killed him?
Bob Black the problem with the world today is that they feel entitled to everything and that is no one business. At this point it’s on principle for me. This experience has taught me how insanely selfish the world is. Good luck to you on your journey 🙏🏻. www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/sc-fam-social-graces-social-media-death-post-0409-story.html
Nikki F. All do respect yes I can.
I’m crying!! What the hell man. I had a very strange feeling when Billy was having dinner with Taylor and her boyfriend... and now were told he was found deceased... I’m heartbroken.
BBY BEE me too for some reason. He just was sweating bad (face and head) every time we seen him. Maybe his heard was overworking, had a lot to carry on his shoulders. Just so sad. I was rooting for them once Taylor said I hold no grudges, we got years to make this right (something along lines of that)
I cried . It was so sad 😞
I had a strange feeling too. I also think that some other things were on his mind that he would not discuss with his family.
when he was trying to make it right with his kids he passes away. Dag ! Prayers to them
Dennie’s father has a THICKKKK skull! Men like him will never learn. She’s better off without him. No matter what, in his head he will ALWAYS be right! If he really wanted to be in her life he would have! All he has are excuses. No matter what, as a parent, you will do anything in your power to be with your child or give up. HE gave up but wants to twist it so it’s as if it was out of his hands.
My heart goes out to the Billy family. I know how much it hurts to lose a parent. I lose my Dad many years a ago. But I still miss him. I'm so glad Billy had amends with you all before he pass. You know he will be you all's guardian angel now look out for. My deepest condolences to Billy's family . My he rest in peace.
billys death shook me! my jaw was on the floor! i feel terrible for matt, joe and taylor
cassie Oh no, how did he die?
Sheila Blische they haven’t said. they kept it private.
@@samanthab1923 if you watch the clip, they said they don't know. He was just found dead in the morning. I guess they had to do an autopsy to find out. And the autopsy could always come back inconclusive. Soooo sad because that might be preventing them from finding closure
I cannot believe how sad this is
@Steve Gundrum you sound stupid. He OBVIOUSLY wasn't murdered
I cried when they played that scene of Taylor being comforted by Billy ughhhhhh😓
Wait so he stayed away from his daughter because she told him "you're dead to me" at 7 years old? She was a KID omgosh...excuses
🤣 he clearly doesn’t even know how old his own daughter is. Shows how involved in her life he really is
I think she was like 9 or 10 cause I think she's 21 either way you got a valid point her dad seems like he just wants an excuse for being a shitty parent smh
Nikele Clement oh yeah I just checked her page you’re right. My mistake.
I SAID THE SAME THING! Let’s let’s play devils advocate and say she did say that to him in 2008... she’s still a fucking (baby) child are you really gunna hold this against a child! Give me a fucking break! He’s using that as a cop out and an excuse to be an absent father.
@@jada7323 No you're right either way 7 or 9 she was still a kid and he's throwing whatever she said back in her face like she was grown when she said it. Like bro you were a deadbeat just own it
To hear of Billy’s death, shocked me. I was absolutely floored. So incredibly sad...
He was a junkie, it was only a matter of time
Not shocked
Wow i know exactly where Dennie is coming from. There’s definitely a lot of hurt there. Keep your head up Dennie 💕 you got this
That is some angry father. Girl don’t call that man again!
I feel the pain. Parents don’t understand that their action makes us suffer. Adults tend to forget that we’re not the blame and using the respect card doesn’t always mean it’s correct.
My heart sank for the O'Toole kids. Billy wasn't a saint by any means but through his run on the show he had more good moments than bad with his kids. When you consider:
-Karina's dad was like "uh yeah I'd love to be in your life " and we never saw him again.
-Dennie's dad......it's for the better that he chose not to be around.
-CP's dad was out of jail for all of the last 15 minutes of the season so time will tell with him, if there even is another season.
Billy really lived up to his promise to their mother in the premiere that he would do his best. Look no further than Taylor's devastation for proof of that.
Update: CP's father also deceased as of 2022.
Look at how he carries himself and look at his body language it screams insecure little boy inside a mans body. I’m sorry he could be a Dad for her. 😔💔
I remember in a scene billy had a conversation with his daughter he was crying and told her “ what if tomorrow never comes “ I believe something was wrong & he hid his sickness from his family
What’s so sad about billy is that he was found dead... that’s just the saddest thing... dying alone man.... he couldn’t stop being the man who he was and he tried redemption with his family but it was sad... he tried and they kept pushing back. They’re reasons are understandable but man when you really realize that any given moment that person can be taken away from you, the feelings really set in.
I wonder if he was sick or had that feeling (I've heard people can feel they don't have a lot of time left to live) I only say that, because of how hard he was going to try and right his wrongs and repair the relationships with his children. From there accounts up until now he has been absent and hasn't made an effort and then it seems he was going super hard. It's just so sad.
@@MultiSassy84 Yes, I feel the same way.
DENNIE girl, I can feel your pain BUT it was my great Aunt with BASE in her voice. Lets just say, I do not talk to my mom father family anymore.. So sad about Peter
Daaam the Dad is F'n selfish!!! Man up and talk to your Daughter and stop with the sarcasm, if you ask me she is better without him!! Daaaauuuummmm!! That guy doesn't deserve to have children, he lacks compassion, parenting skills, emotions, stay away from him, he sounds Totally TOXIC!!
Katherine Garza dennie also goes from 0 to 100 in matter of seconds cause she is “that bitch”- he seems bitter, she’s bitter (as she should be) and mom seems to be hiding some info. Maybe mediator would help them each get their sides, points, feelings and all that out without screaming back and forth
I didn’t think I would get into this show as much as I did, so sad it seems like a short season
Totally agree toxic toxins toxic
He has a lot of excuses for why he wasn't in her life! Such a shame that she has to go through this.
I know how Denni feels. Exactly how her father talks to her is how my biological father does. Mind you, my mother never kept my father away. He kept himself away. Listening to her father infuriated me.
This is heartbreaking. It aggravated me the way he spoke to her.
"im still your father"
*woah*
"no you're not" PFTTT LMAOOOOXGVVVS
He’s rude as hell!!!! 🤬
I can’t imagine losing my dad ........ 😔😔
Dennisee Guzman omg me neither omgomg
Ann __ I am so sorry you went through that anxiety is HORRIBLE I live with it. It really sucks. But your daddy is looking down on you and taking care of you every step of the way love ! I’m really happy to hear you are doing a lot better ! ❤️
It sucks ... I lost mine and spent my 10th Birthday with him in the hospital seeing him in pain from lung cancer, he passed early next day.
Dennisee Guzman well you better tighten up. Righty tighty, lefty loosey 🔩
Hokuto Tongi huh?!
Denni. I just want to hug her. She tried so hard not to loose her mind 😔
Its what i was thinking too. I would have losted it or just hang up on him
My 2 sons lost their father of a massive heart attack..we r so lost without him. Be 2 years may 2and. Our lives will be be whole again. Prayers for healing.
Billy was my favorite, may he rest in peace.
Nickol Marmolejos me too he was rip billy
What little time he had with his kids on the show, I liked him and he made the show interesting. I just had the feeling though, as if he were saying goodbye to them, in a sense. He was sweating a lot, but did not look like he was on drugs. I think that he may have had a heart problem? It's a possibility.
Pray those kids learn from the parents and become stronger, productive people. #alonetogether
They are both hurting and it’s sad. He don’t know how to just say “I am sorry”. I know how she feels not having your dad there. I hope they can get to the point of having a civil conversation. I am also sad to hear of Billy passing, my heart goes out to the family.
What a terrible “father” ,she’s better off without him honestly 💁🏽♀️
YES!!!!..finally some honesty !!!!
Dennie deserves so much better. He was so aggressive from the jump it was disgusting like listen to her. You've been a absentee parent she's an adult he's a jerk. I wish Dennie the best shes beautiful smart and outspoken I love that shes outspoken. Seeing that Billy and his children reconciled just days before he passed was so sad at least they got to make amends and share their love for one another before his passing.
My father and I were repairing our relationship when he passed away from cancer, I was 15 years old. It’s been 10 years, and I’ve been through so much, I wanna say it made me stronger but sometimes I’m so weak. It doesn’t even feel like it’s been 10 years when I think it about it, it’s like it happened last year.
❤️
i just started watching this show and i like it. i just wanna say im very sorry billy died that is terrible life is short. RIP
This show has actually helped me healed. One my dad is just like denies but except my mom chose to stay with him.. for reasons idk. He’s never told me “I’m beautiful, or I’m proud of you” always looking to fight and it breaks me. As soon as i move out I will cut contact with him, for my mental well being. this show has taught me so far, no matter what, everyday is a new day but if a person continues to put the past as an excuse to treat someone poorly, then it’s best for me to let It go. #mentalawareness month
Well said👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I literally cried 😩 Rest In Peace
Never in my life been so shook by a finale before. Didn't see any of this coming.. so sad. They did a great job with this show though.. it needs to come back... with more episodes!
Seeing that woman break down in her fathers arms like that was very heart wrenching for me to see. I hope she and the rest of the family find some peace.
Someone that defensive is always in the wrong. She was so patient with him. I would’ve clicked after I sensed any hint of hostility.
This is exactly how my dad is this is why I havent talked with him in 6 years
Damn that’s so sad man
For real.
This last episode should have been the first episode, so much drama was left unsaid..like wtf?!?! Nothing was resolved. I need a longer next season. ‼️
I don't even care about next season anymore, if it even happens. The one father who was trying to be a father to his kids is now dead, and Dennie's season-long search for her father turned out to be a flop. Did you catch the last 5 minutes of this episode? It looked very closure-esque.
R.i.p. Billy my heart goes out to the O' toole family especially his kids who lost thier Dad . May they find peace .
These families carry so much
That must hurt her so much. He is so defensive because he knows he is in the wrong. I feel for her, that would be so painful.
You know, it’s different when your father was never there for you and there are so many others who have loving fathers. It’s a different type of hurt, like a hole in your heart. A lot of men need to understand that if they are going to have a child, especially speaking on a women’s POV; to be there for your little girl.
This....hits me so hard because this was exactly how me and my father are
Awww Baby I went through the same thing with my Dad. His guilt ate him up. Ate my father up AND we never recovered. My father didn't even answer my calls the whole year of 2017. He had a friend to reach out during his last days. He passed 5-18-18. Guilt ate him up. I stopped being angry and mad around 28. At that time I was disappointed and sadden about the time wasted on the past.
Wow smh RIP Billy this show is really good I love it
The whoa with the “not you’re not” is a mood 😂
Sending my love prayers condolences everything to the O’Toole family. I lost my father last year ...definitely know that pain. Sending everything your way ❤️🙏🏽
R.I.P. Mr. O’Toole it’s been a year since I lost my father to fing lung cancer and I miss him every day
Awww my heart breaks for the o’toole family Rest In Peace to their father
“Talk to me like im an adult, im not a little girl” -> “you left your child”
8:48 This Scene 🥺🥺😭😭😭
I'm gonna go hug my father - gloves & masks on 😷. But I'm gonna hug him tight. 😥
Damn, I just watching this show but it's so hard to see him to lose his life when he was trying to for his family when he knowing that he did a lot wrong in his lifelong but he always thought his family first no matter what he had did to protect his family. RIP DADDY O'TOOLE which you didn't die enveil
How could you not reach out?! HOW COULD YOU NOT FIGHT! I would legit walk 2567 miles to snitch my damn kid back! No one would stop my ass
I get real confused why fathers and mothers who leave their kids act like their owed the world and the kids should chase them for a relationship.
Sincere condolences to all of the Mafia Fam, especially the O’Toole’s.
R.I.P Billy, God the family...stay positive and safe everyone!!!
My condolences to the family. RIP.
Omg Ronald is exactly like my father. Dead beat and in denial.
I know exactly how she feels because I personally went through the same thing with my biological dad its hurtful and painful and its the worst feeling when they blame it on something else other then themselves 😔
As someone who has a father similar to hers I never had hatred for him simply because I don’t know the man and he doesn’t know me. I do however have hatred for his actions and I’ve noticed almost all deadbeat fathers have no accountability for their actions and the affects it has on their child’s trajectory in life in terms of relationships regardless of if their platonic or romantic. She doesn’t owe him anything and has every right to have her reaction she did because like when I talk to my biological father (which is rare) it’s like I’m taken back in time to when the trauma happened. He doesn’t deserve forgiveness if he isn’t accountable for anything regardless of if she doesn’t know the full story because he still abandoned her. Even if he owns up to his actions it’s that girls right to decide whether to forgive him or not as well
RIP Billy O'Toole
The look on his face when he hugged them tho… you can tell you knew he was leaving soon. So sad!
Heart breaking....R. I. P. 🙏
My heart goes out to his family and friends for their loss. May God guide you through this, one day at a time. AMEN 🙏
I have mutual feelings to everyday life to the o toole family because what they were going through an still going through is so real an close to the heart everybody goes through struggles I just hope they come out stronger now
I pray for the o toole family every family has there issues but they were a good close nit family and I couldn’t imagine losing my father, I pray they come out of this stronger and all do well for themselves❤️🙏
deadbeat dad has no relationship with his daughter then gets aggressive to her when she reaches out. girl move on hes not worth it
How embarrassing it must be for the people that live in the forgotten borough . To say these are there neighbors. He really made a good impression of himself with his 15 minutes of fame .MTV needs to go back to playing Videos.
IMO the 5 boroughs are Manhattan, Brooklyn, Bronx, Queens, and the Rockaways. SI may as well be part of NJ.
I had a dead beat person as well he had 2 other families along with a side chick and didn’t want me told me straight to my face that my mother can keep me that he don’t want me and since then I’ve never seen him and nor do I ever plan on seeking him 😪✌🏼
Haaa.. i like how u said
a deadbeat person
So sad, he passed on my birthday. Prayers to the family.🤍✨ God rest his soul and peace be with you all.
If this is mafia, then I’m Stalin + Hitler combined. This is twilight zone. Who you kiddin?
i feel like at one point my dad was like dennies dad when my sister yelled at him. he was extra sensitive and mad for a couple months and i kind of hated him. i never told him, but he could tell, and he changed back to his usually happy self. my sister and my dad made up and all is right with me and my family. i wish that could happen for dennie.
Everybody looks old and worn out.
Thats what happens when you do drugs!!!
The dad and daughter stuff is all cool but did no one catch the woah 😂😂”no you’re not👋🏽✊🏽”
Sending heaps of love light & prayers to the O'Toole family i thought Billy was a great a guy a person who was trying to make things right with kids ... Rest Easy Billy
Omg. This is so sad I was just watching him the other day.
Absolutely fire!
3:03 ugh you can tell she’s hurting 😭