The Freedom of Loneliness

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  • Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2024

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  • @unsolicitedadvice9198
    @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +6

    If you want to work with an experienced study coach teaching maths, philosophy, and study skills then book your session at josephfolleytutoring@gmail.com. Previous clients include students at the University of Cambridge and the LSE.
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  • @samandarvish6856
    @samandarvish6856 10 месяцев назад +72

    As soon as i finish high school, I'm doing this for 3 to 4 months, I've always wanted to do this, Just one more year left.

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +15

      That sounds really cool! Have fun!

    • @caiojahn
      @caiojahn 8 месяцев назад

      Same bro

    • @ultraviolxce
      @ultraviolxce 8 месяцев назад

      Sameee

    • @WONMARK
      @WONMARK 7 месяцев назад +1

      It's all fun and games till "Wrong Turn"

    • @billpetersen298
      @billpetersen298 11 дней назад

      @@WONMARKLife is full of wrong turns. That’s what makes it interesting. How we learn, or don’t.

  • @zooneyl2248
    @zooneyl2248 10 месяцев назад +50

    "We might not always have the power to gain more, but we often have the power to want less".
    Thank you

  • @whitenoiseratio
    @whitenoiseratio 8 месяцев назад +6

    This will be my early retirement. With a solar rig, my instruments,washing machine and starlink haha. Relative asceticism. We are far too comfortable indeed. Growing fruit and vegetables and foraging are so rewarding, permaculture takes this to the next level by creating your own micro ecosystem as such- endlessly fascinating, exponentially more than social media culture. Solitude is bliss!

  • @idrankwhatt
    @idrankwhatt 10 месяцев назад +32

    As somebody who’s ran into health problems at the end of high school, this required me to stay in isolation for about 2 years from what I was previously used to. I was on my own personal Walden, in the hospital room, where I discovered philosophy; namely Buddhism, Stoicism, Emerson and Thoreau. Before I went into full isolation for my immune system, I went to a Buddhist retreat, where it reset my values, in much the same vein as Thoreau.
    Love your videos, please keep these coming. I would love to see one on Emerson and transcendentalism if you want some input! Take care.

  • @bunnytarot
    @bunnytarot 10 месяцев назад +19

    I loved this book, I’ve abandoned my socials & all my so called friends (all questionable) over a year now, & I’ve formed such deep relationships with certain trees & crows in my neighborhood & hills nearby. And now it’s like the reality that surrounds me has become an oracle in & of itself, numbers & symbols & creatures & stars all working in an ongoing narrative. It’s all so compelling & uncanny. Magick gets real. 🧬⚛️🐇🦉🐦‍⬛⚛️👽🙏🧙

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +3

      From what you’ve said here you may also like Dostoevsky’s White Nights

    • @bunnytarot
      @bunnytarot 10 месяцев назад

      @@unsolicitedadvice9198 I have not read that one, Dostoevsky is on another level , TY 🙏 You’re doing great content here, Happy Holidays! 🎄🙏

    • @MartinLim-q3z
      @MartinLim-q3z 2 месяца назад

      Agree with u on the questionable ' friends '.

  • @IbnElKhattab
    @IbnElKhattab 10 месяцев назад +14

    "the things you own end up owning you"
    Tyler Durden

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +3

      Ah I had no idea that was where that quote came from - I’ve definitely heard it before but I assumed it was from a Stoic philosopher or Epicurus

  • @kimlec3592
    @kimlec3592 10 месяцев назад +10

    Many find peace & solutions to problems in their alone time. Give yourself the gift of appreciating time alone. Yes, it is sometimes very lonely ..but it is an opportunity to give thanks for whatever small grace we receive...as many in this world would appreciate the gift of peace.❤

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад

      This is a really nice thought

    • @kimlec3592
      @kimlec3592 10 месяцев назад

      @@unsolicitedadvice9198 Peace be with you, you are just beginning the long adventure called life.

  • @a.i.1905
    @a.i.1905 9 месяцев назад +1

    As always, you knock it out of the park with this one! I worked as a therapist in the NHS a couple of years ago and was there for a few years. Gratitude was always a huge part of what I tried to impart in my patients being a big fan of Seneca myself, so it’s great to see you tackle it!
    Speaking of gratitude, I wanted to acknowledge your always dressing up for these videos. It’s a great way of showing your respect for yourself and for us as your audience and I for one appreciate it.
    Keep it up man, your channel will blow up very soon. We are just the lucky few who get to say we knew you at these humble beginnings!

  • @jamescareyyatesIII
    @jamescareyyatesIII 7 месяцев назад +1

    You're a gifted teacher. This channel will grow. Survival is triumph enough.

  • @caglabatur
    @caglabatur 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ❤🎉 Pursuit of more is truly draining.

  • @souravrajvi1226
    @souravrajvi1226 10 месяцев назад +2

    You're just incredible!

  • @Gardnerlopz6977
    @Gardnerlopz6977 10 месяцев назад

    I was very happy to have found this video. You brought together 3 subjects that I really admire. first, minimalism, second, a transcendentalist vision and finally, stoic philosophy.

  • @TourniquetTwin
    @TourniquetTwin 9 месяцев назад

    This was a formative book for me, and I muchly appreciated this video essay. You did the text justice and gained a fan in this solitary persnickety nitpicker.

  • @conqueroroftheinternet
    @conqueroroftheinternet 10 месяцев назад +1

    Loving this channel! Have been watching for the past hour.

  • @Sylar-451
    @Sylar-451 10 месяцев назад +1

    Great channel!
    Keep up the awesome work!
    Learning more about philosophy and the mind saved my life, I'm very grateful that there's intelligent, compassionate people like you out there to share it 🥰

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад

      Ah thank you, that’s very kind. I’m really glad you are enjoying the videos! (Though I must insist that I’m not actually very intelligent, but it is very kind of you to say so)

  • @Thinking_Ape_Plus_Clothes
    @Thinking_Ape_Plus_Clothes 10 месяцев назад +7

    I love the woodsman. He’s not smart and he knows it. He works hard. He chops wood all day; that’s all he knows and what he’s best at. He eats hungry and sleeps tired. He doesn’t ponder the endless complex paradoxes of life. He leads a simple life, and he’s happier for it.

  • @rob4419
    @rob4419 10 месяцев назад

    Your videos are excellent, the way you organize these works and ideas into easily digestible content is impressive.

  • @marcela9689
    @marcela9689 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks a lot for your work! Please continue, I believe this channel will have a lot of success.

  • @billpetersen298
    @billpetersen298 11 дней назад

    It works, if you have a sense of wonder and gratitude already.
    There are lots of bitter hermits, shunning society.
    I learned that, after living on an island.

  • @emcys
    @emcys 10 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely adore and love your content keep going man:)

  • @AshwinPraveen
    @AshwinPraveen 10 месяцев назад

    I actually did this 😄 I’m currently living in the countryside. Little pleasures are my daily life (:

  • @derogaytoree
    @derogaytoree 10 месяцев назад

    This came at the right time, thank you.

  • @jamsteracton
    @jamsteracton 10 месяцев назад

    Walden is short and cheap, I shall read it. Thank you for the video essayl

  • @smolboi6130
    @smolboi6130 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this video, please upload more videos 🙂

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for watching! I’ll have one out towards the end of this week (family commitments permitting)

  • @glenjennett
    @glenjennett 7 часов назад

    It depends on the person. Personally, I have always felt comfortable with being alone and in my older age I prefer to be alone more and more. I find comfort in my solitude and I have never felt lonely. I wish I was able to completely abandon society and find some place to live my life in solitude, but I don't think I would be able to survive for long honestly.

  • @josemiguelcarvalho1134
    @josemiguelcarvalho1134 10 месяцев назад

    great video

  • @estoic.
    @estoic. 10 месяцев назад

    So incredibly informative! ♥️

  • @ClintonGlasener-sf5we
    @ClintonGlasener-sf5we 10 месяцев назад

    Damn bro I could literally listen to you talk allllllll day long. #Charisma #JustDamnGoodLooks

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад

      Haha! That’s a lovely compliment! But my friends can attest it gets tiring eventually

  • @peterjaimez1619
    @peterjaimez1619 10 месяцев назад

    Perhaps a list of happy philosophers? Epicurus, Nietzsche, Herbert Spencer, Stuart Mill, Erasmus Darwin, Bentham? And the list is debatable and certainly not complete. Cheers

  • @signifier
    @signifier 10 месяцев назад

    your videos are really great

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 10 месяцев назад

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,739 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @MonteSryzen
    @MonteSryzen 10 месяцев назад

    Great video, learned a lot from it

  • @MiguelAJulio
    @MiguelAJulio 10 месяцев назад

    Amazing

  • @elisabasta
    @elisabasta 7 месяцев назад

    Whenever I hear about Thoreau's cabin, my brain starts playing "Common People" without my consent.

  • @muzammilomarzoy6616
    @muzammilomarzoy6616 10 месяцев назад

    Great content! ❤

  • @peterjaimez1619
    @peterjaimez1619 10 месяцев назад

    Merry Christmas! ⛄ Walden is very interesting, why most philosophers are so 😡unhappy with life in general? Cheers 😀

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад

      Merry Christmas! And I have often wondered the same thing. Though I think a lot of them also seemed quite jolly (or at the very least, their writings are quite jolly)

  • @Skavengeful
    @Skavengeful 10 месяцев назад +1

    your timing on some of these topics is just uncanny; they're so applicable at particular junctures in life for me, quite bizarre.
    many thanks for this one, happy holidays!

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! Happy holidays to you as well!

    • @caindis-abel-dhisbrother9601
      @caindis-abel-dhisbrother9601 10 месяцев назад

      same, i just changed my life radically and now i am quite isolated (again). it's necessary, you need to live with yourself, before you live with others. i can't share his exile, i'm in the city, isolated though (and with a laptop). maybe i should quit that too, for a while.

  • @CrypticCode97
    @CrypticCode97 10 месяцев назад +3

    Ironic that the cabin in the woods is considered a luxury by modern standards

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +3

      That’s an excellent point! There is a sense in which it was still Thoreau’s fortunate circumstances that allowed him to conduct this experiment, since he was (as far as I know) living on the land owned by a friend (R.W. Emerson)

  • @feygrigorova6519
    @feygrigorova6519 5 месяцев назад

    My dream ❤

  • @optimistic5499
    @optimistic5499 10 месяцев назад

    But you are so special, keep up like that

  • @mariusskrupskis2042
    @mariusskrupskis2042 10 месяцев назад

    Oh shatter my dreams.. her we goo :D

  • @adiujjwal6201
    @adiujjwal6201 10 месяцев назад

    Can you make video on shopenhaur on Hindu upnishad

  • @benquinneyiii7941
    @benquinneyiii7941 8 месяцев назад

    Own you

  • @detailed8962
    @detailed8962 10 месяцев назад +2

    so basically bro did the ultimate dopamine detox

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад

      Ah yeah! If I had spotted that I would have made the comparison in the video

    • @detailed8962
      @detailed8962 10 месяцев назад

      @@unsolicitedadvice9198 it is a good message but it doesn't translate in todays capitalist world. if we do that we'll get out of the competition and end up poor

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +2

      Ultimately yeah it’s not like copying Thoreau one-to-one will work out well for most people. I more enjoy thinking what we can learn from these people who do things we might not be able to do

  • @MartinLim-q3z
    @MartinLim-q3z 2 месяца назад

    Not for all. Look at Alaska . 50% who live alone n off-grid eventually gave up.

  • @Lyrielonwind
    @Lyrielonwind 10 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoyed Civil Desobedience much more than Walden. Thoreau had guts.

  • @bluedragon4168
    @bluedragon4168 10 месяцев назад

    Lonely and financial secure and happy wallowing in disgust for humanity. 10 million US dollars

  • @WelcomeToDERPLAND
    @WelcomeToDERPLAND 10 месяцев назад +1

    The best way to be happy alone is to be Diogenes.
    Just like Alexander the Great Said...
    Also yeah that intro sentence really hit my fantasies to return to unga bunga perfectly.

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад

      Oh I have got to do a video on Diogenes at some point!

    • @WelcomeToDERPLAND
      @WelcomeToDERPLAND 10 месяцев назад

      @@unsolicitedadvice9198 He's my favorite philosopher of all time, only barely beating Marcus Aurelius due to how funny it is to learn and read about him- unlike ol' Stoicism man who is usually at least a little depressing to learn about since he lived during such tough times in the roman empire- which usually hurts to think about...
      I've heard that we've lost many works from Diogenes which is a crying shame, apparently he wrote 10 full length books on the subject of morality that we have absolutely no surviving documentation of- only knowing of it by references made by others about them in later works... a damn crying shame, may the sands of time reveal at least some of such treasures to us one day, I can only imagine how incredibly funny or poignantly striking they would be.

  • @SHANONisRegenerate
    @SHANONisRegenerate 10 месяцев назад

    Shit you got me 😅😅😅

  • @eresoup7229
    @eresoup7229 10 месяцев назад

    I love your videos but you have got to get some new stick photos for your thumbnails and in video use 😅

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +1

      Haha! I will do at some point, but I’ve not found many that work as well

    • @eresoup7229
      @eresoup7229 10 месяцев назад

      @unsolicitedadvice9198 hahaha, good luck with that!
      Keep up the good work

  • @dotaconpatate1767
    @dotaconpatate1767 10 месяцев назад

    This channel is useful as fuck ❤

  • @sandboxxd9853
    @sandboxxd9853 10 месяцев назад

    do an episode about each ancient filosophers

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад +1

      I would like to at some point! Although there is so much already on ancient philosophers that I am not sure if I would be adding much

  • @krishnabhargavdnv9131
    @krishnabhargavdnv9131 10 месяцев назад +1

    You look cute...!

  • @trench01
    @trench01 10 месяцев назад

    Problem is people need money to buy food , warmth from the elements and pay for rent even in the forest since all things belong to someone which everyone wants something. Even women attack a man for that if they dont have which women are the biggest issue in the world for men. LOL
    In general good videos.

    • @unsolicitedadvice9198
      @unsolicitedadvice9198  10 месяцев назад

      Oh yeah, it’s not like it’s possible to live like Thoreau did for those years (even in his day it was only through a series of fortunate coincides that he could). I just think it’s fun to see what we can take from what he did