Shawn I'm a Gen ahead of you guys leaving active duty in 95, but ive been dealing w shit for years, and more serious s_ _t last 3 years w severe spinal degeneration that went undiagnosed even during sporadic symptoms from all the jumping, running, you know. 17 major surgeries hardware store in my spine, still barely able to walk, severe 24/7 pain. Now VA finally put me w right civilian Neurosurgeon, so #18 to do majored hardware changes, work to fix compressed nerve roots etc... Shawn finding you and SRS when you first started out, saved my life man. You, and Vets like Cody, Shawn finding SRS was like finding my people. I've finally started doing shit to work out my scrambled brain that I drank and drugged to death, with that almost killing me a couple times. Listen to what you've been thru, and the things you've done, and what your doing opened up a whole new sense of possibilities, and finding faith in something, and someone being God, not my ego and distorted sense of who I really am, not the Marine, not the K9/SWAT Police, but just me, as those things are now behind me, and here I am still young, but middle aged, and what you, and even the guys you've brought on like DJ, Shawn you've shown therenis hope,there is faith, and there is something out there for me to still do, even though I'm struggling hard rt now, I have renewed hope, I can't thank you enough man, and I know I'm not alone, there is alot of Vets out there that SRS has reached, I hope I can meet you in person someday to thank you, and just shake your hand. SF Brother
Shawn and John need to do an interview just to talk about life in general both have helped countless people either by the podcasting or helping others see their not alone in how they feel or their mistakes. Couldn’t be more proud of Shawn and please go sign his petition to get the commander in front of congress so we can stop the madness
Shawn, I met Cody at the Military Influencers Conference (MIC 2024) in Atlanta just last week. He was so nice and friendly. We chatted for about 10 minutes and then he gave me a hug. Big Teddy bear 🧸. Good human being. Semper Fi, Lieutenant Colonel, USMC (Retired) P.S. we need to get your gummy bears into the Marine Corps Exchanges … I know a guy ;)
Definitely bro he resonates with it takes in the emotions guy is a top actor and human being part of him looked like he just wanted to give the guy a hug
I agree. He doesn't get his ego into the interview. He doesn't do all the talking, just asking questions, etc. to focus or direct the interview in a way.
That single tear Cody sheds at the end when talking about his dog Muninn says so much. He doesn’t wipe it away, he doesn’t apologize, he just feels it. And you gotta feel it to heal it. Amazing listen. Thanks boys.
Cody is a good friend of mine and one of the humblest and kindest people I’ve ever known. I love this dude and am so glad he’s out sharing his story opening peoples eyes and helping them become the best versions of themselves.
Cody is awesome man!! I would love to have a buddy or even a neighbor like him.. Hangin out would never get old.. You are very luck and fortunate to have a friend/brother like Cody!!
@@Jerbo1125How Cody carries himself it’s not surprising that he was able to climb up the ranks quickly as he did. Definitely when he talks about his time in Fallujah how he sets up the stage for telling his story is captivating and riveting it had me glued to my phone it had me speechless.
DUDE. Cody’s one line at 1:38:00 about being afraid to throw out garbage at Taco Bell is so important. It might seem silly, but this is a man who has done more in his life than most men could ever dream, and his poor mental health at the time caused him to have those thoughts and insecurities. Goes to show you how hard times can really fall on anyone.
I can't stress how much this podcast means to me. I've shared it with many and it doesn't seem to resonate with them very often. Maybe it's because they aren't warriors or people of purpose. Idk. Personally though, I can honestly say it's helped me tremendously with not beating myself up and being a more diligent father. Thank you Jon. You are deeply appreciated. 🙏
People of purpose/ Warriors.. My condolences for your world view.. Those people invading other countries trying to enrich their country those are called killers not warriors, might wanna settle in Russia you would get popular there. At least there's karma for most aka PTSD
Most people can’t speak more than 5 mins on any subject and/or topic without tele-prompter. Cody can speak intelligently for hours on any subject. Impressive.
I'm back watching this for a second time, I'm a huge supporter of my Brother in Arms Cody, but I wanted to give a thanks to Jon for doing this podcast, and bringing some real truths surrounding us damaged Veterans, and just life in general. Jon I loved you in both Fury, and the Accountant. Huge fan Jon !! 🇺🇸SF
Really crazy, especially bc it seemed like he was always assigned to units/squads in positions for his MOS, being deployed frequently, & he’s a white male. In the Army the fast trackers always are attached to HQ platoon/BN/BDE, with a MOS if Medic, but they are the security officer, or TDY/travel card processor. Every voucher & order they cut is deemed “above and beyond their normal duties” & warrants a COA or AAM. They also get 1st dibs on all training, schools, & waivers for promotion, points, badges. & awards. HQ loves to pat themselves on the back for all the work & training accomplishments of the troops in Squads, & write each other awards for copying & pasting an op order or printing of inventory lists & placing a check mark next to the item, meanwhile it’s the troops in squads who pulled everything out & cleaned & serviced it. I knew 3 SFC (E-7) who pinned in less than 8 years(Asian Pacific guy, Black guy, & a guy from India). My BCT Company 1SG was a white guy , 11B, he allegedly made E-8 in less than 12 years. Enlisted females have the advantage when it comes to making E-5/E-6, if they don’t have a male NCO pencil whip PT, Weapons, give them waivers, they never get told or tasked to move BS & maintenance/PMCS bc they are weak & slow, like their PT Standards, so they spend a lot of their duty day Online Army Courses & College Classes. They get exposed as an E-5/E-6 bc they don’t know their job, plus they are emotionally unstable and usually Takes them a while to make E-7 due to poor Annual evaluations, they usually don’t have deployment experience, get exposed at leadership courses for weight/PT/performance.
you realize your whole response is negated by the racist remark you made, right?@@jablank3180 "He's a white male" has zero to do with his promotability. Him being a hard charger and his understanding of leadership and being able to execute on it were everything. I don't know what happened to you in your time in service, but drop the racism crap -- he earned it, sorry if you didn't.
Cody has became one of my favorite humans walking the planet and I’ve never met him in person. I hope you’re conquering the world brother thank you for your sacrifices.
Super subtle comment towards the end about his dog Muninn being his raven. Huginn and Muninn were ravens in Norse mythology responsible for bringing information to Odin. Huginn was supposed to embody memory and Muninn was supposed to embody thought, I just think that’s an awesome name for his dog and it sounds like she lived up to it. Hope someone finds that interesting. Thank you both for the awesome podcast, Cody is the fuckin man
Thanks for putting cody on the show! This is prob the best actor youtube channel ive seen and i can tell youre not an act, youre a good guy and a great listener too!
Thanks Jon and Cody for creating this great conversation. I am seeing so many parallels between my life and Cody’s life. His interviews over the past couple years have really inspired me to start taking care of myself so I can be a better man for my family. Thanks again guys.
Respect to him for opening up, crazy how fast he was able to progress after quitting. Currently struggling with substance use on my end, and this gives me a little bit of hope.
I hear ya there man...im a combat vet myself done year in iraq and year in afghanistan . After i got out i got into opiates and its been a battle for the past 10 ys now longest clean time was close to 2 years and then relapsed. Lookin back b4 i got into drugs life was sooo much better.
me too brother relapsed multiple times but I’m now 2 months sober we just have to hold our selves accountable and keep picking our selves back up. Hope you’re doing well
@@R15_ Exactly! No matter what demons we're fighting to overcome, we haven't failed as long as we keep getting back up and trying. We just can't give in, even if we fall, we have to keep our eyes on the ball, get back up and do our best. All we can do is the best we can do, we can't expect or ask more of ourselves than our best!
Cody is the real deal. Although I'm a generation ahead of him, he's inspired me to face alot of shit, and how to learn how we can take care of ourselves. Especially relate to Cody's service dog experience. I went to work in law enforcement after the Marines, and endednup a dog handler. After 10yrs in the Marines, i spent just about 11yrs as a K9 Cop, when my dog died, so did my law enforcement days, and its time to do something else. He's alsoa great speaker, and has alot to offer this world 🇺🇲SF my Brother Jon, I'm a huge fan, and just wanna thank you for all that you do for the military and Veterans
Jon thank you for this.. I listen to Cody many times in different interviews. He sets me straight every time. Be strong & of good courage brothers. Tough as nails!!
A bit late to the party here but, man, Cody is a fantastic speaker and you can feel the warrior on him. What an incredible convo you two had. A privilege to have heard it all.
Yo, never knew Jon Bernthal had a podcast - cool as hell. I've heard Cody Alford's name a few times from the Shawn Ryan thing. I am a double suicide attempt survivor. I fought with the 2/503d, 173rd in the Kunar Province, right outside the Korengal Valley on the East side. I also did some work in the Wardak Province. I got out of the army in 2012. I did not reintegrate well. I had been in Italy or Afghanistan since 2008 and returned home very few times from 08-12. I became an IV heroin addict for years up until I shot myself in the head 9 years after I got out. My second attempt I drank a LOT of drain-o. I was very fortunate to survive both. Physically speaking, the bullet did nothing to me. Shot myself right in front and on line on the top of my right ear. Bullet did not penetrate my skull. When I drank drain-o it did fuck me up. I will have a tracheostomy tube for the rest of my life. I will never eat food again. I am fortunate enough to have the VA helping me a lot now. I only say this to help give an idea of what my background is. I have been clean for almost a year now - 100%. I now have a baby girl and another due in December. I don't give out respect to many people - but I like to think I recognize good people with good intentions. Jon and Cody without a doubt in my mind are good men who have both of these qualities and that the world is a better one for having them both in it spreading messages that are not only carry weight but also come with experience. I really appreciate what both of you are doing so fucking much. Thanks to both of you for what you are guys are doing. Mike
I don't know you but that's a heck of a story there. I hate that things were so bad that you felt you had to resort to that. I never got to serve as bad as I wanted too due to a heart defect. The number one heart defect you can't have in the military but trust me I dang sure wanted too and tried. Anyways I respect the heck out of our veterans I thank you very much for your service to our country. We really need to be doing a LOT more to help our veterans reintegrate back into normal society but Obviously the lord felt like you had a greater purpose on this earth. He CAN heal you if you have faith and ask. I've witnessed many people healed by him. But I wish you all the best brother and am glad your still with us. Thanks for sharing your story god bless.
Holy shit man you’re an absolute blessing and a miracle brother I don’t know you at all but God has obvious big plans for you man and your family you’re a fighter and a survivor and a inspiration a Patriot
Such a freaking rad listen! Would love to be in the company of individuals like yourselves, appreciate all the transparency & no bullshit stance talking about life and real things. I Appreciate & love your platform Jon!
I'm a Combat Veteran from Iraq and Afghanistan.... This dude is spot on... I loved serving but the reality the military destroyed and spits people out. Only reason I stay in for as along as I did was the brotherhood.
Me too lol iraq n afghsnistan too i was army 19d light cav aka cavintry lol. All of us were 11b or 19d with a couple 13f and a group of 11c attached to us on most missions. The brotherhood is like no other i miss it at times. Dont miss gettin in trouble and smoked for hours on end. Never got an article 15 surprisingly lol
I have no experience compare to you , sir , soldier , I have nothing but the most respect to you . Thank you for sharing because by speaking the truth , your story , it heals not just you all of us . Thank you Sir,Marine. May the Creator always protect you . Thank you for speaking your truth. The truth .
Just to touch on the subject of suicide…imagine looking around you and your life and seeing no joy, no happiness, nothing but darkness and disappointment. That is the reality. Seeing no way through. Seeing no way out. Only the overwhelming heartache and pain. Not cowardly. Just despair. Disappointment. Darkness. I was spared. I lived. I vowed never to try and hurt myself ever again. It’s a truly sensitive subject for me. I know why I did it. I can assure you that I did struggle with the realization of what it may do to my family but at the time death was a better option to me than what was becoming of my life. It was not an easy or selfish choice. I couldn’t see past the pain I was in at that time. Not something I share very often but considering the conversation perhaps a peek inside someone that has been there may help provide a better understanding. It certainly changed my outlook on life after surviving. Not having anyone to turn to or talk to about what was going on inside me only fueled my desire to end my suffering. Not everyone has a good support system. Keep that in mind. Even having “family” around isn’t always exactly a support system. ✌🏻
Brother I can tell you this idk if you believe in God or not but I can tell you this and promise you this if you truly ask Jesus for help he will instantly take away that darkness and feeling of no hope. I've seen him do it so many times. The peace you will have is past all understand you just don't know what you're missing out on if you've never been saved. You know most people don't know this but the very moment you give your heart to Jesus you can literally physically feel a burden lift off of you. It's the most amazing feeling ever. No more darkness you will literally feel and notice a transformation inside yourself if you don't belive me just try seriously what do you have to lose? God bless you and thank you for you're service.
I'm glad you are still with us. You sound like a wonderful and very humble person the way you speak of your past. Your choice was not selfish at all. And you are right; even having family that cares about you does not always make things better because nobody else will ever truly understand what exactly you are feeling and what is going on in your mind. That can make a person with 100 people in their support system feel very much alone. I have been there too. It's not the past that defines us though; its what we choose to do in the present. Bless you my friend.
Amazing story glad you're still with us I lived a similar lifestyle and learned a lot from this. Perspective is very powerful. Wish you the best of luck Cody moving forward.
Cody is one of my favorite person to listen too I fist seen him on the Shawn Ryan show started following him then seen him on the Mike Ritland podcast absolutely an amazing human being love that guy thank you for sharing thank you Jon for having him on your show I learn something every time I watch him and listen too him 🤙🏼🤙🏼🙏🏼
In the Navy it was a coin flip how your command would be. I had some badass Chief's who saved my life, I fucked up so many times struggling with alcohol and depression. They set me straight their own way and didn't send me to Captain's Mast. As I continued my career, I maintained that thankfulness as I met some other leadership who didn't want to build camaraderie or humanity among us. I had trouble with some of the other department's but we took care of our own. The best way I explain it is that the military can be like a gang or like a corporation. Both get the job done but when the shit hits the fan and things get rough, it's better to do something for someone because you respect them, not because you fear them.
Good on yuh for doing this one John, followed Cody after hearing about his journey, served 13 to 19 without any combat deployments, my unit went to Okinawa…tattoo waiver had me miss the deployment to Afghanistan outta a reserve unit but they didn’t see much action, not that I would want to after hearing this shit but great podcast!
If you don't ask the question, the answer is always going to be no! It has taken a big chunk my life but now that has become a huge plus in the quality of my life.
This kid is something else , John just embraces the feelings pouring out of this lad , he’s got a lot of sense man burying his emotions to speak truths , he’s right tho the fuckers sitting behind a desk don’t realise what they put these lads through especially these scenarios like fallujah was hell on earth for they marines fighting heard stories of close quarter hand to hand combat of both marines and Arabs fighting with anything they had and it’s sad when u think that human nature is destructive beyond reason that this shit takes place, just sad man
I was an Army infantryman for 20 years. Retired 2017. It blew my mind when I would deploy and be on an operation with guys from the Corp. I could tell their training was better than ours because they weren’t handcuffed by all the safety hand holding the army does. But they had none of the gear we had. Only team leaders had night vision, they had m16A2 with iron sites and we had m4 with ACOGS and PEQ1 and all of us had PVS-14’s. Plus the Corp eats their own so bad. They get jealous and ruin careers, keep people from getting promoted cause they did something their chain of command hadn’t. It’s sad cause they are so good at war imagine how much better they’d be. Army too.
An old veteran walked up to me when I was sweeping at Burger King and said don’t ever give up and the way I was sweeping and mopping was very controlled nd I should joined the military. I look back in that often
Wow ,I'm dealing with all the problems as we speak I have been locked in a room for months I can't work I can't deal with people I'm hateful to everyone around me which are very few at this point
One thing to say Kick fear in the teeth, another when the fear is what the day brings. Go back to what Cody said to about fear. Try ways to overcome it. If you don’t succeed, remember just that way to conquer didn’t work. Failure is the path to success bc you need to try & try again. Try mirror & keeping self accountable to who, what you see but mostly what you want to make happen. Keep working. We come in alone & leave same way. Your value hasn’t expired!
As someone who, just this past weekend, had to put down our dog Lilly that we had for 12.5 years, his final comments fucking got to me. I felt every bit of that.
Haha! This comment is underrated for sure. I was thinking the same thing. Except I do drink coffee and yet I have never held a cup in my hands for over 2 hours. 😂
It may be a way for him to keep himself grounded. I've been out of the Army for nearly 8 years and still feel weird or almost naked sometimes when I'm not carrying something in my hands.
Jon you were in point pleasant w.va a while back,I live just across the river in Gallia county,I seen the pics on fb and I thought what's the odds of that happening, I love your show,lives up to the title keep up the great work brother.
No way ,i discovered punisher recently and watching season 2 episode 5 just now I just want to say Jon Bernthal you are a legendary actor and world needs humble actors like you Now back to watching Punisher 🙃
I appreciate the honesty. People think you are weak if you believe in God. That's the complete opposite of the truth. When you use your free will, give it to God, that takes a strong person. I am not referring to false man made religions. I found it interesting how he found rich and successful people are empty inside. It is never enough for them.
Thanks!!! I got tears. 1977- 1980 peace time My ass. Crashed in a 53 on Pendleton in 79 after being turned around from going to Iran. I lived and don't get it
2:37 to be fair, once you understand linear warefare is makes sense how it was the best way to go about projecting a massive amount of firepower in a tight formation considering muskets are inaccurate as shit.
Dude I love Cody and what he does for vets any time I need to reach to him if am I struggling or if I just want to talk some shit if your a veteran that needs help he will try to reach out . #fucktheNORM
Cody is an exceptional human being. It makes me happy to see him on here.
Love you Shawn big fan
Shawn I'm a Gen ahead of you guys leaving active duty in 95, but ive been dealing w shit for years, and more serious s_ _t last 3 years w severe spinal degeneration that went undiagnosed even during sporadic symptoms from all the jumping, running, you know. 17 major surgeries hardware store in my spine, still barely able to walk, severe 24/7 pain. Now VA finally put me w right civilian Neurosurgeon, so #18 to do majored hardware changes, work to fix compressed nerve roots etc...
Shawn finding you and SRS when you first started out, saved my life man. You, and Vets like Cody, Shawn finding SRS was like finding my people. I've finally started doing shit to work out my scrambled brain that I drank and drugged to death, with that almost killing me a couple times. Listen to what you've been thru, and the things you've done, and what your doing opened up a whole new sense of possibilities, and finding faith in something, and someone being God, not my ego and distorted sense of who I really am, not the Marine, not the K9/SWAT Police, but just me, as those things are now behind me, and here I am still young, but middle aged, and what you, and even the guys you've brought on like DJ, Shawn you've shown therenis hope,there is faith, and there is something out there for me to still do, even though I'm struggling hard rt now, I have renewed hope, I can't thank you enough man, and I know I'm not alone, there is alot of Vets out there that SRS has reached, I hope I can meet you in person someday to thank you, and just shake your hand. SF Brother
Shawn and John need to do an interview just to talk about life in general both have helped countless people either by the podcasting or helping others see their not alone in how they feel or their mistakes. Couldn’t be more proud of Shawn and please go sign his petition to get the commander in front of congress so we can stop the madness
Get Jon Bernthal on your podcast
Shawn, I met Cody at the Military Influencers Conference (MIC 2024) in Atlanta just last week. He was so nice and friendly. We chatted for about 10 minutes and then he gave me a hug. Big Teddy bear 🧸. Good human being. Semper Fi, Lieutenant Colonel, USMC (Retired) P.S. we need to get your gummy bears into the Marine Corps Exchanges … I know a guy ;)
This storytelling is next level, I love how Jon just lets his guests do their thing.
Haha ye and then its gona get out of control.. lol
Definitely bro he resonates with it takes in the emotions guy is a top actor and human being part of him looked like he just wanted to give the guy a hug
I agree. He doesn't get his ego into the interview. He doesn't do all the talking, just asking questions, etc. to focus or direct the interview in a way.
He's got a good 6 hour interview with Shawn ryan.
horse shit
Cody is the leader EVERYONE NEEDS!!! Thank you for your service.
That single tear Cody sheds at the end when talking about his dog Muninn says so much. He doesn’t wipe it away, he doesn’t apologize, he just feels it. And you gotta feel it to heal it. Amazing listen. Thanks boys.
Dude…..”you gotta feel it to heal it”……..this makes so much sense. Holy shit. Thanks for that.
@@timothycummins2700 for sure bro. Keep it up 👍🏼
Well said. 'Feel it to heal it' so simple but 👌
Cody is a good friend of mine and one of the humblest and kindest people I’ve ever known. I love this dude and am so glad he’s out sharing his story opening peoples eyes and helping them become the best versions of themselves.
He seems like a really cool dude! Always glad when I see him post or getting out there he's got a good message!
Cody is awesome man!! I would love to have a buddy or even a neighbor like him.. Hangin out would never get old.. You are very luck and fortunate to have a friend/brother like Cody!!
This is a legend, he did a phenomenal interview on Shawn Ryan show and definitely many gems of wisdom
Watched it like three times by the way it’s like six hours and the Falluja story is ridiculous. I couldn’t even imagine
@@Jerbo1125How Cody carries himself it’s not surprising that he was able to climb up the ranks quickly as he did. Definitely when he talks about his time in Fallujah how he sets up the stage for telling his story is captivating and riveting it had me glued to my phone it had me speechless.
@@azaelmadrid3587 absolutely 👍
DUDE. Cody’s one line at 1:38:00 about being afraid to throw out garbage at Taco Bell is so important. It might seem silly, but this is a man who has done more in his life than most men could ever dream, and his poor mental health at the time caused him to have those thoughts and insecurities. Goes to show you how hard times can really fall on anyone.
I can't stress how much this podcast means to me. I've shared it with many and it doesn't seem to resonate with them very often. Maybe it's because they aren't warriors or people of purpose. Idk. Personally though, I can honestly say it's helped me tremendously with not beating myself up and being a more diligent father. Thank you Jon. You are deeply appreciated. 🙏
So don't stress. Simple .
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People of purpose/ Warriors.. My condolences for your world view.. Those people invading other countries trying to enrich their country those are called killers not warriors, might wanna settle in Russia you would get popular there. At least there's karma for most aka PTSD
You have no idea what you're talking about.
This is how real vets that fight for their country with honor behave 💯
Most people can’t speak more than 5 mins on any subject and/or topic without tele-prompter.
Cody can speak intelligently for hours on any subject. Impressive.
I'm back watching this for a second time, I'm a huge supporter of my Brother in Arms Cody, but I wanted to give a thanks to Jon for doing this podcast, and bringing some real truths surrounding us damaged Veterans, and just life in general. Jon I loved you in both Fury, and the Accountant. Huge fan Jon !!
🇺🇸SF
He was the youngest E8 I believe. It was crazy how fast he moved up the ranks
Really crazy, especially bc it seemed like he was always assigned to units/squads in positions for his MOS, being deployed frequently, & he’s a white male. In the Army the fast trackers always are attached to HQ platoon/BN/BDE, with a MOS if Medic, but they are the security officer, or TDY/travel card processor. Every voucher & order they cut is deemed “above and beyond their normal duties” & warrants a COA or AAM. They also get 1st dibs on all training, schools, & waivers for promotion, points, badges. & awards. HQ loves to pat themselves on the back for all the work & training accomplishments of the troops in Squads, & write each other awards for copying & pasting an op order or printing of inventory lists & placing a check mark next to the item, meanwhile it’s the troops in squads who pulled everything out & cleaned & serviced it. I knew 3 SFC (E-7) who pinned in less than 8 years(Asian Pacific guy, Black guy, & a guy from India). My BCT Company 1SG was a white guy , 11B, he allegedly made E-8 in less than 12 years. Enlisted females have the advantage when it comes to making E-5/E-6, if they don’t have a male NCO pencil whip PT, Weapons, give them waivers, they never get told or tasked to move BS & maintenance/PMCS bc they are weak & slow, like their PT Standards, so they spend a lot of their duty day Online Army Courses & College Classes. They get exposed as an E-5/E-6 bc they don’t know their job, plus they are emotionally unstable and usually Takes them a while to make E-7 due to poor Annual evaluations, they usually don’t have deployment experience, get exposed at leadership courses for weight/PT/performance.
you realize your whole response is negated by the racist remark you made, right?@@jablank3180 "He's a white male" has zero to do with his promotability. Him being a hard charger and his understanding of leadership and being able to execute on it were everything. I don't know what happened to you in your time in service, but drop the racism crap -- he earned it, sorry if you didn't.
@@sthvsnththere’s nothing racist, he is in fact.. a white male
Cody you’re an inspiration brother. Thank you for being you and for telling your story.
Cody has became one of my favorite humans walking the planet and I’ve never met him in person. I hope you’re conquering the world brother thank you for your sacrifices.
Super subtle comment towards the end about his dog Muninn being his raven. Huginn and Muninn were ravens in Norse mythology responsible for bringing information to Odin. Huginn was supposed to embody memory and Muninn was supposed to embody thought, I just think that’s an awesome name for his dog and it sounds like she lived up to it. Hope someone finds that interesting. Thank you both for the awesome podcast, Cody is the fuckin man
Thanks for putting cody on the show! This is prob the best actor youtube channel ive seen and i can tell youre not an act, youre a good guy and a great listener too!
Thanks Jon and Cody for creating this great conversation. I am seeing so many parallels between my life and Cody’s life. His interviews over the past couple years have really inspired me to start taking care of myself so I can be a better man for my family. Thanks again guys.
Massively looking forward to this interview.
Cody is all time! Great guest 👏🏼
Cody and Jon, I WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR 6. Thank you for this amazing interview.
Respect to him for opening up, crazy how fast he was able to progress after quitting. Currently struggling with substance use on my end, and this gives me a little bit of hope.
There's always hope, please don't give up ❤️🙏
I hear ya there man...im a combat vet myself done year in iraq and year in afghanistan . After i got out i got into opiates and its been a battle for the past 10 ys now longest clean time was close to 2 years and then relapsed. Lookin back b4 i got into drugs life was sooo much better.
HOPE BOTH OF YOU GUYS ARE DOING WELL! Nd staying Clean!
I have 6 years … sounds corny but one day at a time brothas
me too brother relapsed multiple times but I’m now 2 months sober we just have to hold our selves accountable and keep picking our selves back up. Hope you’re doing well
@@R15_ Exactly! No matter what demons we're fighting to overcome, we haven't failed as long as we keep getting back up and trying. We just can't give in, even if we fall, we have to keep our eyes on the ball, get back up and do our best. All we can do is the best we can do, we can't expect or ask more of ourselves than our best!
Cody is the real deal. Although I'm a generation ahead of him, he's inspired me to face alot of shit, and how to learn how we can take care of ourselves.
Especially relate to Cody's service dog experience. I went to work in law enforcement after the Marines, and endednup a dog handler. After 10yrs in the Marines, i spent just about 11yrs as a K9 Cop, when my dog died, so did my law enforcement days, and its time to do something else.
He's alsoa great speaker, and has alot to offer this world
🇺🇲SF my Brother
Jon, I'm a huge fan, and just wanna thank you for all that you do for the military and Veterans
Jon thank you for this..
I listen to Cody many times in different interviews. He sets me straight every time. Be strong & of good courage brothers. Tough as nails!!
A bit late to the party here but, man, Cody is a fantastic speaker and you can feel the warrior on him. What an incredible convo you two had. A privilege to have heard it all.
Yo, never knew Jon Bernthal had a podcast - cool as hell. I've heard Cody Alford's name a few times from the Shawn Ryan thing. I am a double suicide attempt survivor. I fought with the 2/503d, 173rd in the Kunar Province, right outside the Korengal Valley on the East side. I also did some work in the Wardak Province. I got out of the army in 2012. I did not reintegrate well. I had been in Italy or Afghanistan since 2008 and returned home very few times from 08-12. I became an IV heroin addict for years up until I shot myself in the head 9 years after I got out. My second attempt I drank a LOT of drain-o. I was very fortunate to survive both. Physically speaking, the bullet did nothing to me. Shot myself right in front and on line on the top of my right ear. Bullet did not penetrate my skull. When I drank drain-o it did fuck me up. I will have a tracheostomy tube for the rest of my life. I will never eat food again. I am fortunate enough to have the VA helping me a lot now. I only say this to help give an idea of what my background is. I have been clean for almost a year now - 100%. I now have a baby girl and another due in December. I don't give out respect to many people - but I like to think I recognize good people with good intentions. Jon and Cody without a doubt in my mind are good men who have both of these qualities and that the world is a better one for having them both in it spreading messages that are not only carry weight but also come with experience. I really appreciate what both of you are doing so fucking much. Thanks to both of you for what you are guys are doing.
Mike
I don't know you but that's a heck of a story there. I hate that things were so bad that you felt you had to resort to that. I never got to serve as bad as I wanted too due to a heart defect. The number one heart defect you can't have in the military but trust me I dang sure wanted too and tried. Anyways I respect the heck out of our veterans I thank you very much for your service to our country. We really need to be doing a LOT more to help our veterans reintegrate back into normal society but Obviously the lord felt like you had a greater purpose on this earth. He CAN heal you if you have faith and ask. I've witnessed many people healed by him. But I wish you all the best brother and am glad your still with us. Thanks for sharing your story god bless.
Holy shit man you’re an absolute blessing and a miracle brother I don’t know you at all but God has obvious big plans for you man and your family you’re a fighter and a survivor and a inspiration a Patriot
I'm so grateful you survived. You and your life MATTERS! Please don't ever give up, you've survived so much pain in your life for a reason! ❤️🙏💪🇺🇲🥰
Such a freaking rad listen! Would love to be in the company of individuals like yourselves, appreciate all the transparency & no bullshit stance talking about life and real things. I Appreciate & love
your platform Jon!
I love that you enjoy hearing other peoples stories as much as I do 👌🏻
Cody is one of my hero’s, and I don’t mean that lightly. I don’t like to worship people, but he has shown me the path to be better.
I'm a Combat Veteran from Iraq and Afghanistan.... This dude is spot on... I loved serving but the reality the military destroyed and spits people out. Only reason I stay in for as along as I did was the brotherhood.
Me too lol iraq n afghsnistan too i was army 19d light cav aka cavintry lol. All of us were 11b or 19d with a couple 13f and a group of 11c attached to us on most missions. The brotherhood is like no other i miss it at times. Dont miss gettin in trouble and smoked for hours on end. Never got an article 15 surprisingly lol
My father was a marine. Is an eighty plus year old marine. Respect.
Cody you are an incredible human being, you have helped me and so many others . Don’t ever stop being you.
Wow what an awesome story. Oohrah Cody and keep doing your thing my fellow U.S. Marine Veteran. Peace and Semper Fi!
damn when he said power tripping you can fall into “this character” very deeply so fn true .
Jon; your guest is amazing. Really seeing yourself from the balcony is rare. Thank you.
Cody is a legend, same with you Jon. Cheers for the video
I have no experience compare to you , sir , soldier , I have nothing but the most respect to you . Thank you for sharing because by speaking the truth , your story , it heals not just you all of us . Thank you Sir,Marine. May the Creator always protect you . Thank you for speaking your truth. The truth .
Just to touch on the subject of suicide…imagine looking around you and your life and seeing no joy, no happiness, nothing but darkness and disappointment. That is the reality. Seeing no way through. Seeing no way out. Only the overwhelming heartache and pain. Not cowardly. Just despair. Disappointment. Darkness. I was spared. I lived. I vowed never to try and hurt myself ever again. It’s a truly sensitive subject for me. I know why I did it. I can assure you that I did struggle with the realization of what it may do to my family but at the time death was a better option to me than what was becoming of my life. It was not an easy or selfish choice. I couldn’t see past the pain I was in at that time. Not something I share very often but considering the conversation perhaps a peek inside someone that has been there may help provide a better understanding. It certainly changed my outlook on life after surviving. Not having anyone to turn to or talk to about what was going on inside me only fueled my desire to end my suffering. Not everyone has a good support system. Keep that in mind. Even having “family” around isn’t always exactly a support system. ✌🏻
Brother I can tell you this idk if you believe in God or not but I can tell you this and promise you this if you truly ask Jesus for help he will instantly take away that darkness and feeling of no hope. I've seen him do it so many times. The peace you will have is past all understand you just don't know what you're missing out on if you've never been saved. You know most people don't know this but the very moment you give your heart to Jesus you can literally physically feel a burden lift off of you. It's the most amazing feeling ever. No more darkness you will literally feel and notice a transformation inside yourself if you don't belive me just try seriously what do you have to lose? God bless you and thank you for you're service.
Weakness, you’re not a man
You’re a girl who needs validation on her new shoes.
I'm glad you are still with us. You sound like a wonderful and very humble person the way you speak of your past. Your choice was not selfish at all. And you are right; even having family that cares about you does not always make things better because nobody else will ever truly understand what exactly you are feeling and what is going on in your mind. That can make a person with 100 people in their support system feel very much alone. I have been there too. It's not the past that defines us though; its what we choose to do in the present. Bless you my friend.
@@Stand1ngBear Thank you. May you be blessed as well.
Cody 4 DAMN sure can tell his story, I've listened to multiple of them now! Thank you 4 your service ! 🇺🇸
Wow… Cody is a real one. What a great name for this podcast. What an amazing human
Thanks for your service brother. We need men like you so my family and I can be at ease and enjoy our lives in this great country. Thanks again
Wow. What an incredible testimony. Blessings to you and your family Cody.
Amazing story glad you're still with us I lived a similar lifestyle and learned a lot from this. Perspective is very powerful. Wish you the best of luck Cody moving forward.
Thank you for your service and for sharing!!!!
Best podcast on the internet hands down
Awesome podcast Cody has a amazing history and a bright future
Cody is one of my favorite person to listen too I fist seen him on the Shawn Ryan show started following him then seen him on the Mike Ritland podcast absolutely an amazing human being love that guy thank you for sharing thank you Jon for having him on your show I learn something every time I watch him and listen too him 🤙🏼🤙🏼🙏🏼
Exactly! The inside work is the MOST IMPORTANT ❤
I wish I had men like Cody in my life
Still a "G" .. absolutely... What amazing insight and wisdom..Thanks bruh
In the Navy it was a coin flip how your command would be. I had some badass Chief's who saved my life, I fucked up so many times struggling with alcohol and depression. They set me straight their own way and didn't send me to Captain's Mast. As I continued my career, I maintained that thankfulness as I met some other leadership who didn't want to build camaraderie or humanity among us. I had trouble with some of the other department's but we took care of our own. The best way I explain it is that the military can be like a gang or like a corporation. Both get the job done but when the shit hits the fan and things get rough, it's better to do something for someone because you respect them, not because you fear them.
I agree. Also in any case thanks for your service.
Amazing interview. Enough said.
Thanks Jon for the platform. Thanks Cody for your service.
Sam, Sheffield uk
Cody is what all people should know they are, worth more.
Good on yuh for doing this one John, followed Cody after hearing about his journey, served 13 to 19 without any combat deployments, my unit went to Okinawa…tattoo waiver had me miss the deployment to Afghanistan outta a reserve unit but they didn’t see much action, not that I would want to after hearing this shit but great podcast!
If you don't ask the question, the answer is always going to be no! It has taken a big chunk my life but now that has become a huge plus in the quality of my life.
Cody your awesome brother.thank you
BEST VIDEO IN A LONG TIME BRO,,,,I GOT A LOT OUT OF THIS THANK YOU BOTH ,,,,
Been waiting for this one for a minute
I didn't know Cody was that big. Damn😮
Great episode
Thanks Cody and John great interview. Semper Fi
This kid is something else , John just embraces the feelings pouring out of this lad , he’s got a lot of sense man burying his emotions to speak truths , he’s right tho the fuckers sitting behind a desk don’t realise what they put these lads through especially these scenarios like fallujah was hell on earth for they marines fighting heard stories of close quarter hand to hand combat of both marines and Arabs fighting with anything they had and it’s sad when u think that human nature is destructive beyond reason that this shit takes place, just sad man
You two gents are lifesavers. Thank you for putting these positive vibrations into the world for people to pick up on.
a truly great episode. :) Cody is forsure the man!
Man I wish I could be there just to talk to both of them. Pick there brain and see there stories. Thank you for the vid it helped me a lot.
Love you brother. Ty for your service from a Navy AO. IYAOYAS... HOOYAH
So much wisdom in this dude
Wow so powerful 😢
Iron sharpens iron,your words.
Mean a lot. One must know who we are what we stand for and why we live. ~MOMENTO MORI~ ~MOMENTO VIVERE~
Thanks for this brother…you are awesome on all counts i can think of….best of luck brother
That's a legend of an American right there
I was an Army infantryman for 20 years. Retired 2017. It blew my mind when I would deploy and be on an operation with guys from the Corp. I could tell their training was better than ours because they weren’t handcuffed by all the safety hand holding the army does. But they had none of the gear we had. Only team leaders had night vision, they had m16A2 with iron sites and we had m4 with ACOGS and PEQ1 and all of us had PVS-14’s. Plus the Corp eats their own so bad. They get jealous and ruin careers, keep people from getting promoted cause they did something their chain of command hadn’t. It’s sad cause they are so good at war imagine how much better they’d be. Army too.
My brother Jason Gillispie was 1st bn 2nd Mar part of taskforce Tarawa in that shit hole with you bro ... Thank you so much for what you do....
An old veteran walked up to me when I was sweeping at Burger King and said don’t ever give up and the way I was sweeping and mopping was very controlled nd I should joined the military.
I look back in that often
Stay grinding and you’ll continue your rise up bro, awesome work ✈️🚀🔥
Great interview, Cody’s message really resonates with me. Appreciate this
Wow ,I'm dealing with all the problems as we speak I have been locked in a room for months I can't work I can't deal with people I'm hateful to everyone around me which are very few at this point
One thing to say Kick fear in the teeth, another when the fear is what the day brings. Go back to what Cody said to about fear. Try ways to overcome it. If you don’t succeed, remember just that way to conquer didn’t work. Failure is the path to success bc you need to try & try again. Try mirror & keeping self accountable to who, what you see but mostly what you want to make happen. Keep working. We come in alone & leave same way. Your value hasn’t expired!
Bro speaking truths I really relate to the Cody with the same problem with leadership in the fire service
As someone who, just this past weekend, had to put down our dog Lilly that we had for 12.5 years, his final comments fucking got to me. I felt every bit of that.
Thank you John
This man is a legend
I dont drink coffee, but I know I've never held a cup in my hands for over 2 hours!
Haha! This comment is underrated for sure. I was thinking the same thing. Except I do drink coffee and yet I have never held a cup in my hands for over 2 hours. 😂
And with a table right there too lol
The hell this guy has been though it probably just brings comfort in some sort of way.
Ain’t no coffee innat cup
It may be a way for him to keep himself grounded. I've been out of the Army for nearly 8 years and still feel weird or almost naked sometimes when I'm not carrying something in my hands.
Jon you were in point pleasant w.va a while back,I live just across the river in Gallia county,I seen the pics on fb and I thought what's the odds of that happening, I love your show,lives up to the title keep up the great work brother.
No way ,i discovered punisher recently and watching season 2 episode 5 just now
I just want to say Jon Bernthal you are a legendary actor and world needs humble actors like you
Now back to watching Punisher 🙃
i just noticed doggo at the 30 min mark 🥹🥹🥹
Fuckin love your show, man! Im catching up on what I've missed. Great interviews man.
Mate, just happened on your channel, love it, keep it up! Watched Mel Chancey, Shia's, and now this one.
Great interview 🙏🏽
thank you
great interview gents !
And when Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, we wept, for there were no more worlds left to conquer.........translation=everyone needs purpose.
I appreciate the honesty. People think you are weak if you believe in God. That's the complete opposite of the truth. When you use your free will, give it to God, that takes a strong person. I am not referring to false man made religions.
I found it interesting how he found rich and successful people are empty inside. It is never enough for them.
Thanks!!! I got tears. 1977- 1980 peace time My ass. Crashed in a 53 on Pendleton in 79 after being turned around from going to Iran. I lived and don't get it
Operation Eagle Claw?
Gr8 interview!!
He could’ve went on for another 3 hours, great interview
2:37 to be fair, once you understand linear warefare is makes sense how it was the best way to go about projecting a massive amount of firepower in a tight formation considering muskets are inaccurate as shit.
Best interview Cody has done thus far. Great job Jon. 👊🏼👊🏼
Shawn ryan interview was 6 hours amd epic
God Bless Cody! Jesus is the way!He has a purpose for everyone!
Appreciate your service Cody. You’re a dope mf 💯 Also, Jon is the best listener in the podcasting game! Incredible episode.
Dude I love Cody and what he does for vets any time I need to reach to him if am I struggling or if I just want to talk some shit if your a veteran that needs help he will try to reach out . #fucktheNORM
Excelente
Insane.