World Leading Performance Psychologist Dr. Michael Gervais On The Stoic Path To Mastery

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2024
  • On this episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast Ryan Holiday is joined by Dr. Michael Gervais, one of the world’s top high-performance psychologists and leading experts on the relationship between the mind and human performance.
    Together they discuss FOPO (fear of other people's opinions), the reality of imposter syndrome, and Dr. Gervais' book, The First Rule of Mastery: Stop Worrying What Other People Think of You.
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Комментарии • 59

  • @StoicAwe
    @StoicAwe 4 месяца назад +14

    "Be silent for the most part, or, if you speak, say only what is necessary and in a few words." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @foxprojects247
    @foxprojects247 4 месяца назад +10

    "information could be correct, but it's lacking the context needed for it to be successful." That was a brilliant statement Ryan. Many people don't like unsolicited advice or just don't know your true intentions, better to know someone well and judge whether to give them input based on that relationship.

    • @LionStoic
      @LionStoic 2 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely! Your point about the importance of context in communication is spot on. It's crucial to consider the nature of your relationship with someone and their receptiveness to advice before offering it. Building understanding and respect in our interactions is key.

  • @kzalepa
    @kzalepa Месяц назад +1

    So many great moments in this interview... Gervais' wife's idea of not teaching children that life is Fair, since it isn't, is really a valuable moment.. So many insightful moments in this discussion from both
    The second arrow analogy is so relevant, very philosophical psychology, which i think is so important for providing the foundation for our psychology as humans. love that. Thank you both!

  • @DanWells2157
    @DanWells2157 4 месяца назад +59

    I'm one minute in. How long until my brain stops telling me this man is Tom Cruise?

  • @hunterwinslow780
    @hunterwinslow780 4 месяца назад +6

    Omg this is exactly the topic I’ve been thinking about in my mind. It’s hard to balance doing things for yourself and doing things for an audience

    • @LionStoic
      @LionStoic 2 месяца назад

      Me too! balancing what you love with others' expectations is really tough. It can feel like walking on a tightrope sometimes.

  • @calomonte4764
    @calomonte4764 4 месяца назад +2

    23:00 is such a philosophical marvel to watch coz Ryan being the Stoic that he is, is just shooting straight at the point with minimal deconstruction. While Dr. Gervais is all about getting deep into the guts of this idea of “All Art has its audience”.
    Hopefully I captured that right.

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 4 месяца назад +7

    “It's what you learn after you know it all that counts.”
    - John Wooden

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 4 месяца назад +5

    We appreciate your insights. You'll always have our support.

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 4 месяца назад +5

    We're all gonna make it brahs

    • @adaf123
      @adaf123 4 месяца назад +2

      Love your enthusiasm brah

  • @LothlorBass
    @LothlorBass 4 месяца назад +2

    Definitely lots of insight to apply to life. Please keep uploading these amazing episodes!

  • @mariolongtin8271
    @mariolongtin8271 4 месяца назад +2

    Great conversation! Thank you for sharing us this gem.

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 4 месяца назад +3

    Love this conversation!

  • @Batmanshypeman
    @Batmanshypeman 4 месяца назад

    On the topic of Robert and the laws of power. Knowledge isn’t inherently “good or evil” it just is and how you use it determines its morality. When I was a teen I read The Prince and that was foundational for me to be able to see people. That and the art of war set a foundation for understanding the battle internally and externally with power and how to fight it. I’ve built a reading list for my daughter as she ages she’s 2 now so I’m gonna start reading these books to her.

  • @MortgagePlannerTom
    @MortgagePlannerTom 4 месяца назад

    Really good stuff here fellas, thanks for sharing 👍🏽

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 4 месяца назад

    "The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the depth of happiness." - Seneca

  • @valoriebroderick
    @valoriebroderick 4 месяца назад +5

    I'm glad Ryan sticks to the value of justice even if it is oddly controversial hah.

  • @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776
    @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776 4 месяца назад

    Great meditation to start the day- Akerlof & Schiller have a great work on this in their book Animal Spirits. Some interesting discoveries in the book like about when the financial services industry used to name things like "Maiden Lane" for the branding of it. I try to look at the individual parts of something and try to figure out it's gestalt to identify what a use value is of everything that I choose to bring into my oikos.

    • @tobysbreathisverybad
      @tobysbreathisverybad 4 месяца назад

      Curious what they said about branding like “Maiden Lane”. Why are so many hedge funds named after bodies of water? All the Greek names (I assume those are to just appear learned and timeless).

  • @alialiraqi2762
    @alialiraqi2762 4 месяца назад

    Thanks

  • @S_Edward_Burns_ArtsEditor
    @S_Edward_Burns_ArtsEditor 4 месяца назад

    #MichaelGervais heard and experienced here as not authentic. Carry on #Stoicism #RyanHoliday, 2024!

  • @geoffreythomas2938
    @geoffreythomas2938 4 месяца назад

    Stoic philosophy reminds me of Star Trek Vulcan teachings.

  • @karmanshah11
    @karmanshah11 4 месяца назад

    59:01 concept of fairness, and should we let the fact that we are in control if we act according to justice or not but we're not in control if other people act that way too, should we let that hold us back?

    • @vmp_online
      @vmp_online 4 месяца назад

      never, hold yourself to the standard you believe to be objectively right using deductive reasoning

  • @girirajrdx7277
    @girirajrdx7277 4 месяца назад

    If tomorrow cruise dies in middle of the movie schedule, we now know who to hire

  • @TheProactivePatients
    @TheProactivePatients 4 месяца назад

    Anne Frank thought that someone may find her diary, so it was for herself, but she was also purposefully documenting what was going on for history.

  • @coralialarios3275
    @coralialarios3275 4 месяца назад

    Bridled emotions 48:37

  • @danielvalverde4955
    @danielvalverde4955 4 месяца назад

    Loved the conversation, but do have feedback on Ryan interjecting himself every other sentence to say "yeah" or something like that.

  • @kaptainh5538
    @kaptainh5538 4 месяца назад

    Dr G and , Seattle Seahawks , Pete Carroll , Compete to Win

  • @SudhirKumar-er5zs
    @SudhirKumar-er5zs 4 месяца назад

    Is he Tom Cruise's brother?

  • @wilhelm1311
    @wilhelm1311 2 месяца назад

    every 3sec to yeah, sure is really to much here

  • @daanschone1548
    @daanschone1548 4 месяца назад

    I gave this a like but I hope you don't care.

    • @TonyCook7
      @TonyCook7 3 месяца назад +1

      He’s posting on social, he cares

  • @marlat1754
    @marlat1754 4 месяца назад

    I can’t get what the person being interviewed has to say because he gets interrupted all the time.

  • @TonyCook7
    @TonyCook7 3 месяца назад

    These guys are stoned

  • @JensN113
    @JensN113 4 месяца назад +1

    These interviews are way too long...

    • @LothlorBass
      @LothlorBass 4 месяца назад

      Then don’t watch them?

    • @JensN113
      @JensN113 4 месяца назад +1

      I don't@@LothlorBass

    • @gameonme4382
      @gameonme4382 4 месяца назад

      that means you will get a lot from it

  • @LiINammmm
    @LiINammmm 4 месяца назад +1

    How bout guest your audience actually knows

    • @uxjared
      @uxjared 4 месяца назад +17

      How bout go outside your comfort.

    • @valoriebroderick
      @valoriebroderick 4 месяца назад +9

      I would think his audience would like being exposed to new ideas from a variety of interesting/thoughtful people. 🤪

    • @progtom7585
      @progtom7585 4 месяца назад +5

      Nobody is forcing you to watch!

    • @formisfunction1861
      @formisfunction1861 4 месяца назад +2

      Coaches, athletes and other people in sports have known and followed Gervais for many years. Ryan's books are in every pro sport locker room, as mentioned by the guest.

    • @johnrodriguez2438
      @johnrodriguez2438 4 месяца назад +6

      He's a World Leading Performance Psychologist. We don't need to know him to find out what information he has that we can apply in our own lives.