i have amazingly creative friends. when i was kicking around my idea for the “used to be” video, i floated it by jade and elan and molly… and they ran with it and knocked that shit OUT OF THE PARK!!! i dare you to try and watch this video and not laugh at least 3x and then cry… seriously. and huge love to hayley mcfarland for stepping in, stepping up and absolutely OWNING this thing… hayley, you are a queen!
I thought that looked like Molly Quinn at 3:09. I didn't notice at first... At first I was just staring at the hair. *_+_*, I didn't realize it was her with the red lipstick at the last scene either. My memory is bad. -I guess-
Obsessed with this song. I used to be a huge fan and got a little lost and stopped listening to your music. I'm so glad life brought me back. Your newer stuff is just as good as the old. Keep it up.
My top album/song of 2018 on Spotify. My oldest son was in Kindergarten when this album came out and he would want me to put this on the drive to school and we'd sing along!
Awesome song... I love it. Me and my colleagues work for the English department at our university. I have a PhD in English studies and history of English literature... So I actually do have a PhD in the way it use to be... We joke about that each time this song plays on the radio... It has become the unofficial song of our department... Well done, sir, well done.
I’ve listened to this song at least a thousand times, but it just dawned on me that this may be about having a mother with dementia. Maybe I’m completely misinterpreting, but all Matt’s music is incredibly soul touching and beautiful!
I really loved that you told the story through instastories. I was hoping this would take a turn and not be completely predictable. You did not disappoint.
I remember when we were young and we were free, and have phD in the way it used to be. I saw you perform in 2k, don't ever stop please. My sons are 32 and 33 yo now. Then I saw you perform in Park CIty. in 2k or so, pivotal moment in my life And "ancient" history has a way of coming back to bite you
Got tears rolling down my face because this is what's been happening since a month and a half into this COVID bullshit with a girl who is both a friend and the girl I love... she's been stamping out all the feelings as best she can. :'(
Ahhhhh! First time I watched and read the comments I'm like: pfft these cry babies Second time watching it: I guess it's a little sad.. Third time watching it: * tears up * OK WHO HAS ONIONS UP IN HERE
Still got the same old number Still drive the car you hate Still fighting with my father Still staying out too late Still leave the backdoor open Still let the dog escape Maybe I'm deep down hoping You'll come back to yell at me Like you used to do You were right I'm just a stubborn fool who's living in the past When we were young and we were free And all your friends were friends with me Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be And when you're at your movie or autobiography That carries the sweetest details Feel free to call on me Write how I made you shiver The ground underneath us shook and Devil is in the details He and I get on real good Like we used to do And you were right I'm just a stubborn fool who's living in the past When we were young and we were free And all your friends were friends with me Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve And if you're having trouble baby, holding on the memories I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be Woaaaah, woaah Woaaaah, woaah You know it's ancient history And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be When we were young and we were free And all your friends were friends with me Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be 'Cause we were young and we were free And all your friends were friends with me Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
I got a king sized bed & a PHD in the way it used to be... 💔 I miss you now, four years later. Sometimes I get stoned & get in my feeling & think of you. I miss you, baby & if you ever need me, you know where to find me. ❤
Go check out 5 Unusual Questions with Jared, the guy who runs the channel is interviewing Matt Nathanson next week before the concert. Video should come out sometime after that.
-I typed nonsense before, now it's edited- . That twist was great. Also, everyone keeps saying *FOB* , _but_ I kept thinking of the show *Fresh Off the Boat* . Yes, I now know they meant *Fall Out Boy* .
i have amazingly creative friends. when i was kicking around my idea for the “used to be” video, i floated it by jade and elan and molly… and they ran with it and knocked that shit OUT OF THE PARK!!!
i dare you to try and watch this video and not laugh at least 3x and then cry… seriously.
and huge love to hayley mcfarland for stepping in, stepping up and absolutely OWNING this thing… hayley, you are a queen!
She's not even my ex and I miss her, man.
Nah
Absolutely love this concept! Super relevant and so creative! Very well done! ✨👍
I thought that looked like Molly Quinn at 3:09. I didn't notice at first... At first I was just staring at the hair. *_+_*, I didn't realize it was her with the red lipstick at the last scene either. My memory is bad. -I guess-
Are they bestfriends?
God this song is so amazing. I'm in tears. Thank you so much for this. It's like the story of my life put in a song.
Obsessed with this song.
I used to be a huge fan and got a little lost and stopped listening to your music.
I'm so glad life brought me back. Your newer stuff is just as good as the old. Keep it up.
The video clip feels so genuine. I'm crying 😭
Excellent song created by a soul, not a corporation👍
Cheers
This song is probably relatable to 99.9% of the human beings on planet earth. Pure magic.
Fallen World a year later and still agree
no. go listen to everything in its right place.
I don’t know why, but this song is just so dang good. Such a vibe tbh
He's always had an awesome vibe
There are many ways for a heart to break...this is beautiful!
Catchy in a good way. (But I think Little Victories will ALWAYS be my absolute favorite ...)
Thank you for your music, Matt. 💗
My top album/song of 2018 on Spotify. My oldest son was in Kindergarten when this album came out and he would want me to put this on the drive to school and we'd sing along!
Awesome song... I love it. Me and my colleagues work for the English department at our university. I have a PhD in English studies and history of English literature... So I actually do have a PhD in the way it use to be... We joke about that each time this song plays on the radio... It has become the unofficial song of our department... Well done, sir, well done.
But do you have a king sized bed?😂
why did you comment this
Memories erased. But life goes on.
Heard this song for the 1st time this morning, I am in love with it...playing it whole day!!!
mental illness
I’ve listened to this song at least a thousand times, but it just dawned on me that this may be about having a mother with dementia. Maybe I’m completely misinterpreting, but all Matt’s music is incredibly soul touching and beautiful!
🤣🤣
I love all the beautiful shots and landscapes
Saw Matt last night in Newport Ky didn't really know him but I'm a fan now awesome concert all around
Music chameleon. Wow. Hope this guy gets another top 40 hit! Real musicians just let the music speak.
Love the song reminds of my son . its going to be a favorite of mine for sure . thank you Matt.
I'm CRYING. OOOOOF.
That last scene was heartbreaking!
But so relatable...
No it wasn't
Amazing song ....😍😍
I really loved that you told the story through instastories. I was hoping this would take a turn and not be completely predictable. You did not disappoint.
Only 7.9K likes? This song is so underrated! Loved the music and the video of course. But more than that I feel like this is exactly my story.
Finally! Love it!
Love this song ❤❤
OH MY GOODNESS MATT THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR REPRESENTATION AND THIS BEAUTIFUL VIDEO AND YOUR INCREDIBLE MUSIC 😭🙏💕
this is an amazing song 😭❤
I remember when we were young and we were free, and have phD in the way it used to be. I saw you perform in 2k, don't ever stop please. My sons are 32 and 33 yo now. Then I saw you perform in Park CIty. in 2k or so, pivotal moment in my life And "ancient" history has a way of coming back to bite you
I stumbled upon this incredible song. It is lovely. Thanks Matt
Got tears rolling down my face because this is what's been happening since a month and a half into this COVID bullshit with a girl who is both a friend and the girl I love... she's been stamping out all the feelings as best she can. :'(
THANK YOU FALL OUT BOY! this is an amaaaazing song!
ps: okay, this IS amazing and now I’m almost crying...thnxs
Fall out boy?
I did not come here for these kinds of feels!
Wow... nostalgic and beautiful. Nice song, Matt!
I'm just a stubborn fool who's living in the past...Yeah You were Damn right...
The tune is worthy listening...20:59
Awesome as always Matt.
Love ur music. Been listing to u since when i was a kid
im crying this is so good
Everytime I hear this song I fall in love with it more and more 😍😍
Oh, Matt, you have done it again! Love the song, love the video, love YOU! miss yo' face😻😻😻
omg😭😭the mv and the song
Damn i love this song already!!!
Obsessed!!! 😍😍
Amazing!!!!! ♥
Used to love this song but I couldn’t remember the name for the life of me. Just found it again and couldn’t be happier!
Love this song!
Still sounding great, Matt! Love this!
Matt this song... Just wow
I love it!!
Love this song
Man I love this song
"Hey, I know you broke up with me, and it's been a long while, but I haven't changed or grown as a person. Wanna try again?"
THANK YOU. This song bugs me for the same reason.
Love this song!!!!!
This is really an adorable and creative video !!!
Just went through a breakup and that last few moments, hits hard. I still think about him
Ahhhhh! First time I watched and read the comments I'm like: pfft these cry babies
Second time watching it: I guess it's a little sad..
Third time watching it: * tears up * OK WHO HAS ONIONS UP IN HERE
I love this song now!
Gonna promote as much as possible
This is fucking ART. Amazing.
Beautiful song and video. Greetings from Poland
My new fav song 🥰
Underrated song
This is a good song to sing to and listening to this really makes me smile
Awesome 😢
LOVED THE REPRESENTATION and it’s a great song too ❤️
What an ending. I was not expecting it. Lovely song and video.
I JUST HEARD THIS ON THE RADIO YESTERDAY
Oh no my feels
Still got the same old number
Still drive the car you hate
Still fighting with my father
Still staying out too late
Still leave the backdoor open
Still let the dog escape
Maybe I'm deep down hoping
You'll come back to yell at me
Like you used to do
You were right
I'm just a stubborn fool
who's living in the past
When we were young and we were free
And all your friends were friends with me
Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve
And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
And when you're at your movie or autobiography
That carries the sweetest details
Feel free to call on me
Write how I made you shiver
The ground underneath us shook and
Devil is in the details
He and I get on real good
Like we used to do
And you were right
I'm just a stubborn fool
who's living in the past
When we were young and we were free
And all your friends were friends with me
Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve
And if you're having trouble baby, holding on the memories
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
Woaaaah, woaah
Woaaaah, woaah
You know it's ancient history
And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
When we were young and we were free
And all your friends were friends with me
Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve
And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
'Cause we were young and we were free
And all your friends were friends with me
Swimming in our clothes when the beach was closed, midnight on New Year's Eve
And if you're having trouble baby, holding on to memories
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
I've got a king sized bed and a PHD in the way it used to be
10/10 this track is on fire🔥
A very good song
Did anyone notice how the screaming note at the beginning of the song is basically the same note as Slow Hands by Niall Horan?
I got a king sized bed & a PHD in the way it used to be... 💔 I miss you now, four years later. Sometimes I get stoned & get in my feeling & think of you. I miss you, baby & if you ever need me, you know where to find me. ❤
LOVE IT!
Super music et hayley mcfarland me rend heureuse elle dégage quelques chose de fort 😍❤️je vais pleurer 😢
Ive got a pillow to go lol kick ass tune
I heard this one week ago and now it's my fav song
Does anyone have to hear this song at work everyday?
yes, at cvs. 😭😭💀⚰️ but live it, 💖💕🩷💞💝🫶🥰😊😍☺️
underrated song of 2018 love from india Matt 😍
Go check out 5 Unusual Questions with Jared, the guy who runs the channel is interviewing Matt Nathanson next week before the concert. Video should come out sometime after that.
Love it
I love hearing this on 96.5 Houston
THIS, IS, SO FUCKING GREAT JESUS CHRIST
I love this song the way used be
34737th sub.
You deserve a million more subscribers :)
-I typed nonsense before, now it's edited- . That twist was great.
Also, everyone keeps saying *FOB* , _but_ I kept thinking of the show *Fresh Off the Boat* . Yes, I now know they meant *Fall Out Boy* .
Okay, previous comment was a lie...it was s7vnth
Damn this song is good.
Maybe it’s still me? Just maybe… Nashville!
This really picked up on views huh, I remember finding this around 2018 with about 50-100k views. Man has it been long.
Molly C Quinn from "Castle" and "We're the Millers" is the girl at the very end
♡♡♡
Ohhhhh my god THAT WAS AMAZING
Weirdly enough, I thought it was gonna be a lesbian couple, cuz the guy was never shown 😂😂
There doesn’t seem to be a second girl to be. They seem to be the same.
Noa M it was a lesbian couple though..
Sean Hartnett watch the parts where he doesn't sing; beginning; end.
I missed something clearly. Can someone please explain what Fall out boy has to do with this?
Thats what I'm asking
Butch Walker produced this album and is also FOB's producer. Likely Matt Nathanson is a Crush Management artist.
@@erlineandrews Ooh, Thanks man
Same here
💖💖💖
Thank you Don Henley!
Thanks pete
My job plays this constantly, never wanted to off myself more
What a beautiful woman. I hope you are just having fun and did not lose her . Only suggestion throw some heels on in a few of those poses , OMG !
Nice song
What app is used for the graphics? So awesome
I gotta king sized bed and a pHd in the way it used to be!