DEALING WITH DEPRESSION | ADOBO MOTO S1 E9

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024

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  • @adobomoto
    @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +13

    sup brudes! Pre-orders 👉🏾 www.adobomoto.com/shop

    • @Ryan-mv5wi
      @Ryan-mv5wi 7 месяцев назад

      mr adobo you dont ship to new zeland so sad :(

    • @willum2453
      @willum2453 7 месяцев назад

      waiting on my work bonus and im getting two

    • @southwizzy
      @southwizzy 7 месяцев назад

      Why brude?

  • @racex3721
    @racex3721 7 месяцев назад +80

    Man Washington state is not the place to live with anxiety and depression you need sunshine adobro.

    • @dante8s
      @dante8s 7 месяцев назад +5

      But when it’s warm and sunny here in the PNW you can’t beat it imo. Makes it worth it to me

    • @redporschekilla
      @redporschekilla 7 месяцев назад +2

      Lived for 20 years about 20 miles NW of Adobo…. I love WA, best country to live in, especially as a Biker.. miss my FJR1300, BUT, from Oct to Mar it’s doom, gloom and gray. I grew you m8, hence wifey and I did a 3500 mile run to the Orlando area and landet for good. Nothing beats the sunshine! Nothing!

    • @IamBluebull
      @IamBluebull 7 месяцев назад

      Try living in Sweden🥲

    • @racex3721
      @racex3721 7 месяцев назад

      @@IamBluebull Sweden looks nice. But I've tried Swedish meatballs and they were depressing. So I hear what you are saying.

    • @IamBluebull
      @IamBluebull 7 месяцев назад

      @@racex3721 looks nice asf, in many ways is nice asf buut damn its dark. No sun for like 6 months. Some sun for 3 more months and all sun for the last 3 ones aka the summer

  • @ruszkaigergo4197
    @ruszkaigergo4197 7 месяцев назад +57

    Hi Adobo, the video went kind of deep but it was great to experience another side of your mum, she's always this happy and joke loving person on your videos, but this side of her is also beautiful, you have a wonderful mum and she knows that you and your siblings love her. Your mum reminded me of my mum for a moment there.. when they are away working their butts off, its not because they want to be away from you, its cause they want to give you the best life they can possibly provide. Big love to you and your family! Love your gixxer rider mum's jokes, laughs and the food always looks amazing! Stay strong Adobo mum! We love you just like we love your son! ♥️✨

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +18

      She reads these. I appreciate it!

  • @dante8s
    @dante8s 7 месяцев назад +15

    It feels so good being able to make all of our parents hard work seem worth it in the end. Paying it back towards them is the cherry on top. Good for you guys

  • @Rufasa88
    @Rufasa88 7 месяцев назад +22

    You have such a nice relationship with your mom bro! I love pork adobo it’s my favorite

  • @sedricgeorge5163
    @sedricgeorge5163 7 месяцев назад +3

    Bro I don’t have neither of my parents anymore and seeing you have this bond with your mom bro fills my with joy. Almost rested up. But glad you still have her it’s a beautiful thing brotha. Much love to you and your family brotha

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Appreciate the Love Brude.

  • @wavecatcher2360
    @wavecatcher2360 7 месяцев назад +3

    Wow man, listening to your mom talk about her depression hit me hard. You’re mom has a beautiful outlook on life and a beautiful outlook on herself, we love you mama🙌❤️

  • @big_mon1
    @big_mon1 7 месяцев назад +5

    My Adobo Brotha from anotha Motha. I absolutely love this video. It truly hits home. I felt every word that Mum said. I too suffer from depression and it's heavy. I have to continuously move so i don't give myself time for it to lay on me like a wet blanket. That's why im always on the go. I even posted a video about it on my channel. Being alone and life changes are huge triggers for me. Being here in Guam alone is a struggle because I'm out of me element. Sometimes I fight to find the strength to just get out of bed, let alone leave my apartment to make content. So Mum, if you see this comment, i want you to know that i feel you and you're not alone. You are in my prayers 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾. Adobo, the next time that i come visit, you have to prepare some chicken Adobo ✌🏾

    • @GramgramLaxMamaAdobo
      @GramgramLaxMamaAdobo 7 месяцев назад +1

      U Always Got Mom Right Here 🥰 Sending Blessings & Love To My Gixxer Emperor Son 😇♥️

    • @big_mon1
      @big_mon1 7 месяцев назад

      @@GramgramLaxMamaAdobo thank you Mum. You are definitely loved and appreciated. I look forward to meeting you the next time I come out to visit.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      We appreciate it Brude. Thank you for sharing your story as well.

  • @donotreply703
    @donotreply703 7 месяцев назад +6

    02:00 "I've had this Strap-on for months"
    Hey no judgement fam 😅

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      💀

    • @Locopueblo
      @Locopueblo 14 дней назад

      Hey I’ve had mine for four years. It’s all good. If it works, it works.

  • @R6Reloaded
    @R6Reloaded 7 месяцев назад +8

    Best blend of motorcycle/relatable lifestyle content.

  • @Imkrema
    @Imkrema 7 месяцев назад +5

    Man this video hits different man.
    I’m going thru depression now and always have , but this depression is different because I have kids , I feel like throwing up everyday not being able to see my baby girl and yes I know I will get to see her one day but it’s tuff your videos takes the thoughts away I really appreciate you for what you do and your transparency.
    I saw that you posted two days ago and I said man how did I miss the video drop I like being one of the first ones to watch like and comment and felt bad I wasn’t this time but it’s cool we here and we locked in brotha 💜
    When your mom said she missed her daughter I shed a tear because I miss mine 💜thanks for posted brotha I will be off RUclips for a while but don’t ever forget I will always support you when I do get back on I will watch and like and comment to every video you posted when I was gone 💜
    ONG 🧢 no 🙏🏼💜

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +2

      Info@adobomoto.com is my main email these days. Shoot me an email if you ever need to vent my dude. I hope these videos help you in whatever way.

  • @jnooks
    @jnooks 7 месяцев назад +12

    You and your moms story hits close to me become I grew up the same way and use to have the same issues. Proud of you both for your growth 💯

  • @1683clifton
    @1683clifton 7 месяцев назад +7

    Bless you for the way you take care of your family. Bless your mom for her health and she's cool af.
    And as always
    I was entertained

  • @butternuts842
    @butternuts842 7 месяцев назад +4

    Man, you really have become my favorite youtuber so fast. You are so geniune, the editing is so good and entertaining. Literally, the only person I have my notification on

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Wow Brude! We appreciate the love and support.

  • @ibrahimsky
    @ibrahimsky 7 месяцев назад +2

    Dude! Your channel is the most wholesome bro channel on the entire net!
    One Love to you and your family
    ✌️🥳✨

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      I appreciate that

  • @ejaywater
    @ejaywater 5 месяцев назад

    man i love your videos whenever adobo mom is there....i just lost my mom last year and everytime i watch your videos with adobo mom just makes me miss my mom more and more.... btw i really love your videos and have been watching your videos for aome time now and it never gets boring ....keep it up man im most definitely a big fan of yours and i still dream of one day owning my own sport bike

  • @brokkoli4370
    @brokkoli4370 7 месяцев назад +3

    Adobo is hands down one of the most humble ytbers ive ever seen, keep up the great work bro

    • @GramgramLaxMamaAdobo
      @GramgramLaxMamaAdobo 7 месяцев назад

      🫡🫶🏻

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much Brude! I appreciate all the love and support.

  • @noburuhasake
    @noburuhasake 7 месяцев назад +4

    Concerning the Ducati I agree that there must be an misalignment somewhere. When I did my license I also had a hard time finding neutral sometimes and my instructor would tell me to roll infront or back a little and that helped getting into neutral... so yeah as u said the shift mechanism needs a readjustment.

  • @MidlandflyerB90
    @MidlandflyerB90 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hello Adobo, have to say I felt humbled listen to your Mum's concerns which she and you opened up to us the viewers and friend. Always enjoy seeing your mum enthusiasm for the family , never appreciate her loneliness with such an engaged family that you all are. You both did well getting this video out , must of been difficult? Keep bring the content out on motorbiking , I enjoy the content and a bit about family. Cheers & hug for your mum 🤗

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      we appreciate the love and support Brude!

  • @KeViNMCMXXCIX
    @KeViNMCMXXCIX 7 месяцев назад +1

    The story was so touching. Your parents work hard for you and your siblings to give you all a good life, and it comes full circle when you're grown up and being able to care or just be there for your parents in whatever way possible. I lost my mom years ago, so with my mom I can't anymore but still care for her obviously.
    I miss her every day still. But she's never out of my mind or heart.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      RIP to your mom Brude. I can't imagine losing my mom. Makes me cherish every moment. We appreciate all the love and support.

    • @KeViNMCMXXCIX
      @KeViNMCMXXCIX 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks Brude, appreciate it! Always cherish the moments and no problem for the love and support. ✌🏼

  • @HEX_RR
    @HEX_RR 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am sorry your mom is going through that bro much love and support to both of yall,yall are amazing keep doing what yall are doing yall are doing amazing and will go far❤❤

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      We both appreciate all the love Brude!

    • @HEX_RR
      @HEX_RR 7 месяцев назад

      @@adobomoto always bro your an inspiration I hope to be like you one day at 19 I got my first bike I just started making videos I want to help my family out maybe I can make it,your an inspiration to many please never stop doing what your doing❤️

  • @Fee.1
    @Fee.1 7 месяцев назад +3

    I miss my mom so much. 70 was too soon. I died when she did. Been a couple years but I’m still reeling.

  • @yamnarisma8579
    @yamnarisma8579 7 месяцев назад +1

    High respect to a man who loves and cares for his mom

  • @MisterSal9895
    @MisterSal9895 7 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoy listening to stories and I always have to stay active or watch something otherwise depression starts to kick in for me.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Depression suck Brude. Keep fighting life is precious

  • @ricebowl3
    @ricebowl3 7 месяцев назад +1

    Shout out to all the PI Moms they always work hard and cook awesome

  • @julian23561
    @julian23561 7 месяцев назад +1

    She's a Filipina mother alright.
    Thanks for this Adobo family.

  • @raiurimx
    @raiurimx 7 месяцев назад +1

    My family having moved to Australia from the Philippines when I was 3, my brother and I grew up with both of our parents hardly being there (leaving us alone during school holidays) because they had to work so hard to either make it or break it here with no support. I grew up resenting that - but in my later teens realised what all that sacrifice meant.
    Now I have my own family - and now both my parents are in a position where they can spend time with their grandson (I never grew up knowing my Lola & Lolo's) and "make up" their lost time from my brother and I with him. They sacrificed their peak adult years so I didn't have to struggle through mine and so I could be there for my son.
    Watching this side of your mum reminds me a lot of my Nanay, from the outside she's super energetic, bubly joyful but there's a sadness that runs deep from having to sacrifice so much. I wish her well with any demons she's fighting mate. Much love all the way from the land down under 🤙

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing your story. We appreciate the love❤️

  • @K87-Gsxr
    @K87-Gsxr 7 месяцев назад +2

    Love your videos from the 🇬🇧..

  • @KivancErgozen
    @KivancErgozen 7 месяцев назад +5

    I was literally just thinking I wish Abodo uploads I'm so fucking bored and u uploaded LOL

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +2

      Earlier than a filipino family at the airport

    • @KivancErgozen
      @KivancErgozen 7 месяцев назад

      @@adobomoto haha! u know it man!

  • @coreymiller2276
    @coreymiller2276 7 месяцев назад +1

    I got one of your key tags because the message you are spreading with them resonated with me. Keep up the good work and keep teaching people how to turn wrenches!

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for the support Brude. RYODR is for you guys .

  • @christianburger25
    @christianburger25 7 месяцев назад +1

    Your Mom is hilarious. I love her!

  • @jaluna06
    @jaluna06 7 месяцев назад +1

    So much realism in your vids. I love it. Every time I watch one it hits the soul. Keep it up man. I’ll be there to keep watching and supporting you all.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Appreciate all the support Brude!

  • @ZinoAmare
    @ZinoAmare 7 месяцев назад +7

    "Everyone gets loempia!" xD lmao tears in my eyes

  • @rogersawyers4329
    @rogersawyers4329 7 месяцев назад

    Your mom with the hufflepuff sweater A++ hope all is well with y’all love the channel and congratulations to your mom on her TikTok milestone

  • @jordanmayorga5498
    @jordanmayorga5498 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hey bro check your chain tension. If the chain is too tight it can cause this issue. When you sit on the bike and compress the rear end the chain will tighten up.

  • @Arabian_Rider81
    @Arabian_Rider81 7 месяцев назад +3

    I love this content ur doing in this video I lived the same way when I was a kid if it wasn’t for my grandma getting us school clothes idk what my mom would of done and when we got toys when we could we cherish it like it was gold and now I’m the only one working and my fiancé is a stay at home mom we have 6 kids and we live from paycheck to paycheck we’re teaching our kids to be thankful for what u get and cherish the things u get I wish I could get my family more in life sometimes I feel like a failure sometimes but I look at the brighter picture and I know my family is thankful for what I do for them and the things they get so I know everything what ur talking about bro thank u for doing this content ur amazing person keep up the wonderful work ur doing I love everything u do

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      You are only a failure if you give up. Keep fighting and pushing. Thank you for the support and love people like you are the reason I do what I do.

    • @GramgramLaxMamaAdobo
      @GramgramLaxMamaAdobo 7 месяцев назад

      Stay Focus Things Will Always Get Better 😇 Struggle is Real But We Will Reap All The Blessings Somehow Someday in Gods Time 🥰 We’re Here For U Brude ♥️♥️♥️

  • @SuperMokong
    @SuperMokong 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'd do the same content with my mom.. Nice to see you bond with tita everytime..

  • @logcru
    @logcru 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hey man I was born in Washington, I think financial and mentally deficiency is a birthright

  • @Arabian_Rider81
    @Arabian_Rider81 7 месяцев назад +2

    U have amazing family and ur amazing father u keep me glued to u content every time there is never a dull moment in ur content at all I love how u show ur daily life what u do no other creator does what u do that’s what make u so different then the others creators out there I love everything u do on ur channel ur amazing creator keep u the amazing work ur doing

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for all the love and support Brude.

  • @Paoloskyxrd
    @Paoloskyxrd 7 месяцев назад +1

    Best episode so far Paul. That’s real life right there. Thanks for opening up, grew up the same way. Parents always gone and working. Anyways Manang can cooked some mean dinuguan😍

  • @MrGSXSIR
    @MrGSXSIR 7 месяцев назад +3

    I love the relationship you have with your mom
    I wish I had that with my mother
    Also, I am going to start recording videos of my self riding for my kids.
    Just in case ❤

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks Brude! Your Kids will appreciate it one day.

    • @MrGSXSIR
      @MrGSXSIR 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@adobomoto I think they will too!
      Thank you ❤️

  • @xeosleepy
    @xeosleepy 7 месяцев назад +1

    15:50 part got me😂❤

  • @Wakunafgc
    @Wakunafgc 7 месяцев назад +2

    Bro saying You grew up poor and it makes u not want kids, that's so true. I'm so afraid to have kids cus I get so worried I won't be able to maintain it and nothing is wrong with my life now. It's just so scary to know poverty can effect everything so much

  • @clutchcrazythecaferacer2629
    @clutchcrazythecaferacer2629 7 месяцев назад +3

    Ok I have been watching you for years and you are 1 of the og's motovloggers for me but funny lately ive been tooning in because Im a chef and your moms cooking skills are interesting and from the looks a1 flavor profile

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      She’s terrible with the knife 💀 but I just let her cook!

  • @willamtbarts931
    @willamtbarts931 7 месяцев назад +1

    dang pare tagalog pala to si Adobo HAHAHAHAH been enjoying your videos man! isa kang Alamat!

  • @Arabian_Rider81
    @Arabian_Rider81 7 месяцев назад +2

    I know everything about depression it runs so bad in my side of the family I grew up with my mom having depression so bad and watching what she was going through and all the time she went in to the hospital for it and then me and my brother have it I used to take medication for it but I didn’t like how the meds made me feel so I ended up learning how to cope with it and learn what triggers it and what doesn’t but my brother had to take medication for it he has it really bad so hearing ur mom talking about having it I kinda know what she’s going through and the best thing is talking about it with people and keeping ur self busy but it’s a hard disease to go through ur mom is good people and she is well loved

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your struggles. Keep fighting Brude. Depression suck.

  • @AMACHiiBiong
    @AMACHiiBiong 7 месяцев назад +1

    7:06 legit chicken Adobo at first glance. Just like how Lola makes it

  • @jeffk3929
    @jeffk3929 7 месяцев назад +1

    Always love your videos...fun to watch and great tech tips. Appreciate you 👍

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 7 месяцев назад +2

    Costco, I can tell by the background of the store! That Fili[ino food be making me hungry

  • @immahi_ph
    @immahi_ph 7 месяцев назад +4

    I enjoy your video ❤

  • @jeremiahjanson9881
    @jeremiahjanson9881 7 месяцев назад

    Your family makes you rich in love family is everything

  • @rishibhargav5161
    @rishibhargav5161 7 месяцев назад +1

    i love your moms energy

  • @time2maked0hnutz54
    @time2maked0hnutz54 7 месяцев назад

    DAMN, TELL iT BRADA?!?
    Same For ReaL, I immigrated here from the P.I.'s @ 10yrs Old & Everything I have I've worked hard for Impulse Purchases to EFFEN Bill$ I Payed for it through Hard Effen WORK!
    ......but with all that being said toys & tools are a must have for me to distract/give me lil happiness of the BS in Life.
    Handling Business/Life gets Mundane & Boring, You Need Toy$ & Hobbies to ease that Boredom...(TED TALK of the Day for me)
    I Love you're around teaching Everyone Wa$$up, Thank You Palagi!!!💯💎👊🏽🙏🏽🤙🏽

  • @natgobrrOW
    @natgobrrOW 7 месяцев назад +3

    man i love your content

  • @aminyashed6802
    @aminyashed6802 7 месяцев назад

    Love you adobo, you’re my inspiration

  • @aldrichnavarro
    @aldrichnavarro 7 месяцев назад

    Came here for the motorcycle content stayed for the wholesomeness

  • @markallenarcano9439
    @markallenarcano9439 7 месяцев назад +3

    Present Bro from the Philippines 🙋 I always love your video, Mabuhay!

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Salamat pre!!

  • @0117NUMBER1
    @0117NUMBER1 7 месяцев назад +4

    Watching all the from the UK 🇬🇧 again

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      I gotta come check out this UK place, heard the people are fun

    • @FutureKLX300SMowner
      @FutureKLX300SMowner 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@adobomotoheard the foods terrible though😂

    • @0117NUMBER1
      @0117NUMBER1 7 месяцев назад

      @@adobomoto your welcome anytime
      Hit me up im down to ride.
      Stay safe my guy

    • @BobbyOnADuke
      @BobbyOnADuke 7 месяцев назад

      @@adobomotoif you ever do you should go to the bike shed (cafe where you ride in literally) and also matlock baths in derby is a great place for bikers🤙🏻

  • @Mr.NefariousNinja
    @Mr.NefariousNinja 7 месяцев назад +1

    My zx10 would have trouble finding N as well but the only time it worked was when I was rolling back and forth to find it

  • @DesmoMarcel
    @DesmoMarcel 7 месяцев назад +3

    Are your clutch plates installed correctly? I know the oem pressure plate has to be put on in a certain position (it has a mark on the plate, and I believe there is a mark on one of the spring tubes) in order for it to grab correctly.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      Honestly I don’t think it is. I’ve tried multiple different orientations. Nobody online has a definitive answer

  • @buckgraham9195
    @buckgraham9195 7 месяцев назад +1

    Feeling the depression hard right now with all the snow in pullman! Wish i could afford to bring my fam back to the westside but instead im ganna start trying your moms recipes! love you guys! Please keep the food coming!❤

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      The food is here to stay 💀

  • @ItsSamarth
    @ItsSamarth 7 месяцев назад +3

    Would love to see you work more on the ducati

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      More to come.

  • @BSwayze
    @BSwayze 7 месяцев назад +2

    🥲Great videos as usual 👍

  • @Daniel-dj7fh
    @Daniel-dj7fh 7 месяцев назад +2

    The only reason I know of Chicken Adobo is from Bebot by Black Eyed Peas.
    Listened to the banger the other day, as good as it was 10 years ago.

    • @Daniel-dj7fh
      @Daniel-dj7fh 7 месяцев назад

      Omg we have the same exact rice cooker but the cover joint is fucked

  • @samuelswihart4285
    @samuelswihart4285 7 месяцев назад

    Your mom is such a delight dude!

  • @BoValentine
    @BoValentine 7 месяцев назад +1

    Mama Adobo is the cutest, sweetest, little lady in the world!!!!! We Love Her!!!!! Sorry but this is her channel now 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      💀 Im ok with that.

  • @PelleyJ
    @PelleyJ 7 месяцев назад +2

    15:18 think that's just an Asian standard, no rice = crisis, happens all the time in my household 😂😂 love from Japan!

  • @bayara3695
    @bayara3695 7 месяцев назад +1

    Felicidades adobo moto por el grandioso contenido y la humildad mostrada, le envío un enorme abrazo a tu mamá y espero siga alegre pues es una fabulosa coprotagonista 🎉🎉🎉

  • @josephgonzalez7887
    @josephgonzalez7887 7 месяцев назад +1

    Try the gear position sensor (GPS) on the Ducati

  • @GZDZN
    @GZDZN 7 месяцев назад +2

    Try and give some gass while trying to put it in neutral just a little rev. Its a hell to find the neutral on a 2 cilinder bike's sometimes. It helps me.

    • @Daniel-dj7fh
      @Daniel-dj7fh 7 месяцев назад +1

      I don't have that issue on my cb500f, pops in easy.
      But on my old 125 it helped to pop the clutch abit, then it'll semi fully jump in the gear it was and then the click to neutral is easy to get.

  • @nekotiq
    @nekotiq 7 месяцев назад

    Bagaoong is actually sauteed shrimp paste. The dinuguan is cooked differently depending on the location of the Filipino, where they grew up from. Your mom adds way more ingredients. My family cooks less ingredients but still adds the minimal basics of meat, vinegar, and pork blood.

  • @Alic_R1
    @Alic_R1 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yesss ducati work!!

  • @Rich_Newell_
    @Rich_Newell_ 7 месяцев назад +1

    "Why are you crying? Are you a Gixxer rider?" - LMFAO!

  • @justanotherbloke
    @justanotherbloke 7 месяцев назад

    Hey brother just wanna say love from Australia

  • @Fee.1
    @Fee.1 7 месяцев назад

    Learning to be alone by yourself with your own thoughts is very hard, especially when you deal with regrets, shame, traumas and fears etc. but you have to do it. It’s not easy, but it’s critical or you’re always running and feeling like a burden to ppl but not wanting to be alone so you don’t care and it just keeps snowballing until you eventually are forced to learn to be alone because you’re forced to be alone because you ruin some relationship etc.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      💯

    • @Fee.1
      @Fee.1 7 месяцев назад

      @@adobomoto one of the most interesting things about this is people often have to learn this multiple times in their life. Being alone was all I knew for my earlier years in life…once I hit like 14 & developed a social life & was constantly dating & partying & had friends or some chick w/me 24/7/365 & if I didn’t I was on the phone with one heading to her place or vice versa…around 22 years old or so when everyone started splitting apart & going their own way I would get off of work and instantly run over to my buddies house & smoke weed etc…but it was clear it was becoming a bit of an aggravation & I couldn’t accept that because I felt so anxious & depressed when I was alone…I was hiding from things I didn’t even know what I just knew they had the ability to mess me up if I was forced to spend time in my own head.
      Fast forward and I was forced to spend time in my own head & it was incapacitating…like alcoholics or drug users feel when they’re alone & not drinking or using…& it made it even worse that I couldn’t understand how I lost myself when I used to have no issue sitting and being with myself…I didn’t know what was wrong w/me & I felt even more shame on top of everything else that I had somehow become reliant on being around ppl & couldn’t face my self/time alone w/out breaking.
      In my mid 20’s I broke and felt all the things I had not alllowed myself to feel since I was around 14…it’s crazy how that works…if you don’t learn to process things as they happen they will build up and you will have to process them later and possibly all at once. THERE IS NO HIDING FROM YOURSELF.
      MY only advice would be to find a therapist & a loved one and start working on it if anyone reading this finds yourself in this situation. You have to go through it but that doesn’t mean you have to go through it alone, as confusing as that sounds.

  • @sundayskip
    @sundayskip 7 месяцев назад

    mah man yo ma'am is super hilarious! HAHAHAH... keep it up squid mom

  • @makujon
    @makujon 7 месяцев назад +2

    I always wait 12am to 2am PH time to check if you have a new upload, as always really love your videos lifestyle and bike DIY tips.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      Wow thank you so much for all the support.

  • @Ash.Mckzari
    @Ash.Mckzari 7 месяцев назад +2

    Will we ever see Adobomoto on track?! I can’t be the only one…

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      ruclips.net/video/wc3FZ4QEgpA/видео.htmlsi=JONPLgSckfuyCWJc have fun buddy. There are a couple more in there somewhere. Trackday content is boring af

  • @Fee.1
    @Fee.1 7 месяцев назад +1

    So my mom had Parkinson’s, she took care of me as a kid when I had chronic migraines so when she started getting sick I quit my job/career & life & sidelined the computer & network repair/service/install business I started at 16yo & became her full time caretaker for 10 years. By the end, just before Parkinson’s took her, it was literally a 24/7/365 job those last 4 years. She couldn’t be alone, it messed with her head and even though she couldn’t walk safely because it had taken all her strength, she would stand up and try to walk out of boredom & confusion and so she was falling and hurting herself/breaking things etc, and so started the downward spiral because once we had to stop her from walking she got even weaker even faster until she couldn’t even swallow right. She started choking on some food I was feeding her, I did the Heimlich and brought her to ER, this was the beginning of the end and I had no clue. A couple days later I had to bring her back because she still couldn’t eat…she was struggling to breathe due & they took her back to intubate her…i told her she’d be taken care of and I’d take her home.
    She had a stroke while they were intubating her. I should’ve reminded them she hadn’t been able to take her meds for days. I blame myself. I never got to see/speak to her again, she was in an unconscious state breathing on her own but not responding to stimulus.
    I was so overwhelmed…looking back I feel like I screwed up at so many turns. Should I have fought for them to keep her around and see if she recovered over time? I have no answers. I was in so much shock I let them tell me what to do basically. Huge regret.
    Losing your mom is hard, but understand she became my child as well as my mom in a weird way because I took care of her for a decade…so I feel like I lost my mom and a kid at the same time…AND I feel like it was my fault.
    For this & many other reasons, no matter how dedicated anyone is if you ever have a parent or loved one that needs daily care around the clock…get as much professional help as you can…I took complete control of evening I possibly could and as a result It messed with my head when I lost her way more than normal…no need to do that to yourself it’s already hard af.
    Hopefully this will be of some help to someone. BTW no need to tell me it wasn’t my fault…I disagree it’s as simple as that…i should've done many things better than i did and i just have to live with that.
    i know she'll forgive me…thats not the hard part…its that i told her it would all be okay and couldn't keep that promise and wasn't there to hold her hand as they put a tube down her throat (intubated her)
    and it literally scared her so much she had a stroke that resulted in her death. thats what ill never be able to forgive myself for. i shouldve seen that coming & at least demanded i accompany them so she wasn't alone.
    anyway sorry, im still dealing with it….slowly recovering

  • @gn0am831
    @gn0am831 7 месяцев назад +3

    i am way too early to this

  • @jvillain9946
    @jvillain9946 7 месяцев назад

    I was just pricing full coverage insurance for both an R6 and an R1. The 1000cc is absolutely way more expensive than the 600cc. They wanted $140-180/mth for the a 2020 R6 but wanted between $500-600/mth for the 2023 R1. Its mind blowing how much full coverage is for a liter bike. Including comprehensive and collison. I'm 33 and have nothing on my record except 1 minor speeding ticket from 2 years ago and live in an area with very few motorcycle crashes/deaths and even less stolen bikes. I have no idea how you're paying less. Considering when I priced the RS660 and the RSV4 a couple months ago it was similar.

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      Even my r1m was less than my r6 at the time, almost $100 less/mo. I only pay $90/mo on my ape

  • @NEVETSTEVEN510
    @NEVETSTEVEN510 7 месяцев назад

    My favorite dish! Porkblood soup aka chocolate meat.. yeah 😏

  • @NEVETSTEVEN510
    @NEVETSTEVEN510 7 месяцев назад

    Blessings bro 🙏 Blessings Family pirst

  • @jaceeguarin8626
    @jaceeguarin8626 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hey, Adobo! What do you think about Raider 150 FI in PH? It's made by Suzuki so you might have some thoughts about it. 😁👌

  • @ImTurbo
    @ImTurbo 3 месяца назад

    I LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @chopshopchopper
    @chopshopchopper 7 месяцев назад

    Aww your mom's so cute...❤

  • @racex3721
    @racex3721 7 месяцев назад +1

    Next video he has the gixxer taken a part and is grilling on the engine

  • @geetarthamahanta1665
    @geetarthamahanta1665 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hey adobo any thoughts on the new Daytona

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      I’ll give you all my thoughts this week

  • @WayneSmith-zx3tf
    @WayneSmith-zx3tf 5 месяцев назад

    Always stay humble bro.

  • @noviex_bs7312
    @noviex_bs7312 7 месяцев назад +2

    i had the same problem on my bike and it was due to my clutch cable being too loose and needed to be tightened, im a new rider so i dont know if its the same for bigger bikes just a suggestion

  • @kennethbacos4085
    @kennethbacos4085 7 месяцев назад

    Brude hoodies look sick!

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      Hell ya thanks Brude!

  • @willum2453
    @willum2453 7 месяцев назад

    life rich family wealth and humility

  • @zzx6r
    @zzx6r 7 месяцев назад

    come to dallas big adobo 🤝🤝

  • @MarlonCalfoforo
    @MarlonCalfoforo 3 месяца назад

    kabsat try looking at carnivore diet, it heals me on my anxiety

  • @VaIeon
    @VaIeon 7 месяцев назад

    Growing up poor = Master’s level budgeting class

  • @nayrex1062
    @nayrex1062 7 месяцев назад +4

    13:22 i love you adobo but that shit is nasty what the hell blood hell nah bro

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад

      💀 yeah - but it is actually really good

    • @nayrex1062
      @nayrex1062 7 месяцев назад

      @@adobomoto ♥️

  • @sidharthsoibm2081
    @sidharthsoibm2081 7 месяцев назад

    hey adobo. do a video on Royal Enfield

  • @XanderKage9999
    @XanderKage9999 7 месяцев назад +2

    GREAT EPISODE 👍🏽.
    ◆ LOVED THE LITTLE IN DEPTH TALK ABOUT SOME OF YOUR MOST FREQUENTLY USED BIKES 🏍 FOR BIKING 🏍 IN W.D.C. . MY FAVORITE I WOULD SAY IS THE COMPOUNDED DUCATI 🧐 ◆
    ◆ REALLY THANKFUL TO YOU AND YOUR MOM , FOR OPENING UP ABOUT YOUR STRUGGLES AND CONCERNS A LITTLE MORE .
    • IT IS TRUE THAT ANXIETY, DEPRESSION AND FEAR MAKE YOU NOT DO WHAT MAKES YOU ALIVE AND HAPPY AND FULL FILLED .
    ◆ BUT IT IS GOOD TO SEE YOU AND YOUR MOM WORKING THROUGH IT 🙏🏽🙌🏽🤟🏽👍🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🤟🏽👍🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🤟🏽👍🏽"PURE-GOOD:HEALTH&LONGEVITY" TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS, BRUV ADOBO 🙏🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🤟🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🤟🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🤟🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🤟🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽👍🏽🤟🏽◆
    ◆ YOUR CHANNEL IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE ONES , FOR A WHILE NOW , MAKES ME HOPEFUL OF MY OWN DREAMS AND THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS ◆
    ◆ KEEP LIVING HAPPILY BRUV 🤟🏽👍🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽◆
    🙏🏽 ◆🛐♾️🦸🏻‍♂️ANIME★MAN♂️♾️🛐◆ signing out 🙏🏽 .

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      We both appreciate the love and support ❤️

  • @vpweber
    @vpweber 7 месяцев назад +1

    Rich is how full your heart is. Your mom will be rich when she has peace with your sister. There is no taking it forgranted, your mother needs to clear that shit up.

  • @denrypauldalilam3188
    @denrypauldalilam3188 7 месяцев назад

    Every major problem has a major content opportunity. LOL

    • @adobomoto
      @adobomoto  7 месяцев назад +1

      Spreading awareness is a great way to move forward with problems in life.