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Hey, Pea, there is one thing I often wonder when I watch your videos. What is considered "the province" in The Philippines? Is it everywhere but the largest cities, or is it the truly rural areas? Maybe somewhere in between?
I'm so American lazy the one will have to be as beautiful as you for me to learn your language. I like Asian movies but I hate that they not in English😂. That's why I like smart women so that she can learn English I will learn her language once I Google what she said to me Translate (I have another boyfriend)😂😂😂. 05-16-23
That’s a sure fire way to end up single and screwed over here in the US. But rather than become worse, I looked for better and found the most amazing woman living in HK from the Philippines. We have plans to go back to Philippines until her fiancée visa goes through then I’ll give the US a shot at ruining her. :)
Pea, the golden nuggets you've shared with us over the past few months is nothing less than fantastic. The way you were graceful saying those love quotes (and your mannerisms) had me mesmerized. Any woman who hears those words will melt. You have been definitely hitting home runs the past few months. Classic Pea......
How refreshing to hear that traditional dating and relationships are still a thing . The courting dance and ritual are so much more exciting than a meet up in a bar if one wants a serious relationship. Great video young lady 👏🏼
I so agree. Beeing a real Gentleman always made me happy, because Women appreciate a respectful behaviour just like Men do. I think mutual Respect is the base you can build a Relationship on.
After seven years of marriage my wife and I have yet to ever go to a bar. We’ve been to karaoke though and a disco for dancing but not to a bar. We met at the food court at the local mall for the first time after courting online for several months first.
Everything you said is why I love the Philippines and it’s people. Before my wife passed away she made me promise to come to the Philippines to find a wife. Thank you Miss Pea for confirming what my late wife already knew. Cheers 😊
Yes it's worth it, I visited my province girl in February and it was amazing with her and the family. They are the most polite, caring and loving. Showing respect goes a long way there :)
My Filipina's mother friended me on Facebook. Guess that makes it officially official 🤣🤣 Maybe I got bonus points for sending her a happy mother's day message lol
lol "poop in the woods" all very true! nice video!! I had a friend do "harana" he brought a chainsaw to the family and cut up enough firewood for like 2 years, and yes they ended up getting married and yes he was well know in the whole area!
I'm going to marry a filipina from a province. She is wonderful and we share a lot of the same values. She is very down to earth. I love to wine and dine my partner and shower with gifts but she says she just wants my attention and love. I was very suprised. Our relationship has been peaceful and understanding. It's amazing
Meeting the family is an important milestone in building a relationship with a province girl. She will probably give you hints to help you, but as someone who has survived the interview process firsthand, don't forget the pasalubong! (gifts) My experience with speaking Tagalog to locals is that first they are shocked, and then they immediately assume/ask if I have a Filipina wife/gf already. Personally, I would avoid starting any conversation in Tagalog while meeting someone new, to avoid them drawing conclusions that might not be favorable. Let her teach you some Tagalog words and phrases, which seems just as romantic in my book.
Hi Pea. I smiled from ear to ear when you mentioned about meeting the parents is like an interrogation at a local police dept. I'm sure Kevin felt that way when she first met my mom.😂 Nice content as always. True facts about a provincial Filipina like me.😁
Filipino parents don’t mind a direct question asking honorably for their approval to date their daughter. I was pretty nervous and did it online before traveling there. We had already become serious online dating so I told them my intention is to marry her. They accepted me and asked that I take good care of their daughter which I promised I would.
I always noticed of the woman who came to Canada as nannies to work and earn their way into citizenship is that a lot of them did it to get away from the traditions of back home. The first Filipina I dated was hiding me and I thought it’s because she was doing something bad or she was ashamed to me. But it was really about her not wanting her family to interfere and be so critical and judgemental.
I think if you have an old fashioned approach then it will work quite well. Walk over to her and compliment her on her dress, her hair, her necklace etc. This opens up a conversation on something that isn't directly about her and starts a conversation. If she mentions a boyfriend or husband in the first minute of conversation she isn't interested😁
Love this Ate Pea! I'm from Batangas City, and even though it's a city (and just a few hours away from Manila) it's still very provincial. It took me more than a month to agree with talking on voice call, and almost 3 months on video call. Before that though, we have been chatting like crazy almost every day. I used to work from home on night shift so our schedules aligned. We chatted pretty much the whole day (minus the times he had been driving). People would probably think we're crazy but we found our best friends in each other. We love talking about different topics - even deep or dark topics (from dating history to world wars to crypto and to painful memories). We haven't really changed. We still talk a lot and don't shy away from any topic. It helps that we're both introverts, homebodies, and Christians, and we also don't drink nor smoke. Honestly we like the same stuff, and we also enjoy the new stuff we introduced to each other (he introduced Star Wars to me and I introduced mobile gaming to him 😂). It took us more than a year to gather the courage and finally meet in person. He's also only 2 years older than me, so he's still starting to build his savings. I wanted to make sure he won't be broke after buying tickets and booking our Airbnb's. 😂 Anyways him meeting my mom and brother was fun. Mom was too shy to speak English, but even so, she didn't hesitate interviewing him. As you might have guessed I was the translator. 😅 She asked him things like, "What are your plans for my daughter?" "When are you coming back?" "Why can't you just marry her here in the Philippines?" "Oh then just have another wedding here after your wedding there!" 😂 I had to tell her that my dream wedding is different from hers. If most Filipinos like having a grand wedding, I prefer the opposite. I just want immediate family on my wedding day. I'm glad my fiancé is the same. It's gonna be 1 year this August since we passed our K1 visa application so we're hoping to get married by next year. I also would like to point out that contrary to what western people (or the women?) think, most traditional Filipinas like me prefer staying in my home country. But the man I chose to be with for life isn't at retirement age yet, so I go wherever he is as I'm sure I will still be happy wherever it is. ❤
I've dated a provincial girl, and I am now dating a city girl. If the provincial girl is not to sheltered, meaning does have an understanding of the basic principles of communication, then I would say, yes. Sometimes, depending on what province she's from, there maybe a gap or lack in basic principles of communicating with each other. "In the heart ❤ of the Philippines with cj "
I see it as that they talk in code. General references that are way over anyone else’s head but make perfect sense to them. And each different tribe have their own code. So either get used to the code or don’t bother because it’s a lot easier for you to get into their’s then for them to get into your set of understanding. My wife does this with me and I don’t know what she’s talking about. Yet she does it with her siblings and they never have a problem figuring out what each other are talking about. And that’s while they’re all talking in English even.
@@Nga_BabayeI first heard this and was concerned about what could be wrong with relatives on the phone. Oo sounded like Oh-oh! I’m sure she’s used both in combination also. Oh, honey what’s wrong, haha.
I'd say so yes, I've got no problem with a woman of any nationality so long as their not irrational or angry for no reason. Trust me, lots of ladies in the states are WAAAY to combative while saying they aren't submissive. That's not what I want, I just want someone to like me for me. Yeah, i get angry sure but I get mad towards the person or entity that causes it. I don't lash out even remotely.
I loved this video! Even though I'm already married to very beautiful Filipina, it still helps out when you can use a phrase that will bring a smile to her face as it did my wife! Thank you for another great video! God bless 🙏!
Thank you, Pea. Humorous and entertaining at the same time. My Filipina comes from the Province but has a more modern outlook on life, but was thrilled when I suggested we meet her family. That was very exhausting but exhilarating at the same time. I'm now part of her family, which consists of a whole town!
Finally, practical step by step provincial dating advice! Yeah! I see you are a romantic person Pea. An observation, it’s difficult to look at another language, and pronounce the words correctly, because we will tend to pronounce phonetically! Could you write out the phonetic versions of these great phrases for us? Are the phrases Tagalog or ? Can’t wait to explore your beautiful islands! I took your advice and have deleted all dating apps. My first experience dating abroad was penpal newspapers in the early 80’s. Then in chat servers before internet, and finally online. I’ve been to several countries, but find the online dates have no chemistry when we have met, even domestically. So, chemistry and genuine friendship are what I search for! I must say that your complexion and skin tone is gorgeous. You look really glowing this post❣️
Some sounds/language are universal. Back in the very early 2000s when I was dating a girl in Vietnam, I learned the phrase Anh yêu em búp bê. "I Love You BabyDoll". She prefered "Anh yêu em BabyDoll". Mixed Vietnamese and English together. Maybe because my Vietnamese accent was far from perfect, but it seemed the English version sound was more soothing and appealing.
Hello Pea. Solid advice, as always. Loved the skit at the end. As a kid at Clark AFB. we visited with friends in Manilla. I was very dark out and as I was running through the backyard I fell right into an open cesspool. Needless to say my parents immediately threw me into the shower. This happened 61 years ago but I still remember the smell. Take care Pea and I'll see you Friday.
Hey Pea. Watching the video and reading the comments here. Nice !!!! Province girls are definitely different , more traditional. Let’s just say I am leaning towards the city girl over provincial now. See you soon Pea
you definitely have to be careful! I just ended a 1.5 year relationship with a filipina as i started to see warning signs in her behaviour. The way she handled conflict the way she did alot of things. We were in the process of getting the fiance visa which i've now cancelled. I learned alot from the process though and learned what to watch out for now better. Like dating western women there's definitely a learning curve.
She is a provincial filipina and she said she loved me first conversation, but I wasn't interested, yet she persisted. So I like to say our relationship was a case of Stockholm syndrome. She is a country girl who wouldn't give up.
I remember my 1st time meeting my wife’s sibling/ family/ friends. I desired to speak in Tagalog , “ Ang saya ko na makilala ka”! They all laughed at my accent, of course, but also the unnecessary attempt to speak what they referred to as “ deep” Tagalog. And , btw, this was in New Jersey 🥵😳😀
When you think about, your unique understanding and clarity displayed in your videos, rises head and shoulders above other Filipino voices. I'm finding myself being drawn into your orbit through the power of your 'tractor' beam...
I don't know Pea that's a lot of stuff to learn, might have to replay this video 1000 times and test it out with my friends just to make sure I say things correctly and I only have to do it close to my house. Anyway I do enjoy learning different languages even if it's just hello, how are you doing? One time in Church I had different people going up to a couple from Poland saying hello. Of course they though I was playing a joke but those who did it and there were several the Polish Couple wanted to know how they knew that then they pointed to me. Of course, I knew this because I had people from Poland who worked for me. At work I work with a ton of Asian customers so a simple hello goes along way. Best part is when I answer the phone in Chinese as the company, I work for has many many Chinese people, anyway it throws them off so much they forget who they called and then they start speaking Chinese and I have to tell them my Chinese is so-so or mǎmǎhūhū and it's then they realize who they are talking too. Of course, if you don't use a learned language you forget it, when I was younger I knew French and some Greek buy not so much today. I just know even if know a little it can take you a long way but too much and you can end up married which is what Spanish did for me and I still get in trouble with the Latina's. These days I just keep to myself.
Yes, it's definitely worth it. And it's not a hassle. It's refreshing to find a traditional woman, beautiful, sweet, not run-through and can climb a coconut tree in 5 seconds. Very different and takes more work and communication but soooooooo worth it for the right one.
My corny jokes appart, (sorry …) this is a very sensitive and charming video Pea. Delicately made, entertaining, packed to the brim with valuable information, and extremely respectful. A very delicate and considerate approach to an important subject. Thank you so much . Pea … Ikaw ay isang maliwanag na bituin sa asul na kalangitan 💫
I'd agree to pledge loyalty to a traditional Filipina in a heartbeat, under these simple conditions: I see none of the usual red flags, we have chemistry as a duo, she respects my boundaries, her family isn't pushy when it comes to money funding and I get along well with them. It wouldn't bother me to live in the countryside, my mother's birthplace is pretty much the Portuguese equivalent to a Philippines provincial village and I go there almost every summer...
I truly love how you're trying to teach foreigners to speak Filipino phrases and to speak them slowly, and I know it's supposed to be an easy language to learn, but I'm very fortunate in the girl that I met because of another friend I had over there, she's a province girl from down by Cebu, Occidental Mis Amores or something of that nature oh, it's not miss amorous, it's the Occidental place Northwest of Cebu. She has her own pigs and she has property with cows and a four generation family and they all speak English, thank the good Lord. Now I know a few phrases and Filipino or tagalo or whatever you want to call it, but I'm not going to learn the language, because they speak very good English, I will let them teach me a little here a little there, but it's not my plan to learn to speak Filipino. But I do give you a lot of credit you are a very smart girl oh, and a very beautiful girl with one hell of a head on your shoulders a lot of common sense and you speak the truth about all situations over there to the best of your ability. So thank you very much timer for all you do for the people of the Philippines and the people that are coming to the Philippines to find a more traditional woman.
🎉❤❤ Actually review again excellent. I wish you would make a video about yourself and how you got so educated because I thought you had been to the united states to college. And now I see you just got here yesterday in saint augustine florida. But, yeah, it's very impressive what you do I wish I knew your background with college or not, and your english is so articulate and it's pretty amazing and impressed
I was introduced to my filipina by a mutual friend before I went to the Philippines, we chatted online for several months . We married in August of 2011
Thanks Pea for the help in local language knowledge in a direct path to a woman's heart. I have my own local language path that never fails too, " Ancay outay elphay emay endspay all my oneymay ecausebay I'm iredtay of arringcay it roundaay"
Those same techniques can and should be used worldwide. Even in America. I was raised with those standards in America. And they still hold true to those who know the difference. It doesn't matter what country it is. Respect.
Reading the title sparked my interest! My fiancé is from the province of Pangasinan, so I am all tuned in and listening to this video because I already know it will be educational and entertaining! Salamat!
Thanks Pea I can definitely say the provincial girl is worth the time, I’ve spent several months getting to know a young lady from Carlos Garcia island Bohol, and I don’t how I lived with out her, dating her was never the problem keeping her brothers from going on the dates with us was. Lol it was new experience to go on a first alone date and not only have her family waiting on us but her entire church having a bible study. And yes, I can wholeheartedly agree speaking in Bissau makes her heart melt.
You are very cute in the ways you express how to approach the family of a Provincial Filapina 🙂 In the West, that has been lost but it used to be that way also 😞 Seems that the West has become too liberal and the East is still conservative, traditional and there is nothing wrong with this as long as you show RESPECT and know what you want. Peace, VtK
I was on a date with a girl that I had a huge crush on. I thought that, if I was ever to get married again, she'd be the one. At what I thought was the perfect moment, I told her, "You make me want to be a better man." Unfortunately she had seen that Jack Nicholson movie. Boy, did I feel stupid
Just another standard Pea video. Which is to say worth watching 2 times. I love the great actionable knowledge. There is a great difference between knowing you need to do things well and with a conservative approach, and yet another to do it the way SHE was hoping you would. Pea gives you great ideas. Recommended.
Great Information Pea: I think this video has more replay value than the average great video you've done. Teaching phrases that can be of use to foreigners will prove useful before leaving the west for the Philippines, on the airplane during the flight as a refresher, and occasionally just before going out to the park to talk to the Filipina of their desires. I also think this video will bring more members to your Patreon page where the extra content is not just a great deal, but the community of members that you can make friends with is incredible. If I were to serenade a Filipina at night under her window, yeah I would be the talk of the town alright, and that talk would be "What the hell was that racket last night? Was it a cat fighting with a wild pig or something. I just hope it never happens again!"
This is one of your top TEN vids Pea. This is the first vid I have seen covering these topics. I hope you cover this again. The phrases are very important. I want to know more.
Hola Pea! Thanks for the Gringo Lingo lesson. Gio recently demo a translator device, which would be a good investment, but the basic tips you’ve provided are golden. Salamat.
Great advice, I'm preparing for my first visit to the Philippines. I'm looking forward and learning and spending time with true traditional Filipina, Keep up the great work
I met once a single mother 34 year old, "very conservative" who insisted bringing a friend to the first meeting. So I asked her if when she was impregnated by the guy who left her, she brought her friend too. And then BYE!!!
@@woutergijs5246 not from being conservative. Pea is good but she does paint them as the prize and never says anything about our value that is obvious. I notice the Filipina creators are painting pictures that are not accurate mostly. One said to pay for their entire family is a foreigner Filipina tradition. It’s not true.
I married my wife before I ever met her parents, in fact her parents didn't know we'd gotten married, they didn't even know we were dating! You can only imagine how "Meet the Parents" went. I was placed under a microscope for days out in the province, which was like going back 500 years in time. Awwwkwaaaard. But we didn't date long enough for me to even know what was customary in the Philippines; my wife and I just had to make a decision that was somewhat rushed on account of my deployment schedule, so we shot first and asked questions later. Not ideal, but it worked out. It helped that my wife had plenty of exposure to both cultures -- big city values and legit jobs vs. being a provincial girl at heart, meaning _very_ conservative social mores. First two years were a little rocky but it ultimately worked out because we were willing to put in the effort.
I remember 'courting' from my teens, lovely word for a nervous but wonderful time! It sounds like I would really like a traditional lady! Really useful phrases, you could start a language school lovely Pea! Would you say that you should use these approaches to an online meeting if it's with a traditional lady too? Thank you lovely Pea, you make life so much brighter 🥰❤
Very well said Pea! Provincial woman is an unsophisticated but most of them are a best woman and very successful in career, a well-educated.But what you'd said was happened in past years , this generation has changed a lot.Before "Harana" which was the tradition of a Filipino folks , the way of courting a woman.It's good that you give an informative insight those foreigners seeking a rustic woman so that by the time comes, they have an idea how to court a Filipina....you're indeed right it's legendary in our village if a man can do harana or serenade we love bringing back our history in the past into present as a true Filipina.This time a lot of changes because of social situations it rarely to be happened even a rustic woman here in my province.It's totally dead in the present but we love to get back that kind of tradition we had before.Provincial woman if they have foreigner, they are not giving hard times it might be no serenade but it will make sure that as long as a foreigner willing to entertain the parents, they can go for it, as province girl we highly appreciate a man that willing to come our house and then ask permission to our parents.There is no harana anyway😅
This is such a wonderful video bringing up our real traditional courtship and letting the foreigners learn more of our cultural way. You are a blessing for the interracial couples that has questions by teaching them a whole lot of our cultures and traditions. Westerners come expect things and almost try to look for their western ways into the Pinays that they don't even take time to learn the dating culture but like you said it is rewarding and all worth it.
Do Filipinas take time and learn about us or do they expect the Filipino way? It’s not all about the woman two people are coming together and she is not better than him. We bring security
@@TheGammaEffect Obviously they do, the fact that they try to speak English to be able to communicate even just a little bit. Do you go there and try to learn the language or demand to speak English only?
Thanks for the video Pea :) Honestly, that all sounds very close to the traditional dating I grew up with in the US. We won't talk about how long ago that was.........
Congratulations another great video, your videos always helps us to understand your culture, I have a Filipina girlfriend and your videos help me to understand her better, thank you for your efforts, you are doing a excellent job
Yesss Pee, yessss, you always have to tell foreigners that they should first talk to the girl's parents as a sign of respect. I noticed that many foreigners go to the Philippines and interact with girls as if they were in their own country, without responsibility or commitment. This is very bad for the girl and her traditional behavior.
I'm currently in a relationship with a city girl who still maintains a charming, provincial perspective on romance. I plan on marrying her, as I've never felt this certain about someone before. Despite her accomplishments and adapting to city life, she worries about being too unsophisticated and poor for me. But every day, I wake up feeling incredibly grateful that fate brought us together. She's the most extraordinary person I've ever known, and I can overlook her occasional jealousy, which I would typically find bothersome in others. I am endlessly patient and understanding with her because our minor differences are insignificant. I'm even willing to let her check my phone to ensure I'm not in compromising situations with single women - it's a respectable gesture. I believe I've discovered the essence of what connects good men and women in Filipino/foreigner relationships. Choosing a partner based on shared values ensures a happy life. In the West, we're often preoccupied with finding someone whose schedule, interests, education, and hobbies perfectly align with ours - an approach that often leads to disappointment. Many of the things we seek in a partner are either circumstantial or can be developed over time. There are countless activities and interests to share, so finding a partner with some overlapping interests is natural. However, expecting someone to be an exact replica of ourselves is unrealistic. When my girlfriend expresses concerns about her career not being able to contribute to our life, I reassure her that her beautiful heart, family values, and faith in moral order are the most significant contributions she can offer. Initially, I perceived Filipino dating to be old-fashioned and reminiscent of high school, but I've come to appreciate its genuine sweetness and sincerity. There's nothing wrong with being upfront about wanting a loving relationship built on faith and commitment. Comparatively, the modern Western approach to dating - casually having fun and seeing where it goes - seems shallow and absurd. Imagine applying this mindset to building a house, pursuing a degree, or advancing in a career. While some may prefer to navigate relationships like an adventurous movie character, in reality, that approach often leads to failure.
Pea, my beautiful angel is a provincial lady yet also knows the city. We have been married now for over a year, best time of my life and continuing. I am very grateful for how conservative she is, how loving and gentle she is. Adventurous and inquisitive, I'm truly grateful for her love.
Well ,well, Yor right again 💯, 80 percent of the country girl are very good girls, i been spending time in nothern and Eastern Samra . But what is lacking is being albe to talk about anything past there little spot. Ask them there opinions on most thngs they dont have a clue. My wife family from there, and her family and town. I have to talk less. , most of the conversation is what they plan on eatting that day. Why chicken one make eggs everother day.. if i say oh, the interest rate is 5% to 5.25% last week do think will go up more, theyblookat you like a man from space.. my wife when oversea and work 11 countries, And she have to dumb down her speaking to her people home town.. So if you want just eye candy and sweet girl. Its ok. But if you want equal, who can bring you same life experiences, then dont got there, There many good city girls too..
Hi Pea. Been with you since the beginning. Intrigued by the topic but have already passed the date phase. Province life is amazing. Culture shock for sure and miss many of the same things as the girls. Dairy products, bread, and beef for sure!! Its the myths and traditions that are rough for me. I cant tell asawa i peed in the woods because i will be blamed for all unfortuate accidents due to the elfs and faries I offended. 😂 Rain drops apparently kill you, cold drinks or dry sweat make you sick. Symbolic rituals, spritual healing, and religious tradition takes a lot of patience. It seems religion and anchient traditions are taught more than science, as basic principles of weather, biology, and geography are impossible to discuss. Telenovelas are more important than local and world news. And im pretty sure Dingdong from Family Fued would win president if he ran. 😅 I love our little farm and the people of the province but some things make you shake your head. I still watch all your Videos but Asawa gets a little jealous sometimes. 😂
This information is very interesting. The courtship rituals you described including the order of steps how to do it right strongly resemble the courtship rituals of Germany but roughly 70-80 years ago. If I compare that to how my parents described their courtship it was nearly a 1-1 transcript. 😊
OMG, Miss Pea, you've done it again. Another outstanding vlog. You should be a teacher. Everything you talked about is for the benefit of both expats and Filipinas. And it is so true, speaking some of the Philippine language is epic, however, there are so many different dialects, how do you know which one to learn. I would love to learn the language, my daughter in-law has tried to help alittle, but the language seems too fast for me to understand when they talk. But you make it sound so easy. Umm, at the end, the guy who left the pile of wood, that was me, hahaha.
I married my Filipina wife almost 9 years ago and brought her to the US. I was 40 and she was 20. Since then she has finished her masters degree and almost has her certifications. She became a dual citizen about 5 years ago. Her income is quickly approaching mine. I have watched her try to fit in with the hustle culture (of her own choosing) and the influence of more western mindsets at her work. It's so refreshing after all this time to see her still reject the way western women behave. We are instead now using that income to plan a move back to the Philippines where we can both not work so hard and enjoy life together. Guys, believe that you can find a great woman from the Philippines. I have given her the keys so to speak and she has had every opportunity and freedom to leave like a western woman would, but she still appreciates me and loves me as much as I do her. My only regret in life is that I did not learn of women from the Philippines until I was nearly 40. My life would have been so much better had I learned in my 20s.
The simple things Pea are always best respect cultures learn some basic language be patient and most of all don't step into a foreign soul like you own the place ❤ the content have a pleasant night Pea
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Hey little bit! I enjoy the way you are well rounded and grounded. You well versed in western culture but have never forgotten how a proud Filipina who is well educated and yet a lady. This is very Valuable information for men seeking a quality woman from anywhere, even a city resident would appreciate this behavior. All the best to you and yours. Happy Memorial Day.
Pea, there are so many south east Asian woman in Sydney, I get so many philipino's wanting me with in 10 klm radius of my home. The main difference goings to the Philippines, is an increase in the age gap.
Well there's times it seems like your videos are getting shorter and shorter, but just checked after watching the video and it's not shorter. That's how good your videos are 😁. Weird side note: if you want to you can but when my urologist does it, it feels like his fingers are huge sausages 😜🤪😂🤣
Kamusta ka? I've been chatting once a young lady online she has a young child maybe about 3 he never paid any attention to me until I tried to speak their language now, he speaks to me every time he sees me. she puts me on speakerphone and is always surrounded by a family so I have to get used to not having any privacy, but it keeps everything G rated and respectful.
Hi Pea, it's always useful to learn some of the local language. Are those phrases in Tagalog? I was wondering part way through when we'd get to the piles of wood 😁
This was a great video, I had to watch it twice to take notes, I've learned quite a bit about the Filipino culture because it's where I want to retire and have decided that a traditional Filipina from one of the province's is what I'm looking for so I knew that I would have to get her parents approval first and knowing more about that process and knowing some things to say in her language is definitely a plus thank you
I learn one of my first words in Tagalog as being mahal. It was easy to remember because I love watching wrestling and one of the wrestlers name in WWE is Jinder Mahal. I do recognize some of the words of your language because the language of Tagalog and Spanish are a little bit similar where they borrow words from each other, at least some of the words that I recognize in Spanish.
Before the Americans took power there in the late 1800s, Spain ran the place. Before that in the middle ages, it was the Arabs. So Spanish and to a lesser degree Arabic are imbedded into the local languages. Arab culture is also where Filipinos got a tradition of circumcision, which is NOT Catholic.
Along with your informative content, I love your creativity and humor Miss Pea. Waking up to one of your suitor's in the middle of the night only to shew him away was a nice touch after such a conservative message. You have a gift of bringing old tradition's into the 21st Century. You have a finger up on your competition Doc. Keep making us smile ;)
🥰🥰 I'm looking to meet interesting and fun people. Not necessarily looking for a wife and definitely not a hookup. If love happens when, it happens. ❤❤ my heart will always belong to Pea
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But do they all look as beautiful as the pea? That's the question.
I would only date a provincial girl... I need a girl untainted by any form of Westernism...
TFP - why did you make last three "romantic" phrases only in English? I need to write it down! :-)
Hey, Pea, there is one thing I often wonder when I watch your videos. What is considered "the province" in The Philippines? Is it everywhere but the largest cities, or is it the truly rural areas? Maybe somewhere in between?
I'm so American lazy the one will have to be as beautiful as you for me to learn your language. I like Asian movies but I hate that they not in English😂. That's why I like smart women so that she can learn English I will learn her language once I Google what she said to me Translate (I have another boyfriend)😂😂😂. 05-16-23
Hi Pea! What it boils down to is if you want a quality woman, you better be respectful and a gentleman!
That goes a long way, yes ❤️👍😊
That’s a sure fire way to end up single and screwed over here in the US. But rather than become worse, I looked for better and found the most amazing woman living in HK from the Philippines. We have plans to go back to Philippines until her fiancée visa goes through then I’ll give the US a shot at ruining her. :)
Dummie move @@CCEASER2002
Pea's gifting her audience informative information of the Philippines culture are becoming legendary.
I sure wish that was a sure thing, Sure Thing, but I’m sure glad you think so 🤣❤️👍
Pea, the golden nuggets you've shared with us over the past few months is nothing less than fantastic. The way you were graceful saying those love quotes (and your mannerisms) had me mesmerized. Any woman who hears those words will melt. You have been definitely hitting home runs the past few months. Classic Pea......
I fully agree
There are at least TWO disgruntled guys on RUclips trying to smear the Pea, but I think she's on the level and most agree with me.
How refreshing to hear that traditional dating and relationships are still a thing . The courting dance and ritual are so much more exciting than a meet up in a bar if one wants a serious relationship. Great video young lady 👏🏼
👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I so agree. Beeing a real Gentleman always made me happy, because Women appreciate a respectful behaviour just like Men do. I think mutual Respect is the base you can build a Relationship on.
All is great until the family expects you to support them all, so all you sheltered guys have fun with that.
@@half-breed that has been addressed on this channel dozens of times. If you got a hate for what’s being said, why are you here?
After seven years of marriage my wife and I have yet to ever go to a bar. We’ve been to karaoke though and a disco for dancing but not to a bar. We met at the food court at the local mall for the first time after courting online for several months first.
Pea has become an ideal woman. She elevates us all. Thank God for competent examples. I love you Pea.
Well Said Mate
I married a beautiful Philipina and couldn't be happier loving considerate loyal ❤ peas advice has helped many times
I’m soooo happy to hear that, Andrew ❤️👍
Everything you said is why I love the Philippines and it’s people. Before my wife passed away she made me promise to come to the Philippines to find a wife.
Thank you Miss Pea for confirming what my late wife already knew.
Cheers 😊
Lol. I she didn’t 💀💀💀
Yes it's worth it, I visited my province girl in February and it was amazing with her and the family. They are the most polite, caring and loving. Showing respect goes a long way there :)
My Filipina's mother friended me on Facebook. Guess that makes it officially official 🤣🤣 Maybe I got bonus points for sending her a happy mother's day message lol
I’m sure you did 👍❤️👍
lol "poop in the woods" all very true! nice video!! I had a friend do "harana" he brought a chainsaw to the family and cut up enough firewood for like 2 years, and yes they ended up getting married and yes he was well know in the whole area!
Hahahaha
See? It’s true! 😂😂😂😂
I'm going to marry a filipina from a province. She is wonderful and we share a lot of the same values. She is very down to earth. I love to wine and dine my partner and shower with gifts but she says she just wants my attention and love. I was very suprised. Our relationship has been peaceful and understanding. It's amazing
Congratulations, Michael!
Meeting the family is an important milestone in building a relationship with a province girl. She will probably give you hints to help you, but as someone who has survived the interview process firsthand, don't forget the pasalubong! (gifts) My experience with speaking Tagalog to locals is that first they are shocked, and then they immediately assume/ask if I have a Filipina wife/gf already. Personally, I would avoid starting any conversation in Tagalog while meeting someone new, to avoid them drawing conclusions that might not be favorable. Let her teach you some Tagalog words and phrases, which seems just as romantic in my book.
Yah, it might also make you look like a player, which is not appreciated.
im loveing the philippines , such amazing place and amazing people ❤🇵🇭
I’m so glad to hear you say that, Marti ❤️👍
Hi Pea. I smiled from ear to ear when you mentioned about meeting the parents is like an interrogation at a local police dept. I'm sure Kevin felt that way when she first met my mom.😂 Nice content as always. True facts about a provincial Filipina like me.😁
😂😂 Yes just be yourself. For me I’m older than her parents but i did Mano po with both parents (took their hand and touched to my forehead)
Filipino parents don’t mind a direct question asking honorably for their approval to date their daughter. I was pretty nervous and did it online before traveling there. We had already become serious online dating so I told them my intention is to marry her. They accepted me and asked that I take good care of their daughter which I promised I would.
I’m so glad I could make you smile 😂👍
Hi Pea! My tradwife is from Isabella province, but I met her in Germany of all places. Her good heart and sweetness is what got me hooked.
And she stayed traditional even in the west? Good for her 👍❤️
@The Filipina Pea Yes, she did and still has an accent which I love.
ALL HAIL THE UNRELENTING PEA
...and always let the ads play
John! Great to see you, my friend 👍❤️😊
I always noticed of the woman who came to Canada as nannies to work and earn their way into citizenship is that a lot of them did it to get away from the traditions of back home. The first Filipina I dated was hiding me and I thought it’s because she was doing something bad or she was ashamed to me. But it was really about her not wanting her family to interfere and be so critical and judgemental.
I think if you have an old fashioned approach then it will work quite well. Walk over to her and compliment her on her dress, her hair, her necklace etc. This opens up a conversation on something that isn't directly about her and starts a conversation. If she mentions a boyfriend or husband in the first minute of conversation she isn't interested😁
Mentioning the guy in her life is good man repellent, yes 🤣🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea Thanks for replying yeah it works the same in most cultures. You have problems when they are married and DON'T mention it. 🤔
Love this Ate Pea! I'm from Batangas City, and even though it's a city (and just a few hours away from Manila) it's still very provincial. It took me more than a month to agree with talking on voice call, and almost 3 months on video call. Before that though, we have been chatting like crazy almost every day. I used to work from home on night shift so our schedules aligned. We chatted pretty much the whole day (minus the times he had been driving). People would probably think we're crazy but we found our best friends in each other. We love talking about different topics - even deep or dark topics (from dating history to world wars to crypto and to painful memories). We haven't really changed. We still talk a lot and don't shy away from any topic. It helps that we're both introverts, homebodies, and Christians, and we also don't drink nor smoke. Honestly we like the same stuff, and we also enjoy the new stuff we introduced to each other (he introduced Star Wars to me and I introduced mobile gaming to him 😂).
It took us more than a year to gather the courage and finally meet in person. He's also only 2 years older than me, so he's still starting to build his savings. I wanted to make sure he won't be broke after buying tickets and booking our Airbnb's. 😂 Anyways him meeting my mom and brother was fun. Mom was too shy to speak English, but even so, she didn't hesitate interviewing him. As you might have guessed I was the translator. 😅 She asked him things like, "What are your plans for my daughter?" "When are you coming back?" "Why can't you just marry her here in the Philippines?" "Oh then just have another wedding here after your wedding there!" 😂 I had to tell her that my dream wedding is different from hers. If most Filipinos like having a grand wedding, I prefer the opposite. I just want immediate family on my wedding day. I'm glad my fiancé is the same. It's gonna be 1 year this August since we passed our K1 visa application so we're hoping to get married by next year.
I also would like to point out that contrary to what western people (or the women?) think, most traditional Filipinas like me prefer staying in my home country. But the man I chose to be with for life isn't at retirement age yet, so I go wherever he is as I'm sure I will still be happy wherever it is. ❤
I've dated a provincial girl, and I am now dating a city girl. If the provincial girl is not to sheltered, meaning does have an understanding of the basic principles of communication, then I would say, yes. Sometimes, depending on what province she's from, there maybe a gap or lack in basic principles of communicating with each other. "In the heart ❤ of the Philippines with cj "
Yes, there can be a vast difference in the comprehension skills from one woman to another 👍
I see it as that they talk in code. General references that are way over anyone else’s head but make perfect sense to them. And each different tribe have their own code. So either get used to the code or don’t bother because it’s a lot easier for you to get into their’s then for them to get into your set of understanding. My wife does this with me and I don’t know what she’s talking about. Yet she does it with her siblings and they never have a problem figuring out what each other are talking about. And that’s while they’re all talking in English even.
@@tomster7574 Oo.
@@Nga_Babaye salamat po :)
@@Nga_BabayeI first heard this and was concerned about what could be wrong with relatives on the phone. Oo sounded like Oh-oh! I’m sure she’s used both in combination also.
Oh, honey what’s wrong, haha.
I'd say so yes, I've got no problem with a woman of any nationality so long as their not irrational or angry for no reason. Trust me, lots of ladies in the states are WAAAY to combative while saying they aren't submissive.
That's not what I want, I just want someone to like me for me.
Yeah, i get angry sure but I get mad towards the person or entity that causes it. I don't lash out even remotely.
Filipinas are usually non-confrontational, so no problem there 👍😊
I loved this video! Even though I'm already married to very beautiful Filipina, it still helps out when you can use a phrase that will bring a smile to her face as it did my wife! Thank you for another great video! God bless 🙏!
She’ll definitely be smiling, yes 😊❤️👍
Thank you, Pea. Humorous and entertaining at the same time. My Filipina comes from the Province but has a more modern outlook on life, but was thrilled when I suggested we meet her family. That was very exhausting but exhilarating at the same time. I'm now part of her family, which consists of a whole town!
Finally, practical step by step provincial dating advice! Yeah! I see you are a romantic person Pea. An observation, it’s difficult to look at another language, and pronounce the words correctly, because we will tend to pronounce phonetically! Could you write out the phonetic versions of these great phrases for us? Are the phrases Tagalog or ? Can’t wait to explore your beautiful islands! I took your advice and have deleted all dating apps. My first experience dating abroad was penpal newspapers in the early 80’s. Then in chat servers before internet, and finally online. I’ve been to several countries, but find the online dates have no chemistry when we have met, even domestically. So, chemistry and genuine friendship are what I search for! I must say that your complexion and skin tone is gorgeous. You look really glowing this post❣️
These are in Tagalog - and thanks, Stephen ❤️😊👍
Some sounds/language are universal. Back in the very early 2000s when I was dating a girl in Vietnam, I learned the phrase Anh yêu em búp bê. "I Love You BabyDoll". She prefered "Anh yêu em BabyDoll". Mixed Vietnamese and English together. Maybe because my Vietnamese accent was far from perfect, but it seemed the English version sound was more soothing and appealing.
Hello Pea. Solid advice, as always. Loved the skit at the end. As a kid at Clark AFB. we visited with friends in Manilla. I was very dark out and as I was running through the backyard I fell right into an open cesspool. Needless to say my parents immediately threw me into the shower. This happened 61 years ago but I still remember the smell. Take care Pea and I'll see you Friday.
Sounds like a crappy experience
@@russellsmith3825 DOH!
It smells good there yes?
You’ve permanently got the stink of the Philippines on you now 🤣🤣🤣
Hey Pea. Watching the video and reading the comments here. Nice !!!! Province girls are definitely different , more traditional. Let’s just say I am leaning towards the city girl over provincial now. See you soon Pea
They’re a lot easier to date, yes 🤣
Note to self: To win Pea's heart, bring buckets of water and sing her Italian love songs at 3am.
Only if the bucket contains earplugs 🤣
As an italian i would be terrified😂
Ha!!! It looked like it didn’t work.
You would probably be better off cosplaying as Picard and telling her you would accept no one else as your Riker
I’ll have Marcelito Pomoy teach me how to sing in Italian….. if that what it takes to win over my Filipina Pea. Lol hehe
you definitely have to be careful! I just ended a 1.5 year relationship with a filipina as i started to see warning signs in her behaviour. The way she handled conflict the way she did alot of things. We were in the process of getting the fiance visa which i've now cancelled. I learned alot from the process though and learned what to watch out for now better. Like dating western women there's definitely a learning curve.
tell us some tips men,, we begginers will appriciate it
Would love to hear more of this story.
What behaviors?
Explain please
She is a provincial filipina and she said she loved me first conversation, but I wasn't interested, yet she persisted. So I like to say our relationship was a case of Stockholm syndrome. She is a country girl who wouldn't give up.
I remember my 1st time meeting my wife’s sibling/ family/ friends. I desired to speak in Tagalog , “ Ang saya ko na makilala ka”! They all laughed at my accent, of course, but also the unnecessary attempt to speak what they referred to as “ deep” Tagalog. And , btw, this was in New Jersey 🥵😳😀
When you think about, your unique understanding and clarity displayed in your videos, rises head and shoulders above other Filipino voices. I'm finding myself being drawn into your orbit through the power of your 'tractor' beam...
Excellent segment! I have lived and traveled around the world. Learning cultural norms, is so important!
It does give you an advantage, yes 👍😊
And fun!
I don't know Pea that's a lot of stuff to learn, might have to replay this video 1000 times and test it out with my friends just to make sure I say things correctly and I only have to do it close to my house. Anyway I do enjoy learning different languages even if it's just hello, how are you doing? One time in Church I had different people going up to a couple from Poland saying hello. Of course they though I was playing a joke but those who did it and there were several the Polish Couple wanted to know how they knew that then they pointed to me. Of course, I knew this because I had people from Poland who worked for me. At work I work with a ton of Asian customers so a simple hello goes along way. Best part is when I answer the phone in Chinese as the company, I work for has many many Chinese people, anyway it throws them off so much they forget who they called and then they start speaking Chinese and I have to tell them my Chinese is so-so or mǎmǎhūhū and it's then they realize who they are talking too. Of course, if you don't use a learned language you forget it, when I was younger I knew French and some Greek buy not so much today. I just know even if know a little it can take you a long way but too much and you can end up married which is what Spanish did for me and I still get in trouble with the Latina's. These days I just keep to myself.
Hahahahaha
Well then be careful learning Tagalog - you’ll end up married for sure 🤣🤣🤣
Yes, it's definitely worth it. And it's not a hassle. It's refreshing to find a traditional woman, beautiful, sweet, not run-through and can climb a coconut tree in 5 seconds. Very different and takes more work and communication but soooooooo worth it for the right one.
Hi Pea
Your videos are always amazing super helpful I look forward to each one all the time and you are super Maganda also- Salamat
My corny jokes appart, (sorry …) this is a very sensitive and charming video Pea.
Delicately made, entertaining, packed to the brim with valuable information, and extremely respectful.
A very delicate and considerate approach to an important subject.
Thank you so much .
Pea … Ikaw ay isang maliwanag na bituin sa asul na kalangitan 💫
Amen.
Well Said
I'm already with a traditional Filipina from the province, and she's the best woman I've ever been with in a long long time.
I'd agree to pledge loyalty to a traditional Filipina in a heartbeat, under these simple conditions: I see none of the usual red flags, we have chemistry as a duo, she respects my boundaries, her family isn't pushy when it comes to money funding and I get along well with them.
It wouldn't bother me to live in the countryside, my mother's birthplace is pretty much the Portuguese equivalent to a Philippines provincial village and I go there almost every summer...
Mrs. Pea,
Your content is indispensable, refreshing and detailed. Thank you for all you do. Job well done.
I truly love how you're trying to teach foreigners to speak Filipino phrases and to speak them slowly, and I know it's supposed to be an easy language to learn, but I'm very fortunate in the girl that I met because of another friend I had over there, she's a province girl from down by Cebu, Occidental Mis Amores or something of that nature oh, it's not miss amorous, it's the Occidental place Northwest of Cebu. She has her own pigs and she has property with cows and a four generation family and they all speak English, thank the good Lord. Now I know a few phrases and Filipino or tagalo or whatever you want to call it, but I'm not going to learn the language, because they speak very good English, I will let them teach me a little here a little there, but it's not my plan to learn to speak Filipino. But I do give you a lot of credit you are a very smart girl oh, and a very beautiful girl with one hell of a head on your shoulders a lot of common sense and you speak the truth about all situations over there to the best of your ability. So thank you very much timer for all you do for the people of the Philippines and the people that are coming to the Philippines to find a more traditional woman.
🎉❤❤ Actually review again excellent. I wish you would make a video about yourself and how you got so educated because I thought you had been to the united states to college. And now I see you just got here yesterday in saint augustine florida. But, yeah, it's very impressive what you do I wish I knew your background with college or not, and your english is so articulate and it's pretty amazing and impressed
I was introduced to my filipina by a mutual friend before I went to the Philippines, we chatted online for several months . We married in August of 2011
Thanks Pea for the help in local language knowledge in a direct path to a woman's heart. I have my own local language path that never fails too, " Ancay outay elphay emay endspay all my oneymay ecausebay I'm iredtay of arringcay it roundaay"
Those same techniques can and should be used worldwide. Even in America. I was raised with those standards in America. And they still hold true to those who know the difference. It doesn't matter what country it is. Respect.
Well said, William 👍❤️
I love hearing the sprinkling of Spanish words in your language. Almost feels like home!
Reading the title sparked my interest! My fiancé is from the province of Pangasinan, so I am all tuned in and listening to this video because I already know it will be educational and entertaining! Salamat!
Oh, you’re already in the fiancé stage! Then you’d be more interested in the love sayings at the end 😊👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea I’m taking notes!
Thanks Pea I can definitely say the provincial girl is worth the time, I’ve spent several months getting to know a young lady from Carlos Garcia island Bohol, and I don’t how I lived with out her, dating her was never the problem keeping her brothers from going on the dates with us was. Lol it was new experience to go on a first alone date and not only have her family waiting on us but her entire church having a bible study. And yes, I can wholeheartedly agree speaking in Bissau makes her heart melt.
You are very cute in the ways you express how to approach the family of a Provincial Filapina 🙂
In the West, that has been lost but it used to be that way also 😞
Seems that the West has become too liberal and the East is still conservative, traditional and there is nothing wrong with this as long as you show RESPECT and know what you want.
Peace,
VtK
If western women were like they were back in the 1950's there would be no competition...
Thanks!time for my favorite RUclipsr to spend a wild afternoon enjoying a delicious meal! Stay as sweet as you are always🌹
Oh my gosh, Michael, you’ve totally spoiled me! 😳😳❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea that is what friends do😁
I was on a date with a girl that I had a huge crush on. I thought that, if I was ever to get married again, she'd be the one. At what I thought was the perfect moment, I told her, "You make me want to be a better man."
Unfortunately she had seen that Jack Nicholson movie. Boy, did I feel stupid
Just another standard Pea video. Which is to say worth watching 2 times. I love the great actionable knowledge. There is a great difference between knowing you need to do things well and with a conservative approach, and yet another to do it the way SHE was hoping you would. Pea gives you great ideas. Recommended.
Great Information Pea:
I think this video has more replay value than the average great video you've done. Teaching phrases that can be of use to foreigners will prove useful before leaving the west for the Philippines, on the airplane during the flight as a refresher, and occasionally just before going out to the park to talk to the Filipina of their desires.
I also think this video will bring more members to your Patreon page where the extra content is not just a great deal, but the community of members that you can make friends with is incredible.
If I were to serenade a Filipina at night under her window, yeah I would be the talk of the town alright, and that talk would be "What the hell was that racket last night? Was it a cat fighting with a wild pig or something. I just hope it never happens again!"
This is one of your top TEN vids Pea. This is the first vid I have seen covering these topics. I hope you cover this again. The phrases are very important. I want to know more.
Hola Pea!
Thanks for the Gringo Lingo lesson.
Gio recently demo a translator device, which would be a good investment, but the basic tips you’ve provided are golden.
Salamat.
Thanks Tim! Yes, Google translate works pretty well too 👍😊
Great advice, I'm preparing for my first visit to the Philippines. I'm looking forward and learning and spending time with true traditional Filipina, Keep up the great work
I met once a single mother 34 year old, "very conservative" who insisted bringing a friend to the first meeting. So I asked her if when she was impregnated by the guy who left her, she brought her friend too. And then BYE!!!
Hahahahaha
Maybe her other date was a threesome? 🤣
Exactly… how did they all become single moms?
@@woutergijs5246 not from being conservative. Pea is good but she does paint them as the prize and never says anything about our value that is obvious. I notice the Filipina creators are painting pictures that are not accurate mostly. One said to pay for their entire family is a foreigner Filipina tradition. It’s not true.
@@TheGammaEffect - I have heard her discuss the qualities a western man offers the Filipina a number of times.
I married my wife before I ever met her parents, in fact her parents didn't know we'd gotten married, they didn't even know we were dating! You can only imagine how "Meet the Parents" went. I was placed under a microscope for days out in the province, which was like going back 500 years in time. Awwwkwaaaard. But we didn't date long enough for me to even know what was customary in the Philippines; my wife and I just had to make a decision that was somewhat rushed on account of my deployment schedule, so we shot first and asked questions later. Not ideal, but it worked out. It helped that my wife had plenty of exposure to both cultures -- big city values and legit jobs vs. being a provincial girl at heart, meaning _very_ conservative social mores. First two years were a little rocky but it ultimately worked out because we were willing to put in the effort.
I remember 'courting' from my teens, lovely word for a nervous but wonderful time! It sounds like I would really like a traditional lady! Really useful phrases, you could start a language school lovely Pea! Would you say that you should use these approaches to an online meeting if it's with a traditional lady too? Thank you lovely Pea, you make life so much brighter 🥰❤
The general approach is good in any situation, yes 👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea thank you lovely Pea, I love to be polite and caring 😊❤🙏🏻
Very well said Pea! Provincial woman is an unsophisticated but most of them are a best woman and very successful in career, a well-educated.But what you'd said was happened in past years , this generation has changed a lot.Before "Harana" which was the tradition of a Filipino folks , the way of courting a woman.It's good that you give an informative insight those foreigners seeking a rustic woman so that by the time comes, they have an idea how to court a Filipina....you're indeed right it's legendary in our village if a man can do harana or serenade we love bringing back our history in the past into present as a true Filipina.This time a lot of changes because of social situations it rarely to be happened even a rustic woman here in my province.It's totally dead in the present but we love to get back that kind of tradition we had before.Provincial woman if they have foreigner, they are not giving hard times it might be no serenade but it will make sure that as long as a foreigner willing to entertain the parents, they can go for it, as province girl we highly appreciate a man that willing to come our house and then ask permission to our parents.There is no harana anyway😅
A beautiful woman is not always good
A good woman is always beautiful
I think this is one of the nicest and most useful 'information' style videos you have done. Thank you lovely Pea! ❤️😘
Awwww Glen, thank you so much for that generous support!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you for making the world a better place 😊❤❤🥰
This is such a wonderful video bringing up our real traditional courtship and letting the foreigners learn more of our cultural way. You are a blessing for the interracial couples that has questions by teaching them a whole lot of our cultures and traditions. Westerners come expect things and almost try to look for their western ways into the Pinays that they don't even take time to learn the dating culture but like you said it is rewarding and all worth it.
Do Filipinas take time and learn about us or do they expect the Filipino way? It’s not all about the woman two people are coming together and she is not better than him. We bring security
@@TheGammaEffect Obviously they do, the fact that they try to speak English to be able to communicate even just a little bit. Do you go there and try to learn the language or demand to speak English only?
Thanks for the video Pea :) Honestly, that all sounds very close to the traditional dating I grew up with in the US. We won't talk about how long ago that was.........
Highly valuable & informative episode, Pea -- thank you! 🥰
Thanks, Lane, I hope so 👍❤️
Hello Miss P I'm about 45 minutes late but I am here and I did thumbs-up I'm going to enjoy the great show now
Then you’re not late in my book ❤️🤣
Good evening Pea. Hope you're having a good day.
I am now that you’re here, Ron 😊❤️👍
You just put the complications in the simplicity of the province girl. I had absolutely no idea, and that shows how needed this video is.
Congratulations another great video, your videos always helps us to understand your culture, I have a Filipina girlfriend and your videos help me to understand her better, thank you for your efforts, you are doing a excellent job
Thanks Jose! I wonder what she’d say if you used some of those phrases on her 🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea I going to do it and I let you know, she’s Bisaya but I guess she understand Tagalog as well 😂
This is a great video. It would be nice to see some more vids with how to say simple phrases in Tagalog.
Yesss Pee, yessss, you always have to tell foreigners that they should first talk to the girl's parents as a sign of respect. I noticed that many foreigners go to the Philippines and interact with girls as if they were in their own country, without responsibility or commitment. This is very bad for the girl and her traditional behavior.
You knocked it out of the park again. You are a wise woman. Thanks again.
I'm currently in a relationship with a city girl who still maintains a charming, provincial perspective on romance. I plan on marrying her, as I've never felt this certain about someone before.
Despite her accomplishments and adapting to city life, she worries about being too unsophisticated and poor for me. But every day, I wake up feeling incredibly grateful that fate brought us together. She's the most extraordinary person I've ever known, and I can overlook her occasional jealousy, which I would typically find bothersome in others. I am endlessly patient and understanding with her because our minor differences are insignificant. I'm even willing to let her check my phone to ensure I'm not in compromising situations with single women - it's a respectable gesture.
I believe I've discovered the essence of what connects good men and women in Filipino/foreigner relationships. Choosing a partner based on shared values ensures a happy life. In the West, we're often preoccupied with finding someone whose schedule, interests, education, and hobbies perfectly align with ours - an approach that often leads to disappointment.
Many of the things we seek in a partner are either circumstantial or can be developed over time. There are countless activities and interests to share, so finding a partner with some overlapping interests is natural. However, expecting someone to be an exact replica of ourselves is unrealistic.
When my girlfriend expresses concerns about her career not being able to contribute to our life, I reassure her that her beautiful heart, family values, and faith in moral order are the most significant contributions she can offer.
Initially, I perceived Filipino dating to be old-fashioned and reminiscent of high school, but I've come to appreciate its genuine sweetness and sincerity. There's nothing wrong with being upfront about wanting a loving relationship built on faith and commitment.
Comparatively, the modern Western approach to dating - casually having fun and seeing where it goes - seems shallow and absurd. Imagine applying this mindset to building a house, pursuing a degree, or advancing in a career. While some may prefer to navigate relationships like an adventurous movie character, in reality, that approach often leads to failure.
Yea Pea is a smart one. She knows what they want to hear and how to say it. Thank you Pea.😍😍😍
Pea, my beautiful angel is a provincial lady yet also knows the city. We have been married now for over a year, best time of my life and continuing. I am very grateful for how conservative she is, how loving and gentle she is. Adventurous and inquisitive, I'm truly grateful for her love.
Sounds like you found a keeper ❤️❤️❤️👍
Well ,well, Yor right again 💯, 80 percent of the country girl are very good girls, i been spending time in nothern and Eastern Samra . But what is lacking is being albe to talk about anything past there little spot. Ask them there opinions on most thngs they dont have a clue. My wife family from there, and her family and town. I have to talk less. , most of the conversation is what they plan on eatting that day. Why chicken one make eggs everother day.. if i say oh, the interest rate is 5% to 5.25% last week do think will go up more, theyblookat you like a man from space.. my wife when oversea and work 11 countries, And she have to dumb down her speaking to her people home town.. So if you want just eye candy and sweet girl. Its ok. But if you want equal, who can bring you same life experiences, then dont got there, There many good city girls too..
@@TheFilipinaPea thank miss Pea, I am very blessed with her in my life.
Hi Pea. Been with you since the beginning. Intrigued by the topic but have already passed the date phase. Province life is amazing. Culture shock for sure and miss many of the same things as the girls. Dairy products, bread, and beef for sure!! Its the myths and traditions that are rough for me. I cant tell asawa i peed in the woods because i will be blamed for all unfortuate accidents due to the elfs and faries I offended. 😂 Rain drops apparently kill you, cold drinks or dry sweat make you sick. Symbolic rituals, spritual healing, and religious tradition takes a lot of patience. It seems religion and anchient traditions are taught more than science, as basic principles of weather, biology, and geography are impossible to discuss. Telenovelas are more important than local and world news. And im pretty sure Dingdong from Family Fued would win president if he ran. 😅 I love our little farm and the people of the province but some things make you shake your head. I still watch all your Videos but Asawa gets a little jealous sometimes. 😂
That was very very professional. Well done Pea.
Well thanks, Keith! I always strive to be professional ❤️👍
Very, very informative
So what do you consider yourself traditional
Are you a city girl or a province, girl or in between?
Because you’re definitely not shy🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍
Thanks! I replay this one a 100 times to learn the phrases. I appreciate you 😊
And I appreciate you just as much, Mitch 👍❤️😊
This information is very interesting. The courtship rituals you described including the order of steps how to do it right strongly resemble the courtship rituals of Germany but roughly 70-80 years ago. If I compare that to how my parents described their courtship it was nearly a 1-1 transcript. 😊
Have an amazing evening, take care and God bless you Pea 🙏😊
OMG, Miss Pea, you've done it again. Another outstanding vlog. You should be a teacher. Everything you talked about is for the benefit of both expats and Filipinas. And it is so true, speaking some of the Philippine language is epic, however, there are so many different dialects, how do you know which one to learn. I would love to learn the language, my daughter in-law has tried to help alittle, but the language seems too fast for me to understand when they talk. But you make it sound so easy. Umm, at the end, the guy who left the pile of wood, that was me, hahaha.
Did you watch until the end? If that is a teacher, with rubber gloves and vaseline, I am Napoleon.
@@woutergijs5246 - a doctor I believe
I married my Filipina wife almost 9 years ago and brought her to the US. I was 40 and she was 20. Since then she has finished her masters degree and almost has her certifications. She became a dual citizen about 5 years ago. Her income is quickly approaching mine. I have watched her try to fit in with the hustle culture (of her own choosing) and the influence of more western mindsets at her work. It's so refreshing after all this time to see her still reject the way western women behave. We are instead now using that income to plan a move back to the Philippines where we can both not work so hard and enjoy life together. Guys, believe that you can find a great woman from the Philippines. I have given her the keys so to speak and she has had every opportunity and freedom to leave like a western woman would, but she still appreciates me and loves me as much as I do her. My only regret in life is that I did not learn of women from the Philippines until I was nearly 40. My life would have been so much better had I learned in my 20s.
The simple things Pea are always best respect cultures learn some basic language be patient and most of all don't step into a foreign soul like you own the place ❤ the content have a pleasant night Pea
Wise advice, Jeffrey 👍❤️😊
Hello Pea. Thank you again for more useful content. I already have my special someone but I really enjoy your videos. Take care and always God bless.
You've just described what would have taken place in the 50's pretty much everywhere.
Yes, I hear that a lot! The Philippines is like the US, 70 to 100 years ago 😳👍
@@TheFilipinaPea I look forward to my visit and going back in time, thank you Pea
I don't think so, maybe in the countryside.
If there are any viewers wondering if they should subscribe, wonder no more. Pea is an expert, a bridge between cultures and I've learned to respect her advice. Pea's videos are a gift to understanding.
Thanks!
Oh my gosh, Paul, you’re totally spoiling me 👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey little bit! I enjoy the way you are well rounded and grounded. You well versed in western culture but have never forgotten how a proud Filipina who is well educated and yet a lady. This is very Valuable information for men seeking a quality woman from anywhere, even a city resident would appreciate this behavior. All the best to you and yours. Happy Memorial Day.
Pea, there are so many south east Asian woman in Sydney, I get so many philipino's wanting me with in 10 klm radius of my home.
The main difference goings to the Philippines, is an increase in the age gap.
Yes, the age gaps just aren’t a big deal here 👍😊
Very informative, sweet, and from the heart! The time and effort that you put into your videos is always evident by their high quality! Thank you! 🙂
Thanks Ray! I just won’t put out junk 👍
Well there's times it seems like your videos are getting shorter and shorter, but just checked after watching the video and it's not shorter. That's how good your videos are 😁.
Weird side note: if you want to you can but when my urologist does it, it feels like his fingers are huge sausages 😜🤪😂🤣
I think you’re just falling in love with his fingers, Thomas 🤣🤣🤣👍
@@TheFilipinaPea one of these days when he's got me bent over the examination table I'm going to say could you wiggle a little to the left 😜🤪😂🤣
Good stuff Pea!! I Really enjoy the information, creativity and style in which you share it all...ty
Kamusta ka? I've been chatting once a young lady online she has a young child maybe about 3 he never paid any attention to me until I tried to speak their language now, he speaks to me every time he sees me. she puts me on speakerphone and is always surrounded by a family so I have to get used to not having any privacy, but it keeps everything G rated and respectful.
Congrats..Happiness is Ur Joy
So much useful information in a 16+ minute video. Courting advice and a mini language lesson. Thanks, Pea. You never disappoint.
Hi Pea, it's always useful to learn some of the local language. Are those phrases in Tagalog? I was wondering part way through when we'd get to the piles of wood 😁
Yes, they’re in Tagalog so they’d apply anywhere 👍😊
This was a great video, I had to watch it twice to take notes, I've learned quite a bit about the Filipino culture because it's where I want to retire and have decided that a traditional Filipina from one of the province's is what I'm looking for so I knew that I would have to get her parents approval first and knowing more about that process and knowing some things to say in her language is definitely a plus thank you
I learn one of my first words in Tagalog as being mahal. It was easy to remember because I love watching wrestling and one of the wrestlers name in WWE is Jinder Mahal. I do recognize some of the words of your language because the language of Tagalog and Spanish are a little bit similar where they borrow words from each other, at least some of the words that I recognize in Spanish.
Yes, we do have a good bit of crossover 👍😊
Yes, I notice many Tagalog words that are similar to Spanish, like gwapa, anyo, estado, semana, trabaho, problema,
pelikula, libro etc.
Before the Americans took power there in the late 1800s, Spain ran the place. Before that in the middle ages, it was the Arabs. So Spanish and to a lesser degree Arabic are imbedded into the local languages.
Arab culture is also where Filipinos got a tradition of circumcision, which is NOT Catholic.
Along with your informative content, I love your creativity and humor Miss Pea. Waking up to one of your suitor's in the middle of the night only to shew him away was a nice touch after such a conservative message. You have a gift of bringing old tradition's into the 21st Century. You have a finger up on your competition Doc. Keep making us smile ;)
🥰🥰 I'm looking to meet interesting and fun people. Not necessarily looking for a wife and definitely not a hookup. If love happens when, it happens. ❤❤ my heart will always belong to Pea
Well Pea is a provincial/city hybrid, so you’ll get a taste of both 😊
fantastiskt video som verkligen värmer hjärtat. man blir inspirerad att ta fram gitarren och börja sjunga.