When we look like we don’t care, we are hurt inside..... we are deeply in love with humanity yet deeply disappointed.... oh and we live in our head ALL THE TIME
funkyfacy you nailed it, long live humanity that we know we gotta fix but don’t know how we are going to get them to understand what is clearly beyond them . . . to us anyway lols. So we go to Aqua-Universe... within.
Impulse Ska exactly same he does to me :( ... he keeps doing back and forth and distances and blocks and then unblocks . It’s been 9 years :( inspite of everything I do everything to make him feel spl but he doesn’t react to my doings now :(
I am virgo my bf is aqua but why Aquarius dont clear their emotion opinion during conversation why they are rude and cold hearted why they hide their emotion he hurts me a lot 😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭why they teasing too much why😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭my heart and also my soul is crying at this time😭 how can I do for him I have been tired 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻plz aqua don't repeat again I will die soon
It's like getting to the bottom of everything. Research like no one else does. The idea is just to know more than anyone else does. Aquarius lives for knowledge in its purest form.
OK, thank you. I thought I was losing my shit. I am so obsessed with new things, and then when I figure it out, it becomes boring, and I walk away. It has always been a frustrating habit, so it's helpful to know that it's not just me!
As an Aquarius myself, you won’t ever be able to turn that obsessive quality off. The object of that obsession is a hidden truth about life that you’re instinctively trying to learn every single time. It is so hard for us to see what we don’t know that when we sense there is something we don’t know yet we become obsessed with figuring it out or uncovering that hidden truth. Be it a person, an outcome, a desire, a dream, an idea...we will uncover every stone to find that hidden truth if we sense it. Otherwise, we don’t give a damn bc we already know everything.
Omg!!! When I feel something strongly about someone it becomes an obsession n if I don't get them it takes a toll on me. I will let go in the physical but in the mind I STRUGGLE TO LET IT GO! It can even take me into this depression for a bit until I snap out of it. I HATE IT.
Me too...like i've been obseesed with one person for like 6 years or something...and it still hasn't completely gone away. I don't know how to stop it. I probably sound insane😅
lee Not easy being us is it, we care to damn much, we love to hard, we're 100% loyal, yet we can't seem to meet the right men, yet I see some other women that are disloyal, liars, thieves etc.etc.. get married to the nicest men 😳😳😳smh.
definitely!!! I am Aquarius and the last year was the worst year in my life...I got into deep depression and psychosis I was crazy as hell I had doubt if I am even a human or not...overthinking everything until it will get shit out of me...I don't take any meds..I don't visit a psychiatrist..everyday I try to get on with this abnormal thing called "my mind"...we cannot deal with emotions well, we are trapped in our head...thats where all of these problems come I guess...I am so happy to found out this video and your comment...wish you good luck :)
Exactly! You were right on point! It becomes this obsession but one thing that helps me is: as soon as I see that I am getting into this that I call “trap”, I start to “try” to disconnect from it. I do everything I can to distract myself from it. Meditation, being present, instead of trying to understand. It feels just like an abstinence symptom. If it’s related to a person, I used to think that that person was actually a psychopath and I was the “victim “, then, after other few people, I sometimes thought that I could be the psycopath, then later I’ve learned with lots of self studying that I could not be, because I did react very emotionally that it hurts and it hurts also to know that I would just walk away from that person’s life without even looking back so easily. I’m so glad to know that I am not the only one that struggles with this. My brother, also an Aquarian, acts the same! He doesn’t ever talk with me about it, but I see how he gets obsessed with something, sometimes in a short term, others in a longer term, and suddenly loses his interest on it! Thank you for your video!
I am Aquarius too. This is so true . I wonder if we have a tendency to obsess about things like financial issues and other things. It is the thing on my mind at night and in the morning like you said. I have to listen to meditation tapes to put my mind to positive things. Thanks Rich. Gonna watch this a bunch of times lol 😊
Aquarius here!! Agreed completely. I have been obsessed and addicted to a woman, an idea, a bad habit, etc. Yes, you’re right. I get obsessed over a person who displays qualities and traits that the majority of people don’t display. I’ve learned to control it. I just bury myself in my life purpose and work.
I always thought everyone had those kinds of obsessions! But then again I never wanna admit when I‘m obsessed with something or a person because to other people it always seems completely random and crazy and they never get it.
It's possible for people to become obsessive, but I believe that Aquarians might suffer a bit more. But Aquarius will hide it while others won't. This is what has me pretty convinced that it hits aquarius harder.
I'm a Gemini and what you said about Aquarius relates to me as well. I get obsessive and analyse people and situations in great detail. I can think about them for hours or as long as I figure things out. If I like a guy, he'll be on my mind even when I'm doing something else like working, reading, writing, whatever. I analyse our conversations, places we've been to, everything. Eventually I try to focus on something else because it's exhausting to think about someone over and over again. I think it's difficult to build long-lasting relationships when you're an air sign. At least, it's extremely difficult for me.
This is me too and I recently became obsessed over this acquarius guy. I mean I was drawn to him love at first sight. Now I can’t get this man off my mind I tried to sabotage it by sending him a email telling him bye but now I’m going crazy. I want to call him so bad but I don’t know if he feels the same way and I don’t want to be crazy.
I agree with the "episodes" thing. I feel like, when something, or someone interests me, I just have to eat up everything thing about it- I want to KNOW it! All! Right now! And the second I see something in that "research" that doesn't make sense, or proves it's not worth my time- CUT! ITs a wrap! You are spot on with this vid. Made me laugh, and cringe a little, lol
You gave me a good laugh thanks... especially when you talked about the cut-off switch. For me it's like a door slams and then it melds with the wall... No more door :) That's been happening to me ALL my life. I've been there and done that (trying to work it out)... there's NO point! My perspective is to try to recognise it (obsession), know how it affects you, try to channel/control it. When the feelings are low (sad/pain), then recognise that you can't change/fix it, accept it (the feelings), allow yourself to go through it because the sooner you do the better off you'll be. At the end of the day... you know the switch will appear when you need it. PS. We only have the power to change ourselves... namaste... sorry, feeling a bit chatty ;)
I'm not an Aquarius but I have a friend who is an Aquarius. I'm a Scorpio and I find the overwhelming part and OCD comes from your intelligence. Being a Scorpio it comes from out feelings which all Scorpio"s know we can't shut those feelings off even in the darkest times of our lives. So you're fixed intelligence and Scorpio is fixed feelings. I don't know why your old videos came up on my feed. I'm subscribed to your videos and I've learned so much from you giving advice. I may be lots older but it's never too late to learn something new... thanks for all that you do.❤
I love you man. I feel like I am the one talking. Never have I seen or heard another person describe an Aquarius like you’re doing. Keep up the good work man. Yes, we do have this “obsessive quality” to us and it can be very good or very detrimental.
I’m a Sagittarius and an Aquarian loves me so much, she’s so wild and crazy I’m more passionate and observe her actions it’s like I don’t know how to make myself happy with her. I love her so much but I’m not that hyper like her
You mentioned that we as aquarius will fixate on a thing continuously if we really like it. This happens to me & is currently happening with specific persons at the moment. What I notice about this for me is that if it is something I greatly desire to have & experience, All of my visions come to pass when I fixate on them. I had to learn to ask myself, why Is it I want this thing? What values does it bring to me? How can I make this come to pass? This is a great gift. I started to realize that this is the direct blueprint on manifesting your dreams. If you apply action at the right time. If you get that you are planting seeds in your minds eye with vision that you want to experience in your physical. After you decide what you want to do with the vision. Experience it or not then move accordingly.
Well that is why most geniuses are born under Aquarius sign. I think once they fixated on that ideas they seek to make it happened. Most of my physics and maths and even my life problems were solved when I kept it under microscope. I have to say that it is tiring..... because it takes your entire energy..... we are problem solvers......that is the reason.
I'm obsessed with anything paranormal, physics, animals, and my husband. I've been obsessed with him since we met 25yrs ago. I think I overwhelm ppl with my obsessions and can turn them off sometimes. I do wish I could quiet my mind. I keep trying meditation but I either have such loud thoughts and can't stay focused or I fall asleep. I do think our obsessions are for a purpose just like other signs have their purpose. My best friend is an Aquarius and he's the ONLY one who gets me. He lives in England and we've never even met but in four years we've never missed a day of not writing and sharing our obsessions. He happens to have the same one's as me. Go figure. We are much more suited for each other than my Taurus husband, but yet I've stayed with him and have always been faithful. I do think I'd have felt more fulfilled with another Aquarius though.
You're absolutely right. Over the years, I think this obsession that I have is because I just need to understand why certain events happened or why certain people behaved a certain way. I find myself telling people I trust the same story (seemingly) but every time I tell it, although it sounds the same, internally it's not. Every time I share the same details, it's me uncovering all the layers. I have told people that have pushed me and hurt me repeatedly, that they're lucky that I still care/like them, and what they don't realize is how true it is, because once I am turned off by a situation, it's OVER like it never happened.
I think the trigger is amazement in all cases. I have had many moments of amazement, and I always get way too deep into whatever it is, wheher it is a person or subject or thing. I simply try to work through the obsession to a conclusion because a conclusion tends to kill it off and let me get back to normalishness.
This is sooooo freaking true. Once the obsession is over it’s really over. But I never looked at it like this but what I do to get the thought out of my head I delete everything of that person. Text pic snap pic and in a few days is over. Like u said that little piece is missing and ur intuition
omg that’s so weird! my sun sign is cancer but my dominant sign is aquarius and i know exactly what you are talking about! the only difference is that i do everything that i can for the person that i’m obsessed with , try to always be by their side and shower them with my love haha and i don’t ask for anything in return. so in that case i think it’s kinda obvious that i have feelings. but the funniest thing is that as you said one freaking instagram picture , or one glance at a person , or one single word that came out of their mouth can change EVERYTHING.. it freaks me out but at the same time it’s kind of a relief. the only problem is the person doesn’t realize what they did wrong and i can’t explain it to them either..
Y'all are freaking me out. I'm Sag female and I act just ike this to people...and things that I highly obsess over and then lose interest in with a quickness...never to return. LMAO Update: I have Aquarius in the 6th, the mental house. Now I understand why I do this!
What up Aquarian brother and sisters? This is so true. I think its because our minds are so active, naturally, that we often get stuck in our thoughts and dreams. But at same time all the sudden it can totally just shut off so fast suddenly. Thanks for sharing this!!! I am so guilty of this.
Very true. I feel the same way: unless and until I need a logical explanation or my mind is constantly in a rollercoaster ride. But I think I've overcome this with a simple trick. And it works.
I can definitely relate I've always obsessed over things in my life since I can remember as a kid. It doesn't matter if it is a object, hobby, person or an idea. I've gone to the end of the earth researchimg, thinking about or trying to get any information about it. It's been something that I have struggled with my whole life and to the point that it's even been detrimental to my wellbeing. It's for sure one of an Aquarius traits.
Wow! To hear this is a bit scary because I can relate like crazy! We are very unique “psychic” individuals ♥️ once we are turned off, we’re turned off! I’m glad to know there are so many other people like me‼️
I was really surprised how much I can relate on all of this, never knew that some other people felt that kind of way or even thought about it. I know you said that this video isn't for us, aquarians, but I really really enjoyed it, thanks lots!!
Air is also interacting with others. They are often called cold because they filter their feelings thru the mind than the heart. Again... if they have water moon, mercury, ... they may be emotional!? We're akk like snow flakes; all have heads, arms, a heart to pump blood, etc... BUT! We're all very different aren't we?? ❤ I LOVE THIS!! CAN SHOP TALK ALLLLL DAY!😅❤ And too many other layers to the onion to say much of anything else! ☆♡☆
Thank you for this video. I'm currently, for the last 3 months roughly, been dealing with an Aquarius guy, I say dealing with because we're not together but we're not exactly just friends but we've both admitted that the feelings are there. He's very difficult at times but even though you say someone would never know when the obsession is there I know it is lol and this video cleared up a few questions I had. Thank you for everything you do! 💕Tara
Wow! This is so true. Plus it's been on every job I've ever had before retirement. Besides ppl. I often wondered why I was like this. Yet never quite understood completely. Ty for letting me know more about me, just my sign. Lol.
This is so true!! I've noticed it just as much with subjects as with people. I voraciously consume everything about a certain subject (say Egyptology, for example) sometimes for years, and then suddenly lose interest, and don't ever look at anything about it again. I've always thought it was strange when this happened, and so pleased to hear that it's an Aquarius thing and not just me!
Omg my eyes are teary, it's sounds like you're describing me. because we don't fall in love easy but we fall hard. It's very hard being an Aquarius because we're so misunderstood. I'm attracted to intellectuals, if a man has nothing interesting to talk about it's a turnoff for me, he has no chance with me, don't matter how good looking or nice he is... if a man is boring move along pls I'm to loyal to be stuck all my life with an empty shell or a boring guy, he has to always want to learn and explore new things and must trust me.🙏🏼❤️️
Man u just opened the book like wide open lol ..bt its good and helpful it's High time poeple new we ain't cold or crazy we just don't put up with bs we just highly analytical and don't like exposing our emotions very often all my life people have had troubles understanding me even my own family don't get me at times thanx for the vid👊
Hi Rich , always a fan to your channel . I always enjoy your readings. What I'm about to say , And I do say this to all the tarot readers who's channel I visit too as well , I just want to say , thanks for being in my life's journey. I'm thankful to have people as your self in my life . You all tarot readers are incredible people and are an inspiration to me. The readings always helped my mind and soul to be stable . I do readings only for myself , whenever I get a chance , because it helps me to relieve stress and as well as it helps me to plant my feet in this world in order for me to be stable , and focused , in which it keeps my life on track. It helps me to be a strong and wise human being. I never missed any of your readings . Once again , thanks always and always a fan here.
Right on point brother can't make it happen beg it to stop but once its flipped it's over I don't know how many times I try to tell people once I stop caring I'm done they don't believe it
Totally makes sense 100%. Currently in that fixated state of mind if I'm honest and it's driving me mental. It's old emotions that I thought had gone many, many years ago then about 2 weeks ago, Boom!!!,... it hit me like a ton of bricks again as I learned something new I never knew and the appeal was rebooted and heightened. Can't turn it off but that's life. lol But everything you say makes total sense. Absolutely can relate.
I'm Scorpio ascending Aquarius...and I do this... Although, I don't forget my beloved at all... However, I've had a very unexpected and profound experience with an Aquarius and this is helping me understand it better..
This is absolutely insane because I've never once heard of this being an Aquarius trait!!! I've always felt like it's either a mental health issue that I have (ADHD, OCD) or, trauma related ( my way of dissociating!). I've been diagnosed with all of this and more. Whatever it is, I have always hyper fixated/obsessed over anything & anyone that captures my attention. My husband. My husband's ex. Something someone did to me. Something I did to someone. Conversations with anyone. My phone settings. Learning about anything (I'm constantly educating myself. I rarely "waste" time on pointless stuff) etc. This has been a huge problem all my life. I couldn't finish high school or college. I've lost friends and family. Now, it's actually a huge part of my disability. For me personally, I believe it's more trauma related. My trauma which started as a very young child and has repeated throughout my entire lifetime, was extreme mental/emotional/sexual abuse. I have Borderline Personality Disorder along with multiple other complex trauma related diagnoses. Despite the unfathomable abuse and being suicidal all my life, I have always faught to survive. I'm not a quitter. I just wish I knew how to quit obsessing! I'm finally doing intensive healing work 24/7/365. I plan to ask my therapist about this and see what she says. I'm wondering, how much you understood about trauma when you made this video, Rich? I know I didn't know anything at all until just 2 years ago. I'm a proud Aquarius ♒💜 and a proud natural redhead. I've always said I got the double wamey with that combination. Add complex trauma and it's beyond comprehension that I'm not dead or in prison LMAO!
God you are sooooooooo right on the money...I can obsess over people, places, and/or things. I'm like a pit bull that won't let go. lol Believe me I can drive myself nuts. I have to laugh bc it's so true...first thing I think of when I wake up and last thing I think about when I go to bed. I get obsessive bc I'm trying to figure it out...that is figure out why people do, or say, or are the way they are. It can be difficult trying to figure out another person intentions.
I feel like we get stuck looping because we refuse to validate our deep emotion behind a thing and we like to figure shit out and know how it works. So a lot of times we’ll rationalize ourselves out of the way we feel and try and understand it mechanically. But the way to end a loop is to feel it deeply and validate the reason that the subject is compelling you in the first place. There are numerous ways to do this but eft helps, really knowing the value of your mental creative space and what you allow to take space there. And valuing internal peace and harmony above all else; So that peace and ease is more valuable to you than solving the loop itself. Could give many examples but hope it’s helpful😄💖
So true! I am an Aquarius (female) & psychologist!!! So crazy combination!! I feel often not normal 😎 but I know we are all special! Happy to be an ♒️!!!
So true. When I see the truth. Or someone lies to Me . I am done . And I mean done .....like you were never in my life . we think our self to death to find the piece .
This is so true. I have had obsessions with serial killers, rare medical diseases, aliens,ghosts and all kinds of weird stuff. Yes people also but when the person doesn't match up to what I built in my mind it's just like you said a switch goes off. I can't get away from them fast enough. It's bad. Lol
I do that ... when I’m disappointed in someone. I get up pissed off at that person and go to sleep pissed off about it. It’s annoying, so I try to pick up a new project so I can let it go.
I feel like that is called “desire” and it leads to attachment. It can also spiral into other ideas. The obsession is desire at its core. It leads to suffering. It’s probably because of the love for knowledge and knowing. You want or desire to know it in its completeness.
So true I love it, l love it, I love it, I love it..oh I hate..moving on.. This is so spot on didn't know it was an Aquarian trait, makes perfect sense now!
Rich, this came up on my homepage 2yrs after & I'm totally going through this right now so thank you for pointing it out to me. The switch has nearly flipped for me, I just need to push it!! 😂😂 my family say I put blinkers on like a racehorse & when I'm focused there's no going back 🤷💖💖
Please don't explain anymore. People will never understand us. Only the people who really love us. We just get it. They don't. It's all good tho. Look up who is Aqua. Thanks Rich. ♡
There is this girl I’m falling for and everything about her I’m in love with. Her voice, I’ve even wrote poems about her and sometimes I didn’t even know I wrote them about her I just “blindly” wrote them. The first thing I wake up thinking out and last thing I think about befor I go to bed. It was scary at first. I luckily didn’t scare her off. I care/d so much, luckily she knows and appreciates how much I love her. . I’m like that with any passion as well my mind doesn’t turn off but it can easily just one day go away like it was never there and that can equally be scary.
Wow this hits home hard! It's so true, when it comes to music for me, I would be too embarrassed towards myself to give a "human" the time of day though! :D
I’m an Aquarius moon and rising and I understand this so well. The obsession does make you question yourself. However, I believe mine was even worse because I am a Pisces sun and the daydreaming was so powerful for me. The whole waking up and it’s the first thing on your mind and doing it all day and all the time is exhausting af.
Once I am fixated on something I have to work through it. I can't just drop it. It has to run it's course. I have 1 person I can share my feelings with and I have to talk it out if it is a problem I am dealing with. Love your videos.
I'm sagittarius with aquarius rising. I'm dealing with an aquarius for first time. Trying to understand him better. Even though this video is older its helping me. Aquarians do seem unemotional & fixated from what I've seen. Thanks for the info
I hate how quick and easy it is for me to forgive and to forget And that gets me in trouble because I don't learn lessons. And you are 100% right when I don't care I won't remember your face I won't remember a conversation I had with you
Hey Rich say that obsession thing you was talking about. I want to thank you for sharing that with me my friend. I believe in my heart that you enlighten me on the love of my life. I'm a Virgo and she is an Aquarius. From the time we met, we was together for 3 years off and on. And I say this because little did I know that she was my Twin Flame. And it wasn't til after I broke up with her for the 100th time. Did God wake me up to inform me who she was. Before this I had no idea what a Twin Flame Soulmate was. Nor did I believe in that bullshit. But I treated her better than I treated myself. I've never loved anyone like this. I changed my ways for her without her knowing. I wanted to everything to her. But I now believe that she felt the same for me but she deals with that issue you come clean about. Thank you again for that. And I think this and I had her in her head so much that it was every 99 times that we had split up. But we always ran back to each other and fell in love again until I just had enough. If you know the Twin Flame Soulmate dynamic. It's the most amazing relationship created by God or I like to look at it like this. God created Adam and Eve. So just as he did that for Adam he did that for Rich. He created the perfect woman for you. He created the perfect woman for me. But if you are unaware of God or you was taught to be with as many girls as you can by your father or you grew up and got involved in drugs or what ever that you never become spiritual, well you would never have an understanding of this and would probably never realized it if you met your twin flame soulmate. But in the back of your mind you will have that one girl that you always thought about that got away or something to that effect. Well I found mine. There is so much more to the connection it's crazy. It's the most perfect amazing relationship but it comes with a test. And that is fix all the fucked up things about yourself and what you do she will come back to you. But I think she had that thing you said and she didn't know how to deal with it plus everything that comes with the twin flame connection. We was amazing together and this scared her because she became obsessing over me and became to much I her head. It freaked her out. And I had no idea she doesn't express those types of emotions. I want to thank you for sharing that my friend. you helped me to understand her better. And love her more knowing that she was dealing with unexplainable things. There is no way she would have ever of told me something like that in fear that I would not except her. So she would create a fight on purpose to end it trying to figure out what was going on. She has blocked me from her whole life.
Angela Hamlett So True if ppl really knew who we truly are they would never want to leave our side. I pray that Universe sends me a Aquarian man, because the Leo, Pisces and Libra never understood me ... I always was loyal to them, but not them too me😓 oh well their loss not mine - that's why they can never find peace after me, and they still want me back but once I turn my back I'm done even if it kills me too.
Wow! First time I read Something like this and I absolutely love it! That’s what I’ve being doing all my life, to find my place, and although I am 37 years old, is getting sooooo easier now. I started by saying NO to the people I love, but because I did not want to be there anymore, and I started to say yes to new opportunities, even though I have no idea of what was coming. But I have been trusting the universe and always vibrating on the good when I have to embrace whatever new that is coming. In reference to love relationship, I believe I am not ready. Even to be with the one that I love (and obsessed about it). I don’t text him, don’t call him, don’t do anything other than keep him in my head when I am not working. So I am always making myself busy to stop thinking about him, and everyday I train my mind to let go of him, and sending him love wherever he is. But I honestly think that I am not ready to be with him, because I know that he wants to build a beautiful family, and that he wants me there by his side, and at this moment, all I want to do is to connect with lots of people and send them high vibrations, at work or just walking at the streets, anywhere without showing to no one. And I feel it makes a huge difference. So I don’t want to lose my freedom that I can use to “heal” others , and just focus in one person. This is wrong I feel, But Stubborn and fixed as I am, I can’t change my mind for now until I feel that what I’ve being doing is enough. I call it Life stages!
Butterfly on a Pearl sorry for u bad experiences with those zodiac signs. People are all different and unique, as u are. Wish u a beautiful and true relationship. Love from a cancer woman
Well. This is pretty real for me. The obsession definitely comes at random, unexpected times. No matter how long it lasts, once the switch flips....that’s it. I hardly even remember the person or thing. I’ve been trying to channel this tendency and refocus it into the work I am actually passionate about. I’m trying to be intentional about work/life balance so that I don’t exhaust my mental space to a point of no return. But it’s so hard because when I’m passionate (sometimes obsessive) about my work, I don’t want to stop. I don’t want to quit. Sometimes I feel like a can’t. My Capricorn friend jokes around and tells me I’m one of them 😂 But my work ethic changes significantly when I obsess over something. I went into business with my sister 2 years ago. I woke up, built the business, went to bed, and repeated that cycle every day. This went on for 8 months. Then one day I wake up and realize that I no longer see myself running that business. It was so easy to leave. Mentally. Emotionally. When I disconnected myself that was it. Now, when I look back, I can’t fathom how/why I put so much of my energy into it. One of the mysteries that is Aquarius I suppose.
My ex was aquarius.. loved him but could not understand him. I tried but it was tough.. but I did tried for 12 yrs.. .this year in Jan was enough .. Cheated on me while I was so happy that I had moved up the company..and it was a chance that I was taking because he worked so much and not getting paid a lot. But then I found out that the reason why he was not getting paid is because he would take loans out from his boss .. for hotels. Or tools. Just a hot mess. Well I guess that will say the obsession.
When we look like we don’t care, we are hurt inside..... we are deeply in love with humanity yet deeply disappointed.... oh and we live in our head ALL THE TIME
Yes so true.
So true bruh😭
@@aashiguptaofficiall Words don't express, but actions do.
funkyfacy you nailed it, long live humanity that we know we gotta fix but don’t know how we are going to get them to understand what is clearly beyond them . . . to us anyway lols. So we go to Aqua-Universe... within.
Impulse Ska exactly same he does to me :( ... he keeps doing back and forth and distances and blocks and then unblocks . It’s been 9 years :( inspite of everything I do everything to make him feel spl but he doesn’t react to my doings now :(
I'm Aquarius and I approve this message
Matt David-Matthews yes right
Same🙋🏼
Same here.
I am virgo my bf is aqua but why Aquarius dont clear their emotion opinion during conversation why they are rude and cold hearted why they hide their emotion he hurts me a lot 😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭why they teasing too much why😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭my heart and also my soul is crying at this time😭 how can I do for him I have been tired 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻plz aqua don't repeat again I will die soon
Matt David-Matthews hahahahahahaha me too!
Omg... I’m Aquarius and you are RIGHT.. it’s the craziest thing lol but when we get “bored “ with it it’s cut off like a light switch lol
Thank u for being so truthful..my husband is a capicorn aquarius..yea wow!!! Blessings
Definately get bored lol
Tonya Bryant Aqua is fickle
Yup..it happens to me all the time😂👌🏻
I'm an aquarius rising and this holds true for us too:) it can be a blessing or a curse .
It's like getting to the bottom of everything. Research like no one else does. The idea is just to know more than anyone else does. Aquarius lives for knowledge in its purest form.
sonika thakran
Yes, yes and yes, but we're so misunderstood all the times! 😢
Yes, yes and yes. I couldn't of said it better. 👍
Facts I took an interest in finance in June now it’s October lol I fully understand how to build wealth now 😂
Couldn’t agree more
OK, thank you. I thought I was losing my shit. I am so obsessed with new things, and then when I figure it out, it becomes boring, and I walk away. It has always been a frustrating habit, so it's helpful to know that it's not just me!
As an Aquarius myself, you won’t ever be able to turn that obsessive quality off. The object of that obsession is a hidden truth about life that you’re instinctively trying to learn every single time. It is so hard for us to see what we don’t know that when we sense there is something we don’t know yet we become obsessed with figuring it out or uncovering that hidden truth. Be it a person, an outcome, a desire, a dream, an idea...we will uncover every stone to find that hidden truth if we sense it. Otherwise, we don’t give a damn bc we already know everything.
Ronnie Phillips that’s it!
OMG YES
Facts!
Good to know because I thought I was crazy
Yes, it's never ending, we just have to know. Knowledge is power to us. ✌
Omg!!! When I feel something strongly about someone it becomes an obsession n if I don't get them it takes a toll on me. I will let go in the physical but in the mind I STRUGGLE TO LET IT GO! It can even take me into this depression for a bit until I snap out of it. I HATE IT.
lee omg yessss I hate it too
Me too...like i've been obseesed with one person for like 6 years or something...and it still hasn't completely gone away. I don't know how to stop it. I probably sound insane😅
lee
Not easy being us is it, we care to damn much, we love to hard, we're 100% loyal, yet we can't seem to meet the right men, yet I see some other women that are disloyal, liars, thieves etc.etc.. get married to the nicest men 😳😳😳smh.
Uuggghh oml same😢😢
Damn, yup, yup.
Well am convinced that we have the potential to become psychotic, that's if we aren't already psychotic
definitely!!! I am Aquarius and the last year was the worst year in my life...I got into deep depression and psychosis I was crazy as hell I had doubt if I am even a human or not...overthinking everything until it will get shit out of me...I don't take any meds..I don't visit a psychiatrist..everyday I try to get on with this abnormal thing called "my mind"...we cannot deal with emotions well, we are trapped in our head...thats where all of these problems come I guess...I am so happy to found out this video and your comment...wish you good luck :)
Your right. Depending on the length of time of the relationship. But at that point we can be craaaaaazy.
I believe that we’re psychotic as well as sane. See, our psychosis won’t kill us because we have the mental tools to switch it up and fix it.
😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@hanakmotorkova2382 the fact you are aware of it and feel that way towards it makes you less crazy than you may think you are
Exactly! You were right on point! It becomes this obsession but one thing that helps me is: as soon as I see that I am getting into this that I call “trap”, I start to “try” to disconnect from it. I do everything I can to distract myself from it. Meditation, being present, instead of trying to understand. It feels just like an abstinence symptom. If it’s related to a person, I used to think that that person was actually a psychopath and I was the “victim “, then, after other few people, I sometimes thought that I could be the psycopath, then later I’ve learned with lots of self studying that I could not be, because I did react very emotionally that it hurts and it hurts also to know that I would just walk away from that person’s life without even looking back so easily. I’m so glad to know that I am not the only one that struggles with this. My brother, also an Aquarian, acts the same! He doesn’t ever talk with me about it, but I see how he gets obsessed with something, sometimes in a short term, others in a longer term, and suddenly loses his interest on it! Thank you for your video!
I am Aquarius too. This is so true . I wonder if we have a tendency to obsess about things like financial issues and other things. It is the thing on my mind at night and in the morning like you said. I have to listen to meditation tapes to put my mind to positive things. Thanks Rich. Gonna watch this a bunch of times lol 😊
Aquarius here!! Agreed completely. I have been obsessed and addicted to a woman, an idea, a bad habit, etc. Yes, you’re right. I get obsessed over a person who displays qualities and traits that the majority of people don’t display. I’ve learned to control it. I just bury myself in my life purpose and work.
I always thought everyone had those kinds of obsessions!
But then again I never wanna admit when I‘m obsessed with something or a person because to other people it always seems completely random and crazy and they never get it.
It's possible for people to become obsessive, but I believe that Aquarians might suffer a bit more.
But Aquarius will hide it while others won't. This is what has me pretty convinced that it hits aquarius harder.
And deep down we dont forgive.
Cuss we can’t forget no matter how hard we try
I can't even do it superficial.I just don't FORGIVE.
Exactly
We only forgive to benefit peace with our Soul..
I forgive and move on never to go that route again! The person or thing will know it!
I'm a Gemini and what you said about Aquarius relates to me as well. I get obsessive and analyse people and situations in great detail. I can think about them for hours or as long as I figure things out. If I like a guy, he'll be on my mind even when I'm doing something else like working, reading, writing, whatever. I analyse our conversations, places we've been to, everything. Eventually I try to focus on something else because it's exhausting to think about someone over and over again.
I think it's difficult to build long-lasting relationships when you're an air sign. At least, it's extremely difficult for me.
The Aquarius can obsess in silence for years lol.
Thank the gods it's only hours for you😁🙃😊
This is me too and I recently became obsessed over this acquarius guy. I mean I was drawn to him love at first sight. Now I can’t get this man off my mind I tried to sabotage it by sending him a email telling him bye but now I’m going crazy. I want to call him so bad but I don’t know if he feels the same way and I don’t want to be crazy.
I agree with the "episodes" thing. I feel like, when something, or someone interests me, I just have to eat up everything thing about it- I want to KNOW it! All! Right now! And the second I see something in that "research" that doesn't make sense, or proves it's not worth my time- CUT! ITs a wrap! You are spot on with this vid. Made me laugh, and cringe a little, lol
Beth Skinner Oml same♒️
Geminis the same way...Exactly!
You gave me a good laugh thanks... especially when you talked about the cut-off switch. For me it's like a door slams and then it melds with the wall... No more door :) That's been happening to me ALL my life. I've been there and done that (trying to work it out)... there's NO point!
My perspective is to try to recognise it (obsession), know how it affects you, try to channel/control it. When the feelings are low (sad/pain), then recognise that you can't change/fix it, accept it (the feelings), allow yourself to go through it because the sooner you do the better off you'll be. At the end of the day... you know the switch will appear when you need it.
PS. We only have the power to change ourselves... namaste... sorry, feeling a bit chatty ;)
At least for me I dont see the need for you to apologize. I find the way you talk very beautiful :).
I'm not an Aquarius but I have a friend who is an Aquarius. I'm a Scorpio and I find the overwhelming part and OCD comes from your intelligence. Being a Scorpio it comes from out feelings which all Scorpio"s know we can't shut those feelings off even in the darkest times of our lives. So you're fixed intelligence and Scorpio is fixed feelings. I don't know why your old videos came up on my feed. I'm subscribed to your videos and I've learned so much from you giving advice. I may be lots older but it's never too late to learn something new... thanks for all that you do.❤
This video is so spot on. Thanks for posting.
I'm an Aquarius and most people just don't get it....
I was really in denial about this, but hearing you talk about it opened my eyes and I really do get obsessive with a lot of things.
"🤯POOF🤯 YOU JUST BLEW MY MIND" I'm an aquarius and you are %100% on point glad to know its not just me who is like this. Thank you
Im aquarius new to your channel, I agree when we are done with someone they are completely done and dead to us.
I love you man. I feel like I am the one talking. Never have I seen or heard another person describe an Aquarius like you’re doing. Keep up the good work man. Yes, we do have this “obsessive quality” to us and it can be very good or very detrimental.
I’m a Sagittarius and an Aquarian loves me so much, she’s so wild and crazy
I’m more passionate and observe her actions it’s like I don’t know how to make myself happy with her. I love her so much but I’m not that hyper like her
You mentioned that we as aquarius will fixate on a thing continuously if we really like it. This happens to me & is currently happening with specific persons at the moment. What I notice about this for me is that if it is something I greatly desire to have & experience, All of my visions come to pass when I fixate on them. I had to learn to ask myself, why Is it I want this thing? What values does it bring to me? How can I make this come to pass? This is a great gift. I started to realize that this is the direct blueprint on manifesting your dreams. If you apply action at the right time. If you get that you are planting seeds in your minds eye with vision that you want to experience in your physical. After you decide what you want to do with the vision. Experience it or not then move accordingly.
Well that is why most geniuses are born under Aquarius sign. I think once they fixated on that ideas they seek to make it happened. Most of my physics and maths and even my life problems were solved when I kept it under microscope. I have to say that it is tiring..... because it takes your entire energy..... we are problem solvers......that is the reason.
I'm obsessed with anything paranormal, physics, animals, and my husband. I've been obsessed with him since we met 25yrs ago. I think I overwhelm ppl with my obsessions and can turn them off sometimes. I do wish I could quiet my mind. I keep trying meditation but I either have such loud thoughts and can't stay focused or I fall asleep. I do think our obsessions are for a purpose just like other signs have their purpose. My best friend is an Aquarius and he's the ONLY one who gets me. He lives in England and we've never even met but in four years we've never missed a day of not writing and sharing our obsessions. He happens to have the same one's as me. Go figure. We are much more suited for each other than my Taurus husband, but yet I've stayed with him and have always been faithful. I do think I'd have felt more fulfilled with another Aquarius though.
It is!! We will evaluate, research, study...it is very interesting. And it doesn't feel normal! 🤣🤣🤣
You're absolutely right. Over the years, I think this obsession that I have is because I just need to understand why certain events happened or why certain people behaved a certain way. I find myself telling people I trust the same story (seemingly) but every time I tell it, although it sounds the same, internally it's not. Every time I share the same details, it's me uncovering all the layers. I have told people that have pushed me and hurt me repeatedly, that they're lucky that I still care/like them, and what they don't realize is how true it is, because once I am turned off by a situation, it's OVER like it never happened.
I think the trigger is amazement in all cases. I have had many moments of amazement, and I always get way too deep into whatever it is, wheher it is a person or subject or thing.
I simply try to work through the obsession to a conclusion because a conclusion tends to kill it off and let me get back to normalishness.
Chet Wise 😣
Awesome thank you RICH!!!
This is sooooo freaking true. Once the obsession is over it’s really over. But I never looked at it like this but what I do to get the thought out of my head I delete everything of that person. Text pic snap pic and in a few days is over. Like u said that little piece is missing and ur intuition
omg that’s so weird! my sun sign is cancer but my dominant sign is aquarius and i know exactly what you are talking about! the only difference is that i do everything that i can for the person that i’m obsessed with , try to always be by their side and shower them with my love haha and i don’t ask for anything in return. so in that case i think it’s kinda obvious that i have feelings. but the funniest thing is that as you said one freaking instagram picture , or one glance at a person , or one single word that came out of their mouth can change EVERYTHING.. it freaks me out but at the same time it’s kind of a relief. the only problem is the person doesn’t realize what they did wrong and i can’t explain it to them either..
Yup... that's a big side effect of aquarius energy
Y'all are freaking me out. I'm Sag female and I act just ike this to people...and things that I highly obsess over and then lose interest in with a quickness...never to return. LMAO Update: I have Aquarius in the 6th, the mental house. Now I understand why I do this!
What up Aquarian brother and sisters? This is so true. I think its because our minds are so active, naturally, that we often get stuck in our thoughts and dreams. But at same time all the sudden it can totally just shut off so fast suddenly. Thanks for sharing this!!! I am so guilty of this.
I just happen to stumble on your video dude and you are soooo right about us! It's happens randomly, like out of nowhere...
Very true. I feel the same way: unless and until I need a logical explanation or my mind is constantly in a rollercoaster ride. But I think I've overcome this with a simple trick. And it works.
I'M Aquarius. Oh yes that analysing, everything. I say stop it and I force myself to stare at something like a candle flame or a tree.
I can definitely relate I've always obsessed over things in my life
since I can remember as a kid.
It doesn't matter if it is a object, hobby, person or an idea. I've gone to the end of the earth researchimg,
thinking about or trying to get any information about it. It's been something that I have struggled with my whole life and to the point that it's even been detrimental to my wellbeing. It's for sure one of an Aquarius traits.
running that loop in the mind over and over and over...:) megan lin is on point! thanks bro spot on
I'm an Aquarius...And finally someone gets me. You got us down pat dude.💯♒💜
Wow! To hear this is a bit scary because I can relate like crazy! We are very unique “psychic” individuals ♥️ once we are turned off, we’re turned off! I’m glad to know there are so many other people like me‼️
I was really surprised how much I can relate on all of this, never knew that some other people felt that kind of way or even thought about it. I know you said that this video isn't for us, aquarians, but I really really enjoyed it, thanks lots!!
Air is also interacting with others.
They are often called cold because they filter their feelings thru the mind than the heart. Again... if they have water moon, mercury, ... they may be emotional!? We're akk like snow flakes; all have heads, arms, a heart to pump blood, etc... BUT! We're all very different aren't we?? ❤
I LOVE THIS!! CAN SHOP TALK ALLLLL DAY!😅❤
And too many other layers to the onion to say much of anything else! ☆♡☆
Hey bro .. I was born feb 10 ‘ I am 22 , I came across your videos & I really enjoyed it . Much love from nyc !
Thank you for this video. I'm currently, for the last 3 months roughly, been dealing with an Aquarius guy, I say dealing with because we're not together but we're not exactly just friends but we've both admitted that the feelings are there. He's very difficult at times but even though you say someone would never know when the obsession is there I know it is lol and this video cleared up a few questions I had. Thank you for everything you do! 💕Tara
Wow ! You are so correct. It's a DONE DEAL! Fixed Air
Wow! This is so true. Plus it's been on every job I've ever had before retirement. Besides ppl. I often wondered why I was like this. Yet never quite understood completely. Ty for letting me know more about me, just my sign. Lol.
This is so true!! I've noticed it just as much with subjects as with people. I voraciously consume everything about a certain subject (say Egyptology, for example) sometimes for years, and then suddenly lose interest, and don't ever look at anything about it again. I've always thought it was strange when this happened, and so pleased to hear that it's an Aquarius thing and not just me!
Definitely correct and sometimes I find it extremely annoying. Constantly trying to switch it off or change my focus to something else.
Omg my eyes are teary, it's sounds like you're describing me.
because we don't fall in love easy but we fall hard. It's very hard being an Aquarius because we're so misunderstood.
I'm attracted to intellectuals, if a man has nothing interesting to talk about it's a turnoff for me, he has no chance with me, don't matter how good looking or nice he is... if a man is boring move along pls I'm to loyal to be stuck all my life with an empty shell or a boring guy, he has to always want to learn and explore new things and must trust me.🙏🏼❤️️
I love you for this dude! Damn this shit is so real and true! It feels good to know it's not just me.
Man u just opened the book like wide open lol ..bt its good and helpful it's High time poeple new we ain't cold or crazy we just don't put up with bs we just highly analytical and don't like exposing our emotions very often all my life people have had troubles understanding me even my own family don't get me at times thanx for the vid👊
I totally agree. I'm Aquarius and everything that was said in this video is sooo true!!
Hi Rich , always a fan to your channel . I always enjoy your readings. What I'm about to say , And I do say this to all the tarot readers who's channel I visit too as well , I just want to say , thanks for being in my life's journey. I'm thankful to have people as your self in my life . You all tarot readers are incredible people and are an inspiration to me. The readings always helped my mind and soul to be stable . I do readings only for myself , whenever I get a chance , because it helps me to relieve stress and as well as it helps me to plant my feet in this world in order for me to be stable , and focused , in which it keeps my life on track. It helps me to be a strong and wise human being. I never missed any of your readings . Once again , thanks always and always a fan here.
I’m so glad I came across this video ❤
I'm a Sagittarius and I always have understood and gotten along well with Aquarius
Im an Aquarius and my best friend and kindred spirit is a Sagittarius 💜 he's the only one I trust with my obsessions 😜
Right. I'm Sagittarius too.
Same here!
Yes same, Sag and Aqua ist the best combination, this is a fact
Omg indeed im a sag i love aquarius
wow this came up many more beautiful blessings to you and family love be sober every day thankful for your gift😊
Right on point brother can't make it happen beg it to stop but once its flipped it's over I don't know how many times I try to tell people once I stop caring I'm done they don't believe it
Hi I'm watching in dammam aquarios here.. God bless u 🙏🙏🙏
Totally makes sense 100%. Currently in that fixated state of mind if I'm honest and it's driving me mental. It's old emotions that I thought had gone many, many years ago then about 2 weeks ago, Boom!!!,... it hit me like a ton of bricks again as I learned something new I never knew and the appeal was rebooted and heightened. Can't turn it off but that's life. lol But everything you say makes total sense. Absolutely can relate.
I approve everything about this channel!!!
I'm Scorpio ascending Aquarius...and I do this...
Although, I don't forget my beloved at all...
However, I've had a very unexpected and profound experience with an Aquarius and this is helping me understand it better..
As a fellow aquarius, I've literally never related to anything more lol. Every video I've watched that you've done is soooo relatable!
This is absolutely insane because I've never once heard of this being an Aquarius trait!!! I've always felt like it's either a mental health issue that I have (ADHD, OCD) or, trauma related ( my way of dissociating!).
I've been diagnosed with all of this and more.
Whatever it is, I have always hyper fixated/obsessed over anything & anyone that captures my attention. My husband. My husband's ex. Something someone did to me. Something
I did to someone. Conversations with anyone.
My phone settings.
Learning about anything (I'm constantly educating myself. I rarely "waste" time on pointless stuff) etc.
This has been a huge problem all my life. I couldn't finish high school or college. I've lost friends and family. Now, it's actually a huge part of my disability.
For me personally, I believe it's more trauma related. My trauma which started as a very young child and has repeated throughout my entire lifetime, was extreme mental/emotional/sexual abuse. I have Borderline Personality Disorder along with multiple other complex trauma related diagnoses. Despite the unfathomable abuse and being suicidal all my life, I have always faught to survive. I'm not a quitter. I just wish I knew how to quit obsessing!
I'm finally doing intensive healing work 24/7/365. I plan to ask my therapist about this and see what she says. I'm wondering, how much you understood about trauma when you made this video, Rich? I know I didn't know anything at all until just 2 years ago. I'm a proud Aquarius ♒💜 and a proud natural redhead. I've always said I got the double wamey with that combination. Add complex trauma and it's beyond comprehension that I'm not dead or in prison LMAO!
God you are sooooooooo right on the money...I can obsess over people, places, and/or things. I'm like a pit bull that won't let go. lol Believe me I can drive myself nuts. I have to laugh bc it's so true...first thing I think of when I wake up and last thing I think about when I go to bed. I get obsessive bc I'm trying to figure it out...that is figure out why people do, or say, or are the way they are. It can be difficult trying to figure out another person intentions.
I feel like we get stuck looping because we refuse to validate our deep emotion behind a thing and we like to figure shit out and know how it works. So a lot of times we’ll rationalize ourselves out of the way we feel and try and understand it mechanically. But the way to end a loop is to feel it deeply and validate the reason that the subject is compelling you in the first place. There are numerous ways to do this but eft helps, really knowing the value of your mental creative space and what you allow to take space there. And valuing internal peace and harmony above all else; So that peace and ease is more valuable to you than solving the loop itself. Could give many examples but hope it’s helpful😄💖
So true! I am an Aquarius (female) & psychologist!!! So crazy combination!! I feel often not normal 😎 but I know we are all special! Happy to be an ♒️!!!
Thank you for this. It was spot on. It's all new to me I'm learning a lot
So true. When I see the truth. Or someone lies to Me . I am done . And I mean done .....like you were never in my life . we think our self to death to find the piece .
most people feel guilty about that, but i dont and love that about me. Do find this specific ability shameful or graceful?
@@philly1146 I think it's the way all people should be and then we wouldn't have as many lies out there
@@dawnzimmerman8916 hear you loud and clear soul brother:) Blessed are those who have clear vision.
Wow! Just what i needed to hear🙏🏿
I’ve been having a episode for the past few months. It’s doing my head in!
Omg! This is so true! I study people, ideas, interests, hobbies, psychology, etc. to death. I want to know what, who, how, why, when and where.
You are amazing for opening up! This is good content! Thank you!
This is so true. I have had obsessions with serial killers, rare medical diseases, aliens,ghosts and all kinds of weird stuff. Yes people also but when the person doesn't match up to what I built in my mind it's just like you said a switch goes off. I can't get away from them fast enough. It's bad. Lol
U are very right brother !
i felt as if somebody has given expression to my deep burried emotions Today !
I laughed so hard when you said that because it rang so true it drives me nuts so I laugh to keep me sane
I do that ... when I’m disappointed in someone. I get up pissed off at that person and go to sleep pissed off about it. It’s annoying, so I try to pick up a new project so I can let it go.
Thank you for sharing. Love the background by the way!!!!
I feel like that is called “desire” and it leads to attachment. It can also spiral into other ideas. The obsession is desire at its core. It leads to suffering.
It’s probably because of the love for knowledge and knowing. You want or desire to know it in its completeness.
So true I love it, l love it, I love it, I love it..oh I hate..moving on.. This is so spot on didn't know it was an Aquarian trait, makes perfect sense now!
Rich, this came up on my homepage 2yrs after & I'm totally going through this right now so thank you for pointing it out to me. The switch has nearly flipped for me, I just need to push it!! 😂😂 my family say I put blinkers on like a racehorse & when I'm focused there's no going back 🤷💖💖
Please don't explain anymore. People will never understand us. Only the people who really love us. We just get it. They don't. It's all good tho. Look up who is Aqua. Thanks Rich. ♡
Angela Hamlett they’ll never will but at least someone is speaking on our behalf
I really love u aquarians, u guys are amazing and so unique. From a cancer woman
There is this girl I’m falling for and everything about her I’m in love with. Her voice, I’ve even wrote poems about her and sometimes I didn’t even know I wrote them about her I just “blindly” wrote them. The first thing I wake up thinking out and last thing I think about befor I go to bed. It was scary at first. I luckily didn’t scare her off. I care/d so much, luckily she knows and appreciates how much I love her. . I’m like that with any passion as well my mind doesn’t turn off but it can easily just one day go away like it was never there and that can equally be scary.
Wow this hits home hard! It's so true, when it comes to music for me, I would be too embarrassed towards myself to give a "human" the time of day though! :D
So true! Its the only thing i dont like about us. But we all can get over are obsession it just takes time and the right thoughts.
Thanks I no longer feel crazy - validation very much welcomed and enjoyed
True 😄 Trying to get over This guy for Months now! Don’t know when it stops.
So true man. I know i habitually do it but just can't seem to let it go !
I’m an Aquarius moon and rising and I understand this so well. The obsession does make you question yourself. However, I believe mine was even worse because I am a Pisces sun and the daydreaming was so powerful for me. The whole waking up and it’s the first thing on your mind and doing it all day and all the time is exhausting af.
Once I am fixated on something I have to work through it. I can't just drop it. It has to run it's course. I have 1 person I can share my feelings with and I have to talk it out if it is a problem I am dealing with. Love your videos.
I'm Aquarius and this is so true.. all what you are saying I completely relate too it.
I'm sagittarius with aquarius rising. I'm dealing with an aquarius for first time. Trying to understand him better. Even though this video is older its helping me. Aquarians do seem unemotional & fixated from what I've seen. Thanks for the info
That's definitely the biggest secret... I can't believe that you really just told on US!!!! (you almost got me in my feelings,lol). Good work!!
I hate how quick and easy it is for me to forgive and to forget And that gets me in trouble because I don't learn lessons. And you are 100% right when I don't care I won't remember your face I won't remember a conversation I had with you
Aquarius here!!! Love your videos!
Hey Rich say that obsession thing you was talking about. I want to thank you for sharing that with me my friend. I believe in my heart that you enlighten me on the love of my life. I'm a Virgo and she is an Aquarius. From the time we met, we was together for 3 years off and on. And I say this because little did I know that she was my Twin Flame. And it wasn't til after I broke up with her for the 100th time. Did God wake me up to inform me who she was. Before this I had no idea what a Twin Flame Soulmate was. Nor did I believe in that bullshit. But I treated her better than I treated myself. I've never loved anyone like this. I changed my ways for her without her knowing. I wanted to everything to her. But I now believe that she felt the same for me but she deals with that issue you come clean about. Thank you again for that. And I think this and I had her in her head so much that it was every 99 times that we had split up. But we always ran back to each other and fell in love again until I just had enough. If you know the Twin Flame Soulmate dynamic. It's the most amazing relationship created by God or I like to look at it like this. God created Adam and Eve. So just as he did that for Adam he did that for Rich. He created the perfect woman for you. He created the perfect woman for me. But if you are unaware of God or you was taught to be with as many girls as you can by your father or you grew up and got involved in drugs or what ever that you never become spiritual, well you would never have an understanding of this and would probably never realized it if you met your twin flame soulmate. But in the back of your mind you will have that one girl that you always thought about that got away or something to that effect. Well I found mine. There is so much more to the connection it's crazy. It's the most perfect amazing relationship but it comes with a test. And that is fix all the fucked up things about yourself and what you do she will come back to you. But I think she had that thing you said and she didn't know how to deal with it plus everything that comes with the twin flame connection. We was amazing together and this scared her because she became obsessing over me and became to much I her head. It freaked her out. And I had no idea she doesn't express those types of emotions. I want to thank you for sharing that my friend. you helped me to understand her better. And love her more knowing that she was dealing with unexplainable things. There is no way she would have ever of told me something like that in fear that I would not except her. So she would create a fight on purpose to end it trying to figure out what was going on. She has blocked me from her whole life.
You speaking a word on here! This is facts. 🤯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤯.
We are obsesive. We must hook up to the right things, people and places we trust. Then we will soar. Ask Oprah!
Angela Hamlett
So True if ppl really knew who we truly are they would never want to leave our side.
I pray that Universe sends me a Aquarian man, because the Leo, Pisces and Libra never understood me ... I always was loyal to them, but not them too me😓 oh well their loss not mine - that's why they can never find peace after me, and they still want me back but once I turn my back I'm done even if it kills me too.
Wow! First time I read
Something like this and I absolutely love it! That’s what I’ve being doing all my life, to find my place, and although I am 37 years old, is getting sooooo easier now. I started by saying NO to the people I love, but because I did not want to be there anymore, and I started to say yes to new opportunities, even though I have no idea of what was coming. But I have been trusting the universe and always vibrating on the good when I have to embrace whatever new that is coming. In reference to love relationship, I believe I am not ready. Even to be with the one that I love (and obsessed about it). I don’t text him, don’t call him, don’t do anything other than keep him in my head when I am not working. So I am always making myself busy to stop thinking about him, and everyday I train my mind to let go of him, and sending him love wherever he is. But I honestly think that I am not ready to be with him, because I know that he wants to build a beautiful family, and that he wants me there by his side, and at this moment, all I want to do is to connect with lots of people and send them high vibrations, at work or just walking at the streets, anywhere without showing to no one. And I feel it makes a huge difference. So I don’t want to lose my freedom that I can use to “heal” others , and just focus in one person. This is wrong I feel, But
Stubborn and fixed as I am, I can’t change my mind for now until I feel that what I’ve being doing is enough. I call it Life stages!
Butterfly on a Pearl sorry for u bad experiences with those zodiac signs. People are all different and unique, as u are. Wish u a beautiful and true relationship. Love from a cancer woman
Thank you for that. Wow, brings so much perspective to the aquarian I am interested in.
Well. This is pretty real for me. The obsession definitely comes at random, unexpected times. No matter how long it lasts, once the switch flips....that’s it. I hardly even remember the person or thing. I’ve been trying to channel this tendency and refocus it into the work I am actually passionate about. I’m trying to be intentional about work/life balance so that I don’t exhaust my mental space to a point of no return. But it’s so hard because when I’m passionate (sometimes obsessive) about my work, I don’t want to stop. I don’t want to quit. Sometimes I feel like a can’t. My Capricorn friend jokes around and tells me I’m one of them 😂 But my work ethic changes significantly when I obsess over something. I went into business with my sister 2 years ago. I woke up, built the business, went to bed, and repeated that cycle every day. This went on for 8 months. Then one day I wake up and realize that I no longer see myself running that business. It was so easy to leave. Mentally. Emotionally. When I disconnected myself that was it. Now, when I look back, I can’t fathom how/why I put so much of my energy into it. One of the mysteries that is Aquarius I suppose.
My ex was aquarius.. loved him but could not understand him. I tried but it was tough.. but I did tried for 12 yrs.. .this year in Jan was enough .. Cheated on me while I was so happy that I had moved up the company..and it was a chance that I was taking because he worked so much and not getting paid a lot.
But then I found out that the reason why he was not getting paid is because he would take loans out from his boss .. for hotels. Or tools. Just a hot mess.
Well I guess that will say the obsession.