Confession: In part of this video, you’re walking out the door with a fabulous black purse on your shoulder. My only thought was “That is the perfect purse! Where did she get that purse? I must find that purse.” … and realized the irony immediately. 😁I’ve spent the last ten years minimizing my belongings, love the simplicity and don’t buy unless I need something ~ so this made me smile. Thanks for these videos, always a breath of fresh air!
Thrifting with a smaller budget left me with a lot of purchases that were ‘close enough’ or ‘it will do’ while I appreciate the use I have had of these items for a long time, they tend to multiply as one is always looking for a better version. Moving forward I am more intentional. Channels like yours help with this process- thank you!
Yes, yes, yes! Spot on! I’m 68 and trying to downsize a lifetime of belongings. Appreciation odds can be helpful at any age and for everyone struggling to minimize! Thank you
Absolutely. I’m 60 and finding the same to be true. I relate to this so much. And I too, hesitate to have people come over because I need to clean and tidy. I dont spend time with loved ones or friends. I am trying to get on top of this.
One question my husband always asks when I'm considering buying something is "Where will you put it?" I roll my eyes a little, but I know he's right 😅 It's especially useful with kitchen appliances, decor, and my biggest vice: houseplants
You are SO SO right on this. It took too long for me to realize that those packages generally delivered "disappointment" instead of the delight i had expected. 🤷🏼♀️
Your words speak so much to me. I have been on a minimalist journey for a year now and preach how much it has lessened my stress and anxiety. I tell people, less IS more!❤ Thank you for your videos 😊
Thank you, Elin. The concept of actively looking for flaws in an item, and asking myself whether the item proposed to be purchased will be *as* useful, utilized and appreciated as what I already own are golden concepts for me! 🎉
My problem has been that I'm very good at putting clothes together, and buying quality items, but my problem is that I just keep on doing it! I've ended up with tonnes of clothes, and it's been difficult to part with them, because they're all nice! However, I am in my last week of doing Project 333 and it's been life-changing. I've now got my 33 items and I'm so much happier. It's helped me to work out what my actual style is, and it's made getting dressed in the morning so much easier!
Very good suggestions about how to think about consuming. Although your examples are mostly about clothes, I think they are applicable to all aspects of one's surroundings. Sometimes, the term minimalism does not resonate well with people because they might think that they must for example adhere to a capsule wardrobe or live in a near empty house. Being intentional about what is in one's home or in one's wardrobe can look very different from person to person! Your videos emphasize this last point very well.
I can relate to this so much! I’m working on my relationship with “stuff,” and it’s making a huge difference. Thank you for helping me stay focused, Elin!
You are so right. Thank you. I went to sephora yesterday and I walked out with nothing. I am so proud of myself, because even though there was so many new things I didn't need anything. But...I love your makeup look. Would you tell us how to cut back on so many cosmetic items. Much appreciated.
Great ideas thank you!! As a psychologist, do you have some thoughts on the relationship between shopping/decluttering/hoarding behaviours and binge-eating? I sense there are connections in addictive behaviours but I would love if you could give me your thoughts on that subject👍🏻
I just discovered you, this is a great video. I have a lot of things in my Amazon cart as "saved for later" to think about. I'm going to go through those items, I'm sure I can delete half of them :)
Elin, this is so helpful for potential newly purchased objects. Currently, I'm struggling with parting with sentimental objects that I've inherited from multiple generations. I seem to be the unofficial keeper of family treasures. I've approached various family member hoping they would be interested in taking some of our family heirlooms, unfortunately no one is interested, much to my chagrin. I admit that I'm overly sentimental. So much so, that I can't bare the thought of anyone else, with the exception of family members, possessing our family treasures. What to do, what to do?
Many professionals recommend letting go of just one thing, waiting to see how you feel one day later, two days later, one week later. Andrew Mellen says it is important to remember that your grandmother's teacup is not your grandmother. Gayle Goddard recommends keeping a representative sample. And in thinking about the reactions of your relatives, remember that for some people they do not need physical objects to experience family, both past and present.
Patricia I totally understand where you’re coming from with sentimental items because I was the keeper of everyone’s treasures. It finally got to the point where I was valuing everyone else’s possessions over my own and couldn’t even figure out who I was anymore. These things were a part of their life and their memories NOT YOURS! Let go of their belongings and Live YOUR BEST life and treasure your own memories! I only kept a couple things from each family member that also included a memory of it for me as well or I gave myself permission to say goodbye. Not to the person’s memory but to their items. It will free you up to be YOUR Authentic Self!
@@sherriepiechowski4556 Thank you, Sherrie. I get what you're saying. In my case, I do have personal memories of all the object I have from family members. I can tell you personal stories for each object. I believe that's what makes it so very hard for me to part with these objects. I almost wish I didn't have as strong a connection with family relationships, memories, and their objects. I'm a married 69 years old childless woman. I ask myself almost daily: "What is to become of these precious objects." I need a neutral party to tell me that it's okay to let go and that my ancestors and living family members won't be upset with me. I do appreciate your giving me permission to rid myself of this burden. For that, I'm grateful.
I went to a clothing store yesterday and I had seen a plaid jacket which I loved. I had put it on, and my husband said buy it. After I had examined the jacket, I had noticed that the patterned did not line up with the seam. So... back on the hanger it went on. Nope... didn't buy it.
Love your content Elin, your voice so soothing, I love how you are so open to share your life. Where did you get that beautiful leather chair and ottoman from?
I hoped that your video could help me, but no. I've known this all before. 😅 My problem: collecting! 🙀 1. book / manga series till the end (fantasy series are loooooong) 2. Pokemon cards (hundreds of new, beautiful cards every month! 🤯) 3. Alternative / goth fashion / accessoires / home decor! Too many beautiful things to not buy them... 😢
It's so true that we tend to buy different versions of the same thing. I've been guilty of that. As always you provided some great content with excellent tips. Thank you.
How do u keep that is it a majestic palm? Alive?!?! Can u give me all your care tips for it? Thanks! Your place and plants you've chosen is all gorgeous by the way. Excellent taste
haha thank you so much! I swear I'm just lucky! I have had many plants die on me, but for some reason the majestic palm has done well despite the odds. I'm just sure to water it roughly every 3-4 days, and I trim off branches once they really start to turn brown. Other than that, I really don't do much! (FYI I got this one at Home Depot... they sometimes have a great plant selection)
You sound like a 3 year old child with this ridiculous comment, it doesn't look cluttered at all plus indoor plants have many benefits if you understood that
Confession: In part of this video, you’re walking out the door with a fabulous black purse on your shoulder. My only thought was “That is the perfect purse! Where did she get that purse? I must find that purse.” … and realized the irony immediately. 😁I’ve spent the last ten years minimizing my belongings, love the simplicity and don’t buy unless I need something ~ so this made me smile. Thanks for these videos, always a breath of fresh air!
I thought the same thing about the purse! 😂
i was thinking the sameeeee thing lol
Perfect purse though
Thrifting with a smaller budget left me with a lot of purchases that were ‘close enough’ or ‘it will do’ while I appreciate the use I have had of these items for a long time, they tend to multiply as one is always looking for a better version. Moving forward I am more intentional. Channels like yours help with this process- thank you!
Yes, yes, yes! Spot on! I’m 68 and trying to downsize a lifetime of belongings. Appreciation odds can be helpful at any age and for everyone struggling to minimize! Thank you
Absolutely. I’m 60 and finding the same to be true. I relate to this so much. And I too, hesitate to have people come over because I need to clean and tidy. I dont spend time with loved ones or friends. I am trying to get on top of this.
Yeah i recently downsized using this..minimalism is such a relief
😅
Yes, yes, and yes. Most of the time buying another item just means adding clutter to our homes.
One question my husband always asks when I'm considering buying something is "Where will you put it?" I roll my eyes a little, but I know he's right 😅
It's especially useful with kitchen appliances, decor, and my biggest vice: houseplants
You are SO SO right on this. It took too long for me to realize that those packages generally delivered "disappointment" instead of the delight i had expected. 🤷🏼♀️
I do look for a more perfect version of what I already have! Insightful, will watch out for that!
Your words speak so much to me. I have been on a minimalist journey for a year now and preach how much it has lessened my stress and anxiety. I tell people, less IS more!❤ Thank you for your videos 😊
Thank you, Elin. The concept of actively looking for flaws in an item, and asking myself whether the item proposed to be purchased will be *as* useful, utilized and appreciated as what I already own are golden concepts for me! 🎉
Great! so glad you found it helpful! And I agree--that one really helps me.
My problem has been that I'm very good at putting clothes together, and buying quality items, but my problem is that I just keep on doing it! I've ended up with tonnes of clothes, and it's been difficult to part with them, because they're all nice! However, I am in my last week of doing Project 333 and it's been life-changing. I've now got my 33 items and I'm so much happier. It's helped me to work out what my actual style is, and it's made getting dressed in the morning so much easier!
You completely described me. 😔
I love the painting over your fireplace! 🩵💙🩶
Pretty eye opening as to how we really should look at the items we attach ourselves to. Great questions to focus on in future purchases.
Great video!
Thank you!
Very good suggestions about how to think about consuming. Although your examples are mostly about clothes, I think they are applicable to all aspects of one's surroundings. Sometimes, the term minimalism does not resonate well with people because they might think that they must for example adhere to a capsule wardrobe or live in a near empty house. Being intentional about what is in one's home or in one's wardrobe can look very different from person to person! Your videos emphasize this last point very well.
I can relate to this so much! I’m working on my relationship with “stuff,” and it’s making a huge difference. Thank you for helping me stay focused, Elin!
Just clean up and organize my garage . AND I LOVE IT ❤️ . SO MYCH MORE ROOM , EYSE PLEASING , FEEL FREEDOM .
You are so right. Thank you. I went to sephora yesterday and I walked out with nothing. I am so proud of myself, because even though there was so many new things I didn't need anything. But...I love your makeup look. Would you tell us how to cut back on so many cosmetic items. Much appreciated.
Wow, good for you! Sephora is an easy place to impulse buy... and I'll keep that request in mind!
One of the most helpful videos I’ve seen on the topic in a long while. Appreciation odds, love it!
Glad it was helpful!
Amazing questions and prompts, this is so helpful thanks Elin!
I have been knit picking things before I buy it and it has been super helpful.
Great ideas thank you!! As a psychologist, do you have some thoughts on the relationship between shopping/decluttering/hoarding behaviours and binge-eating? I sense there are connections in addictive behaviours but I would love if you could give me your thoughts on that subject👍🏻
I just discovered you, this is a great video. I have a lot of things in my Amazon cart as "saved for later" to think about. I'm going to go through those items, I'm sure I can delete half of them :)
Awesome!
Beautiful job! Liking the video inserts! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks so much!
Elin, this is so helpful for potential newly purchased objects. Currently, I'm struggling with parting with sentimental objects that I've inherited from multiple generations. I seem to be the unofficial keeper of family treasures. I've approached various family member hoping they would be interested in taking some of our family heirlooms, unfortunately no one is interested, much to my chagrin. I admit that I'm overly sentimental. So much so, that I can't bare the thought of anyone else, with the exception of family members, possessing our family treasures. What to do, what to do?
Many professionals recommend letting go of just one thing, waiting to see how you feel one day later, two days later, one week later. Andrew Mellen says it is important to remember that your grandmother's teacup is not your grandmother. Gayle Goddard recommends keeping a representative sample. And in thinking about the reactions of your relatives, remember that for some people they do not need physical objects to experience family, both past and present.
@@ros8986 That all make perfect sense when using my head. However, it's my heart that has a difficult time with letting go.
Patricia I totally understand where you’re coming from with sentimental items because I was the keeper of everyone’s treasures. It finally got to the point where I was valuing everyone else’s possessions over my own and couldn’t even figure out who I was anymore. These things were a part of their life and their memories NOT YOURS! Let go of their belongings and Live YOUR BEST life and treasure your own memories! I only kept a couple things from each family member that also included a memory of it for me as well or I gave myself permission to say goodbye. Not to the person’s memory but to their items.
It will free you up to be YOUR Authentic Self!
@@sherriepiechowski4556 Thank you, Sherrie. I get what you're saying. In my case, I do have personal memories of all the object I have from family members. I can tell you personal stories for each object. I believe that's what makes it so very hard for me to part with these objects. I almost wish I didn't have as strong a connection with family relationships, memories, and their objects. I'm a married 69 years old childless woman. I ask myself almost daily: "What is to become of these precious objects." I need a neutral party to tell me that it's okay to let go and that my ancestors and living family members won't be upset with me. I do appreciate your giving me permission to rid myself of this burden. For that, I'm grateful.
Great video, thank you. You have a beautiful home
Wonderful perspective
I LOVE this strategy! Thank you!
I just realized the coincidence that your name is Elin LESSer.
It's the perfect name for the work you do 😊❤
Loved this video! ❤
Wonderful! Spot on!
I went to a clothing store yesterday and I had seen a plaid jacket which I loved. I had put it on, and my husband said buy it. After I had examined the jacket, I had noticed that the patterned did not line up with the seam. So... back on the hanger it went on. Nope... didn't buy it.
Such a great example of finding a flaw and using that to your own advantage!
Would love to see the cardigan you mentioned here
Thank you for sharing. I found your questions very helpful.
I'm so glad! :)
Love your content Elin, your voice so soothing, I love how you are so open to share your life. Where did you get that beautiful leather chair and ottoman from?
Loved this video Elin!
Great advice!
I hoped that your video could help me, but no. I've known this all before. 😅 My problem: collecting! 🙀 1. book / manga series till the end (fantasy series are loooooong) 2. Pokemon cards (hundreds of new, beautiful cards every month! 🤯) 3. Alternative / goth fashion / accessoires / home decor!
Too many beautiful things to not buy them... 😢
Great video! 😃
great tips
Thank you!
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Thanks.
It's so true that we tend to buy different versions of the same thing. I've been guilty of that.
As always you provided some great content with excellent tips. Thank you.
Yes !🙂
How do u keep that is it a majestic palm? Alive?!?! Can u give me all your care tips for it? Thanks! Your place and plants you've chosen is all gorgeous by the way. Excellent taste
haha thank you so much! I swear I'm just lucky! I have had many plants die on me, but for some reason the majestic palm has done well despite the odds. I'm just sure to water it roughly every 3-4 days, and I trim off branches once they really start to turn brown. Other than that, I really don't do much! (FYI I got this one at Home Depot... they sometimes have a great plant selection)
Where did you get your desk /table that your computer is on.? I love simplicity of it and have been looking for something like this
IKEA!
You are tellin it😅
You look like a younger kate Hudson
❤️❤️❤️
😊
You've got a tree in the middle of your room! Duh!! Ditch the houseplants. That's clutter.
You sound like a 3 year old child with this ridiculous comment, it doesn't look cluttered at all plus indoor plants have many benefits if you understood that
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