EXACTLY where I'm at....and i must say this was extremely helpful! Thank you. And no, there is no going back once you realize whats missing. Trying to decide if its even possible for my marriage to ever thrive. He is a wonderful man, but i never had those feelings of strong attraction/intimate connection/passion/chemistry to begin with...i feel as though our relationship never really moved past the "friendship" stage. Now I'm trying to decide if that can happen for us....is it even in my heart to try. I've decided to just give it some time/space and thought before making any sudden moves.
I wish I had the money to take your sessions. Went through rn initial consultation but way too expensive. I was really hoping it would’ve been what would have helped me either fix or let go of my hopeless marriage .
12 weeks ago I walked away from my AF ,I'm shattered and every day is a rollercoaster ,at what point does it feels better? Omgosh I can relate to Maggie
Ok,so my affair was for 2 months with an ex-coworker & I still absolutely adore him although I’m working with my husband to make my marriage work.Im trying to wing myself off his social medial. I could’ve called him months ago but something in my gut told me “no”. The AP does not reach out to me at all. I’m reaching out to you bcoz u understand the fire that burned for us both when we had our affair. I’m working on not resenting my husband for a decade of b’n unemotional,oh and we are now trying a procedure for a baby after 3 years of trying.its hard to talk to people who don’t get my longing for my AP & my commitment with my husband. It’s hard to love 2 people.
Alison I understand you completely!!! I had an AP for 4 months! We are both married with 3 kids so we ended it instead of leaving our spouses like we talked about. It’s been 2 1/2 years and I still think about him everyday and I am just waiting for the day when the time is right for us.
Brooke Smith omg I’m sooo glad someone reached out to me! It’s very hard for me to talk to ANYONE about this matter bcoz nobody can relate! First off:I literally JUST stopped looking @ his Instagram June 30th 2020. It simply amazes me how HARD I fell for him(my af) after only 2 freakin months! Almost pisses me off when I think about him sometimes bcoz I’m SOoo over it!its like a broken record that will just not stop. I have talked to friends/family(they understand but have never had an affair..) I have started a journal that I leave at work just bcoz I want some of my thoughts to remain private. I have literally listen to this video sooo many times trying to convince myself that the fire & passion that I felt with my af is something I can transfer to my husband(who has changed for the better & is open to a happy marriage). I have even thought about driving by his house but that’s straight outa the movies stalker shit,plus the embarrassment it he were to see me would be quite embarrassing. I love the guy,probably always will. I just wish I could go back to b4 this happened & didn’t ever think about him but it’s too late. I’m glad I picked my husband bcoz of so many reasons but I also long for my af to the point of heart wrenching agony. To love 2 people truly sucks! I have even asked my husband if we could have boyfriend/girlfriend he was not into that at all. I just feel lost sometimes & a bit depressed. The music my af listened to sometimes I play it to feel him again but sometimes it hurts too bad,I get pissed off n change it. I wish letting go was easier. Dang I could write you alll day. Lol I will be checking this in the future.
Sharon Pope - Master Life Coach I know I’ve seen your page. We have done marriage counseling...I decided to stay w my husband bcoz I still have love for him plus the AP came w 2 girls under 5 & not a lot of promises. It’s hard knowing I have to stay off his social media bcoz it was gratifying! I loved seeing him & his life. Sometimes I’d get butterflies bcoz I think he’s still so damn fine! But I know it’s not healthy so I pout and don’t do it & am sad inside bcoz those feelings can’t resurface. I miss everything but am also so happy it’s done,if that makes since.
EXACTLY where I'm at....and i must say this was extremely helpful! Thank you. And no, there is no going back once you realize whats missing. Trying to decide if its even possible for my marriage to ever thrive. He is a wonderful man, but i never had those feelings of strong attraction/intimate connection/passion/chemistry to begin with...i feel as though our relationship never really moved past the "friendship" stage. Now I'm trying to decide if that can happen for us....is it even in my heart to try. I've decided to just give it some time/space and thought before making any sudden moves.
I wish I had the money to take your sessions. Went through rn initial consultation but way too expensive. I was really hoping it would’ve been what would have helped me either fix or let go of my hopeless marriage .
So if both were single divorced from her/his spouse and met him would it feel the same connection to him?
12 weeks ago I walked away from my AF ,I'm shattered and every day is a rollercoaster ,at what point does it feels better? Omgosh I can relate to Maggie
Ok,so my affair was for 2 months with an ex-coworker & I still absolutely adore him although I’m working with my husband to make my marriage work.Im trying to wing myself off his social medial. I could’ve called him months ago but something in my gut told me “no”. The AP does not reach out to me at all. I’m reaching out to you bcoz u understand the fire that burned for us both when we had our affair. I’m working on not resenting my husband for a decade of b’n unemotional,oh and we are now trying a procedure for a baby after 3 years of trying.its hard to talk to people who don’t get my longing for my AP & my commitment with my husband. It’s hard to love 2 people.
Alison I understand you completely!!! I had an AP for 4 months! We are both married with 3 kids so we ended it instead of leaving our spouses like we talked about. It’s been 2 1/2 years and I still think about him everyday and I am just waiting for the day when the time is right for us.
Brooke Smith omg I’m sooo glad someone reached out to me! It’s very hard for me to talk to ANYONE about this matter bcoz nobody can relate! First off:I literally JUST stopped looking @ his Instagram June 30th 2020. It simply amazes me how HARD I fell for him(my af) after only 2 freakin months! Almost pisses me off when I think about him sometimes bcoz I’m SOoo over it!its like a broken record that will just not stop. I have talked to friends/family(they understand but have never had an affair..) I have started a journal that I leave at work just bcoz I want some of my thoughts to remain private. I have literally listen to this video sooo many times trying to convince myself that the fire & passion that I felt with my af is something I can transfer to my husband(who has changed for the better & is open to a happy marriage). I have even thought about driving by his house but that’s straight outa the movies stalker shit,plus the embarrassment it he were to see me would be quite embarrassing. I love the guy,probably always will. I just wish I could go back to b4 this happened & didn’t ever think about him but it’s too late. I’m glad I picked my husband bcoz of so many reasons but I also long for my af to the point of heart wrenching agony. To love 2 people truly sucks! I have even asked my husband if we could have boyfriend/girlfriend he was not into that at all. I just feel lost sometimes & a bit depressed. The music my af listened to sometimes I play it to feel him again but sometimes it hurts too bad,I get pissed off n change it. I wish letting go was easier. Dang I could write you alll day. Lol I will be checking this in the future.
Sharon Pope - Master Life Coach I know I’ve seen your page. We have done marriage counseling...I decided to stay w my husband bcoz I still have love for him plus the AP came w 2 girls under 5 & not a lot of promises. It’s hard knowing I have to stay off his social media bcoz it was gratifying! I loved seeing him & his life. Sometimes I’d get butterflies bcoz I think he’s still so damn fine! But I know it’s not healthy so I pout and don’t do it & am sad inside bcoz those feelings can’t resurface. I miss everything but am also so happy it’s done,if that makes since.