How To Gain An Advantage When Someone Is About To Attack You

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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2025

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  • @simpleselfdefence_
    @simpleselfdefence_  Месяц назад +11

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  • @markbirchall8225
    @markbirchall8225 Месяц назад +418

    Also do not ever speak to police after defending yourself. They are not your friends. Especially when it comes to pre-emptive strikes. Get a solicitor and refuse every question.

    • @brettm.s.1169
      @brettm.s.1169 Месяц назад +1

      Cops are taught to incriminate you by your actions or words. Say nothing but only what you have to by law. Admit nothing.

    • @joeoleary9010
      @joeoleary9010 Месяц назад +31

      True. No matter what the other guy said or did, if you admit you hit first you'll be the one they take away. To be fair, police have no choice in the matter.

    • @e.deansahutske8177
      @e.deansahutske8177 Месяц назад +40

      @@joeoleary9010 They always have a choice. "Just following orders" is never a valid excuse

    • @redpillnibbler4423
      @redpillnibbler4423 Месяц назад +27

      Absolutely true,the officers will happily let talk and thus incriminate yourself in that stressful situation,they won’t care whether you are innocent or in the right and you won’t even know you’ve incriminated yourself until afterwards.

    • @TheUrbanmeister
      @TheUrbanmeister 29 дней назад +17

      Absolutely! Well said.

  • @billiswillis8293
    @billiswillis8293 Месяц назад +116

    0:51 "We don't have to tell you to run away. If you CAN run away, you will. We are here to help you for when running away is not an option for you." This is one of the most intelligent statements on RUclips. Not kidding.

  • @leod-sigefast
    @leod-sigefast Месяц назад +102

    Excellent. Yes, disrupting their plan before they can execute it can completely discombobulate them. As Tyson said: everybody has a plan until they get punched in the mouth.
    I really like this channels honest and realistic treatment of defending yourself from street violence. Cheers guys!

    • @simpleselfdefence_
      @simpleselfdefence_  Месяц назад +4

      Exactly!! Thank you so much for this great feedback👊🏻 really appreciate it!

    • @TheWayofKen
      @TheWayofKen Месяц назад +6

      Everybody's got a plan 'til they lose their day planner. ;)

    • @M-a-k-o
      @M-a-k-o 28 дней назад +1

      I agree with you entirely. This channel is a no-nonsense honest setup.

    • @Dood-man
      @Dood-man 24 дня назад

      Huh. I read that it was Ali who said that famous quote.

    • @71simonforrester
      @71simonforrester 5 дней назад

      Tyson was so right with that statement!

  • @babee.1015
    @babee.1015 Месяц назад +120

    Technique is called "Do unto others before others do unto you"

    • @chrismarshall6647
      @chrismarshall6647 Месяц назад +2

      Nice .

    • @cliveadams7629
      @cliveadams7629 Месяц назад

      Legally you do not have to wait to be hit before you defend yourself. Just more difficult to prove self defence if you've decked them before they can land one 9n you.

    • @paulwilkins6362
      @paulwilkins6362 Месяц назад +3

      Or even better, "get your retaliation in first".

    • @bradford_shaun_murray
      @bradford_shaun_murray Месяц назад +2

      4:27 ..☔

    • @trevorgilbert7284
      @trevorgilbert7284 15 дней назад

      I always try to get the first hit before any opponent if im in that situation.

  • @pperrinuk
    @pperrinuk Месяц назад +194

    Normal people are so very conditioned not to throw the first punch that this will be a big challenge to them. But the way society in the UK is going down the pan, people need to be more pro-active.

    • @simpleselfdefence_
      @simpleselfdefence_  Месяц назад +13

      Agree completely 🙏🏼

    • @iandavies6575
      @iandavies6575 Месяц назад +6

      Especially not the superman punch, that takes a lot of practice

    • @terry_willis
      @terry_willis Месяц назад +8

      In UK you would be in jail for "throwing first punch". :((

    • @iandavies6575
      @iandavies6575 Месяц назад +4

      @@terry_willis Not if you feared that you are about to be attacked.

    • @marcusherts9345
      @marcusherts9345 Месяц назад +6

      Be first, don’t wait, if you do, you’ll be a victim

  • @steadyeddie639
    @steadyeddie639 Месяц назад +41

    Well done, distance is essential..

  • @funjuror
    @funjuror Месяц назад +40

    This scenario has happened to me only twice in my 70 years, and a reverse kick has put my assailants on their backs on both occasions. The force that a reverse kick delivers added to the momentum of the attacker's oncoming movement has enormous power.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад +11

      I love it ... But that needs some training skills

    • @funjuror
      @funjuror 28 дней назад +6

      @@raullm6820 Yes, I did study Karate for some 10 years, but it was this relatively simple kick that I used LOL

    • @M-a-k-o
      @M-a-k-o 28 дней назад +5

      Excellent. The reverse kick is also my favorite. You don't need splits for this😉

    • @mistral-unizion-music
      @mistral-unizion-music 27 дней назад +4

      Yes like Stephen Wonderboy Thompson (UFC) said, when you throw this reverse kick, you are already in a good position to start running away afterward. Good strategy I guess.

    • @StevenKennedy-y6z
      @StevenKennedy-y6z 27 дней назад +4

      The kick yes - especially if you can put a lot of your weight into the kick and it connects with your opponent’s knee - cap - needs a bit of practice but well worth it - not even Steven Segal would feel like fighting with a busted knee 😖😖😖

  • @technoverse101
    @technoverse101 Месяц назад +29

    I wrestled for a couple of years in Jr high and high school, and it turned out to be priceless practice for the real world. Also fight with no rules. none.

  • @andydunbar3205
    @andydunbar3205 29 дней назад +39

    I was totally unprepared for what happened, 9pm I was walking the dog along a well lit main road, a man on the other side of the road shouted somthing and came running fast at me, I had never seen him before, he was screaming at me, his face a inch from mine he was a big guy in his 30s I am 67 years old and 5 foot 6, he punched me in the head, luckily I was near a shop and managed to get in the shop he then disappeared, the one thing I learnt was violence can come out of the blue with no warning, now I am always looking around me for danger, it was a experience I will never forget.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад +7

      Wow, sorry about that Andy, I hope you and your dog were fine after!

    • @LA_Commander
      @LA_Commander 28 дней назад

      Lesson well learned. I hope you are now carrying some sort of weapon with you when you're out of the house.

    •  27 дней назад +4

      No matter where it is or what time of day ALWAYS check your surroundings !! One the most dangerous weapons that attacker would expect is ball point pen !! When walking alone with a dog keep it hidden but keep it in your hands an if attacked his new contacts will be that ball point pen and if you hesitate you will be on the losing end of that pen 🖊️

    • @MrControversial-r6b
      @MrControversial-r6b 25 дней назад

      That man was a coward sir, or seriously mentally ill.

    • @nigelduckworth4419
      @nigelduckworth4419 25 дней назад +1

      One of my dogs was involved in altercation with another dog when it's owner started to make threats towards me. I simply told him that if he used violence, my dogs would attack him. They are/were both large dogs. He backed off. So would I.

  • @ApnaChoud
    @ApnaChoud Месяц назад +33

    As a wise man once said offence is the best defense!

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад +1

      Spot on

    • @steamboatwillie7344
      @steamboatwillie7344 26 дней назад

      Same like said; the loudest sound you'll ever hear in battle is click

  • @MichaelCorall-h3s
    @MichaelCorall-h3s 27 дней назад +30

    Have fighting experience from long ago, when I was young.
    Be alert. If someone is aggressive
    Square off and step to the side.
    Do not step forword or backwards.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 27 дней назад +6

      Great points

    • @grantmail4112
      @grantmail4112 24 дня назад +2

      This was better advice than the video

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 24 дня назад +4

      @@grantmail4112 only a detail.... Sometimes moving forwards or backwards can help... It depends on different variables

    • @alexmousley7213
      @alexmousley7213 15 дней назад +2

      Quite some time ago I practiced Ju Jitsu- Tai sabaki- moving your body with simple footwork is a major part of dealing with attacks- so you are not square on and are, ideally on the outside of the attacking limb (but it's not always possible so being inside the attack also has a place)- in many cases you would step towards the attacker but to their side. This also places them in a good position to be thrown. Even more years ago I'd done a handful of Aki-Jitsu classes and got into a street confrontation. The guy who attacked me threw a bunch of haymakers and, being inexperienced I just stood there with my arms up in a triangle blocking them until I decided to try a technique- I stepped forwards and to the side but ended up on the inside of his incoming arm- which didn't matter as I had my arm up which I then used to pull him into a headlock which he could not escape from! His mate was then trying to hit me but I was dragging the first guy around by his neck using his read end to fend off the attack! It must have looked quite funny on CCTV!

  • @jamesdean4100
    @jamesdean4100 Месяц назад +49

    always good to 1st show palms up when being attacked in case of cctv then in court it looks like youre not the aggressor

    • @robtempest8900
      @robtempest8900 5 дней назад

      This is a very important piece of advice. With camera's pretty much everywhere now, the police will almost undoubtedly find some CCTV or Ring doorbell footage etc that will show the incident. With you holding hands up in a 'please, I don't want any trouble' stance (it doesn't hurt to say it out loud too), it will be clear that the aggressor is the other person. That position is also basically a defensive fighting stance without appearing to be one, you're already in the position to fight and defend as needed.

  • @lasvegasotis6780
    @lasvegasotis6780 Месяц назад +11

    great message. Disrupt your challengers timing. Dont let him get set or in a rhythm .

  • @debsym
    @debsym Месяц назад +23

    Thanks guys, wishing you all a great new year.

  • @greekgirl9897
    @greekgirl9897 Месяц назад +15

    As a small late twenties female needing to defend myself is really important these days. The more ideas I acquire the safer I feel. THANKS for your help Gentlemen!

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад

      Thank you for watching!!!

    • @alexmousley7213
      @alexmousley7213 15 дней назад +1

      Indeed, though, it has to be said that ideas and watching videos won't protect you- you must practice even simple techniques, ideally under pressure against someone not being compliant (though, you can build up to that). Unless practiced well, most people's reaction to aggression is to freeze in fear, which is understandable but not helpful.

  • @londonlivin3901
    @londonlivin3901 Месяц назад +8

    Simple, easy to remember THANK YOU for helping us out here and for the awesome emails too.

    • @simpleselfdefence_
      @simpleselfdefence_  Месяц назад +2

      Thanks Bernadette! Happy New Year to you😁

    • @londonlivin3901
      @londonlivin3901 Месяц назад

      Thank you. All the best @@simpleselfdefence_ for 2025 🙂the best of the rest.

  • @gazza2933
    @gazza2933 Месяц назад +10

    I'm over 50 (a long way over) and I think how you present yourself can help. Walk tall with shoulders back etc.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад +2

      Good point too

    • @applecorp
      @applecorp 21 день назад +1

      Yep, it makes you appear stronger and bigger. Many animals do this with certain parts of their body.

    • @retro_451
      @retro_451 13 дней назад +2

      True. It also shows an absence of fear along with an awareness of your surroundings.

  • @kaoskronostyche9939
    @kaoskronostyche9939 Месяц назад +12

    This is great advice and the best thing to do - I agree however most cowards run in packs and multiple attackers raise an entirely different question. Thanks for the presentation.
    Cheers!

    • @auberjean6873
      @auberjean6873 28 дней назад +1

      @kaoskronotyche9939
      Well said. Well said.

    • @vanwin-p6b
      @vanwin-p6b 28 дней назад

      This what migrants do, usually about 6 of them against one old pensioner.

  • @snakeman9902
    @snakeman9902 Месяц назад +8

    Brilliant advice, and I can only reiterate what everyone else has said, distance and timing is key.
    Also attacking first on an aggressor is great advice. it's legal and could stop an unpleasant situation.
    In regards to the age-old running away thing. I have arthritis in my knees, so I ain't running anywhere, I can limp away, but that won't work if someone intends to do me harm and is serious.

  • @MrMarkc100
    @MrMarkc100 27 дней назад +3

    The drop step straight lead punch is superb. Worth practicing.

  • @MandelloUK
    @MandelloUK 10 дней назад +2

    Fear is the biggest obstacle....stay calm, use intelligence and research what counterattack moves you can make

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 9 дней назад

      Spot on... Fear is a very natural thing that complicates things (but sometimes helps too)

  • @Stevemind88
    @Stevemind88 Месяц назад +8

    Great advice, distance and timing is everything....Will try this tonight when Mrs comes running at me to clean the kitchen ☺️
    Always be ready folks👍

    • @philipfirks7755
      @philipfirks7755 Месяц назад +1

      This is often the issue. We all go about our lives not feeling we should need to be ready - then things go pear shaped.

  • @MYBMWGUZZI
    @MYBMWGUZZI 13 дней назад +4

    Usually when a bully confronts you like this it's because he believes he has superior strength, he believes you are weaker and so the last thing he expects is for you to take the initiative and strike first. The SAS use a shock and awe tactic. When they are outnumbered and out gunned they attack because that's not what the enemy is expecting. They think you'll run and are simply not prepared for you to turn around and attack. The person who strikes first always has the advantage, so make it count and don't necessarily go for the head. A well placed power strike in the solar plexus is just as effective and won't be expected

  • @billyoung8797
    @billyoung8797 27 дней назад +9

    I live in Texas. Constitutional carry and stand your ground law. No worries.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 26 дней назад

      Hats off

    • @wiscious
      @wiscious 9 дней назад

      @@raullm6820so you people can end up dead by gunshot? Like, you maybe, or the people behind the person who is being aggressive toward you?
      If you don’t mean guns and you mean something else; sorry!
      I think guns vs guns is idiotic and gets people killed for no reason.

  • @tsquared4831
    @tsquared4831 Месяц назад +18

    Keep this in mind .. push when pulled an pull when pushed. This will give you the edge wverytime

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 Месяц назад +3

      Not bad.... But also risky IMO

    • @tsquared4831
      @tsquared4831 Месяц назад

      @raullm6820 no not risky at all

    • @mikethompson5549
      @mikethompson5549 29 дней назад

      Clever

    • @deegee8645
      @deegee8645 27 дней назад +2

      Needs lots of contact training though.
      I know this, having done 30yrs of wingchunnery

    • @tsquared4831
      @tsquared4831 27 дней назад +1

      @@deegee8645 don't agree

  • @danielpotter8957
    @danielpotter8957 7 дней назад +2

    Karate Kid crane style, works every time!

  • @M-a-k-o
    @M-a-k-o Месяц назад +11

    This is really good amigos🙂👍 I just love it how the Spanish temperament shines through.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 Месяц назад +1

      Gracias amigo😅

    • @113msaunders
      @113msaunders 28 дней назад +2

      In Spain, you can legally carry pepper spray. Fight stopper, right there, and time to get away from trouble. UK laws are a joke on the side of criminal attackers.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад +1

      @@113msaunders Yes ... I miss the sprays a lot

    • @M-a-k-o
      @M-a-k-o 28 дней назад

      @@113msaunders Yes, I know. I have a kickboxing and Judo background and carry a baton as well just in case I have to defend myself against 'traumatized' asylum seekers🤭 Personally, I don't effing care what my so-called German government allows or not. It's my life, bro. Cheers.

    • @thelarson6237
      @thelarson6237 18 дней назад +1

      Is it possible to use another spray? Really anything to irritate/blind the eyes-binacs, small hairspray, big spray, spray paint-just anything.

  • @72soldmilehigh67
    @72soldmilehigh67 29 дней назад +6

    For a trained individual this is good advice. I agree with some that you should have defensive hands raised and you should be giving commands to back off. But those defensive hands can become offensive if the person keeps coming. For the average untrained person who doesn’t know how to fight, also raised defensive hands but backing away with the intention of leaving fast and loud commands to back off. If you don’t know how to fight you need to leave fast if possible. Too many people will have normalcy bias and let someone walk right into their red zone space. Hands up and create distance and leave fast if you can’t fight. If you know how to fight, hands up, give commands, launch first strike if forced to do so no hesitation. Palm strike to nose, hard push kick to the stomach, while protecting your head. Stay safe out there with situational awareness by seeing your surroundings in public. but don’t overestimate your ability if you’ve never trained. And if you don’t train then maybe you should.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад +1

      Good analysis, thanks

  • @kenalford2538
    @kenalford2538 Месяц назад +4

    So glad i don't go out any more

  • @unclekevin5094
    @unclekevin5094 2 дня назад +1

    As someone who has practiced Judo for many years I find that I am mentally conditioned to get in close and reduce the distance as quickly as possible. Most people want to use their fists and punch but unless you are a trained boxer that is quite hard to do when your opponent is right on top of you. Even against bigger people i fancy my chances better when I am right in their faces where i can go for the eyes, nose, headbutt or just grapple.

  • @Loroths
    @Loroths 14 дней назад +3

    Theres a diffrence between surviving and winning. When youre being attacked you only really need to disable your attacker. And look for tje opportunity to escape. You don't necessarily have to beat then to a bloody pulp. You don't have to "win." Getting out of the situation as unscathed as possible is winning. Also it is rare these days for an attacker to be alone. Usually theres multiple attackers and that changes things completely. But this video is good advice. I like it.

  • @caerleon87
    @caerleon87 Месяц назад +46

    Most common sense thing i have ever seen on this subject.. Look at it like this; If someone approaches you like that, they ARE going to attack you. 30 years ago you could probably reason with them, society has changed now, any trying to defuse things will be taken as a sign of weakness and make it worse [for you] As said, the LAST thing they expect is for you to go on the attack.

    • @simpleselfdefence_
      @simpleselfdefence_  Месяц назад +5

      Thank you for sharing this feedback mate, couldn't agree more either👍🏻

    • @jackjack4412
      @jackjack4412 Месяц назад +4

      I posted up on a guy advancing on me, shuffled backward slowly, telling him to "leave me alone." I was able to deescalate.
      I have a decent amount of exp in the street so feel free to ignore my story.

    • @MrControversial-r6b
      @MrControversial-r6b 25 дней назад +1

      ​@jackjack4412 😂thanks for the honesty, I believe you.😊

  • @ColinNew-pf5ix
    @ColinNew-pf5ix 16 дней назад +1

    Good video guys.Thumbs up. A lot of words for 'preemptive attacks' 😊

  • @bushwhackeddos.2703
    @bushwhackeddos.2703 29 дней назад +16

    If there’s a group of them, my mums advice has always served me well…
    She said always clump the quiet one first,
    Great advice, though I have ironed out a few deaf fellas by mistake.

    • @v16vredunderscore63
      @v16vredunderscore63 13 дней назад

      Well it's their fault they where with a group of bad people but that's good advice.

    • @gavinblack450
      @gavinblack450 11 дней назад

      😂😂 No one seems to get the joke

  • @TheGentlemanRougeScholar
    @TheGentlemanRougeScholar Месяц назад +20

    I worked in law enforcement for about ten years, and this is accurate.
    However I learned a long time ago that throwing closed fist punches is not a great idea, it’ll work, but it will cause problems for the rest of your day, week or even month.
    Something that I’ve done several times is throw a low kick at the about to be forward leg/knee.
    It doesn’t have to be hard but it’s enough to cause them to have balance issues, you are then close enough for grappling.

    • @mr.anti.conservatives-u6f
      @mr.anti.conservatives-u6f Месяц назад +4

      Only if you are caught. Don't stay behind and wait for the police after a fight.

    • @TheGentlemanRougeScholar
      @TheGentlemanRougeScholar Месяц назад +1

      @@mr.anti.conservatives-u6f I think the point of what I said was missed.
      If you are being attacked by someone, then you can interrupt them by kicking the leg that is about to be their lead leg as they step forward.
      I said that I was law enforcement to give this some context, I’ve had several interactions with people who are just going nuts and attacking every person they see.
      This was my go to technique for someone who wasn’t holding a weapon.

    • @bobe5710
      @bobe5710 Месяц назад

      @@mr.anti.conservatives-u6f I believe the "not a great idea" is that it damages the nerves in your hand. Not that you're going to get in more trouble.

    • @johncrouch8988
      @johncrouch8988 Месяц назад +4

      I wouldn’t plan to grapple unless you are a judo expert
      The aggressor may be stronger and better at it than you.
      I certainly couldn’t due to medical issues 😮

    • @fins59
      @fins59 29 дней назад

      You wouldn't want to grapple with someone unless you were a pro wrestler/judo expert/etc that is stupid advice.

  • @vagabondslotmachine
    @vagabondslotmachine 10 дней назад +2

    I did 10 tours in Vietnam. Met Steven Seagal during a Special Ops mission deep in the jungle. He trained me on self defence and hand to hand combat. The one thing he told us to NEVER do, was throw a road works cone. He said there was always a chance that the road crew were on a tea break, and if someone throwing a cone was to disturb said tea break, all hell would break loose. The mantra was never to disturb a crew having a brew. Fatal mistake. Glad I listened to him. Steven, if you read this - you're the best.

  • @sixevensage7004
    @sixevensage7004 24 дня назад +4

    Usually the aggressor will try to instigate their victim to be the aggressive one in a altercation. Perfect situation for the "bully" or aggressor to play innocent or to be seen as the one defending. Make note of this, the aggressor will insult/ disrespect and say or do anything to make you look like the violent one. Have discretion who you choose to be around. Take heart for peace and truth.

  • @Sankara561
    @Sankara561 Месяц назад +6

    Great advice and as I do BJJ I would always start to defend myself with strikes, the actul purpose of which are to compel my attacker to come in close to try and grapple with me.

    • @kaoskronostyche9939
      @kaoskronostyche9939 Месяц назад +3

      Isn't BJJ kinda worthless against multiple attackers? Won't his buddies kick you to death while you are feeling up the first guy? Cowards always run in packs. What is your strategy for multiple attackers.

    • @Sankara561
      @Sankara561 Месяц назад

      @kaoskronostyche9939 nothing is effective against multiple determined attackers! Any combat sport with a large component of live sparring makes someone fitter and tougher but the hours I spend training each week would be a very poor use of time if my aim was to marginally improve my chances in a hopeless and unlikely situation.

    • @MrMarkc100
      @MrMarkc100 27 дней назад +1

      BJJ is very scenario specific.
      I have the Gracie self defence book and it is basically the same as the Japanese JJ I did in the 80s as a kid.
      Judo, wrestling, rugby and boxing are a good combination

  • @FinancialWisdom
    @FinancialWisdom Месяц назад +3

    Great job guys 😎

  • @garypauljohnson9884
    @garypauljohnson9884 Месяц назад +1

    Excellent. Love the landmine analogy. Thank you both

  • @Mod-rw9cw
    @Mod-rw9cw 24 дня назад +8

    Big lesson I learned when I was 10. Don’t talk about it. Do it first when they are talking absolute shite.

    • @simpleselfdefence_
      @simpleselfdefence_  21 день назад +1

      Couldn't agree more👍🏻

    • @td4493
      @td4493 5 дней назад

      Came home with a black eye once after a night on the town. Dad: ‘were you talking when you should have been listening?’ 😂

  • @davejohnson-yi2rk
    @davejohnson-yi2rk Месяц назад +15

    Put your hands up in a Self Defensive frame.
    This way, you can, if anyone is filming you with their cell phone,
    you can say that you didn't want to fight.
    Nowadays cameras are EVERYWHERE, even if you think they're not.
    And if you land in court, taking the first punch may still land you in jail.
    If the other guy has a good lawyer, his lawyer will be able to show
    that you used EXCESSIVE VIOLENCE even if it was supposedly defending yourself.
    Cops really aren't great at sorting out who the "bad guy" is,
    SO USE YOUR HEAD - BEFORE YOU USE YOUR FISTS!

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 Месяц назад +2

      That's a very good point Dave

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 Месяц назад

      *But is the first thing I am doing in the thumbnail ;)

  • @GBFeb72
    @GBFeb72 Месяц назад +3

    Great advice lads… I did chuckle with the cone throw 🤣🤣

    • @simpleselfdefence_
      @simpleselfdefence_  Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂 thank you mate! Appreciate your support as always👊🏻

  • @grzeg21
    @grzeg21 29 дней назад +1

    I am glad I found you guys. I am training Krav Maga myself and did boxing in the past. I love constantly improving myself so your videos are amazing. Discovered you guys yesterday and binged like 10 videos already 🙂

    • @stuartboys260
      @stuartboys260 29 дней назад +1

      Also trained in Krav Maga great way to learn self defence and improve fitness

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад

      Thanks a million!! Glad you are watching

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад

      ​@@stuartboys260thanks and great!

  • @atillayandarkhanov3372
    @atillayandarkhanov3372 Месяц назад +5

    Very practical advices.Good job as always.

  • @deegee8645
    @deegee8645 27 дней назад +4

    feign a step back, make them think youre retreating, before launching forward at them.
    double the confusion.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 27 дней назад +1

      That's what we call in Spain "The crossbow"

    • @MrControversial-r6b
      @MrControversial-r6b 25 дней назад

      ​@raullm6820 Great name for it🎉

  • @danledbetter9535
    @danledbetter9535 Месяц назад +4

    Good info. guys . A solid cane is also a good tool for keeping an aggressor at bay & it is most always in hand if your not as agile as a younger person is. Whether a person is in an empty handed situation or they have a n equalizer at hand, "awareness " ( just as you're advising ) is a persons first defense, especially while pumping gas, everyone knows you just want to get in & out & most folks are pre- occupied with the task as it's just an annoyance & where low life's like to hang out.

  • @leghunter9201
    @leghunter9201 Месяц назад +2

    You guys are awesome. Respect from Sydney Australia.

  • @happysnapperman
    @happysnapperman Месяц назад +1

    Cool, down-to-earth advice for the common man. Stay safe.

  • @umaryu
    @umaryu 22 дня назад

    Superman punch, that was the end of the video. You did well telling people how to get themselves arrested

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 18 дней назад +1

      How many people do u know who have been arrested because of it??

  • @TheMarkos1982
    @TheMarkos1982 22 дня назад +1

    Very useful thank you. Though was half expecting someone to come and park right next to them...

  • @pedroseoane6531
    @pedroseoane6531 Месяц назад +5

    Tu ingles es maravilloso😂😂😂😂.Buen video.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 Месяц назад +2

      Gracias Peter!

    • @pedroseoane6531
      @pedroseoane6531 Месяц назад +2

      @raullm6820 De nada,un abrazo y feliz año👍👍👍👍👍

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 Месяц назад

      @@pedroseoane6531 igualmente!

  • @TruSonofLiberty64
    @TruSonofLiberty64 29 дней назад +1

    Excellent analyses. The trouble comes when, if there are witnesses, it is shown that you were the initial aggressor. One must bear in mind that sometimes, an aggressor will feint to get you to make the first move. Of course, in the endless amounts of scenarios, remaining situationally aware is key. So many variables involved. Videos like this and others are so helpful. We do need to see more videos of the legal (or illegal) aspects of physical confrontations.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад

      That's for the feedback and for watching!

  • @williamrobinson7435
    @williamrobinson7435 11 дней назад +1

    Looks like good advice to me. The gent with the cone nearly got one in there! Damned good job there wasn't any gelato in it! 🌟👍

  • @NitThailand
    @NitThailand Месяц назад +3

    Good video. Glad to see you channel is growing.

  • @larryproffer8603
    @larryproffer8603 Месяц назад +8

    I know how to deal with this, I don’t think RUclips will let me say what I believe to be the correct answer.

  • @DanyaalButt
    @DanyaalButt Месяц назад +2

    The wealdstone raider never gets old 😂

  • @Justmedoingmything
    @Justmedoingmything Месяц назад +3

    Brilliant video, well done guys 👏
    I don’t hear enough people talking about gaining an advantage before it kicks off.
    My 3 As
    Awareness
    Avoidance
    Advantage
    If shit is about to go down you want to gain every & any advantage you can before your forced to defend yourself & engage.

  • @capobuzz2278
    @capobuzz2278 2 дня назад

    I like the step back slip counter

  • @peterlearner8594
    @peterlearner8594 8 дней назад +1

    Very good tip 👍

  • @farkinarkin5099
    @farkinarkin5099 Месяц назад +11

    I always carry a traffic cone... XD. Seriously, though, yes. It is always about not playing their game. Thanks.

  • @SFzip
    @SFzip Месяц назад +3

    Great presentation👍Happy new year!

  • @trulgn
    @trulgn 19 дней назад +1

    4:10 remember the most important step. You must say "mate, mate, mate" at least 3 times. Very useful video guys.
    thanks

  • @paulbathgate6348
    @paulbathgate6348 24 дня назад +2

    Thank you.

  • @grahamlongley8298
    @grahamlongley8298 6 дней назад

    I used this years ago several times when I was threatened on building sites by my men. Instead of running away as expected I advanced & often it put the bloke off as he expected something different.He would stop & I could calm the situation.
    I picked up the idea from an SAS officer who said that if a small group was caught & outnumbered instead of retreat they were trained to advance, knowing that if they tried to retreat they would lose anyway. Sometimes that tactic threw the enemy into disarray because they did not expect it & the SAS group managed to survive.

  • @johnrambo4245
    @johnrambo4245 Месяц назад

    😂 Comedy Gold
    Keep em coming boys, this is priceless

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад

      Thanks for watching

  • @runrigrockettothemoon3967
    @runrigrockettothemoon3967 Месяц назад +2

    Thanks for another good video.👍

  • @williamcoyle7226
    @williamcoyle7226 Месяц назад +1

    Excellent. Just found this channel and subscribed. Thank you.

  • @dogboymalone11
    @dogboymalone11 29 дней назад +1

    GOOD SHIT. MANY THANKS.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 28 дней назад

      Thank you for watching!

  • @CM-158
    @CM-158 19 дней назад +1

    You know things are bad when self defense videos like this have to be made but I understand why the amount of times I have been approached by someone looking for a fight because they think they can get one over you I live in Birmingham UK and this sort of thing happens every now and then thanks for the video it was helpful 👍👍

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 18 дней назад

      Hear hear... Thank you for watching!

  • @bill7778
    @bill7778 29 дней назад +1

    It's all about timing

  • @manofkentcatapultsgunsando5069
    @manofkentcatapultsgunsando5069 Месяц назад +30

    Im an oldie and watch a lot of these self defence videos TBH most are a load of crap , this however is not ,excellent realistic solutions without the ego Bullshittery that seem to be the norm nowadays , BE FIRST ,BE NASTY, WALK FASTER 👍 new subscriber

  • @jeffreywright2294
    @jeffreywright2294 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you Mates Happy New Year

  • @versatec1
    @versatec1 27 дней назад +2

    Fill a washing up liquid bottle for hot sauce propulsion

  • @conradswadling8495
    @conradswadling8495 Месяц назад +2

    yes, coats n hats etc, nice.

  • @mrwilliamuk4169
    @mrwilliamuk4169 18 дней назад +1

    Breakfalling is an underestimated skill . I would have been permanently done I reckon if I didn't know to put my chin to chest going backwards saved my life I reckon

  • @farleysmoke5130
    @farleysmoke5130 Месяц назад +1

    Great video thanks guys

  • @ronaldbelton7801
    @ronaldbelton7801 Месяц назад +2

    Good advice!

  • @johnaiken457
    @johnaiken457 28 дней назад +4

    Fair enough

  • @Desperado3248
    @Desperado3248 Месяц назад +2

    Good luck with these techniques

  • @roberthill4556
    @roberthill4556 Месяц назад +26

    And when you're in court, anyone who saw what happened will say you threw the first punch and started the fight. You get to wear the pretty orange jumpsuit. Better to put all that training you did by sidestepping and counter punching. It sucks to be a martial artist because the law is always against you but it's what we have to put up with and we get to survive... hopefully.

    • @bradford_shaun_murray
      @bradford_shaun_murray Месяц назад

      4:38 lol better to throw something

    • @dreed7312
      @dreed7312 27 дней назад

      Lol. What court is that?

    • @roberthill4556
      @roberthill4556 27 дней назад

      @@dreed7312 Criminal court.

    • @steveymoon
      @steveymoon 25 дней назад

      ​@@dreed7312- don't be funny. When the person who punched first who is now up on a GBH charge.

  • @stephenhargreaves381
    @stephenhargreaves381 29 дней назад +1

    Sound advice , good content !

  •  25 дней назад +1

    The whole idea is to never let the attacker get any momentum because the last thing he is expecting is you be the aggressor!! So take a deep breath as you let it out and the attacker gets closer and in his fake anger his eyes 👀 are ready to become your new 🧤 gloves and he’ll be so much shock and that’s the opening of letting him know it’s not a good day to be you !!!

  • @StraightouttaBristol
    @StraightouttaBristol Месяц назад +1

    Awesome advice, clear and concise.
    I liked and subscribed ❤

  • @matthewbanks753
    @matthewbanks753 14 дней назад +1

    I'll definitely throw the cone

  • @PP-cm4re
    @PP-cm4re Месяц назад +1

    Very informative, thank you. Subscribed.

  • @jeffreywright2294
    @jeffreywright2294 Месяц назад +3

    Your welcome

  • @phillipoualbertcornickakao3606
    @phillipoualbertcornickakao3606 Месяц назад +1

    In this situation left foot forward with a wide stance this means you can move back avoiding strike and move forward over quite a distance and strike

  • @letitload6272
    @letitload6272 20 дней назад +1

    I think it’s all about the element of surprise. If you can feign innocence and weakness or an unwillingness to fight, then unleash your assault quickly and run away, that’s the ideal outcome. Real life fights aren’t like in the movies, it’s not choreographed and it’s faster in real life. Not to mention the adrenaline will cripple a lot of people. I remember at school when fights broke out, some guys were just naturally good fighters that put adrenaline to good use, whilst others literally broke down crying and collapsed in a heap because it was too intense for them.

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 18 дней назад

      Yes agreed... But cold blood and some self control is trainable and usually (imo) gets better with age

  • @DanGoodman-n4b
    @DanGoodman-n4b Месяц назад +1

    Good stuff. It has worked for me.

  • @johnclegg1923
    @johnclegg1923 29 дней назад +1

    That's fitting talk where l come from .

    • @MrMarkc100
      @MrMarkc100 27 дней назад

      A gents outfitters?

  • @cnctroubleshooting9052
    @cnctroubleshooting9052 Месяц назад +1

    Police use the Tueller Rule-a perpetrator within 21 feet can attack an officer before they can draw and fire. So 21 feet (although controversial) is the minimum reaction gap to prepare for the attack ~ from a police perspective. So disrupting the bad guy’s movie ( great analysis) in this distance makes great sense, and definitely within “ land mine” distance. Nice video 👍
    *edit: also can’t give them one shot then step back to admire your work. Gotta go all in if you’re going in

    • @raullm6820
      @raullm6820 Месяц назад

      Thanks for the input!!

  •  27 дней назад +1

    Am short and I’ve been loners most of my life including when I homeless!! I slept in a car for ten years and that whole time outside of the cops yanking at me there were no problems!! An attacker is a predator and what attacker do they look for weak people !! So when your out and about make sure you don’t look like a mark and remember everyone has eyes and a throat if attacked they’re calling your name and letting the attacker know looks can be deceiving and letting him or her know you’re not anyone’s mark !!

  • @terrykirby7553
    @terrykirby7553 25 дней назад +2

    I love these helpful tips. Please add me to a subscriber.
    It's true that everyone has a camera in their pockets and will quickly 911 you.
    But I'd rather have sore knuckles than black eyes and broken teeth.
    Keep the tips coming gentleman!
    Thank you

  • @ruthcormack1765
    @ruthcormack1765 2 дня назад

    Always do a 'collision test' before say 10 yards if the guy looks dodgy. Step to the side to 'give way'. See if he re-aligns. You can also check for aggression if they're calling you like "not today, thanks".

  • @royconnolly2767
    @royconnolly2767 Месяц назад +1

    Really good advice ❤

  • @versatec1
    @versatec1 27 дней назад +1

    Hot chill sauce in the eyes..game over

  • @yuwmelon3868
    @yuwmelon3868 Месяц назад +2

    The last time I was stopped by three young guys asking me for money, they saw my council lanyard and they fled...

  • @stuartclark8910
    @stuartclark8910 29 дней назад +1

    Good video, enjoyed it 😊