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  • Official Video for "Daddy Issues” by The Neighbourhood
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    Lyrics:
    Go ahead and cry, little girl
    Nobody does it like you do
    I know how much it matters to you
    I know that you got daddy issues
    And if you were my little girl
    I'd do whatever I could do
    I'd run away and hide with you
    I know that you got daddy issues, and I do too
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Комментарии • 19 тыс.

  • @skyedavis4693
    @skyedavis4693 3 года назад +22231

    director: how much color do u want
    the neighborhood: no

    • @Isokatmydydecsf
      @Isokatmydydecsf 3 года назад +131

      Isn't grey a colour ?

    • @hrahman9425
      @hrahman9425 3 года назад +48

      I ам иот яսssiаи sошу yea, one color

    • @multifandom7168
      @multifandom7168 3 года назад +6

      💖👏🏼😂😂😂

    • @babeebel
      @babeebel 3 года назад +54

      Please edit it and make it "no 🖤"

    • @leahm1503
      @leahm1503 3 года назад +63

      They find it easier since Jesse is colorblind

  • @alienhomey
    @alienhomey 2 года назад +14420

    “All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children”

  • @irdc
    @irdc Год назад +1842

    "go ahead and cry, little girl" always gets me..

    • @yaso5333
      @yaso5333 11 месяцев назад

      I know that you got daddy issues

    • @alyssabeetham8214
      @alyssabeetham8214 3 месяца назад +5

      Same.

    • @luacsc__
      @luacsc__ 3 месяца назад +3

      me too.

    • @Ventypops-666
      @Ventypops-666 2 месяца назад +4

      Younger me needed someone to say that to her

    • @irdc
      @irdc 2 месяца назад

      @@_T_he_Editor_ hell yeah

  • @dianamuratbek7061
    @dianamuratbek7061 18 дней назад +160

    Anyone watching in 2024?😢

  • @dawndawn33
    @dawndawn33 3 года назад +37488

    This is for the girls whose fathers broke their hearts before any boy could.

    • @julima3828
      @julima3828 3 года назад +1581

      this hits hard.

    • @nnoufaissa
      @nnoufaissa 3 года назад +117

      😔

    • @kurmiclra
      @kurmiclra 3 года назад +106

      accurate!

    • @user-qh2vn7hn9t
      @user-qh2vn7hn9t 3 года назад +295

      My first ex broke my heart and it made all the negative emotions (towards my dad) i was unconsciously suppressing resurface again. It's like a double heartbreak.

    • @alisonramirez9382
      @alisonramirez9382 3 года назад +46

      oh wow this hit cz same.

  • @nicoshusband
    @nicoshusband 3 года назад +16631

    “Go ahead and cry little girl” that line gets me everytime...

  • @fllatespring
    @fllatespring Год назад +1501

    this song turned something bigger to me. as if it's a safe place. as if it's not just about daddy issues, it's also about every trauma. as if it's a hug. as if someone you've hurt because of your trauma understands and turns back to you.

    • @fllatespring
      @fllatespring Год назад +8

      @@707mimi you're right. just as one would expect from someone with a hachi on their profile. best wishes for you

    • @mondaybluesenthusiast
      @mondaybluesenthusiast 4 месяца назад +1

      This

    • @lynxpaws123
      @lynxpaws123 4 месяца назад +3

      The only reason I still have friends is because they knew about my trauma because they were there with me as I was getting more and more traumatized over the years. So the more I tried to push them away they stayed over and over. Choosing the hurt I caused over leaving the scared little girl hiding deep inside.

    • @user-nh1ix8ts9p
      @user-nh1ix8ts9p Месяц назад

      😭😭😭

    • @Cybernkva
      @Cybernkva Месяц назад

      This is so true, like how'd you know I have a younger brother! how'd you know my mother waited for me, her sun, to shine and so much more. I never thought I would ever hear my whole life composed into a 3 minute song.

  • @FxckedUpMemes
    @FxckedUpMemes Месяц назад +140

    "go ahead and cry, little girl"😭😭

  • @hypegirlness
    @hypegirlness 5 лет назад +13969

    *_"i didn't cry when you left at first, but now that you're dead it hurts"_*

    • @savannahrutledge4150
      @savannahrutledge4150 4 года назад +136

      triplet line enthusiast this hits home so hard

    • @celia-pi9nx
      @celia-pi9nx 4 года назад +29

      chaewon

    • @8015908
      @8015908 4 года назад +25

      He coulda stopped her death....

    • @tylermystery9280
      @tylermystery9280 4 года назад +89

      This time I gotta know.... where did my daddy go?

    • @ava-jm8xq
      @ava-jm8xq 4 года назад +10

      triplet line enthusiast my favorite line

  • @shreyakhajuriaa
    @shreyakhajuriaa 3 года назад +6161

    "go ahead and cry little girl", and
    "and if you were my little girl"
    these lines always gets to me. damn!

    • @shobhapaliwal6250
      @shobhapaliwal6250 2 года назад +30

      I cry every damn time

    • @mrs.katsukibakugou115
      @mrs.katsukibakugou115 2 года назад +10

      This song makes me want to cry

    • @bandajisrafmakinesidazai7121
      @bandajisrafmakinesidazai7121 2 года назад +11

      This song makes me cry. Especially these words.

    • @ktswrld7338
      @ktswrld7338 2 года назад +11

      The way he says it 🥺

    • @nened_master60
      @nened_master60 2 года назад +9

      Always gets me thinking… that I want that one person to fix and flip their life… make them forget they had issues…show them that I’ve been through that pain too but I’m more than willing to give my heart to make them see I can be…heh that sounds wrong but. You get the idea

  • @Falcon.i
    @Falcon.i 10 месяцев назад +636

    i’ll never be able to understand how it feels to have daddy issues, but i’m sending my love and support to you all from someone with mommy issues

    • @agatha3841
      @agatha3841 9 месяцев назад

      ❤❤

    • @AyaMahdy-ju3rf
      @AyaMahdy-ju3rf 9 месяцев назад +20

      Someone with both 🫶✨

    • @samanthaworld4460
      @samanthaworld4460 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@AyaMahdy-ju3rfi hope you’re okay

    • @mooniie5072
      @mooniie5072 9 месяцев назад +10

      It’s a like a blade that never stops cutting it’ll always leave an open wound

    • @kings9724
      @kings9724 9 месяцев назад

      mommmyyyyyyyy

  • @thutifrutii_
    @thutifrutii_ Месяц назад +88

    "Its crazy what you do for a friend" so real

  • @gersoncuevas8137
    @gersoncuevas8137 4 года назад +14835

    This is basically sweater weather but on drugs and depression.

    • @season4646
      @season4646 4 года назад +83

      deeeeep ! love it!

    • @viennas.
      @viennas. 3 года назад +465

      Sweater Weather- trauma edition

    • @silverbloodronin6960
      @silverbloodronin6960 3 года назад +25

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA YES

    • @pauline6074
      @pauline6074 3 года назад +33

      this is the most accurate cmment i`ve ever seen

    • @JA-yx3wj
      @JA-yx3wj 3 года назад +2

      OOP-

  • @l.bofficial3897
    @l.bofficial3897 3 года назад +20983

    song hits different when you actually have daddy issues

  • @rjjk873
    @rjjk873 7 месяцев назад +224

    lyrics:
    take you like a drug
    I taste you on my tongue
    You ask me what I'm thinking about
    I tell you that I'm thinking about
    Whatever you're thinking about
    Tell me something that I'll forget
    And you might have to tell me again
    It's crazy what you'll do for a friend
    Go ahead and cry, little girl
    Nobody does it like you do
    I know how much it matters to you
    I know that you got daddy issues
    And if you were my little girl
    I'd do whatever I could do
    I'd run away and hide with you
    I know that you got daddy issues, and I do too
    I tried to write your name in the rain
    But the rain never came
    So I made with the sun
    The shade
    Always comes at the worst time
    You ask me what I'm thinking about
    I tell you that I'm thinking about
    Whatever you're thinking about
    Tell me something that I'll forget
    And you might have to tell me again
    It's crazy what you'll do for a friend
    Go ahead and cry, little girl
    Nobody does it like you do
    I know how much it matters to you
    I know that you got daddy issues
    And if you were my little girl
    I'd do whatever I could do
    I'd run away and hide with you
    I know that you got daddy issues
    I keep on trying to let you go
    I'm dying to let you know
    How I'm getting on
    I didn't cry when you left at first
    But now that you're dead it hurts
    This time I gotta know
    Where did my daddy go?
    I'm not entirely here
    Half of me has disappeared
    Go ahead and cry, little boy
    You know that your daddy did too
    You know what your mama went through
    You gotta let it out soon, just let it out
    Go ahead and cry, little girl
    Nobody does it like you d..
    (you'r welcome❤)

  • @TohoSeiwa
    @TohoSeiwa 10 месяцев назад +157

    the "go ahead and cry little boy" was really good, thank you for including us as well

  • @babyjeons97
    @babyjeons97 3 года назад +3015

    3:18 "go ahead and cry little boy" it breaks my heart that he starts talking to himself... :(

  • @layla-jo9lc
    @layla-jo9lc 3 года назад +12838

    “ is crazy what you do for a friend” this is so intense

    • @louspeachrry
      @louspeachrry 3 года назад +128

      i didnt get that part

    • @cowgovroom9788
      @cowgovroom9788 3 года назад +16

      @@louspeachrry same

    • @elisax5016
      @elisax5016 3 года назад +11

      @@louspeachrry same

    • @fqiryjhvl7099
      @fqiryjhvl7099 3 года назад +8

      whatdidshesayy-

    • @mallikabirla
      @mallikabirla 3 года назад +2018

      for all those who didn't get it, usually, parental issues are caused by the parent leaving, not paying enough/pays excessive attention, being detached or aggressive, etc. due to these reasons, a child may grow up thinking that they were the ones at fault, which made their parents behave this way as if something was wrong with them. What happens in these cases is that these children often go out of their way to help/ be there for others either in order to either do what their parents were unable to do or fill voids caused by them. so the line "it's crazy what you do for a friend" means that a person with parental/daddy issues may do a lot for friends and others cause they have never had any relations with family, so they try hard to form relations with outsiders for peace or closure.

  • @unn9530
    @unn9530 6 месяцев назад +55

    It hits diffrent when you actually relate...

    • @xyciqx
      @xyciqx 6 месяцев назад

      Yes that why i like it

  • @j7.zarq.
    @j7.zarq. 11 месяцев назад +580

    its been 7 years and this is still my favorite song. i dont have daddy issues, but im so sorry for those who have daddy issues. i only wish the best for you. you deserve to be loved.

  • @booper-dooper
    @booper-dooper 2 года назад +10237

    Sending virtual hugs to everyone that has issues with parents, and just issues in general

  • @moemoee9787
    @moemoee9787 3 года назад +52969

    Daddy issues is just sweater weathers depressed cousin.

  • @DUCK-WITH-COFFEE
    @DUCK-WITH-COFFEE 6 месяцев назад +173

    My dad was never abusive
    Always loved me and supported me
    And this song still a banger
    Respect to people with abusive/absent fathers 😔✊

  • @ayo_nivin
    @ayo_nivin 4 дня назад +2

    It hits hard when you have both Mummy and Daddy issues 🥺🥺 ("Go ahead and cry little boy" Got me😢)

  • @alittledeath9566
    @alittledeath9566 7 лет назад +8644

    this band is the definition of aesthetic.

    • @ffs2410
      @ffs2410 6 лет назад +26

      a little death yep.

    • @easternoodles7058
      @easternoodles7058 6 лет назад +22

      but better :)

    • @kyxlier
      @kyxlier 6 лет назад +8

      I am
      Soo they describe me :^}

    • @axelsoto8953
      @axelsoto8953 6 лет назад +24

      no, joji is the definition of aesthetic

    • @krissiacoraltoledo6530
      @krissiacoraltoledo6530 6 лет назад +1

      Check this out, is aesthetically pleasant ♡ ruclips.net/video/TYJniC-vWa8/видео.html

  • @fnz2454
    @fnz2454 8 лет назад +3094

    Wasn't expecting that ending. . .

  • @XxA_Random_FrogxX
    @XxA_Random_FrogxX 10 месяцев назад +129

    No matter how many times I revisit this song it never fails to make me cry, both sad that I have such a dysfunctional family, and happy that I'm doing better than most people in my family, despite my mental traumas.

  • @nuolah7250
    @nuolah7250 Год назад +165

    It has been 17 years since dad left us, I tried to remain strong all these years for mom but now, as I grow older, I feel like I get more emotional when seeing other people with their fathers or listening songs like this one. I've come to realization that this kind of emotional wounds don't heal completely over time just like "grown up" people tell you, you just hide the fact that hurt just like it was yesterday or even more.

    • @ginge5028
      @ginge5028 Год назад +1

      Ur so strong just know that 🙂

    • @Kichidakatsumi
      @Kichidakatsumi 11 месяцев назад +2

      I agree with you. I’m 24 and have mommy issues. I still shed some tears seeing young kids with their mother. I grew up but the whole in my heart is still as big as it was. I don’t know if I will ever feel normal in that regard.

    • @elifbiton
      @elifbiton 3 месяца назад

      God bless you, keep be strong and carpe diem. I know it's hard but try is always works

  • @gremlin6968
    @gremlin6968 3 года назад +7725

    I want to listen to this song at 1am on the beach anyone wanna join

  • @l0v2e
    @l0v2e 3 года назад +8521

    him sitting in the car she's smashing shows that she's mad at him like most girls with daddy issues are towards men, but he's trapped, too. he has the same issues, same pain.

    • @FluorescentRebel
      @FluorescentRebel 3 года назад +337

      That makes a lot of sense... This has me thinking. Thank you for posting your perception

    • @aina4639
      @aina4639 3 года назад +101

      Oh my God..you're genius who exposed me

    • @jesseriddlecameron6261
      @jesseriddlecameron6261 3 года назад +58

      Wow, yeah it definitely make sense

    • @ivyfrog
      @ivyfrog 3 года назад +46

      not me crying

    • @tasheannabetts1503
      @tasheannabetts1503 3 года назад +89

      I feel that's why he's singing too. To show he feels the pain too.

  • @Moonplaysrblx
    @Moonplaysrblx Месяц назад +7

    "Its crazy what youll do for an friend"
    True words said from an wise man-

  • @junaidmalik1595
    @junaidmalik1595 10 дней назад +3

    "go ahead and cry little boy, you now that your daddy did too", shit hit home

  • @s4vda951
    @s4vda951 2 года назад +3558

    I see these girls with perfect dads and loved by them. Wish I had that childhood.

    • @a.d9562
      @a.d9562 2 года назад +63

      my childhood wasn't the greatest but after reading someone comments. I'm going to have to start appreciating the small things my dad do for me

    • @aknadulyan25
      @aknadulyan25 2 года назад +36

      I can't even imagine how they're dad's are like so. It's confusing.

    • @keepingupwitriv7763
      @keepingupwitriv7763 2 года назад +1

      Same

    • @savageyoongles3097
      @savageyoongles3097 2 года назад +11

      @@aknadulyan25 they just are like there are bad people and good people in this world so some of us got nice and loving parents and others have really fucked up ones

    • @grusenpai
      @grusenpai 2 года назад +9

      it just hurts when you see it

  • @minahilqaiser9355
    @minahilqaiser9355 2 года назад +8953

    A hug goes out to all the girls who's dads broke their heart before any boy could

  • @bacistime
    @bacistime 2 месяца назад +13

    The song that cannot be replaced by any other song. I even hear it twenty times a day, on the road, at school, and when I sleep.

  • @user-sl7mq3wu2w
    @user-sl7mq3wu2w 10 месяцев назад +13

    Daddy stuck around but he wasn’t present : my life in 7 words

  • @jamaalramaphane381
    @jamaalramaphane381 3 года назад +6607

    I swear they're no comments saying this song is sexual but there's a hundred comments telling no one to stop saying the song is sexual.

    • @whalefin1173
      @whalefin1173 3 года назад +40

      Ikr

    • @micmicbungee
      @micmicbungee 3 года назад +25

      Exactly

    • @fairyxox4019
      @fairyxox4019 3 года назад +213

      its not the comments, theres people out there saying that, ive seen many people in tiktok or instagram saying that this song has sex vibes

    • @ElisiaWrites
      @ElisiaWrites 3 года назад +75

      If you’d watched this a couple years back like I did ? Oh Chile it was ONLY sexual comments

    • @klara2129
      @klara2129 3 года назад +91

      I think they mean daddy issues in general because women's daddy issues have been sexualized for years.

  • @stilesstilinski774
    @stilesstilinski774 3 года назад +4822

    I don't have any daddy issues or something. Just reading yall comments. Kinda make me sad ngl yall don't/didn't deserve that.

  • @N1ssar
    @N1ssar 2 месяца назад +49

    Anyone listening to this masterpiece on 2024 !?!

  • @Juliyung
    @Juliyung 11 месяцев назад +80

    This song hits me in the spot because i can relate..

  • @seliamarguerite8291
    @seliamarguerite8291 3 года назад +5325

    I actually have daddy issues he never beat me or anything but his words are more hurtful than that

    • @senpai_nim375
      @senpai_nim375 3 года назад +141

      Please don't let anything bad he ever sad to you got into your head,dear. Remember that you are special in your own way 💜

    • @seliamarguerite8291
      @seliamarguerite8291 3 года назад +41

      @@senpai_nim375 thank you 🥺🥺 you’re so sweet

    • @senpai_nim375
      @senpai_nim375 3 года назад +28

      @@seliamarguerite8291 How are you doing nowadays,dear? Hopefully good 😌

    • @seliamarguerite8291
      @seliamarguerite8291 3 года назад +25

      @@senpai_nim375 pretty good I’m in a good mood these days

    • @senpai_nim375
      @senpai_nim375 3 года назад +20

      @@seliamarguerite8291 Great!Hope you will always in a good mood this year,dear☺️

  • @laravenialgo5915
    @laravenialgo5915 4 года назад +7820

    y’all were listening to this song in a sexual way???? i’m the only one listening to cry?

    • @madi.5898
      @madi.5898 4 года назад +79

      Same😭😭

    • @himmmhi8236
      @himmmhi8236 3 года назад +22

      Same...

    • @jimetorres1391
      @jimetorres1391 3 года назад +18

      Same girl

    • @InaDLauretta
      @InaDLauretta 3 года назад +35

      i accidentally made out with my boyfriend (now ex) on this song playing lmfao

    • @NA-kz5po
      @NA-kz5po 3 года назад +42

      @@InaDLauretta Accidentally?

  • @fluffycheetah2594
    @fluffycheetah2594 4 месяца назад +6

    Seven whole years later and This song still slaps. Crazy.

  • @nlwd_
    @nlwd_ 5 месяцев назад +22

    this song is my roman empire.

  • @ohno7018
    @ohno7018 5 лет назад +5029

    Makes me wanna go destroy a car, but I’m too lazy and too scared to get arrested so I guess that ain’t happening

    • @woodlandreader
      @woodlandreader 5 лет назад +51

      Oh No thats a mood

    • @Jadei74
      @Jadei74 5 лет назад +19

      Mood

    • @shania9333
      @shania9333 5 лет назад +8

      To do it with your old car if u have lol then u buy a new one

    • @lucasfenty7511
      @lucasfenty7511 5 лет назад +3

      Oh No Watch the serie "Bates Motel" the scene of Rihanna. She destroy a car with this song.

    • @gsgzhzvs2632
      @gsgzhzvs2632 5 лет назад +1

      Oh No Dude if you really want to, buy cars that cost 1000$ and under and do whatever you want with it

  • @blackandblack7
    @blackandblack7 5 лет назад +5603

    I remember
    Wearing my headphones, listening to this on full volume, running to my father’s grave
    I miss you dad. I miss you so bad.

    • @boredommademedoit
      @boredommademedoit 5 лет назад +474

      Holy fuck. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you've felt. I hope your life is on the right path and that you and your family and friends are safe and happy. Stay gold

    • @noorfatimah9013
      @noorfatimah9013 5 лет назад +95

      This MV was posted in may exactly before a month my father died this song means so much to me...

    • @noorfatimah9013
      @noorfatimah9013 5 лет назад +52

      Same I miss him the most it feels like I'm alone and not strong enough to deal with this world

    • @NG-jy7zg
      @NG-jy7zg 5 лет назад +49

      Guys I’m really sorry for you all.
      But daddy issues isn’t ACTUAL daddy..?
      I’m really sorry forgive me. Best wishes to y’all.

    • @NG-jy7zg
      @NG-jy7zg 5 лет назад +1

      4y agreed. Well I really listen to it on Apple Music, I wanted to check I there’s a official video

  • @ST4R3Y
    @ST4R3Y Месяц назад +4

    Idk if mine counts as daddy issues but this song helps.

  • @Alex-4eva
    @Alex-4eva 9 месяцев назад +16

    As a girl that spent her life with no father present, that was always at work in another country and only came like 3 days per year home, a girl who's dad cheated on her mother but her mother didnt react and acted like nothing, ... this hits hard. Me and my brother watched my mom suffer and cry everyday. Luckily, he is young and doesnt understand. But this song hits so deep for me. I cry everytime i hear it.

    • @robloxlialuv6612
      @robloxlialuv6612 9 месяцев назад +1

      Wow. I relate too you so much. We're literally the same :(

    • @Addieisabaddie
      @Addieisabaddie 8 месяцев назад

      oh girl..I'm so sorry for you.

  • @yoyoyoyovanessaa
    @yoyoyoyovanessaa 3 года назад +2416

    I don’t have daddy issues but just reading the comments makes me feel so bad for all of you :(

  • @bl_eb3rry_.
    @bl_eb3rry_. 5 месяцев назад +11

    This song hits me alot. The part "He stook around but he wasnt present" meant alot to me my dad is never home i have never spoke with him i dont know what his favorite color is. I only see him when he drops me off or take me from school.
    Its like his a stranger. An absent parent, i wouldve loved to know him more..

    • @user-tk4ub6tt7k
      @user-tk4ub6tt7k 5 месяцев назад

      be grateful that hes there somepeople arent lucky enough

    • @bl_eb3rry_.
      @bl_eb3rry_. 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@user-tk4ub6tt7k im grateful his there. But i need him to emotionally be there for me as well, i can't live not knowing my dad, i need parents to be there as a child, it can form into abandon issues and trauma. His there, but his not really with me

    • @bl_eb3rry_.
      @bl_eb3rry_. 4 месяца назад

      Okay, but you dont have to be rude. Im just saying i know people have It worse, but im talking about My own experience, having an absent dad can lead to abandon issues, trust issues and more.. U cant look down other people's issues just because theirs isnt as Big as others cause its still an issue/problem in their life that can change them. ​@@user-tk4ub6tt7k

    • @zebzeb5709
      @zebzeb5709 2 месяца назад

      ​@@user-tk4ub6tt7kthat's an awful thing to say

  • @cilenciaaaa
    @cilenciaaaa Год назад +16

    my dad was the first to break my heart before any boy.

  • @emjareo4121
    @emjareo4121 3 года назад +14921

    The song is not sexual. It’s about loving someone, and accepting their trauma because you can relate to it, acknowledging their pain, while dealing with your own.

    • @strangerranger1397
      @strangerranger1397 3 года назад +478

      The song is whatever you want it to be. It’s not just one thing

    • @user-lw5ez6ic1d
      @user-lw5ez6ic1d 3 года назад +182

      it’s not? People perceive music in a lot of different forms don’t tell people who to think

    • @trinitig1115
      @trinitig1115 3 года назад +118

      @@user-lw5ez6ic1d he’s literally talking about children you cannot view this song as sexual weirdo

    • @trinitig1115
      @trinitig1115 3 года назад +202

      @@strangerranger1397 it cannot be sexual

    • @safirahmichel3742
      @safirahmichel3742 3 года назад +16

      Amen!

  • @lunamoon17
    @lunamoon17 5 лет назад +3610

    I like the background sounds of the car being smashed in this video.

  • @greenlizard4208
    @greenlizard4208 11 месяцев назад +58

    this song has helped me a lot actually with the hatred and jealousy i get from just seeing fathers having a happy moment with their kid. Whenever, and wherever i see it i don't know why i just get so bitter and hateful. Things just start running through my mind, bad things, but this song just like, i don't know, makes me face it with my true-er feelings. makes me realize that under all that resentment and hate i'm really just needing a shoulder to lean on, someone to look up to.
    P.S. If you have the luck of having both parents in your life, and the luck of them being good people, this isn't a message to make you feel guilty about or to make you feel like you're some spoiled brat. Just love them, be happy you have them, and spend every moment with them like it's your last. that's really the best thing you can do, just be grateful you have them because not everyone does.

  • @horiii7256
    @horiii7256 2 дня назад +1

    I used to listen to that song thinking my dad was the reason of everything, now after 20 years I realized my mom was the reason for everything bad happened to me and man now i need a song for mommy issues

  • @xenon1801
    @xenon1801 5 лет назад +8179

    THE NEIGHBORHOOD
    IS
    THE
    MOST
    AESTHETICALLY PLEASING
    BAND
    ❤️

  • @imok.sadness
    @imok.sadness 2 года назад +10969

    To anyone struggling:
    You’re stronger than any test, paper due, breakup, money issue, or any battle you’re facing. Keep your head up.

  • @yourmuse7
    @yourmuse7 8 месяцев назад +6

    Listening to this song after a few years just hits home especially with where my state of mind was, I would've been so surprised that I'm still here. If God can He will

  • @Soraskyetic
    @Soraskyetic Месяц назад +5

    i hate how this song always triggers me but still i listen to it on repeat every single day

  • @stephanglo8234
    @stephanglo8234 4 года назад +1934

    HOW DID I *NOT* KNOW THEY HAD A MUSIC VIDEO FOR THIS SONG???? i've heard it a thousand times but never seen this

  • @tanisha._b9033
    @tanisha._b9033 3 года назад +11762

    This song has such a deep meaning and tiktokers are over here making thirst traps to this song. That's embarrassing

    • @h_a1019
      @h_a1019 3 года назад +180

      Agreed.

    • @chokedmekuroo4068
      @chokedmekuroo4068 3 года назад +106

      Hell yeah 😭

    • @tanyadutary2203
      @tanyadutary2203 3 года назад +49

      Agree

    • @artmmmm8279
      @artmmmm8279 3 года назад +45

      I don't really understand the meaning of the song. Can you explain please?

    • @oliviamaher2333
      @oliviamaher2333 3 года назад +1000

      @@artmmmm8279 he’s talking to a girl about how he understands and accepts that she has a bad relationship with her dad and how that makes her feel uneasy trusting guys that she dates and he can relate to that and he wants her to know she’ll be safe with him and he’ll love her unlike her dad, because girls with daddy issues have trouble with dating because they fear they’ll be left or not enough, the same way their dad made them feel. And the last bridge in the song he talks about how he feels pertaining to his dad, and how even if his dad is gone and he tried to let him go and acts like he doesn’t care, deep down he wish he could tell his dad what he’s done and wants his dad to be proud of him. Further trying to make the listener who can relate feel understood and safe and know that it’s ok to feel that way bc so does he but that we’re enough and worthy of love and we’re strong and deserving of being proud of

  • @sssaqwv
    @sssaqwv 4 месяца назад +13

    это песня терапия для большей части России. иногда проблемы в семье скапливаются и для того, что бы просто дать слезам волю нужно включить эту песню и погрузится. большое спасибо за этот шедевр

  • @ruizmartinez19
    @ruizmartinez19 11 месяцев назад +6

    And my dad doesn't know how much I need him since I was little

  • @timothymadison2673
    @timothymadison2673 3 года назад +4102

    Daddy issues is a psychological term to describe girls and women who felt a vacuum of some sorts through their father. It's not sexual per say, though there are documented cases of such being as so. Incest. However more often that not it's some form of absence or disconnection with a father. And yes, even death. And if that vacuum is still felt when she is older and has a boyfriend or husband, daddy issues may manifest themselves into sexual difficulties for the woman and her partner. A real man does not want to be your daddy. He wants to be your partner or your husband. If you treat him any differently, you're sabotaging yourself and your potential children. The lyrics to the song play up to the girls issues. As the narrator describes himself as wanting to be her daddy. It's a form of manipulation on the part of the man. A play on her weakness. Yet in the same breath, the girl/woman allows this to proceed, because of prior issues with her father. Filling an emotional void. Usually the woman grows up and overcomes these things. And that daddy figure ends up screwing himself. A smart man knows better and won't play a daddy role unless it's with his own children. Here is the definition of what daddy issues is: Daddy issues is an informal phrase for the psychological challenges resulting from an absent or abnormal relationship with one's father, often manifesting in a distrust of, or sexual desire for, men who act as father figures.

    • @m_obodova6526
      @m_obodova6526 3 года назад +148

      I haven't heard anything like that before, it's very interesting
      Thanks a lot for your explanation 💓💓 Now I'm able to understand the meaning of this song

    • @ANT-kl7ol
      @ANT-kl7ol 3 года назад +165

      You know men can also have daddy issues right? And what about lesbians? How does it affect them?

    • @skyinuri8868
      @skyinuri8868 3 года назад +29

      Im crying for this describtion

    • @armyyyyyyyyyyyy
      @armyyyyyyyyyyyy 3 года назад +35

      Woah this comment is so fucking underrated

    • @hehehehe9921
      @hehehehe9921 3 года назад +46

      Dang dude you took the time to write that. Props to u

  • @kayleecundiff6774
    @kayleecundiff6774 5 лет назад +2311

    i miss this era of the band tbh :( happy they’re successful now tho

    • @michellealvarado9494
      @michellealvarado9494 5 лет назад

      Kaylee Cundiff me too

    • @bads5780
      @bads5780 5 лет назад +34

      Wdym? Didnt wiped out! Have more success than hard to Imagine the neighbourhood ever changing?

    • @MayStephan
      @MayStephan 4 года назад +29

      Their sound hasn't really changed though

    • @LangBellsChannel
      @LangBellsChannel 4 года назад +13

      I pray the wires aren't coming

    • @katu3390
      @katu3390 4 года назад +1

      @@MayStephan yes it has

  • @lilgvg3094
    @lilgvg3094 Год назад +7

    "لا شيء أسوأ من أن يُعاد شعور قديم، جاهدتُ طويلاً لتجاوزه."

    • @Oppenheimer_mezo
      @Oppenheimer_mezo 10 месяцев назад +1

      حلو في عرب هون😊
      من وين؟

    • @lilgvg3094
      @lilgvg3094 10 месяцев назад

      @@Oppenheimer_mezo الاردن

    • @Oppenheimer_mezo
      @Oppenheimer_mezo 10 месяцев назад

      @@lilgvg3094 أهلاً

  • @Shadow-black-41
    @Shadow-black-41 2 месяца назад +6

    It hits different when you actually have daddy issues like with me I have mommy and daddy issues

  • @aleja7963
    @aleja7963 4 года назад +3714

    2020... still alive?
    - 🦋

  • @yourdaddy3837
    @yourdaddy3837 4 года назад +11130

    Why do y’all have issues with me? Smh

    • @darbiapalmer2794
      @darbiapalmer2794 4 года назад +775

      Because you left daddy

    • @yourdaddy3837
      @yourdaddy3837 4 года назад +286

      Darby Say well 😏

    • @darbiapalmer2794
      @darbiapalmer2794 4 года назад +577

      I cant beleive it took you that long to get the milk

    • @jryantmedia
      @jryantmedia 4 года назад +212

      @Wʜɪᴛᴇx Vɪᴏʟɪɴ i never trusted that store down the street...

    • @lorinberano8399
      @lorinberano8399 4 года назад +197

      Because you mentally destroyed me

  • @ItziarGuerraHenao-kw1yb
    @ItziarGuerraHenao-kw1yb 8 месяцев назад +4

    That song makes me cry. I dont understand english but has sad vibes

  • @Real_Shawn
    @Real_Shawn 10 месяцев назад +11

    This song hits different when listening in late night dark alone at 11:00pm

  • @lizethvillegas290
    @lizethvillegas290 8 лет назад +1231

    OMFG I JUST DIED BUT THEN I CAME BACK ALIVE BECAUSE JESSE IN A SUIT IS LIFE

    • @iamknx304
      @iamknx304 8 лет назад +7

      ik....like fuuuuucccckkkkkk yes😩😍😍

    • @yummy9872
      @yummy9872 8 лет назад +2

      YAAAASSSSD

    • @alifrajurahman624
      @alifrajurahman624 8 лет назад

      isn't that zach abels ?

    • @iamknx304
      @iamknx304 8 лет назад

      .

    • @alifrajurahman624
      @alifrajurahman624 8 лет назад

      +Nyte Knox oh nevermind then got confused cause of the no tear drops tattoo. :3

  • @jakjak25maria12
    @jakjak25maria12 7 лет назад +1430

    The most underrated song and band. I'm happy they're still our little secret, but it pains me that the amazing work behind The Neighbourhood's music is not more recognized. Gives the true meaning to "hidden gem".

    • @gracelynmclamb3608
      @gracelynmclamb3608 7 лет назад +10

      Rosestyles8 omg your so right this band is amazing

    • @sneekz07
      @sneekz07 7 лет назад +14

      The video has 3 million+ views. They aren't 'our little secret'.

    • @anirose6807
      @anirose6807 7 лет назад +27

      Elle Keener 3 million views is nothing for a band. Cage the Elephant has more and they aren't barely even on the grid. Taylor Swift gets billions of views. Remember, a view isn't even on person, a view counts for 1/8 of a person since each person views a video more than once. That's not even a million people. That's extremely underrated for a talent this great.

    • @hraeu
      @hraeu 7 лет назад +2

      Rosestyles8 LARRY LARRY LARRY

    • @f0rumrr
      @f0rumrr 7 лет назад +12

      Sweater weather is pretty well known... 145 million vevo views...

  • @youaremorethanperfect
    @youaremorethanperfect 6 месяцев назад +2

    no one's talking about how the video makes you feel like all your troubles are gone...this song seems to find the emotions I never knew I had and its so amazing...Thankyou...I needed this❤

  • @a-lu2863
    @a-lu2863 10 месяцев назад +96

    um clássico que nunca morre.

  • @kouffeejelly
    @kouffeejelly Год назад +6565

    Listening to this on fathers day seeing all my friends posting their dads while i just watch their stories

    • @bellsgotitnowft
      @bellsgotitnowft Год назад +195

      Same here.... I wish I knew what was a father's love

    • @melike8498
      @melike8498 Год назад +32

      and i don't have a friend

    • @clevermind5865
      @clevermind5865 Год назад +10

      @@melike8498 you fine man?

    • @user-vf8qw5od7z
      @user-vf8qw5od7z Год назад +44

      I was watching Netflix just to avoid that, and then a really wholesome father-daughter scene came up, and i just started sobbing uncontrollably 🥲

    • @reniela4644
      @reniela4644 Год назад +49

      i want to experience being "daddy's girl"

  • @kalady3671
    @kalady3671 3 года назад +594

    “You know what your daddy did to” and “you know what your momma went through”
    Get me crying every time it’s just so deep.

  • @bryleee-dq9fm
    @bryleee-dq9fm 19 дней назад +2

    my dad is still here and hes not physically abusive but hes mentally abusive even if he denies it he is and i try to love him but damn it hurts and he tries to get along with me but it never works and i try to laugh and smile with him even when he hurts me mentally i still try to be a good daughter to him so this song is comfort for me even if i dont know if i have daddy issues

  • @user-ni1tl6jc6y
    @user-ni1tl6jc6y 7 дней назад +1

    I'm crying right now

  • @starsmidnight
    @starsmidnight 3 года назад +2545

    I don't have any parental issues but, reading some of your stories genuinely had me sobbing for half an hour. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Some adults should have never been parents. The ones who were supposed to protect and love you became the demons in your head. Please remember that while you can't choose your parents, you can choose who you love in the future and I really hope that you'll find someone who will love you more than you can ever imagine.

    • @okibye8600
      @okibye8600 2 года назад +29

      Thanks , just wish n believe will find a guy who never fights with me , idk how shattered i d be to ever go through that what i saw n experience while growing up.

    • @bluewolfchicken7310
      @bluewolfchicken7310 2 года назад +30

      I wish everyone was as empathetic and understanding as you are... Thank you very much

    • @insha7556
      @insha7556 2 года назад +6

      I pray that we heal and attract healthy relationships with others

    • @dislexiiea
      @dislexiiea 2 года назад +3

      same, but i only have mommy issues. anyways take care of yourself, you are worth it.

    • @alejandronanclareseusse1662
      @alejandronanclareseusse1662 2 года назад +1

      Do you accept CHRIST in your heart? Do you accept the life that GOD has for you??

  • @nikvlai9730
    @nikvlai9730 3 года назад +1770

    i don’t have daddy issues but this song is really calming for me
    edit: ok maybe i do? recently discovered my dad might be a bit abusive

    • @angie-lynnfajardo2868
      @angie-lynnfajardo2868 3 года назад +43

      This song makes me cry because I relate this.

    • @brandonar868
      @brandonar868 3 года назад +4

      I think you all have daddy issues then....

    • @Autumn-rt8jg
      @Autumn-rt8jg 3 года назад +21

      Same, I don't have them, but I like listening to this

    • @magdalenagavric6819
      @magdalenagavric6819 3 года назад +1

      catra 🥺🥺🥺

    • @deathbysunset1318
      @deathbysunset1318 3 года назад +8

      Dad : Ight imma head out to get some milk
      Mom : ok dear
      Two hours later : no return
      Five years later : no return
      Yep I don’t have daddy issues

  • @jisoov1
    @jisoov1 Месяц назад +2

    I know it's not a love song but why does it sound like a love song? The melody brings so many memories that are supposed to be forgotten but we remember , AGAIN

  • @Soso-ro3rb
    @Soso-ro3rb 3 месяца назад +3

    There isn’t a time I didn’t cry to this. I miss the neighbourhood so much there music just gets me🙃🫶🏻

  • @hecatesgf9034
    @hecatesgf9034 8 лет назад +840

    that ending litERALLY HAD ME SQUEELING:
    WHAT?
    WHAT WAS THAT?

  • @rawr6412
    @rawr6412 3 года назад +5930

    The worst part about daddy issues is when you have that mom who just sits back and* is like "well...what do you want me to do ?🙂"

    • @ahanaroychoudhuri
      @ahanaroychoudhuri 3 года назад +125

      You are spot on 🙂

    • @patricialondon520
      @patricialondon520 3 года назад +235

      Fr it’s the worst, she just says life goes on and people have had worse. Lol my dad is married and didn’t tell his wife about me and he didn’t tell me he was married, sis how am I supposed to just move on from that.

    • @rawr6412
      @rawr6412 3 года назад +146

      @@patricialondon520 Some moms be just as toxic as dads or worse 😀👍

    • @Miseducation8
      @Miseducation8 3 года назад +75

      toxic mom 😍 and dad is out getting milk 🥛 love it here

    • @youremother1774
      @youremother1774 3 года назад +6

      Ikr 😞

  • @theanirudhagnihotri
    @theanirudhagnihotri Год назад +4

    The music video is sooo well shot from cinematography to camera focus, it literally slaps along with the lyrics.

  • @ekwxo
    @ekwxo Год назад +5

    I grew up in the midst of this, my father is an alcoholic who always beat my mother and when my mother wasn't there he beat my aunt. Growing up in the midst of this made me strong.

  • @audreywang3060
    @audreywang3060 3 года назад +1648

    "every time you
    tell your daughter
    you yell at her
    out of love
    you teach her to confuse
    anger with kindness
    which seems like a good idea
    till she grows up to
    trust men who hurt her
    cause they look so much
    like you"
    to fathers with daughters - rupi kaur

    • @alyahusna6932
      @alyahusna6932 2 года назад +8

      Oof

    • @coldlava5436
      @coldlava5436 2 года назад +20

      Its never out of love believe me there's no love

    • @BRUH-rj1mh
      @BRUH-rj1mh 2 года назад +18

      I just wish he could stayed but he left idky when ig i was 4 like he moved put of our house we still stayed in touch but it was very little and now it just doesn't exist like he'd call me once in ig 3 months or smtg like he doesn't even gaf abt me i don't understand how do u just forget ur daughter like that I'm currently 16 and ik it's been a while since he left and stuff butit hurts so much and everytime I listen to this song it makes me cry thinking abt the entire situation like what could have i done so he still could've stayed and my mom? She keeps on telling me how I am an disappointment and laughs at my face if i cry bcz it's too much and she tells me that I am being manipulative by crying like dude how I don't understand can I not even express my feelings or smtg without being called manipulative she also tells me that she is doing the part that my father could've done but it stills affects the fact that he left right? He could've stayed and we could've been a happy family but nah. Anyways I had a lot going on in my head so I vented out here and ily and thanks if u read the entire thing🥺 have a nice day ahead and I will always love u ! Bye!

    • @coldlava5436
      @coldlava5436 2 года назад +8

      @@BRUH-rj1mh he doesn't deserve you or your mother . You are not a disappointment . I'm so sorry you had to go through all this . Who knows if he didn't leave . He could have been a great dad or the one like mine abusive and just evil . And yes you can cry and no one can stop you from expressing your emotions . Hang in there buddy at this moment I personally can only say we can get out of this and we should get out . We don't belong here . And its not like running away or giving up . We just don't deserve this . Its not worth staying for. Don't forget to laugh its no one's business to control our emotions. Good day:)

    • @BRUH-rj1mh
      @BRUH-rj1mh 2 года назад +5

      @@coldlava5436 THANK YOU SO FKIN MUCH FOR THIS DUDE. I really needed this rn and yesssss we can get through this and we indeed do deserve better and I am so sorry for ur abusive father tho u deserve SOOO MUCH BETTER and I pray that the best comes ur way buddy and we can make it to the better part of life:)

  • @radialaalaoui5098
    @radialaalaoui5098 4 года назад +694

    "If u were my lil girl I'd do whatever I could do id run away and hide with u" hits me hard

    • @asf-xj6xz
      @asf-xj6xz 4 года назад +11

      As it should

    • @vivlodia
      @vivlodia 3 года назад +13

      idk why that one line makes me so sad

  • @heathertaylor8904
    @heathertaylor8904 9 месяцев назад +4

    Man, ive never heard this before and it wrenched my heart out. My dad wasn't there though i know he wanted to be. He was on meth, and opiates, and a bad alcoholic. Recently he got out of jail for meth production only to find out he has liver cancer.
    When he died, i never really had anyone before that i was close to that died. Id wake up already crying, it was like someone ripped out my soul. We both have been through so much, and he's the only person I've ever known who made sense to me, that i understood, even if he was less than useless as a parent. He was like a twin spirit. I made sense, knowing his soul.
    I'm sorry we never got it right, daddy. I understand why you were the way you were, and I'm not mad anymore. I hope you're resting peacefully.

  • @siri7907
    @siri7907 Месяц назад +1

    forever a goated song

  • @payget3882
    @payget3882 5 лет назад +5332

    I think that the girl lost her dad and Jesse is letting her take all the pain and anger out on him but he also has daddy issues but he puts that aside and focuses on her. "It's crazy what you'd do for a friend" is like how crazy Jesse is being for letting that girl destroy his car but he remains calm.

    • @ruth5460
      @ruth5460 5 лет назад +130

      Holy shit that makes so much sense

    • @cheeto1353
      @cheeto1353 5 лет назад +35

      Thank you. This makes sense now

    • @sixofsnails6364
      @sixofsnails6364 5 лет назад +35

      Wow. That was a beautiful description. I felt it.

    • @Jpickle555
      @Jpickle555 5 лет назад +103

      My take on the video is showing how crazy people can get when they have abusive parents. The boy sits there, not caring because he understands.

    • @visibleconfusion192
      @visibleconfusion192 5 лет назад +15

      My guess would be to establish the relationship and how he might be/is obsessed with the girl.

  • @yashny
    @yashny Год назад +7714

    This song hits differently when you can actually relate to it. Sending love and healing to everyone who has had an abusive/absent father xx

    • @Starmadzia
      @Starmadzia Год назад +11

      Reall

    • @yashny
      @yashny Год назад +7

      @@Starmadzia yes

    • @Ash-ho9og
      @Ash-ho9og Год назад +25

      my dad hits me

    • @bunnydahl1353
      @bunnydahl1353 Год назад +35

      This comment I totally have a terrible relationship with my father it’s totally fucked that he was never here for me but can do stuff with his girlfriend that he couldn’t ever do with me

    • @doc.jekyll7709
      @doc.jekyll7709 Год назад +9

      il m'aimait il est mort trop tot je ne me souviens presque de rien de lui seulement quelques échantillons d'amour il me manque tellement

  • @user-nt3qg1tq7q
    @user-nt3qg1tq7q 9 дней назад +1

    " I know that you have daddy issues" gets meee

  • @angelhavinstars
    @angelhavinstars 13 дней назад +1

    From the moment the song starts the tune start it gets me into a dark cliff where u keep falling into the darkness but never reach the ground

  • @yu3alay459
    @yu3alay459 3 года назад +8627

    Okay but smashing a car with a hammer seems so fun and satisfying

    • @chab_e
      @chab_e 3 года назад +62

      Who buys the hammer?

    • @krabinho9841
      @krabinho9841 3 года назад +113

      @@chab_e aight i do, but who buys the car?

    • @bro-eo5vv
      @bro-eo5vv 3 года назад +71

      i got the car, whenever y’all are ready

    • @krabinho9841
      @krabinho9841 3 года назад +57

      @@bro-eo5vv Wednesday 17 pm, how bout that?

    • @bro-eo5vv
      @bro-eo5vv 3 года назад +35

      @@krabinho9841 i’m down bro

  • @TheDanielleDenise
    @TheDanielleDenise 6 лет назад +2639

    The song makes me cry. The video makes me feel better.

  • @TrueRevitalized....
    @TrueRevitalized.... Год назад +34

    essa musica tem uma vibe tão profunda que não sei nem explicar!

    • @thaianysantos3605
      @thaianysantos3605 Год назад +1

      Me sinto naquele dia que um cara me pegou na frente da escola....

  • @AbhilashaSharma-eq8wm
    @AbhilashaSharma-eq8wm Месяц назад +1

    I want more song like thisssss

  • @sophia.6233
    @sophia.6233 3 года назад +965

    I feel like they would play this song in a club while everyone thinks it’s a sexual song but I’m on the floor crying my eyes out because i actually have daddy issues and I understand the meaning of the song

    • @jodie7951
      @jodie7951 3 года назад +21

      Same, I can't listen to this without breaking down

    • @caffeine1720
      @caffeine1720 3 года назад +3

      But you’re nishinoya u can’t be sad

    • @unfortunateson5016
      @unfortunateson5016 3 года назад +1

      It's always the kids with anime pics yikes.

    • @sophia.6233
      @sophia.6233 3 года назад +3

      Unfortunate Son yeah and what about it? Tell me😀!🧏🏾‍♀️😹 oh okay 😐👎🏾 .

    • @wanda5581
      @wanda5581 3 года назад +1

      @@unfortunateson5016 profile pictures dont rlly matter but go off