THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE DATING AN AFRICAN MAN 😂😂😂
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Hello Family, Welcome to this video THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE DATING AN AFRICAN MAN we teceived the visit of @chefmatiko and his wife Laura @MatiandLaura from Spain and we had a fun conversation about the struggles we went through datin our african man.
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Very constructive conversation from RoMarwa and LauMatiko ..it was worth watching the video.
I loved the conversation. I’m so happy you have someone to speak Spanish with. I’m so sorry for the loss of Deejay. I was wondering where she was. She was such a bright light from the gate to the kitchen with her beautiful smile. Sweet and tough. She took her work seriously. She reminded me of myself. Rest in heaven dear sister. May God continue to shine on her family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lovely both of you Roc & Laura having a wonderful conversation ❤❤.
News for Marwa... Once the baby comes, you will find that everything will change.... And you will have a new reality.... Please be ready for that....
Thus, is Africa. It is so easy to get a nanny.
why is that?
@@user-ob1zo4dw2g I'm wondering too...
Marwa is already a biological father,he’s a deadbeat. Racio has a child also, both are deadbeats.
Matikho is that guy you need when it comes to navigating life and marriage - especially from a cross cultural perspective... Marwa you and Ro are lucky to have him in your lives
I like the way Matikos wife respects his culture and mingles freely with everybody she is a free spirit
Remember he was here working as a volunteer before they met with matiko.
She isn't new in the village.
You need some plenty of floor rugs in that wide room.
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That is how spanish are. They are free to express their feelings, not like we africans hide our feelings and keep for ourselves.
Matiko and Marwa are different Matiko is intelligent conscious and responsible and hard hard working he is loved from people and Marwa is weird ignorant stupid, lazy he does not work and he is loved by the people and not responsible very stingy cheater and posses all negative image in Kenya and I hope Rocio changes him and guide him to be like Matiko 😂😅
@@kidaneisaac7691Rocio will have her work cut out for her to change the swamp man
That's very nice to finally meet someone who speaks the same language with you. Them Kenyan men are loving the latinas..gooood❤❤❤❤
🤩🤩😍😍love the conversation, you killed it, it is the truth, culture is really something 🤗
Great to see this collab 🫡👊🏿🙏🏿
It's good feeling to hear those children voices from the background. Hoping soon the voices to be a permanent feature in future videos
Chef Matiko has a civilized mindset. He is not going to let an old cultural practice separate his family. Even if his sister married. She is welcome to come home and spend time with her family. I heard he mentioned that in a video with Nasto. I love it. Imagine your blood sister married, and because of culture, 3 yrs you never see her. That emotional stress can't see your siblings. Not good! Family must bond, and nothing must separate family.
Cheff Matiko is mixed looks like Black/Arab or Indian mix, as well as Nasto nd Mike Venture if u saw their Granny it says it all. Mixed people of Africa can fit in any nation on planet earth it's just born within you.
Mixed race people come in all skin shades Ladys and hair textures too
Beautiful vlog and content Rocio! Keep doing such Beautiful content always. 😊
Matiko seems very reasonable and listening.
It was a pleasant conversation; my friend had the sentiment that if she had her daughter first, she wouldn't have her second one; she wanted to have four children. My prayers are for you both to have a strong, healthy boy first😂😂... Be blessed
Hi Ro, I fulljoyed this very inspiring and interactive video! Thank you for sharing 💯🙏🏾☺️👏🏾🤩👍🏾
The wisdom in Chef Matiko is top notch, Marwa you are getting very good advice
I am from the USA and I was pretty shocked that to find that if the marriage doesn't work. The father keeps all the children and this is the way it is in the court system. Now if the mother is single then she can see the children but if she remarries then she doesn't get to see the father doesn't want the new husband to have any say over his children. Can you tell me if this is the same way from where you come from. God forbid but if you were to divorce you would just probably go home without any children. The men that I have met online dating site all have children but they don't take care of them they leave it for their parents to take care of them. They just make sure they stay in their home where they have full say.
Great conversation and thank you Chef Matiko & wife for good parenting advice to Marwa and Rocio. Greetings from Australia 🇦🇺, so sorry for the sad news about DJ ROSE 🌹. CONDOLENCES 🙏 to PABLO KE , FAMILY & ENTIRE TEAM MARWA. May the soul of beautiful DJ ROSE 🌹 🙏 🙏 🙏 RIP.
Kindly ROCIO, can you please involve DEE, DAVY, CONGRATS MUM & DAD to support Marwa to STOP those people threatening Marwa, destroying Marwa's BRAND & damaging MARWA'S LEGENCY. PLEASE KINDLY TELL MARWA to do something!!!!! Very sad, painful to watch NYABOHANESE Village being COMPROMISED by LAZY NEGATIVE GANGS.
Mtikos wife has really adjusted like a gooood wife in the village
Who else was enjoying the cat's plays n company like me 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤it's so heart warming!!!
I was looking at the Cat through out the conversation 😂
OMG i have notice that Laura loves her kid so much wow mashallah 😍
Yeah. Her daughter if everything for her. She does not want to miss her daughter from her eyes even for seconds. She is very much obsessed with her daughter.
That's true
A KING 👑 IS A KING. NO OTHER THAN HIS WIFE SHOULD SERVE HIM HIS MEALS. ❤❤❤❤❤BLESSINGS A JAMAICAN IN NEW YORK
A successful mixed family relationship is to understand and respect both cultures and find a good balance, in my opinion. Great conversation Ro and I can't wait to welcome the Ro and Marwa family.
Very true 👌❤
Commitment, honesty, truthfulness and love conquers those barriers.
Wow I sooooo get this conversation from the spanish perspective. Nice n real talk❤
Hallo Mrs Marwa and Mrs Matiko, thanks for conversation that is interesting, true reflection of relationships life. I gain so much listening from both of you, keep it up, more love for you ladies ❤from South Africa
African Men are learning how key life balance is in having a healthy family life.❤
This was a very positive and constructive discussion nmand not forgetting the laughter.
Hello Ro
I really really enjoyed this video. Great conversation two beautiful ladies God bless. 🙏🏾❤️👌👊🏽
This was a good conversation. Very mature content. Wishing them a happy love life
Marwa really needs to have an open mind about life. He is too insistent about village life around Nyabohanse. He comes across like he would love to delegate his duties of raising his child to the village or to his mom. I’ve watched Chef Matiko and he is a very hands on dad and his advice is 💯 on point. Raising a kid is hard work!! Also isn’t it time that Marwa also started helping Rocio with serving food?? Sitting down to wait for her to serve him while she is this far into the pregnancy comes across as being a male chauvinist. Small things like serving her goes a long way to make a marriage last
Love the conversation between the two wives RoMarwa & LauMatiko. Thank you, ladies ... very informative and educational video.
Good company with Chef Matiko's wife she is a good person.Love her deportment.Buena suerte en la relación entre los dos.Each one teach teach each other.
Matiko is such a gentleman ❤
Postpartum is another serious problem for mothers and it can last longer for some people. Fathers got to help.
I heard some woman permanently lose themselves😮
Interesting conversation about culture Rocio and Laura
And family together after culture
Great video...happy you have friends with children and especially rocio has a spanish speaking female friend to talk with...this is good for her soul.
Lovely tribute to your manager who passed ❤
I grew up eating at the table... On holiday I do it with my children! It is time to know what is going on with each other
Marwa marwa❤
Beautiful content Ro 😊
As far as adults living with the parents, it’s not so much cultural rather than familiar. It depends on the parent child dynamics as well as religious beliefs.
Rocio beautiful baby mother 👩🍼 pregnancy makes you glowing stay blessed mam
I love this conversation of the two of you 😂. It was so funny when Laura was explaining about the broom 🧹 I'm married to a Kenyan as well but we live in the United Kingdom when my husband came to live whit me hi took the stick of of the broom 🧹 and only sweep the floor white the brus 🤯.
Jamaica 🇯🇲 in the house 😊 i love and respect how you both adopt to the different culture 😊nice and insightful conversation between you both 👍 ❤
I respect and like Boss Lady's character. I am a person who enjoys hearing people's hearts not words and I hear her heart.
RoMarwa and LauMatiko and baby Mara 🎉🎉❤❤
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.
I am sorry for your loss guys. May
Her Soul Rest In Peace.
I hope her Son gets all the help he needs in regards to education 🙏🏾
Hi guys,
I love the conversation today between you guys. Entertaining, yet factual.. Every family parenting experience is different. The one thing that should be constant in child rearing is installing a feeding and sleeping schedule for the baby from birth.
Sleeping schedule is very important. The baby should go to sleep with soft music or soothing sound at the same time everyday in her/his own bed with a full stomach and clean diaper in order to sleep well. This training period is crucial. After 4 week+, the baby will adapt to this schedule and will make your life easier. He/she may cry in the beginning but should be ignored unless the baby needs changing or is sick.
This schedule will make you the best baby whisperer ever.
Rocio, I know that with your calm spirit you will be a very discipline and good mother.
Congratulations again & good luck with your delivery.
Its time for Matiko and Rola to get another baby look at the cat 🐈 its very comfortable in Matiko arms that is a sign guys can't you see ❤😂😂😂🙌 i enjoying this video from here at Dar es salaam Tanzania 🇹🇿.
Does Marwa think birthing is like pooping or what😂😂😂 have mercy... it's more than sperm donating🤭 sorry 4 that. But he has to be considerate what women go through 🙂
Very good tips, good energy and respect for each other, don’t forget you were a couple before the child. So your relationship is a priority and everything else will fall in place.
Hola su discussion es muy educativa donde dos culturas se enceuntran he agredezco a la sra .Marwa por comprender a su hombre y nuestra cultura Africana .aprendi Espanol gracias a Marwa y le estare eternamente agredecido.
Wait 3yrs before having a second child. You have to give your body a while to heal. Also the bigger child will play as mumy to the younger one
True most women don't wait for the body to heal.Its vital for the babies and both parents ❤
this is an extraordinary experience for you. You two have learned a lot of things. Youu hae a ot in common and you compliment each other, I am not surprised if you become besties. That is most interesting
My condolences and love to DJ family. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.
In Kenya it's also wrong to employ an underage. Child labour is wrong in Kenya.
Ro, you can switch it up. One Day couples therapy, the next how to keep your relationship, the third sing some of your music… call it wake up Africa…?I love the diversity mixing cultures… living and learning one another…
@sophie South Africa good content Rocio that was educative. It's nice to get advice from those who have seen it all they talk about what they have experience that is matiko and Laura 👍🏽👌💯✅🙏🥰
I love to see you, my dear, you are so beautiful and you have integrated in africa without complexes. Ilove you so much ❤❤
I love the expression of chef matiko's wife their conversation is fantastic 🤩
VERY NICE VIDEO RO I TOO SENT MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY I PRAY GOD WILL GIVE THEM STRENGTH IN THERE TIME OF GRIEVE💝🙏
The ending gave me goosebumps. I felt that Rocio. MHSRIP.
Good one and wish you well rocio.
The kitten is in love with Tiko
Sorry for your loss. Praying for you and her family and loved ones ❤🙏🏼😇🌻🌻🌻🌻😊😊
Very interesting topic
An amazing video right there a beautiful conversation,Laura and chef Matiko you are an amazing couple just like our travel commando and Ro.Stay blessed
And unfortunately it depends on the child, a Man may be willing to help his son and daughter in law vs. his daughter and son in law.
I didn't know Matiko's spoke such fluent English....very interesting conversation
Keep grinding 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿👋🏿👋🏿🙏🏿🌹🌹
Amazing video Rocio
Raising kids is not dumping them to grandmas they will help yes but don’t make them full time nannies. Grandmas raised you so you raise your own period. Think like you got brains
Also the grandma ask for the children coz they are lonely
Use your brain because other cultures have nothing like dumping kids to their loved ones or making them nannies. Was your mother your nanny? We live in extended families and each member is a child and they belong not exist
Yes true yo a point but grandmas are always attached to their grandcchild visa versa especially the first one
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@@doricahnjahi5694 Yeah sometimes I am the bad guy
Interesting conversation blending cultures blessings
I want that cat! salaam all the way from Minneapolis, MN USA. Beautiful families.
Thank Rocio...Wishing you and marwa the very best
Ounce, you're in pampers you're stay in it. Have the two children, they will grow together
Yes, the two siblings will grow up together and have a very close bond!
Maura is a very smart little girl that's why she can't sit still. Her activeness is not hyperactivity but a sign of brilliance and smartness. Her brains works like a computer. She needs to be kept busy at all times otherwise nobody arround her will have peace. Lau and Chef Matiko are lucky to have her.
Very good dialogue and very informative
Lovely video,learned alot.
Thanks
Rocio it’s lovely to see you with somebody you can speak the same language . Please get covers for the sofas , kids jump on them and they can get dirty.
Very good convos there Ro❤❤❤
Chef matiko is a cooool guy.
Hi. Beautiful to see the life style. You guys are great. We'll I am also from south Africa in Durban. Take care 😊
MHSRIP I remember her beautiful smile, what a lady 💔
Love the kitten that jumped on Matikos lap, very precious baby.❤
Ro all my 3 children have just about 1 year gap between them. Though it doesn't reduce the pressure but it helps with raising all together.
Some rich advice and companionship. Loved it. ❤
So great to see u Rocio with Laura ❤ growing up as mineworkers kids we grew toghter with many different cultures , had our love in other cultures . Here we have a saying " take the best of both worlds " U and Marwa are smart people and u both for shure gonna find the way to create your own culture that is a mix of both .... ❤❤❤ Sorry for everyones Loss of DJ . And condolences to her family ❤
Lols “she’s angry every minute😂😂😂. didn’t know Ro was pregnant already❤Aww sweet💕💕💕
So nice to see you smile and have company you can relate with you look so happy the both of you. ❤❤
But I think it depends on the family to how they bring up the kids. I’m in African. I’m a Ugandans when I was growing up in my village, we all eat together and nobody leaves until everybody is done. You can leave before other other family. We always eat together.
And when leaving the table you have to say excuse me
Enjoyed watching you guys
Yes, agree Marwa your idea of raising a child is much different than the reality of it. Just take one day at a time once the baby is born, support Rosillo before and after is born, be thoughtful too. The mother takes on more responsibility after it is born there is always something to do until it is old enough where it will speak, etc. but work will always need to be done, bathing, feeding, giving attention, etc. when the child becomes ill. Give and make time for each other be there for each other..❤
Rocio is very intelligent woman.
Laura and Matecho, gave great advice.
Very interesting video. 😊 Greetings from St. Lucia.
Rocio and Marwa, YOUR MARRIAGE WILL WORK BEYOND ALL ODDS MAY GOD FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND FIGHT AGAINST EVERYONE THAT FIGHTS IT, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME
Sorry for the loss of your manager..please accept my sympathy..RIP
This video was the best
nice
But what does Rocio want Marwa....put that into consideration this parenting thing you need to agree....to avoid postpartum.......discuss thoroughly...and kina matiko gave a very good point of view...
Definitely Marwa talking out lack of experience while Matiko speaks out of his experience! I got 2 kids very close ages was nightmares! They spent their early 4 years fighting days and nights! Yes! I went 5 years without sleeping! Definitely respect every parents with children! In US the school bus come by your house door to pick your kids either public or private schools! From Pre-K to High School education is free! So Marwa is talking out of assumptions like those people without children! Is not true raise kids in America is expensive as people believe! US Parents have options of public or private schools! Public schools are free! 😢😮
A woman body take 2 years to fully recover from a pregnancy
I have a lot of respect for this young lady. She took in a poor man from a poor village.
In todays world she is an angle. A believer in love and such woman are very rare in todays world.
If matico ever hart her I will book a plane ✈️ from London and some to finish the chef.
I will give him 2 options vodoo or physical pain.