My Husband Charged Me €11,000 To Germany,He Brought Me To Work For Him &Cancelled My Documents Later

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  • Опубликовано: 28 дек 2024

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  • @SVTVAfrica
    @SVTVAfrica  11 месяцев назад +7

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  • @manuell59
    @manuell59 11 месяцев назад +12

    This woman have learnt a lot from her travel and experience. God bless her and i wish her well and her child.

  • @johnkwaw8680
    @johnkwaw8680 11 месяцев назад +8

    U are so intelligent, I live in Canada and your responds shows how matured you are, I can listen to you over and over, Nice One.

  • @beatriceafuaokrah2383
    @beatriceafuaokrah2383 11 месяцев назад +16

    Ooh sorry Ohemaa i am also passing through the samething, but am still in it bcos of my children, DJ one day i will tell my story

    • @SVTVAfrica
      @SVTVAfrica  11 месяцев назад

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    • @priscillaasamoah9156
      @priscillaasamoah9156 11 месяцев назад +4

      Aww sorry sis, God will surely see you through. We all have stories to tell one day

  • @abedberko7634
    @abedberko7634 11 месяцев назад +2

    Obaa sima nie!! Serwa Akoto. Woman with a golden heart. True true traditional woman.You will be blessed for all your troubles.

  • @naanabonsu1308
    @naanabonsu1308 11 месяцев назад +19

    True spouses never ask their partners to pay when they bring them abroad but wisdom will make the person work to help all the time to show their appreciation. For me i never paid a dime and hes been amazing, never bothering me with financial issues. But i am always working to help out. Individual differences though

    • @emmanuelcrayon7730
      @emmanuelcrayon7730 11 месяцев назад +8

      Your case is different from the entitled ones. There are women you would support financially when they are in Ghana and not working. You will sponsor them to join you and whiles they are working and making money, they expect you to still pay for everything simply because you sleep with them. If that’s marriage then no man should bother to get involved in that unnecessary union.

    • @akwasikubolor9945
      @akwasikubolor9945 11 месяцев назад

      @@emmanuelcrayon7730I understood your point very clearly

    • @appiahmabel8211
      @appiahmabel8211 11 месяцев назад

      Well said

    • @Vee-bj5nq
      @Vee-bj5nq 11 месяцев назад +1

      You’re a wise woman and u were lucky to be married to a wise man❤

    • @maxwellashanti957
      @maxwellashanti957 11 месяцев назад

      It should have been the real deal actually; mutual respect and balancing life in diverse ways towards upgrading the family!

  • @boakyeemmanuel8398
    @boakyeemmanuel8398 11 месяцев назад +3

    Nice interview Dj,what a bold woman

  • @boakyeemmanuel8398
    @boakyeemmanuel8398 11 месяцев назад +3

    The best interview I have watched dj ❤❤❤

  • @HildaBoafo
    @HildaBoafo 11 месяцев назад +10

    DJ Nyame please don’t take this lightly. Please educate our ladies. There’s financial abuse!!! I saw an interview on your show with lady from Germany that said she was in a financial abuse relationship. I went to search on google and was shocked that things I went through for over 10 years was actually financial abuse. I never knew there was such a thing. Some men leave the whole financial responsibility on the woman, keeping all their money to themselves and don’t even use their part of the money to build a house for the family back home. It’s horrible to be in such situation. Ladies beware!

    • @asitis7624
      @asitis7624 10 месяцев назад

      Of course it exists ,more with narcissistic behaviour

  • @Maayaa26
    @Maayaa26 11 месяцев назад +9

    DJ good job for a unique content. I realised most of our people just want to pour out their heart. They just want someone to talk with and you've given your platform out for such opportunity

    • @afuaowusuaa2865
      @afuaowusuaa2865 11 месяцев назад

      Why some of the Germany,'s boggars are like that, is only weakness

  • @zigma8470
    @zigma8470 11 месяцев назад +1

    Very Level-Headed Lady....Gone Through Alot...Assertive In The Interview....Great Submission....God Guide You...🙏🙏

  • @karenmills5683
    @karenmills5683 11 месяцев назад +9

    Beautiful lady.....karma will get that husband....you're already successful 🙏🏽

  • @samdanafarms4509
    @samdanafarms4509 11 месяцев назад +3

    Wow! this woman is deep! gold is expensive and so only few people enter the jewelry shop. #liken your life to gold~ be expensive.💪🏻💚❤️

  • @chrisobeng8518
    @chrisobeng8518 11 месяцев назад +2

    People are wicked oo, can you imagine taking away someone's right to live a meaningful life. This is morden day slavery. I remember some years back when my wife joined me. A colleague who I considered a friend suggested to me to take and keep her money. I immediately understood why he was divorced. This year in January we celebrated 29 years of marriage, if you add the time we dated before marriage we have bben together for over 30 years. One needs to have a clean heart, clean mind and a sympathetic spirit.

  • @vida7993
    @vida7993 10 месяцев назад

    I love this woman. She's very intelligent and real.

  • @automation247
    @automation247 11 месяцев назад +11

    Aaaaah
    Which kind marriage too be this?
    Ghanaian women don’t examine borga’s like the way they examine local based guys

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      Hahaha my dear in all I give God the glory

  • @williamofori-darko8803
    @williamofori-darko8803 7 месяцев назад

    Very sensible lady indeed.

  • @priscillaasamoah9156
    @priscillaasamoah9156 11 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve learnt a lot from this interview.

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks dear

    • @zahramissy4837
      @zahramissy4837 11 месяцев назад

      That’s what most of the Borgars do. Ns3nhunu nkoaaa yet they won’t say their part but always say the ladies leave them when they bring them abroad.

  • @florenceadu-amponsah1568
    @florenceadu-amponsah1568 11 месяцев назад +3

    What an intellectual come back on men wanting to cheapen single parents. Very wise to use the Gold analogy. Respect us women. We are not cheap. Hot Cake. DJ Nyame READ BETWEEN THE LINES. ITS AN ERROR as she said. Thank you sister

    • @thetruth1989
      @thetruth1989 11 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂 stop yapping

  • @HelenaAgyakwa
    @HelenaAgyakwa 11 месяцев назад +3

    DJ is true my sister went through the same situation in the same Germany

    • @SVTVAfrica
      @SVTVAfrica  11 месяцев назад +1

      Connect her to share her experience

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      They don't know ooh

  • @GhanaBlackmagic
    @GhanaBlackmagic 11 месяцев назад +3

    Dj Nyaami Greetings, Big up's...Nice interview

  • @adjeiemmanuel2012
    @adjeiemmanuel2012 10 месяцев назад

    Very educative, thanks for sharing

  • @godfredmensah9668
    @godfredmensah9668 11 месяцев назад +4

    She said she went in 2008, stayed with the husband for 8 years and no child. So that will be in 2016 that she left the husband and had a baby with another man. However, she also said the child is 13 years. How is it possible because 2016 to 2024 is 8 years.

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks dear

    • @NaanaWhite
      @NaanaWhite 10 месяцев назад +1

      the 8years meant the total years she was her husband, time in Ghana included.

    • @faustinaantwi-asamoah6894
      @faustinaantwi-asamoah6894 10 месяцев назад

      They were together for five years in Ghana before she came to Germany, that means her whole agony in Germany is within three years.

  • @emeliatimmermann5585
    @emeliatimmermann5585 11 месяцев назад +3

    8 years marriage should have given her stay. Rather unfortunately, she didn't know the law and the husband kept it secret from her. Sorry!.

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      We stayed almost 5and half yes in Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @boakyeemmanuel8398
    @boakyeemmanuel8398 11 месяцев назад

    God bless you DJ for this wonderful program ❤❤

  • @ama9576
    @ama9576 11 месяцев назад +7

    If you haven’t been in this situation before you might think she’s telling stories hmm 🙏

  • @julietogbole7270
    @julietogbole7270 11 месяцев назад +2

    I like the scenarium about Gold , Wise woman😊

  • @Eric-s7k3b
    @Eric-s7k3b 11 месяцев назад +6

    The gentleman was exploiting the lovely lady. Sorry for her. I wish her all the best in her endeavors.

  • @kyoume2818
    @kyoume2818 11 месяцев назад +6

    She has been exploited just like how some men do.

  • @sweetnana7051
    @sweetnana7051 11 месяцев назад

    May God help you see even better days.

  • @tracyyeboah7717
    @tracyyeboah7717 11 месяцев назад

    Nana Ohemaa Eiiiii this life it's not easy sorry ok I know I God will help US & give us the strength to pass through Much Love to you & DJ 🫶🤝✌️

  • @davidk.9810
    @davidk.9810 11 месяцев назад +1

    @58:00 The reason why there are so many single parents in the west is because there is very little genuine love in relationships here, also greed and people trying to decive their partners and finally the deceptive and distructive strategy of the governance and lifestyle in the west.

  • @jenniferfrimpong7496
    @jenniferfrimpong7496 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am happy you have a child now! TTC for 8 years is not a joke. God have mercy on TTC women across the world! God will answer us

  • @yaadomtie5906
    @yaadomtie5906 11 месяцев назад +1

    It’s funny how the host asked if they were married and why he asked her to pay the money he spent in bringing her. Ha ha, most Ghanaian men demand their money back that’s why marriages abroad don’t last. Those ladies who are enlightened will calculate and when they finish paying, it’s game over.

  • @Angesboatskitchen
    @Angesboatskitchen 11 месяцев назад +6

    Very beautiful woman,can see a golden heart ❤

  • @Janice-ku9gz
    @Janice-ku9gz 11 месяцев назад +1

    A friend of mine is going through the same thing here in Germany. She was young when the man married her. She is the only one I know who’s not taking Kindergeld.. this man has Maltreated my friend very bad… This is not news here in Germany

    • @faustinaantwi-asamoah6894
      @faustinaantwi-asamoah6894 10 месяцев назад

      She's not the only one. I know a lot of women who don't take kindergeld but are happy with their husband's. Kindergeld is what is breaking many homes, but they calculate it as housekeeping for the family.

  • @hajiasherifaabdulai5744
    @hajiasherifaabdulai5744 11 месяцев назад +1

    Learning a lot

  • @johnboateng9027
    @johnboateng9027 11 месяцев назад +2

    Dj in fact the man is very cruel paaaaa herrrr.He took advantage of the innocent and ignorant beautiful soul.KARMA will deal with him.

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena6288 11 месяцев назад

    People have stories this lady Madam just be strong.
    Best wishes

  • @Eric-s7k3b
    @Eric-s7k3b 11 месяцев назад +1

    Mad rush for single mothers in Germany = FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS in the United States.

  • @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
    @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 11 месяцев назад

    She's a lovely guest.

  • @agneshayford1265
    @agneshayford1265 11 месяцев назад

    God have Mercy

  • @johnboateng9027
    @johnboateng9027 11 месяцев назад +1

    Dj, You know what? She cannot immediately come to Ghana because now she has passed the test of living in aborokyire.

  • @patrickdankwa4021
    @patrickdankwa4021 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, Sister, for your brilliant reply about marriage and sex abroad. I like dj Nyame interviews a lot, but it is annoying to me when he keeps emphasizing on sex and marriage. There is no time to waste abroad, and no serious person abroad puts much interest in that time is money

    • @patrickdankwa4021
      @patrickdankwa4021 11 месяцев назад +1

      Marriage is exceptional when you meet the right person

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      My dear I've been through hell

  • @kingsleysarfo.
    @kingsleysarfo. 11 месяцев назад +2

    I really don’t understand like how is that love or a marriage if your partner brings you and then wants you to pay them back it’s weird I mean I get it because lost money but aren’t you one ? I hear that story Amit it’s weird

    • @Bola-qd1pw
      @Bola-qd1pw 11 месяцев назад +1

      Strange Just like in ghana both married couples have their separate bank accounts Ghanaian don’t know what marriage is

  • @NANAYAWOBENG
    @NANAYAWOBENG 11 месяцев назад +1

    You need to allow them to flow

  • @kwameasiedu1578
    @kwameasiedu1578 11 месяцев назад +1

    I trusted the lady but let listen to the other side of the husband

    • @maameabena1458
      @maameabena1458 11 месяцев назад

      Men been doing this to women all d time, this is not news

  • @guywebb
    @guywebb 11 месяцев назад

    Very clever interligent woman

  • @teirrahteirrah9950
    @teirrahteirrah9950 11 месяцев назад +2

    Where are the mathmaticians? The lady's child is 13 yrs, so who's the father? She's been there 16 years.

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      We stayed 5 and half in Ghana 🇬🇭 before he brought me here

    • @Aisha_Muktar
      @Aisha_Muktar 10 месяцев назад

      @@ObaaYaaAdepa-g3nbut you said the child is for the new person you met and not your former husband

  • @underconstruction5532
    @underconstruction5532 7 месяцев назад

    Her son with another man is 14 years old and she lived in Germany for 16 years ,which means she was only with the husband for 2 years in Germany before getting pregnant with another man. It doesn't make sense to me . Something smells like lies 😂

  • @tia5420
    @tia5420 11 месяцев назад

    😭😭😭😭😭😭thanks be to God am finally out of this wahaa

  • @priscilla695
    @priscilla695 10 месяцев назад

    So many men outside will do this to the lady they come to marry hr in Ghana and take them there but rather turn back and say the women are ungrateful and they got there and run away with another man

  • @syndeytishbaayeh409
    @syndeytishbaayeh409 11 месяцев назад +1

    What was the job the ex wanted her to do?

  • @samdanafarms4509
    @samdanafarms4509 11 месяцев назад

    this is from the woman's part, haven't heard from the man but if it's true then she has really really suffered in Germany.

  • @priscilla695
    @priscilla695 10 месяцев назад

    So many of the Germany old bogas are wicked 😢very sad how the man has decided to pay a good woman with evil

  • @OppongDenvaMoses
    @OppongDenvaMoses 11 месяцев назад

    A wise woman 👩

  • @alexadugyamfi3609
    @alexadugyamfi3609 11 месяцев назад

    Hmmmm this lady might have gone through a lot .Starting a job just the following day, WRONG! And charging your own wife after bringing her to abroad, ANOTHER BIG NO! That was unfair to the woman, i see the hubby to be dishonest person! If whst this woman is saying is true then the husband is a wicked man. Ladies who do not know much about life abroad SHOULD SHUT UP!

  • @wendyasiedu-antwi7284
    @wendyasiedu-antwi7284 11 месяцев назад +1

    The love is finished eii end time😢

  • @underconstruction5532
    @underconstruction5532 7 месяцев назад

    Not entirely honest and straightforward.

  • @AkonE.J
    @AkonE.J 11 месяцев назад +2

    Am even shocked DJ

  • @OKff123
    @OKff123 11 месяцев назад +1

    Imagine paying for your wife to join you only for her to be sleeping with someone you know who doesn’t even have documents

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      I couldn't say all bcos of social media

    • @syndeytishbaayeh409
      @syndeytishbaayeh409 11 месяцев назад

      Did you hear her, she paid her way. He didn’t take her to Germany. I would have left his ass a long time ago.

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena6288 11 месяцев назад

    Life everywhere is pressure

  • @legendgmt2701
    @legendgmt2701 11 месяцев назад

    Beautiful woman

  • @afuaowusuaa2865
    @afuaowusuaa2865 11 месяцев назад

    Matter dry, they expect you to share yr money for them back home, My sister, too much begging, begging

  • @iddrissmohammed8210
    @iddrissmohammed8210 11 месяцев назад +1

    The husband is very wicked very wicked man..

  • @stephenjoke7965
    @stephenjoke7965 11 месяцев назад +1

    THIS MAN WAS BONE WITH GREEDY HEART ❤️ AND NOTTING CAN CHANGE HIM.. I WILL BET ANY ONE $1000 DOLLARS THIS MAN WILL BE A DARKSKIN HUMANS BODY.. LET SHOW THE PICTURES OF THIS MAN

    • @priscillaasamoah9156
      @priscillaasamoah9156 11 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @deborahopoku4585
      @deborahopoku4585 11 месяцев назад

      Agyeiiii 😅herr you fool pass but I ain’t say you told no lie.

    • @emeliatimmermann5585
      @emeliatimmermann5585 11 месяцев назад

      One thing is that she did not know the laws. 8 years marriage should have given her, her papers. A lawyer would have collected it easily for her. She was long time qualified without her knowledge.
      The man hid everything from her.

    • @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n
      @ObaaYaaAdepa-g3n 11 месяцев назад

      Hahaha medaase

  • @damoahlydia1284
    @damoahlydia1284 11 месяцев назад +3

    When someone brings you to Abroad either your family or spouse, and they tell you to pay them, do that, it's normal for family to take back their money, but married couple part where so many people don't understand it. How can my husband/ wife take his or her money after i join them in abroad it doesn't sound well... but i will advise you to pay... And paying it won't change the fact that.. they brought you ooo 😄 they go still remind you. And support him with bills but still be submissive as wife.. ... do what ever a wife will do in the house... it's peaceful, why leave the marriage?

    • @judyagbemade1939
      @judyagbemade1939 11 месяцев назад +9

      You are not making any sense my sister. Marriage is not a business transaction.

    • @maryadoma7121
      @maryadoma7121 11 месяцев назад +2

      Husband is charging wife for what, then where is n two shall be one?me when u charged me I will divorce you because u love money more than de marriage.

    • @joylm9108
      @joylm9108 11 месяцев назад +2

      You are mad

    • @priscillaasamoah9156
      @priscillaasamoah9156 11 месяцев назад +3

      Im shocked a woman is saying this. How much is visa fee? Aside the A1 we do in Ghana fee, if ur man has pass, u r not even charged visa so why shd a man charge his wife for bringing her? She’s human n she has Sense to have supported her man with bills. Most of u r very heartless in abroad paaa. God is watching u all

    • @johnboateng9027
      @johnboateng9027 11 месяцев назад

      ​@priscillaasamoah9156
      Say and say it again. A woman talking like this paaa.i will not be surprised if she is in Germany because the cruelty and wickedness in Germany is tooooooo much.When you die, Sister take your Papers (documents) to Heaven.Learn about life and stop that attitude.

  • @ericgamor9975
    @ericgamor9975 11 месяцев назад

    Ei, some men paaa. ei.

  • @giftykanzie3088
    @giftykanzie3088 11 месяцев назад

    It's not easy oo,the women don't talk

  • @jamessteward9908
    @jamessteward9908 11 месяцев назад

    Nice woman

  • @giftykanzie3088
    @giftykanzie3088 11 месяцев назад

    Nana Hemaa papapaaaa

  • @johnboateng9027
    @johnboateng9027 11 месяцев назад

    DJ, Bringing you to Aborokyire,because you are very industrious, I am sorry ,most of the old Borgas will use you to benefit themselves. That is what is going on in aborokyire among our own Ghanaian folks. Wickedness, greediness and jealousy
    Nkoaaaaa.Aborokyire life is very pathetic as she said.

  • @mylifeisqueen
    @mylifeisqueen 11 месяцев назад

    Dj, you are SLEEPY.

  • @naaniyenllcuisine4201
    @naaniyenllcuisine4201 11 месяцев назад

    Guy was evil

  • @laurendaboateng7686
    @laurendaboateng7686 6 месяцев назад

    Mmmhm!

  • @margaretaddai4303
    @margaretaddai4303 11 месяцев назад

    Eii hmm

  • @afuaowusuaa2865
    @afuaowusuaa2865 11 месяцев назад

    Rather men that love born 5 are the cheap one

  • @afuaowusuaa2865
    @afuaowusuaa2865 11 месяцев назад

    Germany bogars can very wocked

  • @NANAYAWOBENG
    @NANAYAWOBENG 11 месяцев назад +1

    You need to change your style of questioning you are becoming boring