My love language is quality time and I definitely resonated with this video. Especially when you said, that those who have this love language don't like to express our need for quality time because sometimes it feels forced. But I've become better with expressing my needs. And if you can't fulfill that need, I'm ok with finding other things to do with my time that will fill that need. Like spending time with myself doing things that I love (reading, a puzzle, etc).
I’ve taken the Love Language test at least three times and Quality Time is always on the top. Quality time is very important to me but people around me don’t understand. I love spending time with God and people but time with God is everything to me. What a blessing 🤗
I confused the definition of quality time with acts of service. So I’ve been bummed out most of my life cuz the definition was not as accurate as I wanted. I just decided to read the definition of quality time and almost got tears because it so accurate and what I’ve been missing.(the fact that I’m texting this to you proves my point😅)
This video really hit home. I have been reflecting a lot about my tendancy to over stay in situations past red flags and gut feelings that tell me to move on. I definitly relate to recieving love through quality time. It sometimes feels selfish to think that I unintentionally gauge the time I spend with people. Though hearing this man speak on his experience with this love language and how it relates to his relationship with God has really helped me understand my own tendancies.
I can relate to this so much, especially as a time person because in that moment I may just want THEIR attention... and even though they've given it, there's this craving for more...because I genuinely wanted to be with them and them alone. However sometimes unchecked and unmet needs stem from a broken place with God.
My mind is blown. I want to be the female version of you. I tap into your grace and the wisdom of God in Jesus name. To listen to you is to listen with intention, without that the full message will not be understood. Thank you for sharing. I am truly blessed.
I hate the fact my love language is QT. As a man it comes off as needy. Nobody in my life gives me QT. Not my kid, not my wife. I have no friends so that's that. I just worked 8 days str8 and this was the first weekend off me and my wife spent together after like 6 months. She slept all day Saturday and Sunday morning came to get her cup filled (hugs/cuddles, physical touch). Said she had tons of chores to do then agreed to go out with with her girlfriend later. I haven't had quality time with her in weeks.
I'm a quality time person. I like to spend time with God and people. I have struggled with communicating that to people. I remember for one of my birthdays, I got upset with an old friend because she didn't initiate an outing for my birthday and the day of I saw her out with other people. I was angry I wasn't invited and she knew it was birthday weekend. I didn't communicate to her I wanted to go out that night.
That was excellent. Quality time is my top love language and then acts of service so this was really good wisdom and advice I will take with me. Thank you!
This video is really ME! Down to the going out of town and then coming back home and I get them looming feeling. Working on my love tank! Mine is really low so working on that! Thank you for telling your story.
Respectfully, I had high hopes ur were gonna throw me the lifeline i came creepin for- then you had to hit me with the God shit. That being said, u would have a lot greater short-term engagement if u didnt get so religous so quick. Like even if u said "higher power" I wouldnt have necessarily decided to tap out.
My love language is quality time and I definitely resonated with this video. Especially when you said, that those who have this love language don't like to express our need for quality time because sometimes it feels forced. But I've become better with expressing my needs. And if you can't fulfill that need, I'm ok with finding other things to do with my time that will fill that need. Like spending time with myself doing things that I love (reading, a puzzle, etc).
The 'go home' part just hits different!!!!
YES!
I’ve taken the Love Language test at least three times and Quality Time is always on the top. Quality time is very important to me but people around me don’t understand. I love spending time with God and people but time with God is everything to me. What a blessing 🤗
I confused the definition of quality time with acts of service. So I’ve been bummed out most of my life cuz the definition was not as accurate as I wanted. I just decided to read the definition of quality time and almost got tears because it so accurate and what I’ve been missing.(the fact that I’m texting this to you proves my point😅)
This video really hit home. I have been reflecting a lot about my tendancy to over stay in situations past red flags and gut feelings that tell me to move on.
I definitly relate to recieving love through quality time. It sometimes feels selfish to think that I unintentionally gauge the time I spend with people. Though hearing this man speak on his experience with this love language and how it relates to his relationship with God has really helped me understand my own tendancies.
Wow, made me realize a number of things. When god says go home - go home. This spoke to me hard! This was a WORD for sure!
Fill our voids with GOD ❤
I always follow thank you so much for feeding our generation with wisdom and encouragement❤❤❤
I can relate to this so much, especially as a time person because in that moment I may just want THEIR attention... and even though they've given it, there's this craving for more...because I genuinely wanted to be with them and them alone. However sometimes unchecked and unmet needs stem from a broken place with God.
My mind is blown. I want to be the female version of you. I tap into your grace and the wisdom of God in Jesus name. To listen to you is to listen with intention, without that the full message will not be understood. Thank you for sharing. I am truly blessed.
Thank you Mr Albaner. You are a blessing to this generation. You answered all my heart troubling questions.
I hate the fact my love language is QT. As a man it comes off as needy. Nobody in my life gives me QT. Not my kid, not my wife. I have no friends so that's that. I just worked 8 days str8 and this was the first weekend off me and my wife spent together after like 6 months. She slept all day Saturday and Sunday morning came to get her cup filled (hugs/cuddles, physical touch). Said she had tons of chores to do then agreed to go out with with her girlfriend later. I haven't had quality time with her in weeks.
I am a man and my love language is quality time too. I have someone whose second is quality time.
Communicate this to her 🙏
I'm a quality time person. I like to spend time with God and people. I have struggled with communicating that to people. I remember for one of my birthdays, I got upset with an old friend because she didn't initiate an outing for my birthday and the day of I saw her out with other people. I was angry I wasn't invited and she knew it was birthday weekend. I didn't communicate to her I wanted to go out that night.
You need an act of service friend
I am so glad I found this guy…. Omg!!! ❤
That was excellent. Quality time is my top love language and then acts of service so this was really good wisdom and advice I will take with me. Thank you!
When God says go home - go home!
I feel like I am understood. Thank you for sharing
This video is really ME! Down to the going out of town and then coming back home and I get them looming feeling. Working on my love tank! Mine is really low so working on that! Thank you for telling your story.
This too happens to me at times. It's beautiful how God makes us and that desire for Him and others. But He fills that tank that so preciously.
I’m glad I found this , thank you for sharing, God bless you !
We should do all 5!
This is such a powerful message. Thank you.
This blessed me. Thank you 🙏🏾
I love how you speak.
Big Sean
Thank you so much for this ♥️
Very true
I needed this ! Thank you
Very nice video! ☺️
❤❤❤
Maaaannn!!! This is a God send. So much to ingest. 🥲 🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing... when God say go. I understand it now 😅
So important!
Nice, he sounds like Big Sean
I heard Nick Cannon
The fact that I get quality time everytime I take online quizzes on love languages😅
I like this video
Woaw. Your real 😌
woah
Awesome!🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing
This is good stuff!!
Sooo relatable
My wife’s love language is quality time and yooo this is a hard one to speak 😅
I love this 🥰
Wow😭
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
If u are not getting the quality time needed then the person doesn't know the meaning
I need to work on everything 😢
Oh wow God
#Wisdomnugget
Respectfully, I had high hopes ur were gonna throw me the lifeline i came creepin for- then you had to hit me with the God shit.
That being said, u would have a lot greater short-term engagement if u didnt get so religous so quick.
Like even if u said "higher power" I wouldnt have necessarily decided to tap out.