Let’s (Not) Get Sad!

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
  • Welcome to the failing Not Sad Times™️, where we share our ways to to get out of that funk! We all get sad from time to time, so how about we turn the tables a bit and talk about how we turn that frown upside down… into a smile?
    Do share with the class how you cheer yourself up when the world runs you over!
    Wanna cheer us up? Come say hi!
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    Anya's Author Website: bit.ly/3w4Eikh
    Art by the talented Lukaël at / lukael
    Music credits:
    "Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical" by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 licence. creativecommon...
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Комментарии • 29

  • @krot_1327
    @krot_1327 Год назад +9

    sometimes i watch your videos when im sad! you two are one of the most comfortable youtubers for me x]
    the past few month in my life were very rough and i cried myself to sleep often
    so ive got many sad songs to listen to, be it egor letov's wails, full of despair and hopelessness, sad heavy rock or vocaloid songs that seem cheery at first, but have dark lyrics
    sometimes i like to engage with my favourite media (games, books, cartoons, anything) and express my emotions in art. getting the feelings out on paper and reflecting on them can be very helpful! and, of course, chatting with my friends helps
    about the discord server... i think it sounds fun and if it will be created, ill definitely join! i guess it all depends on your decision x]
    (also i watched this video in a kigurumi lol)

  • @Rectangular_Eye
    @Rectangular_Eye Год назад +6

    I'm definitely a vibes over lyrics person when it comes to music listening. If there are good lyrics, it's a bonus! Also, yes please to a discord!

  • @wowbreadown
    @wowbreadown Год назад +3

    I tend to throw myself into books and painting or comfort RUclips channels like yours. Your channel has been especially helpful as I started hormones last October, and trying to navigate life as a trans woman can be scary and stressful, but watching your guy's adorable videos always puts a smile on my face even when dysphoria makes me feel like a smacked ass. I also listen to music (mostly metal, lol) and talk to my loved ones, and play games with my best friend. Pretty much one or combo of any of those and I'll start feeling better.
    Also, thanks for the author suggestion Jakie! 😊

  • @jessicamaddison7407
    @jessicamaddison7407 Год назад +2

    I just LOVE Your Channel..
    The Two Of You are So Positive and Cute
    Watching Your Videos..
    Makes My Life So Much Happier ...
    To Be TRANSGENDER ....
    Thank You So Much...
    Love Jessica 💕

  • @samiam100
    @samiam100 Год назад +2

    I've been dealing with depression for most of my life. When I'm feeling particularly down I have a few things that sometimes help. Playing a mellow game (like stardew valley), giving my dog a hug, talking to a friend or sometimes just having a really good ugly cry. Also, being trans is tough, especially right now. Some uplifting queer media can be helpful too. Your videos do usually brighten my day a bit as well.

  • @Feral.angel777
    @Feral.angel777 Год назад +1

    King Krule is a good scrawny British person to listen to when ur sad 💀😂

  • @herrskymarshall
    @herrskymarshall 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love the editor's "catty" choices 😊.

  • @mrselizabeth6524
    @mrselizabeth6524 Год назад +2

    Living in the modern world as a trans person has suddenly become a nightmare of epic proportions. While falling into deep depression from the constant flow of bad and fear mongering news, I find my escape in writing stories that change the circumstances, listening to music (it's not just about the words or the lyrics, rather the perfect blend that captures the ear and the heart) and I also ride a stationary bike. That time on the bike when paired with music allows me to escape the negative headspace for a little while. The truth is that life is difficult at this time of ignorance, but anything that anyone does to find the strength to face the next day is a special form of magic.

  • @maureenpavlik3144
    @maureenpavlik3144 Год назад +1

    I watch your videos when I'm sad because there is something comforting about them. A lot of what your guys talk about resonates with me and your dynamic is steadying. Sometimes I take walks to look at plants and take pictures. Sometimes I just need to eat or sleep or talk to a friend. It really depends on why I'm feeling sad or anxious. Listening to music isn't my go-to when I am sad, though recently I started using audiobooks as a way to distract myself from the swirling thoughts. When I was a kid, I preferred music that had really meaningful lyrics and I still appreciate good lyricism, but now I listen to a lot of Korean music, and I don't know Korean well, so I am mostly listening because I like the tone of the song or the beat, and sometimes I look up the lyrics. I could potentially be interested in joining a Discord server, but I don't want you guys to feel pressure to monitor it. Also, your cats are adorable.

  • @ChristinaWinter75
    @ChristinaWinter75 Год назад

    Yup... Lyrics all the way 😂. I have a playlist called "I was going to cry anyway" that I use when I'm sad, and it makes me sadder for a while, and then better after a while. But definitely gaming, that's one of my big sadness antidotes as well.
    And thank you so much for this video 😊 I think we all need this right now.

  • @donmasters9601
    @donmasters9601 Год назад +1

    Even better - end credits you sick twisted f**k that was awesome!! Thanks for a great video and the laughs within. Have a wonderful day.

  • @samarchist74
    @samarchist74 4 месяца назад

    I grew up in Washington State but I live in Iceland so my family will send me things to help with homesickness, like scented candles. My favorites are Western Red Cedar, Huckleberry, and Wintergreen. Before I stared hrt I would just drink my sadness away (never worked) but since starting hrt I've just been so much happier.

  • @kellyann01
    @kellyann01 2 месяца назад

    When I am sad, I like to get lost in the fantasy worlds of my books as it makes me forget whatever is making me sad.
    I also like a mixture of time cuddling my partner and being together and talking things through, and being on my own to think (or to forget for a while).

    • @WivesVsWorld
      @WivesVsWorld  2 месяца назад

      This is as super relatable ❤️

  • @msmlouis
    @msmlouis Год назад +2

    People are active in my home state to fight the passage of anti-transgender student bills in the state government. The Governor works on influencing the state SOLs for History and Social Sciences. It makes me happy when these anti-transgender actions in my home state fail. It makes me sad to see this sort of thing happens in other states of the US. When I feel sad over this I watch RUclips videos.

  • @annikajinx
    @annikajinx Год назад +4

    Discord server. Yes please. This video was very helpful ❤

    • @WivesVsWorld
      @WivesVsWorld  Год назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ChristinaWinter75
      @ChristinaWinter75 Год назад

      Yes please! I would love a wives vs world discord and I think you two could cultivate such a wonderful supportive fun wholesome community!

  • @andegonepetterson6269
    @andegonepetterson6269 Год назад

    About the lyrics, Anya 100%

  • @zoyonara
    @zoyonara 2 месяца назад

    If I'm down and need a bit of a boost, I sometimes watch some She-Ra transformation videos on youtube. The amount of hope and magic is uplifting^^

  • @donmasters9601
    @donmasters9601 Год назад

    Good one Jackie, Damn - you trained yourself??!! Choked on my coffee laughing at that!!

  • @samuelpitre-boiteau1208
    @samuelpitre-boiteau1208 Год назад

    hi i'm from canada!! i really need to say that your channel has helped me so much! i'm very early in my transition, so my dysphoria is still unbearable at the moment 😢 and i was in a very bad place mentally but your channel is very helpful for me, i feel less alone everytime i watch your videos and have been getting back into trying to develop my own comic book, very big passion project of mine☺️, if you guys could give me some tips on the writing that would be very appreciated🙂i'm more of a visual artist, i don't write much, but i have this huge vision i wanna turn into a comic book i'm gonna have to get better at writing eventually 😅

  • @kenzi.h
    @kenzi.h Год назад

    Hi Ladies! Thank you for this comforting video ❤. I live in California and things are going insane against us Trans.. the Mulvaney effect went too far. It’s hard. I don’t have much to say!

  • @19Loretta69
    @19Loretta69 Год назад

    Both of you looked too qute in those costumes.
    Thanx for the video.

    • @WivesVsWorld
      @WivesVsWorld  Год назад

      Our pleasure! Thanks for watching 😊