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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @MthokozisiNgcobo-yu5xw
    @MthokozisiNgcobo-yu5xw Год назад +10

    Uyahlola yena ngempela 🤞 uMakhosi 🙌 uyazixazulula izinkinga zabantu akafuniseli into ayishoyo uba ne sure yayo

  • @KhesiSepeng
    @KhesiSepeng 11 месяцев назад +9

    Ancestors are always angry. They don't even compliment always looking for wrongs and no one is perfect

    • @HairclipperGenius
      @HairclipperGenius 9 месяцев назад +4

      Means we doing wrong and they are angry thats why the world of today is like this…The generation of today has become ignorant and arrogant towards our tradition…

    • @NontetoMogapi
      @NontetoMogapi 3 месяца назад

      I think it's maybe they can see what we don't see.Not always easy neh.

  • @mosibudiphushela1839
    @mosibudiphushela1839 Год назад +68

    The biggest mistake women make in life is to get married in a family that dislike or do not approve of you. Women also get married to man that remain toddlers in the eyes of their parents eyes even when they are as old as Modimolle mountain.
    This is an indication that his family has been unexcepting of the Ancestral gift of this women from the beginning because her gift disturbed their dictatorship behavior in her life and that made it hard for them to take control of their sons life and his family. Why do i say this? This mans Ancestors approached a spirit of a man who wronged the mother of this women, i cote the words of her fathers spirit when he said "i have nothing on top of you but your my blood". This is clear that this man didn't raise this women and its also possible that he didn't do right by her mother, yes his spirit will agree with the spirits of the husbands spirits because he is a weakling that's why he was approached by the husbands spirits.
    We need to understand that in-laws don't want a strong willed women to be their daughter in law because now they won't be able to control her. In this case is this women who is strong and she was made that way by God through her Ancestors. This is what they mean when they say the light in me irritates your demons. Listen to how his parents call him "umfana not indoda" which makes it obvious this women is married to a boy in a body of a man.
    The poor women was expected to see that her son has an internal bleeding when the father didn't see that as well. This in laws are just bad spirits just like the spirit of her father who came in just to discredit her mother. The spirits of this mans parents are even refusing that they knew that she had a gift/Ancestral calling when they married her into their family, because they underestimated the strength of her Ancestors.
    Lets stop here or else ill write 20 pages of a comment. That's my take on this episode

  • @NomsaMhlanga-z2b
    @NomsaMhlanga-z2b Год назад +3

    Big up Thembi,ungumqhaqhi wezinkinga shame,ingakho kunzima ukuxhumana nawe yho

  • @mpholodidee1288
    @mpholodidee1288 Год назад +13

    This woman she has a lot of secrets

  • @lettiekgatle2072
    @lettiekgatle2072 Год назад +26

    Eish image when you think the problem is next door yet you are the problem

  • @munghilepheeane8528
    @munghilepheeane8528 Год назад +22

    This is a tough and heart breaking session. This old mama is accused for all things that are going wrong in her family life. How on earth is this possible? 'Me o tsoara thipa ka bohaleng. Clearly, their ancestors are NOT getting along. 😌

    • @namisazulu1372
      @namisazulu1372 Год назад +3

      Yeah they are blaming everything on her it's unfair. You can tell this man has flaws too😢

    • @siyamthandagxekwa7059
      @siyamthandagxekwa7059  Год назад +2

      Kaloku she's married to this Family she's suppossed to obey the rules, and respect her in laws ancestors thats how it is when you are married. Many people thing Marriage its easy No its not easy 😭😭.

    • @mmapuleramotlhale6999
      @mmapuleramotlhale6999 Год назад +1

      You can't come into a man's family and try to control them and lay down the law. A wife does as the in laws do. Not what her mom tells her. And you can tell she has no respect for this man and has taught the kids the same. Even now she undermines everything she says and does not hear him. How can a man lead when you're always trying to overtake him. Eventually he's gonna get tired of fighting you for the crown and let you wear it and do as you please. Then you wanna come and blame him when the shit hits the fan. No one with a real calling hops from one gobela sto another.. This one went out there and brought this mess into the family.. The mother in law is right. If she's the real deal why didn't she see that her own child was dying.

    • @leemo3583
      @leemo3583 Год назад +1

      @@mmapuleramotlhale6999Same way doctors can’t heal themselves either despite all their years of studying and expertise. She’s not God.

  • @djzorokgopotso9050
    @djzorokgopotso9050 Год назад +9

    Don't forget to increase volume when you record something because we are suffering to hear words

  • @jabulilemlaka6253
    @jabulilemlaka6253 Год назад +6

    This woman 😮😢 hayi boo

  •  5 месяцев назад +1

    Sisi ngicela usiphe amanamba akho isidinga usizo lwakho

  • @KgothatsoMofokeng-kt2gn
    @KgothatsoMofokeng-kt2gn 7 месяцев назад +1

    I pray and wish to meet
    Thembi to help us🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mokgadibaloi85
    @mokgadibaloi85 Год назад +6

    Volume please ...next re ugrade ka volume skat❤

  • @NontetoMogapi
    @NontetoMogapi 3 месяца назад

    Very important when you get married into a family, try by all means to learn and do things as they do it So you don't offend them in anyway.

  • @khumosetlhare7686
    @khumosetlhare7686 Год назад +9

    After many initiations she was never told anything constructive especially regarding her marriage.

  • @sthe1867
    @sthe1867 Год назад +7

    Usile lo mama... are Oupa wantella infront of bana😢

    • @NontetoMogapi
      @NontetoMogapi 3 месяца назад

      Not actually, that just shows that this is much deeper,they have serious marriage problems that they have to address,besides the other challenges they're facing.Luckily they've knocked at the right door.I really believe in Thembi.

  • @OvO-OvO1
    @OvO-OvO1 Год назад +1

    And right at the end, her-true-self is revealed. "Oupa a ntella", attention ladies: NO WOMEN SHOULD EVER UTTER SUCH WORDS TO HER HUSBAND... NEVER... EVER!
    This lady o loya dae tyma and "I don't care who says what"!

  • @GuguZulu-x7i
    @GuguZulu-x7i 10 месяцев назад +1

    Ngiyayidinga number ka Sisi Thembi please help guys please

    • @oliviasereetsi9601
      @oliviasereetsi9601 9 месяцев назад

      😢me tooo hey I hear all of them saying they wrote

  • @reginamogwera
    @reginamogwera Год назад +4

    Thanks for uploading but plss buy a ring the screen is moving too much

  • @rhoudamabitsi3114
    @rhoudamabitsi3114 Месяц назад

    How do i get to connect with Thembi

  • @nobuntujika7456
    @nobuntujika7456 2 месяца назад

    Can i have details for cc Thembi pls

  • @nkulimanjaro7052
    @nkulimanjaro7052 4 месяца назад

    You can see that uGogo was hot in her days. They are a beautiful pair who've been though life i hope they resolve this. Very enlightening episode.

  • @MadododwaZwide
    @MadododwaZwide 5 месяцев назад

    How can I get help frm u sisi Thembi, I tried b4 but stopped by scarmers😢

  • @lwazosaneledlamini3973
    @lwazosaneledlamini3973 Год назад +8

    Aybo guys even her own father told her she was wrong; women want to lead us men basigibele emakhanda telling us things have changed total nonsense. That's why her husband started drinking because he has no say about his family; lomfazi is the head of the family.
    Even her own father condems her behavior.

    • @empress3723
      @empress3723 Год назад +4

      The father who was a nonsense parent when he was alive no damages nothing…a man must lead but his wife can make him an alcoholic?? Obviously he’s weak who’d let a weak man lead

    • @namisazulu1372
      @namisazulu1372 Год назад +3

      Her father doesn't have rights over her. He's was an absent parent when he was alive. He didn't even pay damages for her.

    • @pianomaditations2883
      @pianomaditations2883 Год назад

      @@namisazulu1372 Aowa mara her father's absence doesn't condone her behaviour regardless(Ebanna is it the husband's fault she didn't grow up with a father), nkinga when we are being told not to do thing we usually focus on who is telling us what to do and what is it that they did for us instead of looking towards the fruits & thorns of what is given to you. If she has a problem with her husbands disrespecting her why asa betsa bagolo and tell them gore no motho o dira so le so eseng nthwe ae dirang, it will not work.UMSHADO LENTO🤣
      In all honesty do you think her behaviour would work in another relationship(I don't think so), whether we like it or not she is married and on top of there are certain things as a mme wa lelapa she can't address or handle di nyaka tlhogo ya lelapa simple ezinye izinto is just rendering yourself a useless person towards building your home.

  • @nicosekano5942
    @nicosekano5942 Год назад +9

    if even her father is calling out & reprimanding her behavior, then she's the issue. simple. a man leads in marriage. easy as that, there's no other way around it. if you disagree with this then you don't understand the concept of it or you were rasied in a single parent household

  • @TebatsoLydiamakhetha-kh5xo
    @TebatsoLydiamakhetha-kh5xo Год назад +1

    Mme Ona hlena

  • @thenjiwemthimkhulu1575
    @thenjiwemthimkhulu1575 Год назад +11

    This is painfully. Their marriage will not be the same after this consultation

    • @russellsephi281
      @russellsephi281 Год назад +7

      the marriage was already falling apart but the wife needed to let the husband be the lead,, She seemed a bit stubborn

    • @lekis5975
      @lekis5975 Год назад +12

      @@russellsephi281 But how do you let an alcoholic man who is never in the house lead you? The man also has to get his act together if he wants the wife to submit to him.

    • @namisazulu1372
      @namisazulu1372 Год назад

      ​@@lekis5975badimo are saying he's was not like this meaning he became a alcoholic coz of the muthi the wife is using is bad for him.

    • @litlhongmolise1979
      @litlhongmolise1979 Год назад

      ​@@lekis5975😢😢😢

    • @RightFxGoldfinch
      @RightFxGoldfinch Год назад

      A lot was said. I'm not even sure how they will get pass all that has occurred yooo😢.

  • @ThulisileTeekay
    @ThulisileTeekay Год назад +2

    How can i reach sister Thembi please help😢😢😢 i need help😢

  • @StarTown7634
    @StarTown7634 Год назад +1

    where did you originally watch/record this

  • @DanisileMsindo
    @DanisileMsindo 5 месяцев назад

    Sisi Thembi ngicela inumber yakho

  • @MosisileMogale-wb9iz
    @MosisileMogale-wb9iz Год назад +5

    I feel sorry for the woman bcos her ancestors are using her to do their filthy disgusting works😭😭

  • @lungilejudith-if9ks
    @lungilejudith-if9ks Год назад +5

    Sis THEMBI please how can we connect with you ,please please please I really need you sisi

  • @SibongileSibeko-u5q
    @SibongileSibeko-u5q Год назад +1

    Joooh!So rude ma oulady.Daddy be good nawe.

  • @PreciousReneilwe-h2h
    @PreciousReneilwe-h2h Год назад +2

    Hi guys...how do we connect no Thembi

  • @namisazulu1372
    @namisazulu1372 Год назад +36

    His dlozi's are unfair. They are ganging up on her. They are not holding their son accountable for anything 😢

    • @raydanielz9408
      @raydanielz9408 Год назад +5

      Idlozi don't subscribe to the "strong, independent successful woman" thing. To them it is the way things should be, klaar. It's all or nothing 😂😂😂

    • @BaskervilleGroup
      @BaskervilleGroup Год назад +5

      Kanti who married who here? Maybe we don't understand our ways of life

    • @namisazulu1372
      @namisazulu1372 Год назад +12

      @@raydanielz9408 doesn't mean that dlozi's are always right.. They ain't God. Even if she'd spiritually divorce him, I doubt his life will improve. They just want someone to blame.

    • @nicosekano5942
      @nicosekano5942 Год назад

      she should obey the man's marriage. that's what marriage means. learn that

    • @thabomonama7240
      @thabomonama7240 Год назад +1

      ​​@@namisazulu1372nope. Idlozi see's the disrespect and a woman who Is musculine and thinks she's the man in a relationship. Idlozi see's a disgraceful woman finish and klaar... Amadlozi ain't God we all know that but they know better than us. That man must just divorce that piece of sh...t, and he'll find peace afterwards.

  • @nthakomalefane
    @nthakomalefane Год назад +1

    With all due respect to you viewers,may you please assist me to connect with sister Thembi Nyathi?my siblings are dying mysteriously in fatal car accidents 😢

    • @asonelemaguma4536
      @asonelemaguma4536 Год назад

      Apparently she has a website.
      Search Thembi Nyathi's website it'll probably appear.

  • @nthabisengsekonelo7165
    @nthabisengsekonelo7165 Год назад +2

    A re it ends there he.e lona😂.... nna I see what they are saying

  • @cleombangi3081
    @cleombangi3081 Год назад

    😂😂😂mama nurse

  • @PetuniaDibakwane-y3l
    @PetuniaDibakwane-y3l Год назад +1

    Hello, how to get connected with ses Thembi

  • @mathembadaza2342
    @mathembadaza2342 Год назад +5

    eih kunzima esikhathini esiningi idlozi lesilisa alizwani nokuphuma ungena ulanda ogobela kuworse thole kuthi kwakuthandazwa kuphela kuleyo family lapho akudingeki muthi basics are very importants and ilifestyle yaloyo muzi yazi if bekuhanjwa isonto visit church once in while

    • @ndimumnini5894
      @ndimumnini5894 Год назад

      no. this is nonsense, no sangoma should be churchgoing, those are conflicting.

    • @nkulimanjaro7052
      @nkulimanjaro7052 4 месяца назад

      ​@@ndimumnini5894 what a one dimensional way of thinking you have.

  • @siyamthandagxekwa7059
    @siyamthandagxekwa7059  Год назад +7

    Cela abantu ba subscribe please

  • @mjwolf4634
    @mjwolf4634 Год назад +2

    Seriti sa batho se kae ge mosadi a bontsha disrespect in front of not only camera but her badimo ba gage. Ke mo utlwela botlhoko and yet her behaviour is going to affect her husband and children. Ntate ona ga ana mosadi at all.

  • @RefiloeFifiMatsoso
    @RefiloeFifiMatsoso Год назад

    This mother is so disrespectful ,,,fake tears mthakathi

  • @obuilemangundu81
    @obuilemangundu81 Год назад

    Fear women

  • @AngelinahNkosi-lw2qu
    @AngelinahNkosi-lw2qu Год назад +6

    This woman denies everything and she just sulk and explain something out of the questions

  • @SiyabongaNgamula
    @SiyabongaNgamula Год назад +1

    Number plz for dlozi Lami

  • @elonmyidol.
    @elonmyidol. Год назад

    Isaac ke malome? Yoo

  • @BeckBonnie-e6g
    @BeckBonnie-e6g 3 месяца назад

    Robinson Sarah White Carol Taylor Melissa

  • @lorramokoka7778
    @lorramokoka7778 Год назад

    Dankie for loading it

  • @myvideophasha3755
    @myvideophasha3755 3 месяца назад

    You can't get married and control your husband..

  • @sqrd3536
    @sqrd3536 Год назад +2

    This woman shows no respect for her husband at all. She's even pointing at him belittling him in front of the camera. I don't blame the husband if he leaves her. Akuhlaleki naye

  • @sedimasathekge6042
    @sedimasathekge6042 Год назад +2

    This woman she is controlling

    • @samukelisiwenedra
      @samukelisiwenedra Год назад

      True

    • @mosibudiphushela1839
      @mosibudiphushela1839 Год назад +7

      I don't think she is controlling, the problem here is dictatorship from the dlozis of a man. I also feel the man when he is advised by his wife he becomes offended that it was not his idea. And some times man are intimidated by the commanding spirit God and our Ancestors give to women and they start feeling inferior, in this case is sad because the spirit of her father who wronged her mother is in agreement with the spirits of her in-laws, who are doing their level best to still parent their son who is now a man who can't man up.

  • @LindaRathididi
    @LindaRathididi 5 месяцев назад

    Ke kgopela le nthuxe ka number yage or WhatsApp number