At 13 he tried to commit murder by arson and was SAing her young daughter for years. Wtf does CPS want from her, shes already willing to pay for treatment, and its like they want the son to move back in and have access to his former victim & the people he tried to kill. An adult would be sent to jail for like 30 years or longer for that but its ok for a kid to do it?
That CPS officer cares about nothing but herself, and simply wants a problem child off her To-Do list, no matter who gets hurt. OP needs a lawyer ASAP.
Why do people not record interactions with CPS?!!!! Wtf is wrong with people? Your home, your right. I record all my interactions with the police.....and anyone that comes in my home....
People actively want to be lazy with such things, and they'll convince themselves all over again that the system is inherently good in order to justify such laziness.
Story 2: I know that working in child welfare is a challenging, confronting job but I always wonder if all CPS workers get annual training and mental health evaluations to ensure they’re still emotionally fit-for-purpose. I hear so many similar stories that I fear many social workers burn out and become too detached and harsh. As a side note, I know of a good foster family at my child’s school who were fostering a very challenging young girl for several years. Nothing they or the girl’s mental health team did ever made any difference to her destructive behavior and she just started getting worse as she grew older. She constantly ran away, hurt her foster sibling and parents, injured the family dog, and tried to burn down their house. The foster parents had to surrender the girl back to the state when she entered her early teens for everyone’s safety, including her own. It was a terribly harrowing time for them and the girl, particularly because CPS kept on trying to convince the foster parents to keep her even though it was clearly obvious that she needed more help than what the family could provide.
Story 1- I was lust listening to this story and not looking at the screen and thought, "Laron, that's an unusual name." It's La RON, accent on the Ron, lol.
I had a delusional caseworker. My Foster Mom reported her to the head of the office she worked from. She was removed from my case. The new caseworker told Mom that she had been fired.
Somebody could have gave that kid to my mom and she would have beat him half to death and he’d have the fear of God put into him. So much so that he’d never do anything bad again. She broke two sets of thick wooden cooking spoons (the old school sturdy kind) over me before she switched to leather belts, or sometimes her hands or balled up fists for the smallest infractions. She once smacked my face into the car window glass because she said “that I looked at her wrong”, so apparently that was worth bouncing my head off the car window. When I told her that I was going to tell someone one time after a particularly bad incident, she went and got the phone book and flipped it open to DCFS (USA) and said “Here’s the phone. Go ahead and call them. But first let me explain what happens to kids in foster care. (Proceeds to tell me every horror known to happen from SA, to being made to work endlessly, to being deprived food (this one didn’t bother me as we already had that problem sometimes at our house anyway), losing all of my friends because of changing schools, having little to no clothing and it being very bad and then other kids would make fun of me and look down on me. Etc etc. And then after all that, someone would probably beat me anyway because I deserved it. Other kids reported the bruises all over me in gym class, and she had me so scared of going into the system that I lied when questioned by the principal. I said that I fell down the stairs. When I grew up enough to run away, I got married to my high school sweetheart. I wanted to foster so bad because I wanted our house to be a safe space for other abused kids in case anything she said was true. I wish that I could say that it wasn’t true, but it often is unfortunately. She was right about a lot of things. It was clear when I met a kid doing respite care for other foster parents when a kid was afraid of his foster mother. It was so obvious. Some were worked like little slaves on all the house chores. And others would tell me about how they couldn’t eat food portions until full and they would get less food and never any snacks. This would usually happen when I handed them a treat or something or not stop them from eating their fill at dinner or whatever. They would be like “Can I really have this? Really?” Just shocked and delighted. And questioning would lead to them telling me they couldn’t eat as much at their other foster home. Some kids said the fridge had a lock on it, or the cabinets did-no joke. I would say something to the caseworker but she would blow it off like “oh she’s just stern, that’s all”. They didn’t have the luxury to be picky with so few foster families available and they were always calling around practically begging you to take kids as they came in. You could tell them what you were or weren’t comfortable dealing with as far as cases and behaviors went and they would still call and pressure you to take the cases that weren’t ok with you anyway.
Last story- OMG! All these agencies ate failing you. You need to get a family law lawyer to protect you and your daughter’s rights from your son. You should also reach out to your state’s ombudsman office & explain what is happening & that the offices that are supposed to protect you are instead terrorizing you & your daughter & trying to put all of you in further danger. Your son is not only a danger to others but to himself has committed several extremely egregious crimes against you & others. It’s only a matter of time before he runs into an adult that won’t care that he’s 13 and not hold back. At the very least he should be locked up in a psych ward preferably in a prison. Don’t take him back, you’re the only one doing the right thing. I am so sorry you all are going through this nightmare made even harder because it’s your son doing it. You are doing amazing but please seek therapy for yourself to help you with your feelings I can’t even imagine the devastation, anger and betrayal among other things that you’re going through. Praying for you and your family.
At 13 he tried to commit murder by arson and was SAing her young daughter for years. Wtf does CPS want from her, shes already willing to pay for treatment, and its like they want the son to move back in and have access to his former victim & the people he tried to kill. An adult would be sent to jail for like 30 years or longer for that but its ok for a kid to do it?
That CPS officer cares about nothing but herself, and simply wants a problem child off her To-Do list, no matter who gets hurt. OP needs a lawyer ASAP.
I know what should be done but it is illegal...unfortunately
Yep. Pretty much. Welcome to CPS.
@@develyntwocentshenderson5739
Watch how people try to chalk this up to puberty or teenage stupidity
That CPS worker is a prime example of why people hate the system. Trying to pin the blame of the son onto OP is cruel
Why do people not record interactions with CPS?!!!! Wtf is wrong with people? Your home, your right. I record all my interactions with the police.....and anyone that comes in my home....
People actively want to be lazy with such things, and they'll convince themselves all over again that the system is inherently good in order to justify such laziness.
Wait... isn't this just the plot for We Need to Talk about Kevin!?
Story 2: I know that working in child welfare is a challenging, confronting job but I always wonder if all CPS workers get annual training and mental health evaluations to ensure they’re still emotionally fit-for-purpose. I hear so many similar stories that I fear many social workers burn out and become too detached and harsh.
As a side note, I know of a good foster family at my child’s school who were fostering a very challenging young girl for several years. Nothing they or the girl’s mental health team did ever made any difference to her destructive behavior and she just started getting worse as she grew older. She constantly ran away, hurt her foster sibling and parents, injured the family dog, and tried to burn down their house. The foster parents had to surrender the girl back to the state when she entered her early teens for everyone’s safety, including her own. It was a terribly harrowing time for them and the girl, particularly because CPS kept on trying to convince the foster parents to keep her even though it was clearly obvious that she needed more help than what the family could provide.
Story 1- I was lust listening to this story and not looking at the screen and thought, "Laron, that's an unusual name." It's La RON, accent on the Ron, lol.
Story 2: How did she ever become a case worker?
Nepotism hire
You'll be surprised by alot of CPS workers that's like this....
@@anatsusha09 I know, it's so upsetting
I had a delusional caseworker. My Foster Mom reported her to the head of the office she worked from. She was removed from my case. The new caseworker told Mom that she had been fired.
It’s a low density high demand career… so sometimes they will put anyone with a pulse in to fill shortages
Story 2: sounds like the CPS worker likes em young
There are so many sus cps workers. I wouldn't be surprised if they're traffickers.
Story one: Ironic, the people who claim to suffer from racism exert racism to others
Op needs to chile on his anti blackness
Somebody could have gave that kid to my mom and she would have beat him half to death and he’d have the fear of God put into him. So much so that he’d never do anything bad again. She broke two sets of thick wooden cooking spoons (the old school sturdy kind) over me before she switched to leather belts, or sometimes her hands or balled up fists for the smallest infractions. She once smacked my face into the car window glass because she said “that I looked at her wrong”, so apparently that was worth bouncing my head off the car window. When I told her that I was going to tell someone one time after a particularly bad incident, she went and got the phone book and flipped it open to DCFS (USA) and said “Here’s the phone. Go ahead and call them. But first let me explain what happens to kids in foster care. (Proceeds to tell me every horror known to happen from SA, to being made to work endlessly, to being deprived food (this one didn’t bother me as we already had that problem sometimes at our house anyway), losing all of my friends because of changing schools, having little to no clothing and it being very bad and then other kids would make fun of me and look down on me. Etc etc. And then after all that, someone would probably beat me anyway because I deserved it. Other kids reported the bruises all over me in gym class, and she had me so scared of going into the system that I lied when questioned by the principal. I said that I fell down the stairs. When I grew up enough to run away, I got married to my high school sweetheart. I wanted to foster so bad because I wanted our house to be a safe space for other abused kids in case anything she said was true. I wish that I could say that it wasn’t true, but it often is unfortunately. She was right about a lot of things. It was clear when I met a kid doing respite care for other foster parents when a kid was afraid of his foster mother. It was so obvious. Some were worked like little slaves on all the house chores. And others would tell me about how they couldn’t eat food portions until full and they would get less food and never any snacks. This would usually happen when I handed them a treat or something or not stop them from eating their fill at dinner or whatever. They would be like “Can I really have this? Really?” Just shocked and delighted. And questioning would lead to them telling me they couldn’t eat as much at their other foster home. Some kids said the fridge had a lock on it, or the cabinets did-no joke. I would say something to the caseworker but she would blow it off like “oh she’s just stern, that’s all”. They didn’t have the luxury to be picky with so few foster families available and they were always calling around practically begging you to take kids as they came in. You could tell them what you were or weren’t comfortable dealing with as far as cases and behaviors went and they would still call and pressure you to take the cases that weren’t ok with you anyway.
Last story- OMG! All these agencies ate failing you. You need to get a family law lawyer to protect you and your daughter’s rights from your son. You should also reach out to your state’s ombudsman office & explain what is happening & that the offices that are supposed to protect you are instead terrorizing you & your daughter & trying to put all of you in further danger. Your son is not only a danger to others but to himself has committed several extremely egregious crimes against you & others. It’s only a matter of time before he runs into an adult that won’t care that he’s 13 and not hold back. At the very least he should be locked up in a psych ward preferably in a prison. Don’t take him back, you’re the only one doing the right thing. I am so sorry you all are going through this nightmare made even harder because it’s your son doing it. You are doing amazing but please seek therapy for yourself to help you with your feelings I can’t even imagine the devastation, anger and betrayal among other things that you’re going through. Praying for you and your family.
Like most cps, they really don’t care