Thank you for the ideas. You do always look elegant. I can't always afford the price point of items but the styling ideas are so helpful and do give me confidence.
Like many of us now, I work remotely from my home in Charlotte, NC. You have inspired me to make the effort to "dress for my day" instead of living in joggers and t-shirts. I feel better about myself when I do put in the effort. Great tips, great style and I love how you present your content like you're chatting with some friends, so comfortable!
My husband retired last year and I’m finding that our lifestyle is so much more casual. I love your thoughts about still looking elegant and put together for a casual “lifestyle “. I’ve been adjusting my wardrobe to best reflect my current lifestyle . You do look elegant, Kay. Beautiful outfits and colors. I especially like the pop of burgundy.
Wow, thank you! 😊 There are some great slow fashion channels though. Put that in the search engine and see what you find. You may be surprised. But I’m very glad you love it here. 😉
Elegance is so much more than outfits. Deportment, attitude, and inner peace play a huge role in an elegant lady’s lifestyle. Beautiful outfits. Thanks, Kay!
I have to tell you that lily silk have overdone their advertising. You are the fifth person I have seen with the same clothes. But you carry the, very well 🌺
You’ve outdone yourself this time! What a compilation of looks and tips that really suits our lifestyle. I look forward to your posts and videos every day. They are not to be missed!
I watch and enjoy most all of your videos and blogs. I’m 63 and it was a challenge to go from professional office wear in NY to a casual retirement in Leland, NC. After several years, I think I have finally figured out a polished, casual wardrobe that works well, with a few tweaks remaining!
Good morning Kay, I just wanted to tell you that you really gave me a good tip today. I have been struggling with the idea that I needed a pair of black jeans in my wardrobe as a basic but never wear them because they just don’t feel like me. Today I realized that maybe I should look at a pair of gray jeans instead. The photos you showed with the grey jeans really spoke to me and I’m excited to try a pair. Thank you for the inspiration!
Hi Kay, my name is Emily. I’m in Southern Oregon. I have been watching your videos for about a year or so now. I love thinking about and curating my wardrobe and I also love the Lord. I just turned 50 a couple weeks ago, so now I officially fit your channel demographic! 🎉
I believe the word “polished “ might be the word we’re looking for. If we’re looking well groomed, neat with fairly up to date clothing with minimal jewelry we will have a certain elegance. Of course, employing all the tips you recommend elevate our appearance even more!
Hi, Kim here (63) from New Zealand. You've definitely helped me get my mojo back with what to wear & how to wear it, since I looked up how to wear wide leg jeans last year! Our seasons are opposite but it can help me plan waaay ahead, or I back track to your other videos. Look forward to seeing you again next Thursday morning 😀
Oh yes it helps me, it is exactly for me Kay all these advices. I’m retired and I go very often 4 or5 a week to the aquagym. So an outfit chic it’s not for me. These outifts you show in this video are exactly for me. Thank you. Do you know that thank of you I wear very often nail varnish. Have a nice week , ❤ from France.
Thanks so much Kay. The elevated casual style works so well in my time of life. Your videos are so informative and well done which helps guide me in making wise decisions for dressing for my day.
Outfit # 2 was the most casually elegant super look because it had the fit, the color coordination, the nice white with black trim sweater. But no matter what, I will never put sloppy joggers into the elegant category. Think a good percentage of the look is nice fit, not oversized. And maybe a simple necklace to finish off a crew neck sweater is a good accessory.
Hi Kay, 59 year old from Chicago area. I am a huge fan and watch most or all of your videos and get your email. I watch a lot of fashion and beauty videos, but yours are so real and educational too, I think I get the most fashion information that I apply in real life, from you. I also just appreciate your style and keeping our fashion up to date
Loving the slightly longer length of your hair - looks much more modern. Cashmere always adds a touch of elegance to an outfit, and there are so many different price points that it is becoming more affordable - although the cheaper versions pill more easily and need to be "shaved". I have some Scottish cashmere from more than 30 years ago that it still in pretty much pristine condition - it has never pilled, and has been laundered so many times.
As usual, this has been a great video! You look wonderful in everything that you showed us. I'm going to look at the white with black accents sweater - beautiful! And the burgundy purse - like it a lot too! Have a great day!
Hi Kay, This video was helpful and inspiring! I feel your personality really is casual yet elegant and your clothing suggestions are a part of that. I really appreciate that you just limit the outfits you showcase. Your videos are practical, attainable, and you really help your viewers so much!
Greeting from Dover, Florida. Kay, I'm so thankful I found your program. I've learned so many helpful hints and feel so much better in my clothes. Most of all, I love your sweet and caring spirit.
Love this ,Kay....I have created a special folder called with your how to videos ...I just love when you model the clothes for us and this one's a keeper ...it's so fun to actually see how the outfits can be put together..and I'm so grateful for this video because I'm retired and I love casual elegance .....I'm sending it on to my good friend Nona because she is a Lily silk wild woman ...have a great day ❤
This was one of my favorite videos that you have done. You mentioned that elegant is in style, and I agree with you. I live in a rural area where trucks with yard equipment is in the back is the lifestyle. I, however, wear the elegant trend. Thank you for this!
Kay, I subscribe to your blog and RUclips channel. It started because I am a similar size and you show brands that I know and wear. I have come to appreciate your tips. You have helped me elevate my look AND improve my shopping. In addition, I have to say that I truly enjoy your tone. I often read your thoughts for the day. It is a pleasure to be here.
Thanks Kay for this video. I love that you’re incorporating more purses and accessories jewelry into your videos. Could you do an essential purse wardrobe video or board soon? Also a fall/winter essential shoe wardrobe video or board? Some of us with bunions (65% women over 50) are struggling to get comfortable sneakers let alone leather sneakers, flats and low heels. Thanks again
I’ve been on the hunt for a pretty Fair Isle sweater - I had to pause your video to order mine! You’ve introduced me to LILYSILK, Me & Em, and Ally shoes. You’re a great source for elegant pieces. Love your channel.
Hi, Kay! I am here in Western NC, and watching my granddaughter until the evenings, so I went for my walk and watched your video as my treat to relax, refresh, and enjoy! Always a true pleasure, you have no idea what these videos have meant to me. Sending gratitude and encouragement to you, sister!
Hi Kay, my name is Erica. I'm watching from Beaverton, Oregon. I love your style and your ideas. You always look elegant! Thank you for providing beautiful ways to style my wardrobe!
Tona (65), from Barcelona. I’m watching you every Wednesday, not only for your inspirations, but also for the peaceful way of your speaking (and so I try to maintain my English 😉). Thank you.
Hello from the Thousand Islands region in Canada. I have been following you since 2020, and I appreciate all the advice I have received over the years.
Great simple ideas Kay! I took pictures and pinned some of these outfits that contain pieces I already have. I appreciate your ideas on coat color with the outfit. The overcoat and jogger outfit is so fun AND elegant!
Kay, these outfits are great. I’ve been watching you for a while and your tips are really beginning to sink in and become part of my style. Thank you for all that you share with us!
I love all your outfits in this video. The wool coats are especially lovely. I live in southwest Florida so they would have no place in my closet. I love black pants - so elegant and slimming. This year I have rediscovered chocolate brown. It’s such a rich color and I think it looks lovely with my blonde hair. I really enjoy your videos.
Hi Kay from the UK! I love the charcoal grey jeans, they look just a little bit softer than black ones, youve definitely made me want to look for a nice pair of grey jeans now! X
I was suggested this video and I really enjoyed it. Thanks for the great suggestions for looking classic but in its modern form not looking dated. It’s a fine line and you’re great at defining it and explaining how the details matter. Thank you.
Hi I love your style... I'm 72 and love to dress up.. feel beautiful and feel good! I get my inspiration from you too incorporating it to my own style.. Thanks ❤😊✨👋💕😘
You have inspired me to dress for my day on the weekends too! And yes, it raises my self-confidence!
I love that you’re embracing your style on the weekends! 🙌🏻
Thank you for the ideas. You do always look elegant. I can't always afford the price point of items but the styling ideas are so helpful and do give me confidence.
You're so welcome! I'm glad you like the styling ideas.
Like many of us now, I work remotely from my home in Charlotte, NC. You have inspired me to make the effort to "dress for my day" instead of living in joggers and t-shirts. I feel better about myself when I do put in the effort. Great tips, great style and I love how you present your content like you're chatting with some friends, so comfortable!
My husband retired last year and I’m finding that our lifestyle is so much more casual. I love your thoughts about still looking elegant and put together for a casual “lifestyle “. I’ve been adjusting my wardrobe to best reflect my current lifestyle . You do look elegant, Kay. Beautiful outfits and colors. I especially like the pop of burgundy.
I’m so glad you liked the burgundy pop! ❤️ Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts.
Love your channel. You are the only one who encourages building a thoughtful wardrobe rather than buying tons of cute clothes.
Wow, thank you! 😊 There are some great slow fashion channels though. Put that in the search engine and see what you find. You may be surprised. But I’m very glad you love it here. 😉
Elegance is so much more than outfits. Deportment, attitude, and inner peace play a huge role in an elegant lady’s lifestyle. Beautiful outfits. Thanks, Kay!
You are absolutely right! ❤️
This site is encouraging
I’m so glad you think so. 😊
TY Kay! Great outfits!
Thank you! I’m so glad you liked them. 😊
All of your outfits are perfection. I would wear every single one of them.
Ahh, lovely. Thanks so much for watching. 🥰
I have to tell you that lily silk have overdone their advertising. You are the fifth person I have seen with the same clothes. But you carry the, very well 🌺
You’ve outdone yourself this time! What a compilation of looks and tips that really suits our lifestyle. I look forward to your posts and videos every day. They are not to be missed!
I watch and enjoy most all of your videos and blogs. I’m 63 and it was a challenge to go from professional office wear in NY to a casual retirement in Leland, NC. After several years, I think I have finally figured out a polished, casual wardrobe that works well, with a few tweaks remaining!
It sounds like you’ve mastered the art of casual elegance! 😊
Good morning Kay, I just wanted to tell you that you really gave me a good tip today. I have been struggling with the idea that I needed a pair of black jeans in my wardrobe as a basic but never wear them because they just don’t feel like me. Today I realized that maybe I should look at a pair of gray jeans instead. The photos you showed with the grey jeans really spoke to me and I’m excited to try a pair. Thank you for the inspiration!
Hi Kay, my name is Emily. I’m in Southern Oregon. I have been watching your videos for about a year or so now. I love thinking about and curating my wardrobe and I also love the Lord. I just turned 50 a couple weeks ago, so now I officially fit your channel demographic! 🎉
That’s wonderful! Thank you so much for watching. 🥰
Your hair looks great!!
Greetings from Louisiana. Your programs are so uplifting and informative. I appreciate you.
You are so welcome 🤗. Thank you for watching.
I believe the word “polished “ might be the word we’re looking for. If we’re looking well groomed, neat with fairly up to date clothing with minimal jewelry we will have a certain elegance. Of course, employing all the tips you recommend elevate our appearance even more!
Yes, “polished” is a great way to describe it! 😊
Hi, Kim here (63) from New Zealand. You've definitely helped me get my mojo back with what to wear & how to wear it, since I looked up how to wear wide leg jeans last year! Our seasons are opposite but it can help me plan waaay ahead, or I back track to your other videos. Look forward to seeing you again next Thursday morning 😀
Hi Kim! I love that you are thinking ahead and backtracking to find inspiration. 😊 Thank you for saying hello.
Great job! Thanks for the tips!
Hello from Eva in Sweden! I love Wednesday then I can see a new video filled with tips and inspiration! ❤️👍❤️👍Thank you!
Awesome! Thank you! 😊
I am loving your channel Kay. You have given me such confidence in my wardrobe building and what I choose to wear. Thank you!
Thank you, Kay, for another great video. I find them so encouraging. Being an older lady(!) it's great to get new ideas to keep current and elegant! ❤
Oh yes it helps me, it is exactly for me Kay all these advices. I’m retired and I go very often 4 or5 a week to the aquagym. So an outfit chic it’s not for me. These outifts you show in this video are exactly for me. Thank you. Do you know that thank of you I wear very often nail varnish. Have a nice week , ❤ from France.
Thanks so much Kay. The elevated casual style works so well in my time of life. Your videos are so informative and well done which helps guide me in making wise decisions for dressing for my day.
Another great video Kay!
You look amazing
Thank you! I’m so glad you liked it. 😊
Outfit # 2 was the most casually elegant super look because it had the fit, the color coordination, the nice white with black trim sweater. But no matter what, I will never put sloppy joggers into the elegant category. Think a good percentage of the look is nice fit, not oversized. And maybe a simple necklace to finish off a crew neck sweater is a good accessory.
Hi Kay, 59 year old from Chicago area. I am a huge fan and watch most or all of your videos and get your email. I watch a lot of fashion and beauty videos, but yours are so real and educational too, I think I get the most fashion information that I apply in real life, from you. I also just appreciate your style and keeping our fashion up to date
I am so glad you like the videos and that you find them helpful! 😊 Thank you so much for following along.
This was good. I am going to be traveling. Love those white tennis shoes. With the joggers and sweater.
Loving the slightly longer length of your hair - looks much more modern. Cashmere always adds a touch of elegance to an outfit, and there are so many different price points that it is becoming more affordable - although the cheaper versions pill more easily and need to be "shaved". I have some Scottish cashmere from more than 30 years ago that it still in pretty much pristine condition - it has never pilled, and has been laundered so many times.
Thanks so much for watching. 🥰
Love your video, Kay! Love the outfits. I'm watching from North Carolina!❤
Superb video Kay, thank you so much for the inspiration here. ❤
You are so welcome! 🤗
Hi Kay I live on Ontario Canada and I enjoy your videos
Lovely! Thank you so much for saying hello. 👋🏻
As usual, this has been a great video! You look wonderful in everything that you showed us. I'm going to look at the white with black accents sweater - beautiful! And the burgundy purse - like it a lot too! Have a great day!
Thank you. Just what I needed!
Love your style, Kay. Classic. I watch often.❤
Yay! Thank you!😊
🎉Love these outfits! Classy and comfy!❤
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and found some inspiring pieces! 🥰
Love the outfits that you put together! Classy casual!
Hi Kay, This video was helpful and inspiring! I feel your personality really is casual yet elegant and your clothing suggestions are a part of that. I really appreciate that you just limit the outfits you showcase. Your videos are practical, attainable, and you really help your viewers so much!
Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate the feedback. 😊
Hi Kay, Watching your wonderful channel from Hilton Head, SC. Love seeing your fabulous and stunning outfit ideas! Thank you for all you do.
Thank you for watching! I appreciate your kind words. 😊
Beautiful outfits!!!
Hi Kay,
Have watched for years. I’m 75 and love your classy content.
Grace McConnell
That is so lovely. Thank you for your continued support. 💗
Greeting from Dover, Florida. Kay, I'm so thankful I found your program. I've learned so many helpful hints and feel so much better in my clothes. Most of all, I love your sweet and caring spirit.
That's so kind of you to say. I'm so glad the videos are helpful for you! 😊
I really appreciate your channel, Kay. Thanks for the many suggestions.
I’m so glad you enjoy the channel! 😊
Love all of these tips. I am 5’ 2” and really need some help making my clothes fit my body.
I understand. I suggest you follow Michelle at Poised Petite youtube.com/@poisedpetite?si=Y1MiNwseDfxnwq2n
Love this ,Kay....I have created a special folder called with your how to videos ...I just love when you model the clothes for us and this one's a keeper ...it's so fun to actually see how the outfits can be put together..and I'm so grateful for this video because I'm retired and I love casual elegance .....I'm sending it on to my good friend Nona because she is a Lily silk wild woman ...have a great day ❤
That is so wonderful to hear! I’m so glad you find the videos helpful.😊
Hi! From Florida. Appreciate all the tips and positivity!
You are so welcome! It’s great to hear from my Florida friends!
You shine, girl!
I love everything you created ❤
This was one of my favorite videos that you have done. You mentioned that elegant is in style, and I agree with you. I live in a rural area where trucks with yard equipment is in the back is the lifestyle. I, however, wear the elegant trend. Thank you for this!
I am so happy to hear that you’re rocking the elegant trend. 🥰 you go girl!
All natural-fiber fabrics/materials, and elegance - always and forever!
Thanks so much for sharing. 😊
I always enjoy watching your channel 🥰💕
Love your casual idea 😊
My favorites are the burgundy puffer jacket and burgundy bag 🤗
Fun! You must be a woman who loves a big punch of color. 🥰
Gorgeous clothing - and yes very elegant. You look great in all of them.
Thank you! I hope they give you some inspiration. 😉
Kay, I subscribe to your blog and RUclips channel. It started because I am a similar size and you show brands that I know and wear. I have come to appreciate your tips. You have helped me elevate my look AND improve my shopping. In addition, I have to say that I truly enjoy your tone. I often read your thoughts for the day. It is a pleasure to be here.
Love your channel!! 😊
Thank you so much! ❤️
Your hair looks really cute. That’s a good length for you.
Thank you, I’m loving it too. 🥰
Thanks Kay for this video. I love that you’re incorporating more purses and accessories jewelry into your videos. Could you do an essential purse wardrobe video or board soon? Also a fall/winter essential shoe wardrobe video or board? Some of us with bunions (65% women over 50) are struggling to get comfortable sneakers let alone leather sneakers, flats and low heels. Thanks again
Great idea!
I’ve been on the hunt for a pretty Fair Isle sweater - I had to pause your video to order mine! You’ve introduced me to LILYSILK, Me & Em, and Ally shoes. You’re a great source for elegant pieces. Love your channel.
That is so exciting! I hope you love your new sweater! 😊
Great looks, just love the fair isle sweater.
Thank you, I love Fair Isle sweaters, too! 😊
Hi, Kay! I am here in Western NC, and watching my granddaughter until the evenings, so I went for my walk and watched your video as my treat to relax, refresh, and enjoy! Always a true pleasure, you have no idea what these videos have meant to me. Sending gratitude and encouragement to you, sister!
I am so glad you find joy in my videos! It is so rewarding to know that what I share is helpful for others. 🥰
Hi Kay, my name is Erica. I'm watching from Beaverton, Oregon. I love your style and your ideas. You always look elegant! Thank you for providing beautiful ways to style my wardrobe!
That is so kind of you to say. 🥰
Thank you Kay. Just used your code ordered one sweater. Thank you for your inspiration.
You are so welcome! I hope you love it! 💕
Tona (65), from Barcelona. I’m watching you every Wednesday, not only for your inspirations, but also for the peaceful way of your speaking (and so I try to maintain my English 😉). Thank you.
I love that. Thank you. 😊
Hi, watching from NZ. Spring here, so some of these outfit ideas will work well for me now. Thank you!
Thank you, Kay. I always enjoy your videos. Have a lovely week.
Thank you! You too! 😊
Loved this video!
I’m so glad you enjoyed it! 😊
Hi Kay. I very much enjoy your channel. Thank you.
I’m so glad you enjoy the channel! 😊
Love all of your videos!! Thank you! (From Vernon, NJ)
You are so welcome! Glad you are enjoying the channel. 😊
Hi Kay, watching from South Africa! I enjoy your channel a lot!
Hello from the Thousand Islands region in Canada. I have been following you since 2020, and I appreciate all the advice I have received over the years.
Thank you for following along. I am so glad you enjoy the channel! ❤️
Love your style and your channel!❤
Thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoy the channel. 🥰
Great video have a great weekend . Kelly
You too, Kelly! Thanks for watching. 😊
Love your videos...keep them coming😀
Thank you! I'm so glad you enjoy them. 😊
Loved the modern classics which you shared with us today!
I’m so glad you enjoyed them! 😊
I Love your channel! Watching from Indianapolis, Indiana. Thank you for sharing beautiful tips and styling ideas.
Thank you so much! 😊
Hi, Kay. I'm watching from Australia. Love these Lily Silk outfits!
It's so nice to hear from someone in Australia! ❤️
Great simple ideas Kay! I took pictures and pinned some of these outfits that contain pieces I already have. I appreciate your ideas on coat color with the outfit. The overcoat and jogger outfit is so fun AND elegant!
I'm so glad you found some inspiration in the video! 😊
Love this, you’re speaking my language!
Wonderful! Thanks for watching. 🥰
Great video for casual- which is my lifestyle 95% of my life!
Perfect! 👍🏻
I enjoyed watching this video because it has given me idea to further my styling sense! Thank you! I am tuning in from NYC.
You are so welcome! 🤗
Love your outfits, I am watching from Cologne in Germany.
I love all your outfits in this video. Thanks for the much needed inspiration!
You're so welcome! I'm glad you enjoyed the video. 😊
Love the video!
Thank you for watching! 😊
Hi Kay! Texas! Enjoy your channel! ❤
Hey there! Thank you. 😊
Beautiful! Love the way you style them. Great ideas that I can use in a different price range.
I’m so glad you liked the outfits! It's fun to find elegant pieces in different price ranges. 🥰
Hi from Merry Hill, NC. Love all the looks today! Beautiful clothing make it easy to style.
Thank you! I am so glad you liked the looks.
I loved this video and have to say you are a beautiful and classy woman Kay❤
That’s very kind of you. Thank you. 😊
Kay, these outfits are great. I’ve been watching you for a while and your tips are really beginning to sink in and become part of my style. Thank you for all that you share with us!
That is so nice to hear! I’m so glad you’re enjoying the tips and seeing them work for you. 😊
Really nice looks and good tips!
Thank you! I’m so glad you liked them. 😊
I love all your outfits in this video. The wool coats are especially lovely. I live in southwest Florida so they would have no place in my closet. I love black pants - so elegant and slimming. This year I have rediscovered chocolate brown. It’s such a rich color and I think it looks lovely with my blonde hair. I really enjoy your videos.
Thank you so much! 😊 I love chocolate brown too - it's so chic.
Hi Kay from the UK! I love the charcoal grey jeans, they look just a little bit softer than black ones, youve definitely made me want to look for a nice pair of grey jeans now! X
Thanks, Kay. I plan to share this with my daughter so she can see the basic elements of pulling a great outfit together.
Wonderful! Thank you for sharing. 🥰
Oh! The ivory sweater with grey and black looks amazing on you! ❤
Thank you so much! That is one of my favorites as well. 😊
Lovely video today, Kay. Thank you.
You're so welcome! 😊
I was suggested this video and I really enjoyed it. Thanks for the great suggestions for looking classic but in its modern form not looking dated. It’s a fine line and you’re great at defining it and explaining how the details matter. Thank you.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! 😊
Hi I love your style... I'm 72 and love to dress up.. feel beautiful and feel good! I get my inspiration from you too incorporating it to my own style.. Thanks ❤😊✨👋💕😘
Hi from Ireland. Love Wednesdays for your for your videos and style ideas
Yay! Thank you! 😊
Pretty elegant outfits , I love a pop of pink, have a good Amazon peacoat
Love that! 💗
Hi Kay. I love your sense of style and your videos, so helpful!
Thank you so much!😊