Gambling is the worst thing that ever happen to me. Video poker to be exact. Lost over $2 million in the past 5 years and have over $270k in credit card debt and loans. Just yesterday I relapse and lost another $10k which was suppose to go toward my debt and now I'm screwed. How I wish I can turn back the hands of time 5 years ago and stop my self from ever going to the casino. Worst decision of my life and biggest regret of my life. Gamvling has destroyed me emotionally and financially.
@@nadiahassan6228 thank you. Still so angry at myself right now, I could of retired 5 years ago at the age of 34, now I'm 39 with no money and nothing but debt. It so sad how the casino ruined my life.
Wow I'm speechless, he described gambling addiction 1000% because I myself was a gambling addict. Too everyone out there fighting addiction, stay strong because the storm will pass like everything else.
@@johngeiger3770 it's a strong/sneaky addition that's crippling to the mind and internally. You'll never see a gambler coming because they seem happy on the outside, but dying by the minute on the inside. It's a very sick and disgusting addition, you will sell/pawn everything you have just to go back and tap that button. Even if you win, it's not enough..you lie to family and friends, your kids. Lose your home fkn everything and still sometimes the lesson still ain't learned
Unless you get help, the storm of addiction will not pass. I know. I'm 68 and still gambling even though I know I need to stop. I can stay away from it some days, but eventually the bug comes back and bites me every time.
As a gambling addict and in the process of trying to recover, I wouldn’t wish gambling addiction on my worst enemy. It has destroyed me mentally and physically. I have lost everything to my name. I am now 3 months clean and aiming to never ever gamble again. To all people out there stay away as much as you can
Stay strong and pray upon Ur addiction. If U can travel somewhere U can be safe and be with U. Helps U think and away from the everyday that surrounds U.
Hey nick I hope all is well I’m also a compulsive gambler. I’m finding more of a community online and started going to GA meetings. Keep strong my brother and let’s give our life to God. Money can be replaced but you are priceless just take it one day at a time.
Yep indeed gambling is destroying our society and I feel sorry for his vitims as well . If it wasnt for crypto I would probably bet from my phone . People shoud pay more attention to that problem . Now everyone can lose a fortune just with few click on his phone.
Haha..sure he's likeable and open and it's why it was so easy for him to do what he did w people's money, the way he talks he almost seems proud of his behavior...I hope things are better for.him??? Being an addict myself there is a narcissism that come w this kind of behavior!
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I had a gambling problem for 15 years. I would basically work for 15 years to feed the habit. I stole around $50 dollars from my brother and felt so bad and he was so good to me when I told him. Other than that one incident. I always paid my rent and travel pass back and forth to worth( As soon as my salary was paid into my account.) I tried to eat ok but went hungry on a few time when it got bad. When I got to 30 years of age, I started to save money and that became my new addiction, seeing how far I could take it. Today I have a house and an apartment at the beach. My kids college is paid for and we live well ( My wife keeps me grounded) It can be done even after 15 years you can turn it around you cannot accept that it cannot end.Its about putting your energy into something else. I hope my story will give hope to someone who is struggling with this terrible problem.
Thank you for sharing, I myself struggle with gambling. I'm about to be 30 and feel like I am starting from scratch. Lost 2 cars in the process, all my savings and any valuables I had have all been sold or pawned. I feel like a complete loser. But you're right, just need to channel this energy into something else.
@@antisocial3232 Thanks for your reply. Sorry to hear about your struggle. 30 years of age is a good place to start. Sit down and think, that's the first thing to do because gambling is an impulsive act, we just don't sit and think before we waste more money. Sit and think about your life. What you want from life. I know why I gambled. I came from a very poor family and watched my father work like hell in a job that paid little. He took on that responsibility of raising us the best he could. I thought that I could gamble my way out of poverty. Worst Idea I ever had as it kept me poor for 15 years through my 20s when I was young and strong and could have done anything. Maybe there is something that triggered your gambling and maybe continues to do so. If you are about to lose all your money anyway, why not just spend 6 months just spending it on things you want (You are going to lose it anyway) Find a trip you want to go on somewhere or a hobby. Buy a business and run it as if it was a gamble. It is hard what you are going through, its the worst disease but it a disease that can be controlled. If you want to talk again, please just post I will always answer.
@@josephgreen2008 thank you very much for your response and advice. I truly appreciate you sharing your experience. I started gambling for the exact same reason, looking for a way out of poverty. Parents worked hard for my siblings and I, I wanted to give them the world. The crazy thing is that I would actually win some pretty significant jackpots, only to give it all back within weeks. That's when I knew I really had a problem.
Now that you say that, a movie based off this guys life would be pretty interesting to watch. A character study on the development of a gambling addiction. He describes the carnage of 9/11 so cinematically.
This is one of the best interviews for forming problem resolutions that I've seen. He says all the right things. The last few sentences are among the most important and yet least available to find. Specifically relationship and having a trusted friend by your side. Find that and you can unlock any addiction or mental prison. Thanks ++
This was a helluva interview. Im a recovering alcoholic (July 4th 2019) , its crazy how when you take away the drugs, the alcohol, the bets, our addictions are the same at the core. I can relate to every single thing Dan said. So proud of you dude, keep up the excellent work!!!
My sponsor still gambled and went to prostitutes for the first 5 years of his sobriety. He described himself as a sober horse thief because he was siphoning money from his payroll withholding to do that. Then he decided he really wanted to get serious about sobriety. Yeah an addict can get addicted to ANYTHING.
There’s a lot of similarities. It struck me when he talked about the normalization from adults to kids. I remember when I was younger, I had friends whose parents would let us party at their house (and buy us alcohol), and other friends whose parents would place bets for us every Sunday. We were 16 years old drinking and gambling regularly! That was just having fun to us and the adults were actively making it happen for us.
Thank you for this video! I felt him 100% I grew up into this family of sports betting and casinos at such a young age, but it was my grown up decision to gamble. Onling gambling, sports betting, casino, slots, everytable game you name it. Lost so much money let my family down, cars repoed , savings gone, drained 401k, debts racked, done some bad things ,I am now almost two months sober from gambling after some eye opening events, had some suicidal thoughts but still here for my kids, i hope i can continue to fight these demons and addiction.Videos like these also been helping me. I suffer from deep depression, anxiety and gambling is my way to cope. To all the gambling addicts out there just like me, im hoping it gets better with time, stop trying to quick flip this and that or gamble every little penny or money you have just to pay this debt off or that person off. It will eventually get worst and worst no matter how many amounts of money we win we will do it again. I own up To my mistakes all the time, I constantly remind myself with positive thoughts that Keep working, I will get out of this life with time, management, help,guidance. If you think you need help seek help, stop thinking be about it. I hope this channel comes out with more stories like these.
I had a gambling problem, but not as bad as yours. One day 3.5 years ago I just decided “No More!” I am happier than ever, have lots of money and am debt free. Once you realize the casinos exist solely to separate you from your money, you’ll look back and see how easy it was to let them manipulate you. Keep on fighting, you have a very bright future ahead! Best wishes fir your success!
Thanks for sharing this, I kinda felt the same, deep depression, I felt so sick, I lost my savings too, not as much as yours, but it's definitely not a good feeling.
Very articulate, chatty, seemingly a very nice and likeable, confident guy, the ultimate conman! You can see why people trusted him with their money as he seems like a safe pair of hands. Alas, you can NEVER see what truly lurks beneath another!
Gambling is a serious addiction just like drugs sex alcohol it’s funny how the chemicals in our mind can run how we function! But $2.1 million dollars you’re just a degenerate ConMan.
@@meganschoel8398 I was referring to him naturally being the conman type, with his easy going manner and fast talking. I am not saying that he still is, in that regard I take him at his word. He has moved away from his addiction and on to a good, family life.
Dan has the gift of gab. Not in a bad way....just the guy-next-door that's sincere and speaks from the heart. The 9-11 story was particularly moving. I can remember the events of that 24 hours clear as day as well. Congratulations on your recovery and here's hoping to many more fruitful years without giving money back to the casinos!
As an active gambling addict, a lot of it surrounding sports betting is about BEING RIGHT. Looking at the point spread or total for a game and having a strong gut feeling and then winning, or losing. God has set me free from alcohol, drugs and pornography. I am praying to be set free from all gambling.
It's funny cause I have a friend who bets sports and everytime he wins he'll call bragging how he knew but when he loses there's no phone call or if he calls he makes little mention of his bet.
We as gamblers can be egotistic when we win and be prideful when we lose so i understand overall gambling can be a thrilling and humble experience@@themannodoubt8657
This interview is definitely in my Top 5 of Marc's videos! Dan thank you so much for sharing your story! I Love how you shared that it's not about the religion, but the relationship. Very POWERFUL WORDS! God bless!
Thank you. As an addicted gambler in recovery up until this past week when I found myself going back for 'just this one more time,' this message was so important. I will always be a gambling addict and I made a poor choice this week; but I can forgive myself and go forward with renewed intention. One day at a time.
@@dantrolaro3043 thank you. I'm a South African and live in the most beautiful part of this country. The rest of my life is lovely. My family unit intact and a big part. Yet there is this ugly and dark side that rears its head. I could destroy everything. The dark side says 'do it, you don't deserve it anyway' and then the light of grace shines through. Your message has been a blessing to me today.
@@dantrolaro3043 Your story was harrowing but necessary. Your humility and hopefulness and gratitude truly inspiring. I commend you sir, you are a treasure of a person, and I really appreciate you sharing. Thank you and I wish you the very best!
Wow! Thank you Dan for sharing. I was able to quit internet sweepstakes gambling twice in my life. Alone without Anyone knowing. I thought of dying so often. I’m thankful for people like you who will share openly and recognize the need for help. Thank you always mark 💕
Wow that bit about the last dollar being a sense of relief really hits home for me. I'm just starting to try and kick this sick addiction and hearing Dan's story is comforting knowing there's a way out. Thank you for sharing this
Exactly. Somehow when there's a pile of money I can't relax. But when it's all gone, it's like I can just be myself and enjoy life. That must sound so crazy to an outsider.
Mark, it would be a crime if u weren’t awarded a Nobel Prize for the work u are doing. This channel has helped tremendously with my depression. No matter how bad things get, with your channel I’m reminded that things could be worse.
I live in NJ and have a gambling addiction - being so close to so many casinos really sucks lol. Your story really hit me because of how close you are to where I call home. I banned myself from all online gambling and I’m working on getting some control for in person gambling. It’s definitely not easy, but I hope to be where you are one day soon. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story.
I gamble online sometimes and other times at the casino. My wife and I always have spending limits when we go to the casino. The thing that keeps me from getting addicted is the fact that that the odds are stacked against the player. When he mentioned that he felt relief when he gambled his last dollar that really confused me. I always felt bad when my money was gone but I realized it is just entertainment. When I gamble online it is mostly poker and again I don't spend much on it because I hate the feeling of losing. I was always confused by the fact that Americans aren't allowed to put real money on some online poker sites. It just seems like common sense to have a spending limit.
I'm from NJ and moved back when Covid hit because my job ended and I could live for free. The worst decision of my life by far as it led to a gambling addiction due to NJ having online casinos. In a hole financially, stuck at home with nothing to do and the option to win "quick money" was a recipe for disaster. I think a few years from now we are all going to be smacked in the face with just how many people developed addictions with either gambling, drinking or drugs in that year where we all were forced to stay home and had minimal entertainment.
@@ross_ulbright7779the lights n the uplifting ditsy music they play on Roobet hypnotizes me .. literally they have this shit down to a, T by enticing u with all the cool little lights n shit. Lost about 8k in one year bro.. god Bless you! You Got Thiss!
@@NothingToPointOut24im in NJ , its the same here, the legalizing of gambling has been a disaster. I def have a problem, been blowing paychecks etc, i always up and 1 outta 10 times ill take it home, brutal pointless addiction
@@mrpapagiorgio3620 The only thing that slowed me down was moving out of the state again. Right now I live in a state where I can do online sportsbook, but for whatever reason, I know my limits when it comes to that. I guess it has something to do with the fast paced nature of the casinos and the ability to win big in a short amount of time. One of my first times playing I turned $200 into 2k in less than a hour. Probably the worst thing that could've happened looking back cause I easily gave back 10 times that much. 2 years later I'm still paying it off. Good luck man.
Clearly Incredibly Intelligent and what an honest interview. As an Addict - Respect to you Brother. We are not bad people, even if we have done bad things. As long as we are trying daily to improve ourselves 🙏🏻
I've known you since undergrad and you remain the dearest of friends. Watching this and reading through the comments brings back a lot of memories and stirs a lot of emotion. There was a long period of time - years - when I didn't recognize you. When all of this came out it explained so much. Then, I witnessed first-hand the fallout and ALL of the collateral damage. I visited you in prison. I've been watching you do the work for years now. I've seen your contrition. I am profoundly proud of you and your recovery. You're always going to be an addict, and I'm always going to be your friend. One more thing, Dan; the U.S. population is approximately 330M, not 3B.
I'm from England, I watch this channel so much, I'm so close to the edge, struggle with alcohol every damn day, OCD, severe depression, anxiety (I drink to stop the anxiety but it's a killer circle) I'm in debt and the huge increase in energy bills and cost of living in England is making me suicidal. I cant cope with everyday life like normal people. My world is so small. Seeing other people and their struggles on this channel make me feel not so alone I guess...
Agree here . That alcohol anxiety cycle was horrible. Giving up alcohol reduced my anxiety immensely. Waking up without a headache us an incredible bonus
talk to your GP/Doctor asap. ph a crisis helpline asap. explain it all to them. most importantly, reach out to your family members, open up to them. show them you are vulnerable and need help. a trouble shared is a trouble halved. you may need to move in with family members till you clear your debts. there is no shame in asking for help. no one is perfect. we all fuck up sometimes. ask for help. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Started gambling when I was 15, playing poker, blackjack and sports gambling with bookies in high school. Was a very normal thing for me and friends. Now I am 21 and since my 21st birthday I have been degenerate gambling on Draftkings online casino and fanduel. Have lost over 50k since January and have lost almost everything I’ve saved up the last 5 years. Have seen many friends go broke with this sickness and I pray for forgiveness and healing for myself and others struggling with this shit. I made my last bet today. This video really helped me feel better about what I did to myself and understand others have the same problems I do.
I started around age 5 or 6 when all I did was play cards at school you know tops take, knockdowns, closest to the wall. I was the best in the entire elementary school when I was just in kindergarten. I have an addictive personality and play pinball 12 hours a day everyday since I was 2 and a half years old. Former 6 time world pinball champion.
This interview has moved me to tears. To have such an articulate voice on gambling addiction makes the start to this process a little more acceptable. Thank you.
It started with drugs for me and then moved into gambling searching for any way to get higher. Before i knew it I was taking personal loans out from the bank at 9am on casino floor. spent 30 hours straight on the casino floor on countless occasions. Ultimately filed for bankruptcy and i’m clean & sober nearing 10 months. My goals i’ve had for myself for years are within reach or already achieved. So very grateful my life is worth living again.
As a kid, my Dad would never allow me to play carnival games at the local fair. He said, “They’re set up to beat you.” He was correct. I’ve always regarded gambling in the same way, and stayed away from it. Never realized (til watching the gambler interviews) what wise advice my Dad had given me.
I’m still mad I played one that you pick an envelope and win the price inside. So you pay 5 bucks and win something worth 1 buck 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ It occurred to me that the high value items I wanted didn’t have any envelope.
Amazing amazing story. I’ve suffered with gambling as well and I can relate. It’s terrible. My breaking point was my dad dying. I still owe him $1600+ and I’ll never be able to repay him. It’s beyond upsetting. Thankful for this interview.
I suffered with gambling too , I steal money from my Dad, now he passed away and I never repay him , I own him my life , I feel so bad , my terrible life 😢
I knew a guy once who would lend money, a loan shark I suppose. I asked him what happens if someone owing money dies, what happens their debt? He said 'if you die, your debt dies with you' 🤷🏻♂️ I know this is the other way round in your situation but try not to concentrate on a debt you can't now settle. Just know your dad loved you and try to arrest your gambling, that's what your dad would want more than anything.
As a former addict, gambling, women, booze, tobacco, shopping 🛍. ? Found my strength through lifestyle changes. I work out every day, weights, cycling, healthy foods. I'm going to ride it out, hopefully I see another sunrise 🌅.
Bless this man for sharing his story so honestly, to be so vulnerable and open about his past problems is really brave, he’s very well spoken as well. Thanks to both of you for making this happen
As an AA oldtimer, I know that GA members are on another level as far as addictions........Dan has over 12 years without a bet.....he is an OLD TIMER in that program!
Alcoholic here. It’s amazing how we have the same issues at the core just different branches of the tree. I could never imagine giving away that much money. But then a gambling addict might turn around and say to me that I could never imagine drinking myself stupid like that over and over again.
As someone also affected by a non-substance addiction (SH), the way he described it felt like it was ripped straight from my brain. Thank you to anyone telling their stories on this page ❤
Glad you show this video. I had gambled my life away playing poker for 16 years. I haven't gambled now since March 2019 almost 4 years. Any addiction is like choose your poison. I almost gave up in life . My hard prayers & not giving up on myself is what saved my life..
@@metsrus Skills don't really matter once it's an addiction. If it was skills casinos wouldn't be in business odds are against you in any gambling table
What a fantastic interview. I'm really happy that you are now well. As someone who has had a gambling addiction for years it destroyed my soul! I'm now going to help people with a gambling addiction. Peace and blessings to all struggling with this debilitating addiction ❤
Thank you for sharing your story Dan. I'm glad you were able to turn your life around and are now helping others who are headed down a similar path. Stay strong and continue doing your great work.
One of the best interviews I've listened to. One thing I've heard again and again is...don't start. Cuz' so many activities can work the pleasure centers in the brain, and before you know it we are craving that kick, that feeling. And then we're always hungry.
I’m here because I googled how to recover. I’m so sad and broken, I want to stop hurting my family. I hope to turn things around soon before it’s too late..
You can tell he is a smart and warm hearted guy who just took a wrong turn at a point of his life. Great to see him come back stronger with bigger purpose in his life. I pray for happiness for the road ahead of his life 🙏
I did the same thing with a check. I understand that I crossed the line feeling. It all went downhill from there. I feel you brother. Gambling addiction is a very horrible and evil thing.
Thanks for sharing your story. I believe this is one of the worse addictions out there. Very easy to hide it and the financial harm you can put on your entire family... Very scary
What a truly, inspiring guy He's been through it all and is now helping others in their fight against this horrible addiction. I hope I will have the strength and courage to beat it myself one day Much respect 🙏❤
Thank you so much for sharing. I appreciate your story so much. I’m Canadian and I will never forget September 11th I remember exactly where I was and watched it on tv live. I’ve never heard a gambling addiction perspective I applaud you taking 100% responsibility.
This was so touching and moving. I also live in Canada it’s a great country with understanding civil people. Lame as fuck where I live though (Atlantic).
This is crushing. Is crazy how an addiction can take you down a dark path.. I've been on and off dealing with the gambling , thankfully I haven't been compromised into a situation that I would regret for life.. a sidenote , I'm from the same part of jersey as this guy. Glad to here he is figuring things out
Thank you for sharing your story. So articulate. I'm a NJ girl and my mom and dad snuck me into casinos underage. It never took hold thank goodness but watching this made me realize the very line they were walking on. I wish you the best!
My Mom always said she wasn't in putting any substances in her body so she didnt have an addiction! Her gambling addiction was worse than a drug addiction, in my eyes, she had no limits and lost everything
This guy proves you are more than your addiction. It doesn't undo the damage that has been done, but healing and trying to be the the best version of yourself so you can help others to be their best version of themselves, that's what really matters in the end.
Now I understand gamblers much better! And that's because of a such a well spoken smart guy like Dan is. Facing your problem is giving you a chance to forgive yourself! And without that forgiveness you just can't move on in life! I have just learned it right here, right now from this gentleman! Thanks Dan!
“As an addict I started looking for a way out, so i defrauded my customers out of 2.1 million dollars” wow not what I expected as a way out 😂 more of a head first dive in
Thank you Mark for including success stories of recovery. I get deflated, listening to one addiction story after another, recognizing everyone is an individual, but the stories have so much in common. I end up thinking there is no hope. I know hearing a hopeful story like this re-inspired me to keep caring, keep looking for solutions, keep seeking that glimmer in others. Thank you, Dan, for your well-spoken interview. Thank you for doing the undoubtably hard work. Thank you for respecting yourself to know you are worth it. You are. Everyone really is.
Thanks Dan for sharing your story. It’s truly an honor to have met you in person and to be working in helping others to deal with problem gambling. You are an inspiration to those that are trying to make a change and contribute to a noble cause. Take care of yourself and allow God to guide you to what you were truly called to do. You make an impact my friend. Thanks for all that you do.
Good interview. I've never heard a story like this. Now he's helping others especially younger people that could be having problems with gambling. Big heart.
Good morning SWU fam'. Greetings from Northern California. Its just after 3:00 a.m. & were at the beginning of a heat wave. Hope youre all doin' well. I send Good Vibes & Mad Love Your Way ✌😎☀
I had my first relapse after seven years of not gambling. This terrible disease will eat you like cancer, financially, your relationships and your mental health will be wrecked the longer you leave it. The worst thing that can happen to a gambling addict is to win
"In the casino the cardinal rule is to keep them playing and keep them coming back. The longer they play, the more they lose. In the end, WE GET IT ALL.." - Sam Rothstein That never went over my head.
ITS NEVER TO LATE TO START YOUR LIFE AGAIN. Debt can be repaid, possessions can be bought again. If your healthy and your family is healthy, that's what matters.
I learned a lot about drug and alcohol addiction in my clinical internship and met some very introspective people (clients), but i never really got a chance to learn about gambling addiction from someone who had first-hand experience. I appreciate very much Dan’s story and really glad he found his new career in which i am sure he is amazing at! Thank you, Dan!
Good interview! Loved that he IS a part of the solution and not just the problem. I would like to see an interview with someone who is addicted to plastic surgery. Something different
This guy is very well spoken and became wise from his mistakes. Greatest respects to him for that. No many people turn their lives around like that. Glad he beat his addiction. The speaks volumes on his true Character.
My dad was a compulsive gambler he also never said “I love you there was never hugs but when he went to the track he laughed raised his hand bought me concessions and I felt special
comedian Norm Macdonald was such a hardcore gambler that he started to go crazy because he couldnt stop. in order to control it and have no choice but to stop, he took the only 20,000 dollars he had at the time and threw it in the ocean. rip, norm. he was a suffering soul just as much as any of us.
Norm Macdonald was just about the funniest man in the universe and I was saddened when I first heard about his gambling problem. At that time I didn’t realize how powerful a gambling addiction could be until I actually met a couple of people who had that problem. I then realized how similar it is to drug/alcohol-related addictions. I hope Dan’s video helps members of Mark’s audience who are going through this phase.
Excellent interview! I love the quality and the content. I love how he knows exactly how his gambling addiction began and how he owned it and did not blame anyone but himself. Thank you Dan for sharing your story! Keep on sharing to save people like me.
Thank you so much for this. I've been in a relationship with a gambling addict for the past 5 years. I am celebrating 6 years of sobriety from alcohol this year and am at my wits end in my relationship. I've been in such denial about how gambling addiction has affected out relationship. We do not live together, we have no future plans, there is a high level of emotional instability and unavailability. This video has helped me understand the gambling addiction a little better and come to a decision that we should go our separate ways at this point and I wish him all the love in the world. What a sad disease this is and I hope he seeks recovery at some point because there is a solution.
When he said you get a relief when you lose all your money he's right. I would get anxiety when I have funds in my gambling account and wouldn't stop until I lost it all. The psychological damage is real also.
This guy is a wonderful person with an issue that most have - give it gambling, work, relationships, alcohol, drugs, unwanted isolation, and narcissistic tendencies! Thank you sir for sharing your weakness, and strength in getting past it comes in time and faith! As for those he screwed financially, he will be paying for that until the end!
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Gambling is the worst thing that ever happen to me. Video poker to be exact. Lost over $2 million in the past 5 years and have over $270k in credit card debt and loans. Just yesterday I relapse and lost another $10k which was suppose to go toward my debt and now I'm screwed. How I wish I can turn back the hands of time 5 years ago and stop my self from ever going to the casino. Worst decision of my life and biggest regret of my life. Gamvling has destroyed me emotionally and financially.
That’s a very honest assessment of where you are and where you’ve been. Take it a day at a time. I wish you the best in your recovery!
@@nadiahassan6228 thank you. Still so angry at myself right now, I could of retired 5 years ago at the age of 34, now I'm 39 with no money and nothing but debt. It so sad how the casino ruined my life.
It would be so frustrating to lose that kind of cash. I agree, casinos and other gambling avenues shouldn’t be as accessible.
Same here
Its why they call it video crack...
Wow I'm speechless, he described gambling addiction 1000% because I myself was a gambling addict. Too everyone out there fighting addiction, stay strong because the storm will pass like everything else.
I'm exactly like you.
Don't know how true is the statement but some describe gambling addiction as worse than alcohol addiction.
@@johngeiger3770 it's a strong/sneaky addition that's crippling to the mind and internally. You'll never see a gambler coming because they seem happy on the outside, but dying by the minute on the inside. It's a very sick and disgusting addition, you will sell/pawn everything you have just to go back and tap that button. Even if you win, it's not enough..you lie to family and friends, your kids. Lose your home fkn everything and still sometimes the lesson still ain't learned
Sorry, but you ARE are gambling addict. A recovering one. This is for life. Relapse os ALWAYS a possibility.
Unless you get help, the storm of addiction will not pass. I know. I'm 68 and still gambling even though I know I need to stop. I can stay away from it some days, but eventually the bug comes back and bites me every time.
As a gambling addict and in the process of trying to recover, I wouldn’t wish gambling addiction on my worst enemy. It has destroyed me mentally and physically. I have lost everything to my name. I am now 3 months clean and aiming to never ever gamble again. To all people out there stay away as much as you can
Well stay away from gambling if you have an addictive personality. Stay away from alcohol and tobacco too
Stay strong and pray upon Ur addiction. If U can travel somewhere U can be safe and be with U. Helps U think and away from the everyday that surrounds U.
🙏🙏🙏
@@MeMe-in8tj it doesn’t work like that.
Hey nick I hope all is well I’m also a compulsive gambler. I’m finding more of a community online and started going to GA meetings. Keep strong my brother and let’s give our life to God. Money can be replaced but you are priceless just take it one day at a time.
What a likeable and open dude. So respectable how he owned his actions and committed to improving his behaviour. Wishing him all the very best.
Yep indeed gambling is destroying our society and I feel sorry for his vitims as well . If it wasnt for crypto I would probably bet from my phone . People shoud pay more attention to that problem . Now everyone can lose a fortune just with few click on his phone.
Haha..sure he's likeable and open and it's why it was so easy for him to do what he did w people's money, the way he talks he almost seems proud of his behavior...I hope things are better for.him???
Being an addict myself there is a narcissism that come w this kind of behavior!
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@@KimbradleyMasterGardener Thank you for your best wishes. Have a great day!
Thank you for taking actual addicts into your company. There is no better way than one addict helping another. Our gratitude speaks when we share.
What a prestigious and great company this sounds like !!
Lawn or are you a fraud
I had a gambling problem for 15 years. I would basically work for 15 years to feed the habit. I stole around $50 dollars from my brother and felt so bad and he was so good to me when I told him. Other than that one incident. I always paid my rent and travel pass back and forth to worth( As soon as my salary was paid into my account.) I tried to eat ok but went hungry on a few time when it got bad.
When I got to 30 years of age, I started to save money and that became my new addiction, seeing how far I could take it. Today I have a house and an apartment at the beach. My kids college is paid for and we live well ( My wife keeps me grounded)
It can be done even after 15 years you can turn it around you cannot accept that it cannot end.Its about putting your energy into something else. I hope my story will give hope to someone who is struggling with this terrible problem.
Thank you for sharing, I myself struggle with gambling. I'm about to be 30 and feel like I am starting from scratch. Lost 2 cars in the process, all my savings and any valuables I had have all been sold or pawned. I feel like a complete loser. But you're right, just need to channel this energy into something else.
@@antisocial3232 Thanks for your reply.
Sorry to hear about your struggle.
30 years of age is a good place to start.
Sit down and think, that's the first thing to do because gambling is an impulsive act, we just don't sit and think before we waste more money.
Sit and think about your life.
What you want from life. I know why I gambled. I came from a very poor family and watched my father work like hell in a job that paid little. He took on that responsibility of raising us the best he could. I thought that I could gamble my way out of poverty. Worst Idea I ever had as it kept me poor for 15 years through my 20s when I was young and strong and could have done anything. Maybe there is something that triggered your gambling and maybe continues to do so.
If you are about to lose all your money anyway, why not just spend 6 months just spending it on things you want (You are going to lose it anyway) Find a trip you want to go on somewhere or a hobby. Buy a business and run it as if it was a gamble.
It is hard what you are going through, its the worst disease but it a disease that can be controlled. If you want to talk again, please just post I will always answer.
@@josephgreen2008 thank you very much for your response and advice. I truly appreciate you sharing your experience. I started gambling for the exact same reason, looking for a way out of poverty. Parents worked hard for my siblings and I, I wanted to give them the world. The crazy thing is that I would actually win some pretty significant jackpots, only to give it all back within weeks. That's when I knew I really had a problem.
@@antisocial3232 Thank you .All the best.
@@josephgreen2008 Hi can i get your email? I just want to get advise and personally talk to you on how to overcome this addiction.
This guy could write a script for an amazing movie. Amazing speaker and story teller
Now that you say that, a movie based off this guys life would be pretty interesting to watch. A character study on the development of a gambling addiction. He describes the carnage of 9/11 so cinematically.
Agreed.
This is one of the best interviews for forming problem resolutions that I've seen. He says all the right things. The last few sentences are among the most important and yet least available to find. Specifically relationship and having a trusted friend by your side. Find that and you can unlock any addiction or mental prison. Thanks ++
@jamesgleason3715 you don't? He literally displayed those things in this video
This was a helluva interview. Im a recovering alcoholic (July 4th 2019) , its crazy how when you take away the drugs, the alcohol, the bets, our addictions are the same at the core. I can relate to every single thing Dan said. So proud of you dude, keep up the excellent work!!!
All the best to you, Mat!
My sponsor still gambled and went to prostitutes for the first 5 years of his sobriety. He described himself as a sober horse thief because he was siphoning money from his payroll withholding to do that. Then he decided he really wanted to get serious about sobriety. Yeah an addict can get addicted to ANYTHING.
alkhol is a social habit in europ
There’s a lot of similarities. It struck me when he talked about the normalization from adults to kids. I remember when I was younger, I had friends whose parents would let us party at their house (and buy us alcohol), and other friends whose parents would place bets for us every Sunday. We were 16 years old drinking and gambling regularly! That was just having fun to us and the adults were actively making it happen for us.
One day at a time
Thank you for this video! I felt him 100% I grew up into this family of sports betting and casinos at such a young age, but it was my grown up decision to gamble. Onling gambling, sports betting, casino, slots, everytable game you name it. Lost so much money let my family down, cars repoed , savings gone, drained 401k, debts racked, done some bad things ,I am now almost two months sober from gambling after some eye opening events, had some suicidal thoughts but still here for my kids, i hope i can continue to fight these demons and addiction.Videos like these also been helping me. I suffer from deep depression, anxiety and gambling is my way to cope. To all the gambling addicts out there just like me, im hoping it gets better with time, stop trying to quick flip this and that or gamble every little penny or money you have just to pay this debt off or that person off. It will eventually get worst and worst no matter how many amounts of money we win we will do it again. I own up To my mistakes all the time, I constantly remind myself with positive thoughts that Keep working, I will get out of this life with time, management, help,guidance. If you think you need help seek help, stop thinking be about it. I hope this channel comes out with more stories like these.
Thanks for sharing this. ❤
Ty bruh
I had a gambling problem, but not as bad as yours. One day 3.5 years ago I just decided “No More!” I am happier than ever, have lots of money and am debt free. Once you realize the casinos exist solely to separate you from your money, you’ll look back and see how easy it was to let them manipulate you. Keep on fighting, you have a very bright future ahead! Best wishes fir your success!
Thanks for sharing this, I kinda felt the same, deep depression, I felt so sick, I lost my savings too, not as much as yours, but it's definitely not a good feeling.
@@4d827im sorry, same happened to me had a good amount saved up, will try to stop and save more money
Very articulate, chatty, seemingly a very nice and likeable, confident guy, the ultimate conman! You can see why people trusted him with their money as he seems like a safe pair of hands. Alas, you can NEVER see what truly lurks beneath another!
He's a salesman for sure!
I call it strong manipulative vibes.
Gambling is a serious addiction just like drugs sex alcohol it’s funny how the chemicals in our mind can run how we function! But $2.1 million dollars you’re just a degenerate ConMan.
@@e.n.9139 yeah I can certainly see what you mean by that!
@@meganschoel8398 I was referring to him naturally being the conman type, with his easy going manner and fast talking. I am not saying that he still is, in that regard I take him at his word. He has moved away from his addiction and on to a good, family life.
Dan has the gift of gab. Not in a bad way....just the guy-next-door that's sincere and speaks from the heart. The 9-11 story was particularly moving. I can remember the events of that 24 hours clear as day as well. Congratulations on your recovery and here's hoping to many more fruitful years without giving money back to the casinos!
I think the gab is a Jersey thing lol
@@girlinthesouth850 nope. It’s a southern thing too
That’s how he was able to scam people.
I agree. Sounds like he's rehearsing a script almost.
Being able to get people to put their confidence in you when they really should not , is a gift.
Gambling addiction is one of the worst addictions to overcome. Thank you for this interview 🙏
Dan, you speak so well. Out of something so bad, you are where you need to be. Helping others to recover and heal.
As an active gambling addict, a lot of it surrounding sports betting is about BEING RIGHT. Looking at the point spread or total for a game and having a strong gut feeling and then winning, or losing. God has set me free from alcohol, drugs and pornography. I am praying to be set free from all gambling.
It's funny cause I have a friend who bets sports and everytime he wins he'll call bragging how he knew but when he loses there's no phone call or if he calls he makes little mention of his bet.
You know what’s funny. These demons are bffs, gambling alcohol and porn. They’re all connected. They don’t like being alone
90% Prozent of all gamblers stop before a big win
We as gamblers can be egotistic when we win and be prideful when we lose so i understand overall gambling can be a thrilling and humble experience@@themannodoubt8657
same here sir..Sports betting ruined my life.. I am looking for a way out i am 200k In debt
This interview is definitely in my Top 5 of Marc's videos! Dan thank you so much for sharing your story! I Love how you shared that it's not about the religion, but the relationship. Very POWERFUL WORDS! God bless!
Thank you.
As an addicted gambler in recovery up until this past week when I found myself going back for 'just this one more time,' this message was so important. I will always be a gambling addict and I made a poor choice this week; but I can forgive myself and go forward with renewed intention. One day at a time.
Hang in there Mandy and continued strength for the journey. Reach out anytime.
@@dantrolaro3043 thank you. I'm a South African and live in the most beautiful part of this country. The rest of my life is lovely. My family unit intact and a big part. Yet there is this ugly and dark side that rears its head. I could destroy everything. The dark side says 'do it, you don't deserve it anyway' and then the light of grace shines through.
Your message has been a blessing to me today.
@@dantrolaro3043 Your story was harrowing but necessary. Your humility and hopefulness and gratitude truly inspiring. I commend you sir, you are a treasure of a person, and I really appreciate you sharing. Thank you and I wish you the very best!
Every day is a new start!!
Double down and win it back..
Wow! Thank you Dan for sharing. I was able to quit internet sweepstakes gambling twice in my life. Alone without Anyone knowing. I thought of dying so often. I’m thankful for people like you who will share openly and recognize the need for help. Thank you always mark 💕
Wow that bit about the last dollar being a sense of relief really hits home for me. I'm just starting to try and kick this sick addiction and hearing Dan's story is comforting knowing there's a way out. Thank you for sharing this
You and me both but we will get through this
Yup we only feel relief when it's all gone.
Hope you're having success
Exactly. Somehow when there's a pile of money I can't relax. But when it's all gone, it's like I can just be myself and enjoy life. That must sound so crazy to an outsider.
Mark, it would be a crime if u weren’t awarded a Nobel Prize for the work u are doing. This channel has helped tremendously with my depression. No matter how bad things get, with your channel I’m reminded that things could be worse.
💯 💯 💯 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
I live in NJ and have a gambling addiction - being so close to so many casinos really sucks lol. Your story really hit me because of how close you are to where I call home.
I banned myself from all online gambling and I’m working on getting some control for in person gambling. It’s definitely not easy, but I hope to be where you are one day soon. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story.
I gamble online sometimes and other times at the casino. My wife and I always have spending limits when we go to the casino. The thing that keeps me from getting addicted is the fact that that the odds are stacked against the player. When he mentioned that he felt relief when he gambled his last dollar that really confused me. I always felt bad when my money was gone but I realized it is just entertainment. When I gamble online it is mostly poker and again I don't spend much on it because I hate the feeling of losing. I was always confused by the fact that Americans aren't allowed to put real money on some online poker sites. It just seems like common sense to have a spending limit.
I'm from NJ and moved back when Covid hit because my job ended and I could live for free. The worst decision of my life by far as it led to a gambling addiction due to NJ having online casinos. In a hole financially, stuck at home with nothing to do and the option to win "quick money" was a recipe for disaster.
I think a few years from now we are all going to be smacked in the face with just how many people developed addictions with either gambling, drinking or drugs in that year where we all were forced to stay home and had minimal entertainment.
@@ross_ulbright7779the lights n the uplifting ditsy music they play on Roobet hypnotizes me .. literally they have this shit down to a, T by enticing u with all the cool little lights n shit. Lost about 8k in one year bro.. god Bless you! You Got Thiss!
@@NothingToPointOut24im in NJ , its the same here, the legalizing of gambling has been a disaster. I def have a problem, been blowing paychecks etc, i always up and 1 outta 10 times ill take it home, brutal pointless addiction
@@mrpapagiorgio3620 The only thing that slowed me down was moving out of the state again. Right now I live in a state where I can do online sportsbook, but for whatever reason, I know my limits when it comes to that. I guess it has something to do with the fast paced nature of the casinos and the ability to win big in a short amount of time. One of my first times playing I turned $200 into 2k in less than a hour. Probably the worst thing that could've happened looking back cause I easily gave back 10 times that much. 2 years later I'm still paying it off. Good luck man.
This man is a born teacher. 👏
Yes he is!!
he knows TOO MUCH.
NO MENTIONS OF WIFE.
Clearly Incredibly Intelligent and what an honest interview. As an Addict - Respect to you Brother. We are not bad people, even if we have done bad things. As long as we are trying daily to improve ourselves 🙏🏻
I've known you since undergrad and you remain the dearest of friends. Watching this and reading through the comments brings back a lot of memories and stirs a lot of emotion. There was a long period of time - years - when I didn't recognize you. When all of this came out it explained so much. Then, I witnessed first-hand the fallout and ALL of the collateral damage. I visited you in prison. I've been watching you do the work for years now. I've seen your contrition. I am profoundly proud of you and your recovery. You're always going to be an addict, and I'm always going to be your friend. One more thing, Dan; the U.S. population is approximately 330M, not 3B.
What a kind message to gave to Dan. He deserves messages like yours and I’m sure he appreciated it. This was one of my favorite interviews.
Yeah I found that $3B figure disconcerting also. The woman giving him $10,000 is such minutiae.
PAUL S., I'd be willing to guess that it wasn't minutiae to her and it sure wouldn't be to most of us.
@@mountainwoman4924 Agreed. Prudential made everyone whole which is cool
give us some of those memories here please
I'm from England, I watch this channel so much, I'm so close to the edge, struggle with alcohol every damn day, OCD, severe depression, anxiety (I drink to stop the anxiety but it's a killer circle)
I'm in debt and the huge increase in energy bills and cost of living in England is making me suicidal.
I cant cope with everyday life like normal people. My world is so small.
Seeing other people and their struggles on this channel make me feel not so alone I guess...
Agree here . That alcohol anxiety cycle was horrible. Giving up alcohol reduced my anxiety immensely. Waking up without a headache us an incredible bonus
Still light just need to seek for it world is big and big will be your life is you trust on future and move out it that circle
Hugs from Spain
Please call for help! You are not alone!!!
talk to your GP/Doctor asap. ph a crisis helpline asap. explain it all to them. most importantly, reach out to your family members, open up to them. show them you are vulnerable and need help. a trouble shared is a trouble halved. you may need to move in with family members till you clear your debts. there is no shame in asking for help. no one is perfect. we all fuck up sometimes. ask for help. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Maybe try moving to the united states. or somewhere else. Sometimes a change of scenery really helps
Started gambling when I was 15, playing poker, blackjack and sports gambling with bookies in high school. Was a very normal thing for me and friends. Now I am 21 and since my 21st birthday I have been degenerate gambling on Draftkings online casino and fanduel. Have lost over 50k since January and have lost almost everything I’ve saved up the last 5 years. Have seen many friends go broke with this sickness and I pray for forgiveness and healing for myself and others struggling with this shit. I made my last bet today. This video really helped me feel better about what I did to myself and understand others have the same problems I do.
hope u are staying strong
You got it man. Hope you’re doing well.
I started around age 5 or 6 when all I did was play cards at school you know tops take, knockdowns, closest to the wall. I was the best in the entire elementary school when I was just in kindergarten. I have an addictive personality and play pinball 12 hours a day everyday since I was 2 and a half years old. Former 6 time world pinball champion.
no one likes a quitter.... go get your money back
Wait, how do you have 50k at 21? Was part of that your earnings from gambling?
Such an interesting story.
The fact that he admitted being 100% responsible for what happened, helped him recover.
That takes guts!
Massive massive guts 👏🏻
This interview has moved me to tears. To have such an articulate voice on gambling addiction makes the start to this process a little more acceptable. Thank you.
This was great to listen too. He was so well spoken
It started with drugs for me and then moved into gambling searching for any way to get higher. Before i knew it I was taking personal loans out from the bank at 9am on casino floor. spent 30 hours straight on the casino floor on countless occasions. Ultimately filed for bankruptcy and i’m clean & sober nearing 10 months. My goals i’ve had for myself for years are within reach or already achieved. So very grateful my life is worth living again.
As a kid, my Dad would never allow me to play carnival games at the local fair. He said, “They’re set up to beat you.” He was correct.
I’ve always regarded gambling in the same way, and stayed away from it.
Never realized (til watching the gambler interviews) what wise advice my Dad had given me.
I’m still mad I played one that you pick an envelope and win the price inside. So you pay 5 bucks and win something worth 1 buck 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ It occurred to me that the high value items I wanted didn’t have any envelope.
clap clap for the handicap
Amazing amazing story. I’ve suffered with gambling as well and I can relate. It’s terrible. My breaking point was my dad dying. I still owe him $1600+ and I’ll never be able to repay him. It’s beyond upsetting. Thankful for this interview.
I suffered with gambling too , I steal money from my Dad, now he passed away and I never repay him , I own him my life , I feel so bad , my terrible life 😢
You can put that money to a good cause.
I knew a guy once who would lend money, a loan shark I suppose. I asked him what happens if someone owing money dies, what happens their debt? He said 'if you die, your debt dies with you' 🤷🏻♂️ I know this is the other way round in your situation but try not to concentrate on a debt you can't now settle. Just know your dad loved you and try to arrest your gambling, that's what your dad would want more than anything.
As a parent i can tell you id give my child a kidney. $1600 is nothing. Dont beat yourself up x
I’m here again rewatching this video, one year later. Since my last comment I’ve lost well over $80,000. It’s never been this bad
As a former addict, gambling, women, booze, tobacco, shopping 🛍. ? Found my strength through lifestyle changes. I work out every day, weights, cycling, healthy foods. I'm going to ride it out, hopefully I see another sunrise 🌅.
Bless this man for sharing his story so honestly, to be so vulnerable and open about his past problems is really brave, he’s very well spoken as well. Thanks to both of you for making this happen
these extreamly tough life experiences seem to manifest themselves inside of us and emerge later on in a much different form.
As an AA oldtimer, I know that GA members are on another level as far as addictions........Dan has over 12 years without a bet.....he is an OLD TIMER in that program!
Alcoholic here. It’s amazing how we have the same issues at the core just different branches of the tree. I could never imagine giving away that much money. But then a gambling addict might turn around and say to me that I could never imagine drinking myself stupid like that over and over again.
This was a great interview. Happy to hear he changed his life around. That takes a lot of strength & courage. ♥️
As someone also affected by a non-substance addiction (SH), the way he described it felt like it was ripped straight from my brain. Thank you to anyone telling their stories on this page ❤
Glad you show this video. I had gambled my life away playing poker for 16 years. I haven't gambled now since March 2019 almost 4 years. Any addiction is like choose your poison. I almost gave up in life . My hard prayers & not giving up on myself is what saved my life..
I thought poker was a game of skills. You must not be playing the right way if you're broke.
@@metsrus Skills don't really matter once it's an addiction. If it was skills casinos wouldn't be in business odds are against you in any gambling table
What a fantastic interview. I'm really happy that you are now well. As someone who has had a gambling addiction for years it destroyed my soul! I'm now going to help people with a gambling addiction. Peace and blessings to all struggling with this debilitating addiction ❤
Thank you for sharing your story Dan. I'm glad you were able to turn your life around and are now helping others who are headed down a similar path. Stay strong and continue doing your great work.
Dan, that was the best interview i have seen on this channel. Glad you are in a good place.
One of the best interviews I've listened to. One thing I've heard again and again is...don't start. Cuz' so many activities can work the pleasure centers in the brain, and before you know it we are craving that kick, that feeling. And then we're always hungry.
EXACTLY!!!
Your story is powerful. I am working towards my Gambling Credentials and the best training is hearing stories like this. Thanks for sharing!
It is a speech that is very well practised.
Well, he is a motivational speaker, so I’m sure he is well rehearsed
Powerful interview. And everything he said was so eloquent. Thank you for sharing your message
Thank you to these men who are honest about their healing journeys. Very Good examples to young men who are trying to heal. We need more!
Thank you for sharing your story
This man is exceptionally brave. Thank you for sharing.
I’m here because I googled how to recover. I’m so sad and broken, I want to stop hurting my family. I hope to turn things around soon before it’s too late..
Feel you.
Struggling also to break away.
Praying to God to rescue me
It’s never too late. Lock yourself out of all your accounts and stay out of casinos. Find another addiction that’s don’t drain all your funds
❤❤❤❤
You can tell he is a smart and warm hearted guy who just took a wrong turn at a point of his life.
Great to see him come back stronger with bigger purpose in his life.
I pray for happiness for the road ahead of his life 🙏
I did the same thing with a check. I understand that I crossed the line feeling. It all went downhill from there. I feel you brother. Gambling addiction is a very horrible and evil thing.
Thank you for your testimony brother Dan, it does not fall on deaf ears
Thanks for sharing your story. I believe this is one of the worse addictions out there. Very easy to hide it and the financial harm you can put on your entire family... Very scary
What a truly, inspiring guy
He's been through it all and is now helping others in their fight against this horrible addiction.
I hope I will have the strength and courage to beat it myself one day
Much respect 🙏❤
Enjoyed this one. So articulate and careful with his words. Goes to show that addiction does not always have to be a physical drug.
Thank you so much for sharing. I appreciate your story so much. I’m Canadian and I will never forget September 11th I remember exactly where I was and watched it on tv live. I’ve never heard a gambling addiction perspective I applaud you taking 100% responsibility.
This was so touching and moving. I also live in Canada it’s a great country with understanding civil people. Lame as fuck where I live though (Atlantic).
Wow. He is such a great speaker. Thank you for this interview and thank you Dan for sharing!
This is crushing. Is crazy how an addiction can take you down a dark path.. I've been on and off dealing with the gambling , thankfully I haven't been compromised into a situation that I would regret for life.. a sidenote , I'm from the same part of jersey as this guy. Glad to here he is figuring things out
Thank you for sharing your story. So articulate. I'm a NJ girl and my mom and dad snuck me into casinos underage. It never took hold thank goodness but watching this made me realize the very line they were walking on. I wish you the best!
My Mom always said she wasn't in putting any substances in her body so she didnt have an addiction! Her gambling addiction was worse than a drug addiction, in my eyes, she had no limits and lost everything
I love listening to people in recovery. Thank you!
This guy proves you are more than your addiction. It doesn't undo the damage that has been done, but healing and trying to be the the best version of yourself so you can help others to be their best version of themselves, that's what really matters in the end.
Now I understand gamblers much better! And that's because of a such a well spoken smart guy like Dan is. Facing your problem is giving you a chance to forgive yourself! And without that forgiveness you just can't move on in life! I have just learned it right here, right now from this gentleman! Thanks Dan!
Did anyone else get a gambling ad during this video? Great interview.
This was great ! Need more of these types of interviews mark
“As an addict I started looking for a way out, so i defrauded my customers out of 2.1 million dollars” wow not what I expected as a way out 😂 more of a head first dive in
Really appreciate these interviews. It gives me a perspective on my own life.
Same ! Every. Single. Time. !!!!!
16:10 This part gave me chills. That moment when you know that all your hidden worries are now about to come to full blossom.
Good morning people of SWU! Southern Oregon at 3:15 a.m. & always stoked to see a new video!
Thank you Mark for including success stories of recovery. I get deflated, listening to one addiction story after another, recognizing everyone is an individual, but the stories have so much in common. I end up thinking there is no hope. I know hearing a hopeful story like this re-inspired me to keep caring, keep looking for solutions, keep seeking that glimmer in others. Thank you, Dan, for your well-spoken interview. Thank you for doing the undoubtably hard work. Thank you for respecting yourself to know you are worth it. You are. Everyone really is.
Thanks Dan for sharing your story. It’s truly an honor to have met you in person and to be working in helping others to deal with problem gambling. You are an inspiration to those that are trying to make a change and contribute to a noble cause. Take care of yourself and allow God to guide you to what you were truly called to do. You make an impact my friend. Thanks for all that you do.
He knows about addiction, thats for sure. Everything he said about it is absolutely the truth. Stay grateful everyone.
Brilliant insights. Crystal clear communicator. Such a valuable RUclips channel.
Very much a smoothe talker. He almost convinced me German families aren't loving any family can be dysfunctional, however not always the case
Good interview.
I've never heard a story like this.
Now he's helping others especially younger people that could be having problems with gambling.
Big heart.
Good morning SWU fam'. Greetings from Northern California. Its just after 3:00 a.m. & were at the beginning of a heat wave. Hope youre all doin' well. I send Good Vibes & Mad Love Your Way ✌😎☀
Good morning Roc, have a great Friday!
Hello from Indonesia 🇮🇩
Good Morning from Nashville Tennessee USA 🇺🇸 ♥
Good Morning from Houston.
Hey from Branson, Missouri. Thunderstorms here.
This has been my favorite video so far! This man is very insightful and it helps me understand better my own addictions and dark thoughts. Thank you.
I had my first relapse after seven years of not gambling. This terrible disease will eat you like cancer, financially, your relationships and your mental health will be wrecked the longer you leave it.
The worst thing that can happen to a gambling addict is to win
Wow! I love this guy, so much honesty, clarity and detail.
"In the casino the cardinal rule is to keep them playing and keep them coming back. The longer they play, the more they lose. In the end, WE GET IT ALL.."
- Sam Rothstein
That never went over my head.
ITS NEVER TO LATE TO START YOUR LIFE AGAIN. Debt can be repaid, possessions can be bought again. If your healthy and your family is healthy, that's what matters.
I learned a lot about drug and alcohol addiction in my clinical internship and met some very introspective people (clients), but i never really got a chance to learn about gambling addiction from someone who had first-hand experience. I appreciate very much Dan’s story and really glad he found his new career in which i am sure he is amazing at! Thank you, Dan!
Good interview! Loved that he IS a part of the solution and not just the problem. I would like to see an interview with someone who is addicted to plastic surgery. Something different
Check out here Bimbo about a month ago.
This man has an amazing gift of hiding what's under the surface. The coworker that seems okay but deep down there's a lot going on
This guy needs to write a screenplay. This story needs to reach more people. ❤
Wow this was great. Great redemption arc, gambling addiction is absolutely one of the worst.
This guy is very well spoken and became wise from his mistakes. Greatest respects to him for that. No many people turn their lives around like that. Glad he beat his addiction. The speaks volumes on his true Character.
If I was a gambling man I'd bet he's gonna be ok.
Very funny
Id put money on it 😆
I'd take a chance on him.
@@jewels18261 feel free to jump on the bandwagon
It’s a lock.
My dad was a compulsive gambler he also never said “I love you there was never hugs but when he went to the track he laughed raised his hand bought me concessions and I felt special
comedian Norm Macdonald was such a hardcore gambler that he started to go crazy because he couldnt stop. in order to control it and have no choice but to stop, he took the only 20,000 dollars he had at the time and threw it in the ocean. rip, norm. he was a suffering soul just as much as any of us.
Norm Macdonald was just about the funniest man in the universe and I was saddened when I first heard about his gambling problem. At that time I didn’t realize how powerful a gambling addiction could be until I actually met a couple of people who had that problem. I then realized how similar it is to drug/alcohol-related addictions. I hope Dan’s video helps members of Mark’s audience who are going through this phase.
This guy comes off super self aware & really thoughtful. I hope he gets out of life what he is seeking
This is what people from Philly/South Jersey just are
@@davidhatch40 Thanks for telling the guy from Cherry Hill🤣
Respect to you
You have a major message to convey
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Excellent interview! I love the quality and the content. I love how he knows exactly how his gambling addiction began and how he owned it and did not blame anyone but himself. Thank you Dan for sharing your story! Keep on sharing to save people like me.
Thank you, Joyce
This dude should have a podcast, he's an INCREDIBLE story teller. That September 11th story gave me chills
He does have a podcast. Check out Hello, My Name is Craig with Craig Carton. Weekly discussion with problem gamblers in recovery.
Thank you so much for this. I've been in a relationship with a gambling addict for the past 5 years. I am celebrating 6 years of sobriety from alcohol this year and am at my wits end in my relationship. I've been in such denial about how gambling addiction has affected out relationship. We do not live together, we have no future plans, there is a high level of emotional instability and unavailability. This video has helped me understand the gambling addiction a little better and come to a decision that we should go our separate ways at this point and I wish him all the love in the world. What a sad disease this is and I hope he seeks recovery at some point because there is a solution.
Thank you Jamie. Comfort and Blessings to you
When he said you get a relief when you lose all your money he's right. I would get anxiety when I have funds in my gambling account and wouldn't stop until I lost it all. The psychological damage is real also.
This is the best talk I've hard on the topic so far.
He is a great communicator. He is ready to give knowledge for free learned through pain.
He’s a shyster
@@wnm8888 exactly
This guy is a wonderful person with an issue that most have - give it gambling, work, relationships, alcohol, drugs, unwanted isolation, and narcissistic tendencies! Thank you sir for sharing your weakness, and strength in getting past it comes in time and faith! As for those he screwed financially, he will be paying for that until the end!
Dan's interview refreshes my hope for humanity! Taking full responsibility for ones actions completely is rare in todays society!