Yeah, might be a bit too soon to be accepting home cooked meals from a guy you hardly know and furthermore inviting them over to your house to bring it to you.
Jayla you DON’T have to apologize for not wanting to share too much about your love life. At the end of the day it’s your life and you have to put yourself (and safety first). Real Glam Squad will understand and will be patiently waiting for the right time to spill tea about any boo ♥️
Sis live your life by all means, but please be careful letting men you just met know where you live 😶 Cause as you said, you never know if he's trash or not lol
Dont rush to be in a relationship wait until you find the right person. Some people feel if you don't have a man in your life you're not normal. I rather wait years for the right person than jump quickly with the wrong person and be miserable for years.
Jayla you do not need to apologize! You have to worry about you & your wellbeing before anything else. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with waiting until you find a relationship that’s going to be sustainable. What we really want to see is you being genuinely happy and that takes time!
Jayla, I just want you to know that happiness comes from within.. if you are looking for someone to make you happy, then happiness will never be where you are... I’m not sure if you meant you were looking for happiness or being “happy” with someone but if you did would like for you to think about that. I’m loving the vlogmas!!! 💕
Picky is good Jayla!! Don’t ever let anyone tell you any different. I’m 25 and single and I totally understand you! Dating is def. an experience but it’s nice to meet new people and find exactly what you like and real happiness with yourself and with the guy that makes you very happy and encouraging
I love you Jayla , I been riding since the high school days videos .. I’m 25 so I understand about dating in our generation , but PLEASE sis be careful . My mama always told me “everyone doesn’t need to know where you lay your head” that’s your place of peace ..1st date , 2nd date or 37th date you don’t need to know where I live until I’m comfortable . Just keep that in mind ! But I very much so agree with you about just dating to find what you do & don’t like & YESSS ITS OK TO BE PICKY always remember you are the prize 💖
I love this! It warms my heart to see a young successful lady who knows her worth. You’re such a positive inspiration! 🗣 Keep not settling. You are a queen. And Queens deserve nothing less than the best. 👑
There's nothing wrong with taking your time. I dated this guy for 2 years then we did the on & off toxic mess. Finally ended and dated around but no one was worth my worth. At 24, I met my now husband and I can honestly say I'm so happy I waited for God's best for me. He'll come at the right time babe.
*Cringe* don’t mean to judge but adjusting yourself after one date for the person you’re dating is like on the top of the red flag list. Come as you are.
So true. But if you're on about the make up, I think that was more comforbility. He complimented her without it and so she's trying something new. It's not an obligation to wear it and he didn't say "you have to come bare skin" more of a suggestion as in "come casual, how you are"
Chenoa H. Conformity is human nature, especially when we’re trying to impress someone. I do not fault her for it. I don’t know Jayla personally and I realize that as viewers we do not know all of her quirks, feelings, attributes, etc. but from my time of watching her in my opinion I’ve noticed that Jayla places a lot of emphasis on making rousing impressions in a rapid manner. She’s a grown woman, I just want her to take heed.
Janae30xoxo You’re actually 100% right. I felt that way for awhile but I didn’t really know how to word it. I really want the best for her but she needs to slow down a bit. She would’ve worn makeup if he didn’t mention it. She wouldn’t have taken that plate unless he shown interest cause let’s be real he is a stranger at that point so it’s almost like someone saying “hi” and giving you a plate. I hope she is smart about Dating and not settling or making herself uncomfortable for others
@@Janae30xoxo come through Janae. Very mature reply! I've been subbed to Jay for some time but am not an AVID watcher (She seems to have no actual engagement with her fan base) so I cannot say anything on what I've seen. But I most definitely agree with your point in general. It's a red flag if the man asks you to change and a red flag if a woman is able to change so quickly to please someone.
aww jayla share whatever you are comfortable with. i know you will figure it out, dating can be hard to navigate but you know what you want and you have grown sooo much (been watching since college days). Good luck girl!
Hey Kayla, I normally don't comment I just enjoy watching your videos. I am a mother of three....so this is coming from a good place. It is not a good idea to just meet someone and have them stop by your place. Be very careful sweetie, please it's dangerous out here. What looks good or right on surface is not always good!
Glad you're having fun. As you should. You don't have to apologize for not sharing certain things. You have to do what works for you. Those people who don't understand...well too bad.
Love the date night outfit and I love that you have a big brother mentor. I think it’s great that you inspire young women to pursue their best life. Go, girl!
Be careful Jayla, if you just met this young man and he’s already telling you he prefers you without makeup...Sis you just met him. Be Who you are, that’s a low key control move for a first date.
@@kaelynbuchanan I agree Jayla is a normal young adult and although she is very independent and takes care of things, she wants companionship. I just don't want her to settle especially being in a city like NY the risk is too large. The insecurities are a red flag for me that she shows, but I hope she makes the right moves. She's a free spirit and it may take a big hit/fall for her to be a realist about the dating scene and just life.
Jayla, you deserved true happiness (period). So I don't think one could be too picky when pursing self accomplishment & happiness. I think you're doing what makes sense to you, so don't feel bad or apologize for that. And, sweetie, yes keep your private life as private as possible and as much as you like. There are so many haters and evil people out there, that sometimes its not worth messing up something good just for the sake of making it public. Yes you are in the public eye, but just share what you feel comfortable with and that it. May God continue to bless you with more success & happiness. You're a remarkable young lady.
You're a very wise young lady who knows what she wants. Never let the pressure of this era force you to settle for less than you truly deserve. Seek God's guidance in all you do and everything will fall into place in due time.
Yes! Share the deets on that sweatsuit. It looked super comfy and I need something cute and comfy for a upcoming trip. Looks perfect for an overnight flight.
Girl you don't have to show us nothing you don't want to. No one is entitled to know about your love life, and no one should pressure you to reveal your significant other on RUclips. And don't even worry about "taking too long" to find the right guy, cuz there's a whole lotta ain't shit dudes out there. The most important thing is to make sure he's the right one. Your true supporters will always want the best for you, and will be behind you no matter what you do💕
You have EVERY right to be picky when it comes to the kind of person you want in your life. Whether it’s friends or significant other. Take your time you are beautiful and young. Enjoy life to the fullest. God will give you a sign when he feels it’s time for you to settle down. Until then LIVE IT UP GIRL!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Don’t beat yourself up. It’s your life. Relationships are hard. Don’t let others dictate or tell you about your preferences. When the camera is off that is where your real life begins and it’s important that you’re happy in your private life. Take care!
Jayla, You're not difficult. The right one will come but, make sure you allow God to send him to you. In the meantime, just keep doing you. You have plenty of time. Keep your personal life private. 😘 Trust yourself and God. I admire that you keep things on the low. The Bible says we should be discreet.
Hey Jayla, it’s your life and you have the right to be as picky as you like. I definitely understand and I pray that you find him and find the happiness that you deserve 💕💕
It is perfectly fine to take your time and be selective. Thanks for sharing your life and remember you have every right to be just as selective about what you share with us!
I love this video you are so open and honest thanks for sharing and being authentic btw idk if it’s cause the lady did your hair but your hair looks soooo bombt!!
Jayla you are doing the right thing. Dont rush it and dont compromise. Yes, and dont do it for the camera or RUclips. I wouldn't feel compelled by youtube to expose your business until you are ready..this is real maturity. I commend you for knowing yourself and knowing what you want in a husband because at the end of the day guess who have to live with the decision.....YOU. In all your getting get with God for wisdom and clarity whatever you do. God bless.💝
You knew you were not wearing that pink outfit. It was cute but I knew you would step it up. Great outfit choice. Yes make sure you give everyone his information.
Taking long based on who's timeline??? Your life is yours!!! We expect quality content when we click on your videos PERIOD. We're literally watching your life not planning it! We are all on this journey of life together and there is no expectation of what you should be doing or who should be in your life! Take your time, your only 23 and its amazing to see a young Black Woman that is so conscious of the value of your life and unwilling to let anyone decrease that value in any way no matter what! Love you Jayla!
I’m telling you girl dating in your era is a whole different ball game. Married 15 years with 3 children and together 17 and being successful in a relationship is a matter of perspective. Your getting to know more about yourself and your mate everyday and everyday you realize there is so much more to learn.i would recommend a women coach as well, the best of both worlds of you don’t already have.I hope you get what your heart desires. Happy holidays.-Niasia
hey Jayla I rarely comment but I just wanted you to know I watch you all the time and I honestly appreciate you being so open and vulnerable with us. I understand that it takes a lot and I honestly can relate to everything you were saying about relationships. True love will find you girl happy holidays
Thank you for sharing! I always like when you share your dating life which is not easy because of different opinions but hopefully you find someone that truly makes you happy. I’m rooting for you! We’re all rooting for you!
I totally agree with you waiting on the husband God has for you. I'm doing the same thing.❤❤Me careful with these guys out here tho. Be mindful and watch yourself and surroundings at all times!!!!
Jayla trust me take your time. Also, it’s definitely okay to be selective and not settle. I just got out of a 4 year relationship and I’m 29. Dating is definitely hard but the right one will come along
Jayla do you! You have gotten yourself this far so keep listening to your instincts and continue seeking guidance from the Most High. He will never steer you wrong! Date all you want. Heck I'm dating myself and there is nothing wrong with getting to know people it teaches you about yourself!
Your date night outfit was super cute! & don’t apologize for not talking much about your love life. When you’re ready to spill tea to us about it, then you will. But just be careful out here sis. 💖💖
J we love you just as you are babes!! I been rocking with you a long time now!! You have grown in such a beautiful way. A young lady who chases her coins. You don’t owe anyone an explanation on why!!! Facts
Jeans is def one of your looks, love you in jeans and the high boots be topping it off. Also loved the comfy jogger set you had on in the beginning of the vlog. Super cute.
Jayla love ya.💞 Please take this from a good place, but I know you love good food and love to eat. Please be careful eating food from a stranger. It's not good. Anything could have been mixed up in it. Date drugs are placed in drinks and food. You are a boss, an entrepreneur, smart, beautiful and a great catch. He should have never known exactly were you live. All he had to do is go home and Google you or go on your U-Tube page and see that you are a "Baller". You went to Paris and spent estimated ($10,000-12,000) in days. You are a hard worker and you also enjoy life and traveling. Don't want a man to take advantage because he know you have it like that. One other thing you said, that he don't like make up. Don't adjust or change you for him. Do what you do because it's what you want to do. You always go full, "Glam".. Sometimes you dress down, but do it for you. That's a red flag.(Controlling) People look at it in the beginning and say he wants me for me. Then it goes to telling you what to wear, what to say, and how to act. Not telling you what to do, but just something to think about. I'm in your corner.Just some friendly advise.❤️💕
I agree. Wanting to go to her house after just meeting her was a red flag for me. We sometimes forget about safety first. He also said something at dinner that raised a red flag to me. Again safety first.
I literally understand how you feel. Most of my friends are in relationships or they accept mostly any guy that comes their way. I'm considered picky because I'm not going to settle for just anything. I want someone who is genuine and who wants to build a successful, happy future together and wants the same things I want in life. I feel like in our generation it's so hard to find but you will find a man that is perfectly designed for you!
Hey jayla you don't need to rush with dating take you time and I think you should not be taking food from someone you just met just be careful jayla 😊❤❤❤
Honey nothing wrong with being picky. Life is too short to be settling for anything. You deserve to be happy and don’t settle for anything less than you deserve 💛.... don’t apologize hun
It’s a club, it’s not hard to believe someone can lose a coat especially in cold cities like New York. Once you get inside most people remove their coats.
Jayla, I really wish I had your mindset at your age. It definitely would’ve saved me from a lot of heartache. I have given my whole heart to a guy who wasn’t worth it at all. I really love your mentality 😘
Jayla, when it comes to dating and finding a mate take your time, don't feel rushed nor hurried into a relationship. Married people want to be sungle. Take your time to find the love of your heart, the dying to your yang! He's out there.
I don’t want to be repetitive, but Jayla, please sis. Never allow a stranger to know where you live that soon, you never know ppls intentions.
Yes exactly I was thinking the same exact thing 🙏🏾😫
Jayla Be careful please take pepper spray and dont have him pick you up at home you dont know him girl be safe
K3lli Kell Thank you for the advice you gave to Jayla. Since she wont thank you, I am thanking you. Good advice.
so true men are slipping drugs on food and drinks then coming to ur house people will rape and kill u these days
Pls be careful 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Yes, great advice, I was thinking the same thing.
Yeah, might be a bit too soon to be accepting home cooked meals from a guy you hardly know and furthermore inviting them over to your house to bring it to you.
Jayla you DON’T have to apologize for not wanting to share too much about your love life. At the end of the day it’s your life and you have to put yourself (and safety first). Real Glam Squad will understand and will be patiently waiting for the right time to spill tea about any boo ♥️
Yes I agree!
Cheyan exactly that’s what I said posted!! Facts
Calling jaylas grandma to tell her she’s not wearing an undershirt
Renee lewis 😂😂😂😂
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lmbo right!!!
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Sis live your life by all means, but please be careful letting men you just met know where you live 😶 Cause as you said, you never know if he's trash or not lol
Ooooh Chile be careful just taking homemade food from strange men. You don't know what he could have put in that!😯
Right! Who does that?!
Smh I tell you
Right he doesn’t need to know where you live!!
The way Harlem looks at jayla when she's explaining her outfit is literally the cutest thing
Dont rush to be in a relationship wait until you find the right person. Some people feel if you don't have a man in your life you're not normal. I rather wait years for the right person than jump quickly with the wrong person and be miserable for years.
your date night outfit was bomb 😍 the color combination was everything 💛 & YA HAIR 😍😍😩 GO OFFF SIS !!!
Jayla you do not need to apologize! You have to worry about you & your wellbeing before anything else. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with waiting until you find a relationship that’s going to be sustainable. What we really want to see is you being genuinely happy and that takes time!
Jayla, I just want you to know that happiness comes from within.. if you are looking for someone to make you happy, then happiness will never be where you are... I’m not sure if you meant you were looking for happiness or being “happy” with someone but if you did would like for you to think about that. I’m loving the vlogmas!!! 💕
i loved the sweats, but the date night outfit you chose was super cute!
Everything Glam I wanted her to throw some heels on with the sweats and a nice jacket.
Picky is good Jayla!! Don’t ever let anyone tell you any different. I’m 25 and single and I totally understand you! Dating is def. an experience but it’s nice to meet new people and find exactly what you like and real happiness with yourself and with the guy that makes you very happy and encouraging
Candy West she has sooo much life to live, a relationship is only a small part :)
I love you Jayla , I been riding since the high school days videos .. I’m 25 so I understand about dating in our generation , but PLEASE sis be careful . My mama always told me “everyone doesn’t need to know where you lay your head” that’s your place of peace ..1st date , 2nd date or 37th date you don’t need to know where I live until I’m comfortable . Just keep that in mind ! But I very much so agree with you about just dating to find what you do & don’t like & YESSS ITS OK TO BE PICKY always remember you are the prize 💖
I love this! It warms my heart to see a young successful lady who knows her worth. You’re such a positive inspiration! 🗣 Keep not settling. You are a queen. And Queens deserve nothing less than the best. 👑
that intro will never get old ! love it
There's nothing wrong with taking your time. I dated this guy for 2 years then we did the on & off toxic mess. Finally ended and dated around but no one was worth my worth. At 24, I met my now husband and I can honestly say I'm so happy I waited for God's best for me. He'll come at the right time babe.
*Cringe* don’t mean to judge but adjusting yourself after one date for the person you’re dating is like on the top of the red flag list. Come as you are.
So true. But if you're on about the make up, I think that was more comforbility. He complimented her without it and so she's trying something new. It's not an obligation to wear it and he didn't say "you have to come bare skin" more of a suggestion as in "come casual, how you are"
Chenoa H. Conformity is human nature, especially when we’re trying to impress someone. I do not fault her for it. I don’t know Jayla personally and I realize that as viewers we do not know all of her quirks, feelings, attributes, etc. but from my time of watching her in my opinion I’ve noticed that Jayla places a lot of emphasis on making rousing impressions in a rapid manner. She’s a grown woman, I just want her to take heed.
Janae30xoxo You’re actually 100% right. I felt that way for awhile but I didn’t really know how to word it. I really want the best for her but she needs to slow down a bit. She would’ve worn makeup if he didn’t mention it. She wouldn’t have taken that plate unless he shown interest cause let’s be real he is a stranger at that point so it’s almost like someone saying “hi” and giving you a plate. I hope she is smart about Dating and not settling or making herself uncomfortable for others
Diamond Simmons Thank you, agreed.
@@Janae30xoxo come through Janae. Very mature reply! I've been subbed to Jay for some time but am not an AVID watcher (She seems to have no actual engagement with her fan base) so I cannot say anything on what I've seen. But I most definitely agree with your point in general. It's a red flag if the man asks you to change and a red flag if a woman is able to change so quickly to please someone.
aww jayla share whatever you are comfortable with. i know you will figure it out, dating can be hard to navigate but you know what you want and you have grown sooo much (been watching since college days). Good luck girl!
Jayla out here serving looks meanwhile I’m just wearing sweat suits and Ugg’s all winter 😂😂🤦🏾♀️
Just Maylana yes sis! Because jayla got me looking like damn I’m really slacking 😂
Jayla has been slaying her winter outfits 😍
Girlll u let someone drop off some food at ur place after u just met him? I understand u might meet someone feel their vibe but be careful tho
Hey Kayla, I normally don't comment I just enjoy watching your videos. I am a mother of three....so this is coming from a good place. It is not a good idea to just meet someone and have them stop by your place. Be very careful sweetie, please it's dangerous out here. What looks good or right on surface is not always good!
Glad you're having fun. As you should. You don't have to apologize for not sharing certain things. You have to do what works for you. Those people who don't understand...well too bad.
Take your time jayla. I’m doing the same thing and just learning what I really want and what I know I won’t put up with. Self worth
Love the date night outfit and I love that you have a big brother mentor. I think it’s great that you inspire young women to pursue their best life. Go, girl!
That cream outfit was bomb af.
Girl you have the best Christmas intro on RUclips I love it
Be careful Jayla, if you just met this young man and he’s already telling you he prefers you without makeup...Sis you just met him. Be Who you are, that’s a low key control move for a first date.
Yes he made the comment and she obeyed. That's scary
@@catmo59 The swinging by with a plate part took me out. Him offering that freaks me out. He testing.
OCStyle yeah sounds abusive already
@@kaelynbuchanan I agree Jayla is a normal young adult and although she is very independent and takes care of things, she wants companionship. I just don't want her to settle especially being in a city like NY the risk is too large. The insecurities are a red flag for me that she shows, but I hope she makes the right moves. She's a free spirit and it may take a big hit/fall for her to be a realist about the dating scene and just life.
BoujeeGal agreed
Your friend Tyra is definitely me 😂😂. Gotta do that background check !
Sis how in the world did you "LOSE" a whole coat?🤔🤔🙄
happens all the time when you go to the club and put it down somewhere. later in the night it's nowhere to be found.
@@dlcrme that's what coat check is for
Jayla, you deserved true happiness (period). So I don't think one could be too picky when pursing self accomplishment & happiness. I think you're doing what makes sense to you, so don't feel bad or apologize for that. And, sweetie, yes keep your private life as private as possible and as much as you like. There are so many haters and evil people out there, that sometimes its not worth messing up something good just for the sake of making it public. Yes you are in the public eye, but just share what you feel comfortable with and that it. May God continue to bless you with more success & happiness. You're a remarkable young lady.
You're a very wise young lady who knows what she wants. Never let the pressure of this era force you to settle for less than you truly deserve. Seek God's guidance in all you do and everything will fall into place in due time.
Where did you get the pink sweatsuit?! 😍
Yes! Share the deets on that sweatsuit. It looked super comfy and I need something cute and comfy for a upcoming trip. Looks perfect for an overnight flight.
If someone told me that they preferred me without makeup he wouldn’t even hear from me again lol but do you Jayla.
Why ?
Because no one should tell you how to look when you go to meet them..she always wears make up
I feel like all men say that
LMAOOOOO. GIRRRL. I like and need a little makeup in my life. I grew up with my daddy saying put on some lipstick to all of us
Jayla 8snt a heavy makeup wearer but you could tell that she was struggling with how to impress him
Girl you don't have to show us nothing you don't want to. No one is entitled to know about your love life, and no one should pressure you to reveal your significant other on RUclips. And don't even worry about "taking too long" to find the right guy, cuz there's a whole lotta ain't shit dudes out there. The most important thing is to make sure he's the right one. Your true supporters will always want the best for you, and will be behind you no matter what you do💕
You have EVERY right to be picky when it comes to the kind of person you want in your life. Whether it’s friends or significant other. Take your time you are beautiful and young. Enjoy life to the fullest. God will give you a sign when he feels it’s time for you to settle down. Until then LIVE IT UP GIRL!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Don’t beat yourself up. It’s your life. Relationships are hard. Don’t let others dictate or tell you about your preferences. When the camera is off that is where your real life begins and it’s important that you’re happy in your private life. Take care!
Jayla, You're not difficult. The right one will come but, make sure you allow God to send him to you. In the meantime, just keep doing you. You have plenty of time. Keep your personal life private. 😘 Trust yourself and God. I admire that you keep things on the low. The Bible says we should be discreet.
That's one of the best outfits I seen you in love the color combo!
Hey Jayla, it’s your life and you have the right to be as picky as you like. I definitely understand and I pray that you find him and find the happiness that you deserve 💕💕
Thank you for being so open with us . Love you jayla 💗
It is perfectly fine to take your time and be selective. Thanks for sharing your life and remember you have every right to be just as selective about what you share with us!
I love this video you are so open and honest thanks for sharing and being authentic btw idk if it’s cause the lady did your hair but your hair looks soooo bombt!!
Jayla you are doing the right thing. Dont rush it and dont compromise. Yes, and dont do it for the camera or RUclips. I wouldn't feel compelled by youtube to expose your business until you are ready..this is real maturity. I commend you for knowing yourself and knowing what you want in a husband because at the end of the day guess who have to live with the decision.....YOU. In all your getting get with God for wisdom and clarity whatever you do. God bless.💝
You knew you were not wearing that pink outfit. It was cute but I knew you would step it up. Great outfit choice. Yes make sure you give everyone his information.
Taking long based on who's timeline??? Your life is yours!!! We expect quality content when we click on your videos PERIOD. We're literally watching your life not planning it! We are all on this journey of life together and there is no expectation of what you should be doing or who should be in your life! Take your time, your only 23 and its amazing to see a young Black Woman that is so conscious of the value of your life and unwilling to let anyone decrease that value in any way no matter what! Love you Jayla!
Wow... I congratulate you on your maturity level and what you want in life I so much agree with you 100%.
Please just be safe, don’t let everyone know where you live and bring you food!
Love the hair ☺️ beautiful Jayla! Where is the pink jump suit from? Thanks!
Yep, a lot of guys love the natural look.
Be careful, Jayla! Stay prayed up in these streets.
Jayla do what works for you! You know your life better then anyone else.
I’m telling you girl dating in your era is a whole different ball game. Married 15 years with 3 children and together 17 and being successful in a relationship is a matter of perspective. Your getting to know more about yourself and your mate everyday and everyday you realize there is so much more to learn.i would recommend a women coach as well, the best of both worlds of you don’t already have.I hope you get what your heart desires. Happy holidays.-Niasia
We accept & love you Jayla! Love will come in time, no rush!
i love how you be pairing your coats with outfits
hey Jayla I rarely comment but I just wanted you to know I watch you all the time and I honestly appreciate you being so open and vulnerable with us. I understand that it takes a lot and I honestly can relate to everything you were saying about relationships. True love will find you girl happy holidays
Thank you for sharing! I always like when you share your dating life which is not easy because of different opinions but hopefully you find someone that truly makes you happy. I’m rooting for you! We’re all rooting for you!
I totally agree with you waiting on the husband God has for you. I'm doing the same thing.❤❤Me careful with these guys out here tho. Be mindful and watch yourself and surroundings at all times!!!!
Jayla trust me take your time. Also, it’s definitely okay to be selective and not settle. I just got out of a 4 year relationship and I’m 29. Dating is definitely hard but the right one will come along
Jayla do you! You have gotten yourself this far so keep listening to your instincts and continue seeking guidance from the Most High. He will never steer you wrong! Date all you want. Heck I'm dating myself and there is nothing wrong with getting to know people it teaches you about yourself!
Ppl are crazy Jayla so yes we jumping to all type of conclusion.
Like baby boy why are you here? 😂😂😂
Every time I watch Jayla she makes me wanna live Young , Wild and Free 🥳
Your date night outfit was super cute! & don’t apologize for not talking much about your love life. When you’re ready to spill tea to us about it, then you will. But just be careful out here sis. 💖💖
Sis it’s not being picky you just know what you want and don’t want your time wasted!!!
You want something real 👏🏽
I think you should share as much as you feel comfortable with. I’m your age and I appreciate the open dialogue about dating because its so relatable.
Girl, I totally understand your dating dilemma. Take your time and enjoy your journey. 🤗✨
J we love you just as you are babes!! I been rocking with you a long time now!! You have grown in such a beautiful way. A young lady who chases her coins. You don’t owe anyone an explanation on why!!! Facts
Jeans is def one of your looks, love you in jeans and the high boots be topping it off. Also loved the comfy jogger set you had on in the beginning of the vlog. Super cute.
I rarely say I like people without makeup but it’s something about that hair and your bare face that is ITTT😭😍 CUTE ASF
Your hair is laid hunty 😍😍😍 she slayed and that dinner looked delish 🤤
You do look better with out make up 😍 the glow
Yes she does.. I love natural beauty
Loved the final outfit!😍 neutral is always a good way to go.
Jayla love ya.💞 Please take this from a good place, but I know you love good food and love to eat. Please be careful eating food from a stranger. It's not good. Anything could have been mixed up in it. Date drugs are placed in drinks and food. You are a boss, an entrepreneur, smart, beautiful and a great catch. He should have never known exactly were you live. All he had to do is go home and Google you or go on your U-Tube page and see that you are a "Baller". You went to Paris and spent estimated ($10,000-12,000) in days. You are a hard worker and you also enjoy life and traveling. Don't want a man to take advantage because he know you have it like that. One other thing you said, that he don't like make up. Don't adjust or change you for him. Do what you do because it's what you want to do. You always go full, "Glam".. Sometimes you dress down, but do it for you. That's a red flag.(Controlling) People look at it in the beginning and say he wants me for me. Then it goes to telling you what to wear, what to say, and how to act. Not telling you what to do, but just something to think about. I'm in your corner.Just some friendly advise.❤️💕
I agree. Wanting to go to her house after just meeting her was a red flag for me. We sometimes forget about safety first. He also said something at dinner that raised a red flag to me. Again safety first.
Yes girl preach I love how you think when it comes to relationship, cause I honestly I think the same way
Jayla definitely KNOWS HOW TO DRESS! Sis will slay any outfit! I love it (its kimamazin btw)
What's going on with you and zias
Yes he is
That’s what I’m wondering. I guess it was nothing 🤷🏾♀️
I came looking for this comment 😂
👀👀 so glad you asked
What video?
I'm liking your outfits this season! How you lose a whole coat? Lol
Hunter B Remember when Lindsay Lohan stole someone's fur coat in a club and was caught by paparazzi leaving with it. I guess it can happen
naledi SMH That's messed up!
I literally understand how you feel. Most of my friends are in relationships or they accept mostly any guy that comes their way. I'm considered picky because I'm not going to settle for just anything. I want someone who is genuine and who wants to build a successful, happy future together and wants the same things I want in life. I feel like in our generation it's so hard to find but you will find a man that is perfectly designed for you!
Hey jayla you don't need to rush with dating take you time and I think you should not be taking food from someone you just met just be careful jayla 😊❤❤❤
Your hair looks fabulous Jayla! Thank you for vlogmas😇 I enjoy all your vlogs!!!
That black coat really was bomb!!! 😭 i was trying to get one
Yess me too girl!! I want LOVE, not fake love
Kayla you are doing it right,do what is best for you lots of positive thoughts your way
Where do you gets your thigh boots from? They are cute!!!
Jayla you are doing th right thing when it comes to dating... choosing wisely ok.
that pink outfit was super cute
Honey nothing wrong with being picky. Life is too short to be settling for anything. You deserve to be happy and don’t settle for anything less than you deserve 💛.... don’t apologize hun
Your hair is bomb!!! You and Harlem matched when you changed into the date night outfit
Jayla you are totally right for wanting everything your heart desires we are in the same place right now and i feel you
The gold metallic looking pajamas is so cute ❣️
girl you dont have to apologize, dating is all part of our twenties, keep dating, have fun, dont settle.
Take all the time you need
You want to be equally yoked!
Take your time, no rush! Enjoy your
life! You're doing fine! Bless you Jayla!!!💟
How do u lose a coat? Is that code for someone stole it? Did you call the venue and ask them do they have it?
Debra Kimberly she took it off lol
It’s a club, it’s not hard to believe someone can lose a coat especially in cold cities like New York. Once you get inside most people remove their coats.
Live your life Jayla. Let ppl talk grown people will understand
Jayla, I really wish I had your mindset at your age. It definitely would’ve saved me from a lot of heartache. I have given my whole heart to a guy who wasn’t worth it at all. I really love your mentality 😘
omg nooo that coat was everything !!!!
I agree, I definitely liked the first outfit better.
Jayla, when it comes to dating and finding a mate take your time, don't feel rushed nor hurried into a relationship. Married people want to be sungle. Take your time to find the love of your heart, the dying to your yang! He's out there.
Nilka Archer look at shanan watts awful
That’s super exciting tho! Y’all randomly met and went out on strength . Hopefully it goes good ! Thanks for being open and honest