Andrew Forced to TAKE 5 After BRAINDEAD Debate w/ Farha on Whatever Podcast
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- Farha and Andrew debate the importance of trust in relationships
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She invents any hypothetical as if it is a trained response to avoid accountability.
Impossible hypothetical events at that. Classic female behavior, she just has to be right.
This show is littered with this. Just constant nonsense about imaginary people and how they might act lol. It's so stupid.
@@modus18 This is what happens when women have too much time on their hands. Notice how they love to think about being deleted and SA'd by men. Look at the comments on true crime videos for all the evidence you'll need.
The other women know she's full of ish. But the "sisterhood" is so strong, it means even when one of their own is talking out of her 🍑 they just go with the flow. Because they're not interested getting IT right. They just want to APPEAR as if they're right.
Unhinged inclusivity as a fraud virtue is the perfect excuse to bring up an imaginary anybody who thinks anything and pretend it has merit.
Womansplaining is the act of trying to be right at the cost of any logic or laws of nature
Farrah is so insufferable with her need to be right.
I've met so many people like this in my life. They refuse to concede even the simplest point, because their ego just won't allow them to be wrong about anything. Children are the same way, because they equate being wrong with being "bad". During normal development, we normally learn that being wrong is just something that can and will happen; what's important is that we learn from it and move ahead with a humble mindset. You can gain a very high amount of respect from the people in your life just by saying "Oh wow. You're right! I was wrong about that all this time. How embarrassing. lol." ...or something similar.
There is a female psychologist that released a 10 year study based on her experience in couples therapy where whenever the woman in the relationship was confronted for narcissistic behaviors they would generally get up and walk out even if it was court ordered therapy. 😅
Its not an ego. Shes just dumb and has gotten away with circular logic her whole life so she conflates that to reality.
The ego is a secondary effect from that.
If a woman is concerned with "trust" then a paternity test is a perfect opportunity for her to BUILD that trust.
Building things take exertion, these women on the panel, and most women in the modern West can't deal with that, they only have entitlement.
It's a good idea to build that trust before bringing a child into the picture. If you're having a kid first and then working on trust, you're doing things ass backward.
@@aliciavelarde6200A paternity test is just another opportunity to continue to build the trust that was already being developed.
@@marcospauloschiattarellafacts
@stevenoerlemans5414 that's my point. You shouldn't be having kids if you're still working on building trust. And if you've been with someone for a long time and can't trust them, you need to end it because it's not a good relationship and for sure you shouldn't be bringing kids into the world in that situation.
I had a psycho junkie ex gf, and she got pregnant I. Bought like $3,000 worth of baby supplies, premature birth, terrible on my emotions, she swore it was mine, I asked for paternity, then all the sudden "oh my ex bf raped me, it turns out it's his, will you still be in our life?" Dodged a fucking bullet and a half.
Sounds like you chose exceptionally poorly. What did you see in her?
@@theclockworkcadaver7025 Maybe she was super hot. Every guy is allowed at least one girlfriend mistake in their life. But then again, I'm not him and he didn't respond so who knows. If she was hot I would give him the man-pass. If she wasn't then that dude was on serious drugs. (if she was...he probably was) But I've been wrong before.
A bullet? You dodged a nuclear bomb bro.
Farah's the kind of woman who would leave a husband and take him to the cleaners because "she feels bad". After the husband served "his purpose" of course, putting her through university, paying all her bills, putting a roof over her head, and getting her started in a career.
This is the lesson guys still haven't learned. Don't lead with your wallet. Ever! Women have been telling us they wanted equality so give it to them. Pay half for everything and nothing else. In effect you'll need to live the life style of the lowest income earner.
She can rationalize and justify any behavior based upon her emotional state. Typical woman.
She is an Olympic gold medalist in mental gymnastics. She was fully prepared to go down with the ship on trying to conflate caring with disinterest.
Paternity tests need to be required at birth for medical history accuracy. It would remove this whole trust issue surrounding it as well.
Gishgallop. Its a debate tactic she learned from Destiny.
@@sole__doubt That is the perfect description. If you actually have the stamina to listen to them you realize you can summarize 5 minutes of what they say into a 1-2 sentence statement
@@BulletCRG Textbook gishgalloping. Shes counting on her opponent getting overwhelmed.
As long as the government does not get access to your DNA, this would be fine.
@@sole__doubt how many women have left that man now? lmao.
I remember their debate when it took Andrew an hour to get her to essentially agree with his points and when he asked her to concede she said she couldn't.
A prime example of her 'Need to be right'. SIGN language once again: Shame, Insult, Guilt, and the Need to be right.
Yes i noticed that too. There is no learning for him, but only ways to manipulate his way to simply winning the debate.
@@vikasbiliye5023him? 🧢
EXACTLY!!!!
he is right tho
lmao not really he was constantly wrong @@TudorX99
Just because you 100% trust her, doesn’t mean she wouldn’t cheat.
You want a paternity test? What..you don't trust me? Says every woman who committed paternity fraud.
A lot of people didn't catch that she moved the goal post when he got her to admit to caring.
What's overlooked here is that Women have the inherent privilege of knowing with 100% certainty that their baby is theirs, Men don't have that same privilege, therefor it's the woman's DUTY to provide that 100% certainly for their Man.
EVERY. SINGLE. EFFING. ONE. 🤨
Exactly 💯
@@odyseeone You explained this so clearly I'm going to remember that. Thank you
"Men are handicapped in an argument against qirls because we have a need to make sense."
-Chris Rock
I am new fan of Andrew Wilson he's a beast
Same
Anyone can be a ‘beast’ when they choose to have 19 year old girls on to debate them.
@@AndreaJones-eh3sd typical you find excuses for being terrible
Either the woman is a sociopath and doesn’t have any actual feelings or is intentionally obtuse. She just wants to disagree with him. It doesn’t matter how much reality works against her. She just refuses to see it but you can’t care about some thing without it making you feel good or bad one way or another. I think the problem is she just did not like his analogy it offended her. The way he phrased it intentionally made it sound trivial, which it was an important matter to her.
The fact that women argue against the paternity test tells you everything you need to know. Pure evil
They would rather see irresponsible men being able to avoid their duties if it also means that deceitful women can keep on lying.
ALL Women should be offering up the paternity test without even being asked to do so! as a show of love and respect for her baby daddy. The conversation should go something like "I know you trust me 100% babe so I know that I didn't have to do this but I went ahead and booked in a paternity test, the appointment is this afternoon would you like to come with me, or should I show you the result when I get home?" Doing that is a trust-building exercise and it's a great way to enhance your pair bonding between the 2 of you.
Any woman who snarls at the idea of a paternity test like these women is a massive red flag, and for me, it would be over based on that alone. Trust is built by offering up initiative to your partner, and trust is LOST when you hide things or when you get defensive about providing something important like a paternity test.
It should be scheduled exactly like your ultrasound is scheduled, you go in as a couple to see your baby inside your belly, and you also go in to get the objective results that the father is your partner, and that should be offered up by the women without the Man even asking for it! That is what a loving couple would do for each other.
@@odyseeone A bit too much. I do think, though, that men shouldn't ask, they should just do it. If the kids theirs, then carry on as normal. if not, then see a lawyer immediately, and make plans.
I have ever seen pure evil... this will be it. And just like this Fara chick they all would rather die then understand what this is about.
They gotta protect the “sisterhood” from accountability.
I have never seen a woman argue against taking a paternity test without having been ALREADY unfaithful, in a way that could end up with child. It came up just in conversation and my wife was making the appointments for me. Lmao
Fellas, PLEASE DO NOT date this kind of girl. Just don't. She will give you a headache, strife, disrespect, then finally cheat on you because "I don't have good or bad feelings about it."
I would probably fall into this trap with this type of girl but hope for the best. LOL. That's obviously if there is no OF. OF is a deal breaker for any self respecting man.
She's giving me a headache and I'm not even involved with her! I couldn't handle being around her for one day.
@@davidfetherston2083 @david, you are farrrrr more patient and/or tolerant than I, I'd reckon I'd be done in about 5 minutes
Yall are trippen, I wouldn’t be stand being with an arrogant guy with a condescending demeanor like Andrew
If she swallows, I'll give it two months.
Damn the crucible is blowing up! I remember when videos were getting 300-400 likes 👍 awesome to watch the channel grow
Answering a question with a hypothetical does everything but answer the question.
Shes knows that too. You can tell she copies Destiny with her debate tactics.
@@sole__doubtthank you for being on here pointing out destiny. He influenced so many midwits in bad faith debate tactics. I just don't engage with these arguments anymore because it is just not healthy for me mentally. They are almost always the ones to point fingers move goal posts call you bad faith just to gaslight. I have never seen destiny on a debate panel where the moderator actually does their job as an official. He won't appear unless he knows he is allowed to steamroll the official.
Don't be like that. there's nothing wrong with a hypothetical when it's actually logically valid. that's why Andrew debated it and didn't exclude the hypothetical flat out.
No, relationships are based on trust- _worthiness_ , not just "trust", which she defines as "blind faith".
Im so glad the internet wasn’t around when I was this stupid. This conversation is going to last forever.
She’s undefeated, in her own mind only.
fahra is a spitting image of having 2 braincells fighting for 3rd place
her brain cells didn't even make the qualifying rounds. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
more like 4th place...
at best...😑
Wow that’s brilliantly put. Well done good sir
hahaha gonna try remember that one
Holy f**k Farha 😂 this was her worst one ever.
Brian's laugh at the end had me dead 😂
She's hung up on the husband having female coworkers, yet she doesn't consider how he would feel about her line of "work".
Another 🎤 drop
LETS GOOO🤣
No, she was trying to build a corresponding theoretical scenario (didn't do well).
Blows my mind. It can only be described as selfish. Plain and simple.
"I know you see my point" I do see a point and it can be covered up by a hat.
Lying is a power for the people without a conscience or empathy how dare you take that power away by exposing it to
farha is the equivalent of a kung-fu master when it comes to double talk and moving goal posts
yeah she's a wordcel for sure. good vocabulary, fast talker.
How to describe caring without saying the word care.
@@squarecrackerShe couldn't take the L.
Bìtch is the Dragon Warrior who trained under She-Foo' in The Jaded Palace.
It's just woman logic. They all do that.
When someone says "literally", disregard their argument.
"It literally makes sense"
You should respect a person who uses "literally" when it's used correctly and at a time where not saying it could actually be mistaken for figurative usage. Then you know they give real thought to what they say. But yes, the average use of "literally" is garbage.
She's just arguing to argue.
The first word in your sentence is the problem. "She's." Correct.
So is he
@@sanguisbibimusno he isn't lol
It's her schtick
Her emotions got triggered and now she can't wind down.
Clearly TRUST is something a 304 needs in her victim.. err.. partner, if she is expected to prove where she's been and whose DNA she's swallowed other than her partner's, then THAT is a major 🚩 to her!
I agree, it is just for argument's sake, I am merely pointing out the "why".
So I have to say..... 27 years ago when my wife was pregnant w/ our first, I had no reason to get a paternity test. I trusted her 100%. It never even crossed my mind. nor did it with our second and third child. But I knew the kind of person my wife was, I chose her to be my wife because she was an honorable and trust worthy person. 30 years later, we are still together and she is still honorable and trust worthy. I chose very well and so did she. Now it may be different these days, I don't know, but it seems odd to me that this guy demanded his wife take one. That to me shows some mistrust on his part. Like I said, maybe it's different now, but I never had a doubt my kids were mine.... Never!
Those kind of women are now an endangered species.
@@mckeeasdf maybe it just seems like they are rare because you spend too much time consuming this content that exaggerates the frequency of the problem
It’s not mistrust , it’s piece of mind . You want to know if the kid is yours and if your wife is unwilling to get the paternity test then that shows a lot about her and that you should plan to leave .
@@dandybufo9664I found a trust worthy women and I will say they are rare . The vast majority in the world are untrustworthy .
One individual's subjective experience doesn't negate the objective reality that high percentage of women knowingly commit paternity fraud.
The test itself either ensures the foundation of trust moving forward or halts the relationship if the child isn't the fathers.
Every time women wear those types of glasses they make nonsensical semantics debates, lose said debates, and STILL never yield their position. I literally won’t date a girl if she wears glasses like her 😂. They are exhausting.
I agree with you 100%, If i ever see a person with glasses like this I completely avoid them. Not only that I cant stand looking at them because they look like they are wearing costume glasses from a photo booth, I have yet to meet a person who wears glasses like this that can actually have a logical conversation.
shes got no lenses in em too hahaha
@@spiff1holy moly you’re right. I now can’t take her even remotely serious. That’s ridiculous
They’re not prescription? If that’s the case her glasses are definitely there to help with her Mia Khalifa cosplay 💀
OMG, i think you are right, i know 2 girls like that and they fit the role
By a "Strong foundation" she means adequately fooled.
The mental gymnastics 🤸♀️ …off the charts. Someone give this girl a 🥇
The guys need a medal too for being able to keep up with her. They had to deflect everything she threw at while she simultaneously moved the goalposts.
This is result of so called social "science". No logical thinking just streams of empty words.
Like watching Einstein debate with a 10 year old
If a woman has done nothing wrong then a mandatory paternity test should be no issue
Farrah met a guy who’s not fooled by her ridiculousness. She’s like destiny … loves to argue, thinks they’re smarter than they actually are, and speak quickly as a cover for intelligence.
Excellent comment.
Destiny looks smart cuz he debates monkeys like Sneako/Fresh & Fit.
like a child. They have an answer for everything
If your SO gets an angry and nervous attitude, when you tell them that you're getting a paternity test, leave her. Even if the baby is yours, she still thought there was a very good chance it wasn't.
If your wife is cheating on you and you don’t care, then it wouldn’t have any adverse effects on their relationship! Farha is just arguing to hear her own voice!
Irregardless isn’t a word…but if you insist, it means regardful.
Convincing a woman of this is hard. This is a situation where woman never have to worry of the kid not being hers. Mens comfirmantion is the test, woman have the luxury of the confirmation naturally.
It’s the one thing they can lie about but we absolutely cannot.
"...woman have the luxury of the confirmation naturally."
Not always, which tells you everything.
@user-qb9pp9bg4s Do women lie, yes or no?
Women setting up private bank accounts with” their own money” is also a major sign of distrust.
Trust is earned every step of the way. Not given for 0 effort. Even scientists test what they created. They do not just go "trust me bro"
Most scientists these days absolutely do play the "trust me bro" card. Germ theory model of medicine, virology, "gender" science, climate change science, evolution, heliocentrism & cosmology...etc etc. It's insane how much "science" is actually a deviation from and perversion of what actual true science is supposed to be.
If my husband asked for paternity test I'd say yes of course but I'd most certainly have hurt feelings and want to explore why he asked after we got home
If somebody sends me to the store with their card and asks I bring the receipt, I'm not gonna cry about that. I'm gonna bring the receipt to show them that they can trust me and I have integrity. Some people just avoid accountability in any form so as to avoid setting a precedent of personal responsibility in any manner.
Great analogy. Stealing this
She's arguing that women have reasons outside of "hurt feelings" and wanting to hide something to be opposed to paternity tests. She failed because her entire argument still ultimately breaks down to "hurt feelings".
Thank you for that, I'm using this next time I need to, that and the job interview analogy for high body counts
Sort of like Walmart asking to see your receipt at the door. They are not making accusations when they do that.
@@lostsoul2508 What's the job interview for high bodycount analogy?
A woman always knows a child is biologically hers so it's only fair that a man have that surity as well. Trust issues are irrelevant.
Facts
I've been with my spouse for 35 years and the first condition we had to having children was a paternity test. I was not worried on the trust side, it was a business decision I made to ensure the rightful transfer of assets to my heirs. I am a retired lawyer and I encourage all men with professional plans to do so.
Farha arguing from the perspective of a robot lol
If a woman has nothing to worry about take the test. WTF is wrong with it? It's a gesture towards the relationship.
Just remember gents, this woman will end up alone forever, not even a lesbian is gonna tolerate her for life.
So life will get her in the long run
I like that you can see her recognized that its a complete asinine statement, but refuses to back down from stance she took.
Remember...
Shes trying to justify why it would be bad for a husband to ask his wife for a paternity test.
🤨
In a world of lies and deceit, why on earth would a woman get upset about being asked to take the test unless she was hiding something?
Answering questions w questions & interrupting answers is the fruits of modern feminism
Trust but verify.
Simple as that.
Also, two is one...one is none.
Army lingo.
She got a PHD in waffling
I agree with Farah. Psycopaths don't have feelings.
Farah is a psychopath.
Farah doesn't have feelings.
(She has consistently shown she doesnt experience emotion.
She speaks in a monotone i.e. Patrick Bateman.
She doesn't comprehend emotion.
Go back and watch this.
She has zero comprehension of "feelings".
It's not a judgement to accurately label someone.
Personality warps are not the person's fault.)
😂 @ Patrick Bateman….. You hit the nail on the head. I can totally picture Farrah laying plastic on the floor as she’s about to axe murder one of her OnlyFans “clients”…. 😂
I wonder what her opinions on the hit Huey Lewis & The News album, ‘Sports’ are.
Imagine seeing Paul Allen's panicked expression in the reflection of those fake glasses she wears as she's screaming "try getting a reservation at Dorsia now you fucking stupid bastard!"@@wesleycristman3278
I definitely get a Pat Bateman/Hannibal Lecktor vibe from her. Emotionless.
@@IndiaNumberOneCoubtry Monotone Patrick Bateman voice: "It's a great album."
Fahra really really WANTS to be told she’s right. She wants that more than any actual truth. I DID NOT LOSE!!!!! I was simply behind by 600 points when the clock ran out. Off camera I’d love to see her argue with a man who DGAF in Bahrain or Chicago or Minneapolis.
Southsider here yeah we dont engage with these women after getting burned to the point of almost self deletion. 🎉 we grow to defend our peace of mind over arguing with children. We mind our own business.
In her pursuit of arguing anything Andrew said she didn't notice that she actually proved his point. If you can have strong principle without "emotions", without having feelings about the details (like if a man works with other women), then he could've just said: "ok, that's the same thing with my situation; I have principles, and I need to know some things for sure (e.g. paternity test), it builds trust. I don't have emotions about this, so you shouldn't, too."
It's obvious that she's arguing for the sake of arguing. That happens when a person tries to seem intelligent to others when in fact he isn't.
This is what happens when you know you’ve lost but now need to argue to save face
Totally agree with paternity tests and would definitely demand one as well. Don't care if she's upset by that, or someone thinks I'm "insecure." Neither her, nor anyone who'd say that would have to deal with the absolute DEVASTATION of raising a child for however many years to discover it's not yours. I can think of nothing in life that would be more soul crushing than that, and it happens a lot.
Ask any woman if she'd be ok with her husband not wanting her to go through his phone, then gaslighting her about by saying "asking to go through my phone shows you don't have trust for me." Not a single fucking one of them would say "oh that's insecure of me to want to do that!" All her friends would tell her to divorce him, that's a red flag, blah blah blah, only the above is WAY worse.
Lastly, just because the paternity test came back in your favor doesn't mean she's faithful. It just means your sperm reached her egg at the right time. She could have had sex with 10 guys that same day, wouldn't matter.
An ex gf told me she had an affair on her ex husband and got pregnant. She started having sex with her husband a lot so he wouldn't be suspicious when she told him she got pregnant. Years later, I'm 100% convinced that kid he was raising was in fact not his. She and her ex husband were both very white, her boss (who she had the affair with) was Puerto Rican. Kid is MEGA tan year round. Needless to say I didn't stick around very long.
Anyone who calls you "insecure" for wanting reassurance are evil, and they're gaslighting you.
Asking for a paternity test should make a women feel as bad as asking a man to see the receipts that the bills are paid
It’s no big deal if your honorable and it provides peace of mind to your loved one
If you have a problem with proving your trust, you are the problem
A paternity test is the nail in the coffin for trust. It eliminates all doubt. Therefore fully enforceng the standard to trust.
If she doesn't want to show absolute proof then she isn't trust worthy.
No one trusts without caring about said trust. It's not possible.
One cannot care if one does not feel. Farha doesn't understand that.
If only there was a gesture or action that women could take to establish a firm foundation for the next 18 years.
My brain hurts listening to this
what about after undead chronic?
@@bloxnbrixgamer61 I was too drunk to recall
Both are unbearable to listen too, extremes of both sides of the spectrum
This is excellent.
I wish more conversations were like this.
Accountability is amazing.
All that time hanging with Destiny has been a waste for Farha lol
Nah she was looking for simp subscribers.
Destiny made her popular on RUclips.
Any time spent with Destiny is a waste.
Why would hanging out with a homosexual man make a woman smarter?
Destiny is garbage
This shouldn’t even be a debate. Paternity test should be always done, just like any other mandatory tests. It’s for the safety and security of both the parents. No feelings involved.
A paternity test is the ultimate test for trust and loyalty
Were you cheating or not? It's that simple
Agreed but to be fair if a woman is sleeping with her husband AND another guy around the same time and her husband just happened to be the one who got her pregnant, she was still unfaithful lol. I'm not sure I'd rely SOLELY on that. For instance, an ex gf of mine (who was like Farha) told me that she was having an affair with her boss behind her then husbands back...found out she was pregnant so she started sleeping with her husband a lot to gaslight him into thinking the kid was his. Chick was evil. Anyways...fast forward like 12 years later after her doing that...pretty sure the kid was actually her bosses.
Facts
@motley1989 my reply is to this video and the context of the conversation
Yes there are many ways to find out wether or not she is faithful
@@motley1989many such cases
Even less than "were you cheating" because she could cheat a million times and still have her man's baby. If there was a medical test to see if women cheat they'd be burning hospitals
My wife had no problem with getting a paternaty test but I didn't feel the need to get one. It helps that my daughter is the spitting image of me. I have 100% faith and truth in my wife and I love my child, no paternaty test was required. But I think if a man feels they need it they should do it.
Of course she would be the kind to say irregardless lol
Look at Miss Piggy's face. She doesn't care about the hypothetical BS, she's thinking just give me a donut.
Women lie especially about things like this. Paternity fraud is a REAL thing and in a situation like that idgaf about your feelings if i'm concerned about the truth.
He got her to concede that she would have to “care” in order to voice concern to her husband over him asking her to take a paternity test (after all, if she didn’t “care,” why would she voice the concern to begin with - the emotion necessarily precedes the act following it.)
However, then she says “caring” about the request doesn’t mean that she “cares” because of how it makes her feel. But if the feeling weren’t bound up in a feeling of unhappiness (or some other negative emotion), then why would she even “care” to begin with?
The very act of caring enough to raise a concern in response to being asked to take a paternity test necessarily means that the request would make her feel bad.
Jeez, Destiny is really turning out these sophists at an alarming rate.
I don't understand how someone could care about something but not feel good or bad about it. That literally makes no sense.
The reason she's going on this mental gymnastic is because she comes from the too cool for school of caring puts you in the backfoot, and believes that trust is a leverage and privilege that only SHE could have over a partner.
Andrew is a fucking Jedi. Top G
"Trust ... but verify."
With something so important as paternity, you would be stupid not to have it be proven.
0:54 i had to do a double take because i thought someone just put a yoga ball in that chair
Im glad we have shows like this, really tackling the most important topics. Andrew really shines at this table of intellectuals.
Fella's , don't let them shame you, get the paternity test.the liars and the bad ones will be shown. That's what they are afraid of.
It has nothing to do with trust. It's ensuring the child I'm about to financially take care of for 18+ years is in fact mine BEFORE I put my name on the birth certificate. Once my name is on the certificate, that's it! If I find out 1 year later it's not mine, too late. My name is on the certificate.
Farha would not concede when she knew she is wrong. It literally made no sense. You wouldn't pursue something if the outcome wasn't beneficial.
What a case study in new age "logic" known as the Hamster Wheel ™️
It's also a case for all authority for women with no responsibility
It's scary that she doesn't even know what VD is
Just arguing in bad faith. Arguing to argue.
Farha is having this conversation under the assumption that: a man requesting a paternity test is evidence of distrust.
She also asserts that this inherent distrust that becomes exposed when requesting a paternity test, is not inherently disrespectful.
If the distrust was disrespectful, it would indeed make her feel bad.
So according to Farha: asking for a paternity test is not disrespectful, however it is a red flag for the relationship because it signals an underlying distrust the man has for his partner.
Bullshit.
What Farha seems to not grasp, due to her ignorance being a woman, is the inequity of requiring a man’s trust in this situation, when there is no equivalent reverse scenario where a woman’s faith in her partner is tested to this degree with stakes that high.
The only way a woman could possibly go through the situation a man goes through (fathering a child he thought was his own blood but was actually another man’s.) would be if a woman did invitro fertilization and her eggs were mixed up with another woman’s eggs somehow and the baby that was born was actually the offspring of another woman with her husband. (Except it’s still not a 1 to 1 because unlike this crazy hypothetical the introduction of another man’s genes is not due to some labeling error in a medical facility, it’s due to infidelity…
A good woman will understand and empathize with the masculine need to know. When it’s so simple to offer him that peace of mind it behooves women to recognize that both paternity test compliance and participation in the destigmitization of paternity test conversations are a woman’s duty to their partner and to society.
Feeling bad is not a valid excuse to deny your partner the closure of knowing without doubt that he played a part in creating that little beating heart.
Perpetuating this idea that there is something wrong with a man if he brings up this conversation with his partner is more pernicious than if a woman actually denied the tests entirely.
It really does feel like women’s biggest cope right now, stigmatizing and shaming what is essentially a man’s right to live in a reality that doesn’t hinge entirely on blind faith in his woman.
Allowing women to manipulate your reality through deceit, is allowing Satan to steal your soul from god, and play you for a fool and a puppet, I don’t care if you’re married, clearly those vows don’t mean anything to people these days. Blind trust is faith. Faith is for god and god only. No false idols. No false gods.
There is no argument that can be made against paternity tests besides “hissssss 🐍 why babe you don’t trust me? THAT MAKES ME FEEL BAD 😢”
I’m not sure what kind of rights women have to block paternity tests, but once the baby is out, the right for the “father” to know should supersede her right to withhold that information.
Having trust and faith in someone does mean you should walk blindly. Verify and confirm
30% fella's get the damn test, that number will only go up.
What is the virtue of lying to someone about who their biological parent is? What is the virtue of knowing you are deceiving someone?
Brown sweater woman is steaming but she has neither the ammo or intellect to fight back with Andrew. Epic melt down!
Farha is experiencing a very high degree of cognitive dissonance. Even her entourage was laughing at her.
KS said, "Shame, insults and (in this case) the NEED TO BE RIGHT! Incredibly entertaining.
Her parents and teachers completely failed her
Literally all public school is just a daycare for kids in the concentration camp. Every single one of us went to public school, and private school is just the same thing
When a woman has a baby, she knows 100% who the mother is…Men don’t have that guarantee.
Also there have been multiple times where a Man has paid and cared for kids that weren’t theirs. Not a single case that’s happened to a woman
hospital baby swaps
Did she really say "reversely"??
She is the textbook example of a pseudo intellectual. The fake glasses are so apropos.
Back It Up 😅 beep beep beep
Irregardless too
she was just arguing just to argue. i see her point which is why i see that it doesn't make sense. it all boils down to feeling bad
Can u imagine if farahs looks were taken Tomorrow
Shed probably be homeless……. Lol
crazy world
Women are always 100% sure they are the mother of the child they give birth to. Men, without a DNA test, can never be 100% they are the father. I don't see why this is hard to understand.
I’m married to my husband 30 years and we have two sons. I would have no problem at all getting paternity tests for our sons. It would not offend me if he asked for a test. I agree 💯 that he has no way of knowing for sure that the children are his, without a paternity test. Whereas, I always know they are mine.
Appreciate that you both know your privilege in this issue as much as you value the gesture in giving the same certainty to your husband. Hats off, very based.
When you're offended by the request of a paternity test, that's a pretty damn good indicator that you're hiding something.
Honesty has nothing to hide.
I really felt the frustration of this in my bones.
I talk to my daughters about all sorts of things to teach them the reality of how the real world works. They are very intelligent but sometimes I despair at their lack of logic. Just like this girl they get caught in stupid fairyland arguments based on a what if that is clearly nonsense. “But what if this was true” yeah but it’s not so let’s get back to reality. If you approach life as if that is true, when it’s not, then this is what is going to happen. Come to think of it it’s pretty much the same issue I come up against talking to lefties right before the name calling starts :)
100% ❤
I love Andrew’s zero chill