Dropping The Handkerchief 101
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I can totally agree with eye contact, when I was at church there was a cute guy that I didn’t know, but I gave him a good eye contact without looking away, not a creepy way but a confident way. I was really friendly with the people around me as well
He approached me some minutes after that. He talked to me for a good time, and I think that if I didn’t did that, probably he wouldn’t talked to me :)
This is exactly how it's supposed to be! Thank you!
Ladies just give us a sign and we'll do the rest if we're feeling it. We need eye contact, give us a glance, stand near us, ask for directions or something etc. Men are less discouraged in approaching nowadays because unfortunately we've normalized that men approaching is now considered creepy, which is a big fear among men in the public.
Too many women nowadays walk around with RBF, glued to their phone, or won't break away from their friend group to give the guy a chance to approach.
Most men are normal guys who get nervous just like you do, we'd like to feel like you're inviting us to talk to you.
If a woman is interested they will show you obvious signs.. positive women are not so passive, they give signs and maybe even initiate action.. dw
But i cannot control having a RBF, that's literally how my face is like when I'm minding my own business and not talking lol. And I'm far from being a bit¢h i think I'm a friendly person in general.
@@smollilbeanI think then you need to converse, my best friend has RBF and she has been dating and getting the absolute princess treatment from a guy that was friends with one of our friends because we made it into more of a friend group which allowed them to talk together and since she’s the absolute sweetest and most friendly person, I know she was inviting to him and he asked her out
i love the closing statement, "that's just life."😂 but i also want to add that, in such cases, you are just not his "cup of tea" and that's normal; not everyone is your cup of tea either.
If he doesn’t approach you, he isn’t interested!
This is obviously not true, have you approached every single guy you"ve found attractive?
@@swain1153 Men and women are biologically different. When a man finds a woman attractive, he will actively chase her regardless of how disinterested or unapproachable she is.
@@paracoco1761 literally not true, the ones you are talking about are bums. Introverted and shy guys are also the ones who don't approach and it doesn't have anything to do with them being uninterested. 😅
@@thesevenkingswelove9554 agreed, and some men needs to analyze hints that a woman is approachable. i believe all men are interested with pretty girls, but some just not going to approach the girls because they know they would be rejected (such as waste of time and emotion approaching someone who would not be just up to your par), this is what mentioned in video. so girls also needs to set themselves to be approachable.
God forbid men can be nervous, lacking confidence at that moment, or looked at you and felt you were giving any signals.
For me it is too difficult to turn my friendliness down. I think my friendliness, niceness and empathy makes them walk away.
I think it is complicated, friendliness does help. I feel friendliness can be taken as not authentic. Friendliness needs to be brave. If someone isn't friendly can you still be friendly regardless because it is your natural disposition? So that the friendliness feels without judgement. It exist it is own world. I think some people can feel people just put their best face forward and are friendly but not feeling genuinely excited about meeting people.
@@lolsotho-te8jbare you sure? Some men see women being nice or flirting as “she’s too eager for a woman - there must be something wrong with her or she just be desperate.” I’ve seen men themselves say this about women.
I had a funny interaction at a French café. There was a group of three men, one of whom caught my attention. And I was certain I caught his. I don’t know if it was the weather that day, but I was feeling confident enough to smile his way, which I could have sworn made him tense up. Anyway, one of the other men approached me (first time that's ever happened to me) and asked me how I was. I replied, "Good, how are you?" I didn't know how to tell him I liked his friend, or even what to say next. So the moment sort of fizzled out. Oh well, maybe next time. 🤷♀️
The biggest thing for me as a guy is to SEE a clear signal of a invitation such as eye contact, a big smile, and finally a wave with the other two.
in my 14s I rejected a perfect boy because I didnt like this love topics being lovers etc I think it was because of the country where i lived and my family cause there this things between girls and boys considered as a not a good thing and they generally think that if you want to show your love to someone you should get married when you grow up. We were classmates for many years and after I went to another school in my 15s he declaired his love first time. He was afraid of saying it for many years and when he risked i just acted so rude and blocked him. I am not telling that i lost an opportunity. I just wanna say after many years i can understand him, how painful this situation was and I feel bad for him. I caused him a trauma. And he was one of the most respectful and kind person that i ever knew. I am so sad because of it. Back then as I mentioned because of our society I was so biased about this topics such as love. And now I understand it is normal to love someone. I feel sad about it and i just wanted to write it here.
Thanks a lot
Aww is there anything you can do to ask forgiveness? Some kind of redemption?
You can't help it. Love is human's destiny. Love is human's nature.
He is such a lovely boy. You caused him so much pain and nature in return, give it back to you.
The debt of pain has been solved and i pray that when that boy who's now a man fall in love again, this time, it'll be a woman who was created just for him
Aww.. This story touches me deeply.
How foolish we are as humans to fall in love.. But we can't help it. Me are built for love. It's in our nature to be loved.
The music in this RUclips channel kinda makes this story more nostalgic
Maybe just apologize to him rather than writing here
Discovered your channel very recently. I love how mature and knowledgeable you are in these matters. You are teaching a lot and in a balanced, common sense way, concrete way. Thank you so much for that!
I'm really glad I found this video. I keep reeling in men with strong feminine energy, and then I get exhausted because I cannot be in my own feminine energy when around them.
k... so basically the bend and snap, right ?
Thanks! That's really helpful, hope to see more videos from you
Your videos are really helpful!!❤❤
Now I understand, I'm súper friendly and opened with everyone, that's why I attract good, Bad, and evil men 🤣🤣🤣
this video encapsulates taylor swift's mastermind! I enjoyed every bit of it! Thank u for the wisdom
I remember I sat at a table next to this gorgeous man in a cafe and we were facing each other (his back was to the window and I was facing the window). My male coworker (who is in his 40s) was across from me, thus sitting next to the man. The WHOLE time we were making eye contact and smiling at each other. Whenever my coworker and I would laugh, he'd glance over and smile. AND WE BOTH COULDN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT BC OF MY COWORKER CO*KBLOCKING US (sweetest man though lol). Coworker and I ended up leaving and that's how I abandoned a potential boyfriend in a cafe. I still think about him at times :(
i would love some videos on friendship advice
Use the Leap Second
How do or should drop we do the handkerchief method in current modern times?
4:33 Does the handkerchief method actually work? Has anyone actually used it in real life? How well or great does it work?
I wish I had knew this. Every man who approached me. I get annoyed 🤣 and my smiles fades away. I repeated this cycle for years :(
How to make him chase if we work together but remotly
I'm autistic. I need to fidget or stim!! Eye contact is hard. An autistic man can't read these signs, so you need to be straightforward and just tell him.
Thank you
This is the second video I’m watching and all I can say is where have you been 😅
Why people forget that
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I needed this comment
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dating is hard when you have a rbf 🧍♀️
Lesson Learned "That's Just Life"
Shy guys don't recognize the modern version of the dropped hanky.
You have to have a deadline. Abundance mindset means that you’ll always get a better guy and many girls do. That means that the window of opportunity can’t always be open. Once the ship has sailed, it has sailed. He can’t get a chance after that. No action? No moves? No date.
Any man who wastes time, isn’t high value and if he’s “meh” about it, doesn’t approach you, doesn’t ask you out and doesn’t do it in a timely fashion, then do you really want him?
Do you want a man who takes months and years to make a decision? Of course not. Imagine how many decisions he’ll be unsure about in the future. Imagine how many opportunities you’ll lose out on, as a couple and family, just because he can’t make a move.
4 weeks from the time he knows about you, is more than enough for ANY man. Men will get unload leave and take a flight, just to see a girl. If he doesn’t approach you, show interest or ask you out within 4 weeks, forget about it.
No grown man needs advice on how to approach women. They’ve all done it a million times. They’ve succeeded and failed. They know what to do. And even if they don’t, they’ll do it anyway, just to ensure that they don’t have regrets. If he can’t do any of that within 4 weeks, trust me, you’re better off without him. He’s not worth it.
❤ Thank You ❤
Ladies just approach men yourself!