“All the guys only like you..” | Ramyun & Chill | EP.03
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2022
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48:32 it seems like that kiss a staged one...why you guys are involving in everything.... also can you guys make your comments to the show in line coz they may effect the participants after they watch it when it aired... like try to emphathasize with them not belittle them.Appreciate them on the positives,(like every person will've some) in them that you noticed n if you think that they did not do well, tell how the person should've done highlighting their +ves...like watch some kbs, sbs shows....i know u people are not professional but...i just said it if u want to take it take or leave it.note: am not being too dramatic
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I like Sabrina's energy in the show.
Erika complaining to Dan that no one likes her when he is the one that has been getting consistently rejected the entire time 😭😭
THANK YOU 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰👏🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
You deserve a high five from me for pointing this out😎🖤
Erika is annoying. Listening to her is like hearing nails being dragged on a chalkboard.
And Erika rejected Dan TWICE
Facts. That's just weird and wrong
I guess nobody is saying the obvious reason the dudes are interested in Tiffany - she LOOKS the most Korean. AND she acts the most like a native stereotype of a Korean girl! AND she speaks the best Korean.
Bingo
Fr and she’s definetly not the most conventionally attractive among the 5 girls.
Thanks you 🙌
Forget about the language , it’s because she’s “Korean” and fit the beauty standard a little bit more than them
i BEEEEEN waiting for this comment!!! Thank you sis!!
Sonja is such a queen honestly. She didn’t get picked at first but she didn’t get bitter about it, instead she got her man to like her naturally with her personality and surprised him with her charms. So she and Minjae kinda hit it off early. And she didn’t lose her cool with any of the guys. She took everything in stride and worked with it. She’s even the first to get kissed without ever even winning a game or getting a “ramyun and chill” night. She skirting around all the standards and expectations of the show and getting her man essentially without the help of the motivators and instigators of the show lmao QUEEN
Excellent summary! It’s so true!
That's the reason she is my favorite from the first time girl. She is the Queen. I love her.
❤❤❤ Exactly! They complement each other and fit so well together 🤭💕💕
Very true! I like her too
Facts, I want her outlook in life!!
People are blind to Sabrina ,like she is gorgeous and also I like her humor
She's the minjae of the girl's group (vybe-wise) but the guys don't have a sonja lol
Yeah she’s so endearing.
She is the funniest yall so mean she was servng looks
she’s so cute :( her and bella are my faves
THISSS! She's so quirky and cute!
Dan is like an acquired taste. He gets better and better each episode
So true.
THIS.
deep thought here mate, hmm🤔
if only he wore a different pants on the first day 😅
@@julynightowl7413 I quite liked them.
The only thing I hate about this show is having to wait a week for the next episode.
Ikr it sucks but come next Tuesday I wanna see more of Sonja n minjae
@@nothandosenamile8252 Yoooooooh sana Tuesday is too far i don't know how to move on🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
literally like it’s perfect but why😭
Yh , so trueeeeeeeeee. Tuesday is too far😭😭😭😭
Damn right. How many episodes will it be
I’m just going to state my personal opinion: Tiffany is the most basic one in the group and she’s got attitude as she’s always commenting on everything she doesn’t like about the guys. Don’t get why so many of them are into her.
To me Bella is hands down the best, followed by Sonja.
P.S. Erika just seems mad that no one likes her. Even the most objectively beautiful person isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, because beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Glad Dan said something
I think the guys are mostly attracted to her because she conveniently happens to fit the Korean beauty standard the most in terms of style and appearance compared to the other women
@@cashmere2111 this!! not only that but she's also laid back
agreeeee phew all of this weighing heavily on me lmao
You left Sabrina put 😭😭
the victimising is such an ick
Bella is such a beauty. She has the perfect name. She's been serving looks the entire show 😍.
Im straight but she made my heart flutter a few times 😍 shes drop dead gorgeous
Fr
as a person named bella ilyyy
Yes she's my fave and not acting thirsty like some of the others even though she likes jk
Fax! She looks gorgeous and her fashion is on point
Love how in the middle of it all, everyone agrees Bella is a Queen 😂😂she’s just so likable fr
She’s just so cool!
She is!!! Anyone knows here RUclips channel?
@@romynardmendoza5043 Bella Lin
She’s sweet and likeable
Yess she's so confident and gets along with people...I love her
So glad Dan is a straightforward person. Some other guy would have gone around the bush trying to butter it up with words like "Oh no!" "We didn't mean to do it." Get in there Dan! That's a real man.
Honesty is the greatest gift that too few ppl appreciate.
Exactly. Thank you. Dan spoke truth.
Yea he may be getting left behind but honestly he’s straight up and honest right away. The rest are being iffy like they really don’t seem to genuinely like one of the girls. At least Dan is willing to give himself to whoever gives him a chance. Dan might actually have more chances than he thinks. He just needs to try a little less hard and listen more 😅
Dan is very cringe and hes just very desperate. I don’t understand how erika was labeled as desperate for trying to put herself out there but when Dan does it everyone is rooting for him
I respect that he could call out someone and really he was protecting himself. Like, no I'm not that type of person. Like this ain't that. He really had to let her and the "world" know like that's not who he is
Erica isn’t wrong. I think that all the boys like Tiffany the most because she’s close to Korean standards. All the guys are clearly willing to give the others a chance but I defiantly think there is favoriting happening
She’s correct in general but not on the show. In the first ep Sonja (white girl) and Sabrina (typical Asian girl) didn’t not get picked but Bella and Erika that are black. Bella was continually being picked during the show and Sabrina an Asian wasn’t, Erika wasn’t picked by anyone cuz she didn’t try to get to know anyone but the one that already was interested in someone else. This case wasn’t ab race
yeah because Erika didn't try much. Im Korean guy and She is charming but I think she has a specific ideal type. and She doesn't seem accustomed to approaching others first. In Korea, it's usually men who approach first. @@saften2
Its not because shes half black though. Dan literally asked her to Ramyun & chill. She rejected him. Sonja is literally white and didnt get picked at all in the beginning while Bella got picked
bro, she rejected dan coz he is not korean standards. 😮💨
@@Jess-ew3tm people keep saying this when Dan only asked cuz he was desperate
Sabrina is the most underrated and relatable person on here none of the men have favored her so far but she doesn't complain and always supportive with a smile 😊
Throughout all the drama and tensions can we just appreciate that Bella is still a queen, like-✨️
Yoo!! You sound like you abouta start a Bella Fanclub😂😂
Yess
@@Zizi_eleanor Tbh I think we should really get on that... 🤔😂
😌😎POINT BLANK PERIOD!🇷🇼🇿🇦
Yesss
Idk bout y'all but Sabrina grew on me like look at her she's so optimistic and fun to be around. I mean ain't no guy crazy bout her but she doesn't care anymore... She's there to enjoy
I’m surprised the guys aren’t swarming her but maybe it’s a combo of her young age and between her and Tiffany, Tiffany speaks Korean and dresses more Korean?
I think Sabrina is that kind of girl who actually mysterious,,,u will never know her if u don't try hard to talk to her...and I think a lot of guys will like her if they really get to know her.
Grew on you? You mean you didn't already love her from the start? Haha she is great, such a fun and kind person
For me Tiffany lol, I think finally seeing her interested in someone made me see a different side to her. I'm interested to see how her and KJ will be because I know she probably likes changkun a lot after their date and she was never interested in KJ in the first place. I feel like no one will want to be with KJ in the end lol.
@@yamap1 I totally see what you're saying but I don't know, I think Bella might still like KJ a bit.
Bella is a queen. Her energy and vibes are always so good! Same with chan they both are like happy viruses. I wish they had more clips together.
My man Chan really showed us some game with Bella. I was like 😲 Really enjoyed the panel’s reactions throughout the episodes and they seemed to be right about Chan- he knows when to shoot 😆. I agree with everyone; Bella is the most likeable! Love Sabrina too
Erika complaining abt getting rejected by others
Dan be like: “Hold my beer sweetie”💀😭😭
Like Dan is the walking embodiment of being outcasted by the girls🥲
Honestly Erika is the most annoying one here
And he's so cute too. If, I was 30 years younger I'd be all over that. They are snoozing.
I'm so happy he said something!
erika has a point some of this guy didn't grew up in korea so they obviously like black or brown
If Sabrina was more honest with her attraction for him, he wouldn't be that outcasyed actually.
I'm supporting her but it's just... frustrating ? 😂 But again, like I said in a previous comment, she is 20 years old and never have a love relationship experience so K understand where she comes from. It is just... frustrating 😂
Bella is truly a Queen for men, because through out the show everyone was talking about language barrier with Chen but not Bella, and she's just chilling
Pretty sure Bella is the best Korean speaker after Tiffany tho. So that might be why
@@shaemus3383 yeah she seems to be able to understand and communicate in Korea decent enough to make it understandable in combination with English.
@@makeitright3810 i think people havent noticed it much but bella seems to know how to speak in korean when she said "a reason to toast in korean", so i was like huh she must be one of the speakers too and probably understands pretty well..either way if she is i hope sometime she could chat with somebody like chan who's not as confident with their english although he's really good but he would be surprised cause everybody else knows tiffany can speak cause she already put it out there.
@@dorcaskatanga665 Bella does speak korean, she is just not confident speaking it around the others. However, I'm pretty sure she used as much of it as possible to communicate with Chan. She said it best when she was interviewed about their time in the R&C room. " he tried his best, I tried my best and Papago tried it's best" Meaning they gave it their best shot at communicating to get to know each other.
@@cl3140 Aaah okay i see, just like some of the guys are not as confident in their english but its understandable
no matter the drama, no matter the bad we all agree on one thing … Bella is the best lol
i was not expecting them to have that conversation about race!! wow that would've never happened in singles inferno (there was a lot of colorism in season 1!!) Also, as the episodes continue, I like Dan more and more, he's like a girl's girl kind of guy - very comfortable to be around and over time you start having romantic feelings about him ^^
also I really dislike the judges megan moon & brisxlife, especially bris because he just be doing the absolute most and a lot of the things that he says is really rude. esp when he went on that rant in episode 2 where erika should choose dan because dan is "trying so hard". ew inc.el opinion much? rejection is not gonna kill him and a woman shouldn't get rid of her feelings & consent because of someone else. get new judges in season 2 please :)
@@minichou 100% agree with you. their “comedic relief” just comes off as insulting and rude, especially the guy. & tbh the convo about race needed much more nuance esp from ppl who aren’t pale/light
There aren't people of other colour in Singles inferno so why would the conversation even happen in the first place?
@@BTS_Zarmi are you joking ? 😂😂
Asians are POC 💀
@@BTS_Zarmi Aren’t Asians people of color lmao?
Sonja and Minjae chemistry this episode was on another level 👌
My fav couple ☝🏻
Me too
I would choose him too. ❤
I knew they we’re going to be a thing 😂😌
I know they still have someting!! I was seeing them so much 🤞😊👍
I have to make a confession: I replayed the whole sequence with Minjae and Sonja at the end, with him "forgetting" his jacket to leave after everyone, her looking at him longingly and finally the secret kiss. They're so cute together! My favourites! 🥰
If they ever make it to the r&c room🙊,, it's gonna go down 💯🙌
same
SO CUTE WHY IS NOBODY TALKING ABOUT THEM
ME TOO! I replayed it a few times😂 Minjae is my man lol And I was just thinking how lucky she is. They really are cute together! I’m rooting for them ❤️
I did the same, and noticed that so cute
Erika and Tiffany literally have the most typical “girly” annoying behaviours that we are generalised to have 🤦♀️ I really love Sabrina she is the youngest yet she is much more mature than Erika. she is the only one who wasn’t picked by anyone from the beginning until now ( the blonde girl has a guy now) no one picked her at all nor showed any interest she never even got to pick someone yet she is so cool about it and was even comforting Erika when she was complaining that no one likes her 🙄
Being girly shouldn't be associated with being annoying, I think this is deep rooted in misogyny
@@suplosers3615 I know that’s why I wrote it between quotation marks because unfortunately that’s how it is seen and called,not that I agree with this use
@@coconat5359 i think the reason why Erika and Tiffany are not appreciated is not because of their "girliness" but more so because they act entitled. Take Bella for example, she's the most feminine and yet everyone loves her
what's annoying about girly behaviour actually? you sound like a misogynist. they are both really sweet girls.
@@suplosers3615 nope, erika isn't entitled. why is there so much misogyny in the comments? just stop.
I'm starting watch it because Bella, omg she is so amazing. She really killing it in this show!!!
It's funny how Sonja didn't get picked on the first day but she was the first to bag a man...go girllll🔥🔥🔥
Lol true
Also Minjae originally showed interest in Bella but she didn't reciprocate
Now yall know yall didn't have to leave us on a cliff hanger like that😭😭......either way this episode was crazy and im glad that Dan is finally getting recognized for who he is and how he thinks.
Yeah he shut the entitled one down. SMH playing the victim
For real
Dan finally getting some recognition.
ikr he was my pick from the beginning i felt so bad for him
@@toyinrosea9154 lol same you can easily tell Dan wasn’t an f boy 😂 he just outgoing like that
Sonja and Minjae seem the most solid out of all the pairs in the house. They feel like the only actual pair. They deserved more screentime.
i really do love Bella she is the show herself
Sabrina and Bella have the best energy, they seem so chilled and care free, I'm also glad that Dan spoke up and it was all discussed in the open, he seems like a good guy!
Sonja’s cool too! I like her vibe. Sabrina is a sweetheart!
Yeah he won me over with his directness and honesty. Erika has on the other hand lost me with her victim mentality and playing the race card. Her telling the guy who asked her to Ramyun and chill but she rejected that no one gives her any attention? Gtfo.
Out of all the girls Sabrina and Bella definitely have the best energy.
lmao the way i screamed at the end
same🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me too. I'm in my office and my supervisor was like dnt u have any work doing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg! Same!!! 😂
I even broke my neck the way I jumped out of excitement 😂😂. Go Sonja and Minjae❤️
Me too I was on my toes
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Although I understand why Erika could bring up that conversation with Korean men maybe not always going for black girls, I don’t think that’s the case in this show😭. Bella literally has had two private rooms in a row and she’s the darkest one there so if she’s just mad no one likes her personality she can just say that lmao
There's a saying
Korean men will sleep with anyone but if you're not Korean they will never take you seriously
It's obvious they accepted bella date because like Jin said "men think with their d*ck"
And recent episode we already saw how the men who accepts her date treat her lol
Bella won all of those on her own. She didn’t go to the room because any of the guys picked her. & the first guy ghosted her afterwards. Even Dan spent the first two episodes not bothering to learn her name and he actually grew up in the states.
@@loralo7088thank you! I’ve enjoyed Bella in this show but I’m over them acting like Erikas comment isn’t valid because she’s annoying. It’s still valid. There’s a million videos on RUclips of Black women telling their experiences and Korean guys saying they couldn’t go for black women. Especially the stereotypes that black women are sexual. It’s felt very disgusting to watch them invalidate her. From a white woman, married to a Korean guy who agreed with her. And from a very light skin Black woman, married to a Korean.
@@AndSoWeLaughed and a literal black man lol. I do think that Erika, being a light-skinned bi-racial and ethnically ambiguous woman, felt used to being wanted in the Western world because that is the standard when it comes to women who aren't white. She's benefitted from being lighter for so long when she's in a setting where people aren't paying attention to her, suddenly it's an injustice based on her being black. Idk I just think the fact that Bella, a dark-skinned woman, getting more men than her had her even more perplexed so she had to find something that was setting her apart.
I feel like Sonja and Minjae’s relationship has the least drama and they both seem so suited to each other. The kiss was so sudden but I’m not complaining, it was cute!
Chan and Bella give off friend vibes. They were both just being polite and tried to make the experience interesting for the other.
Nah Chan tried it with her 👀 He kept on touching her, but Bella is keeping it cute, I respect that.
It wasn't "sudden" at all
Just because they haven't been getting screentime,that's not their fault
KJ and Bella literally made out on their first time spending together so
Yes i knew sonja and mj fitted together!!! I hope they stay together to the end!
I saw that kiss coming. He was all like “oh, everyone’s leaving but I forgot my jacket….” 😂 it was cute though.
@@ajrt_2118 Hmm, I noticed that as well! Like he was checking outside to see if everyone had left and then he made his move. It was so cute 💕
Chan and Bella hugging over James blunt ? They're tipsy for sure 😂
But Chan is smooth af even with language barrier, gotta give him that
I agree and he has been my favorite since the beginning. I was hoping that he and Bella would have time together.
Hes awesome and i like that he is awesome enough to give other girls a chance besides Tiffany. He's willing to give girls a chance to see their personality and charms. He seens to actually take an interest in other people and see the good in them. Hes amazing, funny, and smooth. Hes my favorite
The other guys were dead set on tiffany before even knowing her just bc shes the most pretty by korean standards, while chan is willing to see their personality. Him and bella are so cute! Bella and Sabrina are my favorite 💗
@@rhonda5056 Me too!! #TeamChan
Chan and Bella I sense friend vibes. They definetly have chemistry but it doesn't seem romantic. Just my opinion
@@ontaes I agree. Going on a dating show and immediately setting on one person is weird af. Atleast try to get to know everyone initially.
When Sonja and Minjae.....🤭🤭🤭I literally got up from my seat and started jumping in excitement 😭
sameee 🙈
Chan's my fav right from the beginning,he's just so cute
I feel bad for Dan he actually seems like a cool guy
This is what I've been saying. I feel like people just looked at him, saw sunglasses and concluded that he's an a&$#!£?
Even during the dinners and lunches, no one bothered to give him a shot. I'm glad they can see that now
We need new faces so that guys like dan can get new connection
Sabrina already said good things about Dan multiple times but still did not pick him...
@@shamkand I think she likes his personality but not his looks maybe
@@Arithekiller Yes, true but sometimes you can start liking them later. Maybe he will grow on her :))
Dan actually has a personality. Very fit for a reality show.
I'm so happy he decided to show it and not stick with that fake persona he created😂😂
Yes I hope he finds someone
Dan is growing on me!
I really like him 😂 he’s funny
I honestly feel like Erika’s feelings got downplayed and made out to be her complaining when she simply stated a VERY REALISTIC observation.
EXACTLY!
Like KJ said, her statement stands for Korean guys in general. But Erika is not actually complaining about all the guys ignoring her. She's hurt that THE ONE GUY she likes is not interested in her after she was vulnerable and put herself out there for the burger dates. She's probably not used to approaching guys, so any step she makes is a big deal to her, even though they're either very small subtle attempts (e.g. her mentioning what when she tried to talk at the table, no one responded, so she gave up and got quieter. Many people would just repeat it louder because it's a loud group, not take it as a sign of rejection), or normal-sized steps like choosing someone for a lunch date when prompted to
@@r0zzey Wrong. Erika even states that let alone as a potential partner the guys look past her. That has everything to do with her race. & I say this as someone who finished the show.
Facts
@@loralo7088shut up man
Dan almost forgetting Bella’s name and calling her Emma is so funny😂
Every guy who ends up with Bella rules the game..she's so loving and unstoppable
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No mercy
thanks for the psa. some people have been particularly mean to a few of the contestants
I think Tiffany tries to be picked for who she is and not because she looks closest to the Korean beauty standard. And Bella is so popular cus she is fun, warm and insanely gorgeous! like HOLY! just stunning!! Go Bella!!
Agreed but how can she be picked for who she is, when they’re trying to get to know her and she seems very very uninterested.
I’m just watching this show because of Bella, she’s a Queen❤❤
I don't think this show can go on without Bella She is the Queen
We need more MJ Sonja moments please 👀They are so cute. Like most of the time they are on their own. They even came to the room together which means that they were together outside. The fact that they are willingly spending time together and seem really interested in each other without any specific rooms and stuff... and that last scene?!?! We need more of them. I just hope the show pds won't ruin their couple for drama.
Thats what I'm saying, like i didn't even realize they were that close until the end lets focus more on their interactions bc I was shocked
Do you recall when Sonja asked Kj and Bella about being in the "room"... She mentioned something about "them wasting it" little did I know that she and MJ were really hitting it off. I adore them
@@rophegoodenz3801 OMG! Yes. I payed attention to that part and I was like "ooh, Sonja" 😂 And the way MJ helped Sonja to get into the lake or whatever was that?! It was so sweet of him. I really hope they will work out and no one will mess what they have.
@@hanasonmi EXACTLY!!! I'm sooooo Team Sonja and Minjae, hopefully they do work out
I fr need a shirt that says "Skill, not power." That would be FIRE
Facts
Bella is getting “attention” because KJ made her out to be easy! That’s why Chan was being very hansy with her during their date. The just wanna ride the black\white horse but will choose Asian. Don’t get it twisted. They don’t even mention the black girls among them, or in interviews. Erika sort of had a point. We should not forget that we only see like 30%.
exactly and then the white passing woman wanna say "they loved me" and the black man wanna talk. yall DO NOT have a place in this convo
@@crissymay8443 RIGHTTT
@@crissymay8443 yeah I expected a more intelligent & nuanced reply from Megan (the very lightskinned host) but i guess they’re just there for comedic relief not intelligence lmao
i agree the convo could have been more intelligent but you’re completely wrong on the Bella situation. Bella gets attention because she has an amazing personality. Erika has no personality, went after the hottest guy and then claimed “nobody wanted her” when she got rejected. As a black girl, that race card was 100% unjustified in her situation.
@@rengokusfox you said “the convo could’ve been more intelligent” and then use that ignorant ass phrase “the race card” lmfaooo
This is seriously my favorite dating show. If Bella has a fan club I'm officially a member.
Hope poor Dan gets a W next episode some way.
Same here
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Here for Bella😃
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Tiffany's questions about language first was to see if he was into Erica but didn't choose her because of language, and then she continues to ask about language to really check if he actually likes her or just picked her because of language. She might actually like him.
I got that impression too 😏
I know right I thought so🤔🤣
I agree, I also wondered if she was asking so that if she started pursuing him, it would be in an "acceptable" way on public record because he was not interested in the other girls
I think she totally likes him but is checking everything first. Like when she talked to Erika and asked her if she still felt something, it also felt like checking to make sure it'd be ok for her to go with it
Look at her, all getting giddy and giggly. Letting her hair down and asking same question repeatedly to make sure he is really into her 😂 obviously she likes him but just testing the waters.
Bella is such a queen. Her personality is so radiant and she can have a conversation with anyone. To be clear though, the only guy who showed initial interest in her was Minjae. Other than that, she’s made the most of opportunities she has created. Which is great
Okay, to erika's point race is definitely a factor, as is language, and I think that's one of the points of finding men with different levels of proximity to international exposure. Chang, barely speaks English and has probably never left korea, meaning his type would most likely be a typical Korean looking woman. Dan being an American born and raised Korean man, has been exposed to diversity etc and is probably the most comfortable around different races. So I feel like that was intentional to see if that influences the way the guys choose their dates.
If it weren’t for Bella being on this show I wouldn’t even be watching tbh. So y’all continue to treat my girl well lol
literally like 😭
Facts 😭😭
Yes Bella is so nice❤
I love her and Sonja. I'm literally shipping minjea and sonja.😫😫
Same same I mean she’s literally so cute 🥺♥️, I hope she gets what she wants or just stay happy
I really wish Erika didn't assume her being black was the reason no one paid as much attention to her as she hoped for, here. Yes as black women we do face discrimination of that sort in dating but I dont believe that was the case here... Baby Bella is of a darker complection, extremely beautiful and she's setting the house on fire ... She is carry the show on her back!!
it obviously was the case here. most of the guys wanted Tiffany because she looks most Korean. they wouldn’t have chosen her if she had tanner skin. Bella is gorgeous to us, and she’s definitely the prettiest girl there, but it’s obvious that she wouldn’t be the first choice for anyone there mostly because of her race. don’t pretend like colorism and racism wasn’t a factor, because those things are ingrained into Korean society. I definitely do see how Erika was playing a victim card, but her words do hold truth tbh
@@henloworld514 I never pretended i literally said it does happen.....I said I wish she didnt "here" meaning with Dan. 2 of the 5 are interested in Tiffany yes, however, she still has options. Dan ends up asking her AGAIN if she'd like to go on a date and she says "I'm good"(no). Chan picked her in the first impressions thing and they had a little date but she doesn't seem to want to keep trying with him. The other dude is with the white girl but they 🙄😂 idek, but you never know if you dont try... he choose bella in the first ep, idet hes even her type. But lets be foreal the person she actually wants isnt interested in her, so she generalized all the men there, because that, i dont think she even like the others. Thats just my opinion though, we can agree to disagree.
It’s not the race card but she has a different issues. I think she might have a very internalizes discomfort. The whole time Erika always came off as uncomfortable?
it’s litterally she relies on her looks a lot and not her personality. She is miffed a bit that curvy and darker girls are getting attention.
Both Asian women are very slim but not as thin as Erika, and the white girl and dark skin African girl are curvy women.
In her logic , Korean men should prefer the ideal body size 0 body type too?
This what makes me think she relies way too much on her appearance and has entitlement to attention which is unattractive.
She keeps falling back on being shy if not her race being an issue,she finds her race an issue which saddens me and will get in the way of her success with men.
Bella is someone who is confident in which she is and isn’t experiencing this issue because she has no weird internalized feelings about her race when going through these guys. She doesn’t see these men as Korean men…but as men who just happen to be Korean?… like who vibes with me more? Erika has the wrong approach here and does generalize these men,
Their validation isn’t what she relies on like Erika who really needs it.
It makes me mad bc there are actual racial issues. Yes. Like asians not liking other asians that happens?
But hear me out…
If the men were not opened to date internationally why be in this show ? This is something they must agree to and want? So the Italian girl has probably internalize racism she suffers with.
@@henloworld514 I don’t think so. The reason why Erika is not popular cuz she’s boring. Tiffany doesn’t look boring and other girls as well comparing to Erika . It’s just her impression
i really wish you would stop using the ass phrase “play the race card” it’s dismissive of real world issues. what ericka is talking about may not be what’s going on here but definitely seems like it’s something she experiences. & it’s not hard to think that after most of them prefer tiffany. let’s use critical thinking
Erika is so mad while she was literally closing up to all guys when she saw that new dude… she was sooo thirsty that she didn’t see what she was doing, then she went mad for not getting picked up…😅
no literally. like girl you’re not even trying at all.
I’m a Bella Stan but Imma need people to not do to much on Erica’s name. While I do agree the race issue isn’t as prevalent here. There some racial undertones. The fact that most of the guys can’t remember Bella’s name even though she one of the most prominent characters says a lot. Erica has every right to feel gloomy about Chang but it’s also obvious that she’s not the type of girl he’s looking for. As a black women it is very easy to bring up race because when it comes to dating that is the first thing black women must ask themselves. Her proximity to whiteness doesn’t matter at the end of the day because she is still a black women. So her feelings in my Opinion are valid. I don’t think they’re necessarily relevant to the situation but she’s allowed to be insecure and gloomy. Different personality types deal with situations differently. We can’t expect people to react to things the same Way and we definitely can’t compare 2 black women from different backgrounds. Practice kindness cuz I know the majority of you would’ve handled the situation way worse. ❤
Erika is a biracial woman. She is half black and she said so as well. It leads to a lot of problems when we don’t know how to define blackness because we allow everyone to identify as black. Just like for any other race, you need two parents who are majority same race to be said race.
I don’t get Megan Moon putting down her pov because she can’t relate to the experience.. not to be rude but she’s very white passing, of course she may present a different opinion to Erika who has more prevalent black features.
@@YesIlikebananasSo no literally that made me laugh when she said that
Petition to get an extra episode this week🥹
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I would sign!
Erika, don’t chase anyone who isn’t interested in chasing you back. It’s clear that Chang-hak is much more comfortable speaking in Korean. I’m glad Dan showed Erika that rejection is never fun even for him but you don’t have to sulk about it.
right on
I'm thinking she needs a little rejection in her life in order for her to recieve what Dan said. This may be good for her so she can quit thinking so highly of herself.
She's not she just doesn't have other stuff to talk about since no other guys are interested in her
she's honestly like many women, cannot handle any type of rejection at all while rejecting men without a second thought. like she knows a guy doesnt like her and instead of keeping it pushing like sonja or sabrina she sulks abt it and makes it everyone's problem.
@@PinkStormy it's not "thinking highly of yourself", but it can be hurtful to your feeling of self-worth and attractiveness. i understand her, even if guys are into you, if it's not the ones you're into, you probably won't feel very attractive
sonja and min have a very good chemistry I think they are going to be the first couples to end up together.
bella is really killing it she is such a vibe I liked how the hugged with chan so cute, Dan is a gentleman he is so cool and chill getting better everytime and him and sabrina I think they kind of will vibe with each other
As a half black girl. Them disregarding erika’s experience made me really mad. Like bffr.
Do you feel like if she was fully white, the men would want her more?
@@pm2598 maybe not these men particular. But yes, in my experience, east Asian men generally prefer white or East Asian women.
As a black woman I am angry. Along with them calling her thirsty and using the term race card which is racist.
Especially Megan. I used to like her but I’m really getting the vibe of someone who claims her blackness for convenience but is dismissive of any negative black experience.
@@YesIlikebananasSo yeah and with how lightskinned she is she's gonna have less chances of feeling pain as a result of her race
I'm seriously so surprised that these girls haven't been interested in Dan, he is seriously such a gentleman and he is really handsome as well. So glad Sabrina is starting to see it now.
I think is because he was really entitled at the beggining and he was trying way to hard, now that he's more calm and just being himself he seems much more attractive and cool
@@quackquack2436 I agree I wish dan and Sabrina get along more, I didn't know changhak was sneaky as said by Mrs. Moon, I am starting to feel irritated by Erika tbh it's okay if she doesn't like dan and same goes for changhak so blaming everyone one cuz one guy showed no interest in you is plane stupid I guess dan could also say this going by erika's logic.
Had to edit it cuz I thought Sonja kissed minjae but minjae is the cutie one who is with Bella so it's was kj I guess these two kinda confuses me no wait I am confused about Sonja and Bella's situation who is with whom I think I left out a guy out I don't remember his name
@@greenhouse.caterpillar Chan was the one with bella im pretty sure minjae kissed her
@@deobitiny6884 thankyou so muscle dude was with Tiffany, minjae the serious unfunny type of guy kissed Sonja right ? Btw I really appreciate it 😭 thankyou very much for it
@@greenhouse.caterpillar no. KJ is the serious unfunny type. Minjae is the cool fashionable one
This is just a good reminder to not judge people right away. I thought Dan was the typical guy who is good-looking but knows it in the first episode, but I really liked how straightforward he was with Erika in this episode. And the commentators are hilarious! Fantastic editing, too!
I thought that too on first impressions! I thought he was a player and kinda kept a tiny red flag up but he definitely became one of my favorites over time
People were saying he was trying too hard but I feel like he was being lighthearted about what to do
This episode really let his personality shine and I’m cheering on for him and Sabrina
I knew from the get-go that he had substance. Unfortunately most of the girls thought he's merely a show-off.
@@28andee but you can tell go is really a f boy… In this case Dan was trying to get alone with everyone and be that outgoing person that is why he reacted like that
Maybe he did think this way but the rejections humbled him? If you listen to his confessions(?) he’s always so surprised that he wasn’t chosen.
Upset that everyone's just dismissing Erika's claims of korean men having a preference for Korean or white women. She was right, they're very much influenced by the eurocentric beauty standards through media. Even idols are constantly made to look paler and pale skin is favored in Korean beauty. Erika's claims aren't baseless, and she wasn't even calling anyone out saying "you all are racist" she simply made an observation that it looks like all the men are going for what she expected them to go for in her experience as a mixed race woman in Korea. And the fact that people happen to like Bella, a black woman, right now doesn't negate the pattern of actions beforehand in Erika and I'm sure many many other black/brown people's experience in Korea. I mean, would this show even exist if they didn't think Koreans historically have been against mixing cultures in relationships?
I think she could have worded it better, definitely. But she simply shared the way she felt like it had to do with her race and they just seemed to get defensive as if she was calling them racist, which she didn't. I know they wanna believe they're all super open and welcoming of anyone, but everyone has internal bias and that's one that's very prevalent in korean culture and I don't think Erika was wrong to express her concern. I wish they could've listened to her better and heard her perspective of why she would think that's the case based on her experience. Even if they felt like they weren't discriminating against her bc of race, they could've expressed that sentiment differently instead of completely dismissing her and even blaming her bc she didn't wanna go to the room with a guy she didn't like. Women owe you nothing! And to label her difficult bc she didn't want to ramyeun and chill with you is also wrong!
Also, to the host who said she didn't experience that in Korea, I'm so glad that your experience was so easy breezy. But I have a hard time believing that is the experience of many other black/brown girls in Korea.
Lastly, all of the women on this show are gorgeous. This experience is fun to watch, but even so it is so skewed from what a real person's experience would be in the real world. What if these women weren't skinny, with flat tummies, perfect skin, beautiful hair, and flawless smiles? What Erika says she has experienced and feels she is experiencing in the house is valid and I bet she's only felt a fraction of what women who don't look like her have experienced.
I ain't reading all that😭
David your editing is hats offf🔥🔥and offcourse everyone else on the editing and production team too!!👏👏
Bella is killing this show. LOVE YOU BELLA ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ha ha Linda ❤ we all here🎉🎉!! Team Bella all the way🎉🎉🎉
I love Bella so much. I wish she could be with kj
@@lulekozuma563 doesn’t he like Tiffany ?
@@khanyi8512 I think he do 😤
@@khanyi8512 i hope he likes bella, they had so much chemistry that one night
Dan the man shinning through. Thank you for pointing out the hypocrisy. Dan didn't get picked several times and his energy is still high
So totally agreed. When other's are "used to the attention" outside and cannot handle being rejected by 1 dude 😌
@@Isabella1680 she literally expects all guys to drool over her and when someone doesn’t, she plays victim and the race card. So immature and I’ve immediately turned off her
I disagree, many asian men do prefer white or asian women. That’s why everyone drooling over Tiffany despite being dry.
@@esterokelola4214 not u claiming that the men only like tiffany because she’s asian if that was the full story you’d expect Sabrina to receive the same amount of attention
@@esterokelola4214 OK but Erika was not ignored. SHE WAS PICKED
I absolutely love this show! So happy it randomly popped up! The vibes are so genuine. It looks so fun!
Honestly, the thing that bugs me the most about Tiffany is that it seems like she’s always fishing for compliments. Like, is it because she’s insecure? I don’t know 🤷🏻♀️ And the whole thing with Dan and Erika…I was so happy Dan stood up for himself!!! I was waiting for his redemption story and I hope this is it!! I hope him and Sabrina get closer too now!! ❤ And Sonja and Minjae…so cute!!! 🥰
Bella is an icon, she is the moment!!
Y’all are not talking enough about Dan. He has a great attitude throughout. He comes off as trying too hard but I’m sure if you take the time to get to know him, you’ll like him
I think he’s starting to relax finally!
same I started liking him much more now.... in the beginning he looked a bit cheeky but now I feel we are getting to know his personality and he seems like a really sweet guy
I don't even get how or why people think he is trying so hard. The whole point is to be open and getting to know people. Dan seems to be one of the few who hasn't been obsessing over one person and instead has made an effort with everyone
Honestly I just think he's trying too hard yknow. He's a nice person but if he chills out a bit then he would definitely get someone to like him. It's about the vibe that's it.
It has to be so intimidating at first and being filmed too. He’s worked it all out and has relaxed into being himself. I really like his directness, but he doesn’t abuse it.
I just have to say, the editing and the music choices keep getting better and better each episode!!! Thank you guys for giving us an amazing show to watch every Tuesday!
in all of this my favourites are bella, sabrina, dan and sonja , they just seem the most genuine
I really like Bella, she is sooo chill and nice❤
She has immaculate vibes
So, I’m all for Minjae and Sonya. The way she was standing by the door was a clear sign that she knew what he was about to do and it was adorable. Bella is a queen but I kind of agree that it doesn’t seem like any of the guys are seriously considering her. They do seem to like hanging out with her though. While as a whole, I agree with what Erika said about Korean men’s preferences, she was talking to the wrong one in Dan and that wasn’t the issue in her case at all. I’m glad that Brix and Jin did acknowledge the truth in her statement. Though a bit sad, I can also understand how that has never been Megan’s experience. I just wish she had prefaced her statement with it being her personal opinion. Poor KJ although I am curious why he likes Tiffany so much when he said he wanted an ambitious woman and she’s taking a break from working right now.
Thank you, thank you, thank you everything you said is so true especially abt Bella
@@rosej5713 lowkey i think bella isn’t interested in no one and thats ok! Bella keeps it under control!
@@anunknownperson4018 I mean she did say she was here for fun lmao 🤪. Sometimes she can be a little pick me ish (like everyone is on dating shows basically including this one) cause she doesn’t want to be alone on the show, regardless of whether she likes them or not.
Megan's statement was a bit unthoughtful and not self aware. I'm glad she's had good experiences but as a light skinned person, she probably hasn't dealt with issues that a darker skinned black person in Korea had to do.
I’m soo hooked on this can’t wait for more 😊🎉
Sooo looking forward to the next episode!
If he chooses Tiffany, it's interesting that even though it's supposed to be an international dating show, the boys gravitate toward the most Korean-like non-Korean (the way she dresses, behaves, and she can even speak Korean)
she dressed pretty westernized when she was interviewing for the role
Who cares ? It's his preference...
True though I noticed!
Why shouldn't he pick her though? The guy barely speaks English, it would be a waste to pick someone you wouldn't even be able to communicate with properly 🤔
@@mimiad397 that's the whole point of the show
To show that a relationship can bloom with language barriers 💁♀️
I don't know but I kind of had that secondhand embarrassment during Ericka's conversation with the guys
Me too 🤣🤣
yea same ^^'
she was being childish cuz she didn't get the guy she liked 😂 All my girl's out there pls never be scared of rejections, it happens to everyone 😂
For real, I would’ve just walked away… like girl…
because that "struggle" isnt her experience at all and i dont think she has or ever will experience that considering how she doesnt even look black or like the typical biracial. Pretty sure most of the men there already forgot her ethnicity just by looking at her.
That being said, if she got rejected over and over again after trying so hard with EVERYONE, i would understand her trying to think of possible reasons. However, she was only interested in ONE guy, only put in effort with ONE guy and only got rejected by ONE guy so im not understanding her reaction. The fact that she even admitted that she had NEVER experienced this before should tell her that this has NOTHING to do with race!
this is so unexpectedly wholesome, I love it
Sabrina,Sonja,Bella,Chan,Dan and Minjae are my absolute favorites I just live their personalities and also I'm so happy for Sonja and Minjae you go gurl 💖
Sonja and Minjae had chemistry from the get go, I knew it would only be a matter of time till they couple up😂
They're my favorite so far!!
(Plus Chan and Bella, they were really cute too xD)
Dan is a gentleman, i knew there was gonna be a moment where ppl are gonna like him
Did no one notice what chan said at 27:00 abt dan? Lmaooo “his face like a bum” HAHAHHA
Bella is so beautiful 😍😍 I’m so happy she’s getting a decent experience on this show! I hope her and Chan end up together 🙌🏽
Can’t wait for the next episode!!
Tiffany repeatedly asking Changhak in different ways if he picked her because she spoke Korean the best expecting him to say Yes after the 50th time reminds me of that meme where it says "When your girl keeps asking you the most random questions "Babe would you still love me if I was a worm." Chan still my fav, "Skill, Not Power" but the duality of Changhak being sensitive liking OST shows, tough on the exterior but also playing the piano is so sincere too. I cannot with this show right now, everybody needs to watch it! Dan is growing on me, I live where hes from and had this preconceived notion of him being an elitist but maybe he really is an onion with layers like he said.
No. She likes hearing that it is not the reason. Boosts her ego. She is full but sly
Chan is my favorite too. Agree regarding the repeating of the question by Tiffany.
@@janvdb9258 Exactly! Some people are saying that we’re “hating” on Tiffany and that she’s an angel in real life, but you can clearly tell that she’s on a total ego trip. Also pretending not to speak Korean with Chan because she doesn’t like him..? How rude
@@janvdb9258 I’d interpreted it as her trying to see if everyone else was right. She was also confused as to why everyone seemed to be picking her. It looked like possibly only being picked because she’s in closer proximity to Korean beauty standards made her feel guilty and uncomfortable, so she was trying to confirm that everyone else may‘ve been wrong (based off of the convo she had w Erika and her insistence to Changhak that he probably only picked her cause she knew Korean). It honestly seems like everyone is conflating it.
@@user-xv6sr2xx4j Idk i didnt see her questions as her trying to get ego boost from him but more like seeing if she should really go out for him cus i think it's clear she likes muscle guy but she doesnt want to make it a competition with anyone, especially since she was asking erika before too. Like maybe if he did have any interest in the other girls regardless of korean knowledge she mightve backed up a bit but with his answers maybe she will pursue him now.
IM PROTECTING CHAN AT ALL COSTS HES SO SWEET ❤
Same here.
Yeah. He's cute.
The fact that Minjae just went for it!! I’m over here celebrating! Loved it! Can’t wait for next week!!
I've been having so much fun watching these episodes. Thank youuu
I honestly like Bella and Sabrina, the vibes I am getting from them are just optimistic...you know the type that makes the most out of anything even though things are not going their way. Bella being the go getter and confident bean (lol girl didn't get discouraged when she found out that kj liked someone else instead she went in and gave it her all. See what confidence can do for you kids haha) Sabrina being the silly and funny bean (She likes making funny commentaries, lol i like her sense of humor) argh I love these two
Shipping Bella×Sabrina×Chan haha a polygamous relationship won't hurt :)
Agreed. Bella and Sabrina are pretty awesome, and Sonja seems cool too
i just want bella to get someone she deserves to treat her like a princess BELLA BEST GIRL! we are rooting for you pretty
This episode was as total roller coaster of unexpected connections. I’m so looking forward to the final one.😎
i hope Erika, wherever she is rn, takes this experience as an opportunity to grow and better herself
Doubtful -- she'll blame it on racism and sexism, which she already did. Remember that she tried to rationalize that she was "popular" back home. These types of people have no introspection or desire to grow.
She’s so fucking entitled bro. She’s mad that the new boy ain’t pick her when Dan literally did. That whole convo is a slap in a face to Dan.
@Accel erator I think your'e right on a lot of points, but it also seemed more like entitlement than sadness to me. (How can you be sad if you've just met the day before?)
wtf? you guys must be really young here. she's really sweet and she is grown. what's your problem?
@@georgecrumb8442 she has every right to blame it on racism. 'these types of people' what about your type of people? where is your ability to grow? you sound like an angry incel.
Bella is bubbly. Sabrina is weird in a good way. Dan is a cool dude that knows how to keep it real. Tiffany is chill. Chan and Min are funny AF. Good casting. I just hope a certain someone moves pass her victim mentality. Rejection sucks, but it's never that serious. It literally happens to everyone.
She really irritated me when she pulled out the black card b'cause for one, what happened to her white side? Two, there's another black woman (fully black/ African-black) who clicks with everyone and doesn't complain when not chosen and lastly Dan a man of Korean descent asked her out but she rejected him. Also there are other people who weren't chosen but didn't make a big deal about it, and her entitlement is showing, and it's aligned with pretty privilege behaviour
Although I don't want to invalidate her feelings/experience b'cause that how a lot of people who are conscious-aware see this "Korean men like white or asian girls more than black girls" argument. I just don't get the way she brought it up
@@nandim6282 I know people with pretty privilege who don't act entitled. The part that made me cringe the most is that she was literally saying this to the dude she literally rejected 😳. It was seriously in poor taste.
Tiffany is boring...not chill lol
@@janvdb9258 I don't agree, but thanks for your opinion 👍
BELLA is the queen and their hug was so cute and genuinely out of fun and good vibes...
I just love the vibe of the hosts 😂 they are so unapologetically honest, I want to be in that room too ❤
Im so obsessed with this show. I cant wait til the next episode.
Being in Korea for 5 years, I can definitely say Erika's claims are not wrong or invalid. Megan's experience, after following her for various years, seems to be vastly different from the black or black passing women I met here. There IS an aspect of colorism in Korea whether we want to acknowledge it or not. While it doesnt apply to every single person, and while openness towards foreigners is way better than 8 years ago, there is still a majority of colorism, which isnt necessarily realized by the less effected people. POCs have similar experiences but I often found that a black passing woman next to a lighter woman have very different experiences. It definitely wasnt worded well by Erika, as she was relating this issue with her not being picked by the guys she liked and while I do believe colorism is an expect in Korea in general, it was not the ONLY reason Erika wasn't picked. 🤷🏽♀️ BUT When you live in korea long enough the way that colorism does creep into your mind faster than anything else and the way it EATS your confidence is unbelievable and this happens because its such a common experience as a POC (but not the only experience).
i was sad that even the black panelist didn't validate her feelings.
@@marayikaa Yeah that was rough 🥲🥲🥲 I had this convo with non POCs and the convo roughly goes like hers 🤣 Because they look at it as well... NOT ME???? But the statement isnt about every man in the country. Just the vast majority from our experiences 🥲 Having this convo with other black women feels so good because they know exactly what you mean... so yeah it was sad for Megan not to at least validate her feelings.
Megan really had me the most bent cuz shes's hella light, like girl...
@@icu919 I think she knows that so she is going with the flow and also being the funny one. It's a defense mechanism I recognize all to well
@@icu919 I don't wanna per se, say no one will want to be together at the end of this for Bella but in general I think she has a great personality and people gravitate towards that and want to learn more or at least hang out vs Erika who is more quiet so people dont gravutate naturally. But in my experience I find that the outgoing (Black) person who talks to lots of people doesnt tend to get the guy in the end. Just lots and lots of friends 🤣
Minjae and Sonja's relationship is blooming!!!
Love this show soo much . Hate the fact I have to wait until Tuesday to see another episode 😭😭😭. The wait is killing me