Aap ki baat to sahi h ki jiwan hamara h ham ko apne hisab se jina chaye kabhi kabhi Mai himmt karti ho ki apne liye utho magr lagta h ki mere hasbend aaj nahi to Kal badl Jaye ge hamari shadi ko 5 sal pura hogaya aaj Tak bas un se waqt maga h magr aaj Tak waqt ke naam pr bhik mile h samjh nahi aata Kya Kare bas is ummed pr zinda h ki wo aaj nahi to Kal zarur badl Jaye ge Mai is video se sahemt ho
गाली देने वाला इंसान pyar कर हीं नहीं सकता ..उसको पता होता है कि ये मुझसे गाली सुनके भी बात करेगी हीं.. अगर अपनी self-respect है to बाहर निकलके देखो दुनिया बहुत बड़ी है जो value देता है उससे pyar करके देखो..pyar का सही अर्थ समझ आ जायगा
Aap shi keh rhe ho 😢 Mere sath bhi ho rha h Bott gndi galiya bolta h phir bhi sunti hu 😢 Me use kuch nhi kh skti ek problem ki vajh se kh skte ho vo blackmail kr rha h ... Vo samne se nhi kh rha h ki vo meri picture ma papa ko bhej dega Is drr drr se Mr rhi hu .... Roj rat 1 gnta bhr ghr valo se chhup chhup kr roti hu Help bhi kisee mangu
@@study.material7877 sad 😢aap jitna darenge utna hi daryaga। N p D पर्सनैलिटी के बारे में और थोड़ा सर्च किजिए ऐसे लोग जिंदगी को जहन्नुम बना देते हैं अगर आपके पैरेंट्स सपोर्ट हैं तो आप उनके साथ डिस्कस कर सकते हैं
Than best example of trauma bonding is institution of marriage where u dont hve any escape bcoz society prohibits you and taking legal way is another harrassing process so at some point of time both male and female gonna feel such feelings that doesn't mean leave those relationships ....rather keeping urself busy with some productive things which one likes is the only solution which keeps you hopeful for future and avoid as much dependency on that individual... quitting can't be a solution 😊
Stop GASLIGHTING as usual.. It's absolutely OK TO QUIT when the other person (your partner) does not change/attend therapy/communicate and co-regulate with you over a long period of time.
Jb me chhoti thi tb relationship me sbko dekh kr lgta th kitne khus hai or is social media ki vajah se me relationship me aayi ab me ye same chiz feel krti... Sara mind divert ho jata is bajah se or jo life me aim hota bo b pana muskil ho jata koi dhng se bat kre tbhi pda jana nahi to pda b ni jata...
किसी भी प्रकार के टॉक्सिक प्रकार की मानसिकता रखनेवाले व्यक्ति से दूर रहना ही मानसिक रूप से शांति देता हैं,क्योंकि सच्चा प्रेम करनेवाले कभी भी नाही गाली देता और मारता नही हैं और आपका सदा सम्मान देता हैं.
हे भगवान ये विडियों देखने के बाद life ऐकदम बदल गई तभी मैं हर रोज ऐक प्रश्न खूद से करती थीं कि यार तू इस इंसान को छोङ क्यों नहीं सकती है लाख शुक्रिया बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद कोटि कोटि प्रणाम नई जिंदगी देने के लिए
Agr tm 4 sal ka relation chhor ke khush rh skte ho to kuch time baad isse v tmhe trauma bond wali feelings aayi ....... Koi ladki jb bahut jada attached ho jati h to automatically over posseesive or rok tok lgane lgti h isly lgati h q ki dono sath ni rhte h ... .....sath rhne pe aesa kuch ni hota
@@shambhavipriya3556 I think ladke ne try Kiya hoga ki ladki sudhar jaye, wo kyu compromise karta aage ki poori life us toxic relationship me jab uski partner uske according thoda badal nhi sakti. Try to Kiya hoga aese easily koi end nhi kar pata 4sal ki relationship.
@@Ritez_ maybe sufficient try ni hoga ...aese condition me ladki ko smjhna bahut important h ... Chalo mante h tm sahi bol rhe but aajkl sbka yhi complaint h ki ladki toxic h ...btao ab ye possible h jahir hi bat h ladki kya chahati h wo ni smjh pa rha uska partner
@@shambhavipriya3556 Nhi me sirf ladki hoti Aisa nahi bol tha, koi b gender ho sakta. Aur mujhe lagata hai ek sal kafi he ek dusre ko samjhne agar aapne proper communication rakha hai to, 3sal me toh koi bhi samjh aayega ki dono ki ek dusre se kya expectations hai, aur koi ek khush hai he nhi aur uska partner change he nhi ho sakta khud chah ke bhi to ,alag hona thik hai.
ended up 2 years of toxic trauma bonding relation with my gf my friends helped me a lot in leaving her it was no easy for me she tried to isolate me and i ended up losing most of my friends she always tried to gaslight me always told me i was wrong and whenever my frienda pointed it out i shut them up its not easy to leave but you should leave because these people will never change trust me you deserve better and dont have to live with it.
Narcissism.... In any relationship is very dangerous.. even physical abuse can be recovered from more swiftly but recovering from narcissism involved relationship is very difficult.
Toxic relationship मोबाइल्स के वजह से ज्यादा बढ़ रहे हैं। सबको रिलेशन से ज्यादा दिखावा ही पसंद है। 😂😂 चाहे पैसे का दिखावा हो या प्यार का दिखावा सब बेकार फस गए हैं। मोबाइल को दूर करो सब ठीक हो जाएगा 🙏🙏
Aur ha suder ladaki honi chahiye hot sexy 😂 and ha wo pise bhi kamaye aur kapade to international pahane moti na ho akhee nili nili ho bal kale ho 😂 race hi laga chaiye ruh Ghar ki kamwali aachi ma Jo sahe patni jise ho girlfriend hot ho at same time patani gharelu ho sahan sahashel 😂 kya generational trauma hai aurato ke uper Jo aachi bhagwan korona ki tarah duniya buri ladakiya mile sabhi ladako ko 😂 aur unake sath bura ho aur korona phir se ajaye log badalate nahi purane nayi falatu cheje takhalif dete wo mare wo hi theek naye bacche ban jayenge
I had been in this kind of relationship with my ex husband. He was a narcissist. But I used to love him. And he abuse me mentally, physically and financially. Seriously one should get out of this kind of relationship asap.
Thanks for this video. Talking on such issue is much more needed because I've went through such painful situation. Now I'm coming out of "Trauma Bonding".
Very good content shukar hai ab aise content pe videos banti hai India mei 👍. 2 tarha ke insaan hote Hain ek narcissistic personality dusri empathetic jab ye dono milte hain do trauma bond relationship ho hee jata hai. And it's not gender based koi bhi ho sakta hai ladka ya ladki. Kahte Hain na knowledge is power.. bass relationship banate time dil aur deemag se kaam le. Be careful because jo mental trauma se jata hai usko to phir kisi pe wishvash nahi aayega in future... Isolated ho jate Hain. Jo bhi mental trauma mei hain apna pls dhayan rakhiye . And recover kar le jaldi se jaldi. God bless 🙏
my god mam, i have actually come out of this and broken my 17 yrs of marraige, aur apk video se pehle muje yahi lagta tha ki meri hi galti, bcoz my mother always taught that husband are like this only, its the wife who has to adjust, so i kept waiting that he will change some day, thanks for an eye opener
I can understand your situation dear. This is how our families and societies are. Even me running 39, still single. And I have to fight my own family for not getting married because I know I am not getting the right person yet.
I am in a relationship roughly from 6 years till now but since a year I realised our relation is not as sweet as in the beginning... He calls me Daily but I felt he don't want to listen my voice and always try to say what he was feeling whenever I try to heart out my feelings he interrupt and began to speek inbetween. In the beginning of our relationship he was so caring about me always put me forward to speak my heart out he always used to courage me since I used to underestimate myself. Now I feel so lonely in my life despite of being with him. Now I feel I would never be able to believe in love no matter I would be with him or with someone else 😞😖
Maybe you are not realising that you are involved with a narcissistic man, coz at first they will be very sweet and caring but as soon as you are starting to trust them they will be going to show you their true colours. Learn about NPD it will help you to decide what you should do.
@@Whitefield5626 he is not that much aggressive when I talk to someone else but the problem is he doesn't care about my feelings as earlier he used to do so... When we talk on phone he never asks me to how I am what I am feeling nothing nothing like that... I would never be able to believe anybody else.. Every man /boy I feel are the same, they can never be connected to a girl in the same way as a girl does ... Kisi pe bhrosa ni hota ab to 😞😞
@@PRIYA-wh8jx you only trust yourself and your family, nobody else can do things like our family does, and for your special one try to observe his behaviour carefully you will get to know what's wrong with him or in your relationship.
I am unable to understand this time what's going on... I want to marry him but now I am doubtful... Parents are forcing for marriage to both of us but I am very sad to see his behaviour.. I don't want to marry someone else because I have given 7 years to the person he now changed what the guarantee of any other person would not be tha same... Ab kisi p bhrosa ni hota kisi ladke p nhi na kbhi Kar hi paungi 💔
bahut important topic hai ye aaj ke time Mujhe is psychological principle ke baare me nhi pta tha But the same thing happens to me... I'll try to come over from that relationship, bcz mujhe bhi lgta hai ya tha ki aage sab achha ho jaaega, but ab ummid pahle se kam lgti hai ki kuchh utna achha ho paayega jitna ki is relationship me jarurt hai...🌻
आपने ट्रामा बान्डिग के बारे में विस्तार से बताया। वास्तव में इसके वजह से विक्टिम बंधा रहता है और दुष्चक्र में फंसा रहता है। इससे बाहर आना आवश्यक है तभी शोषण से मुक्ति संभव हो सकती है।
Beautifully explained and it's very nice to see that we are talking about this. This helps alot to let the victim know that yes he/she is victim because in most of the cases victim doesn't even know that they are victim.
Bahut acchi batein batai aspne bahut saari cheez jo mujhe kbhi smjh nhi aati thi ki mere sath kya or kyu horaha hai lkin video dekhne k baad sab clearity hogyi thank mam ....
Spent almost 3 yrs in a toxic work environment, at last got so frustrated, took a decision to resign in a second. And walked away royally, m proud of myself and happy now, moving forward at the best.
Dr.sahiba ne sabhi mardo par ugli uthdi lekin main aisi females ko bhi janta hun jo aapne boyfriend ja husband ja bete ko abouse krti hai .. aap wised ho kr koi baat nhi kr sakte ... Iss baat ka bhi dhiyan rakhe 🙏
It's not because you're still being abused it's because you're not completely attached to the person and still expecting in return .expectations means you're not detached, so either we should be attached or just be detached then there will be no feeling of abuse, might be for same reaction from same person we will start feeling responsible , caring and many more positive feelings
जब पार्टनर गलती ना होते हुए भी आपको गलत और झूठा दिखाये....मैनुप्लेट करने का हर संभव प्रयास करें और बात ना मानने पर आपको साइलेंट ट्रीटमेंट दें और बाद में वही पार्टनर पासिटीव रीनफोसमेंट देकर आपका विश्वास पाना चाहे और ये एक पैटर्न में...कई बार हो तो समझ लीजिए गड़बड़ है!
Mam is situation se niklne ka tarika btaeye,kyuki dost ya relatives sirf sunte h,btane se situation aur bigdti hi h@kbhi kbhi bina kisi dependency k v hm ye situation face krte h,bs sudhrne ki ummid se,lekin koi sudhar nhi hota kbhi v,hr bar whi mistake repeat hoti h,aur glti ka ehsas v kbhi nhi hota
Boyfriend aur Husband bhi victim hote hain. And am saying this being a woman because I have seen many such cases alongwith many cases where women are victims in their love or marital relationship. Troubled relationships are not just gender neutral but also not just limited to love or marital relationships. Troubled relationships can be seen in any kind of relationship, even friendships. Also it's very much possible that the harasser and the victim belong to the same gender.
Mai khud ye sab jhel rahi hu....13 saal se....kabhi kabhi to mar jana jyada aasan lagta h ye sab jhelne se....I have a child so I can't Do anything drastic.....sochti hu sab theek ho jayega ......but I have suffer lots of mental trauma these days
India mei ek baar shaadi hogayi to ab aapka kuchh ni ho sakta. Even divorce bhi nahi milta , har koi hamko jabarjasti usi rishtey mei dhakelta hai chahe parivaar ho ya court. Sab ye poochtey hain ki maarta to nahi hai na... emotional and mental torture ko koi consider hi nahi karta.
I have seen this in my college which happened with my roomate. She use to always get back into him and endup hating us. She thought we are against her or jealous of her relationship.
Aap ki wajah se mai aaone bahot kareeb ke 2 victims ho identity kar paaya! Ek husband-wife jisme Wife victim h aur second ek beta jo apne pita ka victom h!
If the child is less than 18, then you helped make them like it so be supportive. If it's your parent, just know that you are NOT obligated to maintain a relationnship with abusive or toxic parents.
Mera court case chal raha ha. Court case me 3 years ho Gaya hai. But today, I am very happy that now I am busy in my professional life. And definitely, after divorce, I will again start my life with my second marriage, mujko mere trauma se nikalne me mere staff and seniors ne bahot help ki ha, aur kabi embrace feel nahi karaya. Mujko mere staff ne kabi ye nahi bataya. Vo mera phychological treatment kar rahe hai. Today, I am happy, fit and fine
I am victim of this situation from 1.5 years......but today i decided to come out of it.......she is really narcissist....... because all the above said things appliy in my so called relationship......i have even loosen my self respect for her.....but....she always tortures me mentally.......these people are demons........we should try to run away from them..........
Same thing my husband did to me.. Nd I'm suffering from mental depression 😢.. Is ek saal ki shadi me mai 9mhine oske sath rhi.. Fir wapis apne ghr agai. Aur osko kbhi koi guilt nhi hua 😢
शब्द और अर्थ समझ भले न आए लेकिन आत्मसम्मान और मनोबल तोड़ने वाले को लात मार के आगे बढ़ो । जीवन तुम्हारा है दोस्त। जो समझो वो करो😊
Aap ki baat to sahi h ki jiwan hamara h ham ko apne hisab se jina chaye kabhi kabhi Mai himmt karti ho ki apne liye utho magr lagta h ki mere hasbend aaj nahi to Kal badl Jaye ge hamari shadi ko 5 sal pura hogaya aaj Tak bas un se waqt maga h magr aaj Tak waqt ke naam pr bhik mile h samjh nahi aata Kya Kare bas is ummed pr zinda h ki wo aaj nahi to Kal zarur badl Jaye ge Mai is video se sahemt ho
बहोत ज़्यादा मुश्किल था छोड़ना,, इतना ज़्यादा mental torcher मिला उससे मगर बहोत मुश्किल से छोड़ पाए,, अब सुकून है😂😂😂😂
Toxic partner makes your life hell , I've been through this, and it is very very difficult to come out of it !!
Iam facing this please help me how to come out
@@princekhan692 just try to decrease the time of intraction between that partner and gradually you I'll be out from that person..
@@princekhan692 stop giving them attention and your time, that's it !
I agree with you
@@princekhan692 same here 😔😖
Please help
गाली देने वाला इंसान pyar कर हीं नहीं सकता ..उसको पता होता है कि ये मुझसे गाली सुनके भी बात करेगी हीं..
अगर अपनी self-respect है to बाहर निकलके देखो दुनिया बहुत बड़ी है जो value देता है उससे pyar करके देखो..pyar का सही अर्थ समझ आ जायगा
Kuch log majboor krte h, gali Dene k shauk kisko h
Right bot achi bat khi he 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Aap shi keh rhe ho 😢
Mere sath bhi ho rha h
Bott gndi galiya bolta h phir bhi sunti hu 😢
Me use kuch nhi kh skti ek problem ki vajh se kh skte ho vo blackmail kr rha h ...
Vo samne se nhi kh rha h ki vo meri picture ma papa ko bhej dega
Is drr drr se Mr rhi hu ....
Roj rat 1 gnta bhr ghr valo se chhup chhup kr roti hu
Help bhi kisee mangu
@@study.material7877 sad 😢aap jitna darenge utna hi daryaga। N p D पर्सनैलिटी के बारे में और थोड़ा सर्च किजिए ऐसे लोग जिंदगी को जहन्नुम बना देते हैं अगर आपके पैरेंट्स सपोर्ट हैं तो आप उनके साथ डिस्कस कर सकते हैं
@@maltibhagat6039 aur agr parents Ka v support na ho fir kya kre
Than best example of trauma bonding is institution of marriage where u dont hve any escape bcoz society prohibits you and taking legal way is another harrassing process so at some point of time both male and female gonna feel such feelings that doesn't mean leave those relationships ....rather keeping urself busy with some productive things which one likes is the only solution which keeps you hopeful for future and avoid as much dependency on that individual... quitting can't be a solution 😊
Its happen some times but love affairs and premature sexual relationship with a girl by boy is problem because of which girls suffer
Stop GASLIGHTING as usual.. It's absolutely OK TO QUIT when the other person (your partner) does not change/attend therapy/communicate and co-regulate with you over a long period of time.
Correct
आत्मनिर्भर बनना स्वतंत्रता प्राप्त करने की अनिवार्य शर्त है।
सोच तथा परिस्थितियां दोनों मामलों में आत्मनिर्भर बनना जरूरी है।
It's not easy to leave even after knowing everything 😢😢😢😢
Yes mem😢😢😢
Right
Right dear😢
Absolutely right
Right now'am facing same situation but now am leaving from my relationship it's now 2 months to leave him I broke up my 7 years relationship with him
Jb me chhoti thi tb relationship me sbko dekh kr lgta th kitne khus hai or is social media ki vajah se me relationship me aayi ab me ye same chiz feel krti... Sara mind divert ho jata is bajah se or jo life me aim hota bo b pana muskil ho jata koi dhng se bat kre tbhi pda jana nahi to pda b ni jata...
I m really grateful to this channel... We need more such platform to develop india❤
It is exactly what I am struggling with.
Thanks a lot lallantop
I came to know about this first time
You can contact me for Therapy
May be you are dealing with narcisstic partner
किसी भी प्रकार के टॉक्सिक प्रकार की मानसिकता रखनेवाले व्यक्ति से दूर रहना ही मानसिक रूप से शांति देता हैं,क्योंकि सच्चा प्रेम करनेवाले कभी भी नाही गाली देता और मारता नही हैं और आपका सदा सम्मान देता हैं.
हे भगवान ये विडियों देखने के बाद life ऐकदम बदल गई तभी मैं हर रोज ऐक प्रश्न खूद से करती थीं कि यार तू इस इंसान को छोङ क्यों नहीं सकती है लाख शुक्रिया बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद कोटि कोटि प्रणाम नई जिंदगी देने के लिए
Important topic for me...😢 4 year relationship finally I quit now I am happy with another patner
Agr tm 4 sal ka relation chhor ke khush rh skte ho to kuch time baad isse v tmhe trauma bond wali feelings aayi .......
Koi ladki jb bahut jada attached ho jati h to automatically over posseesive or rok tok lgane lgti h isly lgati h q ki dono sath ni rhte h ... .....sath rhne pe aesa kuch ni hota
Tmhe ni chhorna chahiye tha
@@shambhavipriya3556 I think ladke ne try Kiya hoga ki ladki sudhar jaye, wo kyu compromise karta aage ki poori life us toxic relationship me jab uski partner uske according thoda badal nhi sakti. Try to Kiya hoga aese easily koi end nhi kar pata 4sal ki relationship.
@@Ritez_ maybe sufficient try ni hoga ...aese condition me ladki ko smjhna bahut important h ...
Chalo mante h tm sahi bol rhe but aajkl sbka yhi complaint h ki ladki toxic h ...btao ab ye possible h jahir hi bat h ladki kya chahati h wo ni smjh pa rha uska partner
@@shambhavipriya3556 Nhi me sirf ladki hoti Aisa nahi bol tha, koi b gender ho sakta. Aur mujhe lagata hai ek sal kafi he ek dusre ko samjhne agar aapne proper communication rakha hai to, 3sal me toh koi bhi samjh aayega ki dono ki ek dusre se kya expectations hai, aur koi ek khush hai he nhi aur uska partner change he nhi ho sakta khud chah ke bhi to ,alag hona thik hai.
ended up 2 years of toxic trauma bonding relation with my gf
my friends helped me a lot in leaving her it was no easy for me
she tried to isolate me and i ended up losing most of my friends
she always tried to gaslight me
always told me i was wrong and whenever my frienda pointed it out i shut them up
its not easy to leave but you should leave because these people will never change trust me you deserve better and dont have to live with it.
Sahi kye Bhai 😊☺️
Thank for commenting.
Us ladki ka ni socha ? Jiske sath 2 sal tm rhe ...wo kis haal me hogi ?
@@shambhavipriya3556 Ladkiyo koi b mil jaata h , dusre bakre ready honge uske pass
Well done bro 👌
Narcissism.... In any relationship is very dangerous.. even physical abuse can be recovered from more swiftly but recovering from narcissism involved relationship is very difficult.
Are you Indian? Amazing to know you know about this inhumane disorder
Toxic relationship मोबाइल्स के वजह से ज्यादा बढ़ रहे हैं। सबको रिलेशन से ज्यादा दिखावा ही पसंद है। 😂😂 चाहे पैसे का दिखावा हो या प्यार का दिखावा सब बेकार फस गए हैं। मोबाइल को दूर करो सब ठीक हो जाएगा 🙏🙏
Absolutely you are right.
Agree
कुछ भी बक दिये तुम
Agree sir
Aur ha suder ladaki honi chahiye hot sexy 😂 and ha wo pise bhi kamaye aur kapade to international pahane moti na ho akhee nili nili ho bal kale ho 😂 race hi laga chaiye ruh Ghar ki kamwali aachi ma Jo sahe patni jise ho girlfriend hot ho at same time patani gharelu ho sahan sahashel 😂 kya generational trauma hai aurato ke uper Jo aachi bhagwan korona ki tarah duniya buri ladakiya mile sabhi ladako ko 😂 aur unake sath bura ho aur korona phir se ajaye log badalate nahi purane nayi falatu cheje takhalif dete wo mare wo hi theek naye bacche ban jayenge
I had been in this kind of relationship with my ex husband. He was a narcissist. But I used to love him. And he abuse me mentally, physically and financially. Seriously one should get out of this kind of relationship asap.
My husband is also narcissist, my mental condition bhout begad chuke hai. Can you pls help me
@@Lifestlyblog jitni jaldi ho alag ho jao apne husband se. Kyunki apko lagta rahega ki sab thik ho jayega ek din, lekin wo din kabhi nahi ayega.
Thanks for this video. Talking on such issue is much more needed because I've went through such painful situation. Now I'm coming out of "Trauma Bonding".
Very good content shukar hai ab aise content pe videos banti hai India mei 👍.
2 tarha ke insaan hote Hain ek narcissistic personality dusri empathetic jab ye dono milte hain do trauma bond relationship ho hee jata hai. And it's not gender based koi bhi ho sakta hai ladka ya ladki. Kahte Hain na knowledge is power.. bass relationship banate time dil aur deemag se kaam le. Be careful because jo mental trauma se jata hai usko to phir kisi pe wishvash nahi aayega in future... Isolated ho jate Hain. Jo bhi mental trauma mei hain apna pls dhayan rakhiye . And recover kar le jaldi se jaldi. God bless 🙏
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Very important topic. Thank you Lallantop.
Bada shandaar topic cover kiya hai apne 😮
First love is like nail in heart
my god mam, i have actually come out of this and broken my 17 yrs of marraige, aur apk video se pehle muje yahi lagta tha ki meri hi galti, bcoz my mother always taught that husband are like this only, its the wife who has to adjust, so i kept waiting that he will change some day, thanks for an eye opener
I can understand your situation dear. This is how our families and societies are. Even me running 39, still single. And I have to fight my own family for not getting married because I know I am not getting the right person yet.
@@MeghaSahu24 ohh, every body has a story
@@MeghaSahu24 don’t you feel alone sometimes? Don’t you feel afraid or anxious about what will happen in future? Or what kind of person would you get
This video is very very helpful for girls ❤❤
I am in a relationship roughly from 6 years till now but since a year I realised our relation is not as sweet as in the beginning... He calls me Daily but I felt he don't want to listen my voice and always try to say what he was feeling whenever I try to heart out my feelings he interrupt and began to speek inbetween. In the beginning of our relationship he was so caring about me always put me forward to speak my heart out he always used to courage me since I used to underestimate myself. Now I feel so lonely in my life despite of being with him. Now I feel I would never be able to believe in love no matter I would be with him or with someone else 😞😖
Maybe you are not realising that you are involved with a narcissistic man, coz at first they will be very sweet and caring but as soon as you are starting to trust them they will be going to show you their true colours. Learn about NPD it will help you to decide what you should do.
@@Whitefield5626 he is not that much aggressive when I talk to someone else but the problem is he doesn't care about my feelings as earlier he used to do so... When we talk on phone he never asks me to how I am what I am feeling nothing nothing like that... I would never be able to believe anybody else.. Every man /boy I feel are the same, they can never be connected to a girl in the same way as a girl does ... Kisi pe bhrosa ni hota ab to 😞😞
@@PRIYA-wh8jx you only trust yourself and your family, nobody else can do things like our family does, and for your special one try to observe his behaviour carefully you will get to know what's wrong with him or in your relationship.
I am unable to understand this time what's going on... I want to marry him but now I am doubtful... Parents are forcing for marriage to both of us but I am very sad to see his behaviour.. I don't want to marry someone else because I have given 7 years to the person he now changed what the guarantee of any other person would not be tha same... Ab kisi p bhrosa ni hota kisi ladke p nhi na kbhi Kar hi paungi 💔
I understand
Aapne is segment ko bahut upar pahuncha Diya hai. Thanks alot madam👌👌
bahut important topic hai ye aaj ke time
Mujhe is psychological principle ke baare me nhi pta tha
But the same thing happens to me...
I'll try to come over from that relationship, bcz mujhe bhi lgta hai ya tha ki aage sab achha ho jaaega, but ab ummid pahle se kam lgti hai ki kuchh utna achha ho paayega jitna ki is relationship me jarurt hai...🌻
बहुत अच्छा topic h jii मेरे लिए बहुत लाभदायक है।
I've lost myself in this process.
Neither I like to be ignored nor I like to talk to her.😢😢😢😢😢😢
आपने ट्रामा बान्डिग के बारे में विस्तार से बताया। वास्तव में इसके वजह से विक्टिम बंधा रहता है और दुष्चक्र में फंसा रहता है। इससे बाहर आना आवश्यक है तभी शोषण से मुक्ति संभव हो सकती है।
Thank you lallantop to discuss about the topic which I went through. Specially people in India never understand such things
Beautifully explained and it's very nice to see that we are talking about this. This helps alot to let the victim know that yes he/she is victim because in most of the cases victim doesn't even know that they are victim.
Can we talk
Zabardast video ...thank you ma'am 😅 bahut se log the mere aas pas aise. Ye video mai sbko share karungi najane kitne log iske shikaar honge
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Bahut acchi batein batai aspne bahut saari cheez jo mujhe kbhi smjh nhi aati thi ki mere sath kya or kyu horaha hai lkin video dekhne k baad sab clearity hogyi thank mam ....
Spent almost 3 yrs in a toxic work environment, at last got so frustrated, took a decision to resign in a second. And walked away royally, m proud of myself and happy now, moving forward at the best.
Khud se #Mohabbat kare....
Khud ko jitna chahiye......
I am suffring this from 5 years 😞 and still continuing 😢
Me too 1 year
But m compromise krti hoo ab hatt jaungi mujhe bhi meri life jini h
Me to 12 years
6 years ✌️
Dr.sahiba ne sabhi mardo par ugli uthdi lekin main aisi females ko bhi janta hun jo aapne boyfriend ja husband ja bete ko abouse krti hai .. aap wised ho kr koi baat nhi kr sakte ... Iss baat ka bhi dhiyan rakhe 🙏
I am suffering from that 🥺
I can feel the word "trauma bonding".
It's not because you're still being abused it's because you're not completely attached to the person and still expecting in return .expectations means you're not detached, so either we should be attached or just be detached then there will be no feeling of abuse, might be for same reaction from same person we will start feeling responsible , caring and many more positive feelings
Very nice info. Videos on these topics are really needed in today's world.
Please upload more on different pyschological conditions.
Really explanation points are true.But how to move on?
Yes mam... Its not only in personal relationship its actually in colleague...
जब पार्टनर गलती ना होते हुए भी आपको गलत और झूठा दिखाये....मैनुप्लेट करने का हर संभव प्रयास करें और बात ना मानने पर आपको साइलेंट ट्रीटमेंट दें
और बाद में वही पार्टनर पासिटीव रीनफोसमेंट देकर आपका विश्वास पाना चाहे और ये एक पैटर्न में...कई बार हो तो समझ लीजिए गड़बड़ है!
Mam is situation se niklne ka tarika btaeye,kyuki dost ya relatives sirf sunte h,btane se situation aur bigdti hi h@kbhi kbhi bina kisi dependency k v hm ye situation face krte h,bs sudhrne ki ummid se,lekin koi sudhar nhi hota kbhi v,hr bar whi mistake repeat hoti h,aur glti ka ehsas v kbhi nhi hota
M going through the same situation.. 😢I came to know about it for the first time
इसमें शोषण करने वालो को ही नहीं मालूम होता है की वह व्यक्ति सामने वाले का शोषण कर रहा है।
Bilkul sahi unhe is baat ka ahesas nhi hota
Bahut gahrai wala topic tha jispe koi nhi banata . Bahut acche aise topics pe banane ke liye well-done
Thank you so lallantop for this episode
I have been a victim of it, my neurological patterns totally got messed up
its been years i still face problems with my cognitive functions
is it seizure attack?
Boyfriend aur Husband bhi victim hote hain. And am saying this being a woman because I have seen many such cases alongwith many cases where women are victims in their love or marital relationship. Troubled relationships are not just gender neutral but also not just limited to love or marital relationships. Troubled relationships can be seen in any kind of relationship, even friendships. Also it's very much possible that the harasser and the victim belong to the same gender.
Mai khud ye sab jhel rahi hu....13 saal se....kabhi kabhi to mar jana jyada aasan lagta h ye sab jhelne se....I have a child so I can't Do anything drastic.....sochti hu sab theek ho jayega ......but I have suffer lots of mental trauma these days
I have also faced this in my relationship for 5 years, and finally caught him cheated on me with 2 other girls.
Please is topic par vast episode create kijiye. @lallantop
Thanks mam you told details of trauma bonding
The best example is recent Delhi case
True mam fill it mere sath yesa hua a lekin ab chij se bahar nikal chuki hu bahut time lga h abuse se niklne mai but ye kisi ke sath mat ho
India mei ek baar shaadi hogayi to ab aapka kuchh ni ho sakta. Even divorce bhi nahi milta , har koi hamko jabarjasti usi rishtey mei dhakelta hai chahe parivaar ho ya court. Sab ye poochtey hain ki maarta to nahi hai na... emotional and mental torture ko koi consider hi nahi karta.
Mujhe pta nahi tha ki aisa v kuch hota hai , parr uss toxic gf se chhutkara jaldi mill gaya mujhe , bahut mushkil tha ye mere liye
Mental relationship is more effective for our health and future. Allah pls save as these kind of relation.
मैं इसी दौर से गुजर रहूँ, निकल ही नहीं पा रही हूँ इस झमेले से, टार्चर हो रही हूँ ।😔😔
Yaar m bhi wo निकलने hi nhi de rhe par m nikloogi har hal m चाहे jo ho jaye
Thank you for this episode 🙏🤳
Sarwat, it's so good to see you back on lallantop. I thought you left
Thank you so much for this very new concept❤
I have seen this in my college which happened with my roomate. She use to always get back into him and endup hating us. She thought we are against her or jealous of her relationship.
Aap ki wajah se mai aaone bahot kareeb ke 2 victims ho identity kar paaya! Ek husband-wife jisme Wife victim h aur second ek beta jo apne pita ka victom h!
I am also facing this but i can't leave this relation. Even i am taking depression pills. I lost my daughter.
Thanks ma'am clear krne ke liye ye sab
Thank you lallantop, for this video
Some people's are never changed😢😢
Thanks iss topic k liye .❤❤ lalantop
Thanks mam ,Aaj pata ki toxic relationship se kaise nikle.
Kitne log apne relationship ko judge krne lge sch sch btana ye sunkr
Ki sala "mai b khi trauma bonding me to nhi 😂😂"
The reality is, there is a chance of coming out of such relationship with your partner. But what to do in case of a Children- parents relation?
If the child is less than 18, then you helped make them like it so be supportive. If it's your parent, just know that you are NOT obligated to maintain a relationnship with abusive or toxic parents.
Ha ji muje ye sabad phli bar hi sunah
This is the reason why many abused husbands are not able to leave thier abusive wife
Exactly bhai
Vice versa 🙂
@@sweetiesaini3619 i believe we all know that. It is a sarcastic comment because she only mentioned girlfriend and wife as abused victims.
@@kuls43 Bcz 98% cases involve women as victims...she was talking in general sense.
@@daffodilshaw1998 please provide the source from where you got this information.
Toxic relationship insaan ko barbaad kr deta hai😢😢 n jene deta hai or na mrne😢😢
Mera court case chal raha ha. Court case me 3 years ho Gaya hai. But today, I am very happy that now I am busy in my professional life. And definitely, after divorce, I will again start my life with my second marriage, mujko mere trauma se nikalne me mere staff and seniors ne bahot help ki ha, aur kabi embrace feel nahi karaya. Mujko mere staff ne kabi ye nahi bataya. Vo mera phychological treatment kar rahe hai. Today, I am happy, fit and fine
Kya topic hai wow just wow I really appreciate ma'am
Thank u for making this
God help those with toxic parents....
Thanku soo much for trauma Bonding topic
A must watch video for all...
I m self dependent i m not gv time to toxic relation but its true its part of my life
Ye sab mere sathh ho rahi he... thanks for informing😢
Thanks for this video ,, one video about delusion शंका करना ।।
Unique topic. Thank you
mere sath bhi yahi ho raha h 😥
Victim boyfriend ya husband nhi ho sakta... Kyu ki hum ladke hain humare sath aisa hi hota h... 😢🤧
Congratulations I'm your new subscriber, very informative session 👏
I am victim of this situation from 1.5 years......but today i decided to come out of it.......she is really narcissist....... because all the above said things appliy in my so called relationship......i have even loosen my self respect for her.....but....she always tortures me mentally.......these people are demons........we should try to run away from them..........
अगर इस बॉन्डिंग से बाहर निकल गए तो मासूम बच्चे का क्या होगा।
आप ने सच कहा
बच्चे की जिंदगी बर्बाद होती है
बच्चे को भुगतना पड़ता है
किसीका प्यार नहीं मीलता
If both are good person but due to some personal reason one has to move out from relationship. But other stil want to be with. What to do??😢😢😢
Same thing my husband did to me.. Nd I'm suffering from mental depression 😢.. Is ek saal ki shadi me mai 9mhine oske sath rhi.. Fir wapis apne ghr agai.
Aur osko kbhi koi guilt nhi hua 😢
Mera v yahi conditions h😢
At the end toppic is so important and informative
I also faced it
Too much Feeling attached with her
Not easy to escape it
Bt finally I said no
Then she married with someone else nd now I am happy 😁
Mere saath bhi aisa ho raha hai
Bilkul right mere husband mere sath esa hi krte h