DATING IN DENMARK//WHAT TO EXPECT//UGANDAN IN DENMARK

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @janholst
    @janholst 2 года назад +30

    A reason why Danish men don't chase or hunt (we do it, but subtle) is we have been taught to respect when a woman say no, its mean no. So if you say no, for "fun" expect it will make a danish man back off. Better to say maybe and smile

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 года назад +6

      I think you are right, but I also know that many people in my country are happily married after then men insisted and didn’t just give up. But I think black men(Ugandan) know that when we say no, we might say yes after a few times. And I think we like to be persuaded and don’t say yes right away. African men are still hunters by nature I think and love the hunting.

    • @lba2746
      @lba2746 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Milly_in_denmark Native, Danish women call you a creep if you are hunt them after the first no.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  6 месяцев назад

      @@lba2746I Think they Will. You will become a stalker 😅

    • @AnnieKeera
      @AnnieKeera 3 месяца назад +1

      You're right, in Uganda when a woman says no to you at the start, there are chances for a yes if you keep around 😂😂😂and we love it that way

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  3 месяца назад +1

      @AnnieKeera True😌

  • @marigoldbeam5475
    @marigoldbeam5475 3 месяца назад +8

    It was a shock coming back to Europe as an adult. I was so used to men complimenting me and courting me as I went about daily life in Zimbabwe.
    Just walking down the street, I would get appreciative remarks and smiles, men stopping their cars to tell me how beautiful I was.
    And it was rarely threatening, just playful, hopeful, and appreciative.
    The men in Zimbabwe were(are) really born to pursue women in the most entertaining and endearing ways.
    When they took me on sneak dates( because my dad would not allow it, they always, always paid. And even paid for friends if it happened to be a group function like a concert.
    The UK was an enormous shock. It was like the men were (are) frightened of the women or just missing some male chromosomes.
    Even when you can see they appreciate you, they just hide, blushing behind something. When I was younger it was newspapers, now it's phones.😂😂
    I would never pursue a man. If he will not hunt, he must not eat. 😂😂😂😂😂
    He has to have a degree of drive, self-confidence, and interest that propels him, without being aggressive, intrusive, rude. It is an artform that boys develop and grow into by the time they are young men. And they never take offence if rejected. They just joke about it together and move onto the next, or if she is the one, they redouble their efforts. 😂😂😂😂

    • @diasporaconnecttanzania3521
      @diasporaconnecttanzania3521 3 месяца назад

      I agree with you being born and raised in America.

    • @nazikiwe8259
      @nazikiwe8259 3 месяца назад

      It’s similar here in the US. There are still some men who compliment women however it’s really declined fear that women will consider them a creep and accuse them of sexual harassment; one of the side effects of the me too movement in the west.

  • @katerinapetrova245
    @katerinapetrova245 2 года назад +6

    Your voice is so .. beautiful, it’s soft, gentle, calming and simply relaxing. I hope to one day hold that soothing presence that you have while speaking.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 года назад

      Oh my God you made my day😍. You saw something in me I never thought I had. Thank you 🙏. Hope you do get that presence too😍

  • @katechipata9934
    @katechipata9934 Год назад +6

    You are so pretty! I’d love to visit Denmark one day 😊 I have Ugandan friends and they are all so lovely. I’m also an African but moved to North America when I was 18. You gave great tips.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Год назад +1

      Thank you Kate. Denmark is a small beautiful country you might enjoy visiting.

  • @lacartesiene84
    @lacartesiene84 2 года назад +6

    You are spot on,all the points you raised are valid ones we are used to be chased/hunted and being spoiled by our men .Some points about Danes are similar with some Caucasians from other countries.It was a culture shock for me too but I'm good.i hope it would people out there to avoid some faux Pas.Thanks Milly

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 года назад +1

      Exactly. Their cultures are similar and that’s why one may not notice a difference between dating a Germany, Swedish and so on. But yes! I hope black ladies are careful of some faux because they are there and they are many.

    • @lacartesiene84
      @lacartesiene84 2 года назад

      @@Milly_in_denmark I absolutely agree with you.

  • @diasporaconnecttanzania3521
    @diasporaconnecttanzania3521 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video sis! Good info!

  • @namatajackline9010
    @namatajackline9010 2 года назад +2

    I LOVE WHAT YOU SHARE MILLY

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 года назад

      Thanks 🙏 for watching dearest and more fun videos on the way 😊

  • @0cosmic
    @0cosmic 2 месяца назад +1

    im like that... holding doors, taking jacket, pulling chairs, paying some of the bills not all all of time, but i always ask out of politeness if she's comfy with it.
    I would even do a little "emphasize on little to not be cringe" bow when asking a girl for a dance, because i learned they melt a little🥰🥰
    im prolly a rare breed,..... in general we danish need a strong hint from the girl before we make passes, so we are brought up as boys.
    you and I would get along im sure😘 /Denmark viever

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 месяца назад

      @@0cosmic Thank you 🙏 for watching and I hope you are making one lucky lady happy or will make one lady very happy😊

    • @0cosmic
      @0cosmic 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Milly_in_denmark Yeah my special Innuit from Greenland..... but in another time and place or life, i would be polite to someone like you to see what could be .
      more so..... in find the views of the Danish from outsiders interesting, we learn a little when we are told from foreigners

    • @0cosmic
      @0cosmic Месяц назад +1

      @@Milly_in_denmark thank you also..... did i forget to mention them others as i call them, that seem to think the world evolve around themselves, and they exists everywhere as in Denmark also, be at home, do this, do that, shut up, cause we all know the cliché of that type, a childish man or overly masculine for no reason or combined, the bad tempered idiot, girls be aware and get away from that type and find a new polite and empathic one, humor and conversation is key

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@0cosmic True. They are everywhere

  • @bash2268
    @bash2268 Год назад

    I'm in the united at the moment I really wanna visit Denmark but I don't know anyone. Sister your skin is amazing

  • @msgoodbrown
    @msgoodbrown Год назад +4

    African, Arab and some Eastern European men will be insulted if you offer to pay. In my personal experience but American men, certain European men will be honored if you offer. I myself will love not to be hunted. I’m west African living in both the US and west Africa, but it’s not too flattering for me. I don’t like how it feels because they don’t keep it up, it’s just an ego game and when they catch you they’ll keep hunting elsewhere. So I’ll admire danish men being respectful of no. But shivery is imperative. I love to date internationally but i don’t want to be fetishized. I’m 35 and ready to settle down but i don’t want to settle just because.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Год назад +3

      Very good points. I think it can be annoying to be chased for some , but it’s the culture in my country I think and women have grown up with it. But you have many valid points 😊

    • @msgoodbrown
      @msgoodbrown Год назад

      @@Milly_in_denmark i understand. It’s definitely the culture in africa all together. It shows a man dominance and i like dominance but i don’t like to feel…uneasy because a guy won’t leave me alone. I wish i just had an arrange marriage. Due to the war, that was no longer possible for many of us.

  • @duchesstyra
    @duchesstyra Год назад +5

    I’m From South Africa 🇿🇦 and if a guy is to ask me to pay on the first I would be turned ooff 😂

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Год назад

      But some Danish women actually can find it a turn off if a man insists on paying 😊

    • @mugishaborris3012
      @mugishaborris3012 Год назад

      hello i cant ask you to pay coz love is the fist ok

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Год назад

      @@mugishaborris3012 Good for the girl who you will take on a date😊

    • @mugishaborris3012
      @mugishaborris3012 Год назад

      @@Milly_in_denmark am still seaching am in kigali Rwanda 32yrs 75 kg 1.8 m am christian not blck

  • @sallylondon6101
    @sallylondon6101 2 года назад +1

    Hello,new subscriber, You look good nice head wrap and outfit and cute earrings.

  • @zozokulwa1627
    @zozokulwa1627 2 года назад +4

    Will a typical danish man support his girlfriend financially, like give her pocket money etc

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 года назад +8

      If you saw the whole video, I mentioned it that women here are very independent and this mentality of a man giving pocket money is not a Danish/European mentality. Women work and have their own money. But of course if someone brings you to Denmark and you have no job, that’s their obligation and I guess the women knows that before she accepts to come here.

  • @topzyoji8641
    @topzyoji8641 Год назад

    Not only Ghana Nigeria they're the one providing for there family there wife kids and any other things mans do that in Nigeria

  • @topzyoji8641
    @topzyoji8641 Год назад +2

    I love kiss I can kiss from now till tomorrow

  • @barbarablackman3742
    @barbarablackman3742 2 года назад

    Interesting

  • @mremboblog
    @mremboblog Год назад +1

    Are you in Jutland..?

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Год назад

      Yes

    • @mremboblog
      @mremboblog Год назад +1

      @@Milly_in_denmark Nice. Been in DK for many years and I am also from UG, living with family in Jutland. Been binge watching your videos. So nice to see a Ugandan on RUclips talking about DK.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Год назад

      @@mremboblog oh cool. Nice meeting you here. Been in dk long?

    • @mremboblog
      @mremboblog Год назад +1

      @@Milly_in_denmark ja, har været here 16år og bor tæt på Aarhus

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Год назад

      @@mremboblog hvor bor du/i ?