“POLYGAMY IS A RICH MAN’S GAME PT. 2 W/ MIKE RASHID” (EP. 76)
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(EP. 76) “POLYGAMY IS A RICH MAN’S GAME PT. 2 W/ MIKE RASHID”
In part 1 of this episode we wanted to respect the different ideologies of relationship and the topic of Polygamy came up as we spoke about this current landscape of dating. Polygamy has become a hot topic and truly an option for many. Our comments from Part 1 of this episode were flooded with, “it would’ve been nice to have someone who practices polygamy on the show.” One thing about us at Nice and Neat we’re going to give our audience what they want! We took that advice to gain further clarity on the topic and brought on Mike Rashid, a practicing polygenist.
Mike broke down the umbrella of polygamy and the all that comes with it, outside of its “sex appeal”. Mike also let us know that his sister was one of two wives in her current marriage.
Make sure to comment and let us know some of your dating experiences and can you see polygamy ever being an option for you?
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@duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon
Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance
This man Mike basically just found away to be lustful. Don’t be fooled by this guys.
Jay Take Profits: WOW someone finally hit the nail on the head Bingo. His logic of reasoning is beyond Ridiculous when it comes to God, Morality etc…. But he like to talk to those nobody’s he have on bcuz they agree with him
Yep because he isnt basing within a religious structure.
Exactly!!!
Human beings have more female ancestors than male ancestors. Let that marinate.
That’s a weird thing to say.
You can only get young chicks into this
This guy just wanted to talk. I don’t feel like he have any more insight on polygamy relationships. He didn’t even expand on why his didn’t work and how he could make it work. Where are the real polygamous ppl
Why isn't he in that lifestyle right now? He said he values his career more and that he doesn't need the love of a woman. I don't think he's being 100% transparent especially when he asked the guys did they see it that way when he mentioned explaining how him and his partner found another lady. I believe he couldn't handle it or else he would still be in it. If it was a lifestyle he wouldn't need a break. I am genuinely curious so please don't respond if you only respond to argue.
First, he doesn't know how long we were civilized. Pair bonding is not a recent phenomena among human beings...He lost me within 4 minutes...
I think the divorce rate stats mention is a little misleading..
women in other countries Eg in the global south don’t necessarily have the legal or cultural freedom to leave a marriage. Many other contributing factors IMO. Also saying humans are the only mammals who practice monogamy is... objectively false and easily disprovable :( e.g. wolves.
Great point!!
I won't lie,I'm looking for a good Woman ,that fully supports this discussion.Lets talk...🌍
The divorce rate is the lowest it has ever been especially in America.
Specifically in the African American community marriages lasted longer during slavery than they do today.
Somebody doesn't have google??!!
Male wolves are not monogamous 😂
As a woman I noticed how A LOT of women especially Black American women get real offended about conversations about polygamy, when a lot of these same women will lay up and have children out of wedlock. These same women will also be a side chic and have children by married men in a heartbeat. Not only that, someone being polygamous is none of anyone’s business if you are not involved in that relationship.
This is true. If we all operated with this type of radical honesty, the world would be such a better place… it’s the Eurocentric system of love that has people here triggered when this topic is bought up… It’s bizarre
You are preaching, they are talking about morale and honesty, but these women seem to prefer immorality and lies...
Add in 30% of births are not by her husband. 80% of divorces are filed by black women. Higher if they're college educated.
Okay, now flip the coin and see that the women opposite of those low standards still may come off "offended" by the topic... humans are selfish and can often be possessive, I'm not sharing my man and he should not be giving himself to anyone else
@@dynastygoddesshair6943Cook 🔥🔥🔥
19:35 so Omar was correct a few eisodes back. This guy says he doesn’t get joy from a woman’s love. Omar said something to the notion of he doesn’t see the benefit of polygamy due to the bond, emotional taxation and feelings it takes to manage one woman. If you don’t desire love and find peace in a woman’s love and want to build in that then yeah dating multiple women is anything. You’re not even interested in what she can give you besides children.
Facts
Man jalon was so quiet I thought bro left mid interview 😂
Jalon facial expressions are too funny
I literally forgot he was there 😂
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I swear when you leave 🥷’s to get something done, they come back with another problem. Y’all went & got this man to speak on polygamy. The same man that doesn’t want his daughters to be in a situation like that. 🤣
This sh’t right here baffles me bruh. The BS you 🥷’s continue to pull with this topic. The lack of education y’all have around this topic is crazy bruh. Stop bringing up the “Old” days. You 🥷’s stay bringing that up because it’s something you “Heard” all your life, but don’t really know what it meant back then.
There was a different type of respect back then, the true kings & queens understood the assignment & there weren’t all this hoopla over just having a another woman just because you wanna have the choice to go from 1 to the next. Most of you dudes don’t even know what it really takes to LEAD. Y’all can’t even figure out simple problems, you think you about to juggle more than 1 woman? Hang it up.
Then it’s y’all talking about what “Women” need to stop doing, this is an ongoing problem society will forever have. How about teach more boys how to protect their sexual energy, that it’s NOT cool to run through women & just because you let this backwards society raise your children to believe that they aren’t important, & that their sexual energy isn’t important, doesn’t make it okay for little boys to grow up thinking this toxic mindset.
Just as much as women’s sexual energy is important, the same goes for dudes. Y’all be wrapped up in what society has taught you, that it’s always one sided & a double standard when it comes to women & men. What 1 can do vs what the other can’t do. The typical mindset of a brainwashed human being. Stop following these ppl rules & taking it as a way of living. Your way of living doesn’t mean it should be that way.
To add, let’s stop bringing up & using nature as an excuse to sleep with multiple women. Yeah, we are human beings that practice monogamy & naturally it isn’t that way when it comes to animals. It still doesn’t make it politically correct to say this is how we all should be living. Not everyone wants to deal with multiple women, not all of us want to live directly like nature itself when it comes to the true nature of animals.
This is nothing more than a basic mindset that people stay using to justify why they want more than one woman, or should I say, a reason to say “That’s how we should be living” NO sir, you can live that way. What works for you, is for you. & what works for someone else is for someone else. People get to wrapped up in trying to make & pass this sh’t off as facts. Not everything is facts, & not everything is meant to be taken literal.
You people struggle with discipline , you can’t expect to elevate to the next level if you can’t overcome the natural thing that was instilled in all of us, except it takes some ppl longer than others not conquer it. While there are some that are just naturally disciplined & don’t need to do all the extra sh’t to master it. This applies to everything else that you struggle with, & instead of doing better & overcoming the thing’s god instilled in you to overcome. You find ways to go around it & then wrap it up in a truth that you try to dissect with the BS you spew.
At the end of the day rather you spray perfume on a pile of sh’t. It’s still sh’t at the end of the day, rather or not you are unable to control yourself, it doesn’t make you any better than before. You’re not facing the thing’s you need to face in order to evolve in area’s that you know you need to evolve in. Too many of y’all be weak out here & try to smash everything you see & wonder why your life be in shambles. Your focus is off, & your not aligned with the purpose god put you here for. You gotta 1st be honest with yourself about the thing’s you want, & the thing’s you want to be better in. Then actively work on those thing’s & challenge yourself more each time.
Too many dudes be looking at the external of something & seeing multiple women as one big orgy party. In this day & age it will never workout that way no matter what information you spew out in the world. These dudes don’t understand what respect is, loyalty, communication, & everything else that it takes to have a long healthy relationship with 1 woman. So what the F these 🥷’s going to do with multiple? Save it. 🤣
he never said he didnt want his daughters doing itp
@@saintfreezy6914 Lol, all that, & the first thing you write is something about his daughters. You are the problem in this world. 🥷
i will never understand why this podcast hasn’t taken off yet 😭 it’s quality content and REAL conversations every episode!
Super Fact!
It will..
Once more men and woman start that actually looking for quality things online that feed into personal growth and not just fluff and gossip.
He's muslim but he never once mention that being a good husband and partake in polygamy requiert to be a firm believer in Allah. He never once said that he had a conviction from Allah to be polygamist neither.That's very telling
Very!
What Mike says about lying and cheating on your woman hit home. I was literally saying this the other day. I don’t trust any dude who cheats on his lady or lies about nut shit. You can be honest with women. Are they always gonna like it? No, maybe not but a woman of value will ALWAYS respect the fact that she can trust you enough to keep it real and reciprocate that back to you.
Facts
Our history didn't start at slavery. This was a whole lotta bs ✌🏽
Who said our history started as slavery?
@@MikeRashidOfficial You implied humanity had not been civilized long and then pointed to the fact that black people were enslaved 100 yrs ago as if us being victimized was a reflection that we were uncivilized. The whole statement was BS.
You further went on to say that was "how long people have been nice to eachother" Not true we were living peacefully long before slavery not sure where you're getting the majority of your information but its definitely not rooted in fact.
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As an African Man, This is just form of a relationship & it should be practiced in a righteous way
Precisely
Agreed!
It’s actually comical how insanely incorrect he was on his statements. even just starting out with how we are one of two species to have one mate. secondly, there is sexual harassment in the workplace EVERYWHERE! There were so many things wrong. Especially the accountability on men. Honestly we can just note the fact that he, himself couldn’t successfully carry out a polygamist relationship. 🤷🏾♀️
exactly
In one now.
Haters gonna hate
We are not animals and or insects. God made us in his image. Animal where created for the earth to prosper… not for us to act like them or base our relationships off of them…..Do animals work a job??? Do animals have responsibilities???? Do animals have to learn how to read, write, drive etc… I really dislike when they make this point and compare humans to animals….. we are not animal and we should not live like them….
We actually are animals. We have animal DNA. Thats a peer reviewed genetic and scientific fact. The only thing that separates us from other animals on this planet is our neocortex.
Right like we're not superior beings 🙄 dumb af
Yessssssss thanks for saying it!
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Science says we are some type of animal sorry. We eat, sleep and poop, just like animals.
His comments about “men can’t control themselves” in the workplace was incredibly irresponsible and ridiculous. That’s like saying “cashiers can’t control themselves around money, you should expect the to steal”. Grown men are perfectly capable, but because of enablement like this, they see nothing wrong with it. Sexual harassment comes in so many different forms. You’re at work to work. Continuous sexual advances is crazy. People see what they want to see and take things to far and become killers, sexual assault era, and stalkers. Considering there are such things as maternal leave and parental leave for men, advancing in your career is your business and you can pursue a promotion and get paid more. A lot of men get paid more money just because they have a penis… they did nothing better or more glorious . As someone who works in HR those particular comments annoyed the hell out of me.
Get out of your feelings 😂 he literally said “I’m not saying it’s right”. Listen to understand, instead of listening to judge
@@masiomasio you have music that you should be working on. Get out of the comments and go focus on that.
@@jazzyj904😂😂😂
You sayin the truth and nothing BUT!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@jazzyj904deflecting and you'll never understand what being a man is like
These are his personal beliefs and whichever woman/women he can find that wanna vibe with that, thats fine, but dont speak as if this is reasonable logic. I also dont believe that the fellas (who are usually very versed in perspectives in conversations) presented much of a challenege to his views. There are many points that he was misinformed on, but I will speak on this one a lil bit. The culture of the middle eastern people (not just the women) is different because they are more duty bound not because they are perfectly ok, they just dont complain and do what is expected as their cultural norms. That whole young men cant control themselves comment was reckless and should have been checked immediately. Ok bye.
1000% agree!
Young men do need sexual discipline, they need discipline all around. I don’t know how you took that statement, but I was stating it out of protecting women. I’m extremely protective of women… If you really listen to what I said in this interview, I don’t think you’d really disagree. First of all, im speaking about my preferences. I do not think poly is for most people. I do not preach it. For a man to have that with his women, he needs to be honest, he needs to be able to take care of his women wholeheartedly and making them feel safe and secure… he needs to be a man of great resources, mentally, spiritually, emotionally and financially….
@@MikeRashidOfficialyoung men need to know they CAN control themselves...but telling them they can't will not motivate them to hold themselves accountable and to practice discipline. Hope you don't have sons.
Bring Shannon boodram on the podcast !
YESSSSSSSS. Bring somebody that actually knows something! Lol
Yes cause she knows what she’s talking about and currently doing it in a marriage. This man just sounds nice.
Also the mention that its not surprising men sexually harass women in the workplace is kinda wild… men should be expected to have sexual discipline.
Get out of your feelings 😂 he literally said “I’m not saying it’s right”. Listen to understand, instead of listening to judge
@@masiomasio Where did I say he said it was right? Where did I pass judgement on him? Take your own advice.
Oh baby his argument and thinking…TOP TIER RIDICULOUS 😂 it sounded like fancy and articulate hoopla
To be fair his way of thinking is rare and only a small percentage of men can even manage to pull off what he is speaking of… So why are black women still not being made wives?
@@Mr2FlyDesmond123 I think the question is: Why aren’t the men marrying their women?
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We both need each other..
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So as we both become the men & women we want to be (mentally, emotionally, physically, financially etc) we should be naturally sharing our lives with each other..
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Bringing together families is so important.. ❤️🙏🏾
Nah fr!!!
@@Mr2FlyDesmond123 it’s rare in America for. What’s common is for people to lie and cheat. Being honest about wanting multiple women is rare. Shouldn’t be though. I bet every women who publicly disagrees, will say she’s never been cheated on…. Women get cheated on so much because men aren’t comfortable telling women what they want… so they do it behind their backs…. An honest man stands on his truth and y’all get upset… fascinating
@@MikeRashidOfficial he simply said he requires honesty and morality.......some women prefer immorality and lies....smh
This was absolute nonsense.
First time ever seing Jalon so quiet lmfaooo😂😂😂😂
Seriously 😂😂😂
He was in the presence of a real boss alpha 🤷🏾♂️
Ok so y’all woke up this day and chose VIOLENCE!!
This needs a ⚠️TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️.
This man has the right to live however he chooses but there was a bit of revisionist history and remixing in his explanations.
Also, the way the guys held their tongues and just let him say controversial things - wisdom 😂
Y’all need to have Jidenna on the show. He has been in many a poly relationships and his perspective is soooooo much more respectable and enlightening for BOTH men and women…. 💛
This was a scary conversation lol… no judgement whatsoever, HOWEVER, can a woman have multiple partners like he does?
Or is this still that misogynistic stereotypical mindset ? Yikes..
I just don’t think this guy looks at women as equal.
no because a women wont know who the father is and multiple men will want to lead and itll be chaos
Even tho i didn’t agree with most if his statements i'm glad this platform is allowing people with different way of living to tell their story and share their opinions
Respectfully, self control & discipline is very attractive in a man. Especially when it’s one man with one woman, as a woman it shows that he can hold it down no matter what his fleshy desires are. That’s why a man leaves to join his wife, not wives. The kings long ago who had many wives biblically have fallen because of it, these woman worshipped other Gods. Everything these wives were doing had influence on this one man. One wasn’t enough to the flesh of man. But the to the Holy Spirit it is enough, for Adam. That is why when quantity is a priority it desensitizes the importance of quality in one person. Foundation and hierarchy is important before multiplication. Multiplication in children, not wives respectfully. 1 Corinthians 7:2
I love this dose of wisdom! ❤
Tell me which prophet in your bible wasn’t a polygamist. Quoting bible verses yet ignorant
why control something u gone naturally think about anyway
Although I agree that polygamy is whoever’s business. Mike Rashid is very rudimentary in his ideology about this. What makes humans different from animals is humans have a high degree of cognitive emotional intelligence and communication ability that animals and mammals don’t have. Also all species have “rules” on how offspring is raised and cared for. So comparing humans to animals in terms of sex and procreation does not register and sounds ridiculous. Humans are not animals.
Tf was he talking bout?
He just in a funny goofy mood. Just chatting
Not a damn thing
Questionable episode…
Do you even understand why God said man has Dominion over animals, Gen. 1:26-31🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I love mike but bruh stick to fitness and the mental section of RUclips.
dang, i keep up with nice and neat every episode, but this guest guy was nottt on the level of the 3 nice and neat guys. he presents himself like he knows all and carries great wisdom but his facade crumbles when putting together what he is trying to say. our 3 hosts are great as always but this episode was so cringe bc of this guest.
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💯 My face was screwed up the whole way through smdh 🤦🏾♀️
My thing is if the essence of polygamy is so "natural" then why does it require such explanation? and why isn't it easy to maintain? (He even said it's a lot to manage, like it takes emotional and financial strength lol) I think this is packaged lust idk.
At 19:32 He talks about how much energy and time it takes, then he goes on to say ... his life is not predicated on a woman's love. So why would you even be in any kind of relationship"at all then? Just say you want concubines and move on lmao
It’s required explanation to those who ask me about it. I don’t go around doing seminars about poly life… I teach people how to make money, and be in shape. If I’m asked a question, I’ll answer it honestly…
I think we should be accurate in terminology with these conversations. Polygamy is a person being MARRIED* ☝🏾 to more than one person. Which in America is illegal. It is a crime called Bigamy, and has been outlawed by and in this country since the 1830s. Polyamory is being in an intimate/sexual Relationship ** ☝🏾 with more than one person. Which is what EVERYONE in these conversations are participating in or debating. If they’re in America. Peace to the N&N podcast ✌🏾
"Men can't control themselves in the workplace" is just a fact. That comment was so obviously made to bring up the point that women need protection because simply, many men harass, like it or not. Doesn't mean women should just accept it and be passive about it, nor does it mean that men are just supposed to behave that way. Every single day I'm amazed how simple statements are ridiculously misconstrued.
I definitely wouldn’t have a problem with it as long as he is an honorable man and going to be an honorable father because we were meant to multiply but granite he has to be a man of a lot of knowledge and recourses that can handle the type of legacy he’s choosing to build in the United States since we do not practice polygamy and the world and our needs to live has changed so much
The most high wasn’t mentioned in this interview. And he should’ve been.
ehhh not the best but thanks for coming,
I love this podcast so much!!! But please, don’t put his ass on here ever again 😂
my issue w/ Rashid is that he throws in a lil truth w/ his BS. he’s full of contradictions & he’s rigid and inflexible on his ideologies. he believes his way is “THE” best way. i hate that for him.
i used to think he was a cool dude & subscribed to his channel but had to unfollow recently. his interview here… defending Trump… blaming black ppl for their murders (instead of putting the blame on white supremacy), etc. not only proves i made the right choice… but that he’s pro-whyt. which explains his interracial dating & mating choices.
yet, scientifically, he’s right on evolution of mating…give ‘em that.
My phone went mute 70% into this. I identified numerous I'll spirits from this man and pray the spirit of God grants us all high discernment to know that not everything that sounds logical is right.
God bless 🙏🏾
You know that a lot of Biblical figures had multiple wives right ?😅
@@imanimitnaul1147let them stay ignorant
@@imanimitnaul1147That's the old testament. Yeshua changed the law remember??
Duke was the funniest part of this episode 😂😂
It’s the facial expressions and SILENCE for me ⚰️
Basically he’s saying if you have money as a man you can have many woman -which is fine . However don’t use islam as the gateway…he brought up different good points but rambled from all angles. He is just as emotional as the woman he talks about. The fact is he just wants multiple woman 😂
He talking about he not ok with being touched by one woman for the rest of his life but the woman can’t do the same ??? Double standard
Men and women arent the same 😂
@@Entrepreneur1017 nobody said they were ! But among the thing we have in common there is sexual desire both have that ! Why can't women express their sexual desire of having multiple partner without being shame for it
@@Entrepreneur1017 ok so women in polygamy relationships where they have multiple men and the man has multiple women is not ok??? Or that’s the woman being too masculine?
@@AngelaElikya because masculine men wont tolerate it
That's cause he's full of sht. Ya'll better stop listening to these Black fools and do whatever you want to do. Men will only shame you if you let them. Start shaming them back. If you sit back and wait on a man while he's disrespecting you by sleeping with other women, then you're a fool. This idiot is trying to mix "love" with disrespect in his message and unintelligent women fall for it.
47:41 WOWWWWWWW!!!!! not i love my ppl… while incorporating identity politics & victim blaming?!
This! Like yikes. Saw his post on why men date younger women , and that told me all I needed to know. Interesting man though
Y’all look so uninterested in what he’s saying, and just like other commenters, looks like y’all tuned him out a lot and zoned out 😂. I usually listen on Spotify, but I had to come to RUclips on this one to see the comments. Glad to see I’m not the only one thinking this is BS.
Jalon said a total of 10 words😂😂
he was being respectful 😂
I love how the guys stayed quiet when he brought up the topic of being transgender. 😂 Could almost hear a pin drop
Why does people always trying to get deep incorporating history, and sound stupid as hell
This whole episode is wild and doesn’t make sense 🤦🏻♀️
Big Mike! 😎 Dope episode, it's always refreshing to have different perspectives in the room.
You can definitely LOVE someone forever lol he’s hurt it seems. Has he ever gone to counseling?!
Swans are monogamous 🦢🦢
I see a lot of monogamous animals I am in nature a lot but I bet this man isn't so how would he know.
Him being a Pisces man explained a lot, sensitive.
Facts 😂 his ego is very fragile
The first part about women were owned by men is not true i swear people love bringing up slavery when it comes to certain topics 😂
Up until 1882, a married woman was the property of her husband. In 1882 the government enacted a law called The Married Women’s Property Act’ which gave women more freedom, like owning property etc… over time, women recieved more and more freedom…
A wife was property of her husband once upon a time.
The new norm seems to be not having intercourse between men and women, but NOW it's doing blow...s, . So it's not for reproductive purposes. Especially for the older group. What does that mean in a polygyny relationship. I been trying to get a real understanding of the pros and cons of this new norm.
Polygamy is NOT a rich man’s game. Infact it’s not a game at all. Polygamy is for who ever women see enough value in to share him. His limited understanding of his own value is subject to monetary authority. That says a lot about him and how much in poverty he is in with himself. Women share men every day and it’s not always because of money. Money is the only value he can conceptualize and that’s sad.
I am a women who comes from a Muslim family, raised Muslim. Believe me these women ARE NOT happy. I’ve seen it first hand, they are jealous, and territorial. I can tell you many situations of men with multiple wives. For instance, the wives of the Iman, not liking each other and arguing, because of what, the man. No women deep down wants to share. Also, I have friends who are poly Ig content creator, they have them same problems. It always starts off ok, but once you see what you dealing with and emotions start flaring up. It rarely works. Furthermore, women in other countries don’t have rights like women over here, in some countries women are not able to go out in public without a man. Currently, women are in the process and starting to attain rights, such being able drive a car or receiving an education. Mind you, I’ve been around Muslims my whole life, and I’ve been around many cultures and those women never tell delightful or positive stories. I have Somalian friend right now, who will tell you what these women go through and how abusive some men are over in the EAST! Women are not treated the best in a lot of those countries, they have no choice. Society looks down upon these women who are not married, less valuable. Parents send them to marry whoever. I prefer not. One man, one women for ME. This man knows he isn’t fair, stop playing!
Some of these men pick and choose what they want to follow from our ancestor, because y’all damn sure do not do everything our ancestors did. And who said that their actions were righht? Back in the day women had to depend on men, they didn’t work, so to survive she has to be with a man, so that he can provide. They had to accept anything. Women if you accept this, you may be taken care of, but one women will always lack and feel less than. Imagine having kids, working, businesses, working out, etc. When do you have time to fulfill the emotional needs of 2 different women. On top of all your other responsibilities . I rather work and be single and have my men, than to accept this
Just say I don’t have the discipline or this monogamy isn’t what I want because his arguments are not strong! It’s bias, and lacks factual evidence of this whole natural thing
i know a lot of monogamous people in the same situation so🤷🏾♂️
THANKYOU !!! PPL NEED TO START BEING TRULY HONEST ABOUT THIS TOPIC SO MANY PEOPLE LIE TO THEMSELVES
Perhaps having a pre-interview with the guests that are speaking on a different perspective or researching the background or their way of interpreting a topic, would’ve helped speak on this topic …?
If they would’ve had someone to articulate this topic better, it would’ve worked. This guest was just not it haha just listening to someone ramble and be degrading to women with certain comments.. doesn’t fit “nice and neat” and the previous episodes. Weird.
OMG.. 6 min into the interview this man has not finished a thought ... went from animals, slaves, his daughters.Happiness.. divorces....No points has been made.. no question has been asked .. how you gonna do a monologue like this.. lord. People be going into peoples podcast just to talk LOL
I’ve only been in one relationship, though logically poly relationships with purpose make sense. Like he said, I’ve been Americanized and I’ve definitely been one to want my man to myself. However, I’m constantly taking self-inventory and working on self. I’m not for nor against poly relationships, whatever works for folks works, but I’m not necessarily closed to it.
I F with Bro on a fitness level but y’all was not expecting this conversation (per the camera when y’all move and y’all got the straightest face) like the rest of us 🥴
I welcome more openly polygamous men into the dating pool. It gives other men the confidence to be honest about what they want. For whatever reason, men like to deny that they too “follow the leader,” but the reality is that it’s human nature to observe the risk of another person before deciding to take the risk (or not) for ourselves. For example, if witnessing the peace of a polygamous man is what it takes for men to be upfront and honest then men need more Mike’s to represent. Simultaneously, peacefully monogamous men should be found more easily 😅
This didn’t represent the essence of polygyny. Sad people will see this think this is How it is.
Please do your own research and you’ll see a European country is not even in the top 10 for divorce 😂
Women so mad in the comments lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not married. Looking to marry and have an open relationship. Need a married polygamist maybe. As he admitted it didn't work.
Saying that there's 50% divorce in Europe/America proves that monogamous marriage doesn't work/make people happy is a fallacy. Some people will stay in broken marriages even if they don't want it due to cultural background, finances, kids etc . Where is the % for this group of people in your stats? make it make sense lol
Overall this was another really great interview. Mike almost pissed me off 😂 but I kept listening and heard some clarity in what confused me lol Very interesting!! Thanks y’all ❤
I'm married to two black queens, "Dimes" and we are very happy. Most of you women who have 2 or 3 kids by three different guys or vice versa, you already in a poly situation.
Nice and neat is a very positive podcast and I know Mike diverted from the subject but he’s not like them ya’ll that is his personal beliefs and they brought him in because he is in the space of polygamy
What an interesting and educational episode. Super illuminating. But man oh MAN do I have to scrunch my face and side-eye anyone who uses the "logic", "Humans are the only mammals to practice monogamy... iT's NoT iN oUr DnA" Yeah well, humans also don't go around eating their own shit, unlike many other animals. I respect his beliefs and practices as his own. If it works for you, it works for you. But that logic doe... we are sentient beings. There are a lot of things we do as humans that you don't see other creatures doing and vice versa.
The Bible mentions King David as "a man after God's own heart"...he had eight wives.
Far as marriage we supposed to be with one spouse give honor to marriage an remain faithful to one another God judge ppl who are immoral an those who commit adultery hebrews 13 verse 4 so ppl don’t get misguided
Salute to Mike. Agree or disagree it’s a worthy conversation to be had.
And lets be honest; The women who are “upset” by what he’s saying, in most cases have nothing to worry about, because the men they deal w/ don’t have the resources or ability to pull it off and they themselves don’t qualify for the type of man that can. 😂
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I like how he said he know he doesn’t NEED to have women pour into him, I like that he does know his limits and what he can take on fr. That’s mature.
He seems really smart but maybe too smart to where he could manipulate you so fast you’d be in this crazy relationship before you know it. I wonder if he likes to share
What’s crazy about it. And no I don’t share my women. I’m share my wealth, time, energy, protection, guidance with my women. That’s about all that I share
Jesus free him of this lifestyle
The fact only 1/4 of this show concerned polygamy and the comments are dragging this man for his views you can tell people dont watch things throughout and THATS what’s wrong with our people
Mike Rashid is coming from a place of experience. Men think they want polygamy but really don’t understand it has it’s ups and downs. You have to be knowledgeable and be willing to deal with the good and the bad as a real man should.
He look like type lol smh. He’s just chatting. I feel bad for whoever ends up with him.
If done properly, any form of relationships will work. Whether it be monogamous or polygamous relationships. Different strokes for different folks. First you have to be a man of character, a man of understanding, a man who understands women intently and lastly a man of resource. IMO
yall missed the mark with this one.
I'm a black American in the US. I have 2 wives as of this year. This is standard biblical marriage. They just don't teach it. Some people will catch on.
🤔 I wonder can women practice polygamy? (a woman with multiple husbands) Are men willing to share their wives with other men? I love women but I mentality can only deal with 1 woman😂
Absolutely not, men drain our energy in every way. One is enough.
The most ideal man for a polygynous relationship is one who is responsible, honorable, thoughtful, caring, ambitious, and successful. Right?
After watching this, I think a lot of women are offended by this conversation because they don't even have the ability to get that type of man for a monogamous relationship. They simply don't attract that. And that's cool!!!
Ultimately, I think people just need to stay in their lanes for what works for them.
He requires a poly relationship but would not “allow” his daughters…it’s highly unlikely that he would come across a man who has done enough work to take one of his daughters into a Poly relationship… Mike, You are a 🤡.So disappointing.
This is so disappointing. One would look at this brother’s muscles and assume he is disciplined. However, there is much growth and maturity needed within him. The fact that he is strattling the fence is one thing. But to package it and try to feed this mess to millions is people is deplorable. I taught elementary children from a sister-wives relationship. The children are so traumatized and seeking attention and validation from a father that is spread then. Just so sad. At its core this is nothing but selfishness!
I wish I would get paid less than my male counterparts, I'm a civil engineer just like them, women aren't popping out babies every year, we're probably out for 3 months on avg and multiply that by the number of times she gets pregnant, so that compared to being with a company for 40 years is negligible. Also men get paternal leave now at least a month for each pregnancy.
RESPONSE TO COMMENTS MADE BY @maryahgreen973). The men who you reference in your life may be conditioned to echo your feminine voice due to their affinity towards the women in your world. To break it down to the denominator….Those men move by the best of the drum played by the women in your world. Why would they do this you may ask? It’s not because they are weak pseudo men. No I would never diminish another man simply to build my point. But clearly the women in your community prescribed to being the ONLY woman that he would ever need. Moreover she (them/you) may have dealt with abandonment/rejection in former relationships, and could not fathom a situation that even remotely resembles the pain or disappointment in her past. Secondly we must consider the western culture philosophy of monogamy that has been relevant since the beginning of the american culture. Men in western culture do not engage in polygamy mainly because western women agree, and bluntly western men have a tendency to simp on a large scale. Not all men, but the majority decision is made by a minimal thought population. So many women who oppose polygamy AND they are the dominant voice (soft or loud as it may be), in the community claim to believe in the scriptures but yell my body my choice and not….”Woman was created for man”. or “I don’t feel like it….snore.”. Somehow it ALWAYS comes down to sex. How about words like fulfillment, peace, legacy. Stating “Lust is the easiest solution to shutdown the conversation. Polygamy requires a woman to be at her best at all times. No I do not mean her physical appearance (that’s somewhat superficial). I mean attitude, love language, support and peace. And I know a woman is saying “ See he’s saying that a man can do whatever he wants!”. No in fact a man with multiple wives must come correct or have multiple women simultaneously in his spine. Moreover he must provide. No I don’t mean rich or money. But wisdom, love, patience, kindness direction, spiritual guidance and legacy. Now if he just bedding and banging then he is only an opportunist who uses his wives as objects. This is no different than monogamy. Men who only engage their one wife in one room. This is not a reason to shutdown polygamy. A man who truly understand his Yahweh given rights understand that having multiple wives (and serving them and his family) is LEGACY not polygamy. By disallowing polygamy in this country is a way that a woman’s sneaky link side dude name “the government” can keep coming in the back door and continue to break her off. He leaves her money and assistance and whispers in her ear all the things that he wants her to regurgitate. Meanwhile the legacy or NAME of a man in the earth can be contained or destroyed within 3 generations. THERE’S MORE BUT I KNOW FEW MADE IT EVEN THIS FAR, SO I WILL JUST STOP
Honestly that guy Mike is a strange character 😅
People only follow him because he goes to the gym and has a nice body. other than that he’s on steroids. He ain’t thinking right. He’s all over the place.
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I hate that this conversation is starting to become very popular amongst black men.
The Eurocentric style of romance ‘monogomy’ is actually a new concept to black men… Before the transatlantic slave trade, polygamy in amongst our people where normal. Like it still is in countries that are predominantly black.
@@MikeRashidOfficial are you an ant, termite, bee, or a hornet?
@@jaajjerm Exactly I’ll like to hear his answer on this one.
Diallo Smith: Exactly it’s Ridiculous and we have people like Mike that have Daughters pushing this Foolishness. Lot of things in this world is becoming normal in other words popular. Just bcuz something is popular don’t make it right especially morally. Same sex is popular, transgender, school shootings are popular etc… that don’t make it right I mean that’s common sense.
@@MikeRashidOfficial Not entirely true. This also is dependent on religious affiliations. Christians in carribean and Africa we were not participating in this mess lol. And Christianity is an eastern religion.
Since things like this are being discussed on a public platforms I thought poligamy was a sin against God..I don't think he approves of it and not the lord Jesus Christ..If the wages of sin is death and it's repent or perish I wonder how some of these people living in sin like this are alive...When is God gonna go ahead and deal with people like that.
He just has multiple women. He doesnt look at longevity. He keeps talking about shortterm multiple women
99% people really don't even practice monogamy. Serial monogamy is not monogamy.
……I’m glad I have men in my life who don’t have this mindset.😂😂 it boils down to LUST!!
Definitely! he make it sound so good and sweet just like the devil made eve eat the fruit of the forbideen tree and made seems like it was nothing because the tree had good looking fruit.
@@AngelaElikya amen sister
When I explored a polygamous relationship, it had nothing to do with lust, and everything to do with love. I loved my women enough to be 100% honest with them. I loved my women enough to take care of them in every way.. I loved my women enough to protect them…
If all parties involved are in agreement and the man can provide and protect for the women then I don't see the problem.
@@MikeRashidOfficial talk ya sh🤫 Mike 💪🏽😤💎
Enjoyed this episode 54:22 ❤ I know the subscription is not for me , I love my dynamic but thank you for sharing.