S1: My mom acts like this. Some people just don't know how to regulate their emotions and take their anger out on the wrong person. Good thing OP learned his lesson and will hopefully never do that agian.
That wasn't a jab bro. A jab would've been something light like if you joked about a smudge being on a glass, not full on shouting at her that she's terrible because you had a bad day.
Story 1: has an update. He called his mom and told her what he said . His mom was upset, given that she had come to have a good relationship with her DIL and no longer thought that of her. She did come by their house to apologize to her DIL and they seem to be on good terms again. For op, he also apologized to wife
*STORY 3:* Coworkers are NEVER your friends. OP did the right thing, she wasn't invited, therefore she didn't attend. Sounds like this was intentional to cause a rift.
When people know someone well and lashes out, they will pick something to say that they know will hurt. He is lucky she didn't lash out in return, that's when people will use the truth to hurt you. Like insult your body, family, finances.
Story 1: I was wrong about the mother; I am glad that she chewed you out and that DIL does not think that way about her anymore! It would serve you right if she goes no contact immediately!
Story 1: Your wife should divorce you because what you and your mother did was unforgiveable! If you truly love a person; you do not treat a loved one like that!
S1- Holy hell OP....wtf is wrong with you??? Why the hell would you treat your wife like that? Snapping after a bad day, not great but it happens. But this is so far beyond that. You were more than a dick- honestly asshole isn't even strong enough for what you were. You're lucky she's willing to work on this- but it is going to be a lot of work. You didn't just break your relationship, you broke her relationship with your family. S2- that gf is toxic, gross, disgusting, disrespectful, etc. All the negative things. I'm glad the roommate figured it out and dumped her. S3- "How dare you not come to a party you weren't invited to!" It's so stupid. These toxic girls are letting the high school air drag them back to high school mentality.
S3: its funny when a story so closely parallels my life. I had a coworker also named leslie who told my boss i was going to an event... only thing is that i wasnt ever told about it. She wanted to make me look bad. Luckily, my boss trusts me far more than Leslie and put it together
Story 1: That wasn’t a jab. He practically lashed out at his wife. Having a bad day is no excuse to be a douche. Hopefully this will teach him to watch his mouth and be more mindful.
So OP had a bad day and went home and took out his bad day on his wife. Dude, you better hope she has a more forgiving nature than those on reddit. I'd have had his bag packed, and ready when he got home the next day, or just gone silent. Ghost mode. I mean he already showed her how he really thinks of her, why not be just as awful as he's already blamed her for. Smh. People can be stupid.
s3: this is why i don't mix personal life and work life. sure i'll go have lunch with you during work but after that, i don't know who the hell you are. it's kept me out of plenty of trouble with coworkers
Sometimes you just have to recognize that you’re in the worst mood and say so. I turn into an angsty b-tch when I’m PMSing (pre period, and during the first two days of it). I just cut to the chase and tell my husband “I’m in a horrible hormonal mood, RUN my dude, RUN. Just stay away from me, have like a three day hiatus of little contact or something (he has a fully set up man cave room that he’s very comfy in and it has everything he could possibly need like a refrigerator and toaster oven/air fryer for snacks, and a small freezer of single dude snacks like little pizzas and breaded cheese sticks-among other junk food). I will cook the healthier food and tell you when it’s ready, and we’ll watch an episode of some TV show together while we eat. It’s nothing personal, I’m snappy and I can’t help it. Just ignore it and if it’s too bad, just go hang out in your room gaming with friends or watching sports on TV. Stay away from the snarly wife for a short while”. 😂. Just expressing what’s happening clears the air of expectations of “better” when you know you can’t be better right now. Just tell them and tell them to please forgive you for being this way because you’re just having a bad moment right now. It will pass and there will be better days soon. Sometimes he comes home and sticks a trembling arm into the house with a peace offering of a chocolate bar or some period time craving (something sweet and something salty), and he’ll peak around the door in mock terror extending that chocolate like he’s trying to appease a velociraptor 😂. It’s absolutely hilarious and I laugh my butt off at him. Or he’ll throw it my way as he comes in and runs with hands in the air in hilarious mock “run for your life!!!” mode 😂. Because I’ve texted him at work and warned him before he comes home that I’m currently “a danger” to anything that dares BREATHE in my direction right now 😂🤷♀️. God I love that man, he’s the teddy bear to my dragon :)
s2: why do people threw away stuff? don't they know that there is something that is called.. aah i have to look it up...... washing machine? yeah you could just wash it? especially woman have this splean to threw anything away instead of just cleaning. they must have unlimited money.
"A little jab"
Buddy that was an atomic left hook thrown by Joe Frazier himself
Barney: **while upside down in the trash can** “WOOOOW, a peanut!” **eats it and burps**
S1: My mom acts like this. Some people just don't know how to regulate their emotions and take their anger out on the wrong person. Good thing OP learned his lesson and will hopefully never do that agian.
That wasn't a jab bro. A jab would've been something light like if you joked about a smudge being on a glass, not full on shouting at her that she's terrible because you had a bad day.
Story 1: has an update. He called his mom and told her what he said . His mom was upset, given that she had come to have a good relationship with her DIL and no longer thought that of her.
She did come by their house to apologize to her DIL and they seem to be on good terms again. For op, he also apologized to wife
"You are an idiot" from people in comments
Having bad day is fine. But, never mistreatment by being true AH
Don't like how it's done? Do the housework yourself!!
Story 1 the wife should've left his sorry arse!
*STORY 3:* Coworkers are NEVER your friends. OP did the right thing, she wasn't invited, therefore she didn't attend. Sounds like this was intentional to cause a rift.
Why did you ever say it man
It just comes out sometimes without ever wanting to. Its called cave man DNA 😂
@@shadabkhan-sy3spyeah I think we are all guilty of it, the emotions swirl and then the verbal diarrhea starts
When people know someone well and lashes out, they will pick something to say that they know will hurt. He is lucky she didn't lash out in return, that's when people will use the truth to hurt you. Like insult your body, family, finances.
He didn't even make it that far into the marriage😑
Story 1: I was wrong about the mother; I am glad that she chewed you out and that DIL does not think that way about her anymore! It would serve you right if she goes no contact immediately!
Story 1: Your wife should divorce you because what you and your mother did was unforgiveable! If you truly love a person; you do not treat a loved one like that!
S1- Holy hell OP....wtf is wrong with you??? Why the hell would you treat your wife like that? Snapping after a bad day, not great but it happens. But this is so far beyond that. You were more than a dick- honestly asshole isn't even strong enough for what you were.
You're lucky she's willing to work on this- but it is going to be a lot of work. You didn't just break your relationship, you broke her relationship with your family.
S2- that gf is toxic, gross, disgusting, disrespectful, etc. All the negative things. I'm glad the roommate figured it out and dumped her.
S3- "How dare you not come to a party you weren't invited to!" It's so stupid.
These toxic girls are letting the high school air drag them back to high school mentality.
S2: That entitled troll really tried to deploy those white girl tears when she didn't get her way. eww
S3: its funny when a story so closely parallels my life. I had a coworker also named leslie who told my boss i was going to an event... only thing is that i wasnt ever told about it. She wanted to make me look bad. Luckily, my boss trusts me far more than Leslie and put it together
Story 1: That wasn’t a jab. He practically lashed out at his wife. Having a bad day is no excuse to be a douche. Hopefully this will teach him to watch his mouth and be more mindful.
So OP had a bad day and went home and took out his bad day on his wife. Dude, you better hope she has a more forgiving nature than those on reddit. I'd have had his bag packed, and ready when he got home the next day, or just gone silent. Ghost mode. I mean he already showed her how he really thinks of her, why not be just as awful as he's already blamed her for. Smh. People can be stupid.
don’t go anywhere you weren’t invited
s3: this is why i don't mix personal life and work life. sure i'll go have lunch with you during work but after that, i don't know who the hell you are. it's kept me out of plenty of trouble with coworkers
s2 is absolutely a reasonable crash out she disrespected EVERY boundary
Sometimes you just have to recognize that you’re in the worst mood and say so. I turn into an angsty b-tch when I’m PMSing (pre period, and during the first two days of it). I just cut to the chase and tell my husband “I’m in a horrible hormonal mood, RUN my dude, RUN. Just stay away from me, have like a three day hiatus of little contact or something (he has a fully set up man cave room that he’s very comfy in and it has everything he could possibly need like a refrigerator and toaster oven/air fryer for snacks, and a small freezer of single dude snacks like little pizzas and breaded cheese sticks-among other junk food). I will cook the healthier food and tell you when it’s ready, and we’ll watch an episode of some TV show together while we eat. It’s nothing personal, I’m snappy and I can’t help it. Just ignore it and if it’s too bad, just go hang out in your room gaming with friends or watching sports on TV. Stay away from the snarly wife for a short while”. 😂. Just expressing what’s happening clears the air of expectations of “better” when you know you can’t be better right now. Just tell them and tell them to please forgive you for being this way because you’re just having a bad moment right now. It will pass and there will be better days soon. Sometimes he comes home and sticks a trembling arm into the house with a peace offering of a chocolate bar or some period time craving (something sweet and something salty), and he’ll peak around the door in mock terror extending that chocolate like he’s trying to appease a velociraptor 😂. It’s absolutely hilarious and I laugh my butt off at him. Or he’ll throw it my way as he comes in and runs with hands in the air in hilarious mock “run for your life!!!” mode 😂. Because I’ve texted him at work and warned him before he comes home that I’m currently “a danger” to anything that dares BREATHE in my direction right now 😂🤷♀️. God I love that man, he’s the teddy bear to my dragon :)
Julie is a looney toon.
s2: why do people threw away stuff? don't they know that there is something that is called.. aah i have to look it up...... washing machine? yeah you could just wash it? especially woman have this splean to threw anything away instead of just cleaning. they must have unlimited money.